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R.AGE
By NIKI CHEONG
alltherage@thestar.com.my
Message received?
form which
means it really
only works if
both users are
using an iOS
device.
Waitaminute,
isnt that one of
the reasons Apples
Facetime hasnt really
taken off?
While it is about time
that Apple came up with a messaging system (heck, there are already
four incarnations of the iPhone),
youd think that it would take into
account what else is out there.
For a while now, there has
been quite a bit of pressure on the
BlackBerry to bridge its BBM to
other platforms. Understandbly,
the company has been resisting the
idea (although, there have been
rumours that RIM is considering it)
as the BBM, besides its powerful
push system for e-mail, is arguably
its strongest selling point.
But what is Apples excuse?
Already, group messaging systems such as WhatsApp are already
gaining major popularity due to its
ability to bridge different platforms,
whether its Apple, BlackBerry or
Android devices.
These systems work the same
way as the BBM and now, the iMessages, except that you can chat
with people using different mobile
devices. Most of its general features
are similar, and the only downside
is that they are not native to oper-
Suspicious
of stepmum
AM 14 years
old and I
have a problem with my
stepmother. Ive
been checking
her SMS messages for about a year
now because I suspect she is cheating
on my father. She uses words such as
darling in her messages to someone.
She also used an ellipsis instead of a name
for that number, which makes me even
more suspicious of it being a man.
Occasionally, she would go out during
the evenings to meet up with her friends.
One day, my brother and I were visiting my
friends house when we saw her ringing the
doorbell of another house down the road.
She was greeted by a man and they proceeded inside.
My brother and I were horrified so I copied the secret phone number and decided
to give it a call from a public phone. To my
horror, the person who picked up the phone
was a man.
Ive been living in fear of my stepmother
cheating on my father for a year now. I know
my father loves her very very much but I
dont think she feels the same for him. If I
tell my father, he might break up with her.
If I dont, Ill live like this till something else
happens.
The last thing I want to see is a divorce.
What should I do? I need help. Lost
Without A Clue
Su Ann
The situation that you have just described
is extremely vague, and it seems that you
are filling in a lot of the blanks with paranoia
and highly dramatic scenarios.
Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Inc, introducing the companys new operating systems at the World Wide Developers
Conference in San Francisco, California, earlier this week.
ating system, the way the BBM is to
the BlackBerry OS and iMessages to
the iOS.
Apple has a reputation for being
protective of its products but unlike
BlackBerry, this messaging system
is not its only (or strongest) selling
point.
In an age where people are starting to question Facebooks attempts
Rusyan
Be careful of reading too much into what
your stepmother is doing because it will
always be hard to get the whole story from
the small moments that you see. What you
build from your suspicions could be something completely different from whats actually happening.
Its difficult, but keep calm because uncontrollable emotions will make a tough situation worse. Try talking to your father about
it. Your feelings are real, and you have every
right to express your concerns to him. But
understand that at the end of the day, your
actions (even as their daughter) are limited.
The issues that your father and stepmother
face must be discussed and worked out
between the two of them.
how ever their marriage turns out is, ultimately, up to them.
This is why you cannot allow yourself to
drown in their issues. Youve got every right
to express yourself to your parents about
whats going on and offer any help or sup-
hey guys, just hit us up with any problems you have in life in Ask Anything.
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life experiences (ahem!). They will part
with some sound advice that might help
you make your life altering decisions.
If you have anything thats troubling
you, get in touch with us at
ask.anything@thestar.com.my. You
can use a pseudonym but include your
name, contact number/e-mail address/
postal address in your letter.
port that theyll need. But dont anchor yourself in the problems adults face. Youve got
your own life to build and explore.
There will be tense times, but learn to separate yourself from whats bothering you so
you can focus on yourself. Reach out to your
friends, and remember to spend time with
them. Focus on school and the things you
love to do in your spare time. Youre lucky
youve got a brother to lean on, too, so make
sure you support each other and spend more
time together.