Women From The Experts at LoveRomanceRelationship.com Relationship Advice For Women By Experts in the fields of Love, Romance and Relationships. How Well Do You Know Your Man? Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/how-well- do-you-know-your-man/ Did you know there are secrets about a man you didnt even know existed? And NOT knowing these secrets is actually harming your chances with your man yet you arent even aware of it? In the next few minutes, I will reveal things about this strange creature called MAN that most women will never come to know. But let me warn you before hand what you are about to hear can make you feel a sudden rush of excitement or can even make you down right angry. So I hope youre able to handle it If you are currently in a relationship with a man Want to be in a relationship with a man Or are completely sick and tired of a man Trust me, this is one of the most important videos you are ever going to see. What youre going to discover about men from this video might be the most important 5 minutes you ever spend Heres our link to uncover your hidden super power, your power to: read a man and seduce his mind>> Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time 2 Signs He Wants To Make You His Girlfriend Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/signs-he- wants-to-make-you-his-girlfriend/ How Do You Know if He Wants You to Be His Girlfriend? Most women want to know if the man theyve just started dating is looking for something casual or if hes looking for his next girlfriend. But with all the mixed signals men send and the bad advice so many women get from their girlfriends and self-help books, a mans motives can be pretty tough to figure out. Luckily, there are seven simple ways to determine if the guy you like is into you enough to make it official. Were going to go over a couple of the ways to tell in todays newsletter. But if you want the full answer, click here to read the full blog. Sohow can you tell if he likes you enough to make it official? 1. His words and actions match This basically means he does what he says hes going to do. If he says hes going to call you on Wednesday, he calls you on Wednesday. No exceptions. 2. He wants to meet your friends. A guy who puts the effort into getting to know your friends is a guy who is very interested in making you happy and learning what youre all about. This is a very good sign that the girlfriend title is in your future. 3. He wants you to meet HIS friends. Its a very good sign if he starts to bring you as his date to parties, BBQs and social events with his friends. This means he wants to show you off, and he wants you to get to know the people who are important to him. If your guy is doing these three things, you have a good shot at a commitment in the near future. If you want to be 100 percent sure, check out todays blog for the full list of signs your guy is looking at to make your relationship official. Heres to you, loving your love life. Marni From Sarah Marnis Dating With Dignity videos and programs will knock your socks off and give you such a feeling of strength and clarity youll want to thank us at LoveRomanceRelationship for finding her for you! Just go here to take your free D-Factor Assessment, to watch her free videos, and get her free newsletters to get what you WANT in a relationship-> Related Posts No related posts found Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time 3 How To Get Rid Of Your Enemies Easily Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/how-to-get- rid-of-your-enemies-easily/ Feeling Like You Are Surrounded By The Enemy? We all think the enemy is somewhere out there, that some person, force or nation is out to harm us in some way. Rather than live a life focused upon what they want, many peoples lives center around protecting themselves from their enemies, devising strategies to beat them. However, enemies consume time, attention, resources, well-being and happiness in life itself. And the odd thing about enemies is that even when we defeat one, ten more seem to immediately appear. Even when they think they are winning over their enemies, they are losing a life of freedom, health and good will. The smartest, simplest and easiest way to get rid of your enemy is to turn him/her into a friend. It actually takes only a moment to do this. Stop for a moment and ask yourself, who decided this person or situation is my enemy? You did. Now you can turn that decision around and decide the person is a friend. You can decide to become a friend to that person, (or to that situation or condition), to stop fighting and respond with kindness and care. You can choose to see other aspects of that person, which are not in opposition to you. Once you step out of the dance they are doing, how can they hurt you? The True Enemy In Your Life The next step would be to take a deep breath and realize where the true enemy is hiding. What exactly is it that is keeping you in constant turmoil? This is the moment to realize that your true enemy is within. It is your very own hatred, anger, fear and upset. The true enemy is the propensity we have for projecting our anger and fear outside into the world, for pinning it on people and situations and then battling with them. It is extremely dis-empowering to project your darkness upon someone else. It gives the other person power over you. Until we stop this, more and more enemies will keep appearing. Ultimately, they are the creations of our own mind and heart. Below are some steps to take, to live a life free of enemies. Try them and see how easy and enjoyable they really are. Step 1: Make Friends With Your Enemy Allow yourself a moment of willingness to consider the possibility that your enemy wants the same things in life and is, most likely, just as afraid of you as you are of them. Say to yourself Like me, my enemy wants to be happy and safe. Like me, my enemy has suffered and wants to be free of pain. Like me, my enemy is lonely. Like me, my enemy will one day face loss and death. Step 2: Identify Your Enemy Make a list of those people (or situations) you feel are your enemies. (You may be astonished to note that even those you love are fearful to you). Write down three valuable qualities this enemy has. Write down three ways you have gained from knowing them. Write down what is needed for you to see them as a friend. 4 Step 3: Reclaiming Your Power Upon whom have you projected most negativity? What about this person is so unacceptable? Can you see these qualities in yourself as well? For just a moment, can you accept these qualities in yourself? (This doesnt mean act upon them, just accept them for what they are now). Step 4: Turn It Around Offer your enemy the gift of respect. Offer your enemy the gift of really listening and knowing them. Stop judging your enemy. Let them be who they are. Give your enemy what they want and need. Just one time. Do it again now. Notice how wonderful it feels. Take time to notice how it feels to live in a world of friends! by Dr. Brenda Shoshanna From Sarah: Dr. Shoshannas amazing, and youll love her book Save Your Relationship. Just go here to read more about Dr. Shoshanna and get quick, new help for your relationship and your life >> Related Posts No related posts found Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time Avoid Dating Burnout by Thinking More Like a Man Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/avoid- dating-burnout-by-thinking-more-like-a-man-2/ by Bobbi Palmer This week I spoke with my client, Sue, who recently entered the online dating world. Right off the bat she had scoped out a profile she really liked and emailed him. He seemed interested, attentive and pretty fabulous on paper. The next thing you knowshe had a date! When they met in real life, he complimented her generously, told her he felt so lucky to have met her, and talked about doing lots of things together. At the end of the date, they both agreed they wanted to see each other again. She felt a major connection. Sue was understandably thrilled and got that he- could-be-the-one tingle thing goin. Im sure you know that feeling. But its likely you also know the end of this story: he never followed through. He didnt call when he said he would. He cancelled two dates. He had long story for why each time 5 and professed his interest and desire to be with her again. And then he stopped calling. By the time, Sue and I connected, this entire story had transpired. When I talked to her, she was in damage mode. Dating Damage Mode: You know: rumination hell, where we gals cant help but go. Why had he said all those things to me? What did I do wrong? Do you think he ever liked me? Maybe he just has too much going on in his life right now should I tell him Ill wait? Why do guys keep doing this and not following through??? Sue was emotionally drained, and her dating confidence was in the dumps. She was exhausted. And then those words I hate to hear started coming: Why does this always happen? Im done! This is bulls#%! Listening, I felt the same here-we-go-again feeling. But it wasnt about the guy; it was about her. First, let me answer her questions: 1. Why had he said all those things to me? Because he probably liked you. 2. What did I do wrong? If you showed up, had fun, and were real absolutely nothing. 3. Do you think he ever liked me? Again, yes. I dowhen he was with you. 4. Should I wait? NO! For what? 5. Why does this always happen to me? It doesnt. Youve gone out with about 10 guys in the past several months, and this disappearing act has happened twice. That doesnt count as always in my book. And the major, most important answer I gave her was this: You will never know what happened. Ever. And it doesnt matter. She didnt even know this guy. She was totally disregarding his bad behavior and holding on to her initial, uninformed impression. She was hitching her wagon to a fantasy: a wish that she was finally in the presence of The One (at least potentially). After one date she jumped in HEART firstand created her own crash and burn drama. And the kicker is, while she was spending all her energy on a relationship that never existed, she wasnt responding to the dozens of men in her Match.com inbox waiting for her attention. Seriouslydozens! Dating From His Perspective: Now let me guess the guys side of this: Oh, she was nice and kinda pretty. Fun to hang with. Yeah, It would be nice to see her again. Ill make a date. Oh look! Something shiny! That shiny thing could have been another woman, his career or some family thing. Who knows? But he found something hed rather do, and he did it. I agree it would have been gentlemanly of him to tell her that he was moving on, but I dont think he was a jerk or a liar. He was not yet invested in her, and he was taking care of himself. Ladies, it would help you to approach dating a little more like the guys. Yes, I said it: like the guys. Most women go on a date hoping hes the one. Even though he might be seriously looking for the one, most men go on dates thinking something like, She seems nice. Itll be cool to see her and get to know a little about her. And if what he learns doesnt knock his socks off, he may get waylaid if something shiny comes along. Remember, the purpose of dating is to DISCOVER whether hes your guy, not to DECIDE if hes your guy. Thats what a relationship is for. It isnt about getting him to like you or making him fit your expectations. Not only did Sue lose three weeks of potential fun dates, but she burned herself out and brought herself to the verge of giving up on finding loveall over a guy she never knew. Start slow, keep an open mind, stay in the moment and dont go ALL IN on anyone too soon. This is the grownup girl part of dating: manage your expectations and keep your fantasies in check no matter how strong the guy comes on. Balance your heart with your head. By choosing the crazy womans path of dashed hopes and disappointments (I think I can say that 6 because that was me for many years), you will likely burn yourself out. The ups and downs will get the best of you. And then you miss out on so many opportunities to enjoy yourself and to stay open to many guys, one of which will your last first date. Slow and steady wins THIS raceand the right guy. From Sarah: Bobbi is absolutely adorable! You will SO identify with her and her story personally, and her FREE Man-O-Meter test is really helpful. Just go here to take the test and get Bobbis great free stuff and advice about how to Date Like A Grownup to get the man, relationship and dating confidence and fun you want->> Related Posts No related posts found Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time Speak Your Truth To Your Man Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/speak-your- truth-to-your-man-dominique/ by Dominique Have you found yourself feeling upset in your relationship over something your man said or didnt say? Did or didnt do? And you feel compelled to let him know; you want to lash out, make him wrong, blame him, hurt him in return possibly. And since youve heard its a bad thing to hold in your feelings, that its a good thing to say whats on your mind, all of it, whatever it might be, then speaking up would be a good thing, wouldnt it? Sharing brings you closer, doesnt it? You cant say the wrong thing to the right man after all. And in theory MAYBE this is so, yet in reality, things are not usually so black and white. There is also a notion or theory which I subscribe to which is that the relationship is FAR more important than being right. Yet where do you draw the line or rather set your boundaries? How would you know when to say something or not? Where to Draw the Line for the Relationship and for You One thing to keep in mind is that there are many perspectives, and each one is as valid as the next. There isnt necessarily a right or a wrong in a given situation. Another VERY Important thing to remember is that there is a limit to every mans (or womans for that matter) tolerance for spilling out every emotion which flows through you. You experience hundreds of emotions a day, most of them fleeting, MANY of them having NOTHING to do with whats at hand. Over sharing though, i.e giving a voice to most every feeling you have, ESPECIALLY the bad feeling ones will feel awful to your man, nagging at best or abuse at worst. He will soon begin to think that he can never make you happy, that seemingly no matter what he says or does, its not right or good enough. He will eventually give up. 7 And if you tend to look to your man for most of your validation, i.e. asking him to fill a void which is your responsibility to fill, when youre expressing insecurity more of the time than not, when youre being overly clingy or needy, he will want to run away, and eventually he will. I want to be very clear though that the insecurity, clinginess, and neediness we ALL experience from time to time is a not necessarily a negative. It can actually be a positive thing, a wonderful opportunity to allow vulnerability and deepen intimacy by being REAL and AUTHENTIC which might look like asking for support and comfort. Additionally, anything which looks like mothering or smothering to him, i.e. leaning forward, when doled out in anything but small doses WILL kill attraction over time too and sooner more likely than later. Its About What Works for Your Relationship Now if youve gained some knowledge around what does and doesnt seem to work with your man, and you have some experience with expressing yourself in ways he can hear you which likely you do, at least a little, you might instead work to formulate a feeling message or three to express your confusion, hurt, pain, or irritation. Or you might retreat to compose a little speech. These last two can and are VERY useful, either one of which a direction I would encourage you to go in. Which one would likely depend on the situation. Yet there is another way to look at this which you may not have considered. Remember bringing things back to you? That maybe whatever which just happened is NOT how you perceived it. That MAYBE this is all you and where you are in this moment. For example maybe youre not feeling well, eg. you have a headache, cramps, are fighting a cold, or something else and didnt really register this consciously. Or maybe youre carrying some tension in your body of which youre unaware. Or maybe youre still carrying residue from words you exchanged with a friend, co worker, family member, work superior, or someone else. Or maybe an old trigger came to call out of seemingly nowhere. Any one of these can and will easily alter your ability to interpret the truth of the moment and thus create something which actually isnt really there at all. So when it comes to your man, how youre feeling whether it be physically or emotionally will directly affect how your see, perceive, interpret his behavior, and it will also directly affect how you respond to him. You not feeling well, you not feeling clear, you not really being in this moment with him because of what youre carrying with you which feels bad WILL color things negative even when theyre actually not at all. They could even be quite rosy. So whatever it was he said or didnt say, did or didnt do may be not at all as you are taking it in. It may be him simply being him, quirks, idiosyncrasies, and all. It may have even been a well-intentioned comment or action. Yes your man can sometimes be a bit clueless. He may act like such the man, unaware at times of how his boy talk can affect you in ways which dont feel good. But I can promise this if this is the man for you, he WANTS to see you happy. He WANTS to be a part of, maybe the BIGGEST part of what makes you feel good. SO whatever it is coming out of his mouth, whatever it is hes forgotten or omitted, whatever it is he did seemingly carelessly or thoughtlessly its not necessarily anything negative at all. Chances are HUGE its isnt. And here is where one my favorite suggestions comes in Patience. It truly is a virtue, and most often I use it when talking to you, when youre being hard on yourself, when youre feeling frustrated with yourself, when you want your changes to come now in the relationship. Yet patience can also come in when dealing with your man in situations such as these. And it can sometimes be far more useful and far more important than speaking your truth in the moment, for often we dont really know what our truth even is. When your vision is being disguised, covered over with other stuff, you wont really know. So I encourage you to draw on your patience first BEFORE speaking your truth so that you can feel sure this is indeed your truth and not your tension, ailment, pain, old stuff, i.e. triggers speaking, masking your TRUE truth. 8 And after youve given yourself some time to get clear on what you feel and what might really be going on, you can then ask yourself whether its really worth addressing, if you still feel the need to speak up or deliver a little speech. If its still sitting inside you festering after a certain amount of time which only you can determine, then you absolutely can speak your truth. And I would encourage you to do so calmly and making it ALL about YOU and how YOU FEEL. So you dont necessarily have to choose between patience and speaking your truth. You CAN have both. xxoo Love to you all, Dominique From The Editors: We love Dominique as a person, and think shes one of the best coaches around. Shes the ONLY coach we recommend to women who want to open their hearts and find their true selves in a deep emotional, physical, spiritual, sensual and sexual way. Start with her ebook Sex and Heart and then email her for coaching for your relationship-> Related Posts No related posts found Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time Intensity Can Be Passionate And Exciting To A Man Or It Can Feel Draining To Him Which Kind of Intense Are YOU? Rori Raye Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/intensity- can-be-passionate-and-exciting-to-a-man-or-it-can-feel- draining-to-him-which-kind-of-intense-are-you-rori-raye/ Okay, so whats the difference between intense passion and intense draining? Whats the difference between passion and excitement or even powerful feelings like rage, terror and grief and the intensity that causes tension, draining and causes a man to disappear? When youre intense in a draining way youre not letting any of your real self out. Instead of allowing your inner light to shine even a bit, so that it can warm a man who gets close to you, its as though the only light you have is what you can borrow from HIM. He not only feels depended upon in an emotional sense as if you need him to be happy he feels depended upon in a survival sense as if you need him to LIVE. And thats pretty scary for a man for most of us, actually. 9 Most of us cant stand the feeling of being helpless. And so when were sad and confused, we dont want to be putting that out. We dont want to be the sad and confused person. We TALK about our sadness and confusion, anyway, with our friends, but even when we talk about it, mostly we cover up the deeper feelings with DEPRESSION, a kind of general ABSENCE of feeling. And when we do it ALL THE TIME, its like our light goes out. The only time we can let down is when were alone, and even then its hard because its so frightening to allow our sadness and confusion to come to the surface. And the worst part about it is keeping all that stuff covered up gives us the ILLUSION that were okay. We keep putting one foot in front of the other. And so we work hard AGAINST ourselves. If were convinced were okay, we often dont get the help we need because we dont want to change. Not really. Because changing would mean taking off the covers and looking at the pain and sadness and confusion thats really underneath. So heres your next step: If you notice someone leaning away from you, lean back. If they stay leaning away, take a look at the intensity of what youre feeling. Go into the bathroom wherever you are and be alone with yourself for a moment. Now, ask yourself what youre feeling. See if its anger thats usually the most common emotion that triggers depression, covering up and that kind of intensity that drains other people. If you discover some anger, stomp it out in the bathroom, or use any of my Tools to get into the feeling, feel it completely, and then walk yourself out into a better-feeling place (my Reconnect Your Relationship program has the great Take Yourself Through The Tunnel Tool). Love, Rori From Sarah: Roris got such powerful relationship advice, and her Have The Relationship You Want ebook is always the first place I go when I need help. Her stuff works. Shes got simple but incredible free tools to use to strengthen your confidence, joy and self-esteem and attract the kind of man you want in your life. Check her out, get her free newsletters, and fill your life with passion! Related Posts No related posts found Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time What Hes Not Telling You Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/what-hes- not-telling-you/ Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time