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Potrivit Vedelor sunt sapte tipuri de relarii pe care le putem experimenta in
timpul vietii. Aceste sapte tipuri aduc o anumita armonie intre doi oameni,
corespunzator celor sapte chackre: chackra radacina, chackra sacrala, plexul solar, centrul
inimii, al treilea ochi, chackra coroana.

Chackrele tale sunt centrii energetici ai trupului tau de lumina, ai trupului spiritual. Fiecare
chackra controleaza diferite arii ale vietii si atunci cand poti armoniza si curata chackrele,
incepi sa-ti armonizezi si purifici viata simultan. Starea unei chackrelor poate influenta
multe aspecte ale vietii, inclusiv casatorii sau relatii de dragoste acestea fiind tema
articolului de azi.
Potrivit Vedelor, chackra care este cea mai activa in cadrul relatiei, etermina ambitiile,
scopul relatiei. Deci, daca relatia este ancorata in chackra radacina, intelegerea ta privind
fericirea familiala in cadrul casatoriei va fi sub influenta fortelor guvernate de chackra
Chackrele inferioare, Muladhara, Swadhistana, Plexul Solar (Manipura) tind sa
induca mai multe situatii de nefericire, pe cand centrii superiori, Anahata,
Vishuda, Ajna si Sahasrara aduc mai multe oportunitati de fericire, implinire.
Putem strabata drumul chackrelor si atinge nivele mai inalte. Cand putem activa centrii
superiori, cei inferiori se deschid de la sine, frumos, de asemenea. Acest articol se refera la
acesti sapte centri energetici si la tipurile de relatii ce rezulta din influenta lor.


Chackra radacina este conectata la instinctele noastre primare. Este foarte mult
influentata de energia noastra sexuala. Este numita chackra nstinctului
supravietuirii.The root chakra is connected to our primal instincts. It is greatly influenced
by our sexual energy. I call it our survival instinct chakra because its sexual energy
motivates us to have children and continue our lineage and because it motivates us to
stay alive, and can keep us away from physical danger. The root chakra is also connected
with selfishness and ego two factors that are of utmost important to those who are
motivated to survive. We use our selfishness to protect our needs, and we use our
ego to protect our emotions.


The root chakra couple are motivated by their enjoyment of each other.


They usually meet in night clubs, bars, parties, or other places of entertainment. Of course
there are relationships under the influence of higher chakras that may also meet at these
locations, merely by happenstance, but the key differentiation here is that, there couples
tend to go to these places IN ORDER TO FIND their future husband/wife. The women are
usually attracted to how attractive or cool the man looks.


Root chakra couples are ruled by the planet mars, and tend to have an intense honeymoon
period, and aspects of this can feel a lot like love to them. Of course with time, the honey
moon period gradually fades, and then they are usually left with bitterness and
disappointment. Aspects of the honeymoon period can feel a lot like love to them. The
relationship tends to be very up and down, never quite finding the right balance. They
experience dizzying highs and deep lows. Their relationship becomes riddled with
contradictions like I love you, I dont love you anymore, Do this for me, and I will love
you, I love you but I will also cheat on you, I love you, but might leave you, I am
leaving you and you must come after me. They become trapped within themselves. They
either want to rush into marriage very quickly, or delay it completely and indefinitely. If
they do get married, its usually because of a very strong emotional dependence on each
other, and not love. They just want to be together.


The Sacral chakra is the spiritual energy center connected to happiness, confidence and
resourcefulness. It is also linked to the negative shades of greed, fear and self
preservation. A couple that makes a connection through their sacral chakra, create a love
that is based on a mutual desire for comfort and wealth. This chakra is influenced by the
planet Venus. When this couple come together they first harmonize on the sacral level,
and over time the root chakra may open up as well. This will result in the pleasures and
also challenges of The Root Chakra couple also coming to play in the dynamic of their
relationship. Their Sacral couples mutual desire for wealth and comfort appears to be
more stable than the Root Chakra couple, but the Sacral chakra is still considered one of
the lower energy centers and so, it will continue to bring more opportunities for

unhappiness, than it does for happiness.

Of course, it is not wrong to desire a comfortable life, or to want to have a beautiful and
cozy home. The troubles arise when the couples make attaining this material success the
main goal of their relationship and thats what the sacral couple tend to do.


To have a comfortable life. To own cozy house, beautiful furniture, flashy cars etc. To create
their own cozy, comfortable and wealthy home together.


Expensive restaurants, beautiful resorts, elite dinner parties, work events.


The solar plexus is the power center of our energy chakras located in our light body. The
solar plexus is connected to our ambitions and goals. Material pleasures in life can be
further divided into two forms: the heavy and the subtle. The heavy worldly material
pleasures are things like beautiful things houses, cars, objects. This is what the Sacral
Chakra Couple aspires too. One step higher than this is the subtle form of wordily material
pleasures which is the search for fame, prestige, and power. This is what the Solar Plexus
Couple aspires to. They want to get married for power and prestige. Many famous people
have relationships based on the solar plexus center. This center is influenced by the sun,
which has a masculine nature and encourages people under its influence to find their place
in society.
In order to achieve harmony on this level, the couple has to work very hard on themselves
in order to overcome their high expectations of the future. They must cultivate
unselfishness and submissiveness in order to access the ability of changing their character.
Without that, they will never be able to change who they are. When a person meets
another with a similar desire, they create a family together. They work very hard together
to attain their goals. If they remain focused, then eventually they will achieve the power
and fame that they wished for. When they achieve this honor and prestige, the conflicts
within their personal life will begin. The husband begins to feel more and more proud of
what he has achieved in life. The wife, on the other hand, begins to feel more and more
that without her none of this would have even been possible in the first place. This
begins to cause underlying resentment in the family.


Power, prestige and fame. To be respected in society.


Special invitation parties, elite societies and meetings, sports clubs, political events etc.


People who want to create a family in order to achieve fame and prestige, usually exercise
and practice their self control from a young age. They have a competitive nature. They
may participate in sports or study how to concentrate better. They do what they can to be
better than the ones around them. It comes very naturally to them. They naturally want to
be leaders of their friends. They are interested in things like management, but they usually
tend to be a little bit arrogant by nature and quickly categorize the people they meet in
relation to them.
As you can see, people under the influence of the solar plexus do engage in selfdevelopment but they focus on the darker aspect of it. In their search for fame and
prestige, they lose the ability to cultivate humility. While they work on themselves to
become superior to those around them, they simply learn how to control others and
increase their pride. When a person becomes more and more powerful, their pride,
intolerance, and anger also grow. So while they are engaging in some sort of self
development through self control, they use it for lower level motivations.


The best thing for them to do as a couple would be to stop interfering in each other lives
and instead focus on making themselves better people but their ambitions and drive for
success and perfection wont let them do that. They look to their partners to help them
achieve their fame and success, and when it doesnt happen as seamlessly as they want,
they turn their attention onto changing their partner. However, they wont be able to do
that either, and they will start getting frustrated. They cant change people by simply
preaching to someone all the time. They cant change their partner by yelling at them.
Nothing changes. So as time goes by, they begin to feel like they are just living with
strangers. They start getting disappointed by everything. Only their mutual interest in
maintaining outward appearances and their outward social status holds their relationship
The only way for the solar plexus couple to change their fate is by changing their beliefs
about life to understand that there are more important things to wish for than fame.
They must set their sights on spiritual goals rather than material goals otherwise they
will find that they will always be disappointed in their life.


The Heart Centered Couple is the first chakra under the higher level energy centers and
therefore, is the first chakra to yield a favorable relationship. Thus, this couple will have
more opportunities for happiness than opportunities for unhappiness. They usually have
lasting marriages. These favorable relationships give both people the chance to cleanse
their consciousness, to work through their karma, and to fulfill their dharma.

This type of couple are very interested in working on their character and self development.
They wish happiness to those around them.. They tend to be involved in charity,
volunteering and in someway assisting their community. They respect their elders and
listen to their advice. They generally do not go through problems regarding understanding
one another in their married life. Their problems generally arise through fate, and the
obstacles that life brings their way. But they understand each other well and have a desire
to make their partner happy. These marriages tend to be very stable, and the couple are
blessed with lots of friends, and wealth comes easily and naturally to them although they
never feel the need to depend on that either. If they hare given wealth, they use it for
universal goodness and happiness. And if they are not given wealth, they do not curse the
universe for it either.


Following moral principles together and uphold values in their family that provide peace
and happiness.
This is a love that is based on the desire to bring happiness and peace to others, including
their partners.


Places where they are around people pursuing similar interests for example yoga classes,
meditation centers etc. They tend to meet at communities that are striving for happiness.


People guided by their heart center feel inclined to fill their hearts with optimism and joy.
They wish wellbeing and goodness to those around them, and are naturally involved in
helping people of the community through community service. They feel a duty to
volunteer. They are raised to be generous people. They understand the importance of
honesty and are usually respected and liked by people.

They are interested in choosing a good partner for themselves, and take the time to learn
about relationships and prepare themselves for their commitments. The heart chakra
center is under the influence of the moon, which brings peace. They do not want to bring
harm to others, including to their partners. They want to make sure everything around
them is in harmony and balance.
They are hard working and responsible, and spend their free time on activities that
enhance their character and make them into better people. Heart centered women are
calm women. They dress modestly and have respect for all people around them, specially
their elders.
The heart chakra couple tend to ask people for advice when choosing their husband/wife.
The children of heart-centered parents listen to them. They tend to ask their parents for
advice about life. They are also willing to listen to them. This is not found easily on the
lower centers, because the lower centers do not allow the parents to cultivate humility.
Without cultivating humility a parent cannot make the child listen to them, or to be
completely open and trusting to their suggestions and advices.
This is not to say that children will never listen to parents from lower chakra center
relationships. However, these children are more likely to follow their parents behaviors and
learn from them and do as they do. They wont care much to listen to what their parents
have to say about it. However, if you want to be able to influence your children with your
words, then you must have harmony on a higher chakra level.


The heart centered couple does not usually encounter big problems in understanding each
other, because they both hold the principle belief that they should bring joy to their
partner, and not pain. So they try to avoid causing hurt to each other. By doing this, they
naturally focus on understanding each other better too. Their marriage is usually stable
and strong and have many good friends. Friends of the family wish them well and wish
them happiness.
Of course, they are not immune to challenges and will face problems in areas of life as
most people do, but the key thing about the heart centered couple is that overcoming
these struggles strengthens their relationships, deepens their love and thickens their
respect for one another.
Their main challenge will come in simply deepening their understanding of life and
spiritual practice and cultivating an even more serious attitude towards perfecting

Another key challenge for the heart centered couple is that by behaving the way they do,
they tend to naturally attract material wealth quickly, which encourages them to relax.
There is the danger of arrogance and the increased desire to spend more money, which of
course, leads to problems both inside and outside the relationship. They also begin to
attract lots of friends and people who like to spend time with the couple. These friends
spend a lot of time in the couples home because they have such a great energy there. The
problem with this is that it encourages the couple to engage in idle talk, to discuss
unimportant, unfavorable and unnecessary things all the time.
However, as time passes, as fate would have it, heart centered people generally tire of
material wealth, get bored of it and naturally retreat away from it.


Those motivated by the throat chakra (the ruling planet mercury) are inclined to perfect
their senses. They want to tune in their senses into the ethereal world. They practice
meditation to have a higher level of senses. So that they can hear, feel, see, know and
understand their messages from the universe. hey wish happiness to everyone they think
It is also important for throat centered couples to cultivate self control and honesty. They
do not let their earthly emotions control their experience of life instead they act from a
higher place. By controlling their emotions and not acting on every egotistic and emotional
impulse, they train themselves to access a greater and more profound understanding and
connection with the truth. They act from here. They are very good at controlling their ego
and their emotions. They do not waste time in unfavourable conversations, and they do
not engage in self flattery or showing off. They are very humble people. They are
determined in achieving their goal of refining their senses and controlling their emotions
and ego. They like to spend time amongst highly spiritual thinkers and leaders. It is only at
the throat level that a person can become a successful spiritual guru or leader to others.
This is because it is only at this level that a person has successfully purified their
consciousness to an extent that they would not be passing on their own bad karma to their
students. At this level, they would be practicing what they preach all the time. At this level
they would begin to experience true psychic knowledge.
The throat chakra couple are a rare couple to come across. They tend to be very talented
people. They tend to feel the world with their senses rather than live through it. Because
of this deeply intuitive approach to the world, they live in deep harmony with their world.
They tend to be naturally poetic with their words. They understand the power of sound and
the power of words, so they choose them carefully and beautifully. Because they develop
their senses so much, and try to tune it into the subtle nature of the universe and its
energetic voice, they also simultaneously develop their taste in the arts. They have a well
refined musical, artistic and poetic taste. They are able to perceive beauty and delicacy in

every day things. They know what matter that is perceived by their senses is good for their
soul. These people tend to have a very mystical and magical marriage together. They
understand each other deeply and completely. They can always relate to each other and
feel deep empathy towards one another. They feeleach other, even from far away
distances. They communicate with their thoughts and feelings rather than words; if one
thinks of something, the other one has a sense of it already. Their marriage will last many
lives, and they have certainly been together in previous lives too. They both have very
good karma that they will work through together. Often their connection is so strong that
they will always find each other in whichever life they are in. Sometimes they can even
find each other at very big distances apart. Sometimes a man will move to another country
just to pick up his soulmate. They know from the first glance of each other that they were
meant to be together and to find happiness together.
The throat centered couple are able to give birth to very talented children. Their children
will also practice self realization, self development and self perfection.


Those under the influence of their third-eye or brow chakra, are ruled by the planet Saturn.
These are people who have been practicing self realization for many lives. The couple
come together to practice self perfection together. They have a very deep psychic
harmony that allows them to completely give their lives to each other. They are committed
to studying the highest truth of the universe. They want to experience God. This
relationship is very rare. These people are usually spiritual teachers. They live simply for
other people and not for themselves. When a couple has harmony on this level they only
want to make other people happy. Sometimes this couple abstain from sexual relations
with each other. They simply live together to help each other on their spiritual path.


Those activated at the crown chakra, ruled by the planet Jupiter, create an unearthly and
mystical love. They abstain completely from sex. The woman thinks of her husband as her
teacher, her guru, and she trusts him completely. She is always loyal to him. Her husband
behaves as a saint would. After they die, they go into the spiritual world, where they can
be together forever. They have completed their work.
This is a very high level type of love.

Thanks to Malavika Sureshfor this article