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actually meditated before. Plus my back was falling apart. Plus I didnt
know how to focus on my breath. I should leave, right?
With total calm, he told me to disassociate my panic from the pain. I
was making it worse for myself by focusing on the hurt, which only
magnied it for me. He told me to do my best, whatever that was.
I snorted before I could help myself.
Oh, youre one of those, he said with a soft smile. Perfectionism
wont help you here.
I trudged back out of the meditation hall and into the bright New
Zealand sunlight, reeling. The teacher oered a wooden L-shaped
contraption to help prop up my back during the meditation. As to
whether I was meditating correctly, he was silent.
The message was clear: I was competing against my best self, not
anyone elses.
After the rst three days of focusing on breathing, we were introduced
to Vipassana. This involved sequences of long body scans in a specic
order. Throughout, we were instructed to be aware of the sensations or
pain we feel. By not allowing ourselves to react to what our bodies felt,
we were training our minds to build a barrier against blind reaction.
A simplistic example of the Vipassana technique: if your leg falls asleep
as you are scanning your neck for objective sensations, your mind may
wander to whether youll ever stand up again. You dont move your leg
to compensate. Instead, you refocus on the neck and ignore the part of
your brain that is begging you to give attention to the leg pain. You
remind yourself that the pain is temporary, just like everything else.
In addition to the body scans, day four marked the beginning of hours
of strong determination. They occurred three times a day, during
which we were not allowed to move. Your leg hurts? Too bad. You itch
like mad on your nose? Cant scratch it. For the entire hour, you sit and
you scan your body. Along the way if there are points of pain, you
observe them impersonally as your scan reaches those points, knowing
they are impermanent.
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chosen to do.
By day six, I felt exhausted by the pain, the sleepless nights, and a
mind slowly unspooling. Some people talk about intruding memories
of childhood or overly sexual thoughts during their Vipassana
experience. For me, the challenge was suppressing the urge to run
around like a toddler.
Instead of doing a body scan, I fantasized about inging o my pillows
and running through the empty space in the center of the hall,
screaming like a banshee. I daydreamed of doing snow angels on the
worn carpet, making a mockery of the meditation.
Day eight was the rst time I sat through a strong hour without
moving. When the gong rang, I was covered in sweat from the eort of
thinking past the pain.
By the end of the course, students often report feeling full body ow of
energy during meditation. I did not. I felt shelves of pain along the
way, no uidity between them. But by the last day I could scan uidly
through arms or my right leg. More importantly, I could refocus my
mind away from the pain.
It was progress.
Lessons learned
I emerged from the course a calmer, temporarily less anxious version
of myself. I started to sleep again. The relief of rest was palpable.
I wrote down the following takeaways once I was reunited with my
pen and paper:
1. Our collective obsession with finding happiness is not a reason to
meditate.
Logic and neuroscience might ground the modern rationale for
meditation, but to meditate in order to be happy is counterintuitive.
The practice is a counterweight to the jagged peaks and valleys of the
human experience. To remain stable when life goes awry is a happier
result than grasping for whatever society tells you will make you
happy.
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