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Contents
1 Terminology
2 Limits to submission
3 See also
[edit] Terminology
The behaviors of bottoms and submissives are similar, and in many cases overlap. For this
reason, the terms are used interchangeably in some discussions, although there are
differences between the two. Behaviors of submissives and bottoms often overlap, with the
bottom also being submissive, but this is not always the case. Someone who is "topping"
may be doing so at the request, or even the direction, of the bottom partner(s). In such a
case, the dominant's function would reside with the bottom(s). Tops who act within this
kind of relationship dynamic are sometimes called a service tops. A bottom who has
dominance over the activities or the relationship is said to be topping from the bottom, even
though they are really expressing dominance from the bottom.
Within communities of lifestyle BDSM devotees, there exists a widespread prejudice
against both service tops and bottoms that top from the bottom. Both are considered by
many to be failing to achieve a "proper" BDSM relationship dynamic especially if the
partners are purported to be trying to achieve dominant-top/submissive-bottom relationship.
Bottoms or submissives who are also comfortable assuming a top or dominant role are
referred to as switches.
Sadomasochism
Top (BDSM)
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Bondage and
discipline
B&D or B/D
Dossie Easton, Janet W Hardy. The New Bottoming Book. Greenery Press, 2003.
ISBN 1-890159-36-0.
Jay Wiseman: SM 101: A Realistic Introduction. Greenery Press (CA) 1998, ISBN
0-9639763-8-9
Phillip Miller, Molly Devon, William A. Granzig (Vorwort): Screw the Roses, Send
Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism. Mystic Rose
Books 1995, ISBN 0-9645960-0-8
William A. Henkin, Sybil Holiday, Consensual Sadomasochism : How to Talk
About It and How to Do It Safely, Daedalus Publishing, 1996. ISBN 1881943127.
Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission ISBN 978-067-976956-9
Breslow, Norman: SM Research Report, v1.1, 1999
Janus, Samuel S. / Janus, Cynthia L., 1993 The Janus Report on Sexual Behavior,
Wiley, New York
Thomas S. Weinberg: S&M Studies in Dominance and Submission (Ed.),
Prometheus Books, New York, 1995 ISBN 0-8797-5-978-X
Robert Bienvenu, The Development of Sadomasochism as a Cultural Style in the
Twentieth-Century United States, 2003, Online PDF under Sadomasochism as a
Cultural Style
Charles Moser, in Journal of Social Work and Human Sexuality 1988, (7;1, P.43-56)
Gloria G. Brame, BDSM/Fetish Sex:Overview and Study, online gloria-brame.com
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General
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LGBT-
specific
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