BEACON Unity Temple Unitarian Universalist Congregation

April 2010
FROM REV. ALAN TAYLOR
T he Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life recently
issued a report on their study, "Faith in Flux." More
people than ever before are church hopping. A most
person to join them on the average of one every 17
years. We need to do much better than that!
A couple people have suggested that we should have
interesting trend is that those who were raised a "Bring a friend" Sunday. From my perspective, every
unaffiliated with religion are entering churches at a Sunday is a good Sunday to bring a friend! Though on
surprisingly high rate. The findings indicate that an April 25, I will be preaching a sermon geared toward
increasing number of people without religious the heart of our religion. We are also welcoming new
community are now seeking it out--even if they don't members on April 25, and I will be leading an
personally believe the teachings of the church they join. Introduction to Unitarian Universalism that afternoon
Imagine how much happier these people in our region at 1:30 p.m.
would be if they discovered Unity Temple where they
could find community, quality worship, a great choir, I hope to see you and your friends in April!
and opportunities to serve--all this, without having to
check their minds at the door. Warmly,
Our congregation has witnessed steady growth for 12
continuous years, but last year we neither grew in
official members or in budget. Yet our numbers aren't
down in worship or religious education--they're up. Rev. Alan Taylor 
What is going on? I suspect one factor is the economy.
Because membership requires a response to our Annual
Fund Drive (and your pledge can be $0 due to financial
hardship), I suspect a number of our members simply INSIDE THIS ISSUE
didn't respond due to being uncertain about what this 2010 Annual Fund Drive Update 2
year would hold--and some members may be
Board of Trustees News 2
embarrassed that they can't give what they used to.
From our Community Minister 3
If you are among those who currently live with such
Membership Opportunities 3
uncertainty, please let us know. We want to be of
support to you, and we want to stay in relationship with Religious Education News 4
you regardless at what level you are able to financially UUA General Assembly 4
support the congregation. We trust you will do so Adult Religious Enrichment Offerings 5
generously when you are able. And know there is no Social Mission News 6
need to be embarrassed about having less to give. As I Women’s Un-Potluck Dinner 6
write this, the first 80 financial commitments amount to Third Saturday Coffeehouse 6
a 17% increase from last year. May we all be grateful for Unity Temple GIVES 6
our community and the opportunity to give for all if From the Music Director 7
able to do so. Save the Date: Annual Meeting 7
As for making a difference in people's lives who have Chalice Circles 8
not yet discovered our community, I am currently By-Laws Change Discussions 8
reflecting on how we as a congregation can let more Ex Libris Bookstore 9
people know that we are here. All the church literature Expressing the Inexpressible 9
says the most effective way to draw someone to church Unity Temple Restoration Foundation 10
is for a friend to extend an invitation. I'm told that in April Events Not To Miss 11
New England, members of UU congregations ask another
2 • The Beacon
2010 ANNUAL FUND DRIVE
Return your Commitment Form by April 11!
I n talking about the Annual Fund Drive, I start with
the assumption that everyone reading this has impor-
tant and unique reasons for being part of and support-
ing the UTUUC community. So, rather than sharing my
reasons for doing so, let me reflect on the challenges we
face and challenge you to help meet them.
We have some very lofty goals for this congrega-
tion. You can find a summary of some of them in the
strategic plan, found on our website. If we want to
meet those goals, however, we are going to have to
change our collective giving habits. We struggle to
make ends meet each year, building a budget on what
comes in, and what comes in is never quite enough. To
grow, to do more as a Congregation, to reach more peo-
ple, and to change more lives, we have to fundamentally
change the way we each support this congrega-
tion. Reverend Taylor challenged you two weeks ago to
consider doubling or even tripling your pledge; that
might seem radical, but it’s the kind of change we need.
A second challenge is that this year, just to maintain
an essentially flat budget (restoring the cuts we made in
staff compensation and benefits last year, meeting an-
ticipated cost increases, and accounting for lost tour
income) our collective commitments need to increase
11.2%. That means we need an 11.2% increase in giv-
ing before we can even begin to think about meeting all
the goals we set for ourselves.
What can you do to meet these challenges?
♦ First, thank the 111 households that have already
turned in their financial commitments -- collectively,
they have pledged $311,960, a 16% increase over last
year.
♦ Second, reflect on your financial commitment to
UTUUC. Does it signify how you feel about this commu-
nity? Does it reflect the kind of true generosity to
which we as UUs aspire?
♦ Third, if you aren’t a member of UTUUC but you at-
tend regularly, use the RE programs, or enjoy the music,
make a commitment. You don’t have to be a member to
benefit from this organization, and you don’t have to be
one to support its mission.
This is your congregation. We cannot meet your goals if
you do not act. Please act now by returning your fi-
nancial commitment form for the 2010/2011 congre-
gational year by April 11. You can mail it in, drop it
in the collection basket on Sunday, or place in the green
box in the foyer after the service.
Ian Morrison, Chair, Annual Fund Drive  
BOARD OF TRUSTEES
From Brent Stratton, Vice President
board@unitytemple.org
O dds and ends… Duane is in Africa, so he asked me
to write this month’s Board of Trustees column. On
March 21, the Board convened a corporate meeting be-
tween the two services to ask for a vote on a proposal
to amend our constitution to remove the requirement
that our Annual Meeting be held in June. Because the
first Sunday in June has of late conflicted with Oak
Park’s Day in Our Village and later dates in June con-
flicts with graduations and vacations, the Board would
like to amend the constitution to allow us the flexibility
to hold the annual meeting other than in June.
At what was perhaps the shortest ever congrega-
tional meeting, more than two-thirds of the members
present voted to place this proposed amendment on the
agenda for the June 6, 2010 annual meeting. So, to
approve this proposed amendment, at our next annual
meeting, we will need two-thirds of all voting members
to approve it, with voting allowed by absentee ballot.
The Board, along with the UTRF Board, met with the
Pursuit Team in early March. The Pursuit Team pre-
sented both boards with its interim report on its work,
which is moving us toward a unified plan to fund resto-
ration of Unity Temple and creating additional space for
the congregation. We were very impressed by the Pur-
suit Team’s work to date and continue to be grateful for
their efforts on our behalf.
As you likely know, our annual fund drive is well un-
derway. As of March 21, about one-fourth of the house-
hold units have returned their financial commitments.
Those commitments collectively represent a significant
percentage increase in dollars from those members com-
pared to last year. But, because the Board needs a more
complete picture of expected revenue in order to recom-
mend next year’s budget, we really need everyone else
to send in their commitments as soon as possible.
For those of you who are trying to figure out how to
increase your commitment when your income is not in-
creasing (or even decreasing), I offer one suggestion
that I am trying this year: identify a couple of your
regular expenditures that you think you could eliminate
or reduce for the coming year. I was able to find four
fairly small expenditures that, when combined, allowed
Maureen and I to increase our commitment even though
our total income decreased and we began to pay for two
children in college. But, whether or not you can in-
crease your commitment, please return you form by
April 11 so we can plan for next year. 

COMMUNITY MINISTER
From Rev. Dr. Clare Butterfield
Community Minister
E aster comes early in April this year, and March is its
usual whirlwind of cold and snow and rain, and
flowers and sunshine and warmth. We never get too
much of one or the other to make us lose hope or to
make us excessively confident.
It is a liminal season, and liminality is a door
through which the spirit can move. We are in the end of
Lent, a season which makes no sense at all to some of
you, and which others, like me, try to observe in some
way, as a discipline of waiting.
Lent is a time in the Christian calendar of
repentance and sorrow, of remembering mortality and
frailty, of depriving the body here and there (no
chocolate, lots of fish), of fasting for some. In the final
days of the Holy Week narrative the church is stripped
and black and purple are laid over everything. The
church goes into mourning, and waits in silence.
And then redemption comes, and the colors are
everywhere, and, if you’re in that kind of church,
incense wafts toward the rafters, and the smell mixes
with the smell of hyacinths and it’s all so heady you
could almost faint.
That all of this happens in the northern hemisphere
as the earth is tilting further toward the sun, and spring
starts to look possible is no coincidence at all.
Now we in the UU tradition can go straight to the
jelly beans, and skip all the grimmer aspects of this
season, but for my own weary spirit the waiting is all. I
love the waiting. I love the discipline of seeking
darkness and quiet, of remembering that I am made
from dust and to dust I will return. I love clearing that
great hole of mortality – of drawing myself closer and
closer to that brink, and then, on Easter morning, of
finding that instead of a tomb I have come to a
celebration.
It is from the fallow season that life resumes, and
life is marvelous for making a way when there is no way.
You may not credit this narrative much as it applies to
the specific historical person of Jesus, or you may (as I
do) find that part intensely meaningful as you struggle
yourself to be a person of integrity in a perishing world.
But surely we can all see the value of the barren time,
the waiting time, the preparation of the soul in silence,
for when the song begins again, as it must. Arise my
loves, and come away, for the winter is done, the time
of singing has come, and the voice of the turtledove is
heard through the land.  formation, call 708-705-1428!
April 2010 • 3
MEMBERSHIP OPPORTUNITIES
Are YOU New? Welcome!
Introduction to Unitarian Universalism
This course is the prerequisite for Pathway to
Membership sessions, and is for all who would like to
learn more about Unitarian Universalism philosophy,
history and theology. For more information, and
to register for this class, e-mail contact Sue Stock at
membership@unitytemple,org or call 708/445-0306.
Instructor: Rev. Taylor. Date & Time: Sunday, April 25,
from 1:30-3:30 P.M. Location: Unity House Cost: No
charge.
Pathway to Membership
This two session class is for those who have already
taken Introduction to Unitarian Universalism. It
focuses on our congregation and its programs. Partici-
pants will have opportunities to discuss their per-
sonal attitudes and beliefs about religion and spiritual-
ity and to share these with others in the class. For more
information, and/or to put your name on the list for a
class, contact Tom Hall at 708/848-6588 or
Sundays, April 11 &18, 1:30 p.m.-5:00 p.m.
Location: Unity House Cost: $20 The next class dates
are Sundays, May 16th and 23, 1:30-5:00 p.m.
Welcoming Ceremony
Our second formal Welcoming Ceremony of the year will
be held on Sunday, April 25. All new members who
have signed the Membership Book and have not yet
participated in a Welcoming Ceremony will be celebrated
on this date. At 4:30 p.m., on April 25, there will be a
social hour for new members, family and guests, fol-
lowed by a Family Style Sunday Dinner, served at 5
p.m in Unity House. The dinner is open to the congre-
gation and is a good opportunity to visit with some of
our newest UTUUC members. Mark Robinson, of the
Membership Committee, coordinates Welcoming Cere-
mony events.
For free childcare at all of these opportunities,
contact childcare@unitytemple.org at least one week in
advance.  
The Purple Sages (Senior Women)
Will be meeting on April 28 from 11:30 a.m. to 1:30
p.m. in the Coat Room on the 2nd floor of the Oak
Park Library. Bring a brown bag lunch! For more in-
 
4 • The Beacon
RELIGIOUS EDUCATION
From Rev. Emily Gage
Minister of Faith Development
egage@unitytemple.org
G rown ups love figures. When you tell them that you
have made a new friend, they never ask you any
questions about essential matters. They never say to
you, ‘What does his voice sound like? What games does
he love best? Does he collect butterflies?’ Instead, they
demand: ‘How old is he? How many brothers has he?
How much does he weigh? How much money does his
father make?’ Only from these figures do they think they
have learned anything about him.” So writes Antoine De
Saint-Exupery in The Little Prince.
I ponder this quote from time to time; Saint-Exupery
does have a point. We do love numbers. One of the most
commonly asked question of ministers is how many
members make up the congregation which they serve.
(524 at Unity Temple). And if you happen to have a
ministry that focuses on the young people in the con-
gregation, they will ask you how many people there are
in your religious education program. (228 registered at
Unity Temple.) These numbers do tell you something, of
course; they are an approximation of the size of the
community, and they hint at the scope of programming
that the congregation must be maintaining.
Numbers tell you other things, too. Like about im-
balances in our religious education programming. In our
nursery through eighth grade, we have 132 young peo-
ple registered at the early service, and 68 registered at
the late service. That’s almost twice as many over all,
and more times as many in some classrooms. (Preschool
has 21 kids enrolled at early and 7 in late; Kindergarten-
First grade has 26 in the early class, and 5 in the sec-
ond.) These numbers underline some of the challenges
that face classroom volunteers and our young people—
too little space (early), restrictions on possible activities
(both services), too few volunteers (late), and so on and
so forth. This has led us to investigate ways to try and
balance those numbers, perhaps by changing worship
service times. We’ll be collecting data (more numbers!)
to see if that’s a viable option.
There are also, of course, the money numbers.
Programming for our young people involves training,
curricula, class materials, books, recognition rewards,
and many other resources. The development committee
did some number crunching and realized that our cost
per student comes to about $440. Our registration fees
per young person are nominal when we consider this,
and much of what we do is made possible by congrega-
tional pledge monies. These numbers caused the Chil-
dren and Youth Religious Education committee to do
some pondering, and we have decided to change our
registration fees for the 10-11 congregational year. We
will be asking a $50 registration fee per young person
for first-time registrants and pledging members and
friends, and $100 registration fee per young person for
non-pledging members and friends. Full and partial
scholarships are always available by request. This in-
crease is the first in recent memory, and the two dis-
tinct fees acknowledge both newcomers and those who
have already made other financial commitments to our
congregation. We’ll be beginning the registration proc-
ess for the 2010-11 year on April 18th. Collecting num-
bers—and data—early helps us to plan well and have
everything set for September, when new classes begin.
We do love figures. Of course, even those fig-
ures don’t tell you everything. They don’t take into ac-
count visitors and friends, and others who find Unity
Temple meaningful. They don’t include the young people
who somehow have escaped being registered. They don’t
tell you how many people come each week, or measure
those who are here more often. And perhaps most im-
portantly, they don’t get at the essential matters: how
this church feels like home, how it helps open up minds
and hearts, how it teaches love instead of fear, how it
has the power to change peoples lives. Those, too, are
part of the picture of Unity Temple. 
UUA General Assembly
The Annual Meeting of the Unitarian Universalist
Association
Join thousands of fellow Unitarian Universalists
from across the country as we gather this June 23-27
in Minneapolis, Minnesota. Experience wonderful and
uplifting worship services - morning and night - led
by some of our best worship leaders, with glorious
music and inspiring messages. Participate in our
democratic process. Choose from hundreds of
dynamic, entertaining, spiritually nourishing programs
and informative workshops featuring terrific
speakers. Connect with craftspeople and artisans,
social action groups, professional and educational
resources, theological schools, UUA organizations and
staff, Beacon Press, and the UUA Bookstore in the GA
Exhibit Hall. Network with other congregation leaders,
share best practices, and learn from one another.
Return to your congregation reinvigorated and
inspired to put your values to work. Witness for our
faith in moving and exciting ways. GA in Minneapolis
coincides with the Twin Cities' Pride Festival & Parade
and our Public Witness this year will be part of that
event.
Registration and Housing Reservations Now Open.
To learn more go to www.uua.org/ga.  

ADULT RELIGIOUS ENRICHMENT
Writing the Wisdom Within
This workshop is open to anyone who enjoys writing and
wants an opportunity to share their writing with others.
We combine imagery and body awareness exercises to
help participants access and express their inner world.
We hope that by providing this non-judgmental environ-
ment we will help participants find their courage to
write creatively.
Three Sundays April 11, April 25, and May 2 from
1:00-2:30 p.m. Marilyn Myles and Diane Scott. Facilita-
tors Suggested donation: $15. Scholarships available.
Register at adultre@unitytemple.org or 708/848-6225
x105.  
Articulating Your UU Faith
What do you say when people ask you to define Unitar-
ian Universalism? How do you explain it to yourself?
Unitarian Universalists often find this a challenging
thing to do! We’ll be practicing how and what to say in
particular settings when you might be called upon to
declare yourself religiously. We’ll get a chance to reflect
on our own beliefs, learn from each other, and
strengthen our own faith. A Fun, hands on and helpful
time will be held by all!
Five Tuesdays: 4/6, 4/13, 4/20, 4/27, 5/4 from
7-9 p.m. Facilitators: Rev. Emily Gage and Scott Talbot
Lewis. Suggested donation $25. Scholarships available.
Register at adultre@unitytemple.org or 708/848-6225
x105.
PLEASE NOTE: This class needs a minimum of 10
registrants to run. Sign up! Bring your friends!   UnityTemple member Cathy Blanford, an author on a
Career Transition Outreach
Every Monday morning from 8:45am-9:45am at Unity
Temple, Diane Wilson, LCPC, helps those facing job loss
and career uncertainty. This outreach is designed to
help participants manage the psychological and practi-
cal aspects of their job transition through accountability
and goal setting. Author of Back in Control, Wilson is a
coach, counselor, and neurofeedback specialist. Facilita-
tor Diane Wilson: wilson2005@aol.com. No registration
or fees.   2:00 - 2:50: Planning for Your Memorial. Know that you
BEACON Newsletter Submissions Due:
Submissions for the May 2010 Beacon Newsletter are
due at 9:00 a.m. on Monday, April 26. Please email
submissions to newsletter@unitytemple.org.  
April 2010 • 5
What We Talk About When We
Talk About Dying
Here is an opportunity to talk about something that we
normally like to pretend will never happen: how to plan
for a time when we may no longer be able to make the
decisions that are right for us, from hospice care to fu-
neral options, from power of attorney for health and
living wills, to what grieving looks like, and would we
like to have a memorial held for us.
On Saturday, April 10, 2010, Unity Temple's Adult Reli-
gious Enrichment Program will hold a day-long seminar
on matters around preparing for death.
Register at adultre@unitytemple.org call 708/848-6225
x105. $15 donation is suggested. All are welcome.
Program:
8:30 - 8:50: Registration & Welcome
9:00 - 9: 50: Burial and Other Options. Charlie Williams
from Dreschler-Brown-Williams Funeral Home in Oak Park
will discuss funeral/cremation options, costs, pre-
planning, and other things to consider.
10:10 - 11:00: The Legalities. Oak Park lawyer Sheryl
Fuhr who specializes in estate planning will present in-
formation on wills (including living wills), granting
power of attorney, transferring of medicare benefits,
and other legal issues surrounding dying.
11:10 - 12:00: Grieving. Chaplain and long-time
book about losing a child ("Something happened"), will
speak on the grieving process, what it looks and feels
like, its different impact at different times, and more.
12:10 - 12:55: Lunch will be provided
1:00 - 1: 50: Hospice care. Experienced hospice nurse
and Unity Temple member Carol Kinsey tells everything
you've always wanted to know about hospice but was
afraid to ask: When do you ask for hospice care, who
will pay for it, what does it involve -- and more.
would like to be remembered or celebrated in a memo-
rial? Unity Temple's Minister of Faith Development Rev.
Emily Gage will give tips on how you could plan for your
own memorial now. The readings, the music, the hymns,
the list goes on -- and you get to pick!  
6 • The Beacon
SOCIAL MISSION
CROP WALK
Mark your calendars! On May 2 more than 30 congrega-
tions, schools and organizations in the area will hit the
pavement for the Hunger Walkathon CROP Walk. You can
exercise, enjoy the spring weather, and raise money for
a great cause at the same time! One hundred percent of
the money raised goes to alleviate hunger through out
the world -- with 25% of the money going to local agen-
cies.
All ages are welcome! This is a particulary fun event
to participate in as a family. Kids like to help -- and
walking is an activity that they can do (and they are so
proud of themselves when they complete the 6 mile
walk!)
Sign up to Walk at the Social Mission table during Cof-
fee Hour. Contact Mike Delonay or Colleen Keleher for
more information or go to
www.oakparkhungercropwalk.org.  
Donate to the Feinstein Challenge
More than 40,000 local people received emergency food
from the Oak Park River Forest Food Pantry in 2009—
63% more than the previous year. All 40,000 people
were provided with food because the community of Oak
Park and River Forest is responsive to the need. Each
family received an allotment of food similar to what is
pictured below.
You can help provide a light at the end of the tunnel
to those in need by participating in the 13th annual
Feinstein Challenge. Rhode Island philanthropist Alan
Shawn Feinstein will divide $1 million among anti hun-
ger agencies nationwide as a spur to raise funds during
March and April, 2010. Mr. Feinstein divides his million
dollars proportionately among all participating agencies
depending on the amount of money and food each
agency collects during March and April.
You can help the Pantry’s light shine brighter and
stronger for the many people that seek emergency food
by making a monetary donation to the Oak Park River
Forest Food Pantry via PayPal at www.oprffoodpantry.org
or mail your donation to the Pantry at 848 Lake Street,
Oak Park, IL 60301. Or donate food items in the
shopping cart found in the foyer Sunday mornings.  values. During the month of February 2010, your
Be a Beacon-folding Hero!
Come and help us distribute our beautiful Beacon to
the masses! Join UTUUC friends for a couple hours of
mindless folding and good conversationin Unity
House. Our next Beacon folding party will happen on
Friday, April 30 at 9 a.m. Thank you!   Thank you for your generosity!
Women's Connection Spring Un-Potluck
All women are invited to join the women's connection
for the spring un-potluck on Friday April 9 at 6:30
p.m. in Unity House. Bring an appetizer or dessert to
share or $5. The committee will provide the main
course salads and beverages. Come to connect with
old friends and make new ones. Hope to see you
there! 
Third Saturday Coffee House
Poet/activist Sam Hamill
Unity Temple's 3rd Saturday Coffeehouse will host
"An Evening of Poetry with Sam Hamill" on Saturday,
April 17, at 8:00 pm, in Unity House.
Hamill is the author of more than 40 books,
including original poetry, literary essays, and some of
the most distinguished translations of ancient Chinese
and Japanese classics of the last half-century. He
co-founded, and for 32 years was editor, at Copper
Canyon Press. He has taught in prisons and has
worked extensively with battered women and
children. This is a unique opportunity to spend time
with one of the major poets and cultural forces of our
time.
Doors open 7:30; program begins at 8 ($9). For
this very special 3rd Saturday Coffeehouse-there will
be no open mic in April. Advance tickets are available
from Brown Paper Tickets,
www.brownpapertickets.com and at the door. Seating
is limited.
Sorry, we cannot take reservations, make refunds
or hold tickets. For more information: 708-660-9376.
This event is funded in part by Poets & Writers, Inc.
and the Social Mission Committee of the Unity
Temple Unitarian Universalist Congregation.  
Unity Temple Gives...
The generosity of our congregation is making a
difference in people’s lives. Every Sunday our
collection plate offerings are donated to a worthy
charitable organization in support of our mission and
weekly collection basket donations contributed the
following amounts to these organizations:
Unitarian Universalist Service Committee: $1,590
Austin Scholarship Fund: $1,980
Greater New Orleans Unitarian Universalists: 1,324
 

MUSIC
From the Music Director
Marty Swisher
music@unitytemple.org
U nity Temple Chalice Singers continues to meet each
week between services in the sanctuary. Singers in
kindergarten through 5th grades meet on the first and
third Sundays with the middle school singers meeting
on the second and fourth Sundays.
General Assembly Children’s Honor Choir: How
proud we are that our two auditionees for the General
Assembly Children’s Honor Choir were invited to partici-
pate in this special event. Julia Bankes and Blair Ripley
will perform with UU singers from all over the country in
Minnesota from June 23-27. We have invited other
members of the Honor Choir from the Chicago Area to
rehearse at Unity Temple in preparation for the
event. Singers from Naperville, Countryside and Chicago
congregations will meet, practice and form an area bond
before arriving in Minneapolis. The open collaboration
and pursuit of excellence thrives in the work between
these singers and their directors.
Tulsa Children’s choir: On April 11th, The Tulsa Chil-
dren’s Choir will perform for services at Unity Tem-
ple. Under the direction of music director, David Smith,
this outstanding choir has inspired congregations across
the country. This year, the choir selected Unity Temple
to study and explore. Members of the choir and their
chaperones will be invited to lunch hosted by the Unity
Temple Choir on the Sunday of their performance. You
won’t want to miss these special services and meet
these dedicated singers.
April Music includes the choir singing a Haitian Al-
leluia for our Easter Service, Singers from Tulsa on the
11th, music by the Unity Temple Players on the 18th
and a rousing Spanish choral anthem by the choir on
the 26th.
What a privilege it has been to become more and
more active in the Unitarian Universalist Musician’s
Network. Invited by president elect, David Bruner to
participate in the national conference planning commit-
tee for 2010, 11 and 12, I have traveled twice to Madi-
son, Wisconsin to work with this exciting group of UU
music directors. The 2010 national conference takes
place in Madison this July. I have been asked to lead a
session on “The Rudiments of Conducting” where par-
ticipant will examine verbal and non-verbal aspects of
the way we communicate musical intention. None of
this would have been possible without the encourage-
ment of the congregation and our minister, Alan Taylor
to attend the conferences held during the last two sum-
April 2010 • 7
Annual Meeting—Save the Date
The Annual Meeting of the Unity Temple Unitiarian
Unviersalist Congregation will be held on Sunday,
June 6 at 1:00 p.m. All members are asked to at-
tend. We will be voting on new trustees, proposed by-
laws and consitituition changes, and approving the
2010-2011 operating budget. 
mers. It has been an incredible opportunity for me and
one for which I am truly grateful.
Central Midwest District Conference/Choralfest
will be held on April 30-May 1 at the North Shore Westin
Hotel in Wheeling, Illinois. Only a short drive away,
many members of the choir plan to attend the first
Choralfest happening simultaneously. All members of
the congregation are encouraged to attend the confer-
ence entitled “Becoming a Religion For Our Time “and
the choral fest for an affordable and exciting get-
away. A registration form and materials can be ob-
tained by visiting the CMWD website.
Taizé at Unity Temple continues this month with a
troupe of visiting singers on April 23. Consider joining
us for this hour of spiritual retreat.
Special Thanks to all who performed and attended
the Music Festival on March 20th Ray Holdsworth and
his many helpers created an exciting night showcasing
many talents of our congregation. How gratifying to
see such a full house, a fine musical offering generating
funds and support for the students at the Holy Trinity
School in Port au Prince, Haiti.  
Taizé at Unity Temple
Please join us again for Taizé Service in the Unity Tem-
ple Sanctuary, on Friday, April 23 at 7:00 p.m. This
service will offer a time for meditation, reflection, and
renewal through music, brief words, and silence. Come
sing, light a candle, and nurture your spirit during this
non-traditional worship experience – and bring a
friend. The service will conclude before 8 p.m.. For
more information, contact Marty Swisher, Music Direc-
tor, at music@unitytemple.org  
UUA District Assembly
District Assembly will be held at the Westin North
Shore in Wheeling, Illinois from April 30-May
2nd. This year's assembly will offer more chances for
people from UU Congregations to share experiences
and ideas with one another through interest group
gatherings. For more information, check out the Cen-
tral Midwest District website at cmwd-uua.org. And,
appearing this year: Unity Temple's own
Choir!!!  
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CHALICE CIRCLES
Prayer
At a recent Worship Committee meeting, we reflected on
the inclusion of a pastoral prayer within UTUUC’s wor-
ship services and on the role of prayer in a Unitarian
Universalist context. Our conversation was lively and
thought-provoking, not only to committee members but
to Rev. Taylor as well, who was inspired to deliver two
sermons entitled "Why Pray?" Podcasts of these (and
other) sermons are available at www.unitytemple.org. A
key passage from the first:
“Like most Unitarian Universalists who enter seminary, I
was uneasy with praying. I didn't want to do it unless it
felt authentic and usually it seemed awkward. A turning
point occurred when I was working as a chaplain at San
Francisco General Hospital… It was a big part of my job
to pray with and for others…[but] as the work quickly
intensified, I got overwhelmed fast. What could I offer
these people who suffered so dearly? I'd go home at
night exhausted, unable to sleep, grieving for the peo-
ple I met, confounded by what I was supposed to do. I
began to think that I wouldn't be able to go on.
In the middle of one of those sleepless nights, suddenly
a prayer welled up from deep within, and it was this,
"Dear God, I feel helpless in the face of all this suffer-
ing. I can't fix it. I don't know what to say. What am I
suppose to do here?" (This was the first time I found
myself using the word God.) And then I prayed, "I need
to know you are holding all of this suffering. I need to
give it over to you. I can't do this all by myself." …[A]t
the time my breath suddenly deepened. A clarity poured
through my body, and I knew that I had to let go of my
expectation that I was in control, that instead I had to
trust something larger than myself to hold all that suf-
fering. It became clear that as a chaplain I was there to
provide--I didn't know what to call other than the love
of God--by simply being present to people, to be real
with them, and to let them know as I could feel in my
bones that love is at the heart of the universe.”
Your Chalice Circle is encouraged to join in the reflec-
tions, and all members are invited to share your
thoughts with Rev. Taylor and the Worship Committee at
minister@unitytemple.org or worship@unitytemple.org.
1. What role does prayer have in your individual spiritual
practice? How does Rev. Taylor's definition and ap-
proach assist you with your own?
2. How do you respond to the minister's prayer within
our worship services? In what ways does prayer in a
By-laws Discussion Meetings
All members are invited to attend a discussion regard-
ing proposed amendments to the by-laws. Discussions
will be held in the East Balcony on April 11th after
second service and on April 18th after first ser-
vice. The board is proposing the amendments as part
of the transition to policy governance, and the con-
gregation will vote on the amendments at the annual
meeting on June 6, 2010. Copies of the proposed
amendments will be available at the discussion ses-
sions and at www.unitytemple.org/annualmeeting.
Contact the Board of Trustees at
board@unitytemple.org with questions.  
communal context differ from its role in your individ-
ual spiritual life, and in what ways is it similar?
3. Do you think prayer has power? If so, in what does
its power reside? How does it affect you when you’re
asked “to keep someone in your thoughts and
prayers”? In what ways do you think praying for oth-
ers might affect them?  
Join a Chalice Circle
Chalice Circles Welcome New Members
There are currently 15 Chalice Circles with many possible
schedules and times for meeting. Chalice Circles create
openings for trust, friendship, honesty, growth and re-
flection. They are a spiritual practice. We welcome
adults of all ages. Be known as you are, join a group
today. For information about joining a Chalice Circle
contact Marge Entemann at mee2@pobox.com or
708/445-8544.
The group from the SW suburbs – Westchester to Downers
Grove to Lisle— meets Friday nights and is looking for
new members.  
Chalice Circle Potluck
Chalice Circle Ministry Team Hosts Potluck
The Chalice Circle Ministry Team invites all Chalice Circle
facilitators, participants and those interested in
participating in the program to our annual potluck on
Sunday, April 18 from 5:00–8:00 p.m. at Unity Tem-
ple. Please join us for our once-a-year get together to
share our successes, sorrows, good food and company.
Everyone is invited to bring a favorite dish to share.
Beverages will be provided. Contact Jane Wood at or
708–383-6369 if you plan to attend. If you need baby-
sitting please let Jane know. We look forward to seeing
you!  

EX LIBRIS BOOKSTORE
If you are reading this before April 11, you still have
time bring used books, tapes and CDs in to Unity Temple
for THE USED BOOK FAIR. Each year generous and
thrifty folk meet to buy items to enrich their lives. The
sale will take place Sunday, April 11 from 9:00 am
until 1:00 p.m. in Unity House. Paper back books,
hardcover books, movies, and music are sold at LOW
prices. At 12:30, highly reduced books will be sold in
quantity. Please come. Please donate. Textbooks and
magazines are not welcomed.
If you don't find The Book at the fair, please read about
some new titles we are offering at Ex Libris:
Most people welcome and enjoy celebrating Earth Day,
but there are things we and our children can do all year
long to reapond to ecological needs. 50 SIMPLE THINGS
KIDS CAN DO TO SAVE THE EARTH, written by the Earth
Works Group gives us all some great ideas. You can be a
water leak detective, grow worms, adopt a stream, recy-
cle, recycle, recycle! Since maturity can be built on
good habits, here is a book to help us all grow up a bit.
THE BLUE POPPY AND THE MUSTARD SEED explores the
tragic loss of a young child written by his mother ,
Katathleen Willis Morton. Dr, David Kolin, author of
BURIED IN TREASURE wrote about this book, "...this
book presents an intimaate portrait of seeking peace of
mind in the midst of the unthinkable. This wonderful
book holds important life lessons for us all."
The title BLACK PIONEERS IN A WHITE DENOMINATION
speaks for itself. Mark D. Morrison-Reed puts forth a
powerful call to integrate America's churches, pew by
pew. Written by this black UU minister, the stories of
black churches in Harlem and Chicago come to
life. Andrew Young writes of Morrison-Reed, "his mes-
sage speaks to all blacks and whites who seek equity ,
justice, and harmony in this nation...speaks powerfully
to the issues of both classism and racism, which to
some degree affect every church or temple in America."
Many of us value a book that cues us into taking some
time to consider the day and what we have done with
it.
THE BOOK OF WONDERS gives us a chance to have that
time each day. It's purpose, Edward Hays writes is only
"to inspire and nourish your spirit." One could hardly
ask for more.
We have more wonders to share. Visit Ex Libris. 
April 2010 • 9
EXPRESSING THE INEXPRESSIBLE
EXPRESSING THE INEXPRESSIBLE follows the journey
of three musicians; Chris Nemeth - violin, Nazar
Dzhuryn – cello and Mikhail Yanovitsky-piano, as they
encounter joy and heartache in the pursuit of a life in
music. Captured by photographer Isaiah Estell and
documentary filmmakers, Jeremy Gershfeld and Rob
Neitzke, each man shares his own intimate experience
examining the deeper, enduring value of chasing a
dream - whatever it may be and whatever the risks.
We hope that you can join us for these events:
Friday, April 9th, 7:00 p.m., HouseRed wine bou-
tique, 7403 W. Madison St in Forest Park Join film-
makers Jeremy Gershfeld and Rob Neitzke for an in-
sightful, behind-the-scenes look at the EXPRESSING
documentary project. Admission is free. For a small
donation enjoy a wine tasting.
Sunday, April 25th, 3:00 p.m., 1044 N. Kenilworth
Ave in Oak Park. Don’t miss this unique opportunity to
meet the performers, experience electrifying music,
and bask in the Russian romantic musical tradition, all
in an historic and intimate setting. Includes wine/
appetizer reception. Reservations are required - Tick-
ets are $30. Visit http://www.brownpapertickets.com/
event/101644
And Finally our Gala Benefit - Saturday, May 22nd,
7:00 p.m. at Unity Temple, 875 Lake Street, Oak Park
a one-of-a-kind multi-media presentation combining
original photography, documentary film, and live mu-
sic together in an historic setting for a single night.
Profiling 3 friends connected through music. Each mu-
sician will offer a piece representative of their journey
and the evening will culminate with a performance of
Tchaikovsky’s monumental and rarely performed Piano
Trio in A-minor (op. 50). Following the presentation
in the sanctuary there will be an elegant reception in
Unity House featuring wine from HouseRed Wine Bou-
tique, delicious fare and an opportunity to mingle
with the artists and creative team. Tickets will be
$50, $15 for Students and will be available at http://
www.brownpapertickets.com/event/101652 TICKETS
ARE ON SALE NOW for both events!!
Visit our website—www.unitytemple.org— for more
details. Proceeds from these events will benefit our
Unity Temple Unitarian Universalist Congregation and
the vital building we call home.
For all inquiries contact CNFEvents@unitytemple.org
or call the CNF events line at 708.848.6225 ext 120. 
10 • The Beacon
UNITY TEMPLE
RESTORATION FOUNDATION
South Slab Repair and Restoration Project - Update
We are getting very close to the end of this project. As
you can see, a large part of the scaffolding has been
taken down, including all the shoring that held up the
roof while the concrete was demolished and replaced.
The new roofing is complete, as is the new roof plumb-
ing system in the southeast corner of the roof. The steel
frames that hold the art glass windows in place have
been reinstalled. Next up is the plastering and painting
of the underside of the slab, the replacement of the art
glass windows, and the removal of all the access scaf-
folding. As we reported last month, the cost of the pro-
ject is in line with the original estimate.
Master Plans for the Restoration of Unity Temple
UTRF has a comprehensive master plan and cost esti-
mate for the restoration of Unity Temple. It is broken
down into three phases, based on priority:
Phase I - Building “Envelope”: Repair and rebuild con-
crete roofs and walls, and replace roof drainage systems.
Restore and conserve exterior art glass and skylights.
Phase II - Interior Climate Control & Mechanical Sys-
tems: Stabilize interior and reduce reliance on fossil fu-
els with “green” geothermal HVAC system. Update
plumbing, electrical, security and fire suppression sys-
tems.
Phase III - Interiors: Restore and conserve interior art
glass, plasterwork, paint, concrete and Magnesite floors,
lighting fixtures and wood trim.
The priorities are based on the Master Plan for Restora-
tion developed by architect Gunny Harboe, the concrete
studies prepared by CTLGroup, and the HVAC studies
completed by Architectural Consulting Engineers and
Harboe. The congregation also recently commissioned an
update to the concrete studies, which was completed
this spring and provides excellent information about the
condition of the structure and the recommended timing
of repairs.
Fundraising
UTRF continues to work to broaden and deepen support
for the restoration among a worldwide community. We
seek out donations from foundations, corporations, gov-
ernment sources, and individuals, from the very wealthy
to those who simply love the building and want it to
endure. We encourage individuals to take advantage of
matching programs with their employers, as well. Mem-
bers of UTRF’s Board of Directors and staff are always
willing to discuss the restoration with anyone who has
an interest.
Unity Temple Concert Series
April 24, 7:30 p.m.
THE PRAIRIE WINDS ~ Harmonic Wizardry!
Hailed for their warmth, lyricism, and gorgeous tonal
qualities, this quintet blends powerful musical tech-
nique with humor and intriguing background informa-
tion to present a concert rooted in North American
life. Don't miss this UTCS season finale that promises
to be comical, pastoral, and powerful--a unique
and memorable concert experience! For tickets visit
www.utconcerts.com or call 800-838-3006.  
Break the Box 2010: UTRF’s Program Series on Crea-
tive Nonconformity and Innovation
Third Coast Percussion: Music and Architecture
Thursday, April 22, 7:00 pm
What is the relationship between music and architec-
ture? Praised by the Chicago Tribune as "sonically spec-
tacular," Third Coast Percussion will present a concert
that attempts to answer that quest. By stretching
boundaries and drawing parallels that are both obvious
and abstract, the performance will bring a deeper under-
standing and appreciation of both art forms. Frank Lloyd
Wright expert Sidney K. Robinson will lead a post-
concert discussion. Special $5 discount tickets are avail-
able for OPRF music students; $15 for UTRF members,
students and seniors 65+; $20 non-members.
To purchase advance tickets, visit www.utrf.org and click
on Events, or call 708-383-8873.
Prairie School Adventures: Architecturally-Inspired
Programs for Kids in Grades 2-6
Printmaking Magic: Friday, April 23, 10 am-2 pm
What happens when you create an image on a plate,
apply ink to the surface, then run the plate through a
machine that possesses magical powers? You get a print!
Students will be guided and encouraged to explore a
variety of printmaking techniques, including monotype
printing and the use of stencils, and will take home
portfolios of their prints. Artist David Jansheski --a
great teacher and a talented and experienced print-
maker--will bring his new printing press. Level: Begin-
ner, no previous art-making experience is necessary. $85
per child. Get a special $5 family discount for every sib-
ling and/or relative you register. To register for Prairie
School Adventures, contact Jessamyn Miller at 708-383-
8873 or jmiller@utrf.org.
If you have any questions about the restoration of Unity
Temple, UTRF’s programs, or wish to learn more about
volunteering to help the restoration, please call UTRF’s
office at 708-383-8873, or email executive director
Emily Roth at eroth@utrf.org. 
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April 2010 Events Not To Miss Board of Trustees

board@unitytemple.org
April 2 All-Congregation Seder Dinner Duane Dowell President
6 p.m., Unity House Brent Stratton Vice President
Margaret Ewing Secretary
April 6 Articulating You UU Faith Glenn Brewer Treasurer
7:00 p.m., Unity House Betsy Davis
(Series continues on Tuesdays) Julia Eckersley
Nina Gegenheimer
April 9 Women’s Un-Potluck Dinner Sonja Hall
6:30 p.m., Unity House Diane Ratekin
David Ripley
April 10 What We Talk About When We Talk Jennifer Walters
About Dying Polly Walwark
9:00 a.m., Unity House

April 11 Ex Libris Used Book Fair

Our Staff
9:00 a.m., Unity House For all calls, please dial 708/848-6225
and then your party’s extension:
April 11 Pathways to Membership Rev. Alan C. Taylor, Minister
& 18 1:30 p.m., West Balcony Room x101 minister@unitytemple.org
Rev. Emily Gage,
April 11 By-Law Change Discussion Minister of Faith Development
12:45 p.m., East Balcony Room x103 egage@unitytemple.org
Rich Meyer, Membership Director
April 17 Third Saturday Coffee House x102 rmeyer@unitytemple.org
7:30 p.m., Unity House David Wilke, Director of Administration
x100 dwilke@unitytemple.org
April 18 Chalice Circle Potluck Dinner Martha Swisher, Music Director
6:00 p.m., Unity House music@unitytemple.org
Heather Godbout Youth Coordinator
April 23 Taize Service X107 indigo1370@aol.com
7:00 p.m., Sanctuary Meridian Herman, Rental Manager
x108 rentals@unitytemple.org
April 25 Intro to Unitarian Universalism Sule Kivanc-Ancieta, Nursery Coordinator
1:30 p.m., West Balcony Room David Osorio, Sexton
Margaret Reeder, Preschool Coordinator
April 25 New Member Welcoming Dinner Rito Salinas, Sexton
4:30 p.m., Unity House Peter Storms, Accompanist
Tracy Zurawski, Bookkeeper
x104 bookkeeper@unitytemple.org
Visit Our Calendar Online! Rev. Dr. Clare Butterfield, Community Minister
You can find all Congregation events and
clare@faithinplace.org
activities listed on our web calendar at
www.unitytemple.org/calendar. You can find real-
time listings of all the events occurring at Unity
Temple, and also schedule rooms for Congregation
events and activities right from the page. Select
Add Event at the top of the calendar and complete
the web form. You will receive an email when your www.unitytemple.org
event as been confirmed.  
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Upcoming Services
Sunday services and religious education are held at 9:30 & 11:15 a.m.

Sunday, April 4 Friday, April 23, 7:00 p.m.

Unflagging Love Taizé Service at Unity Temple
Rev. Alan Taylor
Sunday, April 11
Perfectly Normal Sunday Offerings
Rev. Emily Gage April 4
Unitarian Universalist Service Committee
Sunday, April 18 www.uusc.org
For Alligators, Apricots, Acorns
April 11
& Apple trees…
Rev. Clare Butterfield, Rev. Emily Gage, & Sarah’s Inn
www.sarahsinn.org
Rev. Alan Taylor
April 18 & 25
Sunday, April 25 Parenthesis
The Most Important Question www.parenthesis-info.org
Rev. Alan Taylor