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Jessica
The trouble was just Jessica had been brought up by a strong, clear-minded and independent woman, and (1) ............
with the expectation that she would be the same. This had meant that at the earliest (2) she had been
encouraged to fly the nest and (3) her wings. At no time had she considered marriage or ever having children;
the two things didnt (4) into her thinking. As a child there had been no bed-time stories of young girls being
rescued by handsome princes. Whatever you want to do, her mother would say when kissing her goodnight, believe you
can do it and you will. And more important than anything else, make sure you enjoy what you do. Which might have (5)
some children into becoming (6) achievers, but not Jessica. What it did was convince her from an
early age that whatever she did would be because she wanted to do it, and for no other reason.
1
2
3
4
5
6
A raised
A occasion
A spread
A come
A caused
A great
B grown
B possibility
B open
B go
B provoked
B big
C produced
C opportunity
C flap
C move
C incited
C huge
D reared
D moment
D try
D get
D incensed
D high
Childs play
Childs play? Not at all, says Dr David Campbell, consultant clinical psychologist, who explains that children as young as
seven as busy (1) their identify outside the family. They are developing relationships that give them (2)
about what kind of person they are pretty, sporty, and so on. Its a very important time for them. As they get older,
relationships become more routine.
Psychological theories indicate that women are more (3) to find their identify through relationships than boys, who
define themselves more through activities, he adds. At first, rejections are (4) painful for girls, so they can seem
much more important than they really are. He points out that the oldest child may feel more threatened by relationships
that (5) wrong. If they lose a girlfriend at school, it reverberates with all their past experiences of (6) to
siblings.
1
2
3
4
5
6
A constituting
A feedback
A possible
A greatly
A come
A losing out
B establishing
B reports
B probable
B extremely
B get
B getting out
C basing
C advice
C likely
C highly
C go
C bowing out
D grounding
D references
D given
D utterly
D do
D running out
Use the hints below to help you with the more difficult items.
8
9
10
11
12
13
14
15
Suddenly, it's as (1) . saying goodbye to a spouse is no (2) . the dismal climax to
protracted misery that it (3) . was. Divorce in the 21st century (4) . a simple lifestyle
choice, the result of two people drifting (5) .: now the ex-partners can move (6) . and
rebuild their lives. Today, those people who once (7) . the knot because living together was frowned (8)
. are cohabiting. However, the divorce (9) . is still high; there is a phenomenally high
9. of marital breakdown - 4 out of 10. So, who divorces and why? What might that (10) . us about
marriages that last? Academics discovered that the deprived (11) .
. are those who have cohabited more than once before marriage, those who have embarked (13)
. relationships (14) . a young age, those who have experienced parental divorce and
those who have "low emotional well-being". In (15) . , an awful (16) . of us are
vulnerable. It's this "happy ever (17) . " that we can't quite seem to get (18) ..
Listening
You will hear an interview with two writers who have each written books about marriage. Listen to the
recording. For questions 1-9, complete the sentences with a word or short phrase.
Evelyn's first 1 .... did not reveal why so many modern marriages fail.
Evelyn found her daughter's attitude to one of the 2 .... very significant.
Paul agrees that not many couples believe that marriage is a 3 .... .
Paul accepts that people shouldn't 4 .... with very bad marriages.
Evelyn believes that 5 .... are only part of the problem.
Evelyn thinks that people no longer 6 .... with each other.
Paul refers to two modern 7 .... to getting married.
The previous generation would have found these arrangements 8 .... .
Evelyn feels that deep down, people are still 9 .... .
Reading
For questions 1-6. read the following text and then choose, from the list A-J given below, the best
phrase to fill each of the spaces. There are three phrases you will not need. There is an example (0).
Dads: Equalising the Family Equation
When my child was small, we used to read 0) ..J..., which was about the Bumsteads, a typical suburban family. The
funniest episodes always seemed to involve the times when Dagwood, 1) ............, had to baby-sit the children. The first
thing he'd do as parent-in-residence was put on his wife Blondie's apron. It was as if, by wearing something that belonged
to her, he was symbolically becoming her. For the Bumsteads, as for most Western couples during the 1950s, 60s, and
70s, being 2) ............ .
Today we know better. Studies have shown the importance of gender roles in shaping our consciousnesses, and we are
now aware of the critical role fathers play throughout 3) ............ . Because he is male and because he is the other parent,
the father expands the child's range of experience and clarifies 4) ........... .
Despite all the changes that have taken place in the last few decades, two facts remain: First, mothers are still the primary
caretakers of preschool children and, second, most day-care providers are women. This means that young children are
still raised in an environment that is almost exclusively female. It may also mean that the father is the only male 5) ............
The problem with this is that it gives a child an incomplete notion of what 6) ........... . The male parent, with his different
ways of relating and playing, rounds out a child's sense of the different sexes. He demonstrates that human society is
made up of two genders, each with distinct styles of dress, thought, and behaviour.
A the stages in a child's development
the world is about
the child has contact with on a regular basis
D the opinions they have on childcare
E the father and breadwinner
F the female meant being at home
G the ideas they have about masculinity
H the parent meant being the mother
I the father's responsibilities are
J the popular comic strip Dagwood and Blondie
Generations Apart
Psychotherapist Gael Lindenfield examines the role of grandparents today.
No one warned me that in my early 40's. I would start cooing longingly into prams. I was totally unprepared to meet this
new aspect of myself. My own nest had just emptied and I was eagerly filling the 'vacuum' with innumerable career and
globe-trotting adventures. Admittedly the master vision for the rest of my life did include a few happy granny and grandpa
scenes, but they were more distant and more a family joke than a serious prediction. So this strange primitive urge to
extend my family into another generation was both perplexing and even a little irritating.
When the right time came, I had, of course, every intention of becoming a conscientious, involved grandparent. But that
was more about doing the right thing for the children than fulfilling a deep instinctive need of my own. As a
psychotherapist, I am hyper-aware of how life-transforming a good relationship with a grandparent can be. It offers so
much more than treats, extra quality time and cheap nannying. Good grandparents help build psychological security by
making their grandchildren feel part of a much wider, diverse and stable supportive family network. They also give them a
sense of their place in history and evolution and give their life a meaningful sense of perspective.
Even when we reach adulthood, our psychological health can be affected by the relationship that we may or may not have
had with our grandparents. I frequently work with people who have (to put it mildly!) a less than perfect relationship with
their own parents. Many times I have been able to help people heal emotionally by simply reawakening a cherished
memory of a much happier and more unconditionally loving relationship with a grandparent.
Alan was, in his own words, a hopeless case of workaholism. He still fell driven by trying to please his ambitious,
perfectionist father. But, fortunately, I discovered that he had also received a much more unconditional kind of love from
his calmer, happier and affectionate grandfather. Putting a photo of his granddad on his desk helped Alan keep his
promise to himself to maintain better balance in his life.
Similarly, another client, Angela, had very low self-esteem. We found that by just recalling her grandmother's look of pure
joy when she used to greet her after school each day, Angela could give herself a powerful boost of confidence whenever
she needed it.
Until I became a grandparent myself, however, I never appreciated how important Alan and Angela must have been for
the happiness and welfare of their grandparents.
Nowadays, the chances of children and grandparents having such intimate, mutually satisfying relationships are fast
diminishing. Recent research revealed that in Britain, one out of twenty grandparents is likely to have had no contact
whatsoever with at least one of their grandchildren during the past five years. There are many reasons for this new
distancing of generations. Sometimes, it's mere geography that keeps them apart. I recently met a woman who proudly
showed me a picture of her family in Australia. Unfortunately, she told me, she hadn't ever visited them, and hadn't even
seen her five-year-old granddaughter. Her son had brought over his seven-year-old son six years ago, but he hadn't had
the time or money to visit since. She explained that she herself had a heart condition, which would make a long flight too
risky.
The positive aspect of this story was that, however sad this situation was for both parties, there appeared to be no
bitterness or resentment. But many grandparents feel quite differently. They're being forced apart from their grandchildren
by less acceptable factors of modern society. Perhaps pressure of time maintains the distance. After all, nowadays, even
if close extended families live within easy visiting distance, they may still not see much of each other. Parents often spend
so much of their precious weekends cleaning, shopping and decorating that they hardly have time to get to know their
children. Equally, the children themselves may have such a heavy weekend of programmed activity that their time is also
stretched to its limits. A visit to or from grandparents feels like a luxury that no one can afford.
Another increasingly common reason for estrangement is the break-up of family through divorce or separation. Many
grandparents who consequently lose contact with their grandchildren go through a painful bereavement process, which
can even lead to emotional and physical illness. This is because they never give up hope. They will not accept the finality
of separation or loss. It seems that the grandparenting instinct and bond is so strong that it is rarely killed by even the
most bitter family squabbles and separations.
Speaking
What problems do you think are caused by people of different ages living together?
In what ways do you think attitudes change as you get older?
In what ways can money cause arguments between parents and children?
Do you think what young people have a sense of the importance of money?
Do you think that parents and children have different attitudes to school and homework?
How important is academic success to children?
Generation gap
Financial problems
Education and careers
Which of the following do you think are the five most important qualities in a future husband / wife? Rank them.
a professional security
b professional prospects
financial security
d educational background
e social background
f maturity
g moral values
h sense of humour
i intellect
j empathy
k devotion
I romantic nature
m taste in books/films etc.
n attractive appearance
open-mindedness
professional success
sense of humour
assertiveness
What, in your opinion, is the most essential ingredient for a successful marriage?
KEY
A raised
A occasion
A spread
A come
A caused
A great
B grown
B possibility
B open
B go
B provoked
B big
C produced
C opportunity
C flap
C move
C incited
C huge
D reared
D moment
D try
D get
D incensed
D high
Childs play
Childs play? Not at all, says Dr David Campbell, consultant clinical psychologist, who explains that children as young as
seven as busy (1) establishing their identify outside the family. They are developing relationships that give them (2)
feedback about what kind of person they are pretty, sporty, and so on. Its a very important time for them. As they get
older, relationships become more routine.
Psychological theories indicate that women are more (3) likely to find their identify through relationships than boys, who
define themselves more through activities, he adds. At first, rejections are (4) extremely painful for girls, so they can
seem much more important than they really are. He points out that the oldest child may feel more threatened by
relationships that (5) go wrong. If they lose a girlfriend at school, it reverberates with all their past experiences of (6)
losing out to siblings.
1
2
3
4
5
6
A constituting
A feedback
A possible
A greatly
A come
A losing out
B establishing
B reports
B probable
B extremely
B get
B getting out
C basing
C advice
C likely
C highly
C go
C bowing out
D grounding
D references
D given
D utterly
D do
D running out
Use the hints below to help you with the more difficult items.
8
9
10
11
12
13
14
15
a preposition
part of an expression meaning altogether
a fixed expression: to see someones of view
Suddenly, it's as 1. if saying goodbye to a spouse is no 2. longer the dismal climax to protracted misery that it 3. once
was. Divorce in the 21st century 4. appears a simple lifestyle choice, the result of two people drifting 5. apart: now the
ex-partners can move 6. on and rebuild their lives. Today, those people who once 7. tied the knot because living together
was frowned 8. upon are cohabiting. However, the divorce 9. rate is still high; there is a phenomenally high 9. rate of
marital breakdown - 4 out of 10. So, who divorces and why? What might that 10. tell us about marriages that last?
Academics discovered that the deprived 11. are more divorce-prone, 12. as are those who have cohabited more than
once before marriage, those who have embarked 13. on relationships 14. at a young age, those who have experienced
parental divorce and those who have "low emotional well-being". In 15. short, an awful 16. lot of us are vulnerable. It's
this "happy ever 17. after " that we can't quite seem to get 18. right
Listening
You will hear an interview with two writers who have each written books about marriage. Listen to the
recording. For questions 1-9, complete the sentences with a word or short phrase.
Evelyn's first 1 investigation did not reveal why so many modern marriages fail.
Evelyn found her daughter's attitude to one of the 2 marriage vows very significant.
Paul agrees that not many couples believe that marriage is a 3 lifetime commitment.
Paul accepts that people shouldn't 4 persevere with very bad marriages.
Evelyn believes that 5 unrealistic expectations are only part of the problem.
Evelyn thinks that people no longer 6 communicate with each other.
Paul refers to two modern 7 alternatives to getting married.
The previous generation would have found these arrangements 8 unacceptable.
Evelyn feels that deep down, people are still 9 romantics (at heart).
Reading
For questions 1-6. read the following text and then choose, from the list A-J given below, the best
phrase to fill each of the spaces. There are three phrases you will not need. There is an example (0).
Dads: Equalising the Family Equation
When my child was small, we used to read 0) ..J..., which was about the Bumsteads, a typical suburban family. The
funniest episodes always seemed to involve the times when Dagwood, 1) the father and breadwinner, had to baby-sit
the children. The first thing he'd do as parent-in-residence was put on his wife Blondie's apron. It was as if, by wearing
something that belonged to her, he was symbolically becoming her. For the Bumsteads, as for most Western couples
during the 1950s, 60s, and 70s, being 2) F the female meant being at home.
Today we know better. Studies have shown the importance of gender roles in shaping our consciousnesses, and we are
now aware of the critical role fathers play throughout 3) A the stages in a child's development. Because he is male and
because he is the other parent, the father expands the child's range of experience and clarifies 4) G the ideas they have
about masculinity.
Despite all the changes that have taken place in the last few decades, two facts remain: First, mothers are still the primary
caretakers of preschool children and, second, most day-care providers are women. This means that young children are
still raised in an environment that is almost exclusively female. It may also mean that the father is the only male 5) the
child has contact with on a regular basis.
The problem with this is that it gives a child an incomplete notion of what 6) the world is about. The male parent, with
his different ways of relating and playing, rounds out a child's sense of the different sexes. He demonstrates that human
society is made up of two genders, each with distinct styles of dress, thought, and behaviour.
3 A the stages in a child's development
6 the world is about
5 the child has contact with on a regular basis
D the opinions they have on childcare
1 E the father and breadwinner
2 F the female meant being at home
4 G the ideas they have about masculinity
H the parent meant being the mother
I the father's responsibilities are
J the popular comic strip Dagwood and Blondie
Generations Apart
Psychotherapist Gael Lindenfield examines the role of grandparents today.
No one warned me that in my early 40's. I would start cooing longingly into prams. I was totally unprepared to meet this
new aspect of myself. My own nest had just emptied and I was eagerly filling the 'vacuum' with innumerable career and
globe-trotting adventures. Admittedly the master vision for the rest of my life did include a few happy granny and grandpa
scenes, but they were more distant and more a family joke than a serious prediction. So this strange primitive urge to
extend my family into another generation was both perplexing and even a little irritating.
When the right time came, I had, of course, every intention of becoming a conscientious, involved grandparent. But that
was more about doing the right thing for the children than fulfilling a deep instinctive need of my own. As a
psychotherapist, I am hyper-aware of how life-transforming a good relationship with a grandparent can be. It offers so
much more than treats, extra quality time and cheap nannying. Good grandparents help build psychological security by
making their grandchildren feel part of a much wider, diverse and stable supportive family network. They also give them a
sense of their place in history and evolution and give their life a meaningful sense of perspective.
Even when we reach adulthood, our psychological health can be affected by the relationship that we may or may not have
had with our grandparents. I frequently work with people who have (to put it mildly!) a less than perfect relationship with
their own parents. Many times I have been able to help people heal emotionally by simply reawakening a cherished
memory of a much happier and more unconditionally loving relationship with a grandparent.
Alan was, in his own words, a hopeless case of workaholism. He still fell driven by trying to please his ambitious,
perfectionist father. But, fortunately, I discovered that he had also received a much more unconditional kind of love from
his calmer, happier and affectionate grandfather. Putting a photo of his granddad on his desk helped Alan keep his
promise to himself to maintain better balance in his life.
Similarly, another client, Angela, had very low self-esteem. We found that by just recalling her grandmother's look of pure
joy when she used to greet her after school each day, Angela could give herself a powerful boost of confidence whenever
she needed it.
Until I became a grandparent myself, however, I never appreciated how important Alan and Angela must have been for
the happiness and welfare of their grandparents.
Nowadays, the chances of children and grandparents having such intimate, mutually satisfying relationships are fast
diminishing. Recent research revealed that in Britain, one out of twenty grandparents is likely to have had no contact
whatsoever with at least one of their grandchildren during the past five years. There are many reasons for this new
distancing of generations. Sometimes, it's mere geography that keeps them apart. I recently met a woman who proudly
showed me a picture of her family in Australia. Unfortunately, she told me, she hadn't ever visited them, and hadn't even
seen her five-year-old granddaughter. Her son had brought over his seven-year-old son six years ago, but he hadn't had
the time or money to visit since. She explained that she herself had a heart condition, which would make a long flight too
risky.
The positive aspect of this story was that, however sad this situation was for both parties, there appeared to be no
bitterness or resentment. But many grandparents feel quite differently. They're being forced apart from their grandchildren
by less acceptable factors of modern society. Perhaps pressure of time maintains the distance. After all, nowadays, even
if close extended families live within easy visiting distance, they may still not see much of each other. Parents often spend
so much of their precious weekends cleaning, shopping and decorating that they hardly have time to get to know their
children. Equally, the children themselves may have such a heavy weekend of programmed activity that their time is also
stretched to its limits. A visit to or from grandparents feels like a luxury that no one can afford.
Another increasingly common reason for estrangement is the break-up of family through divorce or separation. Many
grandparents who consequently lose contact with their grandchildren go through a painful bereavement process, which
can even lead to emotional and physical illness. This is because they never give up hope. They will not accept the finality
of separation or loss. It seems that the grandparenting instinct and bond is so strong that it is rarely killed by even the
most bitter family squabbles and separations.
1 When she was about forty, the writer
A became a grandparent.
was planning to travel.
was annoyed by her family.
D regretted not having grandchildren.
2 The writer thinks that grandparents are particularly important because
A they ensure children get better treatment.
they teach children about the past.
they provide children with financial support.
D they give children a sense of belonging.
3 According to the writer. Alan and Angela benefited from
A understanding the reasons for their parents' behaviour.
realising how important they were to their grandparents.
remembering their grandparents' attitude to them.
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