Om! Sri Raghavendraya Namaha! Om! Namo! Bhagavathe! Vasudevaya! Om! Ham! Hanumathe Sri Rama Doothaya Namaha! Mahalaya Amaavaasya Tharpana Vidhi
Before performing Tharpana, proper Sankalpa sloka should be recited after performing Aachamanam and Pranayamam facing east. Depending on the day, time and occasion Sankalpa sloka may differ slightly.
While performing Pithru Karya Yagnopaveetham should be in Apasavya position and one should face the South direction.
Pithru Karya should be performed only by wearing Pavithram made up of Dharbha (Kusa Grass) to the right hand ring finger.
Tharpana procedure
Tharpana should be given with water + Black Sesame (Thil) Seeds. Pithru tharpana should always be performed with the right hand. Take black thil seeds in to the palm, pour water from the Kalasa with the help of Uddharani (spoon) and drop the water along with thil seeds into the tharpana plate by chanting the tharpana manthra so that water should fall from the space in between the index finger and the thumb by tilting the palm to the right side.
While performing Pithru Karya, each Pithru is to be addressed with their name and Gothra. If one does not know or remember the name and Gothra of forefathers, it should be spelled as Yagnappa (Male), and Yagnamma (female) and Gothra to be spelled as Kashyapa Gothra. Male Pithrus are to be addressed as Sarma and female Pithrus to be addressed as Dham suffixing their names. The word Asmath should be spelled before the name and Gothram after the name.
For example, in case of Father (Male) as Asmath Pitharam, Yagnappa Sarmanaam Kashyapa Gothram and in case of Mother (Female) as Asmath Maatharam, Yagnamma Dham Kashyapa Gothram.
The three generations on paternal and maternal side should be addressed as Vasu, Rudra and Aaditya roopa and all others should be addressed as Vasu Roopa.
Tharpana and Pinda Pradhana have to be done in the order as per the given list. Tharpana and Pinda Pradhana should be performed only to the deceased and not to the living even though they figure in the eligible list.
After the Tharpanam is complete following sloka should be recited
Yeekecha Asmath Kule Jaatha Aputhra GothrinoMruthah They Gruhnanthu Mayadattham Soothranishpeedanodakam
(Afterwards Yagnopaveetham should be sanctified by dipping the Brahma Grandhi of Yagnopaveetham in water) Samarpana Anena Maya, Pithru Paksha SakrunMahalaya Kruthena, Sarva Pithru Thila Tharpanena SriMadhJanardhana Vaasudevah Priyathaam Preetho Varado Bhavathu, Sri Krishnaarpanamasthu Kaayena vaacha manasendri yairvaa Buddhyaatmanaa vaa prakrite swabhavath Karomi yadyat sakalam parasmai Naarayanayethi samarpayaami After completing the whole process, Pavithram should be removed. On the day Tharpana is given, one should take only one time meal. Night meal should be avoided. In case of Sraddha Thithi including Mahalaya, meals should be avoided on the previous day night also. Above procedure can also be followed for performing Pithru tharpana on the days of Amaavaasya (Darsha), Eclipse, Uttarayana and Dakshinayana Parva Kala, and at Theertha Kshethras by appropriately making alterations in Sankalpa manthra. On normal Amavasya day Tharpana should be given to only Dwadasa Pithru (serial # 1 to 13).
Sarva Pithru list & how to address them During Tharpana or Pinda Pradhana
Relationship How to address the Pithru 1 Father Pitharam (Vasu Roopa) 2 Grand Father (Fathers Father) Pithamaham (Rudra Roopa) 3 Great Grand Father (Fathers Grand Father) Prapithaamaham (Aaditya Roopa) 4 Mother Maatharam (Vasu Roopa) 5 Paternal Grand Mother (Fathers Mother) Pithaamahim (Rudra Roopa) 6 Paternal Great Grand Mother (Fathers Grand Mother) Prapithamahim (Aaditya Roopa) 7 Step Mother Saapatni Maatharam (Vasu Roopa) 8 Maternal Grand Father (Mothers father) Maathamaham (Vasu Roopa) 9 Maternal Great Grand Father (Mothers paternal Grand father) Maathu Pithamaham (Rudra Roopa) 10 Maternal Great Great Grand Father (Mothers Great Grand Father) Maathu Prapithaamaham (Aaditya Roopa) 11 Maternal Grand Mother (Mothers Mother) Maathaamahim (Vasu Roopa) 12 Maternal Great Grand Mother (Mothers paternal Grand Mother) Maathu Pithamahim (Rudra Roopa) 3
13 Maternal Great Great Grand Mother (Mothers paternal Great Grand Mother) Mathu Prapithaamahim (Aaditya Roopa) 14 Wife Pathneem 15 Son/s (self) Sutham 16 Daughter in - law Snushaam 17 Brother/s Bhraatharam TatthPathneem Tatthputhram 18 Paternal Uncles (Fathers Brothers) Pithravyam TatthPathneem Tatthputhram 19 Maternal Uncles (Mothers Brothers) Mathulam Tattpatneem TatthPuthram 20 Daughter (self) Duhitharam 21 Son-in-law Jaamatharam 22 Grand son (Daughters son) Dauhithram 23 Sister/s (self) Bhagineem 24 Brother in law (Sisters husband) Bhavukam 25 Sisters children Bhaagineyakam 26 Paternal Aunts (Fathers sister/s) Pithruswasa (Pithru Bhagineem) TatthBhartharam TatthPuthram 27 Maternal Aunt/s (Mothers sister/s) Maathruswasa (Mathru Bhagineem) TatthBhartharam TatthPuthram 28 Father-in-law Swasuram 29 Mother-in-law Swasruh 30 Brother-in-law (Wifes brother/s) Syalakam 31 Gayathri Upadesa Guru (One who has performed the Gayathri Upadesa) Gurum (It could be Father or any Acharya) 32 Vidya Guru/Teacher/Purohit/Priest Aacharyam 33 Disciple Sishya 34 Friend Sakhayam
Above list is also useful while performing Kshethra Shraaddham, Giving Tharpana during Parva Kala (Eclipse, Uttarayana and Dakshinayana) and regular Amavasya Tarpana.