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Introduction:
A A recent Gallop poll said 4 out of 10 Americans admit to frequent feelings of intense loneliness.
*The Beatless song "Eleanor Rigby" describes Father Mackenzie, a lonely priest, wipes the dust from his
hands after a funeral, feeling the emptiness of life..Eleanor Rigby is the lonely church custodian, picks up
the rice from the sanctuary floor after peoples wedding and "lives in a dream." These two lost souls have
gone their lives almost elbow to elbow, inhabiting the same world without connecting-until one buries the
other.
a Adults handle their loneliness food, drugs, strained relationships, move, churches, jobs......
b Teens handle their loneliness is different ways....Suicide/Kill others.
*Last Week in Erfurt, Germany
Robert Steinhaueser (19 year old gun enthusiast went to his school and killed 13 teachers (1/3 the
faculty), 2 students and a policemen before he turned his 9mm Glock on himself.
*The chief investigator said, http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,51322,00.html
He said Steinhaeusers mother told police she had not noticed any unusual behavior in her son, described
by officials and acquaintances as a loner with few, if any, close friends.
Columbine High School in Littleton, Colorado 3 years ago...Eric Harris/Dylan Kleighbolt
*Killed 12 students and themselves. Harris kept a
diary....http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,40146,00.html
The journal entries flesh out the picture of Harris as a teen who felt excluded by other kids and frustrated
with women.
"I hate you people for leaving me out of so many fun things," he wrote. "You people had my phone #, and I
asked and all, but no no no no no dont let the weird looking Eric kid come along."
B Loneliness isnt a sin-its a by-product of being human. (We are made in Gods likeness. Why did He
make us? He wanted our fellowship.
a Loneliness becomes a sin when...chose to indulge in it, posses us and ruins our lives, ignore the biblical
prescription for it. (Oh yes, the bible talks about loneliness.)
King David: Ps. 102:3, 6-7, 142:4 (If a man like King David-A man after Gods own heart can be lonely...I
dont feel near as bad about my loneliness.)
The Apostle Paul: Started countless missionary churches, spoke multiple languages, well educated, went
everywhere, knew everyone, wrote the greatest theological treatise in the book of Romans. Senior
Adult/Single......2 Timothy 4:9-11, 16
*Paul felt the icy chill of loneliness. He may be THE Apostle Paul...but he knows your pain.
PR 18:24 A man of many companions may come to ruin,but there is a friend who sticks closer than a
brother.
To have friends, be a friend.
Conclusion:
A We all experience bouts of being alone, loneliness. Long-term loneliness is a choice.
a Acknowledge your loneliness (It happens), Accept Gods provision (Cross)
b Allow Gods Word to fill you (Re-charge), Activate your network of Christian friends
B I hope youll help alleviate the epidemic of loneliness.
a So far Ive put all the initiative on the shoulders of the person who is lonely .....
b We shouldalso be on the look out for those who are lonely to lift them up.
*A Japanese sculptor came to America with a unique twist on his art. At his exhibit, each state had a small
sign that read, "Please touch." He literally wanted people to feel his art.
*Were use to "Dont touch, Dont Enter"
*We are surrounded by people who want to be touched, noticed.
*They dont have sign around their neck that says "please touch", but be certain most people are hungry
for the touch of a friend.
C What are we doing to stop loneliness? (Our & Others)
a During the summer of 1995, Chicago experienced a horribly hot summer.
*Hundreds of people died due to the heat. Tragically, 41 people died without seemingly a trace of family or
friends.
*After all of the contacts had been made, 41 people were buried in a mass grave because nobody came
forward to claim their remains.
*Lets not people around die in a vacuum..in isolation....in loneliness.
*About 8 weeks ago I was called to do a funeral...and Mike McClure, his hired man Dave and myself were
the only ones who showed up.
b What are we doing to stop loneliness?
*Reach out. Reach in.