60 Days Success For Women Ebook

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
A Woman’s Guide to Getting

What She Wants
Dawn L. Billings
CEO & Founder
The Heart Link Women’s Network and Trova Women Business Directory
Dawn L Billings • dawn@theheartlinknetwork.com • www.TheHeartLinkNetwork.com 1

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
A Woman’s Guide to Getting What She Wants
INTRODUCTION
Success sometimes feels out of reach for women.

Men are driven toward success, while women are
taught they are supporters of success instead of
achievers. For this reason, it has gotten increasing
difficult and confusing to attempt to define what real
success is for women. Most women are not content
with defining success simply in terms of their financial statement. Women use a
broader brush when painting the colors of success. Women also have a tendency to
be more meaning oriented than money oriented when defining success.
This book was written to aid women in developing and strengthening successful
thoughts that support support success in 360 degrees of their lives. Women un-
derstand that success is how we experience the world, our relationships, our fami-
lies, our passions. Success is evident in the fullness of our lives; our health, as well
as our wealth; it shows in the strength of our relationships, as well as, the strength
of our portfolios. Women care about the quality of life, as much as they care about
the quantity of assets they own. Women long for balance, peace, joy and accom-
plishments that define their creativity and competence.
But as women, if we long for success, where do we begin? How do we get where we
want to go?

Women get there the same way everyone else does, but with more awareness and
heart guiding them. Success is accomplished one step at a time; one thought at a
time; one habit at a time. That’s why I have made it easy for busy women to focus on
one of the following thoughts each day. Do not hurry through this book. This is not
a book you want to read in a hurry. Instead, it is a book you want to real carefully.
Think about one idea at a time. Contemplate it, and then develop it, until it be-
comes a habit. Habits require consistency, so once you get through the first 60
days, begin reading the thoughts again. Once you have gone through this 60 day
process three times, you should begin to feel that the thoughts are beginning to
deeply effect your life. In just six months, you will discover that you will have devel-
oped 50 NEW ways of thinking about your daily life. These sixty thoughts will
take you anywhere you want to go in life.
Share these thoughts with those you love. The thoughts and ideas espoused in this
book are universal truths that have worked for thousands of people who have cho-
sen to use them and dedicate themselves to them.
Some skills and ideas require more effort than others. Some might take more time
for you to accept and assimilate. The key is focus, consistency and faithfulness.
Each day commit to reading and carefully considering a new thought. Your new
thoughts will develop into new habits, and you will be amazed at who you have be-
come in six short months from now.
The world needs you. It needs your talents, your dreams, your gifts and your efforts
to become the kind of world we want to leave our children and our grand-children.
It is up to you, and me, and all the women in the world. Let’s teach our daughters to
be extraordinary and get what they want -- success in all areas of their lives.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
ONE: COMMITMENT
Every action begins wi! a
commitment to take it.
Commitment to success and
y#rself $ imperativ% Y#
mu& take a &and for y#r life and y#r
choices. Taking a &and requires a commit-
ment. Wi!#t learning to commit fully y#
can never tru& y#rself and o!ers cannot tru&
y#. Commitment $ ( key to y#r eventual
success and ha)iness professionally and per-
sonally. Commit to success.

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1.What does the word commitment mean to you?
2.Does commitment come easily to you or is it difficult?
3.What do you want your daughters to know and understand

about commitment?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen this value in your

life?

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TWO: READ
Make a commitment to
read some!ing every day.
Whe!er y# read a book or
l$ten on tape, fill y#r
mind wi! wonderful, interesting, !#ght-
provoking, in*irational !#ghts. +#ghts
are ( seeds of ,eams and mu& be watered
wi! continual learning. Great leaders are
great readers. Turn of ( telev$ion and give
y#rself a great gi--
READ to Succeed.

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1.How much do you read?
2.Does reading come easily to you or is it difficult?

about the importance of reading?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen this skill in your

life?

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THREE: ALWAYS BE SELF-FULL
Women’s bo.es are designed
to give bi/h and !eir hea/s
are designed to give to o!ers.
On one hand, self-
consumption will never pay (
.vidends y# are looking for in y#r lif% But
being a selfless door mat pays very li0le .vidends
as well. Consider becoming in&ead - Self-Full.
Develop a wonderful balance of giving and re-
ceiving. It's not ab#t being self$h, or selfless, it
$ ab#t creating a wonderful middle balanc%

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1.What does the word self-full mean to you? Do you feel bal-
anced in your life?
2.Where in your life to you feel full and balanced? Where in

your life do you feel empty and out of balance.

about the balance between selflessness and selfishness?

life?

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FOUR: LEARN FROM EVERYONE
Everyone $ y#r teacher.
From ( janitor to (
CEO of an international
company, from ( waitress
who serves y# to ( doctor !at cares for
y#r heal!. Watch people carefully. L$ten
to o!ers wi! an open hea/. People will
teach y# what to do, and what not to do.
Bo! lessons are equally impo/ant.

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1.Do you feel you learn from everyone? Who have been your
most important teachers?
2.Does you find you close off some lessons in your life?

about their opportunity to learn from everyone?

life?

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FIVE: STAND TALL
Stand tall. It $ impo/ant
to know what y# &and for.
+ose who do not &and
tall for what !ey believe in
are more likely to fall away from ( !ings
!at truly ma0er in lif% Sometimes are val-
ues may not be “cool ”. Sometimes what we
che12 in #r hea/s can require !at we take
a &and. But when we &and tall, we give #r
hea/s ( su)o/ !ey need to keep #r char-
acter &rong. We mu& respect #rselves and in
order to do !at, we mu& &and tall.

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1.What does “standing tall” mean to you? Who do you know

that stands tall for what they believe?
2.Does standing tall for your values come easily to you or is it

difficult?

about “standing tall”?

life?

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SIX: EMULATE GREATNESS
Study success and successful
peopl% Find people who
are living wi! purpose and
a passion and emulate all
!ey do. Find people who represent ( values,
!e expe/$e, and ( competence, ( love and
!e forgiveness !at y# w#ld love to
achiev% If y# find !ose who are living (
,eam y# long for, and copy !em, y# are on
!e pa! to achieving y#r ,eams. When y#
emulate greatness, y# become great, it’s ju&
!at simpl%

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1.What do the words “emulate greatness” mean to you? Who do

you emulate in your life?
2.If you could emulate anyone, who would it be?

about emulating greatness? What do you do each day to insure
that you are one of the great people your daughters emulate?

life?

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SEVEN: ENJOY YOUR LIFE
Give y#rself perm$sion
every day to enjoy y#r
lif% Each moment $ a
gi- !at will never return.
Don’t wa&e y#r time broo.ng, sulking, or
feeling sorry for y#. In&ead find some!ing to
enjoy and ENJOY it!
When y# decide to live in joy, when y# de-
cide to 2are joy wi! o!ers, when y# decide
to look for joy and carry it where ever y# go,
Y# will finally under&and ( true value of
lif% Enjoy!

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1.What does enjoying your life mean to you?
2.Does enjoying your life come easily to you or is it difficult?

about enjoying their lives?
4.What can you do to help you enjoy your life more each day?

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EIGHT: SET GOALS
Set daily, weekly, mon!ly
and yearly goals. Goals
are road maps !at tell
y# where y# are going
and help y# to evaluate if y# are &ill on
c#rs% W1te y#r goals do4. It has
been proven !at people who w1te do4 !eir
goals are twice as successful as !ose who
do not. Se0ing goals sets y#r pa! and
helps y# not wa&e valuable time on !ings
!at head y# in ( wrong .rection.

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1.What does setting goals mean to you? Have you set goals and
written them down?
2.What goals have you set in the past? Does setting goals come
easily to you or is it difficult?

about the importance of setting goals?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your ability to set

goals in your life?

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NINE: GET A MENTOR
Mentors are one of (
mo& valuable res#rces to-
ward achieving success.
+eir c#nsel can save y#
time, money, effo/, and help y# to avoid
m$takes !at !ey have already mad%
+ey b1ng expe1ence and seasoning to y#r
life !at money cannot buy. Get a mentor.
+ey can help y# 6t where y# were
MEANT TO b%

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1.Have you had a mentor in your life? Do you think that having a
mentor is valuable?
2.Have you ever been a mentor to someone else?

about the value of mentors in their lives?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen this appreciation

for mentors in you and your daughter’s lives?

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TEN: GET FOCUSED
Get focused and do all y#
can to maintain it. Focus $
a common trait among suc-
cessful peopl%
Ju& like a magnifying glass focuses (
sun’s rays into an intense burning &ream of
light, y# mu& focus y#r effo/s to create y#r
,eams. Y#r ability to focus makes all (
.fferenc% Use y#r burning desire for suc-
cess and channel its energy into a &ream of
action. If y# want to succeed in life--6t
focused!

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1.What does being focused mean to you? Where is your focus?
2.Does being focused come easily to you or is it difficult? Where

have you had the greatest success at being focused?

about being focused?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your focus?

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ELEVEN: UNITE WITH LIKE-MINDS
Unite wi! like-minded
peopl% We all need to
connect wi! !ose who are
enc#raging, challenging
and in*i1ng. Join or sta/ a ma&ermind or
networking gr#p. Volunteer y#r time for
causes y# believe in. Minds, when united to-
ward fin.ng solutions and creative ideas, are
more powerful. Join o!ers to enc#ra6, sup-
po/ and in*ire one ano!er and watch ,eams
come tru%

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1.What does uniting with like-minds mean to you?
2.Does making friends and finding people who are like you
come easily to you or is it difficult?

about making friends and developing the right kind of friend-
ships?

life?

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TWELVE: OVERCOME PROCRASTINATION
In order to succeed, y# mu
& overcome procra&ination.
A simple way to do !$ $
to .scipline y#rself to do
!e !ings y# ,ead -- fir&. Y# will .s-
cover !at !ey are not usually as .fficult or
as bad as y# expected, and if y# simply
tackle !em, y# have done ( mo& .fficult
pa/. Once !ey are #t of ( way, y# can
really look forward to ( rest of y#r day.
Once y# end procra&ination, y# chan6 y#r
lif%

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1.How does procrastination presently affect your life? Have you

seen procrastination negatively impact lives?
2.Does overcoming procrastination come easily to you or is it

difficult?

about resisting procrastination?
4.What can you do to overcome procrastination in your life?

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THIRTEEN: FACE IS NEVER YOUR FRIEND
Fear $ never y#r f1end.
Fear $ a !ief and a cow-
ard. It will a0empt to
convince y# !at it $ &op-
ping y#r from da1ng ( !ings y# long to
dare, to protect y#. But it’s not tru% Face
y#r fears. Once y# look fear in ( face it
no lon6r has ( power to impact y#r lif%
Streng!en y#r fai! and y# will .scover
!at it automatically weakens y#r fear.
Release ( fear !at holds y# p1soner.
Fear $ never ( f1end it claims to b%

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1.How does fear affect your life? In what instances have you ex-
perienced fear stopping you from moving toward your
dreams?
2.Does courage come easily to you or is fear more powerful in

your life at times?

about fear, and how to face it?
4.What can you do to eliminate fear in your life?

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FOURTEEN: DEVELOP ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNERS
Acc#ntability and self-
responsibility are imperative
to living a successful lif%
All of us need at one time
or ano!er a personal coach or acc#ntability
pa/ner. A pa/ner or coach will help us &ick
wi! #r goals du1ng !ose times !at we want
to slid% Cons$tency and follow !r#gh are
two impo/ant pieces to creating ( success we
long for in #r lives.

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1.What does the word accountability mean to you?
2.Does personal accountability come easily to you or is it diffi-

cult? Do you have an accountability partner?

about the value of accountability, and accountability partners?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen accountability in

your life?

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FIFTEEN: FIND YOUR PASSION
Look inside y#r hea/
and find what y# are pas-
sionate ab#t. Mo& people
don’t ask ( mo& impor-
tant questions? Who am I? And Why am I
here? Look wi!in, where y#r destiny lives.
Find ( answers to life’s mo& impo/ant
questions, and !en, live accor.ngly. Living
wi! passion $ y#r choice, and y#rs alon%
Make ( choice to do what y# love and
love what y# do. Passion brea!es life into
y#r purpos%

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1.What do you feel passionate about?
2.Does living and discovering your passion come easily to you

or is it difficult?

about discovering and living their passion?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen passion in your

life?

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SIXTEEN: AVOID REGRETS
Do all y# can to avoid
regrets. +ink ab#t y#r
dec$ions before y# make
!em. Carefully consider
!em. Pray ab#t !em. Evaluate !eir poten-
tial to succeed and any negative consequences
!ey may caus% Regret $ heavy and will
wear y# do4 carrying it, while .scipline $
not only light to carry, mo& times it will
carry y#. Do all y# can to avoid regrets.

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1.What decisions do you regret in your life?
2.Are you a person who has many regrets, or few?

about regrets and how to avoid them?
4.What can you do to eliminate the regrets in your life?

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SEVENTEEN: BALANCE
Y# will never regret !at
y# .d not have time for
one more meeting at ( end
of lif% Y# will regret
not having *ent more time wi! !ose y#
lov% Find and maintain a balance in y#r
lif% Balance ma0ers now. It provides a
fullness and 1chness to life !at money cannot
buy. Pretend y#r life $ a pie and make time
to enjoy every single slic%

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1.What does the word balance mean to you?
2.Does balance come easily to you or is it difficult?

about balance in their lives?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen balance in your

life?

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EIGHTEEN: LISTEN TO POSITIVE MESSAGES
L$ten to positive messa6s
in&ead of negative messa6s.
+$ will take some con-
sci#s effo/. We are bom-
barded in #r society wi! negative messa6s,
messa6s of limitation, fear, jeal#sy, lack,
bi0erness, unha)iness, etc. C#nter balance
societies negative messa6s by selecting tapes,
books, CDs and DVDs !at will in*ire
y#, move y# and motivate y# toward y#r
,eams. Choose to l$ten to positive messa6s.

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1.What do you listen to in your life, positive or negative mes-

sages? How do you feed your heart and mind thoughts of
greatness?
2.Does optimism come easily to you or is it difficult?

about positive versus negative thoughts and influences in their
lives?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your ability to be

positive in your life?

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NINETEEN: MANAGE YOUR STRESS
Commit to managing y#r
&ress. Stress $ harmful to
y#r heal!. Stress $ caused
by y#r reaction how y#
perceive #tside circum&ances, events or peo-
pl% +$ perception helps y# create a &ory
in y#r life !at determines how y# feel. A
great deal of managing y#r &ress comes from
simply managing ( &ory y# creat% Take
control of y#r lif%Decide to be ha)y; and
refuse to se0le for any!ing els%

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1.What are your greater stressors in your life?
2.If you were to rate the stress in your life on a scale of 1-10
where would you rate it.
3.Does taking time to relax come easily to you or is it difficult?

about developing their ability to deal with stress and relax in
their lives?
4.What can you do to alleviate and minimize stress in your life?

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TWENTY: PAY ATTENTION
Spend time alone and in
self-evaluation daily. If
y# don’t look at y#rself
y# will never under&and
what $ working and not working in y#r
lif% If y# do not know what $ working
and not working, y# cannot choose to chan6
y#r lif% We are here to gain under&and-
ing. Solomon says, “Wi! all !ey 60ing,
gain under&an.ng.” Pay a0ention to y#rself.
What y# will learn will not only a&#nd
y#, it will give y# choice in y#r lif%

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1.How good are you at paying attention to your life and things
around you?
2.How often do you take time to be alone and evaluate all that is
going on in your life?
3.Does paying attention come easily to you or is it difficult?
about awareness and attention?

life?

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TWENTY-ONE: PREPARE TO BE ALL YOU CAN BE
+e monarch bu0erfly be-
gins life as a lowly worm.
+r#gh ( c#rse of
time, it makes itself a co-
coon and eventually turns into a beautiful but-
terfly. We are created wi! choices. We can
become any!ing we desire, if we are willing
to take ( time to prepare to be what #r
hea/s long to b% No!ing great ha)ens
wi!#t ( proper preparation. What are y#
willing to prepare to become in y#r life?

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1.Do you prepare for your success? In what ways do you feel you
are transforming your life?
2.Does preparation come easily to you or is it difficult?

about being prepared to succeed in their lives?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your ability to

prepare for success?

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TWENTY-TWO: YOUR LIFE IS NOT A DRESS REHEARSAL
Y#r life $ not a ,ess re-
hearsal. Today will never
return. Each moment $ (
real !ing. +e cu/ain $
goes up each morning and y# are ( &ar of
y#r lif% W#ld it make any sense to make
it y#r best performance? Y# w1te ( lines,
y# deliver !em wi! passion. Y# pick (
location, ( moments of impact, compassion,
joy and sac1fic% Y#r life $ not a ,ess re-
hearsal. Make today y#r best performanc%

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1.Do you live your life as though it were a dress rehearsal? Do

you think of yourself as the STAR in your life?
2.Does living as the leading lady in your life come easily to you
or is it difficult? What would you alter in your drama if you be-
lieved you could?

about how to be the stars in their lives?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your ability to be a

better leading lady in your life?

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TWENTY-THREE: DEPENDABILITY
We mu& balance chan6
wi! dependability. If people
know y# as a dependable
person, !ey will tru& y#.
If y# know y#rself as a dependable person,
y#r ability to make commitments and keep
!em increases significantly. Dependability $
not bo1ng. It $ not a mindless, habitual be-
havior. Dependability $ ab#t integ1ty; can
people c#nt on y# to do and be what y#
prom$e?

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1.What does dependability mean to you? Who are the most de-
pendable people you know? How do you feel about them?
2.Does being dependable come easily to you or is it difficult?

about being dependable in their lives?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen dependability in

your life?

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TWENTY-FOUR: CHARACTER
Character has been defined
as what one $. It $ (
very essence of a person.
Our choices and actions
2ow #r character. Character cannot be pre-
tended. Character’s tru! lives wi!in every
dec$ion we make and every action we tak%
It $ ( back bone of #r identity. It $ what
keeps us moving forward toward ( !ings we
believe in. Y#r character determines ( .-
rection of y#r entire lif%

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1.What does character mean to you? How do you feel about

your character?
2.Does having character come easily to you or is it difficult?

How would others describe your character?

about character in their lives?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen character in your

life?

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TWENTY-FIVE: PICK YOUR FRIENDS CAREFULLY
Pick y#r f1ends care-
fully. +e phrase “We are
kno4 by ( company we
keep” $ true regardless of
whom y# hang ar#nd wi!. If y# hand
ar#nd wi! positive, cont1buting people, y#
become more positive and cont1buting, if y#
hang ar#nd wi! negative, self-focused people,
y# become negative and self-focused. Pick
y#r f1ends carefully because ( f1ends y#

select will greatly influence ( ,eams in y#r
hea/.

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1.What does picking friends carefully mean to you? Do you feel

that the friends you have are the kind of friends you need in
order to be the best you, you can be?
2.Does making friends come easily to you? Do you feel you have
carefully chosen the friends you have?

about picking great friends?

choose great and inspiring friends?

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TWENTY-SIX: USE YOUR BRAIN
Stay in y#r frontal lobe
in&ead of allowing circum-
&ances, events or people to
chase y# into y#r p1mal
co/ex. What does !at mean? Keep !inking.
Don’t go into automatic pilot. Y# don’t
want ( mo& impo/ant dec$ions in y#r life
to be reactions but consci#s dec$ions. +e
only !ing !at y# can accompl$h from y#r
p1mal co/ex $ a fight or flight respons%

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1.Do you consciously choose the majority of your actions? Do

you act before you take the time to really think?
2.Does remaining calm and taking the time to carefully think

things through come easily to you?

about being conscious when making carefully considered deci-
sions?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your ability to stop

and think carefully?

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TWENTY-SEVEN: LIVE IN INTEGRITY
Live in integ1ty. Be who
y# say y# are, and do
what y# say y# will do.
When y# live in integ1ty
!e fab1c of y#r s#l $ tightly woven. When
y# are #t of integ1ty in y#r life, y# will
.scover !at it tears holes in fab1c of y#r
s#l. +ere $ no!ing more valuable !an
y#r word. Do what y# say y# will do.

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1.What does integrity mean to you? Do you feel that you live in
integrity with what you say most of the time? Or out of integ-
rity most of the time?
2.Does living in integrity come easily to you or is it difficult?

about living in integrity?

your word in all you say and do?

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TWENTY-EIGHT: COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS
C#nt y#r blessings and
say a prayer of !anks every
day for all !at $ good in
y#r lif% C#nting y#r
blessings reminds y# of how many y# hav%
Gratitude ba0les ( entitlement mentality
!at can &eal y#r joy. W1te do4 at lea&
one !ing y# are !ankful for every day. At
!e end of ( mon!, y# might be surp1sed
how wonderful y#r life really $.

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1.How valuable is gratitude and appreciation in your life? Do

you feel appreciated in your life?
2.Does showing appreciation come easily to you or is it diffi-

cult? Who do you show appreciation to?

about appreciation?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen appreciation in

your life?

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TWENTY-NINE: LIVE YOUR INTENTIONS
Intentions are what y#
ar% Mo& people 6t
confused and !ink !at in-
tentions are what y# hope
to do. Actually y#r real and true intentions
are expressed in y#r present day lif% Today
carefully examine y#r life, what y# are liv-
ing today are y#r true intentions. If y# are
not ha)y, chan6 y#r intentions wi! y#r
actions. Do 'whatever it takes' to have (
#tcomes !at y#r hea/ desires.

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1.What does the word intention mean to you? Do you feel you
live your life intentionally?
2.Does living intentionally come easily to you or is it difficult?

Who do you know that lives intentionally?

about living their intentions?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen intentionality in

your life?

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THIRTY: DREAM BIG DREAMS
Dream big ,eams, so big
in fact, !at it causes y#
to tremble in bo! terror and
excitement. When y#r
,eams are so big !at y# are not sure how y#
will accompl$h !em, y# will know !ey are
ju& ( 1ght siz% Every!ing begins wi! a
,eam. Dreams are ( seeds of great success.
It $ only ( ,eamers who are willing to
awaken and put on !eir work clo!es, !at
create success in !eir lives.

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1.What is the biggest dream you can imagine? Do you spend

much time dreaming?
2.Does dreaming come easily to you or is it difficult? What stops

you from living your dreams?

about dreaming big dreams?

dream BIG dreams?

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THIRTY-ONE: JOURNAL YOUR THOUGHTS
J#rnal y#r !#ghts.
When y# compile y#r
daily lessons; when y#
w1te y#r goals do4;
when y# *eak ( desires of y#r hea/ to
y#rself, y# create a new relation2ip wi!
!em internally. +$ new relation2ip wi!
y#r ,eams fo/ifies y#, &reng!ens y#, and
guides y# toward a life y# will love living.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.Do you own a journal? If so, do you actually use it to journal

your thoughts?
2.Does journalling come easily to you or is it difficult? Have you

every kept a consistent journal?

about the value of journaling?

journal your thoughts?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
THIRTY-TWO: ONE BITE AT A TIME
Sometimes in life #r chal-
len6s look too lar6 too
fac% Whenever I felt !$
way my mo!er w#ld say,
“Do y# know how to eat an elephant?” I
w#ld of c#rse answer no. She w#ld smile
and remind me, “One bite at a tim%” Take
all great challen6s and break !em do4 into
bite size chucks. Before y# know it, what y#
!#ght was too big to handle has been don%
Y# can do any!ing, one &ep at a tim%

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1. Are you good at facing challenges one bite at a time? Do you

see a long journey ahead of you as one step at a time?
2.Does taking one bite at a time come easily to you or is it diffi-

cult?

about taking one bite at a time?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your ability to take

one bite or step at a time?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
THIRTY-THREE: CHOOSE TO BE GREAT
Choose to be Great.
+ere $ only one !ing over
which we have complete con-
trol and !at $ #r choices.
Don’t wa&e y#r life in me.oc1ty. Choose
to be Great. Decide what greatness means to
y# and live it. Y# will .scover !at y#r
life will become greater !an y# c#ld have
imagined.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.Do you believe that success is as easy as choosing it?
2.Does choosing to be great come easily to you? What are a few

of the things that have stopped you from choosing to be great?

about choosing their thoughts carefully?

choose greatness for your life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
THIRTY-FOUR: BE EARLY
+e best way to be on
time $ to 6t to meetings,
work, - every a)ointment
early. Take a great book
and read while y# are waiting. Time $ a pre-
ci#s commo.ty. Time $ ( only currency y#
cannot make more of. Don’t wa&e y#rs or
o!ers. People love to be respected. +ey love
to feel !at !ere time ma0ers to y#. When
!ey feel !eir time ma0ers, !ey feel !ey mat-

ter. Be on time, it will serve y# and o!ers
well.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1. Are you usually on time for your appointments? How do you

feel about time.
2.Does being on time come easily to you or is it difficult? Do

you sometimes feel that time slips through your fingers?

about the value of time?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your deep respect

of time?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
THIRTY-FIVE: LEARN TO LISTEN
L$tening $ a skill !at
can be learned. Al!#gh
mo& of us can hear, mo& of
us do not l$ten. L$tening
$ a gi- we give to ano!er !at tells !em we
care ab#t !em. We have two ears and only
one m#!,, which demon&rates very clearly
!at we need to l$ten twice as much as we
*eak, and a0empt to under&and, twice as of-
ten as we argu% Y# will become far w$er
by l$tening !an y# ever will by talking.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.How valuable to you think developing the skill of listening is?

Do you consider yourself a good listener?
2.Does listening come easily to you or is it difficult? Do you feel

that others listen to you?

about the value of listening? How will you teach your daughters
the skill of listening?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your skill of listen-

ing in your life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
THIRTY-SIX: LIVE FROM ENDOWMENT
Live from a per*ective of
endowment in&ead of from
one of entitlement. Enti-
tlement will lie to y# and
tell y#, y# are not responsible for y#r life,
but y# ar% Y# mu& take full responsibil-
ity for y#r lif% No one owes y# any!ing.
Every!ing in y#r life $ a gi-, from y#r
fir& brea! to y#r la&. Treat it as such and
y# will find peace, joy and ha)iness beyond
what y# can imagin%

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What do the words “entitlement” and “endowment” mean to

you? Endowment is a gift, do you feel that your life and your
relationships are gifts? Entitlement means “a right to de-
mand”. Do you feel that you have a right to demand things in
your life?
2.Living from an endowed perspective means that you realize

everything is a gift and appreciate life as such. Does living
through an endowed perspective come easily to you or is it dif-
ficult?

about the difference between entitlement and endowment? En-
titlement will always cause us to feel miserable and unhappy.
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen our ability to live

our lives through an endowed vs. entitled perspective?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
THIRTY-SEVEN: NEVER, NEVER, NEVER GIVE UP
Never, never, never, never
give up. Pers$tence and
perseverance are imperative to
success. When y# fall
do4, 6t back up, &ick wi! it, try again,
and keep trying until y# achieve !at which
y# long for. Great people persevere; o!ers
.sa)ear. Y# are ( only one who can de-
cide how long y# will keep on keeping on.
Make ( dec$ion to never, never, never give
up.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What does persevering mean to you? When things get tough,

do you usually persist or quit?
2.Does being persistent come easily to you or is it difficult?

Where do you struggle most with persistence in your life?

about perseverance?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your ability to per-

severe in your life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
THIRTY-SEVEN: INVEST 5 % OF YOUR TIME AND INCOME
Take 5% of y#r income
and invest it in continued
learning and personal grow!
every year. Read and a0end
conferences o-en. Turn off ( telev$ion, 6t
a great book and read to one ano!er. Y#
will be ( same person y# are today except
for ( people y# meet, ( books y# read ,
!e expe1ences y# have, and ( grow! y#
command of y#rself. Y# and !ose y# love
are wo/h 5%.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1. Does it make sense that a small investment might be neces-

sary in order to keep you and your relationship fresh?
2.Does continued learning come easily to you or is it difficult?

Do you feel you invest in the growth of yourself and your rela-
tionships?

about continuing to invest in themselves and their relation-
ships?

grow and invest in yourself and your relationships?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
THIRTY-EIGHT: CAREFULLY SELECT YOUR THOUGHTS
Carefully select y#r
!#ghts. Y# have complete
control over only one !ing n
life--y#r !#ghts.
Don’t allow y#r !#ghts to be regulated by
automatic defense mechan$ms. What y#
!ink creates y#r world, y#r relation2ips,
y#r o)o/unities, and y#r motivation.
Don’t allow junk to fill y#r head. Create
!e destiny y# desire and deserv% Carefully
select and control y#r !#ghts.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What does carefully selecting your thoughts mean to you? Do

you feel that thoughts are powerful and have a real impact on
who you are and what you are capable of accomplishing?
2.Does controlling your thoughts come easily to you or is it dif-

ficult?

about the importance of the thoughts they think?

control and carefully select the thoughts in your head?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
THIRTY-NINE: WAKE UP EACH DAY WITH A CLEAN SLATE
Take a lesson from (
ea/h’s beaches surr#n.ng
!e oceans. Begin each day
wi! a clean slat% Let go
of old hu/s, perceived inju&ices and .sap-
pointments. +e only !ing !ey will ever
b1ng to y#r life $ hea/ach% Don’t rumi-
nate ab#t ( .fficulties in y#r lif% In-
&ead flu2 ( useless garba6 #t of y#r
mind and y#r life and begin each day wi! a
new hopeful, optim$tic slat%

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What does beginning each day with a clean slate mean to you?
Do you find that you hold onto things or let them slide right
off your back?
2.Does forgiveness come easily to you or is it difficult for you to

forgive? Who do you need to forgive?

about forgiveness?
4.What can you do to clean your slate each day?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FORTY: BE GENEROUS
Be GENEROUS.
Share what y# have wi!
o!ers, and give more freely
of y#rself, y#r gi-s and
y#r talents. Giving $ one of ( mo& self$h
endeavors because what y# give comes back
multiplied ten fold. Be 6ner#s, and be
!ankful for how 6ner#s God $ wi! y#.
We live in an extraor.nary and abundant
world. It $ always 6ner#s wi! us and we
need to behave in kind.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What does generosity mean to you? Who is the most generous

person you know?
2.Does generosity come easily to you or is it difficult?

about being generous?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen generosity in your

life?

5.
60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FORTY-ONE: FORGIVE
Forgiveness $ not a gi-
y# give to someone els% It
$ a gi- y# give to y#r-
self. It sets y# fre%
Life $ for Giving and Forgiving
and when y# learn !at,
commit to !at tru!, live it, and give it,
y# will know a freedom like no o!er. +e
tru! $-- forgiveness will set y# fre%

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What forgiveness mean to you? Who do you need to forgive?

Who do you need to ask forgiveness of?
2. Does forgiveness come easily to you or is it difficult? Do you

value forgiveness?

about forgiveness?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your ability to for-

give those you have hurt or disappointed you?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FORTY-TWO: LIFE IS A PRESENT: BE PRESENT
Life $ a gi-, every day,
every brea!, every expe1ence
$ a gi-, !at’s why it $
called ( present. Live in
!e present moment. It $ ( only one !at ex-
$ts. Yesterday $ a memory and tomorrow can-
not be *ent until it turns into today. Don’t
wa&e y#r life living in time zones !at do not
ex$t. Life $ a gi-. Live it now and cele-
brate ( great present. Life $ a present so--
be present.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.Do you feel that life is a gift or a burden? Do you feel that you
are present in your life or that you live a great deal of your time
in the past or future?
2.Does appreciation of your life come easily to you or is it diffi-

cult? What do you appreciate most about your life?

about the gift of their life? How will you teach your daughters
to value their lives?

present in your life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FORTY-THREE: DETACH FROM OUTCOMES
Y# are not defined by y#r
#tcomes. In fact y# need
to detach y#rself from #t-
comes. Being a0ached to a
ce/ain #tcome actually limits y#r potential
and God’s o)o/unity to mold and &reng!en
y#. Give y#rself fully wi!#t a0aching
who y# are, and what y# do, to a pa/icular
#tcome, and y# will .scover !at in mo&
in&ances y#r #tcomes will be be0er !an (
#tcome y# planned for.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What does detaching from your outcomes mean to you? Do

you think being attached to an outcome is positive or nega-
tive?
2.Does detaching from your outcomes come easily to you or is it

difficult? How might your lessening your attachment to par-
ticular outcomes impact your life?

about not becoming attached to the outcomes in their lives?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your ability to de-

tach yourself from outcomes in your life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FORTY-FOUR: EXPECT THE BEST
Expect ( best from y#r
lif% Mo& people are
afraid to expect ( best
because it $ more common to
fear ( wor&. We all know !at what we
focus on ha)ens and what we res$t pers$ts.
So it $ imperative !at we expect ( best, fo-
cus on success and be aware of what we are re-
s$ting in #r lives. What we fear we give
passionate energy to, so expect ( best in&ead
of fea1ng ( wor&.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What does expecting the best mean to you? Do you find that
generally you expect the best or prepare for the worst?
2.Does expecting the best come easily to you or is it difficult?

about their expectations? Is it easier to expect the best for oth-
ers than it is to expect the best for yourself?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your ability to ex-

pect the best in your life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FORTY-FIVE: WORK HARD
Effo/ $ o-en confused
wi! a ./y f#r-le0er
word- WORK. Success
requires action - y# can't
ju& sit !ere all day and hope to have y#r
,eams fulfilled, but y# 6t to decide if !at
effo/ $ pleasure or if it $ work. Effo/ can
be exciting, exhilarating, &imulating and won-
derful. Maximize y#r life by maximizing y#r
effo/. Y# might .scover !at y#r work be-
comes pleasur%

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What meaning does effort and work have in your life? Do you
see yourself as a hard worker? Is there a difference between
working hard and working smart?
2.Does work come easily to you or is it difficult? Who do you

think is the hardest worker you know? How do you feel about
them?

about work and effort?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your work ethic in

your life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FORTY-SIX: CHOOSE IS A VERB
Choice $ a verb. Our
ability to choose $ (
greatest gi-, p1vile6 and
responsibility we are given
in lif% +erefore it s imperative !at we
choose w$ely. Our choices require careful con-
sideration. All choices have consequences some
are negative and some are positiv% It $ up to
us to choose w$ely and carefully. +e w$est
dec$ion y# can make $ to choose everyday to
be ( greatest y#, y# can b%

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What does choosing wisely and carefully mean to you? Do you

think choice is a verb in your life? Do you let things happen,
or do you choose them?
2.Does choosing wisely come easily to you or is it difficult? How

actively involved are you in choosing your life?

about making wise and careful choices? How can you teach
your daughters to choose wisely?

make wise choices in your life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FORTY-SEVEN: TAKE TIME SERIOUSLY
Take time se1#sly. Each
of us are given ( same
number of minutes each day.
We cannot save !em and if
we *end !em poorly we can never recover
!em. Don’t wa&e y#r preci#s moments wor-
rying, raging, fighting, failing—in&ead live
each one as !#gh $ was a treasure, because it
$ wo/h far more !an gold will ever b%

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What does taking time seriously mean to you? Have you every
considered time as a currency in your life?
2.Does taking time seriously come easily to you or is it difficult?

Do you spend your time wisely?

about the value of time?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your ability to use

time wisely?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FORTY-EIGHT: GIVE TO GOD
Take 10% 1ght off (
top of y#r earnings and give
!em back to God.
Se0ing aside 10% might be
.fficult at fir& but y# will .scover !at y#
adju& and can do ju& fine wi!#t it. +e
key to weal! $ an effective savings and in-
vestment plan. +ere $ no be0er investment
!at ti!ing. What y# give to God comes
back to y# multiplied many times over. Take
10% and give it to God.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What does taking 10% of your income and setting it aside for
tithing or charity mean to you? Do you believe that what you
give comes back to you multiplied?
2.Does tithing or giving to charity come easily to you or is it dif-

ficult? Do you know anyone who tithes consistently?

about tithing or setting aside money to help others?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen this choice in

your life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FORTY-NINE: REMAIN GRATEFUL
Live from a per*ective of
endowment. An endowed
per*ective $ on of abun-
dance and gratitud% It
requires only !at we are willing to &ay
aware of #r many blessings and challen6
#rselves to remain grateful at all times. Ap-
preciate ( cont1butions of o!ers to y#r life
no ma0er how small. Y# will be surp1sed at
!e ha)iness it b1ngs to y#r lif%

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.How do you believe that endowment is tied to gratitude? What

role does appreciation and gratitude play in your life? Do you
believe that living from an appreciative perspective makes
people happier?
2.Does gratitude and showing appreciation come easily to you

or is it difficult?

about showing gratitude and being appreciative? How can you
teach your daughters to live from more endowed perspectives
in their lives?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your ability to live

from an endowed perspective in your life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FIFTY: BEGIN WITH FAILURE
See failure as ( begin-
ning not ( end. Failure $
a f1end and a teacher. It
teaches us what we need to
try next, and if we l$ten to failure carefully,
examine it !r#ghly and pers$t, failure will
always make us be0er, &ron6r and sma/er.
Don’t 6t confused ab#t failure and !ink
!at it $ ( end of y#r effo/s. Once y#
under&and !at failure $ ju& ( beginning
!ere $ no!ing !at $ truly #t of reach.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What does failure mean to you? Do you see failure as a neces-

sary step toward success?
2.Does celebrating failure come easily to you or is it difficult?

about the value of their failures along the way?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your excitement

about your failures?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FIFTY-ONE: CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY
Choose to be ha)y. Yes,
ha)iness $ a choic%
Ha)iness $ not an upto4
ad,ess, a new car, ( per-
fect relation2ip or fat bank balanc%
Ha)iness comes from inside y#. It $ born
#t of y#r cont1butions to o!ers, ( value
y# place upon y#r ex$tence, and ( .ffer-
ence y# make in ( lives !at need y#r gi-s
and talents; ( legacy y# choose to leav%
Ha)iness $ a choice; choose it today.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What happiness mean to you? What importance do you place

on happiness?
2.Does feeling joyful and happy come easily to you?

about the concept of happiness and its overall importance in
their lives?
4.What can you do to increase happiness in your life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FIFTY-TWO: TAKE RISKS
Take 1sks. Be brav%
What w#ld y# do if y#
knew y# c#ld not fail?
What a powerful and im-
po/ant question? Life $ 1sky. Ju& 60ing
up in ( morning has its 1sks but we are
willing to take !em to live #r lives. Pu2
y#r envelop% Be w$e ab#t ( kind of
1sks y# take, but make sure !at y# a0empt
some!ing 1sky every day. R$ks make more of
y#.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.How do you feel about taking risks? Do you know people who
take risks? What is the difference between healthy risks and
unhealthy risks?
2.Do you see yourself as a risk taker?

about what taking risks might mean in their lives?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your ability to take

healthy risks in your life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FIFTY-THREE: ELIMINATE SELF-LIMITING SELF-TALK
Eliminate self-limiting
self-talk. It will only serve
to limit y#. +e only
!ings in life !at hold y#
back are limitations !at y# place on y#rself.
When y# are having a conversation wi!
y#rself, what w#ld it hu/ to have !em be
positive, unlimited, ener6tic and exciting?
What w#ld y# lose if y# chan6d y#r
limiting self-talk to limitless self-talk . . .
Maybe y#r limits?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.How does self-limiting talk impact your life? Are you aware
when you think and speak self-limiting thoughts and words?
2.Do you find that you use self-limiting and negative self talk of-
ten?

about how self-limiting talk will affect their lives and their suc-
cess?

eliminate self-limiting talk in your life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FIFTY-FOUR: GIVE YOUR BODY YOUR BEST
Give y#r body y#r best.
Y# only have one, treat it
wi! great reverence and re-
*ect. Eat 1ght, exerc$e
and 6t en#gh rest. Proper nut1tion, great
hy,ation, exerc$e, adequate sleep and regular
vacations keep y# heal!y. No am#nt of
money can buy y#r heal! back once it $ gone,
and many a millionaire w#ld have given all
!ey had if it c#ld. Y#r heal! $ y#r
greatest weal!.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.Do you make your health a priority? What are the best things
you do for your body.
2.Does exercising and eating right come easily to you or is it dif-

ficult? Do you eat well and get enough rest?

about eating right and taking care of their bodies?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your body?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FIFTY-FIVE: LAUGH . . . LAUGH LOUDLY
Laugh . . .laugh l#dly.
It has been proven !at very
successful people have well
developed emotional intel-
li6nc% Expe/s .scovered !at a significant
pa/ of well developed emotional intelli6nce
$ a great sense of humor. Successful people use
!emselves to make o!ers laugh and use humor
to relieve &ress and tension in .fficult situa-
tions. Develop y#r sense of humor and laugh
#t l#d, o-en.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.Do you feel you have a well developed sense of humor? Do

you like to laugh? Do you like other’s who laugh?
2.Does laughter come easily to you? Do you feel you have a ten-
dency to take life too seriously at times?

about the value of a well developed sense of humor?
4.What can you do to increase the amount of laughter in your

life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FIFTY-SIX: BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
Very successful people be-
lieve in !eir ,eams, and
!ey believe in !emselves.
+ey tru& !eir abilities
to make great dec$ions, and take powerful
action toward !eir goals. Self-confidence $
born #t of repeated good choices. It $ #r ac-
tions !at teach us who we ar% Believe in
y#rself and y#r ,eams and take action.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.Do you believe in yourself and your dreams?
2.Does believing in yourself come easily to you or is it difficult?

about believing in themselves and their dreams?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your belief in

yourself and the possibility of your dreams becoming a reality?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FIFTY-SEVEN: BE COURAGEOUS
Success doesn’t come easy
or fa&. It takes c#ra6,
and a commitment to keep
on keeping on. It requires
follow-!r#gh to integrate some or all of
!ese 60 !#ghts or &rategies into y#r
lif% I can only tell y# from years of expe-
1ence bo! a)lying and teaching !ese tech-
niques !at if y# are determined to excel in
y#r life y# mu& learn and grow in ( areas
!at have proven to make a .fferenc%

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.Do you feel you live your life courageously?
2.Does courage come easily to you? How do you define cour-

age?

about being courageous in their lives?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen courage in your

life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FIFTY-EIGHT: BE REAL
What does any of y#r
life mean if it $ not real.
Being real has its chal-
len6s. +e fir& challen6
$ answe1ng ( question “What $ real?”
+e second $ having ( c#ra6 to be y#r-
self. Mo& of us are doing all we can to keep
from being rejected. We are afraid if we 2ow
#r real selves we will be rejected. No one
likes rejection. But !ere $ no “real ” sat$-
faction in life unless we are real along (
way.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What does being real mean to you?
2.Does being real come easily to you or is it difficult?

about being real?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen being real in your

life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
FIFTY-NINE: PLAY LARGE
Mo& people play small.
+ey !ink !at playing
small in life $ easier, but
in reality, it $ much more
.fficult to play small. It takes effo/ to
21nk y#r potential and to limit y#r ,eams.
+ere $ great energy !at 6ts behind (
lar6& pa/ of y#r potential. Y# are not here
by accident and each of y# has a purpose !at
$ lar6r !an lif% It $ up to y# to have
!e c#ra6 and fo/itude to play lar6.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What does playing large mean to you?
2.Does playing large come easily to you or is it difficult?

about playing large in their lives?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your ability to play

large at life?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
SIXTY: BE UNSTOPPABLE
Anyone can give up. Any-
one can &op ju& before !ey
reach ( !eir ultimate
goals. But it $ rare when
people choose to be un&o)abl% +e choice
to be un&o)able influences all o!er choices
we mak% +e saying “It $ always darkest
before ( da4 $ tru%” It $ ju& a-er (
darkest pa/s of #r lives !at ( light waits
to crest. If we give up or se0le for less; we
can never become what we were born to b%

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
1.What does being unstoppable mean to you? Do you know any

unstoppable people? How do you feel about them?
2.Does living your life unstoppable come easily to you or is it

difficult?

about being unstoppable in their lives?
4.What can you do to develop and strengthen your commitment

to being unstoppable?

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
IN CONCLUSION
As you can see, your life must be examined from a

personal, as well as, professional perspective each
day. This careful examination can be done easily as
this book has proven. By addressing one idea or value
at a time. Your success must be first defined by you,
then earned by you. Success is not something some-
one else can bestow on you, it is yours and yours alone to achieve.
These 60 values, thoughts and ideas are the basis of all success. If you carefully
consider them, evaluate them in your life and make new commitments toward living
them, your success is guaranteed by your dedication to the truths of these con-
cepts.
Women are the heart of the world. We need to take a stand and become the full-
ness of what it is in our hearts we long to be. We should not be defined by the social
forces that are the current fashion, we should be defined by the dreams in our
hearts, the wisdom in our souls. When we work to get what we want, and in getting
what we want, we help others rise to their highest levels of accomplishment and
greatness as well, we can heal the wounds in the world. We know that true strength
comes from our ability to love, nurture, inspire and encourage one another.
If you want to get what you want;

help others get what they want.

60 DAYS TO SUCCESS
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Dawn L Billings, MA, LPC

In 2008 Dawn was selected as one of the nation’s 80 emerging
women leaders out of over 3200 applicants, by Oprah Magazine
and The White House Project, as well as, chosen as one of 15
“Women of Achievement” by the Cobb County, Georgia, YWCA
for her socially dynamic programs and dedication to women and
children.
Dawn is the CEO, Founder of The Heart Link Network®,
www.TheHeartLinkNetwork.com an innovative women’s
networking organization, which has over 140 locations in the
US, Canada and Australia. Dawn is dedicated to linking women to wonderful resources,
new ideas, products and services and especially the hearts of one another. Dawn is also
the creator of www.WomenLiftingtheWorld.com short, “just a Dawn minute” inspira-
tional videos to uplift, encourage and inspire the hearts of all who experience them, and
the www.Heart-Notes.com Garden where you can plant a virtual flower and send it with a
brief heart-note to someone to say thank-you, I’m thinking of you, You can do it, Don’t
ever give up, etc.
Dawn is also the creator of The Heart Alliance, an online women’s networking commu-
nity that connects women around the world, and the GOD CAN, an inspiring and uplift-
ing experience for women who feel stressed, confused, angry or anxious. It is lovely.
Click the link GOD CAN and experience it today.
Dawn is also the founder of Women Lifting the World™, an website filled with inspira-
tional videos that uplift, encourage and inspire all who experience them. These inspira-
tional videos are “just a Dawn minute” long, to promote character and excellence in chil-
dren and adults. But Dawn’s favorite accomplishment is the creation of the beloved
CAPABLES™ Learning System, www.GetCapables.com a plush parenting toy/tool
touted by parenting experts, to revolutionize parenting around the world.
Dawn is President of DawnBillings.com, a training and executive coaching company,
where she is a consultant to Executives and Organizations focusing on teamwork, com-
munication skills, improving productivity and retaining top talent using her highly ac-
claimed Primary Colors Personality Test™ that was administered to over 60,000 people
in 2008, of which she is the author.
Dawn is the founder and creator of the online TROVA business directories called
www.TROVAnow.com There is a small business directory
www.TrovaBusinessDirectory.com and a “women owned business” directory
www.TrovaWomenBusiness.com Every business gets a FREE listing.
Dawn is is the author of over 20 books including Greatness and Children: Learn the
Rules, Entitled to Fail, Endowed to Succeed: America’s Journey Back to Greatness,
Choose to Be Great Workbook and her classic fable, The Perfect Heart, but Dawn is most
proud of the fact that both of her sons Tony, 30 and Corbin 21, are awarding winning con-
tributors to their communities and to the world.

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60 DAYS TO SUCCESS

A Woman’s Guide to Getting

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Success sometimes feels out of reach for women.

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Every action begins wi! a

commitment to take it.

Commitment to success and

mu& take a &and for y#r life and y#r

choices. Taking a &and requires a commit-

ment. Wi!#t learning to commit fully y#

can never tru& y#rself and o!ers cannot tru&

y#. Commitment $ ( key to y#r eventual

success and ha)iness professionally and per-

sonally. Commit to success.

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1.What does the word commitment mean to you?

2.Does commitment come easily to you or is it difficult?

3.What do you want your daughters to know and understand

4.What can you do to develop and strengthen this value in your

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read some!ing every day.

Whe!er y# read a book or

l$ten on tape, fill y#r

mind wi! wonderful, interesting, !#ght-

provoking, in*irational !#ghts. +#ghts

are ( seeds of ,eams and mu& be watered

wi! continual learning. Great leaders are

great readers. Turn of ( telev$ion and give

y#rself a great gi--

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1.How much do you read?

2.Does reading come easily to you or is it difficult?

3.What do you want your daughters to know and understand

4.What can you do to develop and strengthen this skill in your

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THREE: ALWAYS BE SELF-FULL

Women’s bo.es are designed

to give bi/h and !eir hea/s

are designed to give to o!ers.

On one hand, self-

consumption will never pay (

.vidends y# are looking for in y#r lif% But

being a selfless door mat pays very li0le .vidends

as well. Consider becoming in&ead - Self-Full.

Develop a wonderful balance of giving and re-

ceiving. It's not ab#t being self$h, or selfless, it

$ ab#t creating a wonderful middle balanc%

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2.Where in your life to you feel full and balanced? Where in

3.What do you want your daughters to know and understand

4.What can you do to develop and strengthen this value in your

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FOUR: LEARN FROM EVERYONE

Everyone $ y#r teacher.

company, from ( waitress

who serves y# to ( doctor !at cares for

y#r heal!. Watch people carefully. L$ten

to o!ers wi! an open hea/. People will

teach y# what to do, and what not to do.

Bo! lessons are equally impo/ant.

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