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Abstract
Research on compliments has demonstrated that responding to compliments is far from easy since it entails a clash between the
politeness maxims of agreement and modesty. The question that arises is what happens when communication does not take place faceto-face but is computer-mediated and the contextual conditions are markedly different. The aim of this paper is to answer this question by
analyzing computer-mediated responses to compliments in Spanish as opposed to their face-to-face counterparts. It is hypothesized that
the different contextual conditions will have a core role to play in how interlocutors respond to compliments in computer-mediated
communication, more concretely in a social network like Facebook, where compliments are pervasive. Data have been analyzed from a
netnographic and systemic functional approach and supplemented by semi-structured interviews with eight of the participants. Results
show that aspects such as disembodiment, asynchronicity or relative lack of privacy have a crucial say in how online users respond to
compliments; leading both to a simplification of some face-to-face strategies and the amplification of others and resulting in a whole
different system of responses.
2013 Elsevier B.V. All rights reserved.
Keywords: Response to compliments; Computer-mediated communication; Spanish; Facebook; Netnography; Systemic functional grammar
1. Introduction
Research on responses to compliments has demonstrated that compliments do indeed trigger a complete system of
possibilities as far as responses are concerned (Holmes, 1988a,b, 1995; Pomerantz, 1978; Golato, 2002, 2003, 2005;
Maz-Arvalo, 2012, inter alia). As shown by previous studies, responding to compliments is far from easy since it entails a
clash between the politeness maxims of agreement and modesty (Leech, 1983; Maz-Arvalo, 2012; Pomerantz, 1978).
According to the first of these maxims, interlocutors should maximize agreement with one another. In other words, the
speakers initiating remark should be ideally agreed upon by the hearer. However, in an invented exchange like the one
below, any speaker of English (or Spanish for that matter) would consider the hearers response to the previous
compliment highly inappropriate except in certain contexts involving irony, humor, etc.
Speaker: You look lovely today
Hearer: I totally agree with you
This explains the humorous use of this kind of exchanges as illustrated by the following excerpt from the NorthAmerican sit-com The Fresh Prince of Bel Air (quoted in Maz-Arvalo, 2012):
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The choice of this variety is due to the fact that the author lives in Spain and her Facebook network of friends mainly consists of speakers of
Peninsular Spanish. The study of other varieties of Spanish is thus beyond the scope of this paper, although it would be an extremely interesting
subject of study for future research.
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(1)
agreeing
ACCEPTdowngrading
TYPE
enhancing
returning
disagreeing
response
(Face-to-face)
RESPONSE
reject
REJECTquestionning-accuracy
TYPE
challenging-sincerity
shift-credit
informative-comment
evade
EVADEignore
TYPE
legitimate-evasion
request-reassurance
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Drawing on Maz-Arvalos system of Spanish compliment responses, the present paper intends to determine whether
these patterns are also repeated in computer-mediated exchanges. That is to say; the question to be answered is to what
extent computer users transfer these patterns online; in other words, to what extent the use of a different communicative
channel affects our response to compliments. In order to do so, the system of responses illustrated in Fig. 1 was applied to
a corpus of online data, which was gathered and analyzed as described in the following section.
3. Data and methodology
3.1. Why Facebook?
As already pointed out, the present study intends to understand computer-mediated responses to compliments in
Spanish together with finding out up to what extent these match their face-to-face counterpart. More specifically, the
focus is on responses to compliments in social networking sites like Facebook, where the act of complimenting is
ubiquitous.
The reasons why Facebook has been chosen over other computer-mediated types of communication (e.g. chats,
forums, email, etc.) are manifold. First, compliments can be considered as essentially phatic speech acts; their
primary purpose is usually to grease the social wheels (Wolfson, 1983:89) rather than to inform. As such,
compliments are more likely to be present in social networking sites where the maintenance of social relationships is
their raison dtre. As opposed to other ways of computer-mediated communication like blogs or wikis, whose main
goal is the transaction of information, social networking sites such as the one under scrutiny here abound in casual
chit chatting among the participant members, who communicate solely for the pleasure of establishing or keeping
social rapport. This explains the increasing popularity of social networking sites, which are becoming a central part of
many peoples everyday life. Inspection of the data reveals that complimenting exchanges are indeed ubiquitous in
Facebook.
Secondly, the study of face-to-face compliments reveals that it is a speech act which is quite limited to (close) friends,
relatives and acquaintances (Maz-Arvalo, 2010, 2012) rather than strangers. Since Facebook communities tend to be
integrated by (close) friends, relatives and acquaintances or friends of friends who eventually might become friends,2
complimenting behavior and responses in this context roughly reproduce the social conditions of their face-to-face
counterparts.3
Third, social networking sites like Facebook are a good example of different types of online4 interaction since they
combine both synchronous and asynchronous ways of communication like personal email, micro-blogging,5 forums and
chat-room access. Furthermore, even if images and audio-visual links form part and parcel of everyday social networking
routines, most forms of interaction remain purely textual. This also helps simplify the process of data gathering, which is
much less demanding than in face-to-face research.
3.2. Why Netnography?
With regard to the data itself, the computer-mediated corpus6 consists of 16,291 words, which comprise
137 conversational exchanges, 1004 conversational turns and 177 compliments. In the same spirit of ethnomethodology,
computer-mediated data have been collected and analyzed following the methodology known as Netnography, defined
Quite significantly, all these contacts that make up a Facebook community are loosely described as friends.
In this respect, it could be argued that other ways of computer-mediated communication like the popular YouTube also include compliments.
However, the social conditions are unlike those in Facebook since the compliments are perceived rather as piropos coming from strangers and
the complimentee rarely replies to them. In addition, the main objective of these sites is the transaction of information as opposed to more
interactive and what are being increasingly defined as phatic technologies (Miller, 2008).
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As pointed out in the literature, this distinction between online and offline interactions is no longer as neat as it used to be. As a result,
Facebook (and other social networking sites like the Spanish Tuenti) are experiencing a current process of hybridization between physical and
virtual interactions (Yus, 2007). Far from being a disadvantage, this hybrid character entails a new perspective between the purely face-to-face
interactions and the purely virtual ones.
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This is known as the Wall in Facebook, where individual participants of the same group post their opinions and comments for the rest of the
members to read and/or comment in return. Currently, the most popular micro-blog worldwide is probably Twitter.
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Although other forms of interaction online are possible and closer to face-to-face communication (e.g. via webcams or programs like Skype),
they have not been considered in this particular study for being too similar to face-to-face interaction. All the examples proceed from the most
popular social networking site nowadays (i.e. Facebook). More specifically, the examples quoted originated all in the wall where users share
their comments. More private forms of communication like private emails --also within the same site --have not been quoted to preserve the
users anonymity.
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Corpus Tool was designed by Mick ODonnell (2007) at the Universidad Autonoma de Madrid and is available (free of charge) at: http://www.
wagsoft.com/CorpusTool/.
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The exchange has been defined as the minimal interactive unit (Stubbs, 1983:128) and as the basic unit of interaction (Sinclair, 1972:64).
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choices made by its users (in line with Halliday and followers). Secondly, it makes use of Kozinets framework or
netnographic principles (Kozinets, 2010), including informal semistructured interviews9 with eight of the participants.
The selection of the participants was first based on proximity and availability. In other words, it was essential for them to
live in the same city as the author, which made it easier for the interview to take place face-to-face rather than through a
written means. Written answers collected via emails or chats were avoided since I wanted the interviews to be as
spontaneous as possible and with no edition on the participants part, which might have happened had the interviews
been carried out via email.
Selection was then fine-grained so that the interviewees were a representative sample of the participants (the
Facebook community under study includes fifty-eight participants). The age span ranges from mid-twenties to mid-forties,
which also represents the age span of the corpus under investigation. Four of them were male and four female, so that
both sexes had a balanced representation. Their educational background was also taken into account. Thus, four of the
subjects had a college education (two of them even held a PhD) while the other four subjects had secondary education or
primary studies. Finally, it is worth pointing out that not all the eight interviewees use Facebook with the same frequency,
which also represents the sample, with four of the subjects being particularly active as opposed to the other four, who
consider themselves as less frequent and active users.
The interviews were semi-structured; that is, the questions were aimed at getting responses in five key areas of
interest: frequency of use, motivation for using the social network, level of involvement (i.e. lurking or posting actively),
types of posts (e.g. personal photos, videos, etc.) and ways of behavior especially regarding comments and how to
respond to them. Interviews were audio-recorded and transcribed. For the sake of clarity, the transcription of the excerpts
has been kept as straightforward as possible, especially considering that our main interest lies in the content of the
participants responses and not in other aspects (albeit interesting enough) like intonation or kinesics. For the sake of
space, all the excerpts are reproduced just in their English translation.
3.4. Face-to-face versus Facebook complimenting exchanges: departing remarks
As pointed out by Yus (2011:127), it is undeniable that interactions on SNSs [social networking sites] differ from the
ones in physical contexts. In this section, I will concentrate on those differences that can be observed at first sight. Data
inspection in the following section will reveal whether or not these differences affect the way Facebook users respond to
compliments.
On the whole, the most significant differences between Facebook and face-to-face conversational exchanges
(especially in the case of complimenting adjacency pairs10) seem to be as follows:
Disembodiment: face-to-face conversational exchanges involve not only the language interlocutors produce but also
their non-verbal, body language such as gestures or facial expressions. Thus, compliment responses in face-to-face
exchanges can be non-verbal, a mere smile of acceptance or appreciation. Sitting in front of our screen (obviously
without the use of a web cam) disembodies us for our interlocutors, who cannot physically see whether we are smiling,
laughing, or making any other kind of gestures while typing (or reading) our messages. The lack of non-verbal behavior,
however, is not as extreme as the preceding sentences might lead us to believe. In fact, it is well known that computer
users connote their written text with non-verbal information via other resources like emoticons11 or oralization strategies
like capitalization, repetition of characters, exclamation marks, etc. The main difference with non-verbal information in
face-to-face exchanges is that, as pointed out by Yus (2011:165) in text-based chat rooms there is no unintentional
nonverbal behavior.
The synchronous/asynchronous dichotomy: face-to-face conversational exchanges are typically synchronous and
conversational turns flow more or less smoothly and in a relatively fast way for most casual conversations, with frequent
overlapping. Facebook exchanges, on the other hand, are not necessarily synchronous (except for certain applications
like its chat). Thus, it is possible to observe conversations that extend for a couple of days; where different interlocutors
post their responses a while after the initiating move was produced. This asynchronicity, however, is increasingly
9
Initially, a questionnaire was also prepared and launched to gather a wider sample of data (both quantitative and qualitative). The application
used for that purpose was the free online Zoomerang. Unfortunately, during this research, Zoomerang was bought by another company and the
process of data collection could not be completed. The use of the questionnaire was finally discarded, although it is the authors intention to launch
an improved version of the questionnaire for future research.
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The term adjacency pair is used here in the sense of conversational analysis (Sacks, 1995; among many others) as the unit formed by
[initiating move + responding move]. Thus, compliments are typically cases of adjacency pairs, where the initiating move -- i.e. the compliment -- is
expectedly followed by a responding move -- i.e. the response to the compliment.
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The traditional denomination emoticon -- i.e. emotion plus icon -- is preserved in this paper even if I totally agree with Dresner and Herring
(2010) that it is a misleading term since emoticons are not exclusively used to express emotions.
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diminishing especially in the case of hyper-connected users who, via their mobile phones, are alerted every time a new
comment (or post) has been added to a conversation where they are participating members (a thread) so that they
immediately post their own response. In cases like this, responses to initiating moves become practically synchronous, in a
chat-like way. To present, asynchrony (even if slight) is still prevalent in applications like Facebooks wall.
Turn-taking and the number of interlocutors: because of space constraints, control over the number of participants in an
on-going face-to-face conversation is fairly straightforward; that is, we know how many people are taking part or could
be eligible to take part in the conversation. This sense of control is completely lost in Facebook semi-public exchanges
(like those on the wall), where a user posts a video, comment, photo, etc. and is uncertain how many users -- if any -- will
respond to this initiating move. Thus, a conversational exchange on Facebook might involve just the first user (who
initiates the conversation) or an indefinite number of users responding and initiating other conversations within the same
exchange or post.12 Still, analysis of the corpus reveals that the most frequent tendency is to have up to five or even six
interlocutors, although this depends on different contextual factors (e.g. the interest of the post itself, the privacy options
selected by the user, the users number of friends, etc.).
The degree of privacy: it is closely related to the previous point in the sense that many comments posted on the users
wall are sensitive to acquire a public nature. In other words, users comments can be shared by other users, thus
allowing more users to read their publications. Moreover, these publications remain registered as opposed to face-toface conversational exchanges, which can also be casually overhead or even registered. However, while this is
customary in social networking sites, it only happens occasionally in face-to-face exchanges.
Hybridity: The language used remains mostly written albeit interactions inside SNSs exhibit a high oral quality (Yus,
2011:118). Thus, users deploy different oralization strategies (e.g. use of capitalization, letter repetitions, creative use of
punctuation marks, emoticons, etc.) which make the message a mixture of typed and oralized text.13 As pointed out by
Yus (2011:163):
[These] are oralized written texts, hybrids of typed texts and the users willingness to hear their own voices while
they are typing their messages. This written voice leads to a textual deformation that aims at transcribing on the
screen the message that the speaker would have said orally in a face-to-face conversation. (Emphasis in the original)
It is beyond the scope of the present paper to delve into the nature of these oralization marks. Their study in depth is
intended for a forthcoming article.
4. Results and data discussion
This section focuses on the analysis of the findings. For the sake of clarity, it has been divided into three subsections, each
of which corresponds with the three main options of the system: accept, reject and evade. Each of the sub-categories in the
network is described and illustrated with examples from the corpus and results are contrasted with their face-to-face
counterparts both quantitatively and qualitatively, paying attention to the main differences found and how these relate to the
differences in channel (face-to-face versus computer-mediated communication) as exposed in section 3.4.
4.1. Accepting the compliment
As already explained in section 2.1, speakers (or Facebook users) responding to compliments have a complex system
of choices at their disposal. One of these options is to accept the compliment, which amounts to 19.7%, an option much
less favored than in the face-to-face corpus, where accepting the compliment accounted for 47% of the cases (MazArvalo, 2012). This already points, as will be shown in the following sections, towards a more simplified system of
responses online (most likely due to the differences discussed in section 3.4) as compared to its face-to-face counterpart,
where users responses can become quite elaborated as a way of keeping the conversational floor, bringing up new
conversational topics, etc. In sum, accepting the compliment opens up a whole network of different strategies. In the
following paragraphs, I will define and exemplify the strategies under the acceptance umbrella.
For the sake of clarity, all the examples appear both in the Spanish original and the English translation. To maintain the
participants anonymity, names have been deleted and they are all referred to as Users (U), followed by a number referring
to their position as interlocutors in that particular conversational exchange. Finally, the (m) or (f) in brackets indicates
whether the participant is male or female. Equivalents to oralization marks like laughter, character repetitions, etc., are
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One of the most radical examples in the Spanish corpus involves 37 different interlocutors.
Savas (2011) also supports this idea. In fact, some of the informants in her study of chat rooms acknowledged that chatting online was like
talking. While this study does not delve into synchronous chat messages, data also reflect that users opt for a high degree of oralization
strategies.
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also reproduced in the translation. It is also necessary to point out here that those responses combining more than one
strategy have been counted as different responses since interlocutors are, in fact, making different conversational moves
within their conversational turn. The number that precedes each conversational turn refers to its position in the global
corpus. Orthographic and grammatical mistakes have been kept unaltered.
4.1.1. Accept: appreciation
If users choose to accept the compliment, one of the choices they can make is to show signs of appreciation as
illustrated by examples (1) and (2) below:
Example 1: Photograph posted by User 1
479. User 1 (f): De copitas x Menorca
480. User 2 (f): Xxxxx [addressing U1] bonita!!!!. que guapa te veo!!!!
481. U1 (f): muxas gracias carin o!!
Translation:
U1 (f): Wining and dining in Menorca
U2 (f): Cute Xxxxx [addressing U1]!!! How pretty I see you!!!!
U1 (f): Thanx a lot sweetie!!
Example 2: Photo posted by User 2
158. User 1 (f): pero bueno. . .q felinaa!!! guapisimaa!
159. User 2 (f): jajajajaj gracias gracias!!!
Translation:
U1 (f): oh my. . . how feline!!! gorgeouuus!
U2 (f): hahahaha thanks thanks!!!
Thanking the interlocutor for the compliment accounts for 9% of the accepting responses. As shown by the examples,
users simply use the formula thanks (and its variants) or accompany this formula with oralization marks like the
onomatopoeia of laughter, smileys, etc. Occasionally, users are redundant and reduplicate these oralization marks as
shown by example 3 below:
Example 3: User 3 has posted a photograph where she is dressed in a Chinese silky dress. User 4 tries to mimic the
Chinese accent.
198. User 4 (f): hala, lequete espectaculal ests!:)
199. User 3 (f)::) heheh gracias.
Translation:
U4 (f): oh, you look leally spectaculal!:)
U3 (f)::) heheh thanks.
Slightly less often, appreciation is combined with other responses, such as downgrading the compliment or returning it.
In the sections below, each of these strategies will be discussed in more detail.
4.1.2. Accept: agreeing
Users can express their acceptance of the compliment by agreeing with the interlocutor(s) who complimented them, as
in examples (4) and (5):
Example 5: Photo posted by User 2
124. User 6 (f): muuuy tierna la Xxxxxx [in reference to U2] en la foto:)
125. User 2 (f): A m la foto me gusta mucho tambin.
Translation:
U6 (f): veeeery tender the Xxxxx [in reference to U2] in the photo:)
U2 (f): I also like the photo very much.
Inspection of the data reveals that agreeing is not a particularly popular option among Facebook users. In fact, only
2.8% of the sum of responses belongs to this category. One plausible explanation for the low percentage of accept:
agreeing is the already mentioned clash between the maxims of agreeing and modesty when responding to a compliment.
Thus, agreeing with a compliment to oneself can be considered as a lack of modesty. In fact, most cases in the corpus
display a playful character, as shown by examples (6) and (7):
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Example 6: Photo posted by U3 after a concert with friends. Turns 12 and 13 refer to the lyrics of one of the songs played at
the concert.
12. U2 (m): Con unos an os ms como Barbie ser. . .
13. U3 (m): te dar lo que en la tele no se me ve.
14. U4 (f): Tiene como un aura la foto, no??? y no haba 2 fotos?? jajaja, que pena!! Me perd este momentazo!!
15. U3 (m): claro que tiene aura, estbamos con diosss. Xxxxx nos saco 4, pero esta es la nica en la que conseguimos
mantener los ojos abiertos porque su aura nos cegaba!
Translation:
U2 (m): with a few years more I will be like Barbie. . .
U3 (m): I will give you what you cannot see on tv.
U4 (f): The photo has sort of an aura, doesnt it??? And were there not 2 photos?? Hahaha, what a pity!! I missed this great
moment!!
U3 (m): Of course it has aura, we were with goddd. Xxxxx took 4, but this is the only one where we managed to keep our
eyes open because his aura blinded us!
Example 7: The photo pictures Users 1, 2 and 3. User 2 is the one who uploaded it.
72. User 1 (f): madre mia.no hace de esto ni na. estabamos de buen an o.
73. User 2 (f): jejeje
74. User 3 (f): bien guapas que estamos todas
75. User 2 (f): hombre claro!:)
76. User 4 (f): guapas!
Translation:
U1 (f): oh my God. This so was ages ago. We were soooo fat.
U2 (f): hehehe
U3 (f): we all do look very pretty
U2 (f): of course!:)
U4 (f): pretty girls!
4.1.3. Accept: downgrading the compliment
From a pragmatic point of view, downgrading the compliment is a good balance of the maxims of modesty and
agreement. In fact, the complimentee accepts the compliment (i.e. agrees with the speaker) while minimizing it. Despite
its pragmatic appropriateness, this option accounts for only 2.8% of the sum of responses, mirroring face-to-face
exchanges.
In the following example, user 1 downgrades user 2s compliment by commenting on the fact that she is her mother
and, as a result, will always see her pretty. Her modesty is also revealed by the fact that she provides no response to the
compliments paid by users 3 and 4.14
Example 8: Photo posted by User 1
702. U2 (f): pero que guapisimaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
703. U1 (f): se nota q eres mi madre!!. . .un besote
704. U3 (f): Guapa, pero si estas monisima de la muelte.
705. U4 (f): guapa!!!
Translation:
U2 (f): oh how prettyyyyyyyyyyy
U1 (f): you can tell you are my mother!! a big kiss
U3 (f): pretty, you do look deathly cute
U4 (f): pretty!!!
Example 9 serves to illustrate downgrading in combination with other strategies (see above). In fact, User 2 combines
two types of acceptance; accept: appreciation (graciasssssss, thank you) and accept: downgrading (hace un par de
an itos ya, its a couple of years ago already) whereby she implies that she was younger then and youth has an important
influence in beauty.
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As will be explained in the following section, a common strategy is to take advantage of the like application in Facebook. This way, users
acknowledge reception of the compliment (and evaluate it positively) while modestly avoiding any other comments.
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Translation:
U1 (f): THANKS EVERYBODY!!! ITS EVIDENT YOURE THE TOPS!! I LOVE YOU!!
U2 (m): Its obvious you are the tops. Thats why we love you.
Returning the compliment often co-occurs with accept: appreciation, as illustrated by example (13) below:
Example 13: comment on a photo posted by U1, who talks about her own photo of a tattoo in what looks like a private part
of her body. The artist is User 2, to whom the compliment is addressed.
103. User 1 (f): obra de arte gracias a Xxxx [addresses U2]
104. User 2 (m): Gracias, gracias, pero en este caso lo bonito es el lienzo:D
Translation
U1 (f): work of art thanks to Xxxx [addresses U2]
U2 (m): thanks, thanks, but in this case it is the canvas that is lovely:D
In conclusion, accepting the compliment (especially accept: appreciation) is a less frequent option online than in faceto-face exchanges but still fairly common, especially when contrasted with rejecting and evading the compliment (see
sections 4.2 and 4.3). This is also supported by the interviewees comments, seven of whom explicitly point out that they
usually thank users for their positive comments, either in isolation or in combination with other strategies (see below on
Like) as illustrated by the following excerpts:
I do like replying, apart from clicking on Like, I like replying to comments. [. . .] you may make reference to the
comment itself or say thank you.
I almost always click on Like and then I write well thanks and so on and the name of the person.
Accepting: appreciation certainly seems the most frequently used strategy when users choose to type their response to
compliments, even if there are situations where they cannot keep up with all the positive comments they receive. In cases
like these, they also resort to a general thanks, as commented by subject seven:
I try to respond to everyone always with thank you . . . or with Like but there are times I lose track of them, for
example, on my birthday where I got like more than two hundred people writing, I couldnt, I just responded globally,
on my wall, thanks everybody and so on.
Unfortunately, it is beyond the scope of this paper to pay detailed attention to aspects such as gender differences,
which will be tackled in a future article. However, it is still quite remarkable that accept: enhancing (and its related use of
banter or humor) seems to be an option more favored by male users than their female counterparts as stated by subjects
5 and 7 respectively:
Yes, I usually thank or make some kind of joke, depending on the type of comment I get.
I respond with a little hand [i.e. clicking on Like], or thanking, or following the joke.
Future research will determine whether or not this is a statistically significant difference. By now, suffice it to say that
three out of the four male interviewees make explicit reference to the fact that they often respond to compliments in a
mocking tone. This result is also in line with Maz-Arvalos results of face-to-face responses. As she argues (2012:169):
A remarkable difference, however, is that male speakers can be much more original and less formulaic than their
female counterparts when responding to compliments. [. . .] The [male] complimentee responds by enhancing the
compliment paid to him by more than simply agreeing or accepting.
4.2. Rejecting the compliment
Together with acceptance, the other two choices when responding to a compliment are either to reject or to evade it.
From the pragmatic point of view, rejecting a compliment may seem counterintuitive since nobody is displeased
when positively evaluated. At play, however, is again the maxim of modesty. In the clumsy balance between
modesty and agreement, rejecting a compliment tips the balance in favor of the first. Quite surprisingly, to reject the
compliment amounts to only 1.1% of the sum of responses in the corpus. Even more remarkable, however, is the fact
that in the face-to-face corpus, rejecting a compliment amounts to 24.5% (Maz-Arvalo, 2012). In fact, the most typical
way to reject a compliment in Spanish is disagreeing by means of the formulaic responses qu va! or anda ya (come
on or no way). This type of response has become so formulaic in Spanish that it is no longer perceived by the
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interlocutor as a rejection but as a usual way to respond to a compliment without seeming immodest (Maz-Arvalo,
2012).
The reasons underlying this statistically significant difference are threefold. First, the nature of Facebook itself as a
social network advises against disruptive speech acts like rejection, which could be misinterpreted by other users
who are not as close to the interlocutor so as to understand that the comment might be intended as humorous, ironic
or mere banter. Secondly and closely related to the previous reason, interlocutors cannot truly control (as they do in
face-to-face conversational exchanges) how many more users may be seeing their comments, which makes them
more cautious. Finally, the asynchronous character of the channel allows for modesty to be appeased by different
resources like simply not responding to the compliment, something which is unthinkable of in face-to-face
conversational exchanges. One of the interviewees (subject 1) summarizes it rather nicely. Asked why she did not
reject compliments online, as opposed to her face-to-face behavior (where she admitted she did often reject them),
she replied:
To tell the truth, I have never given it a thought. I guess I dont want to sound stroppy, because when you say it faceto-face you always smile or the tone is not that curt as when written. And well, you dont really know who might be
reading your comment, so youd better be discreet (smiles), just in case.
Rejecting a compliment sets up a network of three choices that I will discuss and illustrate in the following paragraphs.
4.2.1. Reject: disagreeing
In this case, the complimentee disagrees with the speaker on the nature of the compliment. After what was mentioned
in the previous paragraphs, it comes as no surprise that there are no examples in the whole corpus. As already discussed,
a social networking site like Facebook is intended to create and maintain social relationships. Its social nature stimulates
agreement and keeps the majority of conversational exchanges within the genre of casual (sometimes merely frivolous)
talk. Disagreement, on the other hand, has the potential of disrupting the interlocutors rapport and can be more often
found in more argumentative genres like the political debate or quarrels.
4.2.2. Reject: question accuracy
The definition is self-explanatory; that is, the complimentee either poses a question about the phrasing of the
compliment or indicates what the interlocutor should have said instead, as in example (14) (part of a longer exchange
about a photograph posted by User 1). Due to the fact that questioning the speaker can be highly face-threatening to them,
this kind of statements is usually accompanied by non-verbal signs marking their humorous tone. Thus, choosing this
option in the system contributes to creating a banter effect among the interlocutors (in a similar way to what accept:
enhancing does) and reinforces the sense of solidarity by following the belief that I can joke with you because our
relationship is far from distant.
Quite curiously, it is again a male user that opts for this humorous kind of response. On the other hand, and because of
the reasons provided at the beginning of the section, making this type of comments can also become pragmatically risky;
which explains why they only account for 0.56% of the cases.
Example 14: Photo posted by User 2
126. U1 (f): Qu joven!
127. U2 (m): Tendras que haber dicho. . .ests igual. . .jejeje
Translation:
U1: How young!
U2: You should have said. . . you look the same. . .hehehe
4.2.3. Reject: challenge sincerity
In these cases, the complimentee challenges the truthfulness of the compliment, considering it as a mere token to
develop a good relationship between the interlocutors but not as a truthful and honest opinion. This is done in a humorous
tone so as not to jeopardize the complimenters face while preserving the complimentees modesty and self-face too.
Example (15) shows this:
Example 15: Photo posted by User 2
158. User 1 (f): pero bueno. . .q felinaa!!! guapisimaa!
159. User 2 (f): jajajajaj gracias gracias!!!
160. User 3 (f): a quin queres seducir con esa mirada!!?
161. User 2 (f): al final me lo voy a creer y todo. . .
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Translation:
U1 (f): oh dear. . . how felinee!!! beautiful!
U2 (f): hahahaha thanks thanks!!!
U3 (f): who do you wanna seduce with those eyes!!?
U2 (f): Ill finally believe it and all that stuff. . .
As in the case of reject: question accuracy, this option is regarded as pragmatically risky, which explains why it is only
followed in 0.56% of the cases.
4.3. Evading the compliment
Finally, the third macro choice a complimentee can make when verbally replying to a compliment is to evade it. Evading
the compliment accounts for 7.9% of the cases in the corpus as opposed to face-to-face exchanges, where it amounted to
28.5% (Maz-Arvalo, 2012). This difference may be accounted by the fact that, in face-to-face exchanges, compliments
can be more face-threatening for the addressee (as shown by physical responses like blushing) than on-line. The
following paragraphs describe and illustrate the strategies interlocutors use when evading the compliment together with
explaining the striking statistical differences.
4.3.1. Evade: shift credit
In face-to-face encounters, complimentees can also evade a compliment by means of different strategies such as
shifting credit. Although far from regular in the oral corpus, this option consists of pointing to a third person as the source of
credit (e.g. my mother knitted it as a response to what a lovely jumper). Example (16) illustrates a shift of credit from
the complimentee to the photographer, who returns the compliment in turn 157:
Example 16: The photo has been posted by U2 and it is her who appears in it.
155. U1 (f): peaso foto! q guay!!!!!
156. U2 (f): el mrito es de Xxxxxx [referring to U3], que es un artistazo!!!
157. U3 (m): qu guapa ella
Translation:
U1 (f): what a pic! So cool!!!!
U2 (f): the merit is all Xxxxxxs [referring to U3], who is a terrific artist!!!
U3 (m): how pretty she looks
As in face-to-face exchanges, this option is also pretty unusual online and only answers for 1.1% of the cases.
One possible explanation is that users shifting credit online want this particular interlocutor to know about it, and
this can only happen if the interlocutor is also a Facebook user in the same network as the speaker, as in example
(16) above, where User 3 in turn compliments User 2 for her comment. Other cases, however, show that shifting
credit does not necessarily require a user who might see the comment, as in (17) below (already partly quoted as
example 3):
Example 17:
195. User 1 (f): woh!
196. User 2 (f): Q guapa! Precioso el vestido!
197. User 3 (f): Gracias! Y gracias a mi amigo Xxxx [addressing someone else] x elegirlo, un cielo
Translation:
U1 (f): wow!
U2 (f): how pretty! Lovely dress!
U3 (f): thanks! And thanks to my friend Xxxx [addressing someone else] for choosing it, a darling
4.3.2. Evade: informative comment
Rather frequent in spoken encounters, this strategy consists of giving the complimenter some relevant
information about the complimented item (e.g. I bought it in Harrods in response to lovely shirt). Example (18)
reproduces an excerpt of a longer exchange where User 4 (the complimentee and the one who posted the photo)
responds to the compliment by informing the different interlocutors of his age when this photo was taken (he is 35
now):
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Exchange 18:
180. U1 (f): Guapooooooooooooo, divino, hermoso!!!
181. U2 (m): si teniamos pelo hasta en las cejas. . .y ese tup tan divino!!!!!!!!!!
182. U3 (f): Xxxxx [addressing U4] no me hagas esto!!! Sabes que estaba loquita por tus huesos en aquella poca!!
Quieres jugar a la ruleta de fortuna??? jajajaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa besos mil!!!
183. U4 (m): 19 an itos
Translation:
U1 (f): handsomeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, divine, beautiful!!!
U2 (m): we had hair even in our eyebrows. . . and that divine forelock!!!!!!!!
U3 (f): Xxxxx [addressing U4] dont do this to me!!! You know I was madly in love with you at that time!! Do you want to play
wheel of fortune???
Hahahahahahaha thousand kisses!!!
U4 (m): just 19 years
As in the previous case, this strategy is rarely used online, where it only amounts to 1.2% of the cases. One of the
reasons for the contrast between online and face-to-face responses seems to be the nature of the complimented tokens.
In face-to-face encounters evade: informative comment is usually reserved to new complimented possessions whereby
complimentees inform their interlocutor of the place where they got that new possession. In online compliments, however,
rarely are new possessions complimented. Instead, the focus is primarily on the persons themselves and their physical
appearance, rather than their possessions. This is clearly a result of the disembodiment present in Facebook, where
interlocutors do not necessarily share a day-a-day face-to-face reality, where new items are likely to be noticed by other
interlocutors. Hence, when informative comments take place, they are usually there to clarify things like the age the user
was when s/he posted the photo or the situation where the photo was taken.
4.3.3. Evade: ignore
Interlocutors choosing this strategy ignore the compliment by keeping to the main topic (if the compliment is an aside
thought), going back to a previous topic or introducing a new one. In other words, no response is provided in this respect.
This, however, should not be confused with not responding verbally to the compliment, which has different implications.
Inspection of the data reveals that this is a frequent case when compliments are linked to appreciations for a previous
service rendered by the complimentee, such as an invitation to lunch. Slightly more frequent than the previous two
cases, evade: ignore accounts for 5.6% of the corpus responses. Example (19) serves to illustrate this sub-category:
Example 19: User 1 has posted a photo showing a common invitation to lunch; the guests all thank and compliment
User 1, who ignores the compliments but shows she is following the conversational thread since she replies to all the
comments:
586. U1 (f): Piscinita y paella!!!
587. U2 (m): Ayyy r bueno!,un besote a los 4,ja,ja,ja!
588. U1 (f): Un besazo amor!!!!k
589. U3 (m): Que suerte cabrones!!
590. U1 (f): Xxxxxxxx [addressing U3]!!!!! Cuando libras????
591. U3 (m): Man ana y pasao!!!!!
592. U4 (m): Xxxxx [addressing U2] cuando quieras t unes!!!! Xxxxxxx man ana tengo medico,cuando salga te llamo!
593. U5 (m): Buena man ana con buena compan a. Gracias chicos!
594. U1 (f): Cuando quieras repetimos!!!!
595. U5 (m): Eso seguro!
Translation:
U1 (f): Swimming pool and paella!!!
U2 (m): Awww how good! A big kiss to the 4 of you, ha,ha,ha!
U1 (f): A big kiss love!!!!k
U3 (m): How lucky, you bastards!!
U1 (f): Xxxxxxxx [addressing U3]!!!!! When are you free????
U3 (m): Tomorrow and the day after!!!!!
U4 (m): Xxxxx [addressing U2] you can join us whenever you want!!!!
Xxxxxxxx [addressing U3] tomorrow Ive got a doctors appointment, when I
am out, Ill call you!
U5 (m): Good morning in good company. Thank you guys!
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first place. As an example, this is what three of the interviewees replied when asked what photographs they chose to
share:
Subject 1:
Well, I usually upload those photos where I look pretty, haha. Im not going to upload one where I look ugly, am I?
Ive got my friends to do that, hahaha.
Subject 2:
I upload photos where I like the way I look, for me it is like being on display and I want people to like what they see.
Subject 5:
To tell the truth I had never thought about it but I guess I upload photos I like and which I think my friends might also
like.
In the case of face-to-face encounters, Maz-Arvalo (2012:11--14) mentions examples where complimentees are
genuinely unsure whether or not they are worth the compliment.
As seen throughout the above paragraphs, users who are complimented may choose to respond in various ways.
Some examples, however, show a display of different strategies for responding to the compliments received. This is
clearly illustrated by example (21) below where User 1 employs several strategies for responding to the compliments on
her photograph. Thus, turn 117 shows a complex mixture of appreciation (thanks), downgrading (I think I look like a
happy junkie), and informative (I had just taken a huge 500 tablet). Later on, in turn 120, she resorts to a more
humorous tone by using acceptance: enhancing (I just transmit peace and good vibes. I am like a yoga session. No, I am
not talking about tantric sex.) before finally ending with acceptance: agreeing (I also like the photo very much). This
example is far from the only one where users display quite complicated responses, very much in line with what happens in
face-to-face responses in Spanish (Maz-Arvalo, 2012).
Example 21:
116. User 2 (f): Qu guapa en la foto Xxxxxxx [addressing User 1]!!
117. User 1 (f): Gracias! A m me parece que tengo cara de drogada contenta (y de hecho, tena jaqueca y acababa de
meterme un pastillaco de 500), pero hay a quien le gusta, as que. . .
118. User 3 (f): Mari, aparte de monrrima, que t siempre
119. User 3 (f): con cualquier cosita que te pones (o que te quitas) . . .mirar tu foto es bueno pa la salud, ya que se
requiere hacer el pino y doblar el pescuezo: una asana de yoga. Asaaaaaaaaaaaaanaaa, asaaaaaaaaaaanaaaaaaa. . .
120. User 1 (f): Es que yo transmito paz y buen rollo. Soy como una sesion de yoga. No, no estoy hablando de sexo
tntrico. [. . .]
124. User 6 (f): muuuy tierna la Xxxxxx [addressing User 1] en la foto:)
125. User 1 (f): A m la foto me gusta mucho tambin.
Translation:
U2 (f): How pretty in the photo Xxxxxxx [addressing User 1]!!
U1 (f): Thanks! I think I look like a happy junkie (in fact, I had a headache and had just taken a huge 500 tablet), but there
are others who like it, so. . .
U3 (f): apart from loveliest, you always
U3 (f): anything you wear (or take off) . . . looking at your photo is good for ones health, since its necessary to stand upside
down and bend your neck: a yoga asana. Asaaaaaaaaaaaaaanaaa, asaaaaaaaaaaanaaaaaaaaaaaa. . .
U1 (f): I just transmit peace and good vibes. I am like a yoga session. No, I am not talking about tantric sex.
U6 (f): veeeery tender Xxxxx [addressing User 1] in the photo:)
U2 (f): I also like the photo very much.
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An important limitation of the initial system for face-to-face responses was the exclusion of non-verbal
responses. It is true that in face-to-face exchanges many non-verbal responses (e.g. blushing, ticks, etc.) are
unintended by the interlocutors producing them and, although communicative in their own right, cannot be really
considered as part of the intended illocutionary force of the response. In contrast, all the responses provided by
Facebook users are intentional and should be analyzed as such. Yus already points at this lack of un-intentionality
in text-based chat rooms, which is also applicable to Facebook conversational threads. In his own words (2011:
165--166),
In text-based chat rooms there is no unintentional nonverbal behavior, that is, information conveyed nonverbally
that the users exude without consciously intending to communicate it, because all written texts involve a willingness
to produce them. (Emphasis in the original)
Hence, the first significant choice the complimentee faces online is actually whether to provide a typed response or not.
This option, however, is not feasible in face-to-face conversations where compliment exchanges are a clear example of
adjacency pairs where the initiating move (the compliment) is expectedly followed by a response. As already pointed out,
this response can also be non verbal (e.g. a smile, a shrug, etc.) but its complete absence is marked in face-to-face
conversational encounters and can be interpreted by the speaker either as a sign of rudeness or as a failure to have
correctly received the initiating move.
In contrast, in the case of online compliments non-response has become quite common, especially in those cases
where users are far from hyper-connected and it might take days for them to check their Facebook comments. Thus, these
comments are likely to be deemed too old to be worth replying to. In fact, this seems to be the excuse given by users
when asked why they have not replied to a comment, especially in the cases of older users. As opposed to their face-toface counterparts, however, the absence of a response in this context is not considered either rude or a communication
failure but rather a natural effect of the asynchronous character of the channel, as illustrated by examples (22) and (23)
below:
Example 22: Photo posted by User 1 where there appear a couple of her relatives. None of the relatives (who also are
Facebook users and who have indeed seen the post, since they were labeled), make any comments.
691. U2 (f): La mejor pareja del mundo!!!!k
692. U3 (f): pero mira qu estn guapos!!!
[End of exchange]
Translation:
691. U2 (f): The best couple in the world!!!!k
692. U3 (f): How attractive they look!!!
Furthermore, when asked whether they were offended by not being responded to, all the interviewees replied that they
were far from being offended when some users did not provide any response. The usual explanation interviewees
offered was related to the asynchronous nature of Facebook, as the following two extracts (subjects 3 and 7 respectively)
show:
I dont get offended although I do know people who have got offended because their sister-in-law hasnt given any
opinion about her photo, or her cousin or someone. [. . .] I personally dont mind. [. . .] I understand there are people
who check Facebook once a month, once a week, once every three months, or once or twenty times a day, but one
knows that.
[. . .] There are people who are not all day checking out Facebook, they are not going to see it, obviously, or when
they have just entered the last minute news, the comment is not there anymore. [. . .] I mean, Im not going to pay
attention to who makes me comments and who doesnt, obviously. [. . .] I also comment sometimes and there are
times when I dont comment anything.
Together with asynchrony, another major reason for not providing a response seems to be modesty. As already
pointed out, responding to compliments can be highly face-threatening for the interlocutors since it entails a clash between
the two maxims of agreement and modesty. While modesty is typically solved off-line by other strategies such as evading
or downgrading the compliment, the online nature of Facebook allows interlocutors to make use of other tactics, such as
not providing any response at all. It is difficult to determine whether the absence of response is due to the low-profile nature
of the interlocutor (that is, they do not connect to Facebook regularly) or to modesty. It could also be due to a combination
of both:
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Example 23: photo posted by User 1, who does not give any responses, either because she has failed to see the
comments or because it is such a proliferation of compliments that she feels overwhelmed or too modest to answer.
706. U2 (f): guau! qu bellezon
707. U3 (f): guapa. . .valla tela.
708. U4 (f): que guapa!!!
709. U5 (f): Guapa, guapa y guapa!!!
710. U6 (f): guapaaaaa, hoy te hemos hechado [sic] de menos, luego nos vemos
711. U7 (f): Estas ms guapa que nunca, se te nota en la mirada.
Translation:
U2 (f): wow! what a beauty
U3 (f): pretty. . . oh my god.
U4 (f): how pretty!!!
U5 (f): pretty, pretty and pretty!!!
U6 (f) prettyyyyyy, today weve missed you, see you later
U7 (f): you look prettier than ever, your eyes can tell.
The role played by asynchrony and modesty is also commented by the subjects interviewed. Subjects 1 and 2
respectively point out that:
I connect relatively little in comparison with other people. When I see the comments, it is very late to say anything in
response, but I know my contacts know I dont usually look at it [Facebook].
No, I dont usually answer anything, basically because I feel ashamed. Lots of people see it, so I feel ashamed to
respond to compliments, I think it is hardly modest. Sometimes, if I like the comment very very much, I do click on the
Like little hand.
Not responding to compliments accounts for 30% of the cases in the corpus, as opposed to 41.3% of the cases,
where interlocutors choose to respond in what could be defined as an implicit way rather than typing a response. In
other words, implicit responses are those where the complimenter does not provide a written response as the ones
analyzed in section 4 of this paper. Data reveal that, in this case, users can opt for providing a non-verbal response like
smileys and other emoticons, onomatopoeia, etc. or simply click on the Like option provided by Facebook. Example
(24) serves as an illustration, where User 1s response to the different compliments paid is either to like the
compliment (which she does in every single case) or to accompany this like with an emoticon, as can be observed in
turn 736 (in bold):
Example 23: User 1 has posted a photo of her kid
733. U2 (f): kkk
734. U3 (f): Es preciosa!!
735. U4 (f): Man ana me la pienso comer a besos k
736. U1 (f):;))
737. U5 (f): de verdad, no hay otra igual es feliz !!!!!
738. U6 (f): es una preciosidad, pero qu estilo posando:)
739. U7 (f): ESta bellisima!!! muy pero muy grande!!! y que poses por Dios!!!
Translation:
U2 (f): kkk
U3 (f): Shes beautiful!!
U4 (f): Tomorrow Im going to eat her with kisses k
U1 (f):;))
U5 (f): really, there is not another like her, shes happy!!!!!
U6 (f): shes a beauty, what a posing style:)
U7 (f): shes absolutely beautiful!!! very very grown-up!!! and her pose, oh my God!!!
The first of these choices -- i.e. providing a non-verbal response by means of e.g. emoticons -- is relatively uncommon
(only 3% of the examples). In contrast, the second option; that is, clicking on Like, is extremely popular (38.3% of the
cases) as well as extremely convenient from the pragmatic point of view. The complimentee does not waste any time at all
to type an answer while politely acknowledging both the reception and appreciation for the compliment. This is very nicely
pointed out by subject 7:
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I dont know, well, I think its fine, when there is something you like and if you have the option of saying so its fine.
[. . .] Its very convenient, I click the button quickly so that the person knows I have read it. Many times you dont have
the time to respond to everyone who writes to you and Like is like a compliment, its like I like it, very well.
Male subjects 5 and 8, however, point out to a hidden agenda when using this Like strategy. Thus, subject 5
mentions that he chooses this possibility (Like) when he does not have time to think of a more creative answer:
I click on Like when I dont have any funny comment to make or when I dont have time to think about what to write.
For subject 8, it is a convenient way of acknowledging the reception of the message while keeping a polite (albeit not
necessarily sincere) behavior towards the interlocutor:
I click on Like and thats all, I dont give a damn about Facebook, Facebook is, well, I am not a busybody, and
Facebook is for busybodies, only that, to gossip about this ones profile or that ones profile, see what this one is
doing, see what she is doing. [. . .] I click on Like because I feel obliged to do so, for people to see that I have seen
it.
In sum, data reveal that Facebook users follow the system of face-to-face responses only partially. Typed (or verbal)
responses are far from the favored strategy and, although used in 28.7% of the cases, participants prefer making use of
the tools provided by the application (i.e. the like sign) or just leave compliments unanswered, taking advantage of the
social networking sites asynchronous nature. This leads to a re-structuration of the whole system online where both
simplification (as far as verbal responses are concerned) and amplification (as far as other strategies are concerned) coexist. This new system is illustrated in Fig. 2.
appreciation
accept
agreeing
ACCEPTdowngrading
TYPE
enhancing
returning
EXPLICITquestionning-accuracy
(WRITTEN)-RESPONSE reject REJECTTYPE
challenging-sincerity
response
evade
shift-credit
EVADEinformative-comment
TYPE
ignore
use-of-emoticons
IMPLICITRESPONSE use-of-the-"like"-application
NOno-response-is-provided
RESPONSE
Fig. 2. System of online Spanish response to compliments.
6. Conclusions
This paper intended to find out to what extent the users of social networking sites like Facebook transfer the patterns of
face-to-face exchanges when interacting online. More specifically, the analysis has focused on responses to compliments
online as opposed to their face-to-face counterparts. Results show that aspects such as disembodiment, asynchronicity
or relative lack of privacy have a crucial say in how interlocutors respond to compliments; leading both to a simplification of
some strategies and the amplification of others and resulting in a different system of responses.
Some limitations to the study have to be acknowledged, however. Variables such as gender or age seem to play a core
role in how social networking site users respond to compliments. As was pointed out, it was beyond the scope of this paper
to pay full attention to the influence of such complex variables. Given their complexity they have not been studied in depth
here. Far from being neglected, these aspects will be addressed in future analyses so as to gain a better understanding of
social interaction in this relatively new but thriving scene (i.e. social networking sites).
Finally, the oralization marks present in such a hybrid communicative means like Facebook or the contrast between
Spanish and other languages like English (or other Spanish varieties) are other aspects worth considering in future
research.
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Acknowledgments
I would like to thank all the participants who have made this study possible. My special thanks go to the eight
participants who agreed to be interviewed and whose comments shed light on the results. Also, I would like to
acknowledge that this research was financially supported by a grant from the Spanish Ministry of Science and Innovation
(ID No: FFI2009-7308). This paper is part of a long-term research project: Functions of Discourse: Evaluations in Text
Types. Of course, all mistakes remain exclusively mine.
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Carmen Maz-Arvalo obtained her PhD in English Linguistics in 2001, being an English teacher since 1995. Currently Dr. Maz-Arvalo holds
the position of full time lecturer at the Universidad Complutense, where she is teaching Pragmatics, Semantics and English. Her fields of interest
are mainly speech act theory, politeness, gender and language and applied linguistics. She has published several articles on these issues and
taken part in numerous congresses, both national and international. Besides her research and teaching activities, Carmen Maz-Arvalo is also
the secretary of the Revista de Estudios Ingleses, published yearly by the Universidad Complutense de Madrid.