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LETTER FROM THE EDITORS
the 03 upfront
post-
Post- may be one of Brown’s youngest publications, but I certainly
can’t imagine a Brown without it. Since transferring here three years BEAR NAKED \\ emily simmons
ago, I have spent every Wednesday, several Sundays, and many late
04 feature
staff
nights in between in the upstairs office of 195 Angell—chugging
boxed wine in plastic cups, losing track of time and struggling to
put together a magazine before dawn breaks, hoarding stale Oreos
WHAT WE TALK ABOUT WHEN WE TALK ABOUT RACE
Editor-in-Chief
Marshall Katheder
in the built-in cabinets, and laughing with friends. I’ve learned a few \\arthur matuszewski
Executive Editors
things too, like how to seduce a pair of drunken New Zealanders,
how to cure boredom with scavenger hunts and Entourage reruns, 05 arts & culture
Allison Zimmer and how to make six hours feel like 20 minutes. MUSICIANS @ BROWN\\ clay aldern
Ellen “Scraps “ Cushing MAKING BANK FROM FACEBOOK \\ priyanka chatterjee
Looking back at my time at Brown, I’ve come to realize that the
Managing Editor of Fea-
tures and Lifestyle
memories I cherish the most, the stories I tell and retell to anyone 06 arts & culture
Matthew Klebanoff
who will listen, all began here in some way. There was that infa- MELANCHOLY PLAY \\ doug eacho
mous night of attempted editorial hijacking, more “Gates” than can
be named, and one very unfortunate first impression that has, luck-
TOUGH GUISE \\ sam carter
Features Editors
Kate Doyle ily, turned into a strong friendship. Through it all, I’ve learned how 07 food & booze
Fred Milgrim to make things happen, how to follow ideas from birth to comple- POTTY MOUTH \\ ted lamm and alex logan
tion. I’ve learned that sometimes it’s better to produce something
Managing Editor of Arts you find funny than to worry about the approval of everyone else.
WHEN LIFE GIVES YOU LEMONS... \\ anisha sekar
and Culture
Sam Carter Thanks to editors both current and former, especially Ellen, Kelly,
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Arthur, and Marsh. I’ve enjoyed every second of it and, despite any OUT WITH A BANG \\ allie wollner
Music Editor
Katie Delaney
setbacks or small failures, that’s what counts. WE MIGHT TELL \\ the hardy brothers
Theatre Editor Love,
Rachel Lamb
Film Editor
allison
Max Godnick
Copy Chief
You probably don’t know who I am, but I’ve been the bad cop editor
Sarah Forman lurking behind these here pages since two falls ago, when I wan-
dered into our office as a bright-eyed and bushy-tailed tranny and
Copy Editors managed to convince the then-editors take a chance on me, inflec-
Julia Kantor tion problems and all. Now, two years later, I’ve somehow been
Anisha Sekar allowed to serve in some four different editorial positions of ye olde
Paul Watanabe arts and culture insert, and Post- has come to define my Brown ex-
Phil Lai perience more than damn near anything else: it is, after all, because
of our Wednesday production nights that I’ve never made it to that
Layout Editors
Madelynn Johnston
Browniest of Brown traditions, FishCo; because of our unabashed
Alexandra Linn institutional affinity for heavy drinking, gratuitous nudity and gen-
erally irresponsible behavior that I’ll never, ever be able to get a
Graphics Editor proper job; and because of the people I’ve been surrounded by in
Katerina Dalavurak my time here that I’ve developed a deep—if slightly begrudging—
affection for boxed wine, Taylor Swift, chocolate-chip-flavored
Photo Editor cookies and, um, Berge-watching. Here at Post-, I’ve met some of
Kate Doyle the best and brightest and most talented people I’ll ever be lucky
enough to know; been challenged to take myself less seriously and
Staff Photographers
Kayla Smith
to appreciate those around me for exactly who they are; finally fig-
Nick Sinnott-Armstrong ured out how and when to pick my battles, editorial and otherwise;
learned how good it feels to make a product I’m consistently proud
Web Designer of and entertained by; and seen more freaky shit on ChatRoulette
Eric Stayton than I ever knew existed.
Web Editor For all this and so much more, I’d like to thank all Post- editors and
Allison Palm staffers, past and present, but especially Matt Hill, Rajiv Jayadevan,
Kelly McKowen, Arthur Matuszewski and Allison Zimmer. And of
Publicist
course you, dear reader. It’s been real.
Diana Shifrina
Oh the places we’ll go,
Bear Naked
explaining brown’s raunchy traditions
emily SIMMONS
contributing writer
With finals steadily approaching I disagree. I say that, as a witness, the proud, nothing beats Sex Power God. to the wrought-iron railing in an effort
and Spring Weekend hangovers almost privilege is all mine. For me, this event Any avid fan of The O’Reilly Factor must to avoid impending doom. Behind my
fully recovered, the Brown masses will offers not only a chance to snag a free be familiar with this annual Brown tra- Shades Plus faux-Wayfarers, I’m always
be flocking to the libraries for that midnight snack despite potential lack dition, the one that most enhances our watching to see who will be the next
dreaded Reading Period. And as eye- of hygiene, but also a chance to play a reputation as a liberal hippy haven. Sex misstep victim.
lids get heavier and textbooks seem to lively game of I Spy. The Runner on the Power God remains the only “clothes When I see pitiable girls who casual-
get longer, we’ll be swiveling our heads other hand, risks being identified and, I not encouraged” party on the Ivy circuit ly step on the seal, I can’t help but smile
in anxious anticipation of the annual can only assume, humiliated by this loss and something on every Brown stu- with glee as I stifle my urge to point and
Naked Donut Run. of confidentiality. But maybe there is a dent’s college to-do list. scream BINGO! As if our fate as future
This event (or more accurately, this deeper sentimental benefit for both par- As a freshman, I heard the tales mothers rested solely on arbitrary foot
strolling peep show with refreshments) ties. Surely the Runners must experi- of extreme debauchery, mass nudity, placement en route to class. You would
features the unannounced delivery of ence an unparalleled natural high while and double-digit EMS records. But did think Brown students know that preg-
donuts by a group of anonymous nudes strutting naked and masked through I believe their stories? I merely lent nancy can be avoided by more conven-
to each of the Brown libraries at peak the mezzanine, donuts in hand. them credence, ready to take it back if tional means. Or avoiding Wednesday
study hours. In this case, witnessing For witnesses who look up from a Sex Power God fell short of my expec- nights at FishCo.
stark nudity is considered a welcome 23 pound organic chemistry textbook tations—I went to boarding school, I’d Why do some of Brown’s most cen-
distraction from study-induced agony with blurry eyes, the Naked Donut Run seen it all. I realize now how wrong and tral traditions revolve around perverted
in the stacks. brings them back to reality. For me, embarrassingly naïve I was, because I sexual themes? What are we trying to
Some may consider this tradition just one glance at that 6 foot, naked actually spent time picking out an out- prove to the world? We are naked in
odd—when asked about his personal Food-Bearer and I remember that some fit for the party. Sex Power God was not public, indulge in erotic dance parties,
encounters with the nude invasion, things are larger than schoolwork. In only an epic dance but also a chance for and taunt innocent passers-by with
SciLi security officer Keach had noth- one moment, my head clears of all the me to marvel at the wonders of the hu- pregnancy, but what for?
ing more to say than “It’s weird.” He overly giganticized words I had fruit- man consciousness set free from social To use my favorite cliché, these seem-
expressed quite candidly that he would lessly attempted to incorporate into my confines. It was fun and exhilarating, it ingly arbitrary traditions build charac-
never participate himself if given the purposefully condescending, don’t-I- opened my heart, and it freed my mind. ter, not just for the students, but for the
chance, and that he would refuse to sound-sophisticated-because-I-used- I gained a new perspective. And I lost school itself. Brown is usually synony-
accept any snacks from the streakers, the-word-dichotomy-three-times-in- my clothes. mous with words like “liberal,” “non-
no matter how tempting the chocolate one-paragraph essay. I reason that if Another tradition that calls my at- conformist,” “eccentric,” and “GQ’s
glaze. nameless figures can feel so comfort- tention to sexual undertones lies face- douchiest college.” But maybe we need
But apart from a bystander’s per- able with their bodies, then why should up on the steps up to Pembroke cam- that “hippy tree-hugging bullshit” in or-
spective, finding out more about this I stress over a take-home essay? The pus. Superstition holds that, by merely der to be ranked “happiest college” by
event has proven extremely difficult. donut is mightier than the pen. stepping on the Pembroke seal, you the Princeton Review. Maybe traditions
The Naked Runners and the Donut Co- It doesn’t take much to realize that will either be impregnated or impreg- like these show that Brown is a place
ordinator himself have all been sworn this is not the only “fleshy” tradition nate someone else (the choice is yours). where things that bother the haughty,
to secrecy. They say that being involved Brown has—and it’s not the only one to Of course, this is absurd. But for some old money bourgeois just don’t matter.
is a privilege to be earned, a new level induce some second thoughts. reason, when rushing to afternoon class We like to explore, whether emotionally
of social status unattainable to most. When it comes to being nude and in Smitty B, I always cling mercilessly physically. We’re not Harvard, after all.
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INTO THE WOODS BADMAASH SHOW:
POST-
Melancholy Play
uncle vanya at brown/trinity consortium
doug EACHO
contributing writer
Forget that old train tunnel. Stop drinking buddy, Astrov (Per Janson GS). personal. Perlman (who directed Ham- tried to make “both” work. Sorry, Chek-
trying to get up the bell tower. The best- If you’re familiar with Chekhov, the rest let, We Are Proud to Present…) has a hov scholars, but the result is confusing
kept secret in Providence is just a 15 min- is predictable: there’s very little romance, clean and orderly aesthetic, and Gregory and aimless. Gregory milks the play for
ute walk away: one of Brown’s graduate plenty of drinking and crying, some sad (Algernon in The Importance of Being laughs, and then I don’t quite believe his
theater programs (officially, the “Brown/ old people, and some happy idiots. Earnest at Trinity) excels at physical tears.
Trinity MFA Consortium”), based in the Perlman’s production is polished comedy. Yet the Vanya that Perlman and I quibble. If a production’s only
Pell Chafee Performance Center of the and faithful. The set, designed by Patrick Gregory have created veers uncomfort- problems are that it’s too polished and
Trinity Repertory Company. Lynch, is ingenious, even if it does oc- ably towards farce: he is loud and showy, too energetic, that’s a pretty great show.
Let’s get the important stuff out of casionally dwarf the actors. A two-story and doesn’t seem as depressed as every Uncle Vanya is a justified classic, one
the way, shall we? Right now the MFA canvas painted as an autumnal forest is other character says he is. of the most powerful statements of de-
graduating class is performing Anton punctuated by doors and windows, dou- Literature classes everywhere have pression and melancholy ever written.
Chekhov’s Uncle Vanya, directed by Mi- bling as an exterior backdrop and interi- drilled this mantra into our heads: Perlman’s team, rounded out by quietly
chael Perlman GS as his directing thesis. or wall. The handsome stage is raked, al- Chekhov is supposed to be funny. Well, perfect work from the other designers
It’s probably the best Providence produc- lowing the audience to see every actor in maybe this was funny in Russia in 1900, and actors, has mounted the show with a
tion of the season, unless you preferred the many group scenes, and birch trees but judging by this production of Vanya, confidence and professionalism that we
Woyzeck, the other thesis production of pepper the semi-circular house. which tries very hard to push the com- so rarely find up on our hill.
this year. But you didn’t see Woyzeck, did Of course, success and failure with edy, Chekhov shouldn’t be funny. When The Pell Chaffee Performance Center is
you? I didn’t think so. Well, this weekend Chekhov are determined by the perfor- Vanya famously tries to kill Astrov and a huge old bank building next to AS220 and
is your chance to atone, move your butt mances, so it’s fortunate that they are misses—twice—is that sad? Farcical? the Perishable Theater, at 87 Empire Street.
down the hill, and see some fabulous terrific. Vine is especially nuanced and I can hear those lit classes screaming, Thursday at 7:30, Friday at 5. Tickets are
theater. heartbreaking as the awkward, lovesick “It’s both!” and Perlman has definitely $10 at trinityrep.com or at 401-351-4242.
“We shall have rest,” Sonya desper- Sonya. From the moment she begins
ately insists at the end of Uncle Vanya, talking, we recognize her as that weird
reminding us of the Three Sisters’ hopes kid everyone started ignoring in seventh
for Moscow. In Vanya, however, the grade; Uncle Vanya is a trip into that
characters don’t have any hopes of es- kid’s wounded subconscious. Janson and
caping their countryside confinement. O’ Neill are immensely magnetic per-
They only hope for death. What little formers, qualities that serve them well
plot there is centers around a lovesick as the attractive Astrov and Yelena, who
quartet shacked up together in a country are realized here with a subtle arrogance.
Tough Guise
a look at justified
sam CARTER
random guy
Eastwood could inspire boot-quaking an incident inwhich Givens shoots consequences when his ideas fail, but
in the hardiest of individuals. Others a man in Miami and is consequently he does little to evince the complete
may try to emulate and equal, but they reassigned to Kentucky, all Olyphant disregard for the outside world that
will certainly fail. So when FX put out utters is, “It was justified.” To be a ba- characterizes a superb Eastwood per-
Justified this season—a show about a dass who captures the adoration of an formance.
Stetson-wearing U.S. marshal reas- audience like Eastwood, that phrase Five episodes in, Justified’s pro-
signed to the Kentucky hill country af- needs to be uttered in a manner such ducers haven’t decided who they
ter using questionable methods while that there will be no further questions. want Givens to be. Like a poorly
assigned to a post in Miami—viewers But, alas, this is not the case here. A composed recipe, the end result is a
could certainly expect that the sup- southern drawl sugarcoats the phrase, dish that makes your guest question
posedly outlaw-esque lawman would a slightly guilty smile curls on Givens’ your intentions. By tying him up with
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strive for Eastwood excellence. face, and it seems like the character is troubles with his lawbreaking father,
To belabor the obvious, Timothy not a man trying to uphold the law of romantically involving him with a wit-
Olyphant is no Clint Eastwood. As the land, but rather a child trying to ness in a pending case, and placing his
U.S. Marshal Raylan Givens, Oly- explain why he took a cookie from the ex-wife in the thick of things, the cre-
phant attempts to convey a charac- cookie jar. ative team behind the show fragments
ter first imagined by Elmore Leonard No one is asking for gravitas in a Raylan into a character that does little
in his novels Pronto and Riding the Western style lawman. Too much se- to attract viewers searching for an es-
Rap, and in his short story “Fire in riousness and he loses the rugged in- cape from their own realities.
the Hole.” Whether Olyphant does a dividuality that so defines such a char- We all pine for Eastwood, and
good job capturing Leonard’s charac- acter. Just show some evidence that while Olyphant might try to create
Let’s face the music, but this time ter is irrelevant; what matters more you actually possess balls. Granted, a new character within the canon of
it’s from Ennio Morricone. No one is whether the former Deadwood star Givens can possibly refute Einstein Westerns, he is too vaguely defined
can ever match Clint Eastwood when can create a character that will capture with the speed at which he draws his to pass as a decent alternative for
it comes to being a complete badass the attentions of the audience enough gun, but that’s just skill. He can come those nights when AMC isn’t showing
in any situation. Even as a decrepit to earn the series a second season. up with ideas to deal with a tricky a classic like The Good, The Bad, and
Detroit grandpa in Gran Torino, When asked about the nature of situation, and doesn’t mind facing the the Ugly.
food & booze
THURSDAY, APRIL 29, 2010 7
Potty Mouth
“There are two things that Jack Bauer never does. Show
mercy, and go to the bathroom.”
ted LAMM and alex LOGAN – Kiefer Sutherland
food columnists
Unless it wasn’t previously obvi- versation with a date, awkwardly obvi- rest of the space, providing light without Though they are certainly far from
ous, we are nothing like Jack Bauer. ous passive-aggression from your date’s compromising privacy. It is this attention the culinary realm, on-campus bath-
Well, as long as you can ignore our mom, or your friend’s friend’s insuffer- to detail with a flair for the theatrical, re- rooms can provide a similarly impor-
strong taste for waterboarding and able laugh/personality, it is not infre- flective of the cooking and service over- tant service to their patrons, and we
shared affinity for yelling on the tele- quent that you will find yourself needing all, that reminds you what you’re paying would be remiss if we didn’t enter into
phone. Thankfully, this allows us to to step away from the table to rearrange for. Contrast with, for instance, Julian’s, a brief discussion here. The 3rd floor
sample and appreciate bathrooms far hair and wits alike (just remember not where a dim and gimmicky cubby with men’s room in Smith-Buannano stands
and wide. to take too long). Similarly, there are plumbing expresses everything in a neat, as a shining beacon of how a good
Though oft overlooked, the restau- certain self-induced circumstances that self-conscious sentence. bathroom can turn a bad day around,
rant bathroom provides many things: drive this same necessity: getting halfway A bathroom need not be perfect, especially if you make it into the stall
a welcome respite from awkward through a drink that simply shouldn’t however, in order to get the job done with the window in it. The Ratty base-
conversation, what is best known as have been ordered in the first place, mis- while evoking the restaurant’s underly- ment men’s room gives possibly the
“cocktail relief,” and a chance to pretty erably uncouth comments toward said ing thesis. Take George’s on Ives, for ex- best hand-wash on campus. The 2nd
yourself up if you’ve been sweating date’s father (“How was I supposed to ample, where a walk past the kitchen and floor men’s room in the Classics De-
over some intense Indian food, wasabi know your dad is a Republican?”), and through the weirdly large office space partment is, in a word, phenomenal,
vinaigrette, or a close Red Sox game. buffalo wings. In all cases, a quick trip to takes you into a clean, large and unfin- and worth visiting office hours for the
The restaurant bathroom is often a the restroom can provide you the oppor- ished restroom that has certainly seen its experience. We’re not sure what this
reflection of the restaurant’s soul— tunity to calm down, make things right, share of hangover-induced emergencies means, but the 2nd floor men’s room
a window into the experience that and clean the hell up. but is none the worse for wear. Someone in Walter Hall bears a strong resem-
a careful chef is attempting to craft. A well-executed bathroom can be as has tried to paint a mural here but gave blance to a CIA safehouse in Prague.
Other times, it’s a port-a-potty be- much a part of a restaurant’s décor as the up halfway through because it was good And for god’s sake visit the bathrooms
hind a taco stand, equal parts revolt- dining room. At Nick’s on Broadway, for enough—the George’s ethos, in a sense, in the John Carter Brown.
ing and evocative. Regardless, visiting example, a trip to the restroom affords and we wouldn’t have it any other way. And alas, the publication gods have
the restaurant bathroom is something the lucky customer with a chorizo-red col- Or at Ruffuls in Wayland Square, you finally discovered our hoax and in-
we highly recommend, for it helps to umn of serenity punctuated by a massive can venture through the kitchen, down formed us that this is our last column.
complete your dining experience. mirror inclined just-so, custom-printed the stairs, past the office and across the So, Brown, we say: it has been wonder-
ful and weird, and we’re glad you got
A surprisingly high percentage of hand towels meticulously arranged, and basement into what is the strongest ex-
something out of it. We certainly did.
restaurant visits require a cool-down an initially off-putting but eventually re- pression of restaurant-patron trust one
Peace, gahbless, and cheerio.
moment. Whether it is stilted con- deeming ceiling-height window into the can imagine.
anisha SEKAR
staff writer
just eat them
Gentle readers, after a year of head- She is committed to her food in a way py session courtesy of Ben and Jerry. No something to be enjoyed, not just fuel
ing to the Ratty every Thursday morn- that few of us can even fathom. She loves matter how successful, stressed, or hy- to help the body run. I dedicate this
ing, snatching a hot-off-the-presses her Cheetos with the kind of passionate peractive you may become, you’re nev- column to the star of 30 Rock, who
copy of the Herald, and eagerly turn- intensity that inspires (admittedly sub- er too busy to have a decent meal. And reminds us food snobs that there is
ing to the food and booze section, it is par) novels. She bears her soup stains most importantly, fight for your food. If something good outside of our organic,
possible that you may have noticed a like war wounds. And—perhaps most someone takes your special sandwich, expertly seasoned world. As Liz Lemon
certain something. You sense it sim- admirable of all—when she bites into her God have mercy. once said, “I believe that all anyone re-
mering in every article about home sub sandwich with its special dipping The Liz Lemons among us are no ally wants in this life is to sit in peace
cooking. You catch its scent in a review sauce, she eats with the single-minded less members of the society of food lov- and eat a sandwich.” Oh Liz, you speak
of Providence restaurants. And after focus and awareness of the most enlight- ers than restaurant critics and culinary with your mouth full, but you speak
every Dude. Food column, its taste lin- ened Buddhist monk. elitists, and no less essential to the con- the truth.
gers in your mouth. You feel its pres- It is all too easy to slip into being tinuation of a culture that sees food as
ence, and though you can’t quite place one of the Jack Donaghys of the world,
it, it never fails to make you sigh into always chasing after the next level of
your uninspired bowl of Cheerios and sophistication but never able to enjoy a
milk. KFC Double Down (which, for readers
It is, my friends, that staple ingredi- who aren’t as up-to-date on fast food
ent of every foodie: elitism. It is what sensations, consists of bacon and cheese
makes a food writer the white bean cas- sandwiched between two chicken fillets).
soulet to the average Joe’s hamburger Easy, yes, but it’s quite lonely up there on
casserole; the crepe to his pancake; the that pedestal. Restricting the community
farm-fresh, sun-ripened berry preserve of food-lovers to Asian fusion restau-
to his Smuckers squeezable jam; the rant- and farmers’ market-frequenters
Alec Baldwin to his…any of the other excludes the loyal patrons of the local
Baldwins. And oh, is it delicious. sports bar, the kids who fake sickness to
And because so many food writers, get some of Mom’s chicken soup, and the
myself included, spice their work with legion of West Coasters who will defend
generous amounts of sanctimonious- to the death the supremacy of In-N-Out.
ness, I decided to dedicate my final Every time Jack Donaghy mocks, be-
column of the year to a woman of the littles, and criticizes Liz Lemon’s pedes-
people, a hotdog stand-frequenting, trian fare, you know he must feel a little
Easy Mac-microwaving, salt-of-the- twinge of envy.
earth citizen, who, despite all this, is as Liz has so much to teach us about ap-
wedded to food as a nun is to church: preciating food. Take joy in every meal,
the driving force of 30 Rock, the lov- from the morning donut to the evening
able Liz Lemon, played by Tina Fey. mozzarella sticks to the midnight thera-
8 sex
POST-
Sexploration
out with a bang
allie WOLLNER
sexplorer
I can’t believe it. After two and a resolve in 800 words or less. I regret that I hear the B level is pretty empty most comes to sex. Never settle for less than
half years, five semesters, 56 weeks and means my treatment of these issues was of the time. Try these things out and see your wildest desires. Never forget that
roughly 41,300 words, I compose the reductive at best, trivializing at worst. I where they take you. you are the architects of your own sex-
last thoughts I will ever offer as Brown’s wish that I had the space to more fully In addition to writing columns about ual destinies. Sexual confidence is 85
female sex columnist. explore the difference between porn and topics I’m still trying to understand my- percent mental; as soon as you have
People often ask me how I man- erotica, the ins and outs of casual sex, self, I also sometimes experiment with your first success, you’re on your way
age to come up with a new topic every and the politics of STI status. form. I’ve written columns as an extend- to another and another and another.
week. The truth is that it’s not hard; I So how do my word limit frustrations ed metaphor, a bodice-ripper, a letter to So get out there! Especially at Brown,
could keep writing this column forever. relate to our sex lives? They relate be- a friend, and a formal etiquette guide. which boasts 5,900 extraordinary, pas-
I have unending sources of material. I cause we do the exact same thing in life— Sometimes they were funny. Other times sionate, multi-talented undergrads to
generate my columns from everything: we sweat the small stuff and dismiss the they sucked. But the times they turned choose from. Did I mention that most
the suggestions, jokes, and quips fur- things we should pay attention to, until out well made it worth the risk. of them are also smokin’ hot? Take ad-
nished by friends; the physiological and they grow too large to ignore. So, inquir- So, another thing I’d encourage you vantage of each other—in a good way—
psychological challenges everyone’s ing minds of Brown University, next time to implement in your sex lives is respon- while you still can.
encountered in the course of a sexual you’re angsting over the end of a thing sible risk-taking. I’m talking about good Some parting words for the grad-
education; and the issues my own sex- that was never a thing or agreeing to risk-taking, like purchasing a sex toy or uating class of 2010: Though we’re
capades have forced me to consider. have sex without a condom because one making the first move. The other kind of saying goodbye to this well-endowed
Because this column is the post-co- of you is already on the Pill, ask yourself risk-taking—the kind that involves un- university and its lush, wet grasses af-
ital glow of an extended sexual engage- these two questions: Do I need to devote protected sex with a Hell’s Angel you met ter the Providence rain, come June 1,
ment with the Brown community, I do any more energy to this? And is this at Kartabar or participating in a three- we’re going to be the newest, freshest
want to leave my mark. However, con- something I should think twice about? some with your insecure best friend and PYTs on the block. We got our game;
doms expire, hickies fade, and I doubt When I started this job as a sopho- his or her insistent partner—are risks to it’s time to share it with the world.
that anyone would appreciate it if I be- more, I didn’t know the first thing about avoid. But as for the other kind of risk- Those big, bad cities won’t know what
queathed to the Brown student body an writing a sex column. I just made it up as taking, look toward Ms. Frizzle from The hit ’em.
STI. So instead, I’m going to conclude I went along. And even now, when I sit Magic School Bus as your guide: “Take Lastly, thank you to everyone who
my tenure as “sexpert” by sharing some down to write, I often start without know- chances, make mistakes and get messy!” has tottered up to me at a party on a
things I’ve learned over the past two ing where I’ll end up. But as I write my The final thing I want to say is some- Friday night and drunkenly slurred
and a half years that apply just as much way through a topic, the message never thing I’ve said before in many other col- that you’ve read the column and that
to having sex as to writing about it. fails to emerge. This is the same way we umns. But once more, for good measure: it touched you, or at least that it helped
Every week, I’m limited to about 800 should approach sex—even if you don’t GO OUT AND GET WHAT YOU WANT. I you touch yourself. That feedback nev-
words. The blessing of the word limit is know where you’re going or what you’re know, I know—it’s easier said than done. er got old.
that it forces me to boil complex sexual doing, embark on a self-aware journey Sometimes you go for it, and you fall on Well, Brown, I guess this is good-
issues—from rejection and body image of exploration. Interested in testing the your ass. Sometimes conquests, encoun- bye. So long and thanks for all the sex.
to the etiquette of fluids—down to their spectrum of your sexual orientation? Do ters, or relationships leave a bruise and I’ll really miss you. Oh, and before I go,
bare essentials. However, other compo- it. Want to try to role-play? Put that cos- sometimes they leave a permanent scar. I have to ask: was it good for you? Be-
nents of sex are far too complicated to tume on. Curious about sex in the Rock? But you have to go for the gold when it cause it was f*cking great for me.