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room through ,prayer and meditation are at that moment inspired


. to do the same in their own life when they are older. They become
the elite of society, the pillars of strength to the community during

It Out On the Children times of stress and hardship. These children' when older will surely
uphold the principles of dharma and will not succumb to the
temptations of the lower mind.
The flower penance: Those who have been physically abused are
as much in need of penance to mitigate the experience as are those
Corporal punishment defeats its own purpose, causing who ,abused them. The penance, or prayashchitta, for abusees is
called the flower penance, or pushpa prayashchitta. It has been suc-
harm th~t is difficult to forgive . .. but forgive we must cessfully performed by many children and adults to mitigate the
hate, fear, resentment and the dislike toward tHe parents, teachers
or other adults who beat Ylem, by hitting, pinching, slapping, can-
B Y, SAT G U R U S I V A Y A SUB RAM U N I Y A S W A M I ing, spanking or other methods of corporal punishment. This pen-
ance is very simple to perform, but often very difficult to carry out.
HE WHOLE WORLD IS REEVALUATING never spank or beat Each person-child or adult- who has been beaten at any time,
HOW we treat women, children, the aged children, ever. Those no matter how long ago, is enjOined to put up in the shrine room a
and infIrm. Ways of behaving toward our who are physically pun- picture of the person or persons by whom they were beaten, be it a
fellow human beings that were normal and
acceptable one hundred years ago are no longer
ished are taught to later
punish their children.
father, mother or teacher. Then, every day for thirty-one consecu-
tive days, without missing a single day, he or she must place a flower
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acceptable. We now comprehend, as never be- 'ifhis is a vicious cycle in front of each pieture, and sincerely forgive the person in heart
fore, the tragedy of a battered wife or an abused that can only be broken and mind. If no picture is available then some symbol or possession
or neglected infant. Shamefully, we do not always by the child's later, as an can be substituted, or even a paper with their name written on it.
live up to the Hindu ideal in these areas. adult, facing and forgiv- When it becomes difficult to offer the flower of forgiveness be-
What is that ideal? It is this: Never injure oth- ing the way he was mis- cause hurtful memories come up from the subconscious mind, the
ers. Hindu children are always treated with great treated and vowing to individual must perform the vasana daha tantra, writing down the
respect and awe, for one does not always know not do the same to his hurtful memories and burning the paper in a trash can. This tantra
who they are. They may be incarnations of a children. releases the deep emotions within the individual who fmds that he
grandmother, grandfather, aunt or uncle, dearly bel0ved mother, The wife-husband relationship is or she does not like or deeply resents the parent or other relative,
sister, brother, respected father, a yogi or rishi returned to flesh to where it all begins. The mother and school teacher or principal. After writing about these experiences,
help humankind spiritually. As parents and teachers, we must ask, father are karmically responsible for the expressing in words the emotions felt, on many pieces of paper, the
"Who are these' souls? What is their destiny to fulfill in this life? tenor of society that follows them. An area of fhe subconscious mind holding the suppressed anger and re-
How can I help?" Parents love their children, or at least they ahimsa couple produces the protectors sentment gradually disappears as the papers are seen burning to
should, and the principles of ahimsa-nonviolence and nonhurtful- of the race. Himsa, hurtful, couples pro- ashes in a garbage can.
ness, physically, mentally or emotionally-do apply in the parent- duce the destroyers of the race. They Upon recognizing and admitting their fear Of hatred of their
child relationship, as well as in the husband-wife relationship. are a shame upon humanity. It's as sim- abuser, they must deal with the pangs of pain that arise each day by
Children must be allowed to develop physically, emotionally and ple as that. Its also so crucial that it mystically turning the slap, beating or spanking into a beautiful flow
mentally without being hurt in the process. Even profeSSional dog needs to be said more than once, "Him- of prana by placing a flower before the picture with a heart full of
trainers know the importance of bonding with their dog, through sa, hurtfui, couples produce the destroy- love. Each day while performing the "flowers of forgiveness
kindness and affection, and the folly of abuse or neglect. ers of the ra£e. They are a shame upon prayashchitta," the individual should mentally approach thEt antag-
W~ know children are sometimes mischievous and can gElt on humanity." The beating of a child is a onist-the person or persons who beat him or her-and say, "I for-
ones'Ilerves, but religious parents and worthy teachers are, in kind of psychological murder, killing give you. I don't hold anything against you, for I know that you gave
truth, more mature than the children and are able to handle situa- creativity, killing love and trust, and back to me the karma that I set in motion by performing sinillar ac-
tions as they come up without recourse to pinching or hitting. awakening fear. A five-foot-ten-inch tions at a prior time." If possible, this verbal forgiveness should also
Only in this way can we bring children from one stage of physical, adult beating on a tiny child-what cow- occur in person at least once during the 31.days, ideally face to face.
emotional, mental growth to another and still nurture spiritual ardliness. What cowardliness! Yet anoth- but at least by phone (if the person is still on this Earth plane).
qualities. To hurt a child in any way is to drive that child into fear er kind of cowardliness belongs to those Of course, for most it's much easier to pass on the slap or beating
and cause the development of anger and resentment at an early who stand by, doing nothing to stop to someone else. Parents often hit their own child, or abuse another
age. Bhakti, love of God and cpmpassion for all, will awaken in known instances of harm and injury in person in order to "get it out of their system." That slap has to go
such a person only with great effort. ·Parents are supposed to lift their.community. Such crimes, even if someplage, and turning it into a flower is very, very difficult. This
their offspring into the higher n~ture of love, forgiveness, friendli- the law dq,es not punish, earn a lifetime prayashchittf! brings up all those awful memories. This discipline
ness and security, not drive them into the lower nature of hate, imprisonment in the criminal's own karma, because they always Of course, we can excuse all of this as being simply karma-the brings up all the pain. It brings all the injustice to the surface of the
mistrust, resentment, offishness and insecurity. Obedience through know that they watched or knew and said nothing. Beating a child I karma of the parents as taught by their parents and the karma of mind. Nevertheless, this tantra or method has been a great help to
fear is not a desirable obedience. Conformity through threats does destroys his or her faith. It destroys faith in humanity and there- the children born into the family who abuses them. But the divine many. It is difficult to forgive, and some had to work very diligently
not build a loving family or a strong society. To anger a child at an fore in religion and in God. If he is beaten by his father and moth- law of karma cannot be used as permission or an opportunity to within themselves to face up to being able to place that little flower
early age is to place him on the path of retribution toward others er, his first gurus, who is he going to trust throughout his whole be hurtful. Simply speaking, if hurtfulness has been done to you, lovingly before the picture 'of a parent or a teacher, perhaps looking
later in life. Striking or pinching a child may seem expedient in the life? Certainly not another guru or swami, no matter how spiritual. this does not give you permission to perform the same act upon like one in the painting on this page. Many tried and failed again
confusion of the moment. It may provide a short-term solution. But Beautiful children who see their father beating their mother or another. It is dharma that controls karma. It is not the other way and again when deep-seated resentment emerged but fmally suc-
never forget the long-term price that we pay. their mother scratching their father's body after she emotionally around. ceeded in true forgiveness, whose byproduct is forgetfulness. They all
I have been asked, "Should parents never spank a child?" destroyed his manhood by insinuations, threats and tongue lashing Those beautiful children who see their mother and father 'work- feel so much better today. Now they are responsive, creative and hap-
"Should teachers use corporal punishment?" Of course, one should have at those very moments been given permission to do the same. ing out their differences in mature discussion or in the shrine py inside. Yes, hitting people is wrong-and children are people, too.

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LETTERS
A Divine Language is not just tor women [LETTERS, May '98]. It porter was that Islam and Christianity have
TAMIL IS NOT JUST ANY LOCAL LANGUAGE,
blJ,t a classical language with over 2,000
years of literary history [BRIEFLY, May '98].
It also happens to be the mother tongue of
used to be a "must have" for all Hindus, men
and women alike. No one is losing sleep over
why the men stopped wearing thilakam or
why they are not wearing dJwti every day. Is
co~tinued to progress in India despite hun-
dreds of thousands of books in all Indian
languages, including English, having been
published extolling all aspects of Hinduism
Dear .Amma &- Appa:
It Was Not "Alright"
some 65 million people around the world. it expected that women should stick to the down the centuries. We are telling Hindus
Along with Sanskrit, Tamil has also always tradition while men embrace the Western what Hinduism is "not" so that creedal reli,
been a '1anguage of the Gods." We have a culture and accouterments? The responsi- gions are not accepted as dharma and nailed
moral duty to protect the Hindu spiritual bility of carrying over the tradition to the as totalitarian imperialist ideologies like
HINDU RENAISSANCE TEAM
works in Tamil and give it its rightful place next generation rests equally on men's as Communism and Nazism.
~ the temples of Tamil HindUs. well as women's shoulders. SITA RAM GOEL
NEW DELHI, INDIA
HINDUISM TODAY was founded January 5, 1979, One Hindu youth tells her story of life in the
RENUKA KUMARASAMY SUBHA VARMA PATHIAL by Satguru Sivaya Subramuniyaswami, for the
EDISON, NEW JERSEY, us
" renu_kumar@hotmail.com
" subha-pathial@ccm.intel.com " bibimpex@giasdlOl.vsnl.net.in following purposes: 1. To foster Hindu solidarity
as a unity in diversity among all sects and lin-
high-achieving Indian-American family
" IT IS EVERY WOMAN'S PREROGATIVE TO THE PASSING GlF SRV'GYANAMATA IS bls- eages; 2. To inform and inspire Hindus world-
The Colors of C.W. Leadbeater choose for herself what she would like to cussed accurately in your article ["Born- wide and people interested in Hinduism; 3. To ANONYMOUS
AS A THEOSOPHIST, I MUST RESPOND TO wear. I don't see' any sons of Bharat going to Again Books, REVIEWS, April '98], except dispel myths, illusions and misinformation
the Mock of text concerning C.W. Lead- school or work in America wearing tradi~ that she is described as a nun of the Ra- about Hinduism; 4. To protect, preserve and
ent world from where you grew
beater in your article ["The Colors of Our tional Indian attire or bindi. Why is it not makrishna Order whereas she was a nun of promote the sacred Vedas and the Hindu reli-
u~'An'ctir It is a ques- up. Times have changed; and
Cc;Jllsciousness," INSIGHT, May '98]. The ad- expected of them? ,.. Self-Realization Fellowship, a direct disciple gion; 5. To nurture and monitor the ongoing
spiritual Hindu renaissance. We invite our read- asked by you have to adjust.
jective "great," used in describing his work,
is one that, I belieye, many Theosophists
DEEPTIP KOTIHAL
KING OF PRUSSIA, PENNSYLVANIA, us
of Yogananda Paramahansa as mentioned in
the article.
ers to share these purposes with us by writing parents faced To those of you with younger /
letters, contributing reports and articles on with a child who is on the children, try to understand
would disagree with. Leadbeater was in my SANDY MARTIN events, sencling news clippings and encouraging verge of falling apart. They put z some of their fears and embar-
opinion a Christian riding on a Theosophi- Nonvegetarianism's Aftereffect " sandym@mail.gJobalnet.co.uk other;s to subscribe. their kids through the best j rassments and try to teach them
cal wave (see his involvement in The Liber- THE RAPID GROWTH WE SEE IN CHILDREN • schools, lived in a safe area and ~ pride. Instill in them a sense of
al Catholic Church, Co-Masonry and the these days is due to the growth hormones Expose Us to Hinduism hoped their children would be ~ humor. Let your kids know how
MY FAMILY MOVED TO AMERICA WHEN I Publisher: Satguru Sivaya Subramuniyaswami
Adventist movement known as the Order of that are fed to the aninIals. I think this could spitting images of themselves- ~ much they mean to you, and
Admin. Dir.: Paramacharya Bodhinatha
the Star in thEl East, which I understand account for the early physiG.al development was two years old, and I never had the op- that they would be successful, < show it. Pay attention to your
Editor-in-Chiej: Acharya Palaniswami
many Hindus denounced in print), while it in children and the early onset of menstru- portunity to immerse myself in Hindu cul- Publisher's Aide: Acharya Ceyonswiuni respected citizens of this not-so-foreign child's health. Teach your children those
also seems that his work has done much to ation in our young girls. The violence seen ture as much as I would have liked. I was Deputy Editor: Acharya Kumarswami country of America. So what went wrong? aspects of language, culture and religion
discredit true Theosophical thought and in yaung boys could also be attributed to very happy to discover your magazine and Managing Editor: Sannyasi Arumugaswami The biggest, most prominent problem, that you think they would enjoy and appre-
teaching alongside the great foundations of this. They are being "forced" to grow physi- cannot express enough how comforting it is. Graphics Director: Sannyasi Natarajnathaswami the most obvious one, is we are Indian chil- ciate. Do not mock them when they do not
Eastern occultism and Hinduism. It is un- cally before they are ready mentally and It greatly bothers me that I know more Mauritius Editor: Sannyasi Sivamurugaswami dren immersed in America. In school, we understand certain things. Explain. The
fortunate that his name continues to turn up emotionally to deal with all the emotions about Christianity and its customs than my Mauritius Staff Writer: Sannyasi Sivadevaswami tried to blend in as much as possible. We pressure you PVt on a child to act a certain
within, not just in, the same articles here that come with physical maturity. Children own religion. I do not speak a language na- Prod./Promotion Mgr.: Sannyasi Sivakatirswami wanted everyone to like us, so we would way or to get that 'N can be so detrimental.
and there, but often even the same sen- naturally are drawn to vegetables, fruit and tive to India, and the holidays, prayers and Managing Ed. 's Aide: Tyagi Saravanathaswami
talk like them and act like them. We want- The most important thing is that we, as
tences alongside the name H .P. Blavatsky, as grain products. They will not even consume practices are a mys~ery to me. Dep. ManagingEa: Tyagi~
Editor-in-Chiifs Aide: Yogi Yuganatha
ed to "fit in." At home, parents would push children, as humans and a;1 young adults,
we fmd in your May issue. sweet or salty items without learning to first. PALLAVIVEERA us and pressure us to do well. Often that need to grow. We need to be given choices
Advertising Manager: Sadhaka Jothinatha
JOHNRAu DOVE GRiMES WORCESTER, MASSACHUSETTS, US meant tutorial sessions that ended in vio- in life and need to make those choices for
SubSCription Manager: Sadhaka Adinatha
RODNEY, MICHIGAN, us " dhgrime@ibm.net Correspondents: Gowri Shankar & Anandhi Rama- lence, or other tough forms of punishment ourselves. Your children are responsible,
" Tsophia108@aol.com THOUGH BORN AS A HINDU, A LOT OF PEO- chandran, Chermai; Choodamani Shivaram, Bangalore; when we didn't measure up. In our eyes intelligent people, but not all can be doc-
Bulwarking Ahimsa ple are not exposed to the proper teachings Rajiv Malik, Prabha Prabhakar Bhardwaj, Mangala and hearts, we slowly became their medals. tors, lawyers or engineers.
Booking My Complaint . I UNDERSTAND THAT HINDUS BELIEVE or practice of Hinduism. As usual, fingers Prasad Mohanty, Delhi; V. S. Gopalakrishnan, Kerala; Any accomplis~ment was just a tool to The key to life is happiness. If Y011 take
THE "BOOK BARONS OF DELHI," ARTICLE that it is cruel and unnecessary to abuse or are always pointed at the younger genera- Basudeb Dhar, Bangladesh; Archana Dongre, Los An- brandish to their friends-to prove how .that away from your children, and they
madp an interesting reading, but I felt it to be slaug!her animals or to use them in experi- tion, saying that we have no interest in our geles; Lavina Melwani, New York; Dr. Hari Bansh Jha, well they were raising us. Nothing we did have no way of getting it back, it may be
incomplete [PUBLISHING, May '98]. It showed mental labs. There are animal welfare religion, are going in the wrong direction, Nepal; Parasram Ramoutar, Anil Mahabir, Trinidad; could ever have been based on our own too late to do anything about it. If you take
only one side of the coin. All of the six pub- grgups in the world who are trying to elimi- ;etc. How are these people to blame when Dr. Devananda Tandavan, Chicago; V. G. Julie Rajan,
merit; it was all their doing. In public we what we have said to heru;t and work thing~
lishers covered were happy and had nothing nate the cruelty. Their strategies and efforts the older generation)s responsible to lead, Philadelphia; Shikha Malaviya, Minnesota; Rajesh Jan-
tilal, South Africa; Tara Katir, Hawaii. Sanskritist: Dr. had to be the perfect little submissive toy thrOlJ.gh with your children, they will want
to complain about, showing that things are have helped to a certain degree, but the cru- and yet they fail to do so? Much emphasis is robots. We were constantly being put to forgive and forget.
S. Jayaraman, New York. Artists: A. Manivelu, S. Ra-
good and nice with them. As a reader-con- elty continues. I am sad to say that a letter placed on education, career, etc., but there jam. Cartoonists: Barry Geller, David Lourie, Mario down, told that we were not good enough, We think ultimately we all want the
sumer, I feel that the prices of Indian books such as this would not be- accep(ed by many isn't a firm foundation on religion. de Miranda, Manick Sorear, Gary L. Stair, Bob Thaves. how incredibly stupid we were if we ever same thing-respect. You parents want our
are high. Much higher sales can be achieved of my fellow Christians. I am therefore ask- VIMALA Photo Contributors: Thomas L. Kelly, Stephen P got a 'B', yet were expected to Qe the best. respect for bemg the ones who raised us.
if the prices are reasonable! Mter sales, ser- . ing for assistance from the Hindus. " vmala@mailexcite.com Huyler, Dev Raj Agrawal, Phal S. Girota, 'll:1ny Stone You parents were never really affe",tion- We children know that and are grateful for
vice is also an area where some attention is "" SARA B. MAGUIRE Images, Photobank, Art Wolfe Inc., Gordon Wiltsie, ate toward us, and we could not find the it. But we also demand respect for our
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EDITORIAL continued to dominate. Child-raising be-
came less a process of conquering young-
sters and more one of~raining and guiding
them. The emphasis turned to teaching
a.IUI S
Beating What Devi1 them to conform and socialize."
America's pioneers believed children to
be essentially wicked. Their appetites and
"You'd think our children woula be more religiOUS.
Aft'er all, we did. beat the hell out of them."
passions had to be harnessed. They had to •
Out dfOur Children? be 'broken like wild horses." Then about
80 years ago a view emerged that "all work
and no play makes Jack a dull boy." This
Overheard at a social gathering where parents lamented their kids' lack of religiOUS interest

lead to more time during childhood for R.EPRINTED WITH PERMISSION


The low-minded are happier than men
Why a simple theological difference. makes it recreation and exploration. Discipline was
virtually abandoned and apologies were TII'S "EXTINCTION of
who know the good, for they are never
troubled by the pains of conscience.
harder to strike little Hindu boys and girls even given to children who were treated
harshly. Styles of child-raising see-sawed
TlfE pf~SONAL.ITY ANp Tirukural, Verse 1072
through the century, fIrst becoming •
/oNfNf»' WITH THE
BY. THE EDITOR permissive, then authoritarian. When the VNIVi1$f" TtilNG . " Children are so wonderful-they just can't
parental tyranny of the 30S created malad, 1$ TH6f2!e ANY MONF( be beat! Swami Beyondananda
justed adults, an era of leniency followed in
IN IT?
EATING CHILDREN WAS NEVER MUCH OF AN ISSUE IN the 50S and 60S, letting children grow up freely. But this resulted • If all the world is a stage, where is the
the old world. For most of human history, the only question in undisciplined and irresponsible brats. Neither system seemed to
audience sitting?
was how to beat, with what and how often. But whether to
? Most societies didn't even discuss the option. So par-
work, and no one really knew how to compromise between
permissiveness and strictness. To this day, America remains ambi- The biggest room in the world is-room for equality. Whoever seeks to set one nation-
/
ents pummeled their offsPJ"ing into quivering obedience, valent about whether to be tough or tender in raising children. improvement. Dada J.P. Vasw!lni ality, race or religion against another, seeks' A yoga master stepped up to a samosa stall
into abject submission and even to death. And nobody complained. More subtle strategies have evolved recently. Parents are taught to degrade all nationalities, enslave all races and said: "Make me one with everything."
But attitudes are changing. Now, in,the gos, child beating-by to take each childs temperament and age into account, to
We are a nation of many nationalities, and destroy all religions. Franklin D. Roo- The vendor fIxed a samosa and handed it
which we mean something far less severe than child abuse-is illu- discipline differently according to their own nature and moods at
minated by the same light of conscience that outlawed slavery and the time of a childs infraction, and according to cultural-biological many races, many religions-bound togeth- sevelt, 32nd US president (1882-1945), in to the yogi, who paid with a $20 bill. The
championed women's rights. It is becoming unthinkable and, in forces facing the child. And defInitely, experts urge, don't strike er by the single unity of 'freedom and a New York address, November 1, 1940. vendor put the bill in a cash drawer and
some places, criminal to strike your own child. when angry. When in doubt, hug, don't hit. closed the drawer. "Where's my change?"
Our perceptions of and therefore our relations with children are It is a sad fact that Christians are dragging their feet on reform. asked the yogi. The vendor smiled,
not static. In his book, Peaceful Parenting in a Violent World, Dr.
Joseph Cress describes how Western society has swung between
In the Southern Bible Belt of America it is still regarded as one's
Christian duty and every parent's inalienable right to physically WEVE HEARD So MUCH "Change must come from within."
authoritarian and permissive approaches to child-rearing, neither
of which, he says, really works. "The past several centuries are
punish young children. The Abraharnic Bible is legitimately quoted
in defense of such a claim (thoug.\;J. victims might say that civil laws ABOUT )t)UR TANDOORI
marked by hypocracy, ambivalence and contradic-
tions in the raising of children. Three facts are
supercede the religious injunction in such cases).
Proverbs 22:15 & 14 says: "Foolishness is bound CHAl1'AL~ AND YOUR
clear: 1. child maltreatmen{has been practiced
for centuries; 2. child maltreatment has been his-
torically sanctioned .by cultural values and 3. the
in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction
shall drive it far from him. Thou shalt beat him
with the rod, and shalt delivet his soul from hell."
LAFlJRI Ro115,MY
history of child abuse has contributed to current
controversies and practices." I
Clearly, Christians who want to physically punish
children, and not all do, have a fIrm theological
DEAR."
'He notes that every civilization, East and West, defense for it. Hindus do not. ,
has abused children. In European ancient times, Quite the opposite. Hindus don't believe that
he Writes, "ehildren weren't even considered hu- children are inherently evil, or that they need to DID YOU KNOW?
man, but instead were viewed as chattel, owned by "have the Devil beat out of them." In Sanatana
the father like sheep or a bullock cart. The ac- Dharma each human, however young or old, is a Cool Dot Gets Hotter
cepted notion y.'as that children existed to' meet divine, evolving soul: and the prime ethic is ,this:
the needs of their parents, and that they were a Thou shalt not injure other living beings. That HE BIND! , OR POTTU IN TAMIL, IS
burden, a fInancial investment, or born evil and
had to be redeemed by severe punishment." He '"
tells a tale of how brutal beatings, abandonment of g
children, sale into slavery and to}lsome child labor ~
were common up to the 13TH"Century. Then for ~
means neither hitting nor physically punishing
kids. We have no spiritual justillcation. We can-
not excuse oursylves by pointing to scriptural au-
thority to assuage our conscience. We cannot say
it's OK 'because the Vedas permit it." They don't.
1 a small dot worn on the forehead,
made of red powder, sandalpaste,
clay, cosmetics or other substances. A
sign that one is a Hindu, and a beauty
300 years attitudes morphed, and more "gentle" ~ It is our belief that Indian spiritual wisdom has
mark for Hindu women, it mystically
disciplines became popular: verbal scolding, can- much to offer the world today regarding this ana
ing and chaining to stools fOJ; hours at a time. In the 18TH century, other contemporary moral issues, just as we were at the vanguard represents the "third eye," which sees
attitudes reversed again as parents moved away from conquering about slavery and non,violent civil disobedience. Hindus can, we things physical eyes cannot. Today the
aJ{d intimidating children towaid supportive strategies and mental- know, lead the world toward the right balance between tenderness bindi is an international fashion orna-
emotional ways of controlling behavior. Coercion and threats gained and toughness. Without..compromise of diScipline, we can set stan- ment. Western celebrities are all over
popularity, but severe whipping continued. As the 19TH century dards of child-Tearing for the world to follow. Alas, the world
it, from Hollywood actresses to rock
dawned, "an increasing number of adults felt that whipping would follows example, not sermonizing, so we must begin in the home,
create lasting resentment or alienation, and rob children of their dig- of which Hindus have approximately 200 million. This work can singers like Gwen Stefani. See page 18.
nity' and sense of identity." Nonetheless, strict child-rearing policies only be done there, where children grow up, one home at a time.

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SOCIAL · ISSUES

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Should corporal I

punishment endP
By V G. JULIE RAJAN, PHILADELPHIA
HOUGH THEY DON'T SAY MUCH ABOUT IT, YOUNG HINDU ADULTS
as
today feel deep resentmen~ and anger at having beeI;l beaten chil-
dren. We struggle with feelings of low self-esteem and failure. Many qf
us will continue the cycle of violence by beating our own children or
our spouses simply because we are unable to tesolve those feelings.
We don't blame our parents, who genuinely loved us and sacrificed for us,
for they ~e themselves just the previous round in this same cycle. We don't
blame our Hindu faith either, for corporal punishment of c~ildren is pre-
sent in every culture. But as advocates of nonviolence, we do claim a spe-
cial role in solving this problem. Unfortunately, when objections are raised
to corporal punishment, the Hindu community's reaction too often is out-
right denial, or a cmt,dismissal, as it "never happen? in high-caste nouses."
Some offer the defiant defense, "I was beaten as a cbild and am a better
adult today," or, "It is in our tradition." Unfortunately, such evasive and
erroneous replies mask th~ real harm being perpetuated.

The most common defense of hitting children is: "I was


b8CJten as a child and am a better adult today for it."
20 HINDUISM TODAY JULY , 1998
This extensi~e rep~rt on child; discipline receiving end of the vice-principal's three- ment or other injurious or humiliating treat- dren. We cannot quote some references from
includes accounts from HINDUISM TODAY One India school teacher quit her job foot paddle. But in India, Malaysia, Mauri- ment." The Austrian lawmakers wrote, "The School disciplines - whacking the hand smritis [secondary scriptures, such as Neeti
correspondents worldwide, but mostly from rathel' than fulfill the pl'incipal's re- tius and Sri Lanka, teachers routinely hit motive for this reform is our knowledge of with a ruler, being made to hold books Shastra or the various Dharma Shastras] in
v.c. Julie Rajan, who was born in Madurai quest to punish students by banging even good students with a rattan cane or the immeasurable harm children suffer in outstretched hands. Parents buy rat- favor of this, since smritis are subject to
a1td raised in the USA. T~ topic is "corp 0; their head against the wall ruler on the hand, back, legs or buttocks, when parents are not willing or able to avoid tan canes to beat children at home. change from time to time and are based on
ral punishment, " in the specific "Sense of slap them across the face, bang their head physical punishment as a way of bringiNg up the circumstances of the time and period in
slapping, spanking or hitting a child as a against the blackboard, twist their ears, their children." Some countries outlaw only which they were written." For example, par-
means of discipline at home or in school, ei- don't know how many times he's covered it. make them stand on desks with hands hitting of students by teachers, including Panchayat Bada Udasin Akhara, of Harid- ents will quote the saying, "Sarna, dana, bhe-
ther with the hand, a cane, a belt or a hard A couple of weeks later, his father hit him in raised high, squat in the sun or stand with Malaysia and South Africa. Corporal pun- war observed that, "When a child is beaten, da, danda," which means "using kind words
object. Also included are other forms of the other eye. I think that there was also a books held in outstretched hands for long ishment in schools is legal in 23 of America's he becomes stubborn. And a stubborn child (or negotiation), bribery, sowing dissension
physical distress as well as emotional batter- lot of verbal and emotional abuse." HIN- periods. Catholic schools in particular are 50 states, and by parents in all states. Ac- becomes a confused child. When the child and punishment (or striking)," and appears
ing...Our topic is not "child abuse," in the DUIS~ TODAY correspondent Choodie noted for their brutality. Despite new laws , cordingJ o recent polls, 70 percent of Amer- knows that the ultimate punishment given in Manu Dharma Shastra 7.1g8. "These are
sense of bodily injury, though corporal pun- Sivaram reports from Bangalore, "Beating is in several countries to reduce such punish- ican parents hit their children. to him Will be beating, he becomes mental- the four means of achieving success against
ishment can easily lead to such results. eVf rywhere in India and in all classes, espe- "IIlent, all these practices continue to this day. Opinions of saints in Nortli India: HIN- ly prepared. This is not the solution." an ..-enemy," explains Jayaraman, and are
I cially in families with working mothers. Just A few weeks ago, for ~ample, a teacher in a DUISM TODAY corr~spondent Rajiv M~k Sri Kapil Puri Ji, former Sri Mahant, Juna meant for a king, not a p~ent.
Many Hindu 'adults deny there is any recently, I saw a prominent man slapping his Chennai, India, school hit every student in queried a number of saints and sadhus pre- Akhara, Haridwar, was one of the few who Other verses of Manu Dharma Snastra
problem with corporal punishment in our grandchild at a public event." [See page 32 her eighth grade class on the hand for poor sent at the Kumbha Mela in early April on demurred. "Our scriptures say that to age explicitly permit corporal punishment, for
community. The reality is too often like this for Choodie's three-page report. ]' A 1996 sur- performance on a math test. One student in the issue of corporal punishment. Many- five we must love the child. Five to sixteen is example, verse 8.22g, "A wife, a son, a slave,
report from a young Indian-American Hin- vey of university students in India found Malaysia said, "Vigorous slapping for not but not all-condemned the practice. the time when he must get tadana, repri- a pupil and a younger brother of the full
du: "I know of a Hindu boy whose father . g1 % of boys and 86% of girls were physical- paying attention during lessons is a daily af- Ramesh Bhai Oza, the famed Kathak singer manded [by beating], because it is from five blood who have committed faults, may be
hits him severely. Once, he gave him a black ly punislied as children. fair." [See "Healing; page 44, for the physi- from Mumbai said, "Only by dealing with to sixteen years that his life is made." beaten with a rope or a split bamboo." How-
eye. I didn't believe it, but then I saw it. He And in school? In America, it would be cal effects of hitting'children.] . the child with a lot oflove can his immense Dr. P. Jayaraman, head of the Bharatiya ever, this verse has bee;; rejected in modern
had covered it very wen with his sister's rare for the super-achieving Indian-Ameri- Corporal punis,hment of children is legal latent potential be brought forward. What .Vidya Bhavan in New York, disagrees. In the times and cannot be used as a defense of
, \ makeup foundation. That scared me be- can children-even in those states that allow in most countries of the world. Only Italy, can be done by the power of love cannot be scripture cited by Kapil Puri, which comes wife or child beating~
cause when you can cover it that well, you it, such as Texas and Florida-to "9.e on the Denmark, Sweden, Finland, Norway, Aus- attained through a rod." Sri Mahant Ganga from the Neeti Shastra.by Chanakya (dated Swami Satchidananda of the Integral Yoga
tria and Cyprus outlaw hitting of children Puri Ji, Secretary, Sri Panchayati Akahar 350BCE) the term tadayet, according1:o Ja- Institute in Virginia, USA, told Hinduism
Austria outlawed corporal.punishment because by their parents. The Parent Code in Swe-
den, the first country to pass such laws,
Mahanirvani, Haryana, concurred, "I do not
approve of the practice of physically man-
yaraman, "while literally meaning 'strike' or
'hit: symbolically means 'teach discipline' or
Today in an exclusive interview he believes
"limited thrashing, controlled hitting of chil-
of ''the 1mmeasurable harm children suffer states, "Children are to fie treated with re-
spect for their person and individuality and
handling children. We must use other posi-
tive methods of reforming children."
'teach strictly. '" Jayaraman states, "My per-
sonal view, and that of the Bhavan, is com-
dren a little, is necessary. Children should
know why the parents are doing it, and par-
when parents uSe physical punishment."
/
may not be subjected to physical punish- Sri Mahant Govind Das Ji, Secretary, Sri pletely against corporal punishment of chil- ents should have complete control over
PHOT OS: ROH}NI KUMAR
22 HI NDUISM TODAY JULY, 1998 JU LY, 199 8 HI NDUISM TO DA Y 23
I,
themselves. If I am a big swami today, it is You will reap what you sow."
because I had a lot of beating from my fa- Students being hit on the hand with a "Those who beat or pinch or slap or whip
ther. He had control over it. He told me the thick rope by the discipline teacher for their children are the enemies to religion,
reason. The beating comes at the 'very last, coming to school with long fingernails becau; e they are pushing the next genera-
when everything fails. If the children know tion into lower consciousness," summarizes
the parents love them tl;!.e most, that they are SivWa Subramuniyaswami. [See page 28 for
doing everything because they love them, Swgmi Sahajananda of the Divine Life So- a description of these lowest chakras gov-
they will not have any re~ntment." ciety of South Africa offered this insight: "In erning fear, jealousy, anger, revenge, etc.]
Swami Tathagatananda of the Vedanta So- the old. days, during the parent's and grand- Dr. Devika Krishnan is a Hindu psychol-
ciety of New York also calls for parents to parent's childhood, the children had strong ogist who has been practicing in the USA for
approach their child with love. He said, . nerves and a different mental makeup. Even over 21 years. He asks, "If a child is born
"Life being an opportunity to reach divine if they received corporal punishment at with a low self-esteem, beating is only going
excellences, idealism in Hinduism exhorts school or at home, it did not affect them to add to the child's low self-esteem. On the
us to look upon a child as God Himsel£ Par- much. But today, perhaps the children have other hand, if the core personality is going
ents are to treat the child with utmost care weak nerves' and their mental make-up is to be one where there is yearning for inde- ..
and with a reverential attitude for their spir- also different. Any kind of violence is sure to pendence, you're going to create so much
itual well being. 'Sarna, dana, bedha, 'danda' affect their nerves and mind and even dam- anger in that child.•If the ehild is going to be
has nothing to do with raisiIig of kids." A few age their psyche. The scars left on their psy- basically aggressive, you're only going to
years ago the Ramakrishna Mission iIi. India che may be carried over to the next birth." make the child more aggressive. If the child
forbid corporal punishment in its schools. Does hitting work? Beating children does ·is going to be passive, you're only going to
The Vedic edict is ahimsa, affIrms Swami not instill discipline. Rather, violence brings make the child more dependent, submissive."
Brahmavidyananda of Satyananda Yoga into play myriad spiritual and psychological Respected astrologer Chakrapani Ullal of '
Ashram, Florida, [see his Minister's Mes- problems for both parents and child. "Vio- Los Angeles concurs, "If the tendency of the / I
sage, page 50]. The Shukla Yajur Veda, lence against children is a shameful act," child is to be mischievous, then you must
Brhihadaranayaka Upan~ had says, ''Ahim- states Swami Brahmavidyananda. Beating teach him dharma by giviIl"g him a good
sa is not causing pain to any living being at children "is an act of violence with its root training in how to be a better person. If you
any time through the actions of one's mind, in anger. Anger is caused by a desire for beat him, then you will 'bnly cause those
speech or body." "Nowhere in the Upan- something which, when not fuilllled, results z k!ll'mas indicated by his astrological chart to
ishads," agrees Tathagatananda, "do we do in uncontrolled action. Everything is based ;:; develop. Punishing children makes them
fmd anything like physical punishment." on karma. What goe;; around comes around. ~ hide their feelings, tell lies, manipulate their

ceptable [in the me. When I frustrated her, she

It's Scary Being Hit community]. If


you say something
wrong, they'll hit you on the me in front of my American India: "In my father's house upset me. The baby did not each other. She destroyed it.
just popped and would throw
things at me, usually the TV
remote control. I do not under-

By Big People face. If you hit your brother,


they hit you on the hand. If
you kick someone, they hit you
friends on the doorstep. He
just grabbed my hair and hit
me. He did the same when we
in India, my youngest uncle,
about 19 years old, was always
getting into trouble. One day
cry. It made me think, 'He is
used to it.'''
India: "My grandmother
My mom realized how de-
structive that anger could be,
and she never hit us. I always
stand how anyone can hit a
child. They may do things
wrong, but they are learning
on your leg." had an Indian friend over. I re- when he came home late, my tried to go to school after she see my grandmother as a and can only learn to do things
Corporal punishment thrives India: "My friend was hit alized this wasn't normal only
when my friend gave me a
older uncle grabbed a shoe, attained puberty. She was go- woman whose life was molded right by making mistakes. We
regularly as a child and cannot chased him into a room and ing to run away to another by that beating." learn from our mistakes. So, I
at home and in schools get over it. Now he is a parent. look of shock and sympathy." really beat him badly. The town. When her father found USA: "My mom never hit would never hit my kids."
Sometimes he gets really angry India: "I feel abused be- screams and beatings were just out, he beat the hell
and takes his mood out on his cause my dad would pick up so loud and lasted for twenty out of her, black and
NDER THE CLOAK OF in my family by my parents. As kid. He doesn't hit her, but he anything that came to his hand minutes and no one did any- blue, locked her up
anonymity, dozens of he was the older one, my par- sends the same message." and hit me. I have actually thing. There were ten adults in for days and married
Hindu youths gave testi- ents were more harsh with USA: '1\s you get older, it bled, I have actually been cut." the house and not even the her off She vowed
mony of their experi- him. I know he has internal- turns into verbal abuse. It is al- USA: "Sad, but one of my mother did anything. I seemed her own daughter
ences with child beating. ized it all. He hates my parents ways that the Indian parent earliest memories was as a to be the only angry person would get an educa-
USA: "I once remember and feels they abused him and and Indian-American child are child of about three to four there, but as a young boy my- tion. That beating
when I was 11, I had done hit him too much. They have coming from two different di- years old. I am not sure what I self, what could I do? Was I made her deter-
something wrong. I ran to my apologized for it and realize rections and end up at a wall. did wrong, but I remember my shocked when that young un- mined, but also hate-
room and locked my door, be- that wasn't the way to do it, but There is just no in-between. father picking me up and cle committed suicide later? ful and vengeful. She
cause I knew my father was in he can't get over it." When you go to school, you are throwing me, my back, against No. When people beat you and destroyed the family
an angry rage-he had been Mauritius: '1\1l of us in our one person and when you the wall-I remember this tell you are worth nothing, why eventually, destroyed
beaten regularly as a child. He lives have been beaten by our come home you are another quite clearly. I remember con- live?" her own children's re-
began beating my door and parents using hands, canes, person. The only positive way fronting him about it, but he Malaysia: "Yelling at the lationship-my mom
scratching it so loud that I did hangers, rubber pipes, sticks to see it is to think that for my denied it all." children would be most regu- and my aunt. My
"
not open it. If! did, I knew it and brooms. Until I was twelve kids it will be different." India: "My father told me lar, almost every day in a mom and her broth-
would be bad. The next day, I years old, my mother used to USA: "I was eleven. I had stories about how his grandpar- week. Harsh words painful to ers, never spoke to ~
looked at my door and it
looked liked some animal had
hit me on the head with cook-
ing pans and pots."
just come home from playing
with my friends outside, and
ents used to put red chilies
around his and his cousin's eyes
hear are used. Stupid would be
the very most common." Rapping on the head
.z
:l!
p

clawed it." USA: "I have been slapped my father must have gotten if they had done something India: "I saw the father slap with the knuckles is :>: • •~
USA: "My cousin was raised on the face. I think that's ac- mad because he began hitting wrong." his one-year-old baby, and it comrrwnpunishnwnt ~ L-~ ____________________________________~____~.......

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24 HINDUISM T ODA.Y JU,LY , 1997 JUL Y, 1997 HfNDUISM T ODA Y
to anyone."
The next generation of Hindus,
however, is not prepared to main-
tain this conspiracy of silence-
witness their stark testimonies for
this article. Nearly all frrm1y be-
lieve that corporal punishment is
wrong, and do not intend to use it
on their children. Of course,
when the reality of parenthood
comes upon them, as it did to
HINDUISM TODAY correspondent
Shikha Malaviya of Minnesota,
young mother of a two-year-old,
they may waiver. "You don't real- I '
ize how overwhelming the re-
parents and develop poor associa-
tions outside the family." Vamadeva Shas-
". "In the old days, children had sponsibility of bringing up a child
is. If your child is beyond control,
tri, an expert in ayurveda, pointed out that
children react differently to punishment
strong nerves. Today children and believe me, they can be ab-
solutely defiant, what do you do? I
according to their physical constitution have a'different meJltal make- started thinking, 'Maybe it is OK
(cWsha). ''A vata cWsha child can be dam- to hit: then I thought, 'How could
aged for life by physical punishment; the up. Violence is sure. to damage I think like that?'"
kapha child needs j:o be stimulated from
the inside, not the outside; the pitta child their psyche and leave scars We can look to the country of
Sweden, the first (0 ban corporal
will develop strategies to fight back."
Beating children actually undermines
carried to their next birth." punishment, as a model for the
massive change in societal atti-
any discipline that parents might be trying SWAMI SAHAJANANDA tudes required. They did it not
to' instill in their children. An August 1997 through criminal penalties, but
study by Dr. Ml,lITay Strauss in the Archives through a Parent's Code which
of Pediatrics and AcWlescent Medicine re- calls for the intervention of social
ported that the more children are spanked, service agencies to teach parents
the more likely they will be aggressive or en- alternative methods of discipline.
gage in other anti-social behavior. In a 1994 The trend against corporal pun-
study of 8,000 US farnilies, Strauss found that ishment in Sweden began in the
children who are beaten more are more like- 1920S when it was outlawed in
ly to attack theIr own' siblings. They develop schools. In 1966 it was banned for
less adequate consciences, experience de- parents. While there were initial
pression as adults, and are inclined to physi- periods of permissiveness by the parents, a
c&ny attack their spouses as adults. recent report indicat~s they hl;lve gained
"When they grow older they 'can see considerable skill with nonviolent methods.
abuse as a way of control," agrees Santhi Pe- By 1994, only eleven percent of Swedes sup-
riasamy, a US-born, Hindu graduate student ported corporal punishment. After a year's
in psychology. "For boys, they have more of "experiment," even school headmasters con-
a tendency to hit their spouses and their ceded nonviolent methods worked better.
children. For women, you have a tendency Just as parents can improve the' lives of
to g~t into an abusive relationship and stay. It their children by setting a positive example,
can predispose you to anorexia, depression. parents can harm their children by setting a
It can affect you in so many ways." baa example. When you beat your child, you •
Worst of all, when we beat children, we show them it's alright to peat others. When
are only falling into a continuous cycle. "Be- you slap them, pinch them and twis their
yond any doubt, I think all studies prove ears, you teach them that violence and anger
that abuse is perpetuated from one genera- are the preferred ways to solve problems.
tion to another if there is no early interven- When you beat with the intent of teaching
tion," adds Dr. Krishan. them a lesson, you tell them they are failures,
Breaking the cycle: One visitor to the and that they do not d~serve your respect.
HINDUISM TODAY editorial offices in Hawaii You are not teaching them about the great
told a shocked staff that "Hindu parents in. love and tolerance weached by Hinduism.
" America know not to hit their-kids in public So the next time that you are about to hit
because they might get arrested." A virtual your child, think about it. As a Hindu, will
conspiracy of silence prevails. "Your parents your legacy to your offspring and our com-
tell you that what happens in the family munity be one of hate or one of hope? _
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force centers below the muladhara. Their beliefs and attitudes biology. Then he unfolded the mind sciences by looking into his sub-
INSIGHT strongly reflect the animal nature, the instinctive mind. Thus, the conscious mind, into the chakras where he had previously been.
muladhara chakra, the divine seat of Lord Ganesha, is the dividing With malls look into his own mind, psychology, metaphysics and the
point between the lower nature and the higher. It is the beginning of mind-religions were born.
religion for everyone, entered when consciousness arrives out of the Now, in our present time, the mass consciousness is coming into
realms below Lord Ganesha's holy feet. Through personal sad- vishuddha-the forces of universal love. The forerunners of this
hana, prayer, meditation, right thought, speech and ac- emerging Sat Yuga, popularly called the New Age, are
tion and love of God, we lift our own consciousness not worshiping reason as the great thing of the
and that of others into the chakras above the mu- mind or trying to take over another's possessions
ladhara, bringing the mind into the higher na- through the use of force. They are not wor-
ture. shiping science or psychology or the mind
The functions of the chakras are aspects of religions as the great panacea. They are
our being that we use every day. In the same looking inward and worshiping the light, the
way, we use our arms and hands everyday Divinity, within their own body, within
without thinking. Yet, if we study the physi- their own spine, within their own head,
A yogic road-map for awareness ology of the hands, we encounter layer after and they are going inward into a deep
layer of iI!tricate interrelationships of tissues, spiritual quest which is based on direct
as it journeys through states of consciousness cells, plasma. We exanline the engineering of experience, on compassion for all things
the structural system of bones and joints, the in creation.
energy transmission of the muscular system, As the forces of the vishuddha chakra come
the biochemistry of growth and healing, the into prominence in the New Age, it does not
,biophysics of nerve action and reaction. Sudden- mean that the other centers of consciousness
HERE ARE FOURTEEN GREAT NERVE CENTERS IN THE ly a simple and natural part of human life seems have stopped working. But this new one coming
complex. Similarly, we use the various functions of con- into prominence is claiming the energy within the mass
physical body, in the astral body and in the body of the sciousness, the chakras, every day without even thinking about. consciousness. When the center of divine love gains a little
soul. These centers are called chakras in Sanskrit, them. more power, everything will come into a beautiful balance. There
which means "wheel." These spinning vortices of The chakras do not awaken. They are already awakened in every- will be a natural hierarchy of people based on the awakening of their
one. It only seems as if they awaken as we become aware of flowing soul, just as previous ages established hierarchies founded on power
energy are actually regions of mind power, each one our energy through them, because energy, willpower and awareness or intellectual acumen. With that one needed balance, everything on
governing certain aspects of our inner being, and to- are one and the same thing. To become conscious of the core of en- the Earth will quiet down, because the vishuddha chakra is of the
ergy itself, all we have to do is detach awareness from the realms of new age of universal love, in which everyone sees eye to eye, and if
gether they are the subtle components of people. reason, memory and aggressive, intellectual will; then turning in- they do not, there will always be someone there to be the peace-
When inwardly perceived, they are vivid1y colorful ward, we move from one chakra to another. The physical body maker. Look back through history and you will see how these plan-
and can be heard. In fact, they are quite noisy. changes as these more refined energies flow through it. And the etary influences, these great mind strata of thought, have molded
inner nerve conduits, nadis, inwardly become stronger. history and people.
When awareness flows through anyone or It may help, as we examine each of these centers individual- Personal patterns: The same cyclical pattern of development in
more of these regions, the various functions of ly, to visualize ourselves as a seven-storied building, with each human history is evident even more clearly in the growth of the in-
story being one of the chakras. Awareness travels up and dividual. In the seven cycles of a person's life, beginning at the time
consciousness operate, such as memory, rea- down in the elevator, and as it goes higher and higher, it of birth, awareness automatically flows through one of these chakras
son and willpower. The physical body has a gains a progressively broader, more comprehensive and and then the next one, and then the next, provided a pure life is lived,
connection to each of the seven higher beautiful vista. Reaching the top floor, it views the panora- following Sanatana Dharma under the guidance of a satguru. Each
ma below with total understanding, not only of the land- one experiences the chakras somewhat differently, depending upon
chakras through plexuses of nerves along scape below, but also of the relation of the building to oth- the amount ofkundalini force [see page 36] that is released. Non-re-
the spinal cord and in the cranium. As the er buildings and of each floor to the next. Venturing ligious people, who have a minimal amount of kundalini released,
below the muladhara, we enter the basement levels of may experience the chakra only in its physical and emotional mani-
kundalini force of awareness travels along consciousness. festation. Those who perform sadhana will experience the chakras in
the spine, it enters each of these chakras, energizing Planetary patterns: During each predominant age a much deeper way. Yogis performing tapas, serious austerities,
them and awakening in turn each function. By exam- throughout history, one or another of the chakras has come would likely experience each chakra in the depths of their soul body.
ining the functions of these great force centers, we can into power. When the Greek God Cronus, the God of time, In reality, most people never make it into the higher four chakras,
clearly cognize our own position on the spiritual path was worshiped, the mass consciousness came into memo- but instead regress back time and again into the chakras of reason,
and better understand our fellow man. ry-the muladhara chakra-with its new-found concern for instinctive will, memory, anger, fear and jealousy. Nevertheless, the
In anyone lifetime, one may predominantly be aware . time, for a past and a future, dates and records. Next the natural, ideal pattern is as follows. From one to seven years of age,
in two or three centers, thus setting the pattern for the mass consciousness came into the svadhishthana and its pow- one is in the muladhara chakra learning the basics of movement,
way one thinks and lives. One develops a comprehension of ers of reason. Reason was a God in the Golden Age of Greece. language and society. The patterns of the subconscious are estab-
these seven regions in a natural sequence, the perfection of Discourse, debate and logic all became instruments of power lished primarily in these early years. From seven to fourteen one is
one leading logically to the next. Thus, though we may not and influence. If it was not reasonable, it was not true. Next the in the svadhishthana chakra. One reasons, questions and refmes the
psychically be seeing spinning forces within ourself, we never- chakra of will came into power. Man conquered nations, waged ability to think for oneself Between fourteen and twenty-one, one
j theless mature through memory, reason, willpower, cognition, uni- wars, developed efficient weapons. Crusades were fought and king- comes into willpower. The personality gets strong. Likes and dislikes
I versallove, divine sight and spiritual illumination. doms established. Our world was experiencing force over force. Di- solidify. Generally, about this time one wants to run away from home
There are six chakras above the muladhara, which is located at rect cognition, the anahata chakra, came when man opened the and express oneself. From twenty-one to twenty-eight one begins
l' the base of the spine. When awareness is flowing through these
chakras, consciousness is in the higher nature. There are also seven
doors of science within his own mind. He cognized the laws of the
physical universe: mathematics, physics, chemistry, astronomy and
realizing responsibilities and gaining a new perspective of them-
selves and the world. Theoretically, one should be in anahata, the
chakras below the muladhara, and when awareness is flowing chakra of cognition, but a lot of people never make it.
through them, consciousness is in the lower nature. The lower Inner world map: (left) A traditional diagram shows the myriad di- If awareness is mature and full, however, having incarnated many,
chakras are located between the coccyx and the heels. In this age, mensions of Hindu cosmology; (above) a Vaishnava rendition of the many times, one goes on at twenty-one to twenty-eight into the ana-
the Kali Yuga, most people live in the consciousness of the seven Manipura chakra, with the presiding deity being carried by Caruda hata chakra. Here we begin to understand "what its all about." We

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comprehend our fellow men and women, their relationships, the person lives predominantly in this chakra during the first seven years anahata consciousness. The Seven Sub-Muladhara Regions
world around us. We seek inwardly for more profound insight. This of life, acquiring language skills, relationships and cultural ways. Vishuddha: Universal or divine love is the faculty expressed by the Atala: The flrst lower chakra, located in the hips, governs the state
chakra is stabilized and smoothly spinning once one has raised one's Svadishthana: Once the ability to remember has been estab- vishuddha chakra, Whenever people feel filled with inexpressible of mind called fear, which is truly a bottomless abyss. Someone in
family and performed one's social duty, and though one may yet con- lished, the natural consequence is reason, and from reason evolves love for and kinship with all mankind, all creatures large and small, this consciousness fears death, fears life, even fears God and other
tinue in business, one would find the energies withdrawing natural- the intellect. Reason is the manipulation of memorized information. they are vibrating within the sixteen-petaled vishuddha. When people. This center is also the home of lust and promiscuity.
ly into the chest. It is most often the renunciate, the mathavasi, the We categorize it, edit it, rearrange it and store the results. People in deeply inmlersed in this state, there is no consciousness of being a Vita/a: Here anger predominates, and burning resentment. Anger
sannyasin, who from twenty-eight to thirty-five or before, depending this six-petaled chakra research, explore and wonder, ''Why? Why? person with emotions, no consciousness of thoughts. One is just be- comes from despair, confusion, frustration or lack of understanding.
on the strictness of his satguru, comes into the vishuddlw chakra, Why?" They propose theories and formulate rational explanations. ing the light or being fully aware of oneself as radiant force flowing People in the consciousness of this chakra, centered in the thighs,
into inner light experiences, assuming a spiritual responsibility for They often form a rigid intellectual mind based upon opinionated through all form. One may sometimes see light throughout the en- are always wrathful, mad at the world, even angry at God..
himself and for others. This awakening soul appreciates people, loves knowledge and accumulated memory, reinforced by habit patterns tirety of the body. The exceptional soul who resides fully in this cen- Suta/a: This chakra, found in the knees, governs jealousy, wanting
them. His heart and mind broadly encompass all of humanity. He is of the instinctive mind. It is in this chakra that the majority of peo- ter, usually between the ages of 28 and 35, is able for the fIrst time what one can't have. Jealousy is a feeling of inadequacy, inferiority
less interested in what people do and more in what they are. It is here ple live, think, worry and travel on the astral plane. We open natu- to withdraw awareness totally into the spine, into sushumna, the and helplessness. People in sutala consciousness covet everything, of-
that, having withdrawn from the world, the world begins to renounce rally into this chakra between ages 8 and 14. This center controls central spiritual current. Ultimately, he realizes that the inner being ten deny the existence of God and are contentiously combative.
him. Then, from thirty-five to forty-two or before, he perfects his the muladhara, as does each progressively higher chakra control is the reality of himsel£ Ta/ata/a: Prolonged confusion dominates here, giving rise to in-
sadhanas and lives in the ajna chakra, experiencing the body of the those that lie below it. Ajna: The sixth force center is called ajna. It is the "third eye," the stinctive willfulness: to get rather than give, to push others around
soul, that body of light, awareness traveling within naturally at that Manipura: The third chakra is represented in the central nervous center of divine sight and direct congition. Of its two "petals" or and pursue materialistic advancement over all else. Greed and de-
time, withdrawing from mundane matters of system by the solar plexus, where all nerves facets, one is the ability to look into the lower ceit prevail in this dog-eat-dog state of mind,
the conscious mind. From forty-two through merge to form the "second brain." Of its ten worlds or states of mind and the other is the centered in the calves.
forty-nine he is getting established in the sa- petals, five face up and five down. Corre- perception of the higher worlds, or spiritual Rasata/a: This chakra of the ankles is the
hasrara chakra in a very natural way, having spondingly, depending on how the energy is states, of consciousness. It, therefore, is the true home of the animal nature. Unmitigated
met all of the responsibilities through life. flowing, the forces of willpower from this connecting link, allowing the awakened soul selfishness prevails, of seeing to the well-being
Esoterically, there are seven more chakras chakra add power either to worldly con- to relate the highest consciousness to the low- of "number one" first. The suffering of others
above and within the sahasrara. Agamic Hin- sciousness through the first two centers or to est in a unified vision. We open naturally into is of no concern. Jealousy, anger and fear are
du tradition cites them as seven divisions of spiritual consciousness through the fourth this chakra between ages 35 and 42. intense, even high, states of consciousness.
Paranada, inner sound. They are, from high- and fIfth centers. When awareness is con- Sahasrara: The seventh center at the top of Mahata/a: This is the realm of conscience-
est to lowest: Unmana, Samana, Anasrita, fined to the realms of memory, reason and the head is called the crown chakra. Accord- lessness, or inner blindness to the effect of
Anatha, Ananta, Vyomanga and Vyapini. aggressive willpower, men and women are in- ing to the ancient mystics, it governs 1,008 as- one's actions, of negativity and deep depres-
These chakras are a conglomerate of nadis stinctive in nature. They are quick to react pects or attributes of the soul body. These per- sion. Those living in this chakra of the feet steal
that slowly develop as a result of consistent and retaliate, quick to have their feelings hurt sonae are transparent, a crystal-clear white freely, taking what they justify as theirs any-
and repetitive Self-Realization experiences. and quick to pursue the conquest of others light, ever present, shining through the cir- way, feeling that the world "owes them a living."
while fearing their own defeat. In these states cumference of the golden soul body. Here the Pata/a: Here, in the soles of the feet, is the
The Seven Chakras or Higher Consciousness of mind, the ego rises to its greatest promi- soul dissolves even blissful visions of light and abode of destructiveness, revenge, murder for
Below we present a condensed overview of nence, and emotional experiences are ex- is immersed in pure space, pure awareness, the sake of murder, torture and hatred ex-
each of the seven principal chakras, followed by the seven chakras tremely intense. Young adults from 14 to 21 discover willpower, will- pure being. Within the sahasmra is the bmhmarandhra, or "door of pressed through harming the properties, minds, emotions and bod-
below the muladhara. For more details, and to see also how chakras fulness and individuality as this chakra unfolds. God," an aperture in the sushumna nadi through which the kundali- ies of others. Hatred and scorn abide here. Malice reigns supreme.
correlate to the physical body, refer this months gatefold, pages 3-5. Anahata: The center of perception and insight is often referred to ni exits the body, catapulting the mind beyond and into nirvikalpa Reason seldom reaches this state of mind.
The mu/adhara: The memory center, muladhara, located at the as "the lotus of the heart." Its 12 "petals" imply that cognition can samadhi, and the truly pure spirit escapes the body at death. We This is the story of our evolution through the mind-from the
base of the spine, creates a consciousness of time through the powers be expressed in twelve distinct ways or through as many masks or open naturally into the crown chakra between ages 42 and 49. gross to the refined, from darkness into light, from a consciousness
of memory. Whenever we go back in our memory patterns, we are personae. People abiding here are generally well-balanced, content Often when people get older, if they have not learned to sustain of death to immortality. We follow a natural pattern that is built
using the forces of the muladhara. It has four petals or aspects, one and self-contained. Even when in day-to-day life they become in- consciousness in the higher chakras, they start to drop in conscious- right in the nerve system itself: memory; reason; will; direct cogni-
of which governs memories of past lives. The other three contain the volved in the seemingly fractured parts, they are able to look ness, returning to reason and trying to understand why all the things tion; inner light perceptions of the soul which give a universal love
compiled memory patterns and interrelated karmas of this life. This through it all and understand. They have a deep understanding of that happened to them in their lifetime happened as they did. They of all mankind; psychic perceptions through divine sight; and the
chakra is associated also with human qualities of individuality, ego- human nature, which brings effortless tolerance and an innate abil- get stuck in the muladhara and spend years just remembering the heavenly refmement of being in the thousand-petaled lotus.
ism, physicality (including sexuality), materialism and dominance. A ity to help others, to resolve conflicts and confusions. Between ages past, reliving old experiences, good and bad alike, But more mature
21 and 28, perceptions deepen and understanding matures for those souls rightly fullfilllife's two fmal stages: senior advisor and religious ii~'~;~~'~~d;'d 'ii;~;~';~~;;';~~'I:~;~';~'~;~~':~'~~~~~~~;.~~:~~;::;:~~.~;.;~~~:;~~:~;;~.~:
Castles of consciousness: (counterclockwise from above) The mu- who enter this chakra. Many people regress back into reason and solitaire. They utilize their golden years to manifest higher-chakra by Harish Johari, Inner Traditions loternational, Ltd., Rochester, Vermont 05767 USA; Theories of the
ladhara, svadishthana, manipura, anahata, vishuddha, ajna and sa- memory. But, if awareness is mature, having incarnated many times, faculties oflove, light, inner vision and God Realization through ser- Chakras: Bridge to Higher Consciousness, by Hiroshi Motoyarna, and The Chakras, by C. W Leadbeater,
Theosophical Publishing House, 306 West Geneva Road, Wheaton, Illinois 60187 USA; The Chakra Hand-
hasrara chakras, shOWing their presiding deity and seed syllable and well-trained all through youth, the soul proceeds smoothly into vice, sadhana, pilgrimage, worship and meditation. book, by Shalila Shammon and Bodo J. Baginski, Lotus Light, PO Box Z, Wilmot, Wisconsin 531Z9 USA

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GraYling Up
Nonviolent methods of child rearing remain a
distant goal for most overworked moth~rs \

By CHO O DIE S IVARAM , B AN GALORE nipulation of marks. So far I have gotten


T TIMES , I CONFESS , I HAVE HIT MY them to stop hitting my daughter, age 8,
own son. He would. take it quietly, though teachers have subjected her to public
and when everything cooled down, humlliation as retaliation. Now I am work-
he'd ask me why I had punished ing to protect the rest of the students. Little
him-leaving me totally lost. Had I do teachers realize that harsh treatment has
adverse implicati~ns on young minds that
not yelled at this boy and told him
exactly and at length what was his fault and will carry forward into adulthood resulting /
why he was being punished? Only when I in personality damage.
calmly explained to him what had annoyed No easy change: Children can be exasper-
me, and why I had resorted to punishing a~g at times. What's the hapless mother to
him, would he understand and correat his do? Some who are blessed with tremendous
mistake and promise me never to do it again. patience let it pass or speak sweetly to the
I realized the whole exercise of punishment
was uncalled for. I could have communicat-
ed to him without the hitting. It would be
better for hiIp, and better for myself, too.
But how many mothers have the time, en-
ergy or the patience to go on explaining to
the child what his mistakes are? I specify
mothers because in most households the
mother is the villain when it comes to pun-
ishments. For most parents and children I
spoke to in Bangalore, it was the father who
never hit the child. Yet most children has spent all her life doing menial jobs and . for the ill behavior of the child and then find given them a whack or two then, perhaps
seemed to dread displeasing Dad-"He'll get essary," admits Mrs. Malathi
wants a better future for her children. But corrective steps without victimizing the lit- they would have been far better children
angry." This notion is often implanted by the Sharma, a renowned musician.
the middle-class, educated parents doing tle ones," states Dr. Radha, a child specialist. now," rues middle-aged, overworked Padma
mother herself in a bid to discipline .children Rare is the parent who has
this is just silly. Parents should understand Here in India, the child for all practical who starts the day at 4 :00AM to end it only by I

by threatening father's wrath. never struck the chilpren. "My .1


the psychology of the child, assess his abili- purposes is the responsibility of the mother. midnight. Sadly, the child is at the r!,!ceiving
The child who is not hit at home will wife and I conscientiously made I
ties and aptitude, be capable of judgment It's her duty to take care of their food and end of all this pent-up tension, often getting
soon~r or later most certainly be slapped, sure we never hit our children.
We always reasoned it out with and incJllcate certain values by being an ex- daily n~ds, get them ready for school, sit punished for no fault of his own. And when
caned or otherwise physically punished at ample themselves rather than being irra- with tliem through their studies in the a spanking comes, it seems wholly unreason-
even the best schools. I have seen teachers them, why we did not want them
tional, regimenting and beating them," ayers evenings and look after their other needs as ab~ to the child. The child is the helpless .
to d0 something. When they
easily use their hands on children for no rea-
threw tantrums or sat grumpily, Prof Ramakrishna.. "I myself," confides the well. A working mother spends all day slog- victim of mother's fra~ed nerves. Later
son at all-because somebody is not sitting professor, "was severely beaten by my elder ging both at hOqie and the office. It's amaz- apolGgies, however heartfelt, never. fully
properly during assembly or because a child we just ignored them and let ~t
brother when I was a young boy. But I got so ing what is expected of her. The husband, in erase the fear and hurt.
is whispering to her neighbor. In my chil- pass. After some time, they would
used to it that I became thick-skinned." sharp contrast, relaxes at day's end in front Lasting consequences: "The child is left
dren's school I have found teaphers beating realize that acting funny wouldn't
One victim of unreasonable expectations of the idiot box, rarely lending a helping defenseless by a beating," states Dr. Radha,
small children so often for trivial Feasons pay. It works well to be patient
is ten-year-old Sujit. His father insists that hand. Most households in middle-class fam- "and this feeling can be extremely damag-
that I wondered how they haJl..tlled their Hands full: Mothers worldwide cqznplain fathers won't with children," said C.R. SiJJ.ha, a his son get up at five in the morning to at- ilies functi6n this way. If in-laws or their ing. What if the child gecides to hit back-
own kids. When I asked teachers this ques- share fairly in child-rearing responsibilities veteran actor and director.
, tend a cricket coaching camp, but the child aged parents are in the home, mom and dad is the parent willing to take it? It's unfair to
tion, what emerged were little white lies- "I feel children get beaten be..!
is reluctant to wake up so ea'[ly. The father . will have'to pJ.lt up with a lot of interference, use physical power against someone weaker
"Oh no, I never beat my children. I control child. Some teachers scold mildly, some ad- cause of the impatience on the part of the feels he's providing a great opportunity and which has a spoiling effect on the child. and younger than you. Even if you insist an
them so beautifully." • monish and others choose to give a spanking parents," says Dr. Ramakrishna, a senior . that ·the child ought to' know that. He "Sometimes I wonder why I was born at occasional whack on the rear is necessary,
I spent a whole year during 19!i>7 trying to or two. "I feel that when children go out of professor of English. "If children don't meet dreams of seeing his son play test matches at all, when the husband doesn't lift a finger at still it should be as a warning, not a routine."
fight this issue at my children's SChool, where control, they need to be disciplined, and a their parents' high expectations, they begin a tender age. As a result, Sujit's}:Ilornings be- home, and children just don't listen to me. An eminent journalist friend of mine,
authorities were stubbornly complacent. To smack or two is necessary. Children have to chastise them. But why should the child gin with sermons and yelling. •. Every'time I have tried to discipline my two whose name I do not wish to disclose, ran
them this is no~issue at all. Parents prefer not the habit of getting the mother so agitated become a showpiece of the parent's expec- "What parentS'do not accept is that they sons, my in-laws would instantly jump to away from home at the tender age of nine.
to take up the matter for justified fear of that spanking beeomes inevitable. I have hit tations? Parents want the ehildren to achieve are the very cause fer the childs misbehav- their rescue. They have grown up with the His father 'would routinely hit him with a
subjecting their child to victimization, fear my children occasionally when the situation what they have not been able to. I can ex- ior. Parents have to ,first blame themselves habit of disregarding anything I say. Had I stick or iron rod "for no reason or fault of
of nonpromotion to the next grade and ma- warranted. At that moment, I felt it was nec- pect this attitude from my servant maid who I
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mine. I think he hated me," he confessed with the children and that I had C H I ·L D REARING frequently ignored. If you don't want your
chokingly. "Getting hit every day made me to be tough. The teachers would toddler to break your expensive vase, don't
so stubborn and defiant. I developed a
strong hatred for my family. My mother
would silently watch me being hit and at
mercilessly b'ang the heads of
these little children against the
wall and beat them with canes.
Better Discipline put it on the table where she can reach it.
Wher:. children are older, control may re-
quire substantial change. If your teenager is
times even supported Itly father rather than They wanted me to do the same in ~ school known for violence or drugs,
stopping him, because she wanted to be a
devoted wife. I decided to.:leave home to get
thing. I protested and quit the
job," s~s Aruna.
Nonviolent methods require patience and move to another school district.
A misbehaving child can be told to take a
away from this torture. I have slept on the "Teachers have to have emo= a firm belief, ~~Ifs
never right to hit a child~~ "time out," go to a quiet place until he is
pavement, done sundry jobs. I have been ill- tional control, logic and reason- ready to come back and behave appropriate-
treated by people. I have seen so much bit- ing. Lack of control over their ly. Some parents use a timer-
terness in life. But I was determined to suc- emotions and the superiority NeE PARENTS RESOLVE TO o~e minute for each year of
ceed. I educated myself the hard way and feeling that the teacher carries never hit their children, ' age-to enforce time out.
became a journalist." Today he represents with her makes her overpower what are they to do? There "Grounding" teenagers has
an international news agency and is a very the children, behaving like a bul- are many specific methods, proven to be the best method .,
successful journalist. He dotes on his six- ly. The tea'Cher has no right to lift but first there's the matter of of discipline. When there is
year-old daughter and ensures that she has a even a fmger against a child, she time. If parents won't devote the misbehavior, 'the teen is not al~
good life. But past experiences have left a must use more mature fOrIns of necessary time to the massive job lowed to leave the house except
terrible bitterness in him. controlling children. Unfortunate- , of raising children, all the best for school. He can't see his
"Seeing an adult lose control can have a ly, commitment, responsibility methods are sure to fail. There's friends, play sports, go to
devastating effect on the child, who learns and love for the work is not pre- also the matter of the past, of movies, nothing but stay home.
an unintended lesson: this is how to correct sent," explains Mrs. Indira Swa- how to change from hitting your This can be for a weekend for
others. When he or she grows up, they will minathan, a senior educationist. children to not hitting them. The minor offenses, or a month or /1
tend to behave the same way because they "In many schools the teachers recommended method .s to talk more for major ones.
think that is the way to discipline,". said Dr. are paid a pittance, made to work to them, apologize fot hitting Have fun witn.your children,
Ajit Bhide, a renowned child psychiatrist. long hours and often treated shab- them in the past and promise not spend your time with them.
Recently an educated middle-class moth- bily by' the management. They to do it again. Ask for their for- They love to' know that they
er, in a fit of rage, slashed and killed her five- give expression to their anger to- giveness, and encourage them to bring you light and joy. Don't
year-old child with a kitchen knife for mis- ward the management by treating do the flower penance [Publish- be so busy with job, friends,
pronouncing tlie word "forty." Similar reports the child harshly. Thats unfair," er's Desk, page 11] to help them adUlt relatives, television, etc.
of mothers unwittingly killing a child in a fit says Mrs. Sreenivasa Murthy. forgive you. Nonviolent parenting that you aren't there for your
of anger are all-too frequent. There is no law in India against is based on the concept of disci- children as they grow up.
Instances of child beating appear to be child abuse. A provision in the the Criminal pline, which means "to train," Hindu parents who just won't
more pronounced in the lower strata of soci- Procedure Code applies to such cases in the rather than punishment, which stop hitting their children
ety, commonly called the labor class. Besides form of Criminal Assault where a complaint means inflicting pain. should realize that even the
a socio-economical dimension of it, their can be fileg before the police or a magis- Modern nonviolent methods pro-spanking advocates in the
psycho-sensitivity is low and frustration lev- trate. It is extremely rare that parents use follow proven prlnciple~. Many West only allow for hitting
els are high. "They work like machines. It's a this recourse for fear of reprisal by the are common sense, others are with the open hand on the but-
matter of survival. Talking psychology and school against the chi~d. "These issues get more subtle and based on the tocks, just enough to make the
personality makes no sense to them. camouflaged. The statistics don't come out. specIfic mental and emotional child cry, a maximum of four
Whether the family can have both their The schools maintain th~ child abuse does development of the child at each strikes, and rarely-not daily or
meals in a day is wh1J.t matters. They simply not happen at all, but handling children vi- age. Dr. Katharine C. Kersey of weekly. Even Manu Dharma
don't have the time or the environment to olently is there in almost every school. It's a the Child Study Center, Old Do- Shastra forbids hitting a child
thi.nk of the psychological development of known fact," says Mrs. Swamin~than. minion University in Virginia, " on the head, and in the US
the ctuld, working so hard all day. Where do "When parents take up the issue of ill has assembled one list which is . ~ slapping a child in the face can
ther have the time to sit and think?" notes Punishment or torture? In some Hindu treatment towards the child by the teacher, excerpted and expanded here. ~ be a criminal offense. Swami
Mrs. Chakravarthy, a social worker. homes parents have disciplined children by the teachers tend to humiliate the child in Positive reinforcement means Gentle love: Parent~ stay much closer to children they don't hit Satchidananda of Integral Yoga
During my interviews, many said today's putting hot cayenne pepper in their eyes. the classroom. 'Ulis can have very serious to make' a big deal over responsi- Institute in Virginia, who en-
children are more prone to be disrespectful implications on' the CN.ild's psychology .and ble, considerate and appropriate behavior. certaip wrong thing, with the aim of slowly dorses corporal punishment, warns, "You .
and rude. Elders comment that today's chil- high handedly and physically abusing young p~rsonality. It can be more damaging than "Catch your child being g00d and praise her extinguishing that behavior. The curious girl should not get angry an,.d do it. Wh~n you
dren lack diScipline, bhaya-bhakti as they children, some resulting in the death" of physical abuse. We need a lot of laws to stop for it." The flip side' is to ignore minor mis- read the notes, realized the problem and have no control over yourself, you have no
call it-literally, "fear-devotion." "Our elders these young ones, are plentiful. One teacher child abuse in schools," says Dr. Bhide. behavior that is not dangerous, destructive or stopped. right to touch the child." Were these simple
had a way of disciplining thrQugh devotion made a young boy strip in front of his class- Laws are not essential for adults to behave embarrassing. Children want your attention, Children should, within obvious'limits of guidelines followed, the amount and ferocity
and fear of God. When they said bhaya, it mates and paraded him in s~hool for a silly like adults ~ho are expected to be more ma- and if the only way they can get it is by being safety, face the logical consequences of their of beating would drop precipitously.
did not mean fear of the father":or elder at reason, not bringing his book. T.hj.s resulted ture and logical. What is needed is a reason- mischievous, they will do so. You must re- actions. If he leaves for school and forgets Vast resources are available to the Hindu
home, but of doing wrong, the dangers of in the boys committing suicide. On Aprilz6, able amount of common sense, a humane verse this so that they learn doing good is the his coat, he.gets cold. If she doesn't do her parent who wants to el)d the cycle of physi-
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PARAPSYCHOLOGY
.
EVOLUTIONS

Kundalinl's Rise and Fall ENTERED: Scientist S. Ramesh Babu into


the Guinness Book of World Records
for cutting a 12
:¥4-inch (32 cen-
timeter) cucum-
Has the ancient Hindu scienc~ of enlightenment veered off cQurse? ber into 120,000
pieces in less z
z
u
than three hours
April 7 in Banga-
ITH ITS CHARISMATIC F LARE , the spiritual path; that because lore, India.
kundalini exploded into West- they have these energies buzzing Ramesh, who
ern consciousness in the early around their body, they~ve awak- practiced more Cucumber cutter
1970s, primarily through the ened their 'kundalini and now are than a year for
dramatic accounts of Gopl Krish- superior to the run-of-the-mill this day, followed a complex set of dia- • I
na and Siddha Yoga guru, Baba mortals. Any intelligent person grams designed for the project. This
MuKtananda. Intense interest was aroused, who meets up with these people I was his 13th world record.
and the Kundalini Research Foundation thinks, 'If that's what kundalini is,
(KRF) was begun in New York to promote don't even come near'me!' I have SWORN IN: Four sannyasins from Uttar
kundalini studies, education and awareness. 30 years experience talking to Pradesh during recent elections for In- I
dia's Lok Sabha parliament. Fielded by
It has been nearly 30 years since that spon- these people. I'm not just pulling
the BJP (Bharatiya Janata Party) they
/
taneous awakening. Some say the field has ideas out of thin air."
matured. Others dare to say it has stagnated. Meanwhile, a diverse group of are: Sachchidanand Hari Sakshi, Ram
Gene Kieffer, 72, President of the KRF, iIi. psychiatrists, psychologists, phys- Vilas Vedanti, Chlnmayanand and
speaking with HINDUISM TODAY, lamented, ical thed pists and educators feel Aditya Nath. Sakshi and Chin-
"We've never been able to convince anyone that kundalini is forging ahead. mayanand were members of the previ-
with money that this is worthwhile research. They founded the Kundalini Re- ous Lok Sabha. Nath, of Gorakhnath
In the early '70s, we" had a lot of scientists search Network as a separate Peeth, succeeded his guru as an MP.
interested. It was then a legitimate topic. But group from the KRF in 1990.
in about 197.7 or '78, the scientists turned The main focus of the KRN is to DIED: Wife of ex-Beatle Paul and fa-
off I think it was because of the thousands maintain among its members a mous animals rights/vegetarian activist
and thousands of people running around heightened awareness of the kun- Linda McCartney, 56, in Arizona, April
talking about their kundalini. There are so dalini phenomena that occur 19, of cancer.
many books out there which list the 'symp- around the world and to docu- Paul's office
toms,' that anybody who has a neurosis, or is ment it as Scientifically as possible. asked that in-
a borderline schizophrenic-or is just having The KRN consists of individual stead of sending
mental problems and lost their job-can end practitioner~ such as the Spiritu- flowers, people u
.
up convincing themselves that they 're on could make a do- "
al Emergence Network, in Santa
Cruz, Californ.la, and the Patan- nation to cancer
!;
... .
jali Kundalini Yoga Care center, in research or ani- 'o"
Tennesee, who administer to a mal welfare "
u
Kundalini Shakti portion of the 1,000 .Qlus people charities, "or, Linda McCartney
who yearly report some form of best of all, the
Dancing with Siva: Hinduism's kundalini awakening. KRNl; first tribute Linda herself would like best:
Contemporary Catechism, (Himalayan Vice President, Stuart Sovatsky, ,. ,- Go veggie." Linda developed her own
Academy Publications), defines Ph.D ., told HINDUISM TODAY that ther mental problems, seizure, disorders or ing to people's attention now, and the deepest line of meat-free foods. She said, '1 love
kundalini: "She who is coiled; serpent the actual number of legitiqtate early symptoms of disease. This has been a elem~nt of yoga is kundalini." And despite animals, and I'm not gonna eat them."
power." The primordial cosmic energy cases could be higher, but most in major problem for- those l who are serious his dejection, Kieffer admits that "There are
in every individual which, at first, lies the psychiatric community fail tQ, about spiritual practices, but are not with a genuine spritual masters with disciples who DIED: Self-styled
coiled like a serpent at the base of the or are unable to, identify !he ba- teacher who is fanlliiar with the phenomena." really will sacrifice, but they are rare. The New Age "guru"
spine and eventually, through the sic symptOIns. For that reason, he The enthusiasm of these young kundalini Hindu masters ... their tradition is sfill there. and author Fred-
practice of yoga, rises up the sushumna teaches a graduate course on rec- evangelists stands in stark contrast to the That's why we would send the scholars to In- erick Lenz, by .,
nadi. As it rises, the kundalini awakens ognizing kundalini awakening at disillusionment of veteran Kieffer. He re- dia. Where else are the archives?" apparent suicide "< ..
each successive chakra [see gatefold
and page 28]. Niroikalpa samadhi,
the California Institute for Inte-
gral Studies, which is attended by'
grets, "I've pushed so hard now that I've Just recer;'tly a "Body-Mind-Soul" center
gone over the brink, and I've stirred up a was estaqlished in Delli by Bharat Nirman
in New York,
April 14, at age "~ ..
enlightenment, comes as it pierces other therapists. Bonnie Green- hornets nest of pseudo playerS. It's a tragedy, ·to teach about kundalini. M.e. Bhandari of 48. Calling him- N
.,..JZ
through the door of Brahman at the Luminous leaders: (from top Mwn) Swami Chan- well, a transpersonal psychother- and I don't think it will ever come back to Mystic India, Calcutta, told HINDUISM To- self Zen Master
core of the sahasrara and enters! drasekharanand Saraswati and Joan Shivarpitd Harri- apist' co-founder of the KRN and where it was. There are tao many teachers, DAY that serious research in India is p eing Rama, Lenz re- Frederick Lenz
Kundalini shakti then returns to rest in gan ofthe PKYC; The KRN board of directors for 1998: teacher at ClIS, explains, "When and it is now an industry." done in four places: by Swamy Vidyanandji, cruited followers
anyone of the seven chakras. Complete (kneeling, left to right) Joan Harrigan,. Jean RoV-erts, there is no cultural paradigm for But Sovatsky has higher hopes. He specu- of Bharat Nirman, New Delli; Dr. ~inanath since 1980, telling them he had led
liberation occurs when the kundalini Jyoti Park, (standing) Stuart Sovatsky, Yvonne Kason, such events, those who are evalu- lates, "In the nexj 10-20 years, more people Rai, Y6ga Research Institute, Lucknow; the several lives and was one of only 12
arrives back in the sahasrara and Barbara Harris Whitfield, Lucette LeClerc, Russ Park, ated by therapists and doctors are in the West will be experimenting with it, Theosophical Society in Chennai and Dr. enlightened beings on Earth. He was
remains coiled in this crown chakra. Megan Nola:.n , Robert Turner, Jay Lynch, Bonnie forced into a medical model. like they did with meditation and yoga. The H.R. Nagendra of the Vivekananda Kendra criticized as exploitive of his students.
Greenwell; KRF's Gene Kieffer and wife, Aloe They are considered to have ei- deeper elements of those practices are com- Yoga Research Institute in Bangalore. . .

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l.emurian Scrolls
MUSIC YOUTH

Rhythmic Yo Dude, You'rct Rude!


Gymnasts A h:ip handbook f01;: etiquette-c~allenged teens

Indian drum maestros


, LEX J. PACKER OPENS HIS WITTY YET
wise, irreverent and very relevant
eating; etc.( 9. Give people a firm hand-
shake. 10. Have compassion towards others.
"band together in . book, How Rude, The Teenagers' Here is how Packer teaches teens to re-
to Good Manners, Proper Be- ceive gifts (after he has instructed them in
celebration of their art havior, and Not Grossing People Out, with all the goofs and skills of gift giving): "There AllltUIU"ed. datI"fOlJVl1 m'$lilll. allIII1tI.lIntOkS ~ 'CIf.arth
historical tidbits on manners: "The evolution are two ways to' receive a present: 1. with lrom lbe ~ raUlIoAs 01 ytIU. ud lbe mug)e:s Ia4 \1\ Cfto
lUI", em l16Wls maured 111.10 l'1'*r ultimate aest\nv _no t)Mnlfl,
of table manners can be quite fascinating. great pleasure, or 2. with greater pleasure.
NLY IN INDIAN CLASSICAL MUSIC For example, when forks were first used for Response No. 1 is for gifts you don't particu-
have percussionists so successfullyere- u eating in Tuscany in the 11TH century, they larly like. It involves a warm smile, a look of
ated a place for themselves as solo p were condemned by the clergy. This was be- delight and surprise, and expressions of
artists. ,While in the West, Alia Rakha ::;,--_~~_ _ _-,-~~_ _ _ _ _~_...;;;c.._ _ _~~~_ _ _~~~_ _ _ _---! cause food was seen as a gift from God. gratitude such as: 'Thank you so much.' 'I'm Lemurian Scrolls is a remarkable
and Zakir Hussain first brought the tabla Tempo duo: Santoorist Tarun Bhattacharya (right) accompanies Bikmm Ghosh on tabla going to enjoy reading it.' 'This
center stage, now new fast fingers and ,. will look so nice in my room.' 'I'll account of mankinds journey to
pounding palms have secured the spotlight. tion of the rhythmical systems of India's punch to recordings of santoorist Tarun sure stay warm in these.' For gifts i
And the "other In<llan drum," the carnatic North and South. While the text details the Bhattacharya. Returning the favor on Talk- you do . like, use response #2. Earth four million years ago and of
mrdangam, is also being honored. sophistication of the drums and Indian tala, ing Tabla, Bhattacharya j6ins Ghosh on one Wear an ear-to-ear grin. Let yom-
Bikram Ghosh is the latest welcome addi- musical time, these discs were never meant track. We would have enjoyed more such jaw fall open and your eyes bug the ensuing experiences and chal-
tion to the clique of solo percussion artists. to be academic. The greatest lessons are duets, but the character and intent of this out. Remain speechless for a sec-
His 1997 recording, Talking Tabla, has been taught by sound example. Ghosh and CD set is different. A variety of styles and ond or two as words fail you. Run lenges w e faced. Using the mysti-
re-released in a two-CD set called The Lan- Sankaran display impressive dexterity and instrumentations are presented in order to around the room a few times. Do
guage of Rhyt~m, (Music of the World, astute musicianship. But still, Ghosq.remains demonstrate: still only partially, the wide dy- cartwheels. Say, 'I can't believe it' cal siddhi of claiNoyance, Satguru
US$26.9.5). In addition to Bikram's best, the humble..- In a spare moment during an April namic range of the drunIffiers and music. and 'Oh, wow!' over and over
set includes the solo CD of mrdangam mae- US tour with Ravi Shankar, he told HINDUISM Ghosh says of his art, "When we sit with while you try to regain control of Sivaya Subramuniyaswami has
stro Trichy Sankaran [see A Master's in TODAY, "It is the blessings of the gurus which our instrument, we take off our shoes. We • your conscious mind. Then let
Rhythm, May, 1997'], as well as a 26-page gives you success. Without their guidance, I pray, touch the feet of the guru and then be- loose a torrent of thanks: 'This is transcribed ancient akashic records
booklet introducing the history, construction would not have been able to do anything." gin playing. It is a form of prayer." .. ;0-0-0-0-0 fabulous! ' 'I've wanted
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HEALING children. "Nonorganic" failure to thrive is a as a doctor." The advantages were s~bstan­
more complex disorder found in older chil- tial. "I could have practiced low-key without
dren. Studies have showh. that when a going to school," explained Sodhi, ''but I
home becomes abusive or dysfunctional, would be nowhere. I could not get lab tests
Consequences of the childs development will slow down.
During the years and months leading up to
a messy divorce, for example, the child's
done, or request x-rays or ultrasounds."
Most US states have been loathe to license
non-allopathic systems. But over the dec-
height and weight may cease to increase at a ades, several systems have been granted

Corporal Punishment normal rate. Daily beating and berating can .


similarly result in failure to thrive. The com-
promised future development may produce
permission to be licensed when certain
qualifications are met. Thus, naturopathy,
homeopathy, osteopathy, chiropractic and,
subnormal mentalities and mutilated bodies. most recently, acupuncture, have gained le-
Even a single slap can cause significant In the extreme situation, the child will gal status. In some states traditional Chinese
be below average height for his age and medicine is allowed full rights.
injuries" leave alone the psychological fallout birth weight; thin; even emaciated.; potbel-
ly; suffering from heatlaches, diarrhea;
Licensing is, at heart, a political process,
and alternative systems have gained' legal
"tension and misery; with an apathetic and status more by the dem~ds of consumers
B Y D E V A NAN D A TAN D A- v AN, M. D. withdrawn demeanor, prone to short tem- than by any openness from the allopathic
per tantrums, insensitivity to pain, insom- Dlspens'Rry: Calling it "medical treatment" and prescrib"ing an herb can get you arrested establishment. Chiropractors fought for
N EMERGENCY ROOMS ognized almost at once. nia and disrupted sleep, so that they roam decades against orchestrated persecution
across the US it's fairly Lesser trauma to the chest the house at night, probably searching for AYURVEDA from the American medical establishment.
common for young people may produce rib fractures. food; eating and drinking inappropriate Only after lengthy court battles were they
to be admitted in a bat-
tered state. The tip-off to the
diagnosis is often multiple
The fracture's pointed edge
may puncture the pleura
(covering the lungs) witlrthe
substances, such as things from the garbage
can. When a physician sees several of these
qualities in a child, he should investigate
Opening Shop in America, fmally left to practice in peace.
Acupuncture started to gain popularity in
the US in the 70S, around the same time
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fractures of bones in various result that the lung may col- the family situation and, if necessary, rec- ayurveda appeared on the American scene.
stages of healing. But many lapse, impairing respiration. ommend counsellirlg. Traditional doctors face the need for licensing As the result of intense grassroots efforts, it
abused children never reach Trauma to the chest and If the infant and younger child does not gained legitimate status. As of 1996, 11
the hospital. They are often upper lumbar area may pro- receive enough personal attention, cud- states regulate the practice of acupuncture
unattended and not discov- duce a hematoma or infrac- dling, holding, kissing and general fulfill- AVIN IS A CASHIER IN A NEW YORK is that you do not try to pretend or sound by physicians and 26 states offer licensing for
ered until symptoms of such tion of the kidneys. A blow ment of his needs, he is likely to have bookstore. But he is no ordinary like you are a licensed allopathic medical nonphysician acupuncturists. Licensing al-
ferocity appear that they are can injure the ureter (duct psychological changes that will also induce cashier. Navin (not his real name) is ac- doctor. Thus, you carmot say 'treat,' 'diag- lows a practitioner to open a clinic and pro-
taken to a doctor. Parents feel from kidney to urinary blad- changes in the gastrointestinal system, so tually a full-qualified vaidya, an nose' or< 'prescribe,' or call your business a vides qualifying services for graduates with
their abuse is not very seri- der) to an extent that it is that a state of malnutrition begins. If a ayurvedic doctor, hailing from Gujarat. "I 'clinic.' You can say 'analyze' or 'suggest,' foreign degrees. Local boards of experts are
ous; however, some children blocked, leading to perma- factor of physical abuse is added to this studied medicine for six years in India. But I and call your business a 'center.' You cannot set up by the state to issue the licenses.
have suffered lifelong consequences be- nent kidney disease. . neglect, there may be marked psychologi- carmot practice iii. America, and so I sell call yourself a 'doctor,' but can say you are a A,yurveda is ~ong the newest systems to
cause of abuse. Here are some of the com- A child is usually reluctant to name the cal changes such as depression, lack of in- books and magazines and occasionally give 'holistic educator' or 'guide.'" arrive in America. It is gaining popularity
mon and frightful complications. abuser. This may be partially due to a mis- terest in games, inability to digest food, free consultations," explains Navin. His fa- Dr. Vrrendra Sodhi, who runs the Ayurve- through efforts of people such as Deepak
Slapping the face may injure the eye placed loyalty to parents or fear of further antagonistic behavior lYld even changes in ther, who lives in the US, brought him from da and Naturopathic Medical Clinic in Chopra and organizations such as Mahar-
from pressure applied. A common result is retribution. The US has social agencies to the mentality, as evidenced by changes in India five years ago. "I was unemployed for Washington State, told HINDUISM TODAY, "I ishis Transcendental Meditation. As yet, it
retinal detachment, which if unrecognized look after all childrens' well being. In cases the intelligence quotient. The personality more than a year before ending up here." studied ayurveda for six years in college in lacks the public support necessary to estab-
may produce permlillent blindness. There of habitual abuse, children may be taken changes seem to bring about more parental Because ayurveda is not a recognized form India. But when I came to America, I had to lish a licensing procedure, but that should
may also be rupture of the eardrum., lead- from the parents. Once, social w~rkers abuse as the child becomes older. of medicine in the US, Navin carmot set up go back to college for four more years of change in just the next few years. ~
ing to permanent deafness or decreased installed a video camera in a boy's reom to A family whose children fail to, thrive a clinic. Unable to pursue his real profession, naturopathic medicine so I could get a li- AYURVEDA HOLISTIC CENTER, 8 ZA BAYVILLE AVE ., BAYVILLE,
hearing. The many small bones in the face have evidence. After several weeks of sur- lacks communication and interaction be- he plans to return to India early next year. cense to open qJ.y clinic and be recognized NEW YORK 11709. e-mail:mail@ayurvedahc. com

are delicate and may be fractured, leading veillance, it ~as found the boy was abused · tween its members, parental bonding, nur- "Navin is one of the lucky
to problems with the sinuses, nose and by an older sib4Pg out of jealousy and a turing and attachment. The child responds ones. At least he is able to prac-
teeth. Breathing may be impaired.
Rapping the skull with ones knuckles
need for attention. So it is not always the
parents, foster parents, relative or such.
Many abused children have such mental
.in like kind, frequently with feeding and
behavioral problems. Even in otherwise,
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tice a little Ayurveda," says Swa-
mi Sada Shiva Tirtha, India-
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Charitable Grants 118,180
our strategy of keeping endowment funds in the relatively stable political and economic climate of Advertising and Promotion 4,981
the United States; We also changed inve~tment managers, and welcome the trust a~d investm,ent Amortization Expense 1,956
team of Firs~ Hawaiian Banl< who meet with us regularly as advisors of our Po oded 'Income Fund. Office Expenses 14,620
Much of our success centered around the beneficiaries of our grants, which included orphalls TOTAL EXPENSES 139,738
\n war-torn Sri Lanka and two ancient temples in India, still actively serving the spiritual needs of
thousands of Hindus. Our grants placed free books on Hinduism in more than 500 libraries around Excess of Income over Expenses Before 232,534
the world qnd ·gave an honorarium to the Hinduism Today Hindu ofi:he Year. Hundreds of copies Investment Activity
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of HINDUISM TODAY were sent out free of charge to sadhus and swamis around, the world each
m~nth. In addition, sevepl new endowment funds w.ere established during the year which will
Gain (Loss) on Sales ofInvestments - Stocks
Gain (Loss) on Sales ofInvestments - Bonds
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7,252
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broaden the distribution of grants in future years. The true beneficiaries of our programs were the
many generous donors. The good merit,. the feelings of love and satisfaction that result from giving Increase (Decrease) in Unrealized Appreciation of Stocks 15,137
without tl'\,\ught' of reward are truly the most valuable of benefits which will stay with each indi- Increase (Decrease) in Unrealized Appreciation of Bonds 4,935
vidual, not only the rest of this life, but into futUre lives as well. We thank you all for strengthening
Hindu Dharma in modern times. Excess of Income over Expenses 320,284

Total Assets at Market Value, Beginning of Year $2,031,824


Total Assets at Market Value, End of Year $2,352,108
A LIST OF CURRENT ENDOWMENTS WITH FUND TOTALS
ENDOWMENTS SUPPORTING HINDU 047. Kaithady -?aiva Children's Home: faffna, Sri Lanka.
TEMPLES AROUND THE WORLD $5,000.00 $120,000.00 -
002. Iraivan Temple En"dowment: Kauai, Hawaii, USA $2,500,000.00
048. Sri Ramakrishna Sarada Sevashram: Point Pedro, Sri
$810,650.35. Lanka. $5,000.00. $2,250,000.00 -
011. Iyarappan Temple Trust: Thiruvaiyaru, Tamil Nadu, '
, India. $5,374.68. ENDOWMENTS SUPPORTING $2,000,000.00 - $100,000.00 -
EDUCATIONAL INSTITU'FIONS OR PROGRAMS
003. Kauai Aadheenam Annual Archana Fund: Kauai, Hawaii, 016. Malaysian Hindu Youth Educational Trust: Malay~\a. $1,750,000.00 -
USA. $42,2,88.79. ' $9,756.61.
ENDOWMENTS DEDICATED TO $1,500,000.00
MEMORIAL AND FAMILY ENDOWMENTS
PUBLISHING HINDU BOOKS OR JOURNALS- 010. Nadesan Family Lord Murugan Shum Fund: Kauai, 1995 1996 1997
·004. Hinduism Today Distribution Fund: Kauai, Hawaii, USA. Hawaii, USA. $12,852.46. Assets at Market Value Total Grants by Year
$274,954.08.
025. Sundari Pe.urnan Memorial Scholarship Fund: Kauai,
005. Hindu Businessmen's Association Trust: Kauai, Hawaii, Ha}Vaii, USA. $5,961.58.
USA. $120,16{l.17.
037. AShanmugam Family Fund (Ipoh): Tamil Nadu, India. INVESTMENT MANAGERS AND CONSULTANTS: Franklin Management Inc.; First Hawaiian Bank,
ENDOWMENTS SUPPORTING _ $5,290.99.
WORJ,D HINDU RELIGIOUS LEADERS ,038. The William E. Daniels Endowment for Hindu Religious Trust & Investment Division; Brand.es ~~vestment Partners, Inc.; Pacific Century Trust (Bank of
'007. Hindu of t.l~ Year Fund: Kauai, Hawaii, USA. $7,033.87. Art and Artifacts: Kauai, Hawaii, USA. $5,290.99. Hawaii); Alvin G. Buchignani, Esq., attorney; and Na1:han Palani, CPA. HHE is a member of the .
006. Kailasa Peetham Gift Fund: Kauai, Hawaii, USA. Council on Foundations, an association of 1,500 foundations which interprets relevant law, inter-
$134,037.71. FUNDS IN THE PROCESS OF FORMATION
(ENDOWMENTS ACTIVATE AT 05$5,000) national and domestic, and accounting, management and investment principles.
ENDOWMENTS SUPPORTING 018. Sri Siva Subtamaniya Swami Devasthanam 'lirust: Fiji.
,HINDU MONASTIC COMMUNITIES
001. Kauai Aadheenam Monastic Endowment: Kauai, Hawaii, 020. Hinduism Today Editorial Trust USA
021. Vishwamata Gayatri Trust Fund: India
HINDU HERITAGE ENDOWMENT
USA. $724,573.01. .
KAUAI'S HINDU MONASTERY
014. Sri Subramuniya Ashram Scholarship Fund: Kauai, 024. Jeyanandarajan Faroily Fund: Sri Lanka.
Hawaii, USA. $6,181.~8 . . :. . 031. Panchamukha Ganapati Endowment Mauritius. 107 Kaholalele Road
009. Mathavasi Medical Fund: Kauai, Hawaii, USA.
$17,810.07.
032. Kalakshetra Scholarship Fund: India. , " Kapaa, Hawaii, 96746-9304 USA
Tel: (800) 890-1008, Ext. 235 .
033. Tmunular Sannidhi Preservation Fund: India
ENDOWMENTS SUP~ORTING Outside US: (808.) 822-3152, Ext. 235
HIND,U SOCIAL SERVICE PROGRAMS 036. Somnath Te:Ople Trust: Gujjarat, India. . I
012. Ifhirunavukkarasu Nayanar Gurul\ulam Fund: Amparai 039 Nepal Kumari Goddess Educational Trust Nepal Fax: (808) 822-4351
District (Hindu Orphanage Fund), Sri I;,anka. $19,921.43. 043. Saivite Hindu Scriptures Fund for the Visually Impaired: India E-mail: hhe@hindu.org
022. Hindu Orphanage Fund: Worldwide. $1,356 )~ · ( Plus ))46 Puri Monateries Fund: Puri, Orissa, India.
, Fund # 012, above.) , www.hindu.org/hhe/
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