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YouneedonlyONEtrick.
Makeacommitmenttooptimalhealth:Mental,physical,emotional,spiritual.
Thiscommitmentwillinfuseyourrelationships,work,money,love,opportunities,and
health.
HOWtousethistrick:
Wheneveryoumusttakeactionormakeadecisionaskyourself,
"Doesthisenhancemyhealthandhappiness?"
Ifyes,thendoit.
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Ifnot,thentossit.
Thisactioncarriesoverintoyourbeliefsystem,values,people,andthings.
Example:
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Ihaveamuchbetteroptionforyou.
Basedonmyownstrategicexplorationovertheyears,Ihavestudiedand
synthesisedthefollowingthirteenpowertoolstohelpyoubecomeahigh
performanceorhyperintelligentperson:
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POWERTOOL#1
Firstandforemost,adaptandadoptthepowerfulhabitsofsuccessfulpeople,and
alwaysestablishadefinitepurposeorprincipalobjectiveinwhateveryoudo.
Havingadefinitepurposeinlifeandworkwillgiveyouasenseofdirection.
Withpurpose,youcanmoveforwardmuchmoreconfidently.
POWERTOOL#2
Investinselfdirected,lifelonglearning:
Continuallyacquirenewknowledge,skillsandcompetenciesthroughoutyourworking
livestomeettheeverchangingchallenges.
Youmustembracethepracticeoflifelonglearningforlifelongemployability.
LesterThurow,theauthorofCreatingWealth,saidthatthethreemostimportant
thingsneededfortheKnowledgeEconomyare:
"Skills,SkillsandSkills".
Youmustthereforecreateyourownlearningjourneyfortherestofyourlife.
Youhavetokeeponlearningnewthings,andsetnewdirectionsforyourself,allthe
timeinarapidlychangingworld.
POWERTOOL#3
Stayaheadandstayalertembracechangeandlearntotoleratecomplexityaswell
asambiguity:
Indeed,technologyisadvancingsorapidlyonsomanyfrontsthatthemain
constraintonproductivitytodayisnotsomuchyourcapacitytocomeupwithnew
ideas,butyourabilitytokeepabreastofandintegratethelatestdevelopmentsfrom
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fieldsoutsideyourownparticularspecialty.
Asamatteroffact,theoverwhelminglylargestdeterminantofsuccesstodayforyou
isthespeedwithwhichyoucanaccept,learn,andworkwithtechnologicalchange.
Prosperitytodaybelongstothepersonthatlearnsnewthingsthefastest.
POWERTOOL#4
Alwaysbecuriousabouttheworldaroundyou,anddon'tbeafraidtoasksomedumb
questions!
WaltDisney,whoseworldrenownanimationmovies&themeparkswerestarted
byjustalittlemouse,oncegavethisadvicetobuddingentrepreneurs:
"Wekeepmovingforward,openingnewdoors,anddoingnewthings,becausewe're
curious.Curiositykeepsleadingusdownnewpaths."
AlbertEinsteinneverstopworkingtillhedied,andhesaid:
"Themostimportantthinginlifeistokeepaskingquestions."
Implicitlyorexplicitly,creativityalwaysbeginswithaquestion.
Andinbothyourbusinessorpersonallives,thequalityofyourcreativityisdetermined
bythequalityofyourquestions.
POWERTOOL#5
Constantlychallengeyourownpersonalassumptions,andcontinuallyexpandyour
habitualdomain:
Ihavethisinspiringwallposterinmyhomeofficeasaconstantreminder:
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Asking"whatamIgettingoutofthis?"
Especiallywhenyou'reprocrastinating,orarescared,orworried,ordon'tthinkyou
candowhatyouwant,ordon'tthinkyoucanbewhoyouare.
Youmightthinkthatdoesn'tmakesense.
ItoldmymentorIwasalwaysactingontheexpectationsofotherpeopleandthatI
wantedtostopdoingit.That'swhenheaskedit.
"Whatareyougettingoutofthat?"
Ididn'tunderstand.Isaid"sorry..?"becauseIthoughtI'dmisheard.
ButIhadn't.Hemeantit.
Heaskedmeagain.
"Whatareyougettingoutofalwaysactingontheexpectationsofothers?"
Itmight'vebeenbecauseIwasstillconfusedthatmymindwasmoreopenandIwas
abletoanswer.
"...becauseIwantthemtolikeme."
IwantedthemtolikemebecausethenI'dfeelgood.Iwantedtofeelgoodbecause
thenIwouldn'tfeelshit.Ididn'twanttofeelshitbecauseIdidn'twanttobe
unhappy.
Ididn'twanttobeunhappybecauseIwantedtobehappy.
So,ultimately,IwasactingontheexpectationsofothersbecauseIwantedtobe
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happy.
But,ifyou'vebeenreading,Iwasn'thappy.
"Oh...well,I'mnotgoingtodothatanymore,then."
That'swhatIthought.That'swhatIsaidtomymentor.That'showsimpleithad
become.
There'salwayssomethingwe'regettingoutof"it."
Nomatterwhat"it"is.
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1.Atrickthatmakingstrangerlikesyousubconsciously.
Accordingtomereexposureeffect,peopletendtolikeyoumorejustbecauseyou
showupinfrontofthemoften.So ,ifyoulikeagirlandwanthertolikesyou
back,justkeepshowingup.Butthereisonecondition,thatisshedon'thatesyouinthe
firstglanceotherwiseshewillhatesyoumore.Anddothistrickasnaturalasyoucan
ratherthandoittooobviously.
2.Selfvalidation
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Thistheoryexclaimsthatpeoplevalidatetheirselfconsciousnessbycomparingwith
otherpeople.Whentheycomparewithsomeonewhoaresimilartothemin
somepoints,theycansuccessfullyvalidatetheiregoandbeingmoreconfident.In a
relationshiporamarriage,it'scalledmatchprinciplethatpeoplechoosingspouses
whoaresimilartothem.
Inanotherword,peoplewilllikeyoumoreifyoushowsomesimilaritiesto
them.
3.Selfqueuingeffect
let'ssayyoulikedrinkingcoffeebutyoudon'thavemuchmoneysoyoualwaysspend
2$tohaveacupofcoffee.Butsomeday,somehowyouenterStarbucksandspend10$
foracupofcoffeeandittastesmuchbetterthanthecoffeeof2$.Fromnowon,you
areunlikelytogobacktothecoffeeof2$andmaystarthavingthecoffeeof10$,and
then12$,andthen15$......Nowyouarequeuingupafteryourselfandyou
alwaysmakedecisionsbasedonthepreviousdecision.So,doyouknowwhy
youkeepbuyingsomestuffthatseemedreallyexpensivetoyoubackin2years
agoexceptyoumakemuchmoremoneyinayear?Knowingthiseffectyoumay
understandsomethingyoudon'trealizebefore.
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Tricksofeverydaylife
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1)Openupfoldedarms:Youwalkintoanintoaninterview.Theintervieweris
sittingwithhishandsfolded.HandoverhimyourCVprintout.Hewillbemoreopen
tonewideaswhenhishandsareextendedthanwhentheyremainfolded.
Thisappliestoanydiscussion.Withourhandsfolded,wearelessreceptivetonew
ideas.
2)Artificialshortage:Ifthesalesmantellsyouthatsomethingisinshortsupply
andyouneedtodecideimmediately,thinktwicebeforeyousayyes!
Hemaybeexploitingyour'rarity'instincttomakeasale.
3)Startyourshoppingwithlowercostitems:Ifyouplantobuyacoat,ashirt
andtiefromthesamestore,startwiththelowestcostitem.Itisprovedthatifyoubuy
thecoatfirst,inevitableyouwillendbyspendingmoreonthelessercostitems,than
whatyouwouldhavedoneotherwise.Thecostoftheshirtlookstoocheapas
comparedtothecoat.
Thesameprincipleappliesontherestaurantmenu.Startreadingfromthebottom.
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It'snocoincidencethatthecostliestwineisatthetopofthemenu.Ittriestosetthe
frameforcomparisonatthehighestpointsothateverythingelselookslikeabargain!
4)WheninRomedresslikeaRoman:Thereisalotoftruthinthis.Ifyouarein
salesanddresslikeyourcustomer,chancesofyourmakingthesalesishigher.It
evokesthefeelingofwevsthey.
Iwillkeepaddingmoretothislist.
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I'mnotgonnalist50ofemrightnowandtheseaintnopsychologicaltricksbutIshall
listthecorequalitiesof'mindfulness',averyimportantconceptinpositivepsychology
thatcanhelpimproveone'smentalandsociallife.
1.Nonjudgemental
2.Nonstriving(focussingontheprocessinsteadofthegoal,notforcinganything)
3.Acceptance(seeingandacknowledgingpeople,situationsorthingsforwhatthey
are)
4.Patience(lettingthingsunfoldintheirownpace)
5.Trust(inone'sself,one'sbody,intuition,etc)
6.Openness(attendingtoeachandeverystimuli[internalorexternal]atthepresent
moment)
7.Lettinggo(ofunwantedemotionsandattachments)
8.Gentleness(withselfandothers)
9.Generosity
10.Empathy(understandingothers'feelings,puttingyourselfintheirshoesandbeing
abletocommunicatethattothem)
11.Gratitude
12.Lovingkindness(includesforgivenessandunconditionalpositiveregardtoself
andothers)
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Theyseemquitesimplebutohboy,aretheydifficulttoimplement.Anyway,rest
assuredknowingthatpracticemakesperfect!Allthebest:)
Edit:I'msosorryforImisreadthequestion.Idintnoticethe'mindgames'
mentioned.ImnotdeletingthisanswerbecauseImhopingthatsomeonecould
benefitfromthispost.Thanks.
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1.TheTalkAndPile
Ifyouwantyourfriendtocarrysomething,forexampleifyouhavejustboughtsome
booksfromthebookstoreandyouwantyourfriendtocarrythem,justkeeptalking
tothemwhilehandingthemthebag.Mostpeoplewillautomaticallytake
thebagwithoutthinking.However,somepeoplewillbecomeconfused.
2.Confrontation
Ifyouthinksomeoneisgoingtogooffonyouinameeting,sitrightnextto
them.It'sextremelyawkwardtalkingbadaboutsomeoneandbeingaggressivewhen
they'resoclose.Noonewantstositrightnexttothepersontheyjustbadmouthed,
Sothey'lltakeiteasieronyou!
3.Peoplealwayshavetheclearestmemoryoffirstandlastthingthathappens,while
themiddlebecomesavagueblur.Soifyouresettingthetimeforaninterview,tryand
bethefirstorlastthroughthedoor.
4.Ifsomeonegetsuptoleavebeforeyouareready,stayseated.Mostwillsitback
down.
5.Whenyou'reatthegymcountingyourrepsdown(10,9,8)insteadofup(1,2,3)
itwillmakeiteasierforyoutofinishtheset.
6.Ifsomeoneiscountingandyouwanttomessuptheircount.Don'tsayrandom
numberslikeyouusuallydo,saynumbersinorderbecausewelatchontopatterns.
Source:10PsychologyTricksThatWorkonAnybody
CoolPsychologyTrickstoDo
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1. Tomakeyourselfvaluableamongnewgroup,don'tthriveforit.Lettheright
momentcomeandshowthemwhatyouare.Eventuallyitwillbuildpatiencein
you.
2. Whensomeoneisangryuponyouandyouwanttoprovethemwrong.Besilent
andifitcontinueslongtbenleavethatplace.Thismakestheopppersontothink
themselvesthattheywerewrongmakethemcuriouswhyyoudidn'tArgueand
thenyoucanmakeyourpoint.
3. Beanannoyingperson:Difyouwanttogetsomeworkdonefromtheperson
whohatesyoukeepthemremindingatregularintervals.Theywilldoitbecause
theywanttogetridofyou)ifthatpersonisegoisticthenyoudon'tneedto
remindhimyouneedtosaythisonesentence"Ineedyourhelpandyoucanonly
solveit".Workdone:D
4. Anypointoftime,alwayskeepyourpitchlow.People"hear"whospeakswithhigh
pitchand"listens"tolowpitch)
5. Don'ttelleverythingtoeveryone.Theystartsjudingyou.TellfewthingsNdthey
startsfollowingyou:D.
Goodluck)
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Herearesometricks.
1.Silencewillforceotherstofeelobligedtotalk,ifyoureveronthephonewith
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someneandtheydontgiveyouwhatyouwant,staydeathlysilentandtheywill
probablycavein .
2.Ifyouneedsomeonetolistentoyoumore:dropthepitchofyourvoiceitsubverts
normalprocessingtracksandismorelikelytobeperceivedasacommand .
3.Youcanquicklyjudgesomeone'sconfidencelevelbylookingthemstraightinthe
eyesasyoupasstheminahallway.Thelongertheycanmeetyourgazewithout
lookingaway,thelessinsecuretheyare.
4.Ifyouwantyourfriendtocarrysomething,forexampleifyouhavejustbought
somebooksfrombookstore&youwantyourfriendtocarrythem,justkeeptalkingto
themwhilehandingthemthebag.Mostpeoplewillautomaticallytakethebag
withoutthinking.
5.Ifunabletosleep,youcandistractyourselfbypretending"you'retired".Visualize
thephysicalsensationoftirednessandpicturehowyoulookandfeelasyou'refalling
asleep.Themoreyouthinkaboutit,themoreyou'llslowlydriftofftosleep.
Creditthefrontpageoftheinternet
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TheaveragehumanbeingoveranalyzesEVERYTHING.NOTHINGiscomplicated.
Somethingsareachallenge.Allexperiencesareagift.Allarecontrolledby
perception.
YOUchoosewhetheritisagoodorbadday,nooneelse.NothinghappensTOYOU.
Youcontrolyourthoughts,againperceptionsandthedepthofconcernsomeone
else'sstatementoractionaffectsyou.Itisnotawive'staleorjustasayingto
confidentlystate,"IOWNTHIS,IALREADYHAVETHISPROMOTION,ETC."Our
brainsknowwhatWEtellthem.Abraindoesnotknowthedifferencebetweenan
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actualeventora"daydream",ifyouwill.
Ifwewakeupandsay,THISISAGREATDAY.Then,itinfact,willbe.Ourbrainis
alreadydismissingsmallmattersthatarisefromthatmomentforward,suchas
stubbingyourtoe,flattire,overdrawnatbank.Ifwewakeupandsay,"BLEH,crappy
day!!"or"IknowJoeismorequalified,heisgoingtogetthepromotionoverme."
Eitherscenario,ourbrainsbeginprocessingthefedinformation.Forthepositive,
again,anythingseeminglynegativerollsoffourbacks.Thebraindoesnottaketimeto
acknowledgethebadthingsbecausewetoldittobepositivetoday.Adversely,ifweset
ourselvesupforfail,ourbrainsbeginstooveranalyzesmallissuesanditdoestakethe
timetosoakinthestubbedtoeandgiveitmoreconsiderationthatPositivePolly.So,it
isabsolutelyTRUEtofakeasmileandbeforeyouknowityouarewearingagenuine
glow!
Mosthumanshavesixbasicneeds.Everyoneisthesameontheinside.Socialstatus
doesnotmatter.Educationdoesnotmatter.OftentimesIseewomenjealousofother
womenormenvsmen.Uponfirstglancepeopleseemto"haveitall".NOONEDOES.
Itistrueeverypersonisfightingtheirownbattles.Toyou,theirissuesmayseemsmall
or,youmaybejealousforyears,haveachiponyourshoulder,avoidgettingtoknow
thisindividual.Onedayforsomereasonyouaccidentallyfindyourselfina
conversationorlearnaboutthisperson'slife.Moreoftenthannot,thejealousy
dissipatesandregretnotbefriendingthepersonsooner.Everyoneishurtifsomeone
welovedamagesusatanyage,everyonewantstobeacknowledgedandloved...to
knowtheymatter.Humansaresimpleactuallyandofallthepeopleintheworldwe
canalmostcertainlycategorizeeveryoneingroupsbasedontheirlevelofthebasic
needs,again,therichestpersontothepoorestperson.Thesnobbiestwomantothe
lowestsocialmale.Theyareprobablyhavemoreincommonthananyoneintheir
socialorbusinesscircle.
BETRUETOYOURSELF.Followyourdesires,dreams,path.Neverdeviatebasedon
someoneelse'sthoughtsorinterests,evenaloveinterest.Youcanlearnthisata
youngage,middleage,oldageorneverbeblessedwiththepowerofletting
go....lettinggoofmisconceptionsaboutwhowewantotherstoviewusas,whowe
viewourselvesasandwhoweknowourselvestobe.
Everyoneinhighschoolgetsfatsoonerorlater(Haha,ifnotphysically,thengenerally
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speakinginlife).Theverypeopleyouspendhours,days,yearsadmiringfromafarare
theveryoneswhoturnouttobeahotmess....theverypeopleata10yearreunionyou
nowpitty.Highschoolcanbeasdifficultasanadult's"realproblems".Iwishand
hopeparentsstopbeingsodismissivetochildrenandteens.Theirworldsarenotjust
byproductsofourselfishdesiresandjourneys.
Laughterreallyisthebestmedicine.Lightentheflockup.Itisfun.
SingLOUDinthecar,shower,whilecooking,jogging.
Feedyourkidscakefordinneronceortwice.Watchtheirfaces.
Meditationinanyformisimperativetothemindbodyandsoul.Everyonemust
remainbalanced,focused,energeticandpreparedmentally.Therearemanylevelsto
thisaswellasmanywaystoachievemeditation.Meditationmightbeyourearly
morningorlateeveningwalk,yourbubblebathwithwine,yourgoodbookanda
blanket,sittingontheroofandgazingatthestars,listeningtooldmusicand
reminiscingaboutgoodtimes,badtimes,oldtimes,realizingatyourworstmoment,it
actuallywasn'tthatbad.
EVERYchallengecanbesurmisedbyoneanalogyeverythingisoneoftwothings:an
anchorholdingyoubackorapropellermovingyouforward.EVERYTHING.Family
memberalwaysputtingyoudown,negative,hurtful?MOVEON,distanceyourself,
surroundyourselfbypeopleyouaspiretobeandrespect.Ajobyouhate?Thereare
stillthousandsofopportunitiesavailabletoanyoneinAmerica.Ifyouwantit,makeit
happen.
Slowdown.Inthisfastpacedworldsomanypeople,somanyexperiencesare
overlooked.Theelderly.Smile,sitdown,shutupandlisten.Youdonothavetogain
anythingfromtheconversation.YOUSHOULD,butevenifyoujustgivealittleofyour
timetomakethispersonfeelvalidated,youwillberewardedtrifoldinthefuture,if
notimmediately.Thatwillbeyouoryourlovedonesomeday.
90%ofourfocusandenergyisonthepast,pettythingsthatwillnotmakeorbreak
ourexistence.Addyearsontoyourlifebyrealizingandacknowledgingthisfact.
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Foranysadmomentyouarehaving,thereISsomeonegoingthroughworse.Asodd
asitsoundstheonlywaytohealwhenhurtingistogive.Giveyourtime,attentionand
energytosomeoneelsewhoneedssupportofsomekind.Thefeelingofmakinga
differenceinsomeoneelse'slifethatrequiredlittletonoeffortonyourpartbutmade
theirsmilebrightisafeelingyouwon'tsoonforgeteachtimeyoufeeldown.
IcangoonandonbutIshan't.
Lastly,everythingisallrelative!
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SocialSituationsareessentialforourlives.Yet,thereisa
hugechancethatyoubecomeunawaretotheplethoraof
unwrittensocialrulesthatstructureeverybodysbehaviour.I
amnotsureabout50tricks.Butthefollowingaresomethat
couldhelp.
1.Assumecomfortinanyinteraction.
Ourbrainisanincrediblycomplicatedinstrument.Ourrelationshipwithit,isalove
hateone.Wethinkwehavecontroloveritbutusuallysomethingunconsciousdictates
ouractions.
Inmostofoursocialinteractions,wefinditdifficulttofeelcomfortableamong
strangersbecauseourbraintriestoprotectusfromexposure.
Thishoweverisnthelpinguswhentryingtobesocialandmeetnewpeople,isit?
Thisiswhyassumingcomfortissopowerful.Commandingyourbraintofeelthatyou
alreadyknowthepersonyouareabouttomeetputsyouinapositionofadvantage.It
increasesthechancesofpeopleshowinginterestinyouandconsequentlyevenliking
you.
2.Payattentiontopeoplesfeetwhenyouareapproachingthem.
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Interruptingpeoplewhentheyareinthemiddleofanimportantconversationisone
ofthemostannoyingthingstodo.Itshowsthatyouhavezeroknowledgeofsocial
dynamicswhichwillleadtounpleasantsocialsituations.
Whenyouapproachagroupofpeoplewhileinaconversation,payattentiontotheir
bodies.Iftheyturnonlytheirtorsosandnottheirfeet,itmeanstheyareinthemiddle
ofanimportantconversationandtheydontwantyoutointerruptthem.
Iftheyturnbothtorsoandfeet,itmeansyouarewelcome.Thisisextremely
important,becausetherighttiminginsuchsituationsmayputyouinapositionof
advantage,especiallyiftheconversationwasboringforbothsides.
3.Wheneveryouhaveanargumentwithsomeone,standnexttothem
andnotinfrontofthem.
Weveallbeeninsituationswhereoutofnowheretheconversationstartedescalating.
Unlessyoulovedrama,Iwouldsuggestyoutoavoidthesesituations.Youmighthave
thebestargumentintheworld,butusuallypeoplegetirritatedwhentheyfeeltheyare
wrong.
So,wheneveryoufeelthattheargumentyouhavewithanotherperson(especially
friendsitsnotcooltofightwithfriends)createstension,movenexttothem.You
wontappearmuchofathreat,andtheywilleventuallycalmdown.
4.Wheneveryouneedafavor,openwithIneedyourhelp.
Admitit.Wealllovetogetotherstodostuffforus.Eitherbecausewearelazy,or
becausewereallyneedsomehelptocompleteatask.
Socialdynamicsshowthatwhenitcomestoplatonicrelationships,nobodyreallylikes
anasshole.Sowheneveryouneedafavor,startyoursentencewithIneedyourhelp.
Inmostcases,peoplewillacceptyourrequestandhelpyouout.Thisoccursbecause
wedontreallyliketheguiltofnothelpingsomeoneoutandwedoliketobetheone
whoiscapableofhelping.
5.Ifyouwantpeopletofeelgood,givethemvalidation.Rephrasewhat
theyjusttoldyou.
Welovevalidation.Mostofouractionsaretheoutcomeofourneedforvalidation.
Givethemwhattheyneed.Asimpleexample,iswhenyouareinaconversationwith
anotherpersonandhesayssomethingreallyimportantforhim.Afterhefinishes,
rephrasewhathejustsaidinyourownwords.Thiswillmakehimthinkthatyouarea
goodlistenerandthatyouarereallyinterestedinhim.Itmakeshimfeelheisthe
centerofattention.Thatsvalidationrightthere.
6.Ifyouwanttogetapositiveresponsefromsomeone,nodwhileyou
talk.
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Thisoneisextremelypowerfulandalsoabitmanipulativeespeciallyifthepersonis
suggestive.Souseitwithyourownresponsibilityandinanethicalway.Gettinga
positiveresponsefromsomeoneisusuallywhatwewant.Whetheritismakingasale,
orpromotingaviewpoint,wealwayswantpeopletogetonboard.Noddingwhileyou
trytodeliveryourmessageisapowerfulwaytogetthepersontoagreewithyou.
Peopleusuallylikemimicking,sotheywillmostprobablynodbackwhileyoutalk.This
willsubsequentlycommunicatetotheirbrainsthattheyhavetoagreewithyou.
7.Wanttoseeifsomeoneispayingattentiontowhatyouaresaying?Fold
yourarms.
Usuallywhenweareinthemiddleofaconversationandespeciallyifwetalkabout
somethingveryimportanttous,wegetlostinourtalkingandrarelypayattentionto
whethertheotherpersonisfollowingornot.Soinsteadoflosingtimetalkingtoa
personwhoisdistractedandmightnotevenbeinterestedinwhatyouaresaying,do
this.Foldyourarmswhiletalkingandseeiftheotherpersonfollowsyourmove.Ifthe
otherpersonisobservingyouandpaysattention,theywillmostlikelymimicyou.
8.Ifyouasksomeoneaquestionandtheyonlypartiallyanswer,justwait.
Theywillkeeptalking.
Thisisaverycommonsituationwhenyoudontknowtheotherpersonthatwellor
yourquestionwasntclearenough.Iftheyfinishtheanswerwithoutprovidingafull
answer,justwait.Staysilentandkeepeyecontact.Ifthetensionbecomesunbearable,
raiseyoureyebrows.Itputsabitofpressureonthembutitcommunicatesthatyou
showinterest.Italsosubcommunicatesthatyouareapersonthatusuallygetswhat
hewants.
9.Therearemanytechniquestoturnaboringconversationintoan
excitingandintriguingone,buthereareacoupleofmyfavorites:
Pause:Alotofthetimewhenwewanttokeepsomeonesattention,wetendtotalk
reallyfast,butthissubcommunicatesneedinessandnervousness.Awellplacedpause
cancreatetensionthatmakesyourwordshavemoregravitas.
ToneandInflection:Noonefindsmonotoneexciting.Switchupyourtoneofvoice
fromdeepfordeclarativestatements,tohighinflectionwhenyouwanttoleavethem
guessing.
Paintpicturesandcomposesymphoniesintheirmindwithsensorydetails:When
tellingastory,takethepersonyouretalkingtoonanemotionaljourneybydescribing
thecolors,sounds,textures,tastes,smells,andhowtheymadeyoufeel.Thiswillcause
theirmirrorneuronstofireoff,makingiteasierforthemtoimagineactuallybeing
therewithyou.
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Soifyouwanttobememorable,focusontheemotionbehindthewords.Peoplemay
forgetwhatyousay,buttheywillneverforgethowyoumakethemfeel.
10.Fakeituntilyoumakeit.
Noonebecameanexpertonanythingovernight.However,thelearningprocessin
everythingyoudoisacceleratedbycommandingyourbraintothinkwhatyouwantit
tothink.Insimplewords.Youarewhatyoubelieveyouare.Youareconfidentifyou
believeyouareconfidentYouareattractiveifyoubelieveyouareattractiveYouare
extrovertifyoubelieveyouareextrovertIfyouwanttolookdeeperintothisidealook
uptwowords.
11.PoseinaPowerStance.
Thisissimilartothepreviouspoint,butmoreconcretethanamantraorbelief.Go
standinthemirror,putyourhandsonyourhips,thrustyourpelvicforward,pullyour
shouldersup,backanddown,openyourchest,tiltyourheadup,andforcethe
biggestsmileyoucanpossiblymanagetofitacrossyourface.Evenifyouconsciously
knowyourejustfakingit,yourbraincanttellthedifference,andwillrelease
endorphinstomatchyourbodyposition.Thiscanfeelsilly,butitreallyworks.
12.Wanttofindoutwhichpeopleareclosetoeachotherwithinagroup
andwhoisperceivedastheleader?
Payattentiontowhoislookingateachotherwheneveryoneinthegrouplaughsata
joke.Peopleinstinctivelylookatandagreewiththepersontheyfeelclosesttowithin
thegroup.
13.Whensomeoneinsultsyou,eitherignorehimormockhim.Never
losetemper.Alwayscontroltheframe.
Hatersareeverywhere.Themoreyoufeedthemwithhate,thestrongertheybecome.
Neverloseyourtemper.Thisisagreatexampleofhowtodealwithahater.Enjoy!
14.Chewgumifyouarenervous.
Evolutionarilyspeaking,ourbrainsassumethatifweareeatingthenwearentinany
immediatedanger,sothefightorflightresponseisweakened.
15.Wanttoknowwhattogiftyourfriend?Pretendthatyou'vealreadyboughtthegift
andaskhim/hertomakeguesses.Topthreeguessesarethethingsthepersonwants.
16.Ifyouwanttochangeyourbadmood,writedownyourbadfeelingsonapieceof
paperandthrowitinadustbin.Youwillfeellighter.
17.Ifyouthinksomeonehasgivenyouawrongnumber,repeatitwithamistake.
Theywillcorrectyouandgiveyoutherightone.
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Willaddsomemoreificomeacrosssuchinterestinghacks.
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Talktopeoplewithyourpalmsopenandfacingthem,whenotherscanseeyour
palmsitsubconsciouslytellsthemtotrustyoumore.
Avoidrubbingyourearorneckwhentalkingtopeople,itsubconsciouslytellsthem
youaredishonest.
Directeyecontactisalwaysgood
Whensmilingalwaysdosowithyoureyestoo(i.e.thecornersofyoureyesshould
wrinkleslightly)otherwiseitdoesnotcomeacrossasagenuinesmile.
Alwaysstaycalm,itgivesyoutheupperhandinmostsituations.
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1. Besimpleineverythingandjustkeepsmiling.
2. Showthatyouwon'tcracknomatterhowhardotherstrytheirmindgameswith
you.
3. Everybodyhassomeweakpoints,tryplayingsomemindgamesyourself.
4. Neverbeseriousaboutanything,thereisfunabouteverything.
5. Keepinmindthatyouareaveryimportantpersonformanypeople,thosewho
playmindgamesareverycowardlyandyouneednotbotheraboutthematall.
Thesemaynotbetoptricks,butjustaboutenoughforhavingaeasierlife.
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SaranUdayakumar,Engineer|Francophile|AvidTraveller
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Herearefewhackstofollow,
Ifyoumakethebiggestsmileyoucan,youwillautomaticallyfeelhappier.
Thisisbasedoffthefindingthatemotionalexpressioncausesemotion.People
sayingeeee(whichusesthemusclesusedinsmiling)ormadetohold
chopsticksintheirteeth(samething)reportedfeelinghappierthanpeople
askedtodosimilartasks(sayinguuuuh).
Whenagroupofpeoplelaugh,peoplewillinstinctivelylookatthepersonthey
feelclosesttointhatgroup.
Thissoundsabitsilly,butifyoureaskingforafavor,alwaysusetheword
because.
Footinthedoorphenomenon.Peoplearemorelikelytoagreetodoataskfor
youifyouaskthemtodosomethingsimplerfirst.
Peoplehaveacertainimageofthemselvesandwillfighttoothandnailtocling
toit.Usethisinformationwisely.
Youcanavoidinsultingsomeonebynotsayinganythingthatshowsyou
perceivethemdifferentlythanwhattheyretryingtopresent.Oryoucanbea
littlemoremanipulativeandmakepeoplelikeyoubycasuallystrokingtheir
ego.
Payattentiontopeoplesfeet.Ifyouapproachtwopeopleinthemiddleofa
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conversation,andtheyonlyturntheirtorsosandnottheirfeet,theydont
wantyoutojoinintheconversation.
Source8cleverpsychologicallifehackstogiveyouanadvantageineveryday
situations
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EmMewan,justatraveleronthejourneyoflifeforthegazillionthtime
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Hello,
Idontknow50,butiwilltellyouonemindtrickthatwillgiveyouthepowerofbeing
aheadofeveryoneinyourgroup.
"Stoptalking,andListen"
Themoreyoutalkthelessinfluenceyourwordswillhaveonthegroup.Thelessyou
talkpeoplewillslowlydevelopacuriosity"whatshisopinion?,whatshethinking?,he
isnottalkingmuchcanheseethroughmylies?".Andwhenyoudospeak,speak
unbiased,afterawhileyoursimplefewwordswillhaveahugeimpactonthegroup
andthepeoplewillthinktwiceaboutwhatyousaidsincetheysubconsiouslyexpect
youtobethewiseonewhowatcheseveryone,listens,understandsandhavetosay
somethinggood.
Butremember,begenuinewhenyoudospeak.Dontusethistrickforpettypersonal
gain.Useitforsomethinggood.
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Herearemypersonalexperiences:
1.keepdistancefromthepersonwhocomestohelpyouwithoutmuchfriendship.
2.stayawayfromyourcrushwhoneedstimetodecideaboutyou.
3.Firstattemptislastattempt.
4.Therearenumberofwaystosolveaproblem,don'tsticktoaparticularwayor
PERSON.
5.Don'ttakecredittogetyourdreamobjects,youwillstarthatingthem,WAITFOR
THETIME.
6.Removeallnegativethingsandpeoplefromyourlifewhojudgeyourdreamsare
noteasyornotworthofyourefforts,theymaybetruebutinthatwayyouwillloose
everythingasallhaveoneNEGATIVESIDE.
7.Alwaysbewiththepersonwhocaresforyourwords.
8.Don'tafraidtocommitmistakes,thatprovesyouasahumanbeingNOTGOD.
9.Findtherightwaytoachieveyourbeautifuldreams,DONTFOLLOWTHEM
BLINDLY.
10.LOVEYOURPARENTSUNCONDITIONALLY,youcan'tloseanybattle.
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11.Lifeisverysimple,throwthepersonswhoaretryingtomakeitCOMPLEX.
12.Followyourdreams,notthepersons.
50isabignumber,letmelivemoretowriterest40psychology.
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DhoomKetu,goodwithprovidinganunbiasedopinionbasedonfactsor
opinionspresented..
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ThanksforA2A!
Honestly,Icouldprobablyeasilyfind500suchtricksonlineandmaybeorderthem
importancewisealsobutwhatgoodarethey?
Soletstalkaboutthe50tricksonly.
Therearethreescenarios
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1. Youlearnallofthembyroteandtrytouseineveryinteractionallinteraction
becomesexcruciatinglyslow,fakeandplannedwellgoodluckwiththatbecause
itmayjustendupmakingyouanutcasewithafriedmotherboardofthebrain.
2. Youlearnandobservecertaintechniques/processesetcfromqualifiedand
experiencedpeoplerightfromchildhoodandimbibetheminyourbehavior/
personalityyup,onecouldlivewiththat.
3. Becomeaqualifiedpsychologist/psychiatristyup,Icouldlivewiththattoo.
Another,aspectisthereisnomindgamewhichpeopleplaywithothers,ourown
behaviorisresponsibleforthekindofreciprocationwereceive.Sothinkingofsocial
interactionasamindgameisactuallythebeginningoftheendgame.
Hopeyoudontstartmuggingthetricklistspostedhere.
Cheers!
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1.PeoplewearingWhiteLeatherShoesaremostlycorruptbecausetheyalways
haveapsychologicalfearofgettingcaughtandthuswhiteclothing,andshoesasitis
believedthatwhitebringspositivity.
2.ThePeoplewithmanyphotoframesofvariousgodsintheirhomesusuallydothe
corruptbusiness.
Variousphotoframesofgodsassureusthatsomeortheothergodwilllistentoour
prayersandwillforgiveusonourdeeds.
3.ForGirls:Wheneveraguyoffersyouahandshake,alwaysgiveonlyhalfofyour
hand,likethis
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Afullhandshakebyagirlgiveswrongsignalstoboys'psychologicalmind.
4.Wanttobepopularamongyourcolleagues?
MakeitahabitofcallingpeoplebytheirFirstnames.Apersoninstantlyfeels
specialwhenyoucallhim/herbythefirstname.
5.Donotfoldyourhandswhileattendingalectureorduringaninterview.
Foldinghandsindicatesthatyou'renotopentoacceptnewideas.
6.Thepersonwhoswearsthemost,liesthemost.
I'llkeepaddingmorepsychologicalfactshere:)
Edit1:Pointno.1ismainlyapplicabletoIndia.
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1. Humilityisanydaybetterthanarrogance.
2. Foodthrownoverwatergetbackstoyou.Theworldissmall.
3. Sometimesbadmemoryisaboonasyoudon'trememberthethingsthat
should'vebeenforgotten.
4. Don'tpointfingerstowardsotherswhiletalking,it'srude.
5. NodemandsNoComplaintsisabetterwaytodealwithneglectofothers.
6. Expectationisthereasonofyoursorrows.Don'texpectotherstoreciprocateto
yourlove,care,affectionandfriendship.It'snevereasy.
7. Youcansupportanycauseandcreateapositiveimpactwhenyoudon'tmind
whogetsthecredit.
8. Dowhatyoulove,lovewhatyoudo.BeInteresting,Beabetterversionofyou,
notsomeoneelse.
9. Whensomeonehurlinsult.Don'tgetinmudslinging.Understandtheir
situation,don'tgetintodogfight.
10. Don'tallowthemtogetsuccessfulintheiragendatorobyouofyourpeaceof
mind.
11. SuccessandFailurearebothtemporary.
12. It'sallaboutthelessonswelearnthrougheachincidentinlife.
13. SomePeoplewouldplaywithyourmind.Theycanmakeyouhappybyshowering
youwithpraisesandwouldupsetyoubytheirhurtfulremarks.Bewareofthem!
Introspectandstaycalm.
14. Greetotherswithasmile,everyonehastheirshareoftroubles.Whybotherthem
withourproblems?
15. Don'tbeaparasiteeverinlife.Youareaparasitewhenyouaredependenton
someoneheavily.
16. Don'tgetoverlyattachedtosomethingorsomeone.Youareboundtobe
devastatedandemotionallyshattered.
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17. Overthinkingisacommonproblemwhichisreallydangerousforyour
wellbeing.Getoverit!
18. Don'ttrytoimpresssomeone,youwillgettired.
19. NeverbetheLioninthecircusthatgetsclapsbuthedoesn'tenjoytheshow.Be
yourselfandenjoywhatyoudo.
20. Loveisallaroundus.Wejustneedtoadjustourantenna.
21. Whatyousowthatyoureap.KarmaRocks!
22. Don'tfakesomuchthatevenyoufailtorecognizeyourself.
23. StayCuriousanddevelopinterestinvariousthings.
24. Nobodyisgoodfornothing.Itrustalmightymustnotwastehertimecreating
clutter.
25. Getawayfromstereotypicaljokesonaparticulargenderorcommunity.
Soonerorlater,youarepronetobejudgementalbasedonyourprejudice.
26. Standupwhiletalkingtosomeoneonphone.Ithelpsincommunicatingina
confidentvoice.
27. Marryapersonwhocancompleteyouandyoucancompletethem.
28. Don'tcurseallthatistraditionaljusttosoundcool.Manythingshave
wonderfulreasoningbehindthem.
29. Appreciateotherswhenyoulikesomethingaboutthem.
30. Don'tgiveafakecomplimenttoearntheirfavourinfuture.Because,it's
cheating.
31. Giveafakecomplimentwherethesmileonthefaceofthepersonisyour
primefocusandyoudoitoutofaffectionnotsomemaliciousintentions.
32. Beingstraightforwardisgreat.But,beingrude,hurtfulandstraightforwardis
adisastrouscombo.
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Wheneveryouareheadingintoameetingwithanaggressivepersonoranticipatethe
discussionwillbecomeheatedatsomepoint,consciouslysitnexttosuchaperson.
Proximityisknowntomakepeopleconscious,lesseningthelevelofaggressionthey
exercise.
Oneofmyoldbossestaughtmethistrickandithashelpedmesailthroughalotof
heatedupcorporatediscussions.
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1.Exercisedaily.
2.Getseriousaboutgratitude.
3.Seeyourworkasacraft.
4.Expectthebestandpreparefortheworst.
5.Keepajournal.
6.ReadTheAutobiographyofBenjaminFranklin.
7.Planascheduleforyourweek.
8.Knowthe5highestprioritiesofyourlife.
9.Saynotodistractions.
10.Drinkalotofwater.
11.Improveyourworkeverysingleday.
12.Getamentor.
13.Hireacoach.
14.Getupat5ameachday.
15.Eatlessfood.
16.Findmoreheroes.
17.Beaherotosomeone.
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18.Smileatstrangers.
19.Bethemostethicalpersonyouknow.
20.Dontsettleforanythinglessthanexcellence.
21.Savorlifessimplestpleasures.
22.Save10%ofyourincomeeachmonth.
23.Spendtimeatartgalleries.
24.Walkinthewoods.
25.Writethankyouletterstothosewhovehelpedyou.
26.Forgivethosewhovewrongedyou.
27.Rememberthatleadershipisaboutinfluenceandimpact,nottitleandaccolades.
28.Createunforgettablemomentswiththoseyoulove.
29.Have5greatfriends.
30.Becomestunninglypolite.
31.Readdaily.
32.Becontentwithwhatyouhave.
33.Pursueyourdreams.
34.Beauthentic.
35.Bepassionate.
36.Saysorrywhenyouknowyoushould.
37.Nevermissamomenttocelebrateanother.
38.Haveavisionforyourlife.
39.Knowyourstrengths.
40.Focusyourmindonthegoodversusthelack.
41.Bepatient.
42.Dontgiveup.
43.Cleanupyourmesses.
44.Useimpeccablewords.
45.Travelmore.
46.ReadAsYouThink.
47.Honoryourparents.
48.Tiptaxidriverswell.
49.Beagreatteammate.
50.Givenoenergytocritics.
51.Spendtimeinthemountains.
52.Knowyourtop5values.
53.Shiftfrombeingbusytoachievingresults.
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54.Innovateanditerate.
55.Speakless.Listenmore.
56.Bethebestpersonyouknow.
57.Makeyourlifehappier.
58.Groomyourselfyoudeserveit.
59.Keepinmind,Moneycomesandgoesbuttimejustgoes.
59+1.Beaninspirationtosomeone.
Gotsomewhereandstoredalltheseasmyfavorite.
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EvanglerEvanglerm,Consultantdealingwithdifferentpeopleacrosstheworld
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1. BestraightwithYOU.Choicesareconfusingbecauseyouthinktoomuch
aboutothers.Itisselfishwaytodoanything(evenCharity).Ifyouwantto
donate10Ktoapoorguybecauseufeelhewillbeabletostartabusiness.But
thenyoustartthinkingwhatifheisnotthatgood.Whatpeoplewillcallmeif
thatguydoesn'tdoanythingandwastethemoney.sayNOtoallthisandthink
whatyouliketodo.Noonecaneverdoanythingwithout"Doingit".Allthose
guesswillplayafterdoingitandignorethemasanydumbowillbeabletotellyou
whatwentwrongafter"Doingit".Sodowhatyoulikeandnotforthe
peoplewhomyoulike.Itsimportantthatyouarefirmbecause"mindGames"
arebenders.Asalespersonisalsotryingtobendyouheresodecideonyourown
andnotbasedonSalesmanadvice.
2. Thereare10000possibilitiesbetweenYesandNo.Exploreallofthem.Onceyou
findwhatyouwanttodoyouneedfindrightwaytoprojectitoutside.Itsjust
necessarytokeepyousocial.Forexamplesaythatsomeonerobbedyouof10Kon
thebusyroads.Itsjuststrayincidentwillcreateenoughsympathy/empathyfor
youwhichwillbediedowninabit.{Thereareanother9999reasonsleftsodon't
panic}.Therearefewwhodontwanttolie.Trueisn'tit?Butifyouareafraidof
sharingwhatyoureallyfeel,thatisnotverygentlemaneither.Andproblemsget
farmoretoughifyougetintothatloop.Forexample:considerthis.Someone
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askedyouwheredidtherabbitgo?Youliedinyouranswer.{youBigLiar}.Then
youtellthatheishunterthatswhyIlied.{GoodPerson}.Youdumbohewasa
doctortryingtohealtherabbit.{Confusedperson}.Intheendeveryonehasa
reasontodowhattheyaredoing,andyoucannotgotostartofuniverseto
decideeverythingyouwanttodo.Sorecap,1.DecidewhatYOUwanttodo.2.
Findawaytomakeitmoreedibletoothersthereare10000ways.
3. Asyougetitbypoint2,whenyouprojectitindifferentwayyoumight
loosecreditforit.Somakesureyouareclearinpoint1itself,whyyouwantto
doit.Ifyoureallywanttodoittobefamousthenyoucanorchestrateittomake
itbigthatishowmostpeopledoit.Thoughmyexperienceisthe"Real"
charityguysIhavefoundalwaysindisguiseofcommonman.Those
whoreallywanttohelpareknowntothosewhoneedhelpandnotto
thosewhodonotneedanyhelp.Itsgodlyprinciple:).Godhelpsthosewho
needit.Similarlyyourbestteacher,friend,unclearenotfamouseither.They
chosetodowhattheydidandforgetaboutit.Itisyouwhoremember/keepit.
4. ShorttermandLongtermarethemostimportantthingtobecarefuloff.Thisis
somethingisuptoyouandyouonly.Youareresponsibleforyouchoiceandnot
youradvisors.Itsthebestpartofmindgames.Peopleplaytomakeyou
feelthattheyarepartofyoursufferingbutwhenithappens,theytell
youstraightthat"Youchosetodoit"soyousuffer.Ifthereislossofthe
otherpersonhewillneverplaythemindgameorheismistakeninhisstrategy.
Onceyougetthispointthat"Youareresponsibleforyourchoiceand
parents."mindgamesbecomecleartoyou.
5. AsktorightpeopleandrightQuestions.Forexampleyouwanttotakeleaveat
crucialtime.Youchosetokeepmumaboutitasyouknowyourbossmightnot
giveyou.Suddenlyonefinedayyoucometoknowyourcolleagueisgoingon
leaveinsameperiod.TherecouldbemanytheorythatBossisbiasedetc.etc.But
onefactremainsatruththatyourcolleagueaskedforit.Usuallyapplyprinciple1
forotherstoo.IfyourbossfeelsNO/YESaboutyourleaves,allowhim.Youcan
notdecideonhisbehalf.And,ofcourse,youbossispaidenoughtodothisjob.I
cantmakechoicesforothers.Itbecomescomplicatedtoassumesomeones
"Actions".Usuallyinmindgamersplaywithyourperceptionaboutthatperson.
6. PennyforPenny.Icantspoilmydaybecausesomeonespillcoffeeonmyshirt.
Ifsomeonefindsitamusingtellthemthatitsyourdaughter/oldman/rash
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driver/myselfdidit.Itsok,thosewholiveherearealsohumans.Youwouldhave
changedyourShirtanyways,ifyoucan.Theyveryreasonyoudidnotchange
yourshirtbecauseyoucouldnot.Gettingangryformostofthethingsis
$100forapenny.Youareindifferentchemicalcompositionwhen
youareangry.Mindgamesdotakeadvantageofthistoo.
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Alwaystell*peoplethatyouthinkthattheyaregood/smart/strongpeople,evenif
youdon'tbelievethattobetrue.Mostpeoplewillsurpriseyoubecauseyourfaithin
themhelpsthembebetterandallittookyouwasalittlelie.
*by'tell',Imeaninsist.Theymightdisagree.Don'targue.Tellthemthatyoubelieve
thistobetrueandtheyareentitledtotheirownbeliefsbutyouaretoyours.Endof
discussion.
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Tryingtobeaheadofothersisanegogame.Loseyouregoandyou'llbeaheadof
many.Themoreegoyoucanlose,thefartheraheadyouwillbe.Youcanonlywinby
losing,andyoucanonlylosebywinning.
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50maynotbeachievable,buthereareafewIhavelearnt,
1.WalkawayWalkawayfromargumentsthatleadtonowherebutanger,from
peoplewhoputyoudown,fromfearoffailure,fromallthethingsthatpoisonyour
soul.
2.Believeinaction,notjustemptywords.Butmoreimportantly,believeinpatterns.
Wordscanlie,actionscanbeoneoffthingsortemporaryinnature,itshardtofake
patterns.
3.Behumble
4.BealearnerAlwaysbealearner,keepupgradingyourself,neverstopevolving
psychologically,emotionallyandspiritually.
5.Bekind,butdonotletyourselfbetakenforgranted,standupforyourbeliefsand
principles.
6.Behonestwithyourself,afterallyouhavetolivewithyourselfallyourlife.When
youlookinthemirroryoushouldlikethepersonstaringbackatyou.
7.Neverbegoraskforanythingtrytobesatisfiedwithwhatyouhavebeengiven,
andworktowardswhatyouwant,bedeservingofthingsyoudesire,butneverask,
neverbeg.
8.Taketimetoappreciatesmallblessingsinyourlife,cultivateanattitudeof
Gratitude.
9.Readsomethingeveryday.
10.Makehappinessyourchoice.Happinessshouldnotbecircumstantial,
circumstancesandsituationschange,happinessshouldbepermanantinallthe
impermanance.
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Don'tknow50tricksbutherearefewwhichcanhelp
1. Youmusthavesomenotionsaboutbehavinginaparticularway.Themore
deviantyourbehaviorfromyournotionsofidealbehaviorthemorestressfulit
becomesforyou.Thisevenappliestojobprofileyouarecurrentlyinandthejob
profileyouwanttoseeyourselfin.Maximumtheoverlaplesserthestressyou
experience
2. BewareofConfirmationbiassometimesweassignunwarrantedimportanceto
trivialthingshappeningaround.Youthinkthat'shappeningforareason..for
exampleSupposeyouaredecidinguponyourcareerandyoubelieveyoucanbe
adoctor..andsomeonesaystoyou"youaresmart"..youtakethisas"thatmeansI
canbeadoctor"...supposeyouflunkedinMathematicsthenittranslatesas"I
flunkedinMathsthenImustbecomeadoctor"..thisisconfirmationbias..youjust
findthingsaroundtoconfirmyourownidea.
3. TrickofnegotiationSupposeyouwanttobuyacarworth$5000andyoufear
yourwife/dadmaynotlikethatidea...theninsteadofproposingtobuyacarof
$5000youtellthemyouarethinkingofbuyingacarwhichcostsaroundsayfor
example$10000..yourwife/dadwillinstantlyrejectsuchanidea..thenyoustart
negotiatingwiththemandbringitdownto$9000then$8000andultimately
yousettlewith$5000..yourwife/dadwillthinktheyhavejustsaved$5000and
yougetwhatyouwantedinoriginalsituation..bysettingahigherbasepricein
theirmindsyouactuallyconditionedthemtothink$5000asrelativelycheapand
thatgetsyouwhatyouwanted..thispsychologicaltrickcanbeappliedinmany
suchsituations..supposeyouwanttogooutinadecentrestaurantwithyour
unrelentingfriendsthenstartsuggestingnamesofhigherendrestaurantsand
thenbringitdowntoadecentoneyouwantedearlier..
4. ImplantingfalsememoriesFalsememoriesarethosewhichapersonfalsely
believeshadhappenedbutithasneverhappenedinreality.Youcanfindmoreon
itbyreadingtheresearchofElizabethLoftus.Pointisyoucanmakebelieve
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peopleofthingswhichneverreallyhappened.Youcanusethisinpositiveor
negativeway.ForexampleYoumayfalselyimplantamemoryofchildhood
sexualabuseinapersonanddecreasehis/herselfesteem.Andhowtodoit?I
thinkitwillrequireaseparatequestiononthat.ButGooglesearchwillservethe
purpose.Iwantyoutoreadonityourselfbecauseitssoscaryandinteresting.
5. ReinforcementscheduleIfyouareparent,teacheroremployerthistrickwill
makeyourchild,studentoremployeedothethingyouwantedthemtodo.
Promiserewardswhileaskingtodothings.Yourchild,studentoremployeewill
surelychasethatreward.Alsoyouhavetokeepgapsinawardingincentives
otherwiseasameamountofincentivewillstophavinganeffectforyou.Butthere
isonemoreimportantthingyourchild,studentandemployeeispracticingwhich
isavirtueinitselfdelayedgratification..itinvolvesworkinghardtowardsonce
goaltogetit.Forexampleifyouareparentyoumaybuyabicycleforyourchild
butaskhimtoscoreaparticularpercentagebeforehecanrideit.Youmustnotice
thatincentiveshouldbelargeenoughtomotivateapersontoperformwhatyou
haveaskedofhim.Delayedgratificationcanalsobetaughtthiswayforexample
giveachoiceofonechocolate/sweetitemimmediatelybeforethemealortwo
chocolatesafterthemealifyourchildisoneofthosewhodoesn'teatproperly.Or
ifyouwantyoursontoperformbetterinstudiesandsupposehecomestoyou
askingforabike,youaskhimtochooseaordinarybikewhichhewillget
immediatelyoraHarleyDavidsonifheperformedaccordingtoyourexpectation.
IbetmoreoftenthannotaguywouldtryforaHarleyi.e.delayedgratification.
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Itwouldtakemeaweektowriteananswertothisquestion.Andthenoneperson's
recommendationwouldbewrongforthenextperson.Therearenoshortcutsinlife.
Takeyourtimeandlearn.
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Iwouldliketosharefewtricksfrommybasket
Wakeupearly.Enjoythesunrise.Enjoythequiet,slowpaceoftheearlymorning.
Usethistimetomeditate,pray,reflect,write,exercise,etc.
Prioritize.Remembertodothemostimportantthingstoyouandyourfamily.
Dontgetboggeddownwithallofthethingsthatcallforyourimmediate
attention.
Readbooksthatansweryourdeepestquestions.
Eatyourfoodmoreslowlyandactuallyenjoyitinsteadofjusttreatingitlikefuel.
Dontwatchthenewsandplaywithyourphonewhileeating.Justeat.
Goforawalkandenjoynature.Sitinaparkandlistentothebirds.Gotothe
beachandlistentothewavescrashingagainsttheshore.
Watchsomethingfunny.Notjustsomethingmildlyfunny,liketheaveragesitcom.
Butyourfavouriteepisodeofyourfavouritecomedy,yourfavouritelatenight
comedysketch,orsomethingelsethatwillmakeyoulaughuntilyoureyeswater.
Beginaprojectorhobbyyouvebeenwantingtostart,buthavebeenputtingoff.
Takethefirststep.
Spendtimewiththepeoplemostimportanttoyou,notjusttheactivitiesmost
importanttoyou.
Doonethingatatime.Whateverismostimportanttodorightnow,doit.Let
everythingelsewait.Donteventhinkaboutthenextthing.Multitaskinggets
thingsdone,butnotdoneaswell,andnotdoneasmeaningfully.
Helpothers.Andbemindfulofthegoodyouhavedoneforothersandthegood
youwillcontinuetodo,inyourworkandinyourpersonallife
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RahulKuntala,Beenthere,donethat!
1.3kViews
Hoopjumping.
ImagineaskingacutegirlonQuoratomarryyou.Shewillinstantlyrunforthehills.
Whatifyoustartusinghoops(Microcommitments)?
Hoop#1:Askherfavoritebooks.
Hoop#2:AskherFacebookid.
Hoop#3:AskhertocommentonanyofyourQuoraposts(onlyifshelikesit
though!).
Hoop#4:Phonenumber.
Hoop#5:Acoffee.
Hoop#10:Watchingamovietogether.
.
.
.
.
Hoop#38:Willyoumarryme?
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ViswanathaKasyap,Student.Gamer.F1fanatic.Buddingastronomer.
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Ifollowonerule.Knowyouropponent.Actaccordingly.Ifsomeoneisexpectingyou
tocommitamistake,don'tdoit.Ifsomeoneisexpectingyoutoexcelatsomething,
exceedtheirexpectations.
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RahulSinha,Whenyoufeelbeautifulinside,showitoutsidetoo!
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Hereismyonecent.
Keepasmalldiaryorpieceofpaperandapenwithyou.And,whenyoustart
thinkingaboutsomethingthatyoureallydonotwanttothinkabout,then
writedownthosethoughtsinyourdiaryandcloseit.Thatsit.Now,you
willfindyoucanfocusonyourworkmoreeasily.But,twististhatyou
shouldfinishitoffinacoupleofwordsandapplythistechniqueona
regularbasis.Itreallyworksbecauseyousharedyourthoughtswithsomeone
(diary)andwhenitissharedthenyoufeelthereducedburdenofthosethoughtson
yourmind.Trythisandseetheresults.
Hopethishelps.Thankyou!
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Yes,tomakelifeeasier.
1droptheguns,peoplearenotouttheretocheatyou.trustyouraelfandtheuniverse.
2livelifemomentbymoment..whenyouareinthehereandnowitiseasiertoenjoy.
3.acknowledgepeoplewhenhelped.whetheritisasmileorawordorasuggestionor
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inkind,alwaysacknowledge.Peoplelikethat.
4.apologizewhenneeded.ownupyourmistakes.itnevermakesyousmaller.
5..whensomeonetellsyousomething,donotinterruptwithyourownexperienceand
yourownstoryabruptly..itisdisrespectfultodothat.
6unlessyouaresureofwhatyouwanttosayandwhatyouhavetosaydonotexpose
yourself.Itbringscredibilitydown.
6developloveforothersevenifitisforagame,ithelpsyouwinbecauseeverybody
lovesthattheyareloved.
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1.ifyouasksomeoneforsomethingsimpletheyaremorelikelytohelpyouwith
somethinggreaterlatercomparedtopeopleyou'veneveraskedforhealthfrom
2.smilealot,andfromtheeyes
3.mimicothers'speechpatternsandsay"uhhuh"andnodalotwhentalkingtothem
4.unlessfromaculturewheretouchingisanono,touchtheirforearmoccassionnally
whentalkingtothem
5.rememberit'sallaboutmoney
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Thismaynotbetheansweryouarelookingfor,butthisisthebestIcando.
Also,ifyoucandevelopamindsetlikethis,youwillbecomeveryhappyregardlessof
whateverelsehappenstoyourmindandbody.
Krishnasays:
Bg12.9MydearArjuna,Owinnerofwealth,ifyoucannotfixyourminduponMe
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withoutdeviation,thenfollowtheregulativeprinciplesofbhaktiyoga.Inthisway
developadesiretoattainMe.
Bg12.10Ifyoucannotpracticetheregulationsofbhaktiyoga,thenjusttrytowork
forMe,becausebyworkingforMeyouwillcometotheperfectstage.
Bg12.11If,however,youareunabletoworkinthisconsciousnessofMe,thentryto
actgivingupallresultsofyourworkandtrytobeselfsituated.
Bg12.12Ifyoucannottaketothispractice,thenengageyourselfinthecultivation
ofknowledge.Betterthanknowledge,however,ismeditation,andbetterthan
meditationisrenunciationofthefruitsofaction,forbysuchrenunciationonecan
attainpeaceofmind.
Bg12.1314Onewhoisnotenviousbutisakindfriendtoalllivingentities,who
doesnotthinkhimselfaproprietorandisfreefromfalseego,whoisequalinboth
happinessanddistress,whoistolerant,alwayssatisfied,selfcontrolled,andengaged
indevotionalservicewithdetermination,hismindandintelligencefixedonMesuch
adevoteeofMineisverydeartoMe.
Bg12.15Hebywhomnooneisputintodifficultyandwhoisnotdisturbedby
anyone,whoisequipoisedinhappinessanddistress,fearandanxiety,isverydearto
Me.
Bg12.16Mydevoteewhoisnotdependentontheordinarycourseofactivities,who
ispure,expert,withoutcares,freefromallpains,andnotstrivingforsomeresult,is
verydeartoMe.
Bg12.17Onewhoneitherrejoicesnorgrieves,whoneitherlamentsnordesires,and
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Bg12.1819Onewhoisequaltofriendsandenemies,whoisequipoisedinhonor
anddishonor,heatandcold,happinessanddistress,fameandinfamy,whoisalways
freefromcontaminatingassociation,alwayssilentandsatisfiedwithanything,who
doesntcareforanyresidence,whoisfixedinknowledgeandwhoisengagedin
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devotionalservicesuchapersonisverydeartoMe.
Bg12.20Thosewhofollowthisimperishablepathofdevotionalserviceandwho
completelyengagethemselveswithfaith,makingMethesupremegoal,arevery,very
deartoMe.
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I'dsuggestignoringthem.Otherwiseyouwillbecomesofocusedonwhatyoushould
bedoingthatyouwillloseyourselfintheprocess.Justbeingyourselfisallyouneedto
doasthepeoplethatwillbecomeyourfriendsthenwillbetheonesthatwillbe
interestedintherealyou.
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Makethefeelingofprocrastinationbethetriggerforaction.Maketheareaofno
expectationtheareaofgreatestprogress.Usevariablerewardscheduledand
successiveapproximationstooptimizeyourmotivationandperformance.Give
yourselfpermission.Workwordsadesignedgoalorend.Makethestorythendowhat
ittakestoarriveatit.
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Droptheideathatyouneedto.be aheadofothers,itsafuckingstupididea
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