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Relationship Advice For Women By Experts in
the fields of Love, Romance and Relationships.
How To Improve Your
Love Life By Setting
Dating and Relationship
Rules
Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/how-to-
improve-your-love-life-by-setting-dating-and-relationship-
rules/
by Bobbi Palmer
Are you out there dating or in a relationship and
simply taking things as they come? Or are you
thoughtfully setting some rules and boundaries;
taking personal responsibility for your experiences
and outcomes?
Have you ever asked yourself questions like: What
do I need to do or not do to set myself up to make
good choices? What do I expect others to do in order
for me to be happy? How must I act in order to retain
my self-respect and dignity? What will I not tolerate
in myself or in others?
Dating the Wrong People
Too often I talk to women who have stayed in
unfulfilling relationships or who date men who are
completely wrong for themand way longer than
they should. Some stayed because they thought that
he was all she could get. Some said she didnt want
to hurt his feelings or that she just wanted a man
in her life. Many women stayed simply because they
just didnt know how to say its over.
Ive heard many reasons why women entered and
stayed in relationships that didnt bring them
happiness. (Especially when were dating after 40;
many of us have more than one of these stories.)
These women all have one thing in common: they
lack self awareness. Months and sometimes years
went by without paying attention to their own
needs. They never considered what they bring to the
table and what they expect from their partner. They
just went along.
They also never considered what their responsibility
was to themselves and to the men they meet.
One of my coaching clients, Tamara, is a perfect
example. She is 56, beautiful, successful and
wonderfully kind. She jumped very quickly into a
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relationship with a man who picked her. He was
very controlling. It lasted 2 years. With my coaching
support, she finally ended it.
Tamara wanted to find a good man and fall in love,
but her search had gone nowhere. To be honest, I
wasnt surprised: though she was super smart and
accomplished, she had no clarity about herself or
her expectations when it came to men.
She had no idea how to date men or pick men in any
way other than the way shed been doing it. She had
no idea what she was looking for and she really had
no clue how to take care of herself along the way.
Yet she kept looking, finding the same guy and
staying too long.
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When Tamara completed Step 3 of my 6-step Find
Hope and Find Him program she had some major
breakthroughs (as many women do). This is where
we answer the question: Im So Fabulous Whats
the Damn Problem? I help you define whats
standing in your way, what patterns need breaking
and what you will do to get past your barriers.
Then we take what you learn and create your ground
rules. And heres the important part: These arent
the rules for him; they are for yourself.
Its about setting yourself up for dating success by
creating a foundation that assures you get to that
You Win! Box with grace, dignity and with a good
man by your side.
Tamara did a spectacular job on this step of my
program.
Here Are Some of Her Dating
Rules:
I will take my time getting to know a man. I will not
allow him to rush me into a relationship, rush me
into being sexual or anything else.
I will be present on dates by listening to what
he says, asking questions or commenting on what I
hear, and not be afraid to do so. I will be open about
myself (within reason) and my interests.
I will not allow a man to snap at me or be judgmental
towards me without me calling him on his behavior.
I will not retract into my shell if he disagrees with
what I have to say or want to do. I will no longer go
along to get along. I wont disagree disagreeably but
I wont be silent either.
I will think about whether I like him and use that
conclusion to decide whether I want to see him
again. I will no longer focus entirely upon whether
he likes me and be insecure about him breaking up
with me.
I will not be afraid of disagreements or feel
threatened by the idea that he wont like me if I dont
do what he says or dont agree with him.
I will no longer be afraid if the relationship does not
work out at any stage and I will feel free to end it if
I dont feel it is working for me.
There you go. Tamara rocked it. These are clear
rules that she can now use to guide her actions,
feelings and decisions. You can see that, right?
Now its your turn. Take control of your dating life.
What dating and relationship rules can you adopt
to make your romantic life more fun and more
successful?
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The Harm of the Ill Sleep
When Im Dead Theory
Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/the-harm-
of-the-ill-sleep-when-im-dead-theory/
by Pam Reaves
Ill sleep when Im dead. This statement seems to
be popular among some achievers whose success
many people would love to emulate.
The statement in and of itself immediately captures
attention. It sounds powerful; it sounds like the
type of declaration that puts others on notice that
nothing or no one will stop the individual from
achieving his or her goals; it sounds like the formula
for making dreams come true and in a big way.
We often hear about the tremendous sacrifices that
are made in order for someone to achieve mega
success. However, quality sleep and tranquility that
rest brings to the body and soul should never be
included among the sacrifices intended to result in
phenomenal success or dreams coming true beyond
ones wildest imagination.
The Consequences of Sleep
Deprivation Are Dire
They adversely affect the physical and mental health
of the deprived person, completely negating the
initial purpose for placing sleep at the bottom of a
list of priorities. Ill sleep when Im dead is a nave,
if not destructive statement to make and position to
assume on something that we were created to do.
Yes we were created to sleep and there are very
good reasons why quality sleep is a key component
to overall wellness. Quality sleep goes beyond
the act of slumber. To merely fall asleep is not
always synonymous with proper rest. Anything of
poor quality include characteristics such as weak,
tattered, below standard, or unsatisfactory.
When an individuals quality of sleep is poor,
their waking hours become characterized as
weak, tattered, below standard, mediocre, or
unsatisfactory. It is impossible to achieve peak
performance when weighted down with feelings of
listlessness.
Quality sleep involves cycles and stages, and each
cycle and/or stage of sleep has its purposes and
benefits. Therefore, when an individual deprives
himself or herself of quality sleep, he or she is
circumventing the process that ensures the bodys
healing, balance, rejuvenation, and restoration.
The Ill sleep when Im dead statement conveys
a cavalier attitude that dismisses the value of the
process by which the body ensures that we have the
strength to accomplish all of those things we feel we
must sacrifice sleep for.
Those individuals who sacrifice sleep for
achievement, success, and other measures of
celebrity fail to respect the fact that even minimal
sleep will adversely affect the ability to think clearly,
act and react to situations responsibly, and to make
sound decisions for the benefit of all concerned
parties.
The proper amount and quality of sleep ensures
that during our waking hours we are energetic,
alert, emotionally fit, physically fit, and that all body
functions and systems are well-balanced.
There is the Curious George or Curious Georgette,
who feels that in order to stay ahead of the game,
to outwit his or her competitors, to make sure that
he or she is positioned to take advantage of every
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available opportunity, he or she cannot afford to
miss anything at any hour.
He or she believes that there is so much going on in
life, and furthermore that he or she must be a part of
the excitement at any cost. The assumption is that
the killer schedule he or she keeps will eventually
pay off.
So even when exhaustion forces them to
lie down, these people may eventually fall
asleep, but their slumber is not the peaceful
and restful sleep that restores and energizes
them to quality levels needed to: (1) respond
quickly; and (2) be mentally sharp, creative,
innovative and overall prepared to handle
the challenging and busy lifestyle of the
successful person.
Therefore, sleep deprivation has robbed the
individual who places no value on sleep of the very
things he or she was attempting to enjoy. Even those
who achieve tremendous success can be deprived
of enjoying their successes when they are not well-
rested.
Some very successful people suffer from chronic
depression, anxiety, and a number of other mental
and physical disorders.
When Over-Achieving Parents
Embrace The Sleep When Im
Dead Theory, They Are Putting
The Well-Being Of Their Children
At Risk
The goal that is usually articulated is a desire to
make life better for their families. However, the
result is a selfish act (be it conscious or unconscious)
that robs their children of the love, nurturing,
quality time, and guidance that parents gift their
children with.
The untimely death of a parent has lifelong
emotional effects on children that are not positive,
and may be manifested in a number of destructive
ways. Children would much rather have healthy
and happy parents to grow with, who may not be
wealthy, rather than go through the heart-breaking
experience of growing up without them.
They would much rather spend quality time
and create life-long memories that are fun and
wonderful, rather than exist with parents who are
distracted, irritable, and impatient. Instinctively
children know that lifes simple pleasures are the
best, and as they grow up and grow gracefully with
their well-rested and happy parents, lifes simple
pleasures become invaluable.
When we commit to a consistent regimen of quality
sleep, we are fueling our bodies and our minds with
powerful natural medicine that make us:
(1) feel our best physically, as well as
emotionally; (2) perform with optimal
levels of strength; and (3) experience true
happiness and pure joy.
When We Are Well Rested, We Are Offering Our
Loved Ones The Very Best Of Us
They get to share their lives with someone who is
optimistic, happy, healthy, inspiring, and is willing
to teach and learn new things that enrich their lives
as well as those they love. The inclusion of quality
sleep in our lifestyles cultivates an environment of
tranquility.
So having the best life possible does not have to
cost an individual his or her life. The pursuit of
happiness, wellness, and prosperity can be achieved
when we include balance in our formulas for
success.
No one should have to wait until they die in order to
enjoy the benefits of sleep. As we pursue our hopes
and dreams, we should also experience the healing,
restorative, and renewing virtues of quality sleep.
You deserve more than an exhaustive slumber you
deserve quality sleep.
From Sarah: Pam Reaves is an amazing coach, and
has a tremendous track record helping clients get
healthy and happy human experiences in life and
love. We truly want to recommend her coaching
and her wonderful, powerful book Is It LoveOr
Merely a Sick Attachment? Pam is no-nonsense,
and breaks down big, important relationship
concepts into direct, straight-shooting, tell-the-
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hard-truth real help for you (just like her book
title). Go here to check out Pams coaching and Is
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Prosperity Meditation
Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/prosperity-
meditation-for-june-8-lorrie-kazan/
(Remember the I in this affirmation is you.)
Today I know that inner kindness is the deepest way
to grow. Good comes to me in great big quantities. I
trust the prospering power of the divine to guide my
heart, my soul, and mind to the limitless abundance
Spirit provides. I am blessed with infinite, unending
success.
Blessings,
Lorrie
Lorrie Kazan
Supporting you in creating an abundant life that
truly honors
your soul
Quotes of the Week:
The winds of grace are always blowing, but you
have to raise the sail.
~Ramakrishna
Pay no attention to what critics say; no statue has
ever been erected to a critic.
~Jean Sibelius
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The Lies Anger Tells Us
Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/the-lies-
anger-tells-us/
by Dr. Brenda Shoshanna
Anger tells us many lies. One common lie is that
once we are angry, there is little we can do to stop
feeling that way, we must act it out. Like a person
overcome by alcohol when we become drunk with
anger we feel as though it has us in its grip.
Nothing can be further from the truth. We always
have a choice about how to handle the feelings that
arise. One by one we will now turn around some of
the lies anger tells and gain true control.
Anger Is A Choice We Make
Believe it or not, anger is a choice we make. We feel
justified in being angry, and this justification stokes
the flames and keeps the problems alive. Once this
justification sets in, we basically choose to hold onto
our anger until we can get revenge.
Now, here is a lie anger tells frequently. It leads us to
believe that revenge is sweet and once we get it, well
feel good and things will be in harmony. Actually the
opposite happens. Revenge does not hurt the person
we are angry with. Our wish for revenge, our rage,
lives inside us and poisons our own lives in many
ways.
Dr. Deepak Chopra has said The most common and
direct cause of illness is anger. It is toxic for us
and this toxin spreads to all aspects of our body and
minds. Some of the effects of this wish for revenge
include illness, high blood pressure, heart attacks,
aging, lack of love, continual irritation and is the fuel
for the number one illness in our nation depression.
In Order to Choose Out of Anger
In order to take specific steps that will stop anger
on the spot we must first truly realize the terrible
toll anger takes upon us. Rather than feel we
have a right to be angry, that revenge is sweet or
that our anger is making us powerful and strong,
we must face the fact that this anger we are
harboring is destroying our own happiness, health,
clarity, peace, relationships, creativity, happiness
and overall well being. The best gift you can give
yourself is to let go of anger, one kind each day.
Another lie anger tells is that when you are angry
you are filled with power and strength. However, the
rush an individual gets from anger is counterfeit, a
substitute for real strength. After the anger passes,
and the consequences of the anger set in, the
person usually feels weak and depleted. Often there
is considerable regret for words spoken or action
taken rashly.
Real strength includes the ability to refuse the false
rush anger brings us, to have the power to see the
entire situation for what it really is and respond
with clarity and compassion. This is seldom an
outcome that anger brings. It is the anger itself
that keeps a person out of control. It clouds their
judgments, creates enemies where friends used to
be, and generally keeps the person who holds it in a
prison without bars.
Another lie anger tells is that the angry person is
definitely right and everyone else is wrong. A false
sense of decisiveness is created. It becomes easier
to take action (though the action is almost always
off base). When anger subsides a person can see
the larger picture and has available many ways of
handling a situation that they do not have when
under they are filled with rage. Suspiciousness and
paranoia, which arise during, anger, and may well
be unfounded, recede.
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Has Your Guy Gone COLD
On You?
Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/has-your-
guy-gone-cold-on-you-unlock-his-heart/
You know what Im talking about, and you are
probably thinking that it means he is angry or upset
with you.
But in reality that cold glance is a sign of something
else completely and if you ignore this youre in real
danger of messing up your relationship.
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The #1 Unforgivable Sin
Most Women Commit In A
Relationship
Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/the-1-
unforgivable-sin-most-women-commit-in-a-relationship/
Heres a brilliant way to use a secret super power to
sneak into a mans mind & make his heart race with
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What if I were to tell you that theres an unforgivable
sin almost every woman commits around a man?
What if I were to tell you that hundreds of millions
of women do this EVERYDAY with their man?
What if I further told you that most women who do
this have no idea that theyre committing a horrible
sin?
Are you wondering if you do it too? Before I talk
about this sin, Id like to share a story with you
Its a story about Cindy & Matt. They have been in
a relationship for the last 2 years. They always had
a great connection, it was like they were made for
each other but lately things arent the same.
Cindy is very worriedShe can sense that Matt is
a lot more inside his head lately, he isnt being
as open as he used to be. She misses the comfort
of the days when she could talk about something &
genuinely connect with him.
But now she is living a life of quite desperation
because Matts behavior is confusing her, She is
feeling a lot more out of control, she is spending her
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days in constant fear & anxiety, she wants to know
whats going on but lack of communication from
Matt is only making things worse.
She is a lot more miserable now and misses the
closeness but it seems like Matt doesnt really care.
She is wondering if its something she has said
or done which is causing this? She can sense this
huge gap in understanding & a giant invisible wall
between herself and Matt.
But there is an even bigger fear which is freaking
her out, she fears that maybe Matt is thinking of
breaking up with her. She fears that maybe he is
doing things behind her back & has someone else in
his life.
The very thought of imagining Matt with another
woman makes her feel this ugly feeling in her
stomach, her heart starts to pound faster and it
makes her feel literally paralyzed.
Have you ever had such a feeling around your man?
Have you ever felt that awful feeling in your gut
when you didnt know what was going on inside his
head and you feared that maybe he was thinking of
leaving you?
Well maybe you have faced a similar situation or
maybe you havent but I bet you can relate to
that nasty feeling that surfaces when you dont
understand your man.
Hundreds of millions of women go through this
every single day. But do you know why this
happens? Its because most women commit the
number 1 unforgivable sin in a relationship which
completely ruins their chancesWant to know what
this sin is?
Here it is and I want you to listen carefully to this
The number 1 unforgivable relationship sin is Not
Knowing How The Male Mind Works.
I bet youre wondering huh? This isnt really a sin.
Yes it is and let me tell you why. Its a sin because not
understanding how the male mind works will always
lead you into relationship issues and problems, you
will always find yourself confused and frustrated.
And its unforgivable because it can completely ruin
a happy relationship and often times can lead to a
painful divorce or a breakup which could have been
avoided. Not understanding the male psychology
can send you on emotional tailspins for days on
end, and you will feel out of control as a result.
It is without a shadow of doubt, THE BIGGEST
MISTAKE ANY WOMAN CAN MAKE WITH A
MAN.
This can be the devastating kiss-of-death to your
relationship unless you do something about it right
now.
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Simple Success Could
Worry Vanish In Thin Air?
Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/simple-
success-could-worry-vanish-in-thin-air/
by Carole Hodges
Success comes from simple basics. Health is simple
when you understand how to listen to your bodys
signals. Relationships are simple when youre
honoring yourself first and listen to others. Business
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and career are simple when you make choices based
upon your true values. Confusion and fear lead away
from success.
The good news is that simplicity is always available.
When you feel overwhelmed, fearful or confused all
you have to do is bring yourself back to the simple
basics.
Simple Action for Simple
Success:
Start each day with a deep breath. Feel the energy
of life giving air as it fills your lungs. During the day
stop and take slow deep breaths whenever you feel
an inkling of stress, confusion or fear. Recognize the
value of your life and your journey. With each breath
in, feel the abundance of life. With each breath out,
release any tension and mind-chatter. Give your
body and your busy mind a break. They will both
work much better with a little rest.
Success Through Self
Observation:
Did you encounter any resistance? Did your mind
keep racing? What happened in those moments
when you allowed your mind to slow and focused
on your breathing? Congratulate yourself on your
willingness to discover a new approach. Keep with it
and notice the change in your attitude as you bring
conscious attention to your breath. Many people
find that their body feels energized and they find
their decisions easier and more intuitive. What can
walking in nature and breathing do for you?
To your Simple Success,
Carole
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Can This Really Make
Him Beg To Be With You
Forever?
Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/can-this-
really-make-him-beg-to-be-with-you-forever/
From Sarah
If youve ever suffered heartache because of a man,
you need to watch this video right now it could
very well turn your love life around in the way youve
always wanted.
Youll learn 7 vital tips most women dont know that
you can use right now to instantly reach your man,
improve your love life and have him begging you to
stay by his side forever.
Youll find the video here. We here
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