Women From The Experts at LoveRomanceRelationship.com Relationship Advice For Women By Experts in the fields of Love, Romance and Relationships. Are You Overfunctioning? Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/are-you- overfunctioning/ Seeing Things Differently Does it seem as though you have you been doing all the work in your relationship, only to feel your man pulling away? Have you been initiating communication, calls, texts, sex, with little to no positive response? Well my dear, you may be overfunctioning. Perhaps it is time to try a different approach. In a recent study in the European Journal of Personality, researchers tested nearly 300 U.S. singles, and found that in a committed, romantic relationship, women preferred a man who was medium in availability (not too easy or too hard- to-get) while the guys desired a woman with low availability (hard- to-get). According to the researchers, there are apparently two reasons we play hard-to-get; to increase demand and/or test a partners willingness to commit. Sometimes you just need to step back and work from the inside out. So how do you create the highly desirable, hard-to- get, confident quality that makes a man passionate? You do it by learning to put yourself first. Weve been taught our entire lives that focusing on a mans needs is the best way to win his affection and attention. Even though it goes against everything we learn as women, the path to rekindling a mans passion and commitment is to stop all the wondering, analyzing, and worrying about why he acts the way he does and begin to explore and fully experience your own life in the most powerful ways possible Once your man realizes that you value your own worth, youll drive him crazy with desire by becoming a prize that requires fighting for. You can identify and break the habits that are blocking his view of your self-esteem and strength and watch him start to move back to you! Accomplish this, and hell never let you go again. 2 Are you ready to take action to get back in touch with your OWN strength and sensuality, and become magnetically attractive to a man? What if I told you that you could start to make it happen in 7 days? Yep, thats what I thought. Lets do this. Check out Rori Rayes Get Him Back Boot Campand lets start working on strong, sexy YOU! Related Posts No related posts found Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time Six Great Questions to Ask On a Date Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/six-great- questions-to-ask-on-a-date/ Getting to Know You. That first date is always a little awkward, most often involving meeting a total stranger in a public place that feels a little like a test you have to pass before moving on to the next date. Of course the standard inquiries concerning job, relationship history, kids will no doubt surface (if you havent discussed those things on the phone or on line already) There are a few other questions that can be used to spark more interesting, follow up conversation and can help steer the date away from awkward land and more toward fun park. 1. How was your day? This will help you not only to find out if anything has happened that might affect your dates mood, but will allow you to get a hint at whether your date sees things in a positive way, right away. 2. Are you a dog person, or a cat person, or neither? If you own 3 cats and your date cant stand cats, this is something to know now. 3. Tell me about your friends. Its good to allow your date to talk about something that isnt directly about them, and helps you to learn a bit about how they relate to others they care about. 4. What do you like to do in your free time? This will give you insight as to whether your date is outdoorsy, likes music, or is a workaholic among other things 5. Is there anything you are really passionate about? This will allow you to see if your date is capable of expressing deeper feelings or thoughts. 6. How Long Have You Lived In Your Town or City? People move. And sometimes youll find a common town or city where you have both lived. Or you may have mutual friends from the same town or city. 3 Its always easier to relate to someone if you have something in common or a shared experience. You dont have to think of the answers to these particular questions as deal breakers. You dont even have to ask all of these questions just a couple of them may spark enough interesting conversation to last and help you and your date decide if a second date is plausible. Related Posts No related posts found Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time Words of Comfort Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/words-of- comfort/ How to Offer Support Anytime by Pam Reaves Words of comfort should be a part of our daily communication with others and not only be considered as expressions of sympathy. Why wait until a loss? When someone is mourning, they are distracted (unavoidable) by so many emotions and feelings associated with that loss, that they may be unable to fully digest the depth and breath of the spirit of the beautiful, supportive and encouraging expressions articulated at times of sorrow and mourning. They appreciate the words, but are not in an emotional state to digest (i.e. absorb, take in, grasp, process) the words of comfort to the degree you may be anticipating. The idea of offering words of comfort is awesome and the effects thereof full of healing properties. So lets start communicating with each other by exchanging them in any situation in life, at any time, and without the need for a specific occasion. Also, a response is not necessary, so dont give/send words of comfort expecting one. If you receive one, then fine; if not, dont read anything into the non- response. You committed a selfless act when you sent it and remember this was not about you. Just realize that when these unselfish acts become a part of you (your hallmark), people take notice and are more than willing to gift you with words of comfort because these types of expressions are who you are. Words Of Comfort Dont Have To Be Eloquent Yes the eloquent speaking and writing with which some people are gifted is appreciated by most of us, and thank goodness those who possess these talents share them with us. So by all means, if you see a card, a poem, an inspirational message, or some other writing that expresses your sentiments, buy it, e-mail it, hand deliver it, or send it via the postal service. Do this spontaneously because your spontaneity is a demonstration of what resides in your heart. When people receive words of comfort in any form, they 4 embrace them as affirmation that someone cares enough about them, their day, their lives, or their well-being enough to express concern by reaching out to let them know they have support. The amazing thing about words of comfort is that they become the inspiration, motivation, and encouragement to change a situation for the better. These comforting words that start out as expressions of support turn into instruments of empowerment. Expressing words of comfort is not difficult. Although the eloquent expressions are wonderful, the most basic words of comfort can be just as, if not more powerful. On a piece of paper, send someone a note saying, Im thinking about you. I guarantee that you will receive the same response you would have received had you sent a poem written by Helena Steiner Rice. I love words, but when I receive a note simply saying, Im thinking of you, I am moved beyond measure. Send an e-mail saying I support you. The recipient, who may be on the verge of giving up, has just received affirmation that he or she should continue. Let someone know that you appreciate their gifts and talents. These words of comfort inspire them to keep working at perfecting their gifts and talents, as well as pursuing their dreams. Call a friend and say, I love you (and mean it). That friend now knows that whatever the outcome, he or she is a winner because he or she has love in his or her life. Remember, I keep saying that love is down-right medicinal. From Sarah: Pam Reaves is an amazing coach, and has a tremendous track record helping clients get healthy and happy human experiences in life and love. We truly want to recommend her coaching and her wonderful, powerful book Is It LoveOr Merely a Sick Attachment? Pam is no-nonsense, and breaks down big, important relationship concepts into direct, straight-shooting, tell-the- hard-truth real help for you (just like her book title). Go here to check out Pams coaching and Is It Love>> Related Posts No related posts found Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time Meet And Keep The Right Man Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/meet-and- keep-the-right-man/ The Path to Happiness If youre a long-time subscriber of ours (thank you, we love you, too!) you probably know that when we gush over a particular article or book, its worth checking out. We would love nothing more than for all of our single readers to find, attract, date and retain the man of her dreams. So we want to share something with you that offers some terrific help for you to do just that! Last week, we came across this incredible dating and relationship program written by a relationship consultant. Her name is Naomi Miller. 5 Naomi has the incredible ability to cut through all the BS and hype that surrounds the dating scene. Do you want to learn how to find and attract Mr. Right from someone who has herself found and married the man of her dreams (and coached many other woman in doing the same), or from someone who just reads theories about relationships? Experience wins out in our book. It is always better to learn from the person whos actually walked that path ahead of us. If youre trying to find the right partner and build a loving and lasting relationship, you MUST check this out Now, we know many of you may be saying, Oh no, not another how to attract any man in days program. To be totally honest, we thought the same thing. Rest assured, this is not the case. It is not a quick fix, or gimmick. Its 200+ pages of solid, empirically proven information. The author starts from square one and teaches you everything you need to know. Naomis new book called Meet & Keep The Right Man, is an exception! This material is excellent and a MUST READ for any woman trying to find truthful and lasting relationship. Click the link below to read more about this fantastic book and how it can help you achieve your goals: Even if you have had your heart broken, you are extremely shy or if you never succeeded to find truthful relationship, you WILL learn something from this book. Wishing you Better Love, Better Sex and Better Life, -Sarah and Your Team at LRR Related Posts No related posts found Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time How To Keep The Sex Taps Turned On Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/how-to- keep-the-sex-taps-turned-on/ Breaking Out of Bedroom Boredom So you and your S.O. have been together for a while no 6 w, and the hot, fire-hose of passion that you once could not get enough of has cooled to a lukewarm trickle? Dont fret. We have some hints that can help get your taps turned back on. After a while in all relationships, we establish familiar patterns. In some aspects of life, we find comfort in the routine of these patterns and habits with our partner but this can also lead to developing boredom in the bedroom. Here is a list of five things you and your partner can do to break out of the accustomed routine and into excitement and discovery: 1. Tick-Tock Only fooling around every once in a while, at night, in bed, (and, if you have children) after the kids have gone to sleep? How about amping it up by sending each other a couple secret language text messages, setting up a meet-at-home-for-lunch-quickie? Or waking up early and making out touching and teasing each other in anticipation of what you could have later that day? The only time you need is the time for each other and like exercise, the more you do it, the better it gets. 2. Position Even if you are both used to the easy missionary position you can make some adjustments to add spice without sacrificing comfort. How about sitting on a chair? If you need more surface area, throw a blanket on the floor and straddle each other. You dont have to be panting and thrusting hard, just breathing and touching (all over), looking at each other, and even laughing is ok. Sex is supposed to be fun, after all. 3. Props Unfortunately, in America we still attach sex to the stigma of being dirty and so we hesitate to research, purchase and use sex books and tools in a healthy, positive and effective way. There are some wonderful, new devices out there that can crank up the spice level. Dont be shy to try. 4. Place Always on the bed, in your own room, lights out? You have an entire house to have sex in who cares if its clumsy, awkward or even a little uncomfortable? Turn on some music, jump in the shower together, throw a sheet on the couch or towels on the floor and turn on those tools and each other. 5. Who Comes First? There is nothing hotter than someone who is simply enjoying the act of sex without a set goal in mind. Sex can also mean a really nice foot rub followed by a little oral stimulation, or just tickling tongues and toes together Of course we enjoy the climax or the finish as it were, but if you are just letting go of your stress, living in the moment, however long or short it may be, and really staying focused on each other, it will come. Dont be afraid to give each other directions from time-to-time. Its ok to gently guide your lovers hands/mouth/body to a whispered, put your fingers here, or please baby, I love it when you do this. (fill in the blank) followed by an oh, yes or you make me feel so good response. 6. Keep It Up 7 Outside the bedroom, give each other support and patience. Try listening to your partner and not talking, just being mentally and emotionally available. Discuss sex with your clothes on. Talk about what a great experience you had the last time chuckle together and remind each other what worked and maybe even suggest (in your partners ear) what you would like to try next time. Heres wishing that next time comes often and the taps get turned on full blast for both of you! Better Love, Better Sex, Better Life! -Your Team at LRR Related Posts No related posts found Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time