Let Go and Get Ready to Fly:

How to let go of a lifestyle that will never set you

free
Bad things are going to happen; this book will
show you how to get the good out of them.
In this book you will learn:

How to unleash your greatest ideas (start doing

what you always wanted to do successfully,
today. Live your dream lifestyle even when you
face hard times.)
How to position yourself in life to win even if
you thought you lost.
How hope, love, and faith can save your life,
business, and relationship, and take you to a
whole other level.
How to listen to the inner you
How taking action, even when scared to death,
can set you free.

In this book, you will also learn all that you need to
know to be able to let go of who you were, embrace
the person insidewho keeps talking to you, and
find your destiny. You will learn to listen to the
inner you and plan your best moves.
Most importantly, you will learn to let go and get
ready to fly.

Published 2015 & 2016 Under Title:

Let Go And Get Ready To Fly
ISBN 978-1511768542
Copyright 2015, 2016, 2019 & 2020 by Ouggo.
All rights reserved.

Dedication
I dedicate this book to my unborn child. When you
read this book not only will you learn more about
your father, but you will also learn about life, how
to make it great, and how to become awesome. I
also dedicate this book to all my readers, fans, and
new and long-term supporters. I thank you, every
little bit you did or are doing means a lot, and is
possibly why I have the time and the know how to
write this book for you.
I thank God for all of his spiritual guidance, and I
also want to thank my dear mother for always being
there for me. Another thank you goes to fellow
associates Windys Faro Monge, Tomas Hercule,
and Marlon Smeins, men I know who are not afraid
to let go and get ready to fly.

Table of Contents
Introduction5
About Author.5
Jeff Calixte Bio.12
Chapter 1: Hope, Love, and Faith15
Hope.15
Love.20
Faith.25
Chapter 2: Spiritual, Physical, and Financial
..28
Spiritual28
Physical34
Financial..38
Chapter 3: Find your true purpose in life....57
Chapter 4: How to fail better so you can win
.....63

Chapter 5: How to raise money to unleash your

greatest
ideas.......67
Chapter 6: Let me show you how to sell anything to
anyone85
The process of
selling86
Chapter 7: The voices you will
hear....99
Chapter 8: How I stay away from depression
.103
Chapter 9: You are ready to fly, but you need a push
.........................................................................111
Chapter 10: What does it take to become a winner?
........................................................................114
Chapter 11: How to let go of a poor persons habits
.122
Chapter 12: Can forgiveness really help you
succeed?...........................................................136
Chapter 13: Will your life ever get easier or better?

.........................................................................138
Chapter 14: How to love, but let
go?....................................................................140
Chapter 15: How to focus on one thing at a time
..146
Chapter 16: Emotions and
Generosity149
Emotions..149
Generosity150
Chapter 17: How to let go of what's not working
.152
Chapter 18: You need to hire people right now
.159
Chapter 19: How to find a
mentor.163
Asking for
help.164
Chapter 20: Road map to
success........167

You need a destination and

guidance..167
Coming up with a good
plan..168
Chapter 21: Dont waste your
money..171
Chapter 22: Dont be
discouraged..173
Chapter 23: Take
action...174
Daily Quotes and
Resources.....175
Resources.....175

Introduction
About Author
Jeff Calixte a.k.a Tblazz Soloz was born February, 9,
1987 at 8:45 a.m, Tuesday morning at a nearby hospital.
He lived in a farm in the south of Haiti, in a town called
Aquin from the age of two weeks to twelve years old.
When he was born, he was sick, and almost died until a
friend of his momsLila, his dads older sistercame
and helped the twenty-one-year-old inexperienced
mother save Jeffs life. His dad was not present since
the age of three months.
The dad who married Jeffs mother, when he was thirtytwo years old, had to leave the city: Due to the job he
was holding at that time, he learned that if he didnt
leave they were going to come and kill him and
everyone else he loved. Jeffs mom lived in constant
fear, until she had the chance to flee the country,
leaving the young boy to survive by living with his
grandma and grandpa. At that time, his grandpa was
not working due to back and eye injuries, so they both
had to live off his grandmaa great sales woman and
the owner of the biggest shop in the neighborhood. Jeff
didnt remember what his dad and mom looked like
anymore he was living with his grandma and grandpa
since the age of two, by then, the only people who he

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called mom and dad were his grandma and grandpa. He
felt happy with themthere was a large farm, a shop,
friends, and customers who would stop by to tell stories
like Romeo and Juliet; plus there were a few other
cousins living in the same household. It was perfect.
He learned of his mom at the age of seven, when she
came back from her hiding placewhere ever that
wasthough she had to come in secret, as they didnt
want the local authorities to find out. Of course after a
few days, his mom had to leave, and he can still
remember running away from the lady they said was his
motherthough at the age of seven all she was to him
was a stranger who brought a few gifts that smelled and
looked good.
When he was twelve years old, he found out that he
had to leave his grandparents place, and he ended up
in another country with his mom, where the Island
people spoke English, Creole, and Spanish. There he
learned of his brother and his little sisters, met his real
dad for the first time, and lived with him for about three
months before he had to leave againthis time using a
boat that almost killed his mom, his little sister, his
brother, and him. Luckily, they made it to St. Thomasa
US Virgin Islandalive.
There, Jeffs mom filed for US work permits, and asked
to stay for a while. There his mom also assured him that
they were safeno more running from the authorities.
Yes, they were safe, but they were also hungry. There
was no one to blame for the hungerdad was not
around and he had no job where he was at. Mom was
on her own with three kids to feed, clothe, and provide

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shelter for, and even today Jeff still didnt know how
she did it.
Luckily, his mom's older brother was there, so that
helped a littlegiving them a living room for all four of
them to stay in, while he took the small room in the
back of the broke-down one-bedroom apartment. His
moms brother did all he could for themthat one
bedroom apartment was all he could afford, but he
was sick and he only had a few months to live. During
his last few days, he was bleeding to death, and they
could no longer hide his condition from Jeff. It was a
really unfortunate moment in his lifethe only person
who could help them was now about to die. They also
had to move out that same week without knowing
where they were going to gowhen his uncles
condition was getting worse, Jeffs mom was worried
and didnt want any of the kids to get sick or watch their
uncle die. In his last days, Jeffs uncle vomited blood
and died a painful death. At the time, Jeff was the
oldest, and though his mom didnt want him to know
what had happened, he later found out that his uncle
was dead, and had to help clean up the apartment
blood was everywhere. Little twelve-years-old Jeff also
had to grow up and help with the kids, while his mom
worked two jobs she didnt like.
Later on, Jeff went to school, but couldnt understand
what the teachers were teaching; however, he got
through it with his one friend Volmar Christon, and
things started to get good again. Jeff and his friend, who
was living on the Island at that time, played soccer for
the local school, and he enjoyed it, but he found out
that sports werent really his thing; making money was
more of his thing, especially after a few kids teased him

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for not having the proper clothes to wear when coming
to school.
After that moment, he really wanted to be rich. He
believed he was going to do everything in his power to
never feel poor again, and he was determined that he
was going to be rich one day. When he saw the kids
who teased him at school, he looked at them and said in
his head, One day Im going to be richer than you,
your whole family, and your whole generation ever
was.After that day, Jeff decided to start his first small
business and make some real cash. He closed his first
business deal with his moms landlord.
The landlord had a big place that was not looked after
well, and Jeff could see opportunity everywhere. The
tenants were complaining about the place being trashy
all the time, so Jeff made a deal with the landlord to get
paid $40 dollars a month to look after the yard. It was
his first job, but not without issues. Doing the job with
no equipment of his own, Jeff couldnt get any more
moneyeven if he tried to squeeze it out of the
landlords wallet. At twelve years old, Jeff was no match
for a guy who has been doing business transactions for
years, so he basically gave Jeff whatever he wanted to
give, and $40 a month was the reward.
Eventually, Jeff had to leave his yard cleaning business
after doing it for a few months. He realized that without
his own equipment, it made it harder for him to expand
the yard cleaning businessplus at twelve years old,
everybody else he approached was more interested in
seeing him go to school than in giving him a contract to
cut their grass, including his mom. They all told him to
quit his business, and to focus on school. All he heard

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was, If you focus on school you will get a good job, the
job of your life even. However, he later found out,
after high school, that a job was never going to make
him rich: He needed to go back to business.
One year and four months later, fourteen-year-old Jeff
got accepted to come to the United States of America,
and left St. Thomas. In the US, he did a few months of
his 8th Grade class, made some friends, and went on to
Fort Myers, Florida High School. At the age of fifteen to
sixteen, Jeff taught himself how to read and write in
English, and by the age of sixteen to seventeen his ESL
teacher Mrs. Karen M. Rubin taught him how to get a
job. He found himself a job working at Publix, and by
the age of seventeen, he bought his own cara really
nice Blue Ford Taurus Gland was the only one with his
own car, bought with his own money, amongst his
peers. By the age of eighteen, he was working, running
track on the FMSH track and field team, doing
bodybuilding, and learning video production. He also
cut his first rap mix tape when he was 18, and all his
friends started calling on him when they needed a good
rapper.
By his senior year of high school, he got nominated and
won $500 dollars for being the most improved out of
over 2,500 students: he did the most and learned the
fastest. After high school, however; his job became a
dead end. The money was not enough anymore, and his
dreams to become a top rapper were fading. However,
Jeff still saw himself as someone big and great, and
knew he had to do something about the situation of not
earning enough money to do what he wanted to do and
to be who he wanted to be. His hope and focus was on
music, but he soon found out that making it in the

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music industry was not that easy. He says, Damm, it
was harder than I thought. I couldnt get rich, even after
Id cut two albums. To search for other ways of
succeeding, he began his research on how he could get
a product for sale at Walmart, and he learned he might
have to invent something .
Since then, he says, I have been working on one of
my many great ideas, and perfecting that idea for
almost 7 years. I have many ideas ready to go, and that
one is in the negotiation stage for a worldwide license
agreement with a very popular electronic company
located in the US. He adds, It has cost a lot of money
to get my ideas to the level that theyre currently at, but
nothing was going to stop me in my quest to become
rich. Hopefully a few years from now, I will have my first
innovated Idea live on the shelves of Wal-Mart.
Today, Jeff also has his own book, his own major
corporation, and his own company with many investors,
and he says, That is only the beginning. He plans to
write more books and unleash all his product ideas in
order to become rich and help other people around him
become rich. He says, Im on a mission and I will never
give up. I ask God for clarity and guidance as I prove to
myself and to the people who think that its impossible
that it isnt. I say nothing is impossible; impossible is
nothing.
At the time of this book, which is now his second book,
Jeff has decided to retire from music to become a
success coach, and says,Though I might still do music
on the side, a success coach is where my heart is at. His
next goal as a success coach is to help create over 250
millionaires, while also turning himself into a

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millionaire. He says,I cannot stand on the side while
the world tells me I will not achieve my goals or become
who I want to be. I have to start figuring that out: what
exactly my life means by the time I have to leave this
planet earth, what will I leave behind, and who will
remember my name and for what.He continues, I
want my life to mean wealth, happiness, and laughter
to many homes and lives, and I want businesses to
strive because they knew and heard my message.
Jeff also takes the time to compete with himself, to
discipline himself, and to love and help others. He says,
I want to be my biggest competitor, and I want to be
my first creditor when completing a piece of work. He
admits to making more mistakes than he can count and
losing money and time, just like everybody else, but
says I lose so much, it makes me a winner, and if
someones able to fool me and take my money, I will
congratulate him for being clever. Now that I know
where the winning line is, I want to get there first. If you
get there with me, I will also congratulate you for being
the winner of life.

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Jeff Calixte Bio

Jeff is an entertainer, innovator, author, entrepreneur,
and a success coach. Hes written two albums and has
one more planned to come out after his music
retirement. Hes put some major events together, his
first book is called Smart Music Income, and hes taught
himself online marketinghis first money making
business was a web design company called
NextWebPRO. He chose to do music as a hobby because
he wanted to make money doing what he loved. It was
not long after, that he realized making money with what
he loved wasnt going to be easy. He did his first album
alone, booked himself some shows, and failed terribly.
He says, The business side of things were not handled
properly. He wanted to learn more and work harder
because he didnt want to give up, and he looked for
ways to educate himself about the industry by finding
books on what he wanted to learn online and at music
stores. He plugged himself into learning more and he
gave it all he had with passion and determination, and
four years later he was able to gain a lot of knowledge
and use it.
He says, Early on, I didnt know what I was doing and I
wasted a lot of time and money, but Im grateful for the
experience because of the amount of knowledge it
offered me. I know what it feels like to fall and get back
up quickly, to be poor then have what Ive always
wanted, to live in one room with a full family then rent
and have my own apartment, and to have friends
laughing at my ideas and saying I cant do them then
actually proving them wrong. After his experiences, he
thought he would write this book and many more to

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come to help motivate anyone who has dreams and
aspirations that seems impossible to achieve. He wants
you to know that to face impossibleall you have to do
is let go of your fears, and then you can also get ready
to fly.
Over the years, he has had many people say to him,
You are very smart my brother, how are you doing all
of this with little or no money? I wish I was more like
you, all from people who have watched him go
through the bad and good times. I am not perfect, far
from it, he says, The only thing Im doing that most
people are not doing is materializing my ideas. I dont
care if I become broke in the process, or if people laugh
at me or ridicule me. Whatever I have in mind, I go for
it. Who cares if I fail or make it?
He adds, I also learned how to control my emotional
state. When something bad happens to me, I only take
the positive lessons out of it or the lesson it taught me.
Because it doesnt matter if the situation is good or bad,
he manages to focus on the prize and think of the
future or the lesson he learned from trying something.
He controls where his money goesgenerally he
doesnt spend money on what he doesnt need or what
will not make him a profit. He has also taken control of
his emotional state by never letting his emotions
control his decisions. That means hes able to control
the noise of the outside world and allow the peace
within him to flow, control the anger, control the love,
and control himself from doing something stupid in the
heat of the moment. Times along the way, he does
think he has some spiritual help: that something
supernatural is helping him while hes going through it
all.

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He says,Everybody was born with their own spiritual
help, but you can only hear it if you are calm and openminded to their ideas.
He also had to learn to control the noises. What are the
noises, you ask? Jeff explains, The biggest noises to
overcome are fear and others opinions of you. You
sometimes have to not drive the car or wear the best
shoes in order to raise money to do what you really
need to do for your life to be better. So stop trying to be
so cool and be smart and figure that out.
Jeff also had to overcome the emotions that had him
bouncing off the walls: emotions such as love, anger,
and jealousy. In this book, he will tell you exactly how
he was able, with little or no money, to do it. And how
you can get up and make your dreams come true, and
achieve happiness by letting go of your past fears. He
says, Do you feel like you are living in the shadow of
the real you? Find your destiny, create your fate, live
your passion, and learn to listen to yourself to get to
your dream destination. Learn to see no competition,
while you let go and get ready to fly. Let this book help
guide you right now to your true destination.

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Chapter 1: Hope, Love, and

Faith
Hope
Hi, my name is Jeff Calixte. Ok, Im not the most
spiritual guy in the world, but I do know what faith,
love, and hope can do in someones life, and Im pretty
sure you do too. If you dont, I will explain to you what
faith, love, and hope can do for you. When Im done,
you can decide if you need these three things in your
life or not.
First of all, if you dont have hope, you are pretty much
dead. Yes, thats right. If you have no hope, you are
pretty much dead. So, lets take a look at what hope is
and why you need it in your life for you to feel alive.
Heres an example: My mom left Haiti with nothing to
eat, no one to help her, and she took us on a boat that
nearly killed all four of us so she could make it to the
United States. Why do you think she did that? The
reason is because she had hope that things were going
to get better, only if she could make it to the US. Now,
she took action knowing that she could have died.
People can only take such a risk if their hopes are bigger
than their fears. Most people who travelled that way
did die and get eaten by sharks before making it to US.
Some of them got arrested and sent back to their
country where they got beaten, or even tortured, by the
same authorities they were trying to flee from. That
alone is enough to have someone never take action or
ever dare to try to flee their country.

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Its a pretty scary thing to do knowing all the facts. I
asked myself over and over again, why did she do that?
My little brother was only one-year-old at the time, and
none of us could swim. Even if we could swim, nothing
could have saved us other than a miracle from God if
anything were to happen to that little water boat.
After analyzing the situation we were in for years, I can
finally see why my mom would do such a thing. The
answer again was hope. Hope that a better life was on
the way; a better life was coming. And she was right.
Because if she never took that risk, you would not be
reading this book right now, and lots of the things her
kids have had the opportunity to do would never have
happenedso I thank her.
Later, I figured out that my mother and I share similar
personalities. Im always hopeful no matter how bad
things seem to get. Im never without hope. I always
know, through my vision, life will get better, and as a
result, it always does. Even when I face hard times, the
future always seems to shine brighter. And with a little
bit of scary action, I always make it to the other side.
When I think of all the things that we have
accomplished because of hope, faith, fear, and actions, I
realize one can train his or her self to become fearless.
We all were built to hope, and we all were built to
dream and set goals, but sometimes we let fear of
failure stop us from trying to make it to the other side.
Without hope, you are pretty much dead, and it can be
depressing. How do you fix that and become more
hopeful? You have to try harder and you need to have
faith it will happen for you. If you work like youre
supposed to work on your dreams and aspirations

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every day of every year, every hour of every day, and
every second of every minute, you will become more
hopeful that sometime, somewhere, or someday, your
life will be better and greater than it is now; your life
will become like you always dreamed. That is hope. You
already have it within you, you just need to apply faith
and action without fear, and let go of whats holding
you back, so you can fly to your destiny.
You should be planning your way out; the only way to
get there is through hope, faith, action, and
determination without fear. Was my mom scared that
we all might die on that boat? Yes, but she didnt let her
fears stop her. Because it was the idea of death that
scared her the most. She could have gotten killed
anyway for staying in Haiti during that time, while those
men went after my father for whatever reason. Through
it all, times were hard, but at the end of it all, my mom
was right about making it to the US (now Canada).
Because she was hopeful, it paid off big time. See, you
can either accept life the way it is, or you can work hard
and take risky actions, while you let hope guide you to a
better lifestyle.
Who said it was going to be easy and not scary to hope
there is a better life somewhere out there? Sometimes
it takes the willingness to die for things to really change.
People who are not afraid to die are those who will
work hard and take action without fear to stop them, so
their dreams can come true. Our greatest fears are
death, pain, and suffuring. As long as youre willing to
be comfortableand impress people while you at it
you will never succeed. If you want your life to be easy,
it will not be better, and if you want your life to better,
it will not be easy.

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In life, its not about impressing others, its about
impressing yourself. Other people may be impressed,
but are you? The truth is within. In order to impress
yourself, its going to be harder than you think. You
have to let go of the outside world and focus on the
inner you; face your reality. You have to make a real
change in your mindset; how you think of life is your
reality, if you dont like it, fix it. You are the only one
with the power to change your situation. In order to do
that, you must understand the possibilities of death,
while making a real change for the better in your life
and in the lives of those around you. Hope is not fearful.
Hope is life, as pain and death are a part of life. If hope
is not life itself, then it is pretty damn close. You already
can never skip pain or death, so if life is going to be hard
anyway, why not make it hard for a better reason than
to stay hungry; a better reason than just take it as it is?
Even after you can earn everything on this planet, what
else is left? You have nothing if you dont have the hope
of a better life, somehow, somewhere, or one day. The
only thing thats here to make a difference and give all
of us a better future is hope.
Even though billionaires are supposed to have hope so
that they can become better, poor people desperately
need hope more than anything else. Even the person on
his or her death bed is supposed to have hope. If they
truly want to enjoy their last day on earth smiling, they
better create a faithful hope: Hoping that the life after
death will be better than the life they lived on earth. A
dying person without hope is already dead, and will
spend their last days on earth depressed if they see no
future of a better life than the life they are currently
dying from.

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You see, hope isnt just a part of life, it is life. Hope is
what makes us want to live. If you dont have the hope
of a better life, then you will simply not want to live. Its
simple: all you have to do is work for what you want
and have faith that it will happen. Do everything in your
power to see it come true. Start your mission
impossible today. Dont give up, unless giving up means
youre finding something else that can change your life
faster and for the better.
Hope is part of what make you want to be alive. Hope
can be made up of things and places you absolutely
have to get to before you die, or after you die. Hope
just never stops. Either way, hope is for the living. You
have those who are scared of death, and its because
they have no hope of a better life after death. And if
you are working for it and believing in it, and have faith
it will happen for you. You will feel alive.
For people who fear they might die before their dreams
comes true, think about this: how many heroes have
died before their dreams came true? More than one, I
bet. You see, because they had a dreambecause of
the hope of changing their lives or others livesthey
were not afraid to die. They knew some way, somehow,
they would live a better life, even if they died, because
they believed God would have mercy on their soul. With
hope of life even after life, you are literally unstoppable.
If our heroes never had hoped and took life-changing
opportunities, they couldntand wouldnthave
fought so hard.
In hope of a better life, you also need to understand
that better does not mean easier. You will get up, even
when you feel like you cant. Your heart will be filled

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with fear, love, hope, and joy, while you work to make
your dreams come true in the hope that your life will be
better one day.
You see, if you ever want fans or followers, you need a
vision. When you can help other people dream and
hope, they will love you forever because with dreams
and hope, you can ease their pain.
Hope is not selfish; one can help a million people hope
and fight for the same goals. And because a vision is
powerful enough to create hope, others will follow you.
Because when they follow you, their dreams will also
come true.

Love
Many people say If you love me, then you will never
leave me.
In the passing years, I have been studding love and the
people who love. It seems like the more someone loves,
the more quiet they become. Love is silence. The person
who is always so quick to say what they think is not
really doing any sacrificing. You see, when a woman
loves her husband, she will know when its time to be
quiet, especially when he is not in a good mood. Even if
she wants to talk very badly, she will leave him alone
when she realizes what shes about to say will hurt him
or piss him off more. She wont say anything at all. Love
is quiet. A man who loves will also be quite at times if
he knows saying what he really wants to say will hurt his
woman.

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Lovers hide, while quietly suffering. Someone who is in
love, and is loving the right way, will always stay quiet
about the situation, even though they should be talking.
Thats why love is dangerous at times. The person who
is in love can let someone else who is not in love hurt
them. Because the person who doesnt love will not be
quiet, the person who does love will get hurt. The
person who doesnt love will say what they want to
sayand sometimes they will say it to hurt, and
sometimes they will do it to fight back because the last
thing they heard from you was hurtful. If you want love
to last, then learn when its time to be quiet, and when
you are talking, learn to say the right things; the things
that will sweeten your lovers heart and make them
happy. Because if you really say what you want to say,
sometimes, it will hurt them, and sometimes it will start
something that didnt need to be started.
When a man loves a woman with all his heart, he would
rather let another man take her if hes not in a position
to help that woman when she really needs it. A man
who loves, but can see her suffer would say, I had to
let her go because I didnt want her to suffer with me.
Quietly, he would leave the relationship alone if he
cannot love her right at that time.
Sometimes a man will work four jobs if he has to;
quietly doing it in pain and never telling his woman or
his kids to get a job if he knows they cant work.
Working that hard must hurt, but he will suffer in
silence, being careful to never make his wife or kids feel
hurt because he loves them so much. A woman who
loves would also do the same for her family.

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The person who is so quick to use words as their sharp
knife to hurt others or to protect themselves is not
really doing any sacrificing. When someone lets you
love them, you must do it right, and the best way to
love is to know when to be quiet. Because if you cannot
control your mouth around your loved ones, it will
backfire on you. If you dont know when to be quiet,
you will mess it all up.
Do not use words that hurt if you dont want words that
hurts to be used on you. Do not say things that will hurt
if you dont want to hear things that will hurt you. Dont
let people abuse you either. Always let them know you
are staying quiet because you dont want to say things
to them that will hurt and mess up your relationship.
And if you dont say anything, its not because you cant,
its because you love them and you dont want to hurt
them, and you ask them to do the same for you because
you dont want to have to fight them with words that
will hurt them and you. When you hear something that
hurts you, you will use words to fight back because you
want to protect yourself. But always remember: its
always better to lead by example and explain why you
are leading by that example.
Ask the person who is not being considerate to stop,
especially if you both cannot stand the outcome. If you
learn when to be quiet, teach the person you love to be
quiet.
Always explain why you are staying quiet because you
dont want the person who doesnt know when to be
quiet to take this as an advantage, and a chance to hurt
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The same thing goes for Gods love for us: he asks us to
follow some simple rules. However, most of us act like
he doesnt exist and his rules dont matter, until we hurt
ourselves badly. Im sure, sometimes, God must feel
hurt by this, but he remains quiet, still waiting for the
right time to talk. He is silent, but he speaks to us
without the noise. You almost cannot hear God speak if
you dont pay attention.
Lets take a look at Jesus for example. Jesus had the
power to stand and fight anybody who beat him, but
instead, he chose to stay quiet, leading by example.
Why, you ask? Well, love is quiet because fighting back
is NOT LOVE. More fights will always start more fights;
more love will always build on more love. In your
relationship life, whatever habits are acceptable in your
eyes are the one you will continue to do for a long time.
So, if you accept an abusive relationship, it is harder for
you to not be in one. Thats why it is good to follow and
pick up good habits from the start. That is the only way
you can grow and keep moving in a positive direction.
If you are truly ready to love, you must learn to be quiet
sometimes, and only talk when the time is right. You
need to think of what you are saying based on the
outcome you want. Love does not defend, because by
defending you might hurt the one you love.
When the one you love feels hurt, they will usually fight
back. It takes a wise lover to know when its time to stay
quiet, and then later explain why they stayed quiet. It
takes a wiser lover to know when someone loves them
enough to sacrifice for them. Staying quiet sometimes
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Love is natural. It is only painful when you are dealing
with someone who does not know how to love, which
means someone who talks too quickly or is too fast to
defend.
Love is quiet, love is defenseless, and love is not painful.
A man who loves would rather suffer alone, then put
the one he loves in pain. A woman who loves would
rather let a man beat on her, before calling the police.
Lets be careful now! Thats why the best love is selflove. Unlike hope, love can be a bit selfish, and should
be sometimes.
If you love yourself, you will not need to love anyone
else to the point where they are capable of hurting you
to the last limit. If you are in an abusive relationship,
let go and get ready to fly. Find help!
You will need hope and faith that you will be better off
when you leave an abusive relationship, but you have to
love yourself first. If you are living with someone who
does not love you, you are in trouble. There is no such
things as saying something harmful for it to be helpful.
If it hurts, it hurts. One rule in love, that always remains
the same, is silence. If you love yourself enough, never
let the abuser know your plan of escape. Hope is the
only thing that will get you out of an abusive
relationship. Knowing that somewhere, somehow, you
will have a better relationship that enhances your
lifestylebetter than the one you are currently in.
Act today quietly. Leave an abusive relationship fast by
quietly planning your escape, and make sure you have a
back up plan. Let go of the idea you have to step your
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what you are supposed to do, your foot is down, and if
a relationship is too much for you, leave. Its called love,
not suffering or pain or being stupid for years. Dont get
it confused. Love is love. Love is supposed to love and
that is it.

Faith
I dont really have much to say about faith, but I just
want you to know that no dreams come true without
faith. You cannot get out of a country when your life is
in dangerlike my mom did with my siblings and me
if you do not have faith that your hope for a better life
is real.
You cannot leave an abusive relationship if you dont
have faith that when you do decide to leave, your plans
will work and you wont have to go back to the abuser.
Faith is what you need to let go and get ready to fly. You
cant make anything work without faith.
Fear is the enemy of faith and hope.
Fear will always come after your faith and ask you to
doubt yourself. The moment you doubt yourself is the
moment you will drown under fear. Fear is not your
friend. Fear is your enemy. Anybody who uses fear to
make you do something you are not supposed to do is
not your friend. Fear is the only chain there is for a freeminded individual. If you really want to be free, you
must learn to face your fears. Fears of more pain will
keep people from wanting to experience even a little
pain, and fear of death will keep people from fighting
for their rights. Some people dont mind a lot of pain, as
long as its not death. Fear is the enemy of faith.

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Let me tell you this, everything you ever hoped for is
hidden behind your greatest fear. You have to let go of
your fear if you are ready to fly.
To fight for what you want, you must not be afraid of
pain or death. Every day we are in a battle for change
and to have a better life. In order to believe that its
going to happen, you need faith. In order to not be
afraid of pain and death in the process, you need hope
that someday, somehow, somewhere, you will have a
better life because of what you are doing. Some people
did have the courage to fight even when they knew it
would result in death. Why you ask? Its because of the
hope of a better life after death, and faith that their
hard work would not go unknown and that change
would come. Even if they died in the process, they
believed change would come because of their bravery
to fight for a better life.
Hope and faith have the power to not only help you
change your life, but also the world. The universe will
give you ways to get what you want, when you want it.
You will tap into the God-sent energy to work, get up
early in the morning, and get things done on a daily
basis. To do all that and more, you need hope, love, and
faith. A hopeless person is a depressed person. If you
ever felt down or a lack of energy, its because you have
no hope of a better life through your current actions.
You simply have to make some changes, start doing
things that will give you hope of a better life.
Even rich people need hope of a better life, somewhere,
somehow, and faith that it will happen. If they want to
feel alive, they must work on it on a daily basis. Take
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determination): have passion, take action, and be
determined.

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