Experiences based on actions taken to fulfill desires

December 21, 2009 at 11:32pm

Our drive for success and happiness in life is often directly proportional to the intensity of our
desires.

Desire is the gas which fuels all movement especially the actions we pursue for fulfilling these
desires.

Is there a formula for ensuring that our actions get us to the desired results?
We always have within us all the resources that we would ever need...knowledge,experience and
wisdom.
Success and failure in life is really not determined by how much effort we put in to succeed, but
probably by how aware we are about what we would love to do when our life situation demands
it. So the key to unlocking our first door is being aware and acting on that awareness as and
when required.
Starting from 4th Jan'09 through this page, we would be discussing through short video,
discussions, daily action tips, the various flairs of experiences based on action one takes on
pursuits taken to fulfill desires.
Look forward to connecting with everyone ... See you soon.

New Year 2010 & Intent

January 5, 2010 at 8:12am

Power of Intent

Welcome to 2010, a new year with a new mindset, a new attitude

There is an innate desire to dump pain, misery with the bygone Old Year.
Comes with New Year a lot of optimism
What is different?
Otherwise it is just another day just that the reference has changed.
This brings us to some awareness. Aware that a year has past and a new year has begun.
Awareness is the key to life
It gives us the time to think & retrospect.

What brings flair to life are the experiences. Everyone has the right to experiences of their
choices. We therefore around this time find ourselves dumping the discomforting experiences
and looking forward to pleasant experiences.
Every New Year a lot of resolutions are made. Resolutions to experience life appropriately.
We stand today at a point where we can make choices. The choice of how we want to experience
life. Hence, friends, let us bring our awareness to the choices we make to experience the
experiences we go through.
One of lifes sublime tragedies is that most of our life we are on Auto-Pilot, unaware why we are
doing what we are doing, why we are behaving the way we are behaving making grandiose
conclusions that life is painful, sucks, isnt giving what we want
Why isnt life giving us the experiences we so desired, we wanted? Are we truly aware, what it is
that we want from life?
Have we ever thought what is that we want when we do something, like brushing teeth, eating
food, relationships we get into, jobs we do, even an evening we spend for every action we
take, simplest, mundane to the most important...
If things are on auto-pilot, results are also on auto-pilot.
If we all want our lives to work, which we definitely are sure we want, then the key is to be aware
and putting the right intent.
Life has shown us at many occasions, that the intent with which we start a process is exactly
what gets delivered at the end of the process.
Therefore clear intent is the key to desired experiences

Desires -> Action -> Experiences

Desires fuel action, which gives us the various experiences we go through. Kind of experiences
one goes through is completely a result of the intent one puts out with the desire before
committing to an action.
All discomforting experiences are an outcome of an improper intent. Hence let us bring our
awareness to the Intent.
If the desire is from a void, then the intent of the action is skewed and hence experiences are
unpleasant. Let the intent come from deep desires of the self. Feel the desires completely and
then intent appropriately.
Life gives us many chances. Now is an opportunity to take charge of life, intent appropriately,
think differently & watch the magic of that intent unfold.

Make conscious choices by putting out the appropriate intent. Train your sub-conscious to pause
before every action and make the appropriate intent. Watch the magic of Universe unfold before
you giving you the right experiences you desired.
Think differently, intent appropriately
Intent for every experience, right from food, fun & abundance in your life.
You have the right to your experience, not to its ownership.

Best wishes for a very Happy & a Prosperous New Year 2010

What role are you playing?

January 18, 2010 at 9:43am

<B>The world is a stage, all the men and women merely players William Shakespeare.
So, if truly men and women are merely playing roles on this large platform and they play their part
well, then the Oscars for that role would follow. We all love rewards dont we?
Rewards are the successful fulfillment of our desires as we discussed last time, if the right
intent is put out, the appropriate results will follow. These rewards you truly deserve.
To qualify for the Oscars each one needs to play their own unique role to perfection. Each one of
us has a specific role we have to play on this large stage of the universe.
The society, the family, the religion & the country in which we are born superimpose a role for us
making it cryptic to identify our larger, unique role in the universe. We get programmed to play
this superimposed role largely based on expectations and for most of us this programming
prevents us from playing the larger unique role of the universe we are meant to play and hence
pain, misery, discontent follows.
So ask your self this one basic question, do you feel in your heart that you are playing that role
which you are the only one meant to play? Which has no pain, misery & discontent but a lot of
pleasure and bliss
If the answer is yes, just hang in there; the Oscars is on its way
For those who are not so sure, here is an opportunity in this very moment; ask yourself this
question; if I am not playing the role I am meant to play and Oscars are not coming my way
then how can I determine what my role in my life is?

If this becomes your intent, then it is exactly what the Universe will give you.
So make intent to the Universe to guide you about what your role in life is meant to be.
Spot the role, crack the plot, the nominations are right there and the Oscars follows
See you soon.

How to identify your unique role, use intent

appropriately for manifestation and liberation ...
February 1, 2010 at 8:06pm

We all have a role and the role is specific. The game of life begins with us discovering that role.
The universe plays this game with us so well, does not tell us straight away, but leaves plenty of
clues. Its like playing a treasure hunt. Sometimes the clues take u nearer, sometimes farther.
How does one pick clues to identify ones role? These clues are simple, they are powerful but
they need to be deciphered correctly. The first and the biggest clue from where it all starts is this
absolutely fantastic, superb, mind blowing emotion of love. The game starts with love. What is
that you simply love? One of the ways to understand love is to let the mind free. Close your eyes
and identify.... what is that you love? If it doesn't exist in your world, then imagine what would you
love?
Imagination is the most powerful cosmic tool for evolution and discovery. So drop all your
barriers, every layer of conditioning that is keeping you stuck in your box. Let your mind fly free
and imagine, what is that you love? When to your imagination you will add this very powerful
emotion of love it creates this heavy cocktail called passion. With the intellect when one develops
the courage to follow one's passion it becomes a source of inspiration. With inspiration there
would be a purpose to life.
So the biggest clue is to get in touch with what you love, discover that and follow it to the "Tee"
and the universe will conspire to give you the route to fulfill the inspiration. An easy way of
understanding if you are on track, if you are playing your role in life or not is a very simple two
step process:
Step 1: Do you love what you are doing?
Step 2: Is the universe making the process effortless for you?
If you are playing the role you are supposed to play the Universe will keep approving every single
take of yours as an actor .
Broadly, from my observations, if that would help you identify your role, one incarnates for one of
the following seven different reasons:
1. Spiritual - influencing destiny of millions - e.g. Gandhi, Mother Theresa
2. Mental - curious souls - need for find answers for why, all scientists

3. Vocational - career - artists, painters, corporate . experience success

4. Financial - love money - love to feel, touch, experience .
5. Familial - through relationship - house wives who just love supporting and find joy in taking
care of others
6. Social - networking, making friends .
7. Physical - people who love their body - actors .
A simple clue would be, close your eyes, check out the happiest moments of your life, those
moments where if time stopped and if the universe told you pack your bags, its time to go..
you would have absolutely no regret to leave this world.
Has there been any moment in your life where you would be very happy departing from this
planet having lived a moment of completion? That is your clue on the unique role the universe
has for you.
So far about love, now let us talk about movement. So in our lives we have love and we have
movement. Wherever we have movement, there is a flow . we are moving from yesterday to today
and then tomorrow. we are always on the move.We are always on the move, as we want
happiness, because we are unhappy, we want peace because we are ruffled, we want
abundance because we feel poor and we want love because we feel we are unloved
So our entire journey of life is like a pendulum. We are constantly moving .from completion to
incompletion. The huge truth about us is that we are constantly moving between a void, which
gives us an impetus to seek a route, which would make us complete. We are moving always to
complete the void with this nowadays-fancy term "manifestation".What are we doing practically?
We are looking at the void and we are starting with our intent that we do not have this .. so let us
get it.. which means when the intent is looking at the void the cycle of manifestation starts there.
So the only thing one lands up is manifesting a bigger void.
Change this mindset now, go back to your intent and start experiencing a feeling of being
complete. That feeling of being complete will only come when one discovers what is that they
love, because when one is operating out of love, then one isn't looking for anything in return, if
there isn't anything expected in return, there is nothing anybody can take away from you, nothing
to be lost as you would be operating in total and complete abundance. So whenever you do
anything you love, you are operating from a position of abundance in it and when you operate
with abundance the feeling is complete.
When the feeling is complete, that becomes like a magic mindset mirror, which transforms your
mind, attitude, and you start operating from a premise of being complete in one area that creates
ripple effects. Since humans are magnets, that completion rubs off into all the other areas of life
and slowly one experiences completion in all areas of life. Many of us keep wishing, wishing that
some mythical, magical power that would grant every wish . The universe in its abundant wisdom
has given us a powerful tool called the mind which is what we could use for manifestation. That is
what all the new age self help books speak about, which is creative visualization, laws of
attraction, the secret, all of them focus on manifestation through ones mind, through love, through
passion.

Where there is manifestation, there is an equal and opposite force "liberation". It is when your
game of manifestation is complete that at an opportune moment the universe will step in and will
liberate you from whatever it is that is keeping you stuck .Friends, focus at this moment on one
single thought..
Discover what is that you love, embrace it completely, it will give you a feeling of completion, that
will rub off into every area of life which is not working at the moment . when this happens, you
have your Oscar !!!
Keep this going and we will discuss further in our next meetings. .

Faith & Love

February 15, 2010 at 7:49am

If we want life's rewards, i.e., the Oscars of Life, which are happiness, joy, success, peace and
anything and everything we are craving for, and we are all actors on this large stage then you
must play your part well.
The role is one that we have willingly and carefully chosen to play in the movie of life under an
extremely talented director. So, if we are all actors,who willingly signed up for playing a role and
there is an extremely talented director, then just think.. how we would play that role .
How would you go about acting that role to perfection?
1. Study your our part carefully
2. Feel that part completely, you are no longer acting, and you are the part. This comes through
the language of love; understand the part you are meant to play through the feeling of love.
Once you embrace your part, the next facet of the making of the movie is having complete faith in
your director. Faith is completely necessary, in the director - the talented cosmic director of this
universe, while you pay attention to your part .
In the movie there will be other lead actors and actresses. Some will share the lead platform
along with you. These are people closest to you, perhaps your family, your professional
colleagues, these are people whose decisions, actions and emotions cast a profound impact on
you. but to play your part successfully your focus must be on you executing your part. while you
need to be aware and sensitive, to your co-actors, at no point of time, being sensitive should ever
take anything away from you embracing this role uniquely, completely and effortlessly.
This is where most of us miss a step, because we are constantly looking at the environment,
society to give us feedback on how we are playing out our role !!! We thus ask our co-actors,
actresses to give us feedback which then becomes our focus and we adjust our role play to suit
them. We don't realize that when we do this we are breaking an unspoken rule in playing a role in

a film as an actor, which is, implicit faith in the script and the director.
So if there is something you truly love, embrace it, live it out, watch your environment, be
sensitive, but don't compromise your truth. Coz we are all petrified of being rejected, as social
animals we are petrified, by our religion, our own beliefs with which we fashioned our lives, with
the moral standards and ethics that our society super imposed on us when we were growing up .
by our own securities whether this role can make our career, by our fears if it would give us the
necessary money to support a living, by our own demonic doubts, our families, our friends, our
societies accepting our part.
Thus very often our life moves to a fear based role-play instead of an love based role play. When
we are operating out of a fear-based role-play the rewards naturally start dwindling.
So if you have had the good fortune or divine grace to figure out what is that you love doing, what
it is that when you are doing time space loose relevance, what it is that when your are doing your
heart stops, you would have absolutely no regrets to leave. If you have figured that out, face your
fears .Close your eyes and go through every fear, which keeps you from embracing your part,
your role, go through it, one by one, face your fears.
What is the worst that could happen? Close your eyes.
- Will your religion outcast you?
- Will the beliefs that you grew up with downsize you ?
- Will your family throw you out ?
Live out the worst !!! But in you heart of heart, stick to your love. You will be pleasantly surprised
at the outcome.
An actor after studying his part, living out that part with complete passion under the able hands
and guidance of a divine director, the results are and will be spectacular. Sure there will be
doubts, there will be fear.
Close your eyes, go through those fears, have implicit faith in your love. Faith and love, friends
are the keys.
Grab that key right now and make the leap of faith, best of luck.

So, did u get an opportunity to face your fears?

February 21, 2010 at 7:34am

When fear strikes, most of us have a natural tendency to run - we flight, we don't want to face our
fears. The tragedy of life is that, the more you run away from your fear, the more it will stalk you, it
will keep pursuing you, many times across time and space, until sometime, one day, something
inside you snaps and you turn around and say, let me face it! Fight it!The moment you get the
courage, the belief, to fight your fear, it is no longer a fear!

So, if you have got the opportunity of going through the entire story we are discussing until now
through this medium, of what is your love and identifying every single fear which prevents you
from living it out, then you are "walking the talk".
For any change to come, friends, there are three inherent basic steps in the process:
1. Receiving the knowledge or the wisdom, which dispels the darkness within your space
2. After receiving the wisdom, one goes through an internal re-wiring, a re-wiring in which one
mentally applies this knowledge or wisdom to the situation in ones own mind. This is when one
mentally confronts all their fears
3. Implementing this knowledge, wisdom and walking with it in ones day to day life.
No Oscar award was ever won by shooting in the rehearsal room!!! It was neither won by reading
the script over and over again. No Oscar award was also won by one telling self what a fantastic
role he/she has written for self!!! For the Oscars, you have to act in front of the camera. Walk out
there, walk through your life, play your part. This is where you must take your leap of faith. Faith
in yourself, faith in your director.
Remember, everything you are holding on to your dear self at this moment of time, which can
induce the fear of loss, everything, be it your name, be it your job, be it your family, be it your
relationships, be it your beliefs, are all transient in nature.
One of the biggest truths in life is that "everything in this world comes with an expiry date". As a
matter of fact, the most intimate relationship one shares in life is with their breath, because, that
is the only one which stays with them right from their birth to the point they decide to move into
the light at death. Even breath terminates at that point! After breath, the second most intimate
relationship you have is with your own core, with your own self, with your own truth, with your own
love. Every other relationship is nothing but a transient experience. To prolong a transient
experience would you ever run the risk of compromising with your core? If you were wise, you
would never do that, because transient experiences will come and go, but what you are at your
core will remain with you.
Once you shift your focus from the outside environment and move into your own inner space,
walking your life with faith, embracing it with love, knowing fully that in the short term, there will
be ripples of conflict, but fear not. There is the strength of love in your heart. If your love is true, if
it is genuine, it will always win.
How do you know that your love is genuine?
Oh! When you think of that activity, there are tears of inspiration, there are moments of profound
gratitude, there is this light feeling that there is nothing in this world that could really matter and
there is an amazing retrospective clarity in life. Wisdom dawns, illumination happens and life
becomes very simple. Once you have understood what is that you love, battle your fears,
conquer them in your head. Understand that if one is here, there is a lot of cosmic support to play
that part which one has chosen. Go ahead in the outside world and walk the talk, having implicit
faith.Take the first big step, "do it". The rewards are in the doing, in the moment.

When you start playing your role effortlessly, the awareness naturally moves away from the
rewards . the rewards do not matter anymore, because the rewards are in the moment itself, the
sheer joy, the sheer bliss, the sheer experience of being involved in every frame of the movie that
you are involved and playing a role in, that pleasure of the moment becomes the reward itself.
When one wins Oscars moment by moment, people around, universe decides that you have
done a fantastic role and you do deserve your eternal oscar as well. But let that not be the
barometer of influence. It should be in ones ability, conviction and strength to live ones love
minute by minute, moment by moment, absolutely in the now and let the universe take care of the
rest of it.
May you enjoy implementing this every single second. Till we meet again happy introspecting!!!

Summarizing the philosophy so far ...

March 11, 2010 at 7:15pm

We are at an extremely important junction in the flow of our thoughts. We are exploring and
understanding the process of life through a fantastic movie made by the universal creator, who is
its director, scriptwriter and screen play writer as well. When we focus on this movie we realize
there are so many scenes in the movie that are full of suspense. There are many scenes of
actions, tears, melodrama, humour and sometimes there are a few scenes appearing to be
completely out of place.
Yet if the movie is an award winning movie everything makes complete sense always. So at times
when we watch the film, we realize that the answer that we are looking for comes in some
subsequent scene. But since our minds are attuned to constantly moving across times, unsure of
ourselves, insecure of our results, focusing on the end result rather than in the doing, we now
want the security of an answer in advance and that is when our focus moves away from playing
our role in the moment. So, if you have implicit faith in playing your role in the moment effortlessly
and with complete faith, in the fact that at an appropriate point in the movie, the master director
up there will pull out his magic rabbit and a scene enters your life that completely changes your
paradigm of your existence. The scene may not be clear to you right now, the scene may not
appear on your horizon at this moment, but remember that the scene is there and that
remembrance comes from faith. Faith that the director is brilliant and that he has written out a
fantastic script. You would never act in a script, which is not in consonance with your core
theme.
At every point of time, friends, you are The lord and master of your own destiny. If you have
written out a script and role for yourself, then rest assured, that script and role has wisdom, it has
the rewards, it has joy and bliss inbuilt into it. Sometimes, you just need the patience and the
wisdom to be with it . act your part with complete love and remember the universe will give you
that opportunity that is guaranteed. You will get an opportunity to play your part with love and
when you embrace your part with love, keep your conviction in your heart clear. The result may
not be immediate, but if you keep the faith, at an appropriate juncture in your movie, the right
scene comes up with the right result, the suspense is over and the drama is over and there is this
fantastic feel good factor in your heart which tell you the movie was absolutely worth acting and

living out in totality.

To summarize this thought process what we covered in these 5 videos:
1. You are the lord and the master of your own destiny
2. You have chosen the role in which you are going to act
3. You have a director who is brilliant, impeccable track record, one who has not failed over
thousands of years.
4. You have actors and actresses who are co-sharing the platform with you.
5. Focus on your role
6. Feel the love in the role, which is how it is identified.
7. Be sensitive to actors and actresses in the scene, but your focus should be constantly on your
role.
8. In every moment of your acting the role with love, the reward is following
9. The scene changes perhaps sometimes after a while to convince you that you are on the right
track
10.You live out all this in sequence, you crack life, easily smoothly and effortlessly.
Go over these 10 points, in the middle there are diversions of fears of incompletion, face them,
challenge them, just like if you were to prepare yourself for any part. Orient yourself to this
philosophy totally and completely with every breath so that the next time I come back right back
into your lives, with the subtler tips on how once you have identified your role, you are going to
refine it like a master. You are going to polish it like a diamond, so that in this universal jewellery
collection your unique gemstone, that quality which you embody, which you represent, shines
throughout this universe in its own impeccable uniquely ebullient way.
Enjoy this journey,

Welcome to our concluding episode on intent &

thought - how this potent combination manufactures
our reality
March 29, 2010 at 1:36pm

Before we move onto the next segment of the program, I would like to leave all of you with one
hypothesis, something which I would like all of you to consider, maybe read it a couple of times
and identify how your own life has spun a unique drama around your core. This takes us back to
the reason of our existence or our purpose on this planet. It all comes down to the experience the
soul is choosing to go through its physical incarnation. This experience isn't about it being a good
experience or a bad experience...it merely is an experience and at times it is larger than life ...and
the only language this experience can be understood and can be deciphered or decoded by is
the language of love.
Love is the power of creation. Love is the language of the soul. The soul chooses the experience
which it wishes to go through in its incarnation on earth. However, existence on the earth has its

own pluses and minuses and there are no free lunches on this planet. The moment you decide to
participate in this game of life, there is a gate pass which allows you to participate in this game
and this is where our challenge with ourselves begins...So, the soul chooses the experience, it
chooses the incarnation, arrives on earth and the moment it arrives on earth it is thrust right in
the middle of inescapable cauldron of programming. This programming,these perceptions come
largely from our parents, from the society in which we are born, from the religion in which we
choose to incarnate, from the education we receive and the economic status we are growing up.
Each one of these in its own unique way leave a huge perceptive imprint in our own mind.
This perceptive imprint in most cases, goes way, way on the other side of what the soul has
chosen to experience. Life now becomes a conflict. Very few of us have the courage to recognize
and challenge it and most of us succumb to the perception and treat this perception as the holy
truth and this truth now becomes our belief. Once this belief is established, our mind works
overtime, to prove this belief through what we call the drama of life. So if you take a random
sample of people across the world, you would probably discover that maybe 70 or 80 or even
90% of people on this planet are not happy with their lives and the reason is not very difficult to
comprehend.They are not happy because their life is not moving in tandem with the experience
they had chosen at the soul level.
The only person who can bring this back on track is you. Even God up there cannot help you in
bring you back on track for the soul experience because on earth we have free will, we have the
power to choose, we have the power to decide. Where you are in your life, you have a choice,
choice of continuing to grumble, choice of continuing to suffer, choice of continuing to become a
martyr, choice of continuing to loosing yourself to the greater glory of others, becoming a dead
duck in the bargain and eventually die a sad and solemn death ... you can choose that by
becoming a victim to the perceptive filters running your lives.
That is one choice. The flip side of the model is to get in touch with what you truly love and do not
worry about whether this love fits into the perceptive model of this world or not. Your job is not to
fit your love into a perception, the world will build perceptions around what you love ...So if you
identify what you love and you have the courage and the will to make the first shift on your own,
the first step to reclaiming your joy, your happiness, your completion, if you want to do that, it is
absolutely imperative that you make the first move of reclaiming, moving, stepping forward and
embracing what you love, that one huge act of courage. The moment you do that friends, believe
me, this magnificent machinery of what we call as the universal pool of manifestive wisdom will
start working overtime and you will start generating miracle after miracle in your life. A miracle
which will instantly transform your life from a pedestrian existence to an extremely sublime
journey; A miracle which will transform your entire being from a human who is vacillating from an
extremes of pain and pleasure to an enlightened master who is enjoying this journey of life in
bliss. Learn to discover and embrace what you love. The key to happiness lies in your love for
yourself.
From here on, our subsequent sections will focus on how once our thoughts and intent are in
place what is that we should check in our behavior to make this package deal absolutely
complete.

Thought to Process - Step 1 - Love yourself & the

world loves you...
April 15, 2010 at 7:43pm

Welcome to the second segment of this journey. This journey in which, I am your friend,
colleague, your co-traveller, looking for my own destinations, my own answers, just like you are,
perhaps enjoying this journey the way you must be enjoying too.
I am going to share an extremely personal side of mine with all of you, perhaps these are shades
of my being which are not very well known, for all of you who are not aware, I started my journey
from a very different background. I was associated with financial markets for a long time. In the
year 1993-94, I went through a devastating & shocking financial crisis, which absolutely wiped
me and my family clean. Those were tough days when I probably saw death first hand, days in
which I personally had become an object of ridicule, from so many people in the environment,
people who I had thought were very close to me. and when people who are close to you hurt
you.. It hurts, it really hurts and yet today Yuvraj Kapadia is sitting, walking this with you with love,
joy and a lot of fun. Often when I think back on those times and I wonder, what is that I held on to
for dear life ? What is that which helped me preserve my sanity, which helped this Yuvraj Kapadia
emerge out of an absolute abyss of darkness... just one thing
Throughtout my journey, I never lost love for myself, never ever lost love for myself. Since we are
the magnet which spins our reality around us, I held onto that love, I constantly told myself that I
am unique and I am here for a purpose, something happening in my life is a drama I have
chosen to play. I know it sounds difficult but I did that. Never lost my self respect, never lost my
love, perhaps just lost a passage of time.
The world does to you exactly what you do to yourself. Always remember this.. the first golden
rule of happy existence. You want to have fun in life ? You want to feel loved by people ? You
want to be accepted by this universe ? It all starts with you doing the same thing to yourself.
Make a list of all the things you would love doing, just for yourself, no matter how people perceive
it, don't worry, do it, start working and moving to a state where your focus is joy, the joy of being,
the love of living.. and as you start doing that my friends, you will naturally start seeing a major
miracle unfolding.., it is a question of time and space. when the universe around you will start
mirroring exactly the same story.
So, if for example, you keep doubting yourself. then the only thing you will see in the universe
around you is greater and greater opportunities for greater and greater doubt !!!If you keep hating
yourself. The only thing you will attract from this universe is hate and more hate from people. If
you keep feeling miserable about yourself the only people whom you will attract in your universe
are the ones who will make you feel more miserable. So the story, my friends is only YOU, YOU
& ONLY YOU,... now that your awareness is getting ready to shift from being an absolutely
unaware actor to an aware actor. Just check this out. All good actors at some point of time in their
career start becoming very aware of how they are acting. they keep watching their own movies,
why do they do that ? Well, because they love themselves. They just love themselves fully. It is
the same with cricketers, all the good cricketers will keep watching their own innings. because as

you keep watching yourself, you love yourself and you open yourself up to betterment, things just
keeps getting better and better. Bottom line, you are moving from unaware actor to aware actor
from aware actor to your own director and finally god willing and I am truly hoping for all of us,
that this exercise we have launched together with my intent and your support and beyond that
with universal consent and blessing, if this journey is pulled off right, I am extremely confident
that each and every one of us will finally land up taking charge, dawning the mantle, of being our
own producers as well. So, once again, choice. If you want to move, from being an unaware actor
to becoming producer, director and lead actor of your movie with complete awareness, start
loving yourself fully. Start treating yourself with complete respect. Become your own role model,
admire yourself and as you start doing all these things to yourself, naturally you will start seeing
your environment conspiring to mirror itself in your belief.
It is a very, very basic truth but it is very huge. Love yourself the world loves... you hate yourself
the world hates you because the world around you my friends is nothing but an amplified mirror
of your own attitude and your belief to yourself. Sounds simple, is very simple. Nothing difficult,
nothing complicated.
We are now moving from the concept to the action.. we are now moving from thought to process.
and the first step in the process again is love and accept yourself wherever you are, right now,
100%. Start doing that and then with a hawk's eye, just watch, what's happening in the
environment, magic is just about to unfold.

Understanding love through Human Behavior

April 26, 2010 at 9:51am

I am back with a very concrete action plan this time.

Since many of us find it difficult to make the journey inwards into what we truly love, fully and
completely, which, ideally should be the approach, in reality, for many of us, it is not so simple.
There is too much of pressure from the environment, from our own people and these are people
we love, parents, children, spouse, colleagues, each one of them demanding a certain
behavior this could take one far away from whatever one would have love for oneself so in
case that route is a little difficult, another very simple approach is getting into the depth of human
behavior.
So, from this segment onwards, I am going to share with you a few very simple truths, of how we
all behave. Why am I sharing this with you? If you understand this, you will probably understand
why people around you are behaving how they are behaving because the principles of
behavior dont change and if you can understand why people around you are behaving the way
they are behaving it obviously becomes very simple then to make peace with your own self.
Most of us always conclude when things in our life especially things in our relationships are not
going too well, we are right, we are hurt, people around us are mean, they are going out of their
way to actually, literally jack us !!! But they are behaving the way they are, simply because they
are programmed to behave that way

So lets begin this exercise of understanding how we all behave. The first very simple truth on this
journey is starting with a postulate, which says, people always work perfectly yes, the
statement is bold and is subject to a lot of questioning instantly and is triggering a lot of questions
in your mind and thinking what crap !!! How can this be justified!!! Hold it and think.
Every person doing whatever activity he or she is doing, is doing it based on his or her internal
meter of perfection which may or may not match your own meter. So very often if you are in a
company and if you believe that you are absolutely indispensable to the company, you need to be
needed all the time, then my friends.u r in a jackask me why? Most of us have this as a vital
belief as that is how we feed our bruised and battered egos whenever we realize that we are
absolutely indispensable to a system, or to another person, all that we are doing is using that as
an excuse to shore up our own battered self esteem because the fact of the matter is no body is
indispensable. Breathing is there today, it will stop tomorrow and things will go on simple truth
of life !!! Nothing stop !!! Things just go on!!!
It is our lack of self worth which makes us believe, that we are intrinsic to the successful
existence of other people in our lives. The fact is we are not!!! Having said that, if you still follow
that belief, that you are absolutely indispensable, what are you going to manifest in your
company? You are going to manifest people around you in your company who will make sure that
some mistake or the other remains committed because that gives you a reason to justify your
basic belief that you are indispensable. Where does this take you? You will keep hiring more and
more people who will make silly mistakes and you will not only land up dishing out their salaries
and supervising them too, just to hold the belief that you are indispensable.
Now, a very good way of flipping this model is, if your staff is making a silly mistake some where
or the other and they are consistently making this one mistake, then are you able to spot a
pattern that they are doing everything else absolutely correct. This basically means that they
have perfected the art of executing your task with only one mistake. Who ever said that perfection
was getting things 100% right? Perfection is simply mapping and delivering a consistent output to
a certain belief, that is perfection; there is no other benchmark for perfection. So if your staff has
mastered the art of making only one mistake and that too because you want to feel that you are
indispensable, that is exactly what they would do. Shockingis it not? Now, if your ego permits
you to break this cycle, start focusing on the 99 things that they are doing correctly. Now, if this is
done, I know for a short while, there might be turbulence in your organization, in your life, maybe
a little disturbing, but by and large the love that you will start to feel in your heart, when you start
appreciating the 99% of the things which are happening correctly, in your estimate, is what will
actually transform that 99% into 100%.
Think about it, so the next time your servant makes a mistake at home just think of the ten other
things the same servant is doing absolutely correctly. I am not for a moment saying that you must
condone what is wrong or what doesnt work, but since where ever your mind focuses is exactly
what you will get, If you mind focuses in picking faults in others, then the only thing you will get in
your universe will be people with more and more faults. Let us focus instead on the good things
people are doing around you, appreciate that. That will make you feel love and the moment you
will start feeling this love in an absolutely subtle and silent manner, this potent transformative

power of love will make sure that whatever change is required to be introduced into the system
happens painlessly, effortlessly, compassionately & lovingly.
Be the change you wish to see around you. So if people work perfectly start applying the same
paradigm to yourself. You are also working perfectly. So wherever you are in life at this matter, no
matter what you are doing, you are doing just fine. If this statement brings a smile on your face, I
believe this exercise is absolutely worth the effort. Right here, right now, wherever you are, you
are fine. Enjoy this...

Human Behavior - await external environment

sanctioning our happiness
May 20, 2010 at 12:29am

At one level most of us still depend on our environment to sanction our happiness; we depend on
our loved ones to love us to make us feel loved . Let's unravel this game a little deeper.
A huge truth about human behaviour revolves around communication. The truth simply states
that the meaning of the communication is the result that it gets. Most of us in life, especially when
we are dependant on an environmental interaction are completely focused only on what we are
saying and since we are dependant on the environment, if we disconnect from the result that the
environment gives us we invite pain.
For example, this communication is happening in English and for this communication to be
effective; all of you must understand English. But if all of you have no clue of this language, and
then the meaning of my communication is entirely redundant, useless, and stupid, which is what
is seen with many trainers in several workshops. We are all constantly showing the world what
we know, which is fine provided we are operating out of self love, which we are not. so since we
are looking for an approval from people, the only way you will get that approval is when you
speak what they want to hear. So if you speak what the people want to hear, it is but natural that
you will get exactly the result you wanted to get in the first place.
Making sense? Think about it? You want leave from work. Ok, so you go ahead and tell the boss,
I need leave tomorrow. Boss is already thinking, Oh gosh, if this guy takes leave tomorrow, there
is a deadline to be achieved for a certain project report which he was to submit and thanks to you
taking leave perhaps he will not be able to make that submission,... chances of you being granted
that leave are very poor. But the moment you tell the boss, I have made arrangements for the
submission, don't worry, nothing for you will get stuck, the report will be delivered to you by so
and so person,in that case can I take leave tomorrow? Rest assured my friends, the leave is
guaranteed. You will get the result that you require.
This is true at every single juncture of life. So when you appreciate other people naturally in turn
they land up appreciating you. You get exactly what you want. When you help other people
succeed in life rest assured your own success is guaranteed. A lot of times in life when it comes

to this communication, the reason we disconnect from the environment is because we get
emotionally involved in what we are saying and the moment we get emotionally involved in what
we are saying, we seek justification for the communication the way we are projecting it. And of
course, since it does not bring the desired result, it keeps the flag of conflict continuing into
perpetuity.
So just pause for a moment and put yourself into the shoes of the other person, and understand
what is it that the other person wants to hear. If you figure that out and speak exactly that
language, then whatever you want from that person gets delivered to you effortlessly. Sometimes
following this requires you to challenge your own perception and belief. So if you have a boss
who likes to be praised, if you have a boss who likes to control people, give him the control,
praise the boss, no problems, give him exactly what he needs. If you deliver to him exactly what
he needs whatever you want from him gets delivered to you effortlessly.
This is so true when it comes to dealing with our own children. Most of the time when it comes to
our children we are constantly telling them what to do, all the time and we expect our children to
listen to us round the clock. Have we ever paused to think how much do we listen to what the
child wants to tell us? Without getting irritated, without pushing, what is the child is trying to tell
us? Can we process this without our own filter of perception? Many parents say, of course we
talk to the child all the time, we always want to know what is happening in the child's life. Sure,
what they want to know is what happened at school, what is the homework that has to be done.
that's the last thing the child wants to talk to the parents! The child probably may want to tell how
he went on to the road and played cricket and scored a brilliant 50 runs !!! The child probably
wants to tell you about what happened with his friend in school and how he managed to get two
marbles extra in a game he was playing. Are we willing to listen to that? No, we are not and then
we expect our children to listen to us all the time. So, if only you could take out ten or fifteen
minutes in the day when you are just listening to what your child wants to tell you and listening
carefully without interruptions making the child feel extremely important as if at that moment the
only thing that exists for you is your child. Believe me my friends for the rest of the time in the day
the child will listen to you completely.
Think about this. Do unto others what you want others to do to you !!If you want results, help
people, achieve and get the results that they are looking for. The moment you crack that, it is
another missing piece in your jigsaw puzzle. You can't find your own piece, no problem, just help
arrange the other pieces that are obviously falling into place. That is easy because universe is
talking to you the environment is talking to you it is telling you exactly what it wants from you.
Help that fall into place, you get your result automatically & naturally as a corollary. Always
remember this, you want the results? Give other people the result they want first. This challenges
your belief, your perception, do it, you will get your result.
This of course since we are taking the entire module from the perception of the external
environment talking to us for us to figure out what we want to do. Going back two videos, if you
are already on the path of self-love, then you can just chill and watch the video without trying to
apply any part of it. The choice is completely yours, but for those of us who are still looking at the
environment as a feedback mechanism for self acceptance these are a few simple rules which
will help your life become better, simpler, much more effective in turn polishing you for your Oscar

of life.
Enjoy and have fun.

Problem can never be sorted out at the level at

which you create it
June 7, 2010 at 8:30pm

Hi, continuing our series on mastering our lives through understanding our mind. Let us look at
how our minds are working right now. At one level, we are all seeking peace, we are all seeking
happiness, we are all seeking abundance. Which one of us is not! If that is what we are seeking,
it is pretty obvious that perhaps we do not have it, because, if we had it, we would not be seeking
it. So, if we are not happy, not peaceful, let us understand what makes us unhappy.
Broadly speaking everything that makes us feel unhappy falls only in one of the following two
categories:
a) The way other people behave with us or the way the situation jacks us up!
b) Our own behaviour.
There is nothing in this world, which has the ability to make you feel upset, UNLESS YOU
DECIDE TO FEEL THAT WAY
Ideally, we would all love to see other people change. How we would love it! How we would wish
our boss becomes this kind, compassionate, benevolent character who will give us leave
whenever our heart requires it. How we wish we could manifest a wife who would give us
unconditional love and embrace us for whatever we are even though we may stink like a pack of
shit and how we wish our friends would tolerate our worst habits. We would love for everybody to
change and how we would love the destiny to smile at us and give us a lottery of a million US
dollars! How we would love our business prospects to shoot up as India is growing at 8% We
would all love these things idealistic solution........ bottom line truth.... very elusive. So for all
those of us who are stuck in the rigmarole of waiting and waiting for people to change and
situations to change are perhaps condemned to waiting because that is the only thing they will
do, wait.
Truly what is in your own capacity, my friends is your own behaviour. You cannot control anything
in the universe other than yourself.
Then if it is your behaviour, let us figure out in your behaviour what makes you unhappy? One of
the key things in our behaviour which makes us unhappy is our perceived failures of life. Every
single human who has walked this planet has had a graph of duality, where there have been
moments of ecstasy and moments which have been painful: there are moments of great joy &
success and there are moments of pathos and sadness.
Yet lives biggest success stories revolve behind those who clearly understood that there is no

such thing in life as failure. It is only feedback. Which means, if you have inherent faith in the
director of this plot, in your own most empowered potential and you feel there is something in
your life which is not working in your assessment (please remember whatever is happening is
having an inherent wisdom in it, rather than looking at it as a failure and letting your mind spin out
of control in a negative degrading spiral downwards, if you could start training yourself to
understand that if it is happening, it is happening with divine sanction, which means there must
be a benefit for me.
There is no situation in your life my friends that that will come into your life without an inherent
benefit. Our problem is, we get so caught up in the emotional drama that follows our perceived
failure that very often we fail to spot the inherent benefit in that moment. If you check most
successful people in life, when they talk about their life stories and when they talk about their
lives when they were very difficult, in retrospect they will tell you how those difficulties were
hugely responsible for teaching them and training them and giving them those invaluable
attributes that they so desperately required at that moment of their lives. So, if that is happening
to you today my friends, if there is in your life that is not working right now, just ask yourself if this
is happening for my benefit, let me try and find it. Cause there is a benefit for sure.
Always remember, as Einstein says, a problem can never be sorted out at the level at which you
create it. For solving a problem, one needs to always rise about it. Problems are nothing but
universals wisdoms way of saying move up in life, there is a solution already there which you
need to find and that solution or that benefit is what you need to spot and crack. Now if you get
this very clear in your mind, that all your lifes stories is nothing but a sequence of events in which
you were either learning, gaining, becoming wiser, becoming sharper, becoming more intelligent,
becoming tougher maybe becoming smarter, then the inner programming of your magnet will get
beautifully aligned into this absolutely one way street of positive outlook.
The day you manage, my friends, you have mastered your life. You have mastered your life
simply because whether you believe it or not, it is not the environment which determines your
success or failure, it is always the response you exhibit at that moment in time that will determine
this.
So, right now, just take a deep breath and start talking to yourself that whatever is happening in
your life at this moment of time is because somebody up there wants it to happen and if
somebody up there wants it to happen, then it is in your own interest to allow it to happen and
enjoy that and if it is in your interest to allow it and enjoy it then you also realize that you need to
change the way you talk to your own god, because all this while your continuous communication
with your god has been, Oh god, this is such a huge problem. From today lets just change that,
lets talk to the problem and tell the problem I have a huge god, which is much bigger than you.
The day you start doing this consistently my friends, you cracked it.
Be with it it is difficult to digest I am sure somewhere in your heart a little bulb is going to get
lit up !!!

Our responses to situations

June 14, 2010 at 8:55pm

We understand all about our response to situations and how our responses actually crack our life
for us. Let me share with you an interesting insight...... you might not be aware but if you look at
the three basic truths which govern our existence on this planet, they are as following:
1. Duality where there is pleasure, there will be pain; where there is love there will be fear;
where there is joy there will be sorrow; where there is right, there will be wrong; where there will
be correct there will be in-correct; where there is fun there will be boredom; where there is nice
there will be ugly; where there is white, there will be black; where there is light, there will be
darkness. This isnt a good thing or bad thing; it is one of those truths of our lives. Show me one
person in this universe who has not faced this. You wont find anybody. Every game has its own
inherent set of rules. There isnt a game that does not have its own set of rules. For example, if
we talk of cricket, then it has a basic rule that there are two sides playing against each other.
There is also a basic rule that one team will bat while the other will bowl and field and vice versa.
So, if one has to enjoy the game, then one must know the rules and play by the rules. For
example, if both teams want to bat first then, the game wont be able to be played. Every game
for the pure enjoyment of the game needs to be played with the right rules. One of rules on earth
at the moment is duality. It exists, we cant run away from it.
2. Linearity as in linearity of time. So there is a past and that past has a definite impact on the
present and what is being done in the present has a huge impact on the future. So, I am what I
am today, because of a variety of things which happened to me, maybe when I was a child or
while I was growing up and that has now fashioned my response and depending on how I am
responding today, my tomorrow gets fashioned. No running away. This is why we are coming
across to you so very powerfully with this concept: change your response, change your
response because you cannot change your past, but if you change your response today you
will be almost certainly guarantee that you will be able to change your tomorrow & you would like
that.
3. Rationality this is uniformly true for everybody. For example, yesterday I went and touched a
hot vessel and my hand got burnt so today, my rationality and logic tells me that I should not visit
the fire again, because the fire will burn me. So, based on the experiences I go through in the
past, I rationally come to conclusions that influence my present, which in turn becomes the
yardstick for my future.
Now if these are the three rules of life, then to crack these rules and enjoy the game there are
three suitable responses. So, what should be your response to these three things? If you were to
make your life work and if you have understood that your lifes success is about your response,
then for these three rules, there are three sets of responses.
So, response #1: Everything in this world has its own inherent value. If I were to ask a question to
all of you, if I give you a stone or a chain of gold what would you select? I am sure, more than
90% of the people would select gold because; in their minds gold is value. Think for a while.

Suppose you want to dig a hole in the ground, how valuable is that gold? Zero! You might sell it
to buy a stone, but eventually the job is done only with the stone. So, the key take away is
everything that exists on this universe has its own value and ones wealth gets determined by the
recourses one has, to execute what one needs. So if I want to build a house, then the resources
for me are cement and stone and that is of value. Gold just becomes the means to getting that,
gold itself is not the resource. I can have all the gold in the world, but if I cannot buy stone and
cement with it, then I am very poor because I cant have a house with it. So, everything has its
value. If you keep that in mind, greed will disappear from your life.
Response #2: Every human is unique and you cannot change him or her. Every single person on
this earth has come for his or her own unique experience which may or may not fall in line with
your chosen paradigm of existence. Not necessary. You must understand that every soul has the
inherent right to pursue its path leading to its fulfilment. So the moment you understand that, you
will stop judging people as good and bad. You will stop judging their responses as right and
wrong simply because it is their chosen experience and you are nobody to judge their chosen
experience because, if God does not judge it, who are you to judge it?
Response #3: The doer in you must embrace the duality totally... the observer in you must watch
the duality totally. This also means that as a human being, since you have come here to
experience emotions there is no running away from emotions. So when you are experiencing joy,
experience it fully, but dont get married to it. It is the experience of that moment. Similarly, if there
is a situation which gives you sorrow, which gives you fear, understand that in that moment you
need to experience it, experience it and immediately change your mindset to the fact that there is
a benefit and automatically the emotion will disappear and there is no need to get married to it.
If you keep these three things in mind all the time, consistently, #1 you will fulfil your basic
aspiration of being a human who has come here to feel, #2, without taking away from the
pleasure of the feelings, you will be empowered enough at every of point in time through your
intellect and through your response to supersede that emotion and to seek the best response for
yourself at a given point of time. Finally #3, becoming non-judgmental of people around you, will
naturally have people becoming non-judgmental of you. That finally is what each one of us are
looking for.
At core level we all wish to be loved and accepted for what we are and not what we have to
become. Just think of it. How would your life be if you were loved for what you are I love you
enjoy yourselves

Take next step with FAITH leaving behind your past

programming !!!
June 20, 2010 at 10:33pm

Here i am, back with you, sharing my crazy thoughts..... crazy because, it might sound mad, but
then i have often thought of myself as a mad maverick, who somehow accidentally or by some
divine design understood a little bit about how life can be really good. My life is good,so I just

thought...maybe I can share my mental musings...perhaps something will work for you.
So, continuing the whole response story, if we are moving away, from the concept of linearity
which means, if i now start telling myself that, so what if my father beat me with a cane ! So what
if mother did not find 10 minutes to hold me and say "I love you"!!! So what if i lost crores of
rupees in a stock exchange scam, does that debar me in this moment from choosing afresh to
participate in the joy of life? I don't think so. Because as part of our evolution, as we start
completing our own games of duality, of rationality & linearity we understand that life is nothing
but a series of opportunities that you have created for yourself to make a choice which works for
you. You are always empowered to make that choice in the here and in the now. So, it is all about
the here and the now.
If we look at the lives of most of the wise men, who have left behind absolutely incredible
impressions on human consciousness,and here i am talking of the evolved people who walked
the planet maybe people who we are praying to as gods and goddesses and if you look at their
lives on earth you will note one huge issue...., that the environment was difficult yet what did they
choose to demonstrate through their life ? They chose to demonstrate, the more hostile the
environment, the greater is the opportunity for me to display my divinity. You can look at Jesus,
you can look at Krishna and you can look at any ascended master who walked the earth. None of
them sat back and said "OH!" because this happened to me in childhood, i am a screwed up
nervous wreck. Each of them chose the childhood programming as the perfect setting for them to
respond through the power of their divinity they carried. So, if they can do it, why can't you ???
What is separating you from them ? Why can't the god in you emerge right now ? Why can't the
goddess in you emerge right now ? Why can't u see that all those events were nothing but
opportunities that gave you the power to discover that you can choose, you can choose to be
different.
You can make that choice now and if you make that choice now (i know it is easier said than
done), remember any objective that you wish to accomplish or any experience that you wish to
experience just needs to be appropriately broken down into a series of small and accomplishable
tasks. One of the big mistake we often make in life is that we have a huge grandiose vision of
where we would all love to go, what is that we would love to experience and yet since the route to
that experience is not very clear we land up stagnating in our life where ever we are. In fact that
becomes a perfect defence mechanism for us not to move our butt !!! Because we are so
beautifully conditioned to be where we are and that any change is always difficult. So
intellectually we would love to go there, we would love to make the shift, we would love to be
different but since the road is obscure, since the path is not clear we land up doing nothing.
Let me ask you one simple question from where ever you are in your life in this moment right
now! Is your immediate next step not always clear? So you may not have the entire sequence
planned out till the end. You may have a rough idea of what your big vision is like but the
immediate next step that you can take to move in that direction is always, always, always clear.
All that life asks of you is to demonstrate the courage, the self belief and the self love to take the
immediate next step. Because the moment you take the next step which of course will require
immense amount of faith, the next step after that will also become clear at that moment.

So if you realize for all those of you who have been faithfully tracking these videos from the time
we started talking you will find a lot of interwoven talk. You will find a lot of cross referencing
happening because at the end of the day the universal truth is huge and my only attempt through
this whole exercise is to show you that there are a million different ways to bring you to the same
universal truth. So having said that take the immediate next step because that is always clear and
have faith. Have faith that when you take the immediate next step and you have the power to take
that step right now, have the power to choose right now it is all about the now, it is all about the
now disconnecting from the toxic effect of the programming you have gone through and
understanding that it has given you the strength and the courage to make that shift, take that
step. Take that step with the belief that if you are at the edge of the cliff and you jump with faith
either the big dude will hold you down there or you will learn to fly and if this is ephermaral and
eternal wisdom which has survived time and space I would strongly advocate imbibing that
wisdom in your life right now. Take the leap of faith, take the next step, don't wait for the
environment to change. Don't wait for things to happen because they won't. You must make the
next move. Let us meet at the next junction of the next move.

As Human, we have a choice to be happy & we are

mostly unhappy !!! Isn't it bizarre?
June 28, 2010 at 9:55pm

You know; one of the bizarre paradoxes of human existence is this awareness that we can
choose to be happy and yet we are mostly unhappy. The reasons are not very far to look at. The
biggest negative factor in this story is that when life starts running smooth, when life is beautiful,
when life is in cruise control, our intellect tends to go to sleep. We tend to drop our vigilance to
life. We tend to drop our attitude to keeping in mind that the rules do not have to be compromised
when you are playing the game. Once again, quoting a very, very famous cricketer....( I am very
fond of cricket so there are lots of examples of cricket.) there was a legendary Indian cricketer,
who was known for his penchant to score hundreds and when he was asked how he could
consistently score so many centuries in his career, his reply was an extremely intelligent and
pertinent one. He said, every time I touch fifty runs, in my mind, I reset my score to zero. The
moment I do that I am able to bring on my concentration back to peak level because when I am
starting my innings, I am extremely vigilant.
This is true with all of us. When we want to accomplish something, we are vigilant with all the
rules. We will do it right and of course doing it right gives you rewards. Then unfortunately, when
the rewards of life start coming in, we drop that vigilance. We drop the guard and then invariably
there is pain. This is not to berate you, the objective of sharing this thought is not to make you
feel miserable, it is because this is a natural and normal human trend. So if there is pain, then the
pain is nothing but a communication by the universe, which is telling you, mate, pay attention.
Don't ever be scared of pain, in any format. Pain is simply the world talking to you and saying
"jack, you have dropped your guard, you need to just pick it up again." Pain is nothing but the
universe guiding you to take action. Move !!! Having understood that, the best way then of course
is to negotiate this pain by being vigilant all the time. So if the going is good, don't drop your
guard, keep your vigilance up, check the three golden rules of earth at the moment, which are, a)

have you been consistently treating all things appropriately? B) Have you been accepting people
for what they are? c) Have you been experiencing emotions and are you able to say bye, bye to
them without getting married. If you have been doing this consistently correctly, even when the
going is good, then obviously pain is not going to touch you at all. Remember emotions will come
and go. But emotions are transient in nature, they will come, they will go, don't get married to
them and keep your vigilance meter up. Should you keep your vigilance meter in place and then
it is possible, it is completely possible to learn with pleasure.
In our human mindset we have all associated pain with learning and that is one of the reasons
why if you note, that the first big pain, which came into your life has still not completely left you. I
can guarantee that because you have made that pain into your own teacher because that pain
has been perhaps responsible for your even listening to this video. I am sure, if you life was on
cruise control, you are not going to take these ten minutes and listen to this boring character
talking some shit !!! You are not going to do that. But if you are listening to this video, you are
looking for an answer. And if you are looking for an answer undoubtedly there is some amount of
pain somewhere in the system. Means what? Do you need pain to listen to me ? That is an
erroneous association that we have made. We have always converted pain to a barometer, which
will help us grow, learn, get detached, become wise and do all the nice, nice things that the great
guys speak about but that is our fallacious association, we don't need the pain. So if we can
commit to ourselves that on an ongoing continuous basis we will coach ourselves, actually, with
these rules; then we can all be truly pain free. Just benchmark it all the time. Make sure you are
sticking to the basics. You will never ever have a reason to make pain as your teacher. It is
perfectly possible to learn with love and with pleasure, provided your intellect, your wisdom and
your awareness, do not go to sleep.
I have always compared the human intellect with the "points man", a person who manages the
platforms/lines in the station by changing the tracks for the incoming trains. So, if this person is
caught napping exactly at the time the train comes it will keep going on the old track, similarly
when our intellect going to sleep, which is like being off guard and we keep inviting repeated
cycles of pain. Now, this pain is trying to communicate one story, wake up, become alert, change
your response, pull the lever, and you will find the train will move on to a different platform. When
the train will move to another track, remain alert because there will be another train coming and
you do not want to repeat the same cycle and the same learning in a different format!!
I am sure we have seen this many times before, you have one chronic problem in your life the
faces change, perhaps the situation changes but the problem does not change. Initially the
problem was your father, now the problem is your boss. Basically none of these is the problem,
the problem is your mind and the way you are looking at your life, the rest are personifications,
which you are attracting to help you understand your game. So perhaps in life if you want to wake
up from the snakes and the ladders that we are all playing all the time, be vigilant, be an aware
player, become attuned to the rules, keep your mindset going, and then you will enjoy the snakes
and ladder. Remember the snakes will still come. Inherently there is nothing wrong with the
snakes because sliding down a snake can be a lot of fun. Remember climbing up a ladder can
also be very painful. Understand that, go back to the basics, keep your intellect up and about and
life will be an effortless game of snakes and ladder. You know many people have asked me that
the guys who designed the snakes and ladder game are actually very sadistic people because

invariably the fang of the snake is at 99 or 98, just when you need to go to hundred, but then,
which of us stopped playing at hundred? Even when we cracked 100, it was nothing but an ego
booster and we put the dice back to zero and started all over again. So why don't we see the
snake as a great friend who takes you down before you reach 100 and never takes you back to
zero!!! No snake takes you back to zero, just gives you opportunity to continue to play without
your ego hitting your head. Relax, chill!!! Enjoy the slide, keep the vigilance, enjoy the game, life
is a party, best of luck!!!

One has a choice to the experience & not the route it

takes to reach !!!
July 5, 2010 at 8:10am

Here we are with a absolutely empowering possibility, a possibility of choosing whatever we wish
to experience. The question now is, we have the right to the experience... sure, but are we wiser
than the universe in telling the universe in what format do we want the experience? This is where
most of us get jacked!So, what we do not realize is that we incarnate in an environment that the
universe has chosen for us to learn something or become wise and very often that environment if
it is hostile, tends to make you to want to change the environment.
Strangely, believe it or not, you will expend the maximum energy of your life in trying to change
that with absolutely zero result. So, what is that the universe is trying to communicate to you?
The universe is trying to tell you that the environment is communicating, for you to accept the
wisdom from it and change your response to yourself to experience a different experience. But
most of us expect that the same environment will change and that is an absolute screw-ball !!!If
you wish to experience abundance, you have a right to experience it, but does that mean that the
abundance must come to you only through the stock market because you are a stockbroker? I
have had innumerable cases of stock brokers who went through cycles and cycles of bankruptcy
simply because, their ego got hurt when they lost money for the first time, me included, and they
are desperate changing their response so that the same stocks which ate away their money will
give them the money back. But that is an ego trip, you are not truly changing your response. It is
the ego hitting back changing your response with a vested interest that the area from where you
got the pain is what will give you pleasure. What we are not figuring out is the area which is
giving you pain is the universe talking to you saying clearly that it is not your area. But we try
even to change our response so that we can convert the same pain into pleasure. Can that
happen? It can never happen, because if fire burns, it burns, there is no way under the sun that
you can convert it into ice. It cannot happen, because, it is the property of fire to burn. If you are
taking this knowledge with the hope that you will change the response so that your current painful
environment will become pleasurable, forget it. You are wasting your time !!! Absolutely !!!You
have the choice of experience but let the universe decide how it wants to give you that
experience. You can experience whatever you want, you can experience money, you can
experience love, you can experience any single abundance of resource which you would like to
experience provided you submit that experience as a petition to the universe, understand you are
the universe's favorite child. The universe will give you that experience but you must be open
enough to let the experience come into your life the way the universe wishes to give it to you. And
when the universe wishes to give it to you, the universe will bend backwards to make it happen

for you !!!So, an absolutely easy way of understanding whether what you are asking for and what
is being granted to you is a part of universal grace or not, is by checking how easily you are
attracting the new experience. The more effortless the experience becomes the more the
universe has a hand in giving you that experience.
I have in my career as a therapist experienced so many clients who are so very desperate for
their husbands to love them or their wives to love them or their children to love them and my
simple question is what is it that you want? Oh, we want to experience love, all right, so tell the
universe I wish to experience love, and be prepared for it. You will never know who will come into
your life to give you love. Does the love only need to come in a format "abc"? Is love so pathetic
and so restrictive that it is the trademark policy of social norm for love to come only in one
format? Especially when the format is giving you pain? Does not work dude! So just sit, think and
have faith in yourself. A lot of people get stuck here.
One more thing, since you have the titular right to the experience, and since in the eyes of the
universe there is no time and there is no space, the way to attract that experience in your
universe is to feel it in your heart as if it is already happening. So, if you wish to experience love
in your life, start behaving as if you are the universe's most loved child, because the way you will
behave with yourself is exactly the way the universe will behave with you. So if you are harsh with
yourself and you keep feeling that you the unluckiest person, then that is exactly what the
universe will give you. If you wait for the universe to give you a series of lucky events to happen
before you begin to believe that you are lucky, then sorry, doesn't work! So, start treating yourself
as your top priority, you are the world's most loved person by yourself. So what if in this moment
other people are not loving you! Love yourself, unconditionally, are you not your most important
person? Believe you are the best for yourself, believe that you are luckiest for yourself, believe
that you are God in motion who has come on this planet to experience its magnificence. Drop
your programming and watch, how the universe bends backwards, in its own unique way to give
you that experience and of course having got that experience don't get seduced by its
permanency. There is no such thing on this planet as permanent. What starts will end, what is
good today is bad tomorrow, the wisdom is to completely live every moment of your life. It lies in
completely living every moment of your life perhaps as if it is the last moment or the last day of
your life. This is a very ancient teaching that I got from a Buddhist monk, who would often tell me
that Yuvraj, one of life's easiest ways is to put a placard in your pocket which simply says today is
the last day of my life. Watch how your response to yourself will dramatically change with that.
So, if you live every moment of your life assuming that it would be the last moment and you do
only those things which gave you total, pure, undiluted self acceptance, go ahead and do it.
Formula for winning, formula for enjoying the win, loosing comes in the way once in a while, how
does it matter? End of the day, loosing is a format of winning differently! Ok?
So,
1. Accept what's happening in your life as a universal sign of change
.2. Become the change yourself for yourself
.3. Open yourself to the universe for the experience you so richly deserve.

Then perhaps, you will be sitting on a video like this talking to millions of people, who knows,
best of luck.

You can choose to experience whatever your heart

chooses to experience, just don't get married to
them!
July 14, 2010 at 8:44am

You can choose to experience whatever your heart chooses to experience. Wow! What a
euphoric feeling. Just give yourself the luxury of closing your eyes and living this out. What is the
deepest experience you would wish to go through? Feel it in your heart and see how fantastic it
feels to experience that. Not that I want to play a party pooper at the moment but as I said, to win
the game you must play the game by the rule. So though you have the inherent right to the
experience and as I mentioned when the going is good our intellect tends to go to sleep and then
we all know what happens to the train, the same experience can completely become your
identification of it, which will then make it your ego.
So let's conclude this series with this thought that you have the right to the experience but not the
right to marry the experience. Which means, the moment you experience, what ever it is, that you
truly wish to experience, take some time out and completely surrender that experience back to
the universe. Remember you are an expression of this universal consciousness that has come on
this planet in a physical format for experiences to be felt through the paradigm of emotions.
One cannot feel emotions without a body. Every single emotion felt is throughout the body. Ask
people who get their thrill when their car starts racing from 0 to 60 in 5 or 6 seconds because
they have this fantastic horse power engine, it's a physical feeling, the thrill, the excitement, the
fear, all emotions are felt in the body. So you are on this journey to experience whatever
experience you wish and feel the emotions in your body but remember when the experience is
done, if you surrender it back to the universe then you don't identify yourself with the experience
and you remain a fresh slate and an open petal for a new experience, a different experience
something you can embrace in a different format all over again.
Nature in its inherent wisdom teaches us the most amazing truths of life and nature does it purely
because that is how nature is. So if you look at nature every morning a flower will bloom because
that is the experience of that flower on that day. The very next day the same flower will not bloom
in the same manner. It will choose a different experience. A bird may chirp at 6am in the morning
and may not chirp the next day because that is the experience of chirping at that moment. So
nature shows you in its infinite wisdom how every moment is following its own inherent
experience of that moment. Have you seen nature doing everything in precise clockwork timing?
No, that does not exist and nature does it because that is the evolution of nature. The day as
humans we understand this completely that at a given point of time, whatever it is that your heart

wishes to experience is what you should completely experience in that moment, surrender that
experience to the universe, thank it with gratitude for having given you the luxury of the
experience and open yourself up like a fresh slate, you shall walk this planet as a humble student
of life who mastered its intricasies. Very much like nature, a different day a new way to fly up to
the sun and you will realize that you will never ever get bored of life, because life is nothing but a
series of beautiful experiences which you link segment by segment, piece by piece to eventually
make a fantastic garland, a garland that you could call your own unique experience in life.
However, no body gets married to the garland. You take it, experience it, surrender it.
This should be the last rule for this series. When I come back next time, it will be with a
completely different mindset, a completely different pitch because I would presume all these
things are already playing somewhere at the back of your mind. I do not know at this point in time
what my next video is going to be. But suffice to say, this video concludes and extremely
important, an extremely important junction. It is a major junction like the terminus where many
trains come together and you kind of off load yourself and say alright this is where I am, life is
good now let me see which new train I must board. So till we meet for a new train, even I don't
know which train I am going to drive, because this was my chosen experience to date, that is
what I have shared with you, to date. Next video, which experience, which thought, which
emotion, I have no idea, but I am enjoying this moment, I suppose, you are enjoying it as well.
Because it is your energies when you relate to this the feed back that we get which invariably tells
us that life becomes so very beautiful when we understand that compassion in itself is not just a
human emotion,it is a force that this entire universe is made of. It is that singular force, I feel that
is binding me in my capacity and each one of you who is looking at this video.
So compassion is not what I am feeling purely for myself in the moment because my life has
enriched me with whatever I went through but there is this part of me which also feels that I am
alive in all your hearts. There is one part of me which is alive in each one of you who is watching
this video and that part of me which is alive in you I suppose somewhere is god smiling at all of
us Lets make life long and fruitfully enjoyable.
Best of luck.

review perhaps evaluate how our entire facebook

exercise has been faring...
July 23, 2010 at 8:57am

Friends,

So, this note is intended to catch u in perhaps a great phase of your life. As I had mentioned in
my last uploaded video, we are all at a major junction...a junction where we are shedding our
past baggages, lightening our load and training our wings to soar high up in the sky...
And so I thought...this may be a good time to pause...review perhaps evaluate how our entire
facebook exercise has been faring...a midstream review...to just check whether we need to work
on the flow of our plot...and so my friends...a simple request...for all those who have been my

partners in progress a feedback is due...would be obliged if you could send in your feedback on
the following guidelines....
1. Are you a regular follower of the uploaded videos?
2. Do u watch any video more than once?
3. Have u been following or practicing any of the tips or techniques shared in the videos?
4. Have u experienced a shift in the way you think or perceive your life...or yourself?
5. Have u had a practical breakthrough or a AHA moment since then?
6. If yes, could u give us a short testimonial on how these videos have helped?
7. Do u have any suggestions on what we could do on any area of improvement that u can
perceive?
8. Do u follow similar videos on similar subjects on the net?
AND of course anything that in would like to suggest... And so as we await your feedback and
then prepare for our next round of videos in a couple of days...
Love
Yuvraj

Accept where you are with love !!!

August 3, 2010 at 1:58pm

A very pleasant,and a very warm, reconnecting Hi to all those of you who are on this journey with
me.
A major part of me somehow feels that life is so beautiful and simple. But if you ask this question
to many people, I am not so sure that they would agree because so many of us spend hours,
days, weeks, months fighting, running challenging, seeking to change things in our lives which
are not working. Where is this basic premise coming from? Simply because we have forgotten
the fact that we are all part of a universal system, a system, which is very wise. Our mandate
being components of this wise system is to just understand how the system works and enjoy it.
But that doesn't happen, just doesn't happen and then our journey with pain starts. What do we
do when we have pain? We are constantly trying to change all those elements, which give us
pain.

You know one of the bizarre things about being human, is this one simple truth, that though we
pride ourselves as being the most intelligent species on the planet, most of the times
unfortunately most of the times we manifest very painful, very difficult lives, simply because of the
inappropriate choices we have made. And now that we have made those choices which are not
working, we are working over time to change, change, change, make things happen, change the
people, change the job, change the city, change the country, change the profile, change. for how
many people has it worked? Very few, because the basic intent we are working with is pain ! So

when you change with pain, my friends,the only thing that you would get is more pain.I know
many of you watching this video are probably maybe mentally very upset with me saying. here is
this crazy dude talking all crazy things expecting us to waste our time listening to him, saying no,
there is nothing to change. so what do we do? Ok, simple, very simple - You are where you are
because that is the result of a choice you made somewhere, sometime. If you are where you are
because,that is the choice that you made somewhere sometime, pls acknowledge it. Take
responsibility for it. I am here because somewhere, sometime, I made the choice of being here
and that is why I am here.
Now, if you start acknowledging that and you start taking responsibility for being there you will
naturally stop blaming others for what is happening in your space. If you stop blaming others for
what is happening in your space, the universe smiles just that little bit and starts encouraging you
and starts saying; Well for all the good children of the universe, good behaviour deserves a good
chocolate. What does good behaviour come to and come from ? It comes from the understanding
that if I have chosen to be here at this time, there has to be a benefit in this for me and if there
has to be a benefit in it for me, instead of getting stuck with the emotional charge that this pain
creates, can I just try and re-orient my mind to understand what is the benefit that is coming out
of it. Remember, in any crisis my friends most of us have a basic preponderance to either fight
our way out of our crisis and my limited experience working the humans and their minds has
often suggested that whenever our response to our situation is fight, the only thing we keep
inviting are greater and greater fights and more and more challenges. So if you come from that
premise that life is a challenge and I have to fight my way and make it to the top, sure, the
universe will keep conspiring overtime and will keep feeding your ego with more and more
situations which will compel you to feel very good about the fact that you are fighting with glory,
guts and gumption to claim the prize. Good for you. But it is an un-ending and vicious cycle my
friends because an attitude of fight brings up another fight.
Next response pattern. Accept. That is what it is! I am a miserable mongrel I have hurt people,
god is angry is now looking down and saying suffer ! and so I am suffering !! Typically what many
of us do when we resign ourselves to our fate. Acceptance because there is no choice. But my
friends, the world's best kept secret, is, accept, but you have a lot of choice. So if I accept and I
have a lot of choice, where does that get me? Acceptance of the fact that you are where you are,
because of a choice you made and because the universe finds wisdom in you being there and if
you can shake away the emotional pain that comes out of the story and look for the wisdom this
situation has to offer, you will learn the value of acceptance with love. The day, the moment and
the minute, you learn this value, this value of accepting your position with love because there is
wisdom waiting for you to emerge, the very mindset of love starts giving you that wisdom. The
moment the wisdom falls into place my friends, viola, it is time to make a different choice.
So, success in life depends on two factors: accept where you are, with love and when can you do
that? only when you have complete faith, complete faith that the dude up there, has you here
because there is something you need to learn, accept that with love and faith, go for the learning,
go for the wisdom, the moment you accept with love, the wisdom naturally emerges out. The
moment wisdom emerges out, you have reclaimed the god power back in your hand to now make
a different choice, again based on love. So, though change is fundamental to evolution in life only
that change works which is based on love. Why? Because love is the language of creation, love

is the language of evolution, love is the language of growth, love is the language of the divine. At
no point of time in your life should you ever be disconnected from this one truth. So at any
junction of your life, ask yourself this one question, am I reacting out of this moment out of fear or
love? If you are reacting out of fear, the next video will tell you exactly what to do, if you are
reacting out of love, you can probably stop seeing this series after this one !
All the best !!!

Feel the love in your space and then become life's

best player, play with the colors of your life
August 15, 2010 at 7:43pm

Picking up the thread from the previous video, if you are lucky enough, empowered enough,
happy enough or just sensible enough to keep responding with love for everything in your life
then my friends you have reached your destination.
Though,my job isn't done as yet... I have a couple of other people to catch up with who are in the
dual mode. If you are in the dual mode, nothing wrong, that is how life is. one of the crazy
aspects of our life on earth is that where there is good there is bad, where there is nice there is
pathetic, where there is joy there is sorrow, where there is pain there is pleasure, where there is
light there is darkness, where there is love there is fear. That is one of those things that is!
When we talk of life being full of choices my friends, we always, always have this choice. Are you
responding to a given situation in your life out of love or are you reacting out of fear?
Responses in life based on love are empowering responses, which liberate you; they give you an
amazing sense of freedom. Responses based on fear give you insecurity, make you angry,
makes you jealous, makes you feel that the ground below you is shifting.
So it is very easy to even understand for yourself, are you coming from love or are you coming
from fear!
Let's assume we are coming from fear. Ok, no big deal we are coming from fear, let us
acknowledge it, we are scared. We have all the rights to be scared because we have seen death,
we have seen pain, we don't understand how this game works, perfectly natural response of "self
preservation". Absolutely, fine, Ok, but the response of self-preservation will only preserve the
"self"! It won't do anything else.
So, if you are in the circular circuit of constantly reacting with fear because you want to preserve
yourself where ever you are, then good for you, you can continue your response from fear. But,
you will never move anywhere in life, you will keep going round and round, round and round,
coming back to the same point, absolutely every time to the same point. What will change is your

job, the people in your life, monetary profile, but you will continue to react out of fear. If that is
your reaction I would strongly recommend my friends, maybe focus on a couple of self help
techniques.
Change your breathing, very simple. I am not a great proponent telling people to viciously pursue
an educated therapist or viciously pursue a guru and so on. and so forth because you have within
yourself all the tools.
The amazing aspect of life my friends is that the divine has empowered us with everything we
need for our journey. Life is a planned event. You know even in these days of high technology if
we have to travel from place A to place B how much planning we do. Have you ever thought of
that? You sit on your net, select an airline, book your ticket, make sure you have a print out, you
keep the PNR number, you have done all those things and then you have to plan, reaching the
airport one and a half hour before the departure, plan your clothes, do so much of planning which
is for a short trip maybe a couple of hours and come back. So can you imagine how much of
planning you would have done for a journey which is going to last you a seventy years,or so?
Think of it. Seventy years, eighty years, hundred years, even fifty years. How much of planning?
So life is planned and you plan a lot of it and come. You also plan all the tools you would need on
this journey. Like you take your clothes, you take your shaving kit, take your perfumes, take your
make up box, all those things. so you have also brought down with yourselves simple tools which
you have within your own space, to be able to make your own journey easy, loving and effortless
and one of the most powerful tools you have is your own breathing.
So, the moment you conclude your reaction is based on fear, just change the way you breathe.
Maybe breathing in through the nose and gently breathing out through the mouth for a couple of
minutes will help you majorly. Try it out. Just think of the painful memory you have ever had and
start breathing differently, breath in through the nose and gently breath out through the mouth as
if you are blowing air into a balloon. Do that for a minute, two minutes, two and a half minutes.
you will gradually realize, that you heart beat is settling down, your mind is becoming much
calmer, you will be able to look at the same event with remarkable stoicism and a quiet mindset.
It is in this beautiful space of nothingness that what it is to respond with love emerges. Response
with love never can emerge if you are emotionally disturbed, which takes us back to probably the
first fundamental response to life mastery, which is mastering your emotions.
So the moment you are faced with a situation which emotionally dis-empowers you, weakens
you, scares you, accept that's there, then breath differently. The moment you breathe differently
you will give yourself an opportunity to free yourself from the viciousness of that emotional pain.
The moment you free yourself from the viciousness of the emotional pain, you will hit a calm,
vacant, empty space in your mind. Love is what will naturally fill this up with because love is what
you are, you don't have to seek it. It is just what you are. For most of us unfortunately, because
we start our life journey with events which bring us pain, we then start responding to life hoping to
match up people's expectations so that they may love us and the only reason which you are
looking for love and belonging from other people is because you have lost that touch with it
yourself. There is no human who comes on this planet alone, you always come with your divinity
intact, but you forget that, and the day you forget that you start operating out a void, you start
operating out a fear, and that fear now puts you on this compelling cycle of always trying to do

what is expected of you rather than what it is that you would love to experience. If you followed
what you would love to experience, probably all of you might have had your own fan pages, your
own videos, distributing this to thousands of others because the wisdom of life is very simple. But
most of us respond from fear then we land up always trying to match up expectation of what
other people and the system expects, what our parents expects, what out education expects,
what our spouses expect, and the more we do what is expected of us, and we are doing this so
that we get love, which of course never comes because love from the external environment is
one of the biggest illusions. You can never attract love from anywhere unless you love yourself to
madness.
So breathe differently, emote differently, feel the love in your space and then become life's best
player, play with the colors of your life
I never subscribe to the philosophy that you should leave everything and disappear into the
mountains, yeah, maybe that is the route for some people, their choice, but life is a beautiful
journey to be enjoyed, embraced, loved with all your heart and passion, starts with this slight shift
in response. breathe your way into glory . enjoy it.

In a school of the universe which will make sure you

graduate, Is Ignorance really a bliss??
September 2, 2010 at 10:30am

A very very popular proverb in English is "Ignorance is Bliss". Brilliant! It truly is, actually
because, when you are ignorant you are sleeping and when you are sleeping, you have no
problem. Till of course if you are unlucky, you start getting bad dreams, you start getting
nightmares and then even sleep is not blissful. Because the universe my friends is a loving
school, but it is a school all the same and if you have come into this school, the school will make
sure that you will graduate. So, if ignorance is not bliss, it definitely is not an excuse either. So
once the bug bear of the knowledge, awareness and wisdom starts creeping into your life and
starts making its own incredible experience in your space the next part of the story now begins
with you showing the will, the courage, the gumption and the determination to apply that wisdom
in your day to day life and this is where your transition from being a mortal human, a human who
has succumbed to the vagaries of life, a human who is compelled by life's painful circumstances,
a human who feels manipulated by the powers that be into an empowered being who is divinity in
motion. This my friends is the critical junction, a junction where once the wisdom comes into your
space you go deep into yourself, touch base with that infinite power that you have and start
walking your talk. Because the action must follow the wisdom.
Now action does not mean taking a machine gun and disseminating everything in your universe
which doesn't work for you. But action definitely means acknowledging knowledge truthfully
what's not working in your space acknowledging very truthfully all those actions that you are
basing on fear and start pro-actively spending time with what it is that you would love to have.

Let's do a simple exercise right now. Take a piece of paper and list out the five things that you are
doing in your life purely because you are compelled to do it. Any five things, that could be right
from saying good morning to your dad, or going to your job, or could be as mundane as cooking
food, anything, any five things in your life which, if you had a choice you would very very happily
give up. Five things, which bind you, list it out and then take up each one of those five things,
think about those things, and start breathing differently. Just do this much, don't do anything
radical, don't do anything path breaking, but start acknowledging your story, act on it. So if you
have understood that these are the five things you are doing purely based out of fear, five things
you are feeling very very horribly stuck, start doing something with yourself. I am telling you
change the environment, change yourself. List out these five things, everyday in the morning
spend one minute with it breathing differently. Just breathing differently till those five things no
longer touch your heart. You will be surprised that the moment that happens, the moment you hit
this beautiful space, where those five things no longer bind you, the wisdom of what those five
things are giving you will come up and when that wisdom comes up, on its own those five things
will disappear from your life because they are just there to give you that wisdom.
Flip side of the story, list out five things that you would love doing and you would love to do it for
the joy it gives you when you are doing it and then, just check how much time in your day you are
spending with those five things you love doing, against how much time you are spending in your
day on the five things you are compelled to do. Strangely, as you are doing this exercise of just
breathing out the toxic pain of the five things you are compelled to do you will realize, naturally,
automatically that the universe now starts bending backwards and starts creating all those
opportunities in your life in which you will get as much time as you want for doing the five things
that you would love to do.
Life my friends is not an obligation, life my friends is not a challenge, life my friends is not a
compromise, life my friends is not a settlement. The biggest disservice that you do to yourself, to
your mind, to your soul is to be bonded, is to be stuck with things that don't resonate in your inner
space. I am not for a moment saying you reject them, but if they don't resonate with your inner
space, they are just here to teach you something rather than being stuck, breathe out the toxicity
and the moment you breathe out the toxicity, the reasons for them being there become clear.
That itself is your wisdom, the moment wisdom emerges, love follows story changes, the director,
creator, actor within you is alive and you start naturally manifesting without doing anything a set
of circumstances in which you will do exactly what it is that you love. When you start doing that,
you start playing an extremely informed, aware and fantastic actor who has just made the job of
his director very simple.
Now the choice is do you wish to make your director struggle or do you wish to make him sit back
and enjoy life? If your director sits back and enjoys life, you will sit back and act effortlessly. If you
make your director struggle, the director is definitely going to make you struggle. So the choice is
once again yours, are you going to choose the route of struggle or are you going to choose the
route of love, peace and equanimity.
Take your pencil and start right now, don't waste time, five things which compel you, which bind
you, which are your bondage, five things which liberate your soul. Do it, right now.

We have made choices to indulge in exactly what we

love to do... ripples are not to stay - if u choose to !
September 29, 2010 at 12:48am

So, we have made choices and we have also understood how we have manifested situations in
life, which are giving us the opportunity to indulge in exactly what we love to do.
Does that mean that life from here on is absolutely a smooth and straight road? Cruise Control?
So boring.if your life ever became perfect! It would be one of the most boring existences you
would ever have. Believe me, perfection is very boring.
So, if perfection is very boring and life is all about moving towards that perfection where do we
find that spice, that masala, that little bit of flavoring which gives you that kick, gives your creative
juices a flow, the whole story of let's do it!
So, when you start doing anything that you love, you will periodically in that space still attract
minor situations, minor episodes, small disturbances which are like the ripples that get created
when a stone falls into an absolutely placid body of water. What is the psychology of the water
when the stone hits the water? Is the water going to change its principle? The answer is no. Is
the water going to change its constitution? The answer is still no. What will the water eventually
do? After a period of time, the ripples that the stone created will die down and the water goes
back to its original, normal pristine and placid state.
And so it is with love, when you are in love, with anything that it is, be it a person, be it a job, be it
a relationship, be it anything at all in this world, there will periodically be a stone which will fall into
the body of water and like a ripple will create a wave in your consciousness. At this moment, all
you need to do, is to just check with yourself and take a decision what the hell, I love that person
and if I love that person that small ripple created by the disturbance of the stone coming in
becomes extremely small in comparison to the large magnitude of placidity that exists.
So, if you truly love a person, there will be so many magical moments in your life that you have
spent with that person that are great and if you are continuing to love that person and in the
moment that the ripple of consciousness in that flow occurs, remember that the ripple is probably
mirroring some small fear that you still have, it is ok,the journey is like that. All you need to do is
to just remind yourself, what the bloody hell, I just love this person and the moment you remind
yourself with that one statement and your mind gets flooded with all fantastic moments that you
have had and your ability to respond in that moment changes completely. The ripple disappears;
the placidity returns back, life is one smooth party. This is a story and a situation that will remain
with you till the end of your life. There is absolutely no person on this planet that even after hitting
a very sweet spot that he loves would continue forever in that zone. Doesn't exist because life is
about evolution, but the formula for evolution, my friends does not change. The formula for
evolution remains, if you are grounded in love and you keep reminding yourself of that grounding,

with your intellect you keep making those choice all the time, in that situation your ability to deal
with the minor ripples of life will get greatly magnified. You are an ascended master.
Probably, most of us feel that attaining the Buddha state is a little boring, because, what is the
point of living a life in which we don't judge anything! We just experience everything for what it is!
It is a great state, it is a very divine state taking nothing away from that state. But for many of us,
this life is an interesting journey, which we are looking to enjoy with a lot of fun. Learning with fun,
that's my theme. Getting to the Buddha state, sure, inevitable. Nirvana is going to happen to all of
us. The universe is not going to spare anyone, not me, not you. What truly matters I feel probably
is the fun, the joy that you experience in that journey getting to where you need to get to.
So if you keep this one simple thing in mind. If I have to just summarize, the last four videos, give
it back to you into one simple concise shot.
1 - You are where you are because of a choice you have made and because there is a wisdom
waiting for you. Don't reject where you are right now.
2 - Use simple techniques to get out of the pain of what any moment is giving you. The moment
you come to that neutrality the wisdom of where you are will start emerging out.
3 - The moment the wisdom emerges out, now start acting on it making the shift in your mind,
start breathing out things that don't work for you, start spending more and more of your mental
space in things which work for you and now you will gravitate from a fear based response in life
to a love based response in life.
4 - As you start gravitating to a love based response in life you will greatly minimize the ripples
that come into your life. And the moment you minimize the ripples in your life then your only job at
any point of time is to remind yourself of the love that you are and that love is powerful enough to
dissolve your own ego. Just remind yourself gently that I am love, and if I am the love and I have
chosen to love then this ripple is here today will disappear tomorrow, going back to that original
state of bliss and peace
Enjoy every experience, live every day as if it is the last day of your life Live every moment as if it
is the last moment of your life and you are willing and you are happy to depart with a smile on
your lips.
Remember this, today and for all times. You might have come into this world crying but you owe it
to yourself to leave this world smiling. Not only smiling, leaving behind impressions, attitudes,
memories and energies which encourage people around you to look at your life maybe mentally
salute you and say, here is a man who walked the sands of time and converted time and space
both into marbles in his pocket with whom he played effortlessly. Conquer space, conquer time,
left the world much, much better place than what it was before you came in.
Enjoy the journey, all the best.

Basic building block of the material world is an

"atom", thru understanding interplay energies within
it, let us understand life
October 19, 2010 at 7:08am

Interestingly, the other day, I was conducting a workshop in Mumbai. There was an old student of
mine, who came up with a question on the model of the material world. Strangely, the question
got me thinking.
What the student brought up was a very interesting insight into the way our material world is
fashioned.
Let's get into this a little deeper. So if we could go back in time to the time we were at school,
grappling and breaking our heads with this subjects called physics and chemistry, what you might
still remember is that these material sciences told us, if you look at matter and you split matter
up you will land up with a molecule and if you split the molecule you would land up with an atom.
The atom to most of us became and even today probably is the most fundamental particle of
existence. Now the amazing part of science is that by virtue of its very material nature you cannot
deny what it presents. And locked within the structure of the atom is probably one of the world's
profound and interesting secrets and much of it is what we keep saying. The basic dictum' its not
out there, its all in here.' Let's apply the same philosophy to the atom.
Now if you break the atom up what you observe is an extremely interesting interplay of energies.
At the heart of the atom is its core or the centre called the nucleus. It's a technical word, don't get
pissed off, it is fine !
If you split this nucleus up, within the nucleus you would get sub-atomic particles called protons
and neutrons and the protons are the dudes, which have a positive charge which means these
are continuously emitting positive charge of energy. The neutrons as the name suggests are
neutral and surrounding this nucleus all around it in concentric patterns are electrons, which are
in the state of constant motion. These electrons carry a negative charge. The further one moves
away from the nucleus of the atom the stronger of the negative charge of the electron gets. Now
many of you will question, so what's the big secret here?
Well the answer is so close in your face that it is actually difficult to even see it ! So what the atom
tells you is that if you start going back into your own core, your nucleus will only emanate positive
energy. On the other hand, the moment you shift your focus with awareness to the outside and
once you shift your awareness to the outside the further you go away from your central core the
stronger the negative charge becomes. As the charge of the negative emotion becomes stronger
and stronger you find yourself getting warped into the conundrum of negative emotions. The
moment you are stuck in the conundrum of the negative emotions, these become your beliefs
and that belief then starts spinning your fresh reality.
So, what's the take home here? I know you are in a physical world. In that physical world you
have no option but to interact with the external world as well, True, we are social animals, by

habit, by compulsion, by birth and by programming. But the take home from this particular video
is, that whenever in life you find stuck with a major negative emotional charge, arising out an
interplay in the environment, the only thing you need to do is to withdraw and go right back into
your inner space. Go back into your nucleus and if you go back into your nucleus it is but natural
by the law of nature by the law of physics by the law of the material world that you will start
radiating positive energy. Try it out it is not so difficult. I do know, when you are in the grip of
negative emotion it does become very difficult. Because as humans we are so programmed to
react. To react instantly to the charge that is hitting us. But just focus a little on your breath at that
time, live out the emotion, I am going to deal with that in the next video and just retreat back into
your nucleus. The moment you retreat back into your nucleus, almost magically you will find your
ability to connect back to the positive charge that you always were, are and will remain, getting
activated straight away. How we do this, what is the process in real terms, because I know, this
sounds maybe like a clichd platitude but in the next video I am going to break this down into a
very simple to do exercise which is completely logical, which is completely rational, which is
something you can effortlessly implement into your day to day life.
So, signing off this video with the same dictum, it is not out there, it is all in here. Let's meet next
week

Back into your nucleus, back into your core - getting

in touch with who you are
October 31, 2010 at 7:16am

Continuing from where I left off in the last video, even if we look at this full story from a functional
objective, which means, let's cut this metaphysical crap! Let's keep it straight, let's keep it simple,
and let's keep it practical.
So you are living life, OK cool, and you are in a situation, which is bad! This bad situation is really
making you upset. You have got pissed! Or you are very angry or you are very scared or you are
just feeling very helpless. Reality check, yes, it happens to many people a hell of a lot of times.
So,the first golden rule of the process, when you are in the heat of the emotion, don't defy it, don't
deny it, whatever that it is you are feeling, feel it. Be with it completely, because the mental
thought of knowing that you shouldn't feel this way but you are feeling that way actually makes
you feel more helpless. So when you are in the grip of it, live it out. You have a light side, you
have a dark side, maybe you are reacting out of your dark side, that's fine, that's what you are,
embrace it in totality. Be done with it. This is what you are and that is what it is.
This phase will die down, it might last a few minutes, it might last a few hours, in the worst
situation a few days but after a while on its own, it will settle down. Here my friends is where I
would ask you to be a little vigilant. So when you are in the grip of it, I am asking you to live it,
don't criticise yourself for it, don't negate yourself for it, take responsibility for it. This is what you
felt in that moment and you experienced it in totality.
Once the experience is over, as long as it takes, then you go back to the nucleus I spoke to you
about in the previous video. Go back into your space and start thinking what do I need to do in

my behavior so that I feel happy, that's all. Don't look at the logic of it, don't look at the morality of
it, don't look at the ethics of it.
Social platitudes are what will keep you in the game of life and death for longer than you think,
because the most pleasing truth of life is that the divine is in your heart and lives in the language
of love which only means that the one focus that you should have in this life, should be that you
will be happy. That is the only responsibility that you have.
Which now means that when you are checking back into your space neutrally looking at your
emotions all you need to do is, figure out, so how should I have behaved in that moment for me to
be at peace with myself. That's all, because, being at peace with yourself in the moment of crisis
is exactly what life mastery is all about and that only you know the answer to.
So when I talk about going back into your nucleus, going back into your core and checking out
the positive charge, the positive charge has nothing to do with people. The positive is you feeling
good about yourself.
So all you need to do is, go back, and say ok, this time, this is what transpired, this was my
reaction, and this reaction made me feel helpless, and then check how could I have behaved so
that I could have felt very good about myself. Period! end of the story. That response will come,
for sure. Sometimes, that response might appear antagonistic to other people, their choice. But
for you that response is vital, for you to touch base with your core story.
And if the core story is being at peace with yourself, you need to focus on your own response and
then, the next time that situation comes in front of your eyes just have the courage to respond
differently; demonstrate that response which gives you peace, whether it is speaking up for
yourself, or shouting back matters not. Demonstrate the response that gives you peace in your
heart, because, the peace in your heart is the hallmark of being in the zone. The hallmark of
being in the zone then lays out the framework for all the thoughts that you emanate out
subsequently and those thoughts that you emanate out subsequently, then become the
foundation of new reality which you are creating either advertently or inadvertently.
So even if you have to keep away all these philosophical statements, even if you had to keep
away from every single thing, that you heard or read in the books or workshops or anywhere at
all, You can just bring them down to this very simple exercise. When you are pissed off, get
pissed off completely, when it is over, take charge of it, say, ok, I got pissed off, that is what I felt
in that moment, then check how should you have behaved so that you didn't get pissed off and
then no matter what the consequence, go ahead and behave differently. The moment this
happens, the story starts changing, the reality starts changing, the manifestation starts changing.
It's a simple exercise; all it needs is a little bit of awareness, a little bit of courage.
After 20 odd videos, I have lost track of the number, a little bit of courage shouldn't be difficult and
if it is, just go over the videos one more time. It will come for sure.

Unleash your elephantine power by altering your

response from one that binds you to one that free
you!!!
November 25, 2010 at 7:49pm

I was engaged in this extremely interesting conversation with a group of very close friends, who
are the team behind this whole facebook exercise and they had this very interesting observation
to share which was to do with their children.
It is so amazing to observe, children nowadays, who speak so very differently about their
relationship with the divine. They are so confident that they are projections or extensions of the
divine force. They are very sure that they are here to enjoy the best the life has to offer because
they are god's children.
It really makes you feel very very fulfilled when you watch that. But it also opens up a different
line of thinking which is, if our children can be like this and they are like this not because we have
taught them to be like this, but it is just a consciousness they seem to be born with, then what are
we looking at?
So if these children in the new age, are born with this awareness that they are friends of god,
they are the children of god, or they are extensions and projections of the divine, then what in
hell's name happened to us? Where did we lose the plot? Perhaps, it might be interesting to
observe that if we go back into the way we have evolved over time. At the start of time, maybe in
the golden age of mankind, humans on the earth did have an enormous amount of power. The
power to manifest, the power to control the elements of the earth, the power to actually live the
reality on earth the way their thoughts made them go through it. The power was all there and it
was awesome. Perhaps so awesome, that we knew not the true extent of the magnificence that
we were and as a result of that when we found ourselves unable, unable to take responsibility for
actually being gods, we just decided that it might just be useful to forget a little bit about what is
truth and thus began our descent into a self created barrier of consciousness. An awareness in
which we chose to cover ourselves with amnesia forgetting the fact that we have it all because
with absolute power comes absolute responsibility. Since we are not willing to handle that it
becomes so very convenient to lay out all the blame, on the feet of the lord up there and say,
"well this is what you have chosen, I am destined to do it, and so is my karma, is my destiny.",
Crap !!!
You chose to forget, you chose that because you did not have to take the responsibility; and
today you blame the system. It has nothing to do with the system.
Ironically, since the consciousness of the earth is changing you are now choosing back through
your own created dramas, the power deep within you. That is how this whole video series is
going on. Why do we need a facebook exercise? We need a facebook exercise simply because
we have forgotten the fact that it was all with us in any case and so we need somebody like me
who comes in like an idiot, week after week, provoking your amnesia into waking up and
remembering the fact you were, you are and you will always be the divine. But we want proof and

so how do we get this proof? We get this proof by planning once again to have an environment
which will challenge our abilities. Such a fantastic plot! I will tell you if there were Oscars for
movie making, for acting, for script writing, each one of us would bag these hands own. We
execute this so beautifully because now, we are on an upward scale of consciousness where we
are seeking to remember once again that we are the divine in motion. How do we remember
this? By proving it! And how do we prove this? By inviting challenging situations in which
eventually we discover the power to go beyond our programming. This is the most interesting
aspect of the journey.
Once again, ironically, I was having a discussion with my friends and they were talking about
what happens with the elephant. It is such a beautiful exercise. For all those of you, who have
seen the elephant being trained, the exercise of the elephant being trained is one classical
epitome of what happens to human consciousness. For those of you who are not aware of this,
perhaps this might be a good time to understand it. So, when elephant is born, it is obviously not
aware the sheer amount of power it is going to wield when it grows up and to train the elephant
the people who capture it or people who keep it, tie the foot of the elephant with a chain and the
elephant tries to break the chain but can't break it. and slowly the mindset of the elephant gets
completely converted into a belief that if there is anything binding his foot he is unable to break it.
To the extent that when the elephant grows up, probably weighs five tonnes and has the power of
god knows what ! can uproot trees, can damage buildings and yet this same elephant, the
moment there is even a rope touching the foot of the elephant the mindset of the elephant keeps
it absolutely docile and still. That is exactly what happens to us. We choose in our programming,
we choose in our parenting, we choose in our religion, we choose in our education, all those
chains which will make us the bound elephant and then begins our journey with emotional pain.
Because the power is there but the belief says that you are bound and that belief becomes your
emotional jack till one fine day you break that mindset and you break that mindset simply by
understanding that if you were that elephant who had the chain around your foot what would you
love to feel. Ah! I would love to feel free. At the end of the day that is the only thing that the soul is
desirous of experiencing. It's the desire to feel free and experience life for whatever it is.
So, the next time you have to change your response remember the response should be the
response which frees you. Never binds you. If you can implement that, the massive elephantine
power that lies within you is just ready to be unleashed. Enjoy!

It is the fact that we chose to forget the massive

power & unaware of how inadvertently we are
manufacturing our reality
December 24, 2010 at 8:50am

At the epicenter of this drama, is the fact that we chose with our own volition to forget the
massive power or the truth that we ourselves were handling. So, it brings us to this peculiar
quotient where we then know not what we are doing because forgetting our power does not
negate it. The only thing that it does is that it makes us more and more unaware of how
inadvertently we are manufacturing our reality. Power does not diminish, your non-acknowledging

of the power simply makes you ignorant and ignorance can be blissful but it is not an excuse.
That is exactly what has been happening to us.
So the moment we chose to forget our power we now got saddled with the duality of the light and
the dark and we make choices, sometimes based on the light and sometimes based on the dark.
Those choices have started coming back to us in the form of an environment, which is pushing
us towards either pain or pleasure. And since this entire exercise is simply about reconnecting
back to the power that you had, it is all about awakening your memory once again to your huge
truth. The process would start by taking complete responsibility for not only the fantastic things
that happened to you, but also the fact, that if things are not happening in the best way in your
life, they are nothing but a result of darkness, a choice based on a darkness that you have made.
Now the moment you take responsibility for this, you come to a much deeper level of acceptance
with wisdom. Simply because, it is a choice you have made, across time and space.
The beauty is, how does one know whether acceptance of a particular situation is coming from
Wisdom or despondency is something I spoke about maybe three episodes back. How do we
know, whether acceptance of a situation that we are going through is coming from an attitude of
resignation, is it like, ok, I screwed up and now I am suffering and this is my destiny. This is
acceptance with resignation, depression, does not work. Why does it not work? Because the
moment the acceptance comes with this negative charge of helplessness, you are inadvertently
spawning a new helpless reality. That acceptance must come from the premise of aware
ownership that I am going through this because, I have made a choice based on my dark side, I
embrace that fully. And after embracing that fully, I understand that when this environment is
coming back, it is simply coming back for me to understand the wisdom of it. And we know that
we understood the wisdom of it, when the situation changes. This is the most magical part of the
story. The moment you accept a situation in your life, and you accept it with the inherent wisdom
that comes with it, you suddenly discover that the original situation is changing. It no longer
needs to be there because you have nothing to learn.
However, I might add a rider at this stage, this is typically the stage when you are with your
empowered response clearing your backlog of life, not only this life, perhaps across time and
space. The inherent grey area here is, that as you clear the backlog, you are also directly or
indirectly challenging your ego. Why do I say challenging your ego? Simply because you have,
across time and space through the various situations you have manifested, created a personality
type, and archetype, an ego state of your own understanding of yourself. And as you now go
through this backlog getting it cleared, that ego state is under severe threat. That's a slightly
tricky part, because the ego operates purely on familiarity, security and the known. As you start
dismantling the ego state, by changing your response, with acceptance with wisdom, now there is
a moment of great vulnerability for your being because you have cleared the backlog and the
entire brightness, the luminosity of your biggest truth is waiting to emerge. You are classically
now in the zone of emptiness or nothingness, because you have cleared off the backlog, which
defined who you were, and you do now not know what you are. Many of us who are in this
journey intellectually are extremely keen to bring in the divine light into our lives and yet, we are
not prepared to accept the consequences that the light will bring in. We wish for the experience
without being aware of the consequences and one of the first consequences will be a systematic
dismantling of every ego personification of who you have been. So everything you believed to be

completely true for yourself thanks to your conditioning and programming's slowly starts getting
dismantled and then you are in this period of flux, confused, lost, and not really knowing where
the big break through is going to come from.
But there are telltale signs as usual because, the universe is your friend, the universe is your best
friend, just nudging you along, to the big picture and when I come back with the next topic, that is
exactly what I am going to take you through. So once your ego is dismantled for yourself and if
you are feeling lost, feeling confused, do not despair, there are signs and all you need to do is
watch out for those signs and in the next episode I will guide you through the signs that the big
light in you is actually beginning to illuminate your mindset.
It is the fact that we chose Just watch out for those signs, I am coming right back.

Everything in nature operating in a circle and so it is

with human life as well!
January 3, 2011 at 6:37am

My colleagues, my friends, my co-conspirators, I love you all. I am going to talk today on the
eternal loop of life.
If we check this universe around us, we notice everything in nature has its own unique circular
repetitive pattern. whether we are talking about the planets, moving around the sun, whether we
are talking about the milky way galaxy revolving in the universe, whether we are talking about the
play of the seasons, whether we are talking about day following night and night following day. we
have everything in nature operating in a circle and so it is with human life as well!
If you just watch your life right from the time you were born, no matter where you are in your
journey at this moment, you would notice, that there is a certain, peculiar and distinctive loop,
which keeps appearing in your life at periodic intervals of time. Sometimes, the loop is in
relationships, sometime the loop is in the area of finance, sometimes the loop is in the area of
health, sometimes the loop is in the area of your career and it appears with unfailing regularity.
Every time you are in the loop, the loop is a master seducer. It involves you in its charms
completely. You get emotionally entangled with the loop and in that moment of emotional
entanglement; you take decisions, you feel pain, you feel pleasure and then you combat the loop
with your own response pattern. When you come out of the loop, you feel, viola ! I have survived
such a huge whirlpool of my life !!! Thanks god!!! And you are breathing in peace. But the peace
is momentary, it is short lived and the loop comes back. And it comes back and back and back.
When will this ever stop or will it ever stop ?
Well to understand that story, I am sure these words are reverberating and resonating in the
hearts of many people who are watching the video now. There is no way to end the loop other
than learning to love it. So if you check out all the loops that you have gone through, you will
realize that in every loop you demonstrated an emotional pattern of some nature, sometimes of
desperation, sometimes of anger, sometimes of fortitude and you fought your way out of that
loop. Many of us felt that becoming very alert and by becoming very vigilant we could prevent the

loop from happening again. But that response is based on fear because we dread the
consequences of the loop and any response my friends in life which is based on fear is never
ever a permanent solution. So you will invite the loop again, one hundred percent and you will
keep inviting it till, you will find yourself in the loop actually just enjoying the process. Now, for this
process of enjoyment to sink in to the loop there needs to be a very deep conviction, deep down
that there is somebody up there who is watching you and who has sanctioned the loop for you
and all that someone up there wants you to do is to simply enjoy the experience of life. So, if it is
a loop, so be it. Learn to enjoy the experience of the loop. But that can only happen when, we
shift the focus of our response and survival instinct while in the loop to a deep rooted faith in the
Source which says that if the Source is putting me through this loop, I just surrender to that force
and watch the loop play out in my life with love. And the moment you manage to do that, the loop
ends simply because you finished one more vital aspect of life's dictate. The sole purpose of life,
no matter who that personality is, is to be able to embrace all your life's experiences with zero
judgment and complete love. I know the statement sounds very frivolous and the statement also
may shock many purists, who believe that life is an incessant evolutionary charter where we must
strive, struggle, understand, grow and make things happen. Well, for all of them, best of luck. But
what I have noticed, across time and space from people's experiences in life is that the only way
perhaps in my understanding to get out of the loop is to love and enjoy the experience. Now,
what comes in the way of learning and enjoying the experience my friends, is fear - Fear of
consequences. And, having said that, there is only one way to face that fear. One can of course
go in for therapies, sessions etc. but if you are in a position where external help is not available,
then there is one brilliant way to combat your fear. Because I have I think mentioned in several
videos before, the final crux of life just boils down to a very simple two pronged statement - a) Are
you responding to life out of fear? B) Are you responding to life out of love?
The response to life out of love will keep taking you from one experience to another experience
which is exhilarating and this includes even experiences which we think are painful, believe me.
Not only have I gone though these, I have seen many people who go through these loops. You
understand that you managed to crack the loop when you embrace it completely with love.
However, what stands between you loving the experience completely and embracing it one
hundred percent is fear and it is the fear of consequence of your dark side.
So, I am going to link up this video to the next one which essentially will guide you through how to
sit back, understand your fear and then simply develop the courage, the skills and the strength to
face that fear completely on your own. You must understand that at one level you are never
alone. There is a power watching over you, watching everything with a lot of love and all that the
power wants to see is you responding with equal if not greater amount of love and faith. Welcome
to the banishing of fear from your space. I must tell you that every single soul on this planet who
just decides right now, in this very moment to face their fear head on is actually contributing a
huge amount into the quantum shift of consciousness of life for all of us. Let's make the
resolution right now. Best of luck.

If love is deliverance, then fear is the key !

January 18, 2011 at 9:14pm

Alright, so fear is the key! If love is deliverance, then fear is the key.
Let's understand the average human. What are we made up of?
So we have one part of us, which intellectually understands the story of love, love and more love.
There is another part of us, which understands time, space, perceptions and judgments. There is
a third part of us, which stores all our experiences & there is a fourth part of us, which is our
dreams, our aspirations, where is that we want to move ahead in life and it is this strange
concoction of these four things which keeps fashioning our reality on an ongoing basis. Believe
me, my friends, you not only have the power, the ability but you also have the divine grace of
being able to experience what ever it is that you would love to experience in this life.
But for that, the key is to manage your fear. Where do fears come from ?
Remember we are on a planet of duality, where good and bad, light and dark, night and day, high
and low, life and death, right and wrong are inherent to our existence. Any why are these inherent
to our existence? Simply because, it is through this sphere of duality that we learn to make
choices which we love.
So, within us when we make choices based on the light, we manifest a certain consequence and
when we make choices based on certain darkness, we manifest a different consequence. The
only issue is that since at one level we are timeless and space less, the paradigm of light and
dark on earth keeps changing from time to time. And so, in one life, you might have really loved a
certain aspect of what you thought was light and a different time space continuum sometimes in
the same life you actually find yourself resonating completely to the opposite belief and the
moment you start differentiating between the right and the wrong & the light and the dark, the
moment you move towards confusion, lack of clarity or ignorance, you begin your inadvertent
journey towards darkness and its consequences. Now, fear starts making its appearance. So,
fear is nothing but a rejection of the self based on the consequences of an action that you have
made across time and space. And since you didn't like the outcome, now, the same action or
choice, instill in your heart a fear. Nothing right about it, nothing wrong about it. It simply is a
choice and consequence story.
So how do you face this? Very often, these impressions are beyond time and space. There are
instances where you have completely embraced one belief and that belief becomes the cause of
your pain later on. So whenever you have a fear, a very simple way of tackling that fear is to just
close your eyes, and go within your own space and ask yourself a very simple question, "so what
if this fear actually turns out to be true"? So, what will happen to me?
Immediately your mind will give you an answer that this is what would happen, if this fear actually
manifests itself. And once you see, imagine or sense that consequence, ask yourself another
question, so if this is the consequence, in this consequence, what would happen to me? And you
keep pursuing this line, self inquiring, what if, what if and you can do it completely on your own. It
will finally bring you to just one point and that point will have you, you and only you in the story,

no matter from where you choose this entry point. It is finally going to get you just to one spot and
that spot is you, by yourself, with yourself only by yourself and this is the crux.
The moment you reach that point, what you have actually done, is taken your awareness through
the various shades of expressions, various perceptive layers of judgment, through the various
impressions of socio economic conditioning that the world has imposed on you and you have got
your awareness completely entered only in yourself.
Remember a couple of videos back, I spoke about the atom, I spoke about the fact that when
your awareness gets completely centered in yourself you are in the nucleus of your core. So the
moment you are in the nucleus of the core, you cannot but start feeling love for yourself.
The moment you start experiencing and feeling that love for yourself, the love now starts
emanating from your space beaming it out in different corners of your environment and fear starts
disappearing from your life completely. Think about it. It is a time-tested formula.
Whenever you have a fear, remember I am linking two videos now, rules of life tells you that you
are in a loop continuously simply because you are not embracing the experience with love. If you
are not embracing the experience with love, it is probably because there is a fear into it. The way
to face that fear is to go into your space and keep questioning yourself, what would happen to
you if that fear turned out to be real. Keep pursuing that line of enquiry till it brings you down to
only yourself.
The moment it brings you down to only yourself my dear friends, it is but certain that there will be
a huge shift in your inner space. There will be a deep sense of peace a deep sense of calm, a
remarkable stillness and after that stillness love for yourself and from your environment will start
pouring out. And the moment that love starts pouring out it becomes completely possible for you
to then embrace every single experience with love.
Go ahead attempt this one and perhaps it might just change your life like a snap.
Best of luck.

Simple formula to gain control over your

environment and in turn your life
February 14, 2011 at 6:52am

So for a change, I am going to start this one from the reverse. Which means we talk about the
conclusion first and then go back in time because, normally, most presentations, most videos
give you the punch line at the end. So for this particular video, the punch line and I will keep
repeating that punch line many number of times, day after day and night after night, which is
simply the value, the obligation, the madness of loving yourself to madness.

Finally, all we want in life is peace, joy and happiness. In one of the very first videos I had
mentioned that if you love yourself the universe will automatically love you because the universe
will treat you exactly how you will treat yourself.
And yet, when your environment is skewed up, it is difficult. We look for wisdom, we look for
answers, we look for solutions and most of the times we get guidance or we get solutions or we
get answers which actually compel us to take an unfavorable view of ourselves. This, my friends,
at one level is the biggest disservice you could do to yourselves because no wisdom is meant to
take you into dis-integrity. Wisdom is always meant to bring you into integrity and to oneness with
yourself. So, is there a wisdom in understanding that all the pain that I am going through at this
moment of my life is because I have been a huge screw ball before and I have huge karma on my
head and this is a punishment that I am going through and that is the end of the story?
Of course not! Once all this wisdom comes to you directly or indirectly without understanding it
you are getting into the loop of actually judging yourself even more. Rather than becoming a
healing exercise, which takes you into oneness, this conclusion lands up completely taking you
away from what you were.
So, if you are embarking on a quest or an understanding of the "why" in life, I would strongly
recommend of doing it from the premise of first loving yourself completely the way you are.
Because only then, will you understand that you also need to love and embrace the dark part of
yourself. Remember, you are on this planet playing a role and it is a role that you have written for
yourself in consonance with the powers that would be and it is a role technically you are
supposed to love playing. It's just a role! And your job is to love playing that role. If your focus
revolves purely around loving that role without realizing it you will land up going beyond the
judgments of duality you are putting in into your own head for yourself. It is actually making your
story a little more messier than normal. Again loving your role, unconditionally and submitting it to
the powers that are in the universe would also land up making you a very humble person.
Remember, the roles are dispensable, which means you have been selected by this universe to
play a certain role because your ability of fitting into that role with love effortlessly would naturally
make you the ideal person to play that role and the moment you do that lovingly and effortlessly
for yourself. When this happens, your life goes thorough cruise control. No loops and no issues.
The moment you start judging yourself you start creating a loop. The moment you create a loop,
your ability to play out that role is hampered.
I am now coming even further down beyond the first two videos of this series where I spoke
about cracking loops by loving the loops and going even deeper by confronting your fear; beyond
that is the value of unconditional love for the self. Now, if there is unconditional love for the self,
the way you focus and perceive the environment and your ability to generate peace and harmony
in it shoots up dramatically.
Ok, so let us apply this simple formula to relationships, since we all thrive on relationships. Any
relationship as we all understand is based on a give and take story and as long as the give and
take story works very well we are all very happy. The moment the give and take story does not
work well we are jacked and we get jacked because our own expectations in the relationships are
not met. This might be a good idea to perhaps probe a little bit deeper into understanding the

difference between a need and a want. Though this is something I have touched up in my
classes quite a lot but yet I think a deeper understanding of this story holds the key to several
things in life.
Many people have different explanations on what they perceive as a need and a want and I have
a very classical question for people. So, does an aircon in a room a need for people or a want.
Many people say, oh, an air conditioner is definitely a want because it gives you pleasure, that
one can manage without it. A need is what looks after your survival so on an so forth.. but well for
a person for whom if the aircon is not on, the body goes through a great physiological distress,
then the aircon is not a want, it is a need!
A very, very simple way to understand need and want is to realize that the need is linked to pain
and want is linked to pleasure. Which means, that when a need is not fulfilled it generates pain
and when a want is not fulfilled it simply a denial of pleasure.
People can live with denial of pleasures, but people cannot live with pain, which then means that
for any relationship to thrive and if there is a pain in that relationship you must realize that there is
some need of the other person that is not being fulfilled. Now, why are we not able to spot that
need? Simply because, somewhere at one level our own needs are not being fulfilled and since
our needs are not being fulfilled our expectations are not being met, we find ourselves incapable
of spotting the need of the other person. Now, let us see what happens if you follow my formula,
of going and loving yourself to madness unconditionally. The moment you love yourself
unconditionally and fully, directly and indirectly, your own need for self acceptance is over and
when your own need for self acceptance is over, you are not desperate to be accepted by others
because you accept yourself completely. Only then will you be able to understand and neutrally
observe what is the lacuna of the need in the other person. And the moment you observe that,
plugging in that need is a very simple job. The moment you plug that need the relationship starts
thriving. This is a very small example. The same holds true in every area of your life. The
environment has the need, you have the capacity to plug that need. But to be able to plug that
need, you need to have absolutely no need at all. And you will understand that because being a
light in motion on earth you have been endowed with it, with everything that you could possibly
need because you have within yourself all the resources, which you could ever need. All it needs
for you to do is to love yourself to madness to un-tap that and the moment that happens your
ability to plug the need of your environment becomes ridiculously simple.
The easiest way to gain control over your environment and in turn over life is this one simple
formula. Go ahead, try it out and if it works you might not need to see my next video.
Best of luck.

Loving yourself to madness and filling in with it the

needs of all relationships
March 14, 2011 at 3:04pm

Continuing from where we left off last time, on this very important yet very sensitive issue of
needs and wants in life. I concluded the last video with a very brief overview on how in a
relationship the successful fulfillment of the opposite persons need is what the relationship
absolutely effortless and there are many examples of this.
Peoples needs can be very varied, right from survival to security to control, to social acceptance
to self esteem, personal growth, there are types and type of needs and you can have a situation
where a boy and a girl get together and maybe the boy is coming from a slightly financial diffident
background the girl is coming for a very well to do family and then the girl fulfills all the needs for
this boy. He gets stability in life, security is looked after, he gets very comfortable, he gets name
and yet when it comes to lets say a social gathering, because the girl belongs to a completely
different strata of society, whenever they are at a social gathering this person somehow feels out
of place. Chances are very high that this man, would get involved with a very simple girl who will
make this man as the complete centre of the universe. Because, that particular need in this man
was not being fulfilled, though everything was.
So, thats the key. The key is spot the need. Lets look at the relation between you and your child.
A childs needs are very simple. Predominantly the child needs love and the child keeps looking
for this need through a variety of things. So when the child starts doubting the you as a parent
love him or her unconditionally is when the child starts embarking on a series of things to prove
to himself or to herself that you love the child, which is where deviations of behavior in children
come in. So now you have children who are at times misbehaving at home, why are they
misbehaving? Because they are trying to see whether in spite of this misbehavior do you still love
the child ! Sometimes you have children making out rightly outlandish and gregarious demands
for things, for toys. Its such a huge issue and no matter how hard the parents try at times they
find themselves incapable of fulfilling that. Now, does that mean that you should go out of your
way and strip yourself of the money to give to your child? No, what the child is looking for is an
assurance of love. So the next time the child asks you for something which you cannot afford or
you feel is not prudent for the child, the first thing you go and tell the child is that you love the
child. Hold the child close to your heart and say, darling, I love you but this cannot be done at this
time. Always make sure, that you keep reiterating to your child how much you love the child. You
dont have to give in to everything the child says because what the child is looking for is an
assertion of love and that needs to be driven home at every possible opportunity and you will find
a remarkable difference in your childs behavior.
Apply the same model at work. What happens at work? When you dont fulfill an assignment on
time and your boss gets upset, he possibly has a need to appear in good light in front of his boss.
Now that need is not going to get fulfilled simply because you have not been able to do your job
correctly. Now sometimes there are practical stories where you were incapable of fulfilling the
need. But if that is the case, then good communication is about spelling that out straight away. So
if there are something that you are not going to be able to do at work and if you make it very clear
to your boss right in the beginning that this is the need that I cannot fulfill then you leave the boss
with sufficient time to look for an alternative source though which that need can be fulfilled. But if
you dont spell it out and the need is not fulfilled obviously there is going to be chaos.

So the need story is a big story my friends. In fact no bigger story than a loss of a loved one.
Lets talk about how to do we deal with the loss of the loved one in your life. I know as all humans
do, that when you loose a loved person our intellectual self tells us that there is actually nothing
to cry. Because the person has gone back to the source of unconditional love and is going to
have a grand time and yet we feel so much of pain. We feel so much of anguish. We feel such a
huge void. Why are we feeling this void? Simply because, that person who loved you and who is
not there was fulfilling a huge need in your life of love and now with the exit of that person you
have a lacuna. You have a lacuna of attention you have a lacuna of managing your time, you
have a lacuna of love and then it becomes very difficult to cope with loss.
So going back to the start of this two video series when I told you that the key to everything, is,
loving yourself completely. So if you love yourself one hundred percent, then this need from the
environment for love and acceptance would not be there and that would greatly empower you to
actually celebrate death. Because at one level intellectually we all understand is that death is the
ultimate, glorious finality. In one sense and yet our emotional response makes it very often very
painful. The transition from this painful response to a response of love, joy and celebration, will
you actually salute the soul and say, congrats my friend you had a grand time! I loved every
moment of this journey, go ahead your path is now different, live it out king size wherever you are
going.
The ability to develop that response, to deal with loss would naturally come when you plug in all
your needs based on loving yourself completely.
So perhaps, as I am very fond of summarizing, the last three or four videos, in a nutshell, if you
are in a loop of life, learn to love the loop. If you cant love the loop, it is about a fear. If it is about
the fear, confront the fear, till you come down to yourself. When you come down to yourself, you
will learn to love yourself completely that will happen naturally. The moment that happens, your
need to plug in your need from the environment will go down. The moment that happens, your
ability to spot the need in the environment, which you must plug will shoot up and the moment
you do that, life is a win-win situation in every god dam sphere of your life.
Best of luck, enjoy.

Value of prayer
April 18, 2011 at 10:29pm

Hai, so fresh infusion of life, of energy in a connection, which is timeless and space less that I
share with all of you watching this series, welcome back. Not that any of you ever went away, nor
did I, but these period reconnections as we call it, often serve as a beautiful barometer, of
reminding each other of this journey in which we are probably inexorably connected to each
other.
Today, I am going to speak on the value of prayer. A word revered, at times abused, at times
misused and how does prayer fit with our paradigm of our understanding that we are lords and

masters of our own universe. And if that is the case, whom are we praying to? And what are we
praying for? Lets look at this.
So, if we continue with this postulate we are truly in-charge at every point of time, of our lives, of
our destinies and of our universe around us. And within each one of us, is this absolutely magical
power, this power to create, to experience and to experience with joy, which is the process of life.
We come into this world purely for the experience of life with love and joy. Fortunately or
unfortunately when we arrive on this planet and we have a mind which influences us, which
programs us, which conditions us, to expectations, to beliefs to its own unique tutorial of duality
and from here begins the emergence of what I would call as, maybe a module of a mould and a
mould in which you fit in based on the programming that creates you. Now what we are not
realizing here is that this is just the mould, it is not what you are. Because, what you are deep
inside you is the pure essence of creation. But you fit the mould and as time passes by you start
believing that you are the mould. Which means, the kind of thoughts that you process the kind of
emotions that you feel the kind of energies that connect to you and the responses that you
demonstrate in life in given situations can actually become completely predictable because your
identification with the mould is complete. The mould in modern day parlance could be referred to
as your ego, as what you believe as what you are. But at every point my friends you are much
bigger than what you belief. The mould becomes the self-limiting boundary, in which you permit
willingly your consciousness to be trapped. And then what happens? The moment this happens
and the ego personification become strong and you start becoming a personality. You are now no
longer that divine entity which was timeless and space less and which came on this planet for the
experience of life and joy. You have now become an extremely limited personality which is
catering to a specific ego mould, and then, your thoughts become your words, your words
become your actions, your actions become your character and your ego starts getting more and
more fortified, till, in its own unique way at critical junctions in your life, the universe like a very
benevolent parent steps in and cracks the mould.
Believe me my friends the cracking of the mould is at one level is the most painful journey you
could ever encounter. Because when your mould cracks and when the ego gets hurt every single
thing that you believed about yourself to be true, to be sacrosanct, to be sacred, to be holy, to be
larger than thou, suddenly, starts falling in front of your eyes and you feel so vulnerable so
helpless and so much out of control. This is a very painful process, the cracking of the mould.
Now understand that the cracking of the mould is very similar to the cracking of the cocoon that
happens when a caterpillar is going to emerge as a butterfly. As this mould cracks, and pain
comes in, a kind of peculiar helplessness creeps you, and then, some force within you starts just
surrendering, giving up, which is what I call as prayer.
Most of us get into the prayer mode as a product of pain. Most of us get into a prayer mode as a
product of mould already cracked and when we get into the prayer mode we are shifting our
awareness or our consciousness from that broken mould, to the pure essence of creation that
you actually are. So, in short when you are praying my friends, you are praying to your own
purest consciousness. You are praying to that part of you which is free from programming which
is free from conditioning which is free from judgment which just accepts you exactly for what you
are and guides you deep down. This pure consciousness guides you to the true reason of your

journey, the true purpose of your incarnation. In short, a heightened degree of self awareness,
which then makes prayer a powerful tool, a powerful tool of self surrender to the purest form that
you represent.
However, I must add, that this tool is fraught with risk and danger, a danger of having your mould
broken, going down into a surrender mode perhaps getting a heightened degree of awareness
and then in the bargain laying out the framework for an even bigger, a huger a more complex
mould.
So, is there a practical route is there a method is there a technique, is there something that we
can do whereby which, we stop, we break this self limiting and self defeating cycle of the ego
getting hurt, we going into prayer, into surrender, coming to a different awareness taking to a
different level, is there an answer? Yes, we have an answer, and we will follow it up in the next
video.

Breaking of the mould "ego" & prayer

May 16, 2011 at 9:22pm

Hi, oh it feels good; it feels good to connect back, sitting in front of this camera, reaching out to
my extended family. It has been perhaps close to a year or maybe a little more than that, since
we started this facebook exercise. We did with the concept of trying to facilitate a spread of this
way of life to people beyond our workshops, talks etc. and very interestingly whenever I have
contemplated that maybe I have done my bit and I should take a break from this, its amazing to
see how the universe, in its own crazy way, sends me a very gentle reminder, to tell me that the
show must go on.
So just a very quick two-minute on the last affirmation I got on this, about ten days back, I was in
Dubai. The last video I had shot was ready for upload, I got Vasus message, he is the person
handling this whole program, and I was thinking, ya, maybe we have done enough, we ran this
for a year, touched peoples lives, I should maybe now take a sabbatical from this exercise and
almost bizarrely this happened at 5:45 in the evening, I leave my workshop at 6:00 pm, I am on
the foot path, this is in an alien country, a different city, and I am just walking on the foot path, car
comes stop, a person gets down, I dont know this person, comes right in front of my life, asks me
if I was the Yuvraj who does the videos, and I am a little psyched, because it is very bizarre to
have an know an unknown person in an unknown country just walking up to you and talking to
you like this! Then he tells me I havent done any workshops of yours and I havent done any
spiritual programs but somehow I have just been following your videos for a year and they have
completely changed my life, in and out. So, I was driving on the road, on instinct, I turned, saw
your face and thought, it is an excellent time to tell you that it is great work, please, fantastic, and
for me, I felt so small, so humble, humbled, I would say, simply because this is the universe
telling me in no uncertain terms, telling me, dude it is not you, you are chosen as a channel for
something to flow into the universe, what gives you the right to even think that you are the one
doing it, so you are the one who needs to take a break! Thats coming from your ego!

So, lets go to the ego. The human mind as we all know, is this one huge sponge, and it is this
sponge which keeps soaking in believes, experiences, realities and through that process, each
one of us develops a mould of a certain behavior, or a certain way of living, through which we
identify ourselves, which is our ego.
So if I were to give a very complicated definition of the ego, it would be, just the position of all
the experiences we go through along with the intertwined emotional interplay that comes out of it
which we then choose as core believes to identify ourselves with. Of course, these are the usual,
because, they come from the world. But we choose to believe them and then the moment we
make them as our belief, as long as our life moves with that belief we are living. And then
sometimes, we get a punch, sometimes we get a hard knock and the mould suddenly crashes.
The crashing of the mould is perhaps one of the most challenging moments in a persons life.
Why is it challenging?
Because, every single thing, which you believed was you, you were told this by your parents, by
your system, by your family, by your education, by your job, by your boss and suddenly one fine
day, its not working! You feel you are the same person and yet its not working. The mould begins
to crack! The cracking of the mould could be either a very very, painful journey or it can be a
moment of great divine revelation. In both situations, the cracking of the mould brings you to your
knees. It brings you to your knees, either in pain or it brings you to your knees by reverence,
humility & wisdom.
The cracking of the mould compels you to pray. So, whenever in life you are in great pain, your
ego is getting shattered, the mask that you are wearing in your interplay with your universe is
systematically being dismantled and that is the time you seek the benevolence of prayer and
when you are praying and when you are on your knees, you are essentially relating to that part of
yourself which is free from all this drama.
Now in your minds because of your upbringing, because of your associations you may give
shapes names and images to this purity of consciousness. So for some of us when we pray, we
pray to our masters. For some of us when we pray, we pray to our spirit guides, for some of us
when we pray, we pray to our angles, for many of us, when we pray, we pray to the divine.
My question is who is this divine that you are praying to? So that divine is nothing but the purest
form of your own consciousness. Its you, confronting you without your drama. So whenever you
are praying, you are seeking to establish a bond with the purest form of your being hoping that
through that association, through that chord, through that connection, that purity of
consciousness gets seeded into your core space. The greater the degree of purity of
consciousness, in your core space, the more transparent your life is, and the more transparent
your life is, the greater is the ease with which you will look beyond the illusions of life and the
greater these with which you look beyond the illusions of life the greater is the degree of mastery
that you achieve over your day to day living.
So, for this particular series of videos that is what I am going to focus on, this video is like an
intro, an intro of going beyond your ego, its like an intro of going down in prayer and confronting
yourself without your drama. Its like an intro to a process which will gradually bring you to an
understanding that the light is not out there, it is all in here and if the light is all in here how do I
get the awareness to just be in it so that I am a complete and replete light being. A light being

whose belief manifests his choice of reality around him. I just hope, wish, pray and of course
completely believe that this journey will be as exciting for you as the previous ones have been.
Good luck....

Power of just being - being yourself

June 13, 2011 at 11:26am

Hi, In continuation to the previous topic, power of prayer and the beautiful and unique association
one develops with their purest consciousness when their ego breaks down and you come down
on your knees, looking for clarity, looking for guidance!
Leading on from there, lets go into the power of just being. Being by yourself!
As we go through this, I am also probably going to address, all those people who have a huge
fear of being lonely. I think there are large numbers out there in the universe.
If we are truly the lords and masters of our own universe and forgotten this fact. We have
forgotten that we are the artists who have painted the canvas of our own reality and now we are
so engrossed in that reality, we are so engrossed in the externalization of this world that we have
completely forgotten the fact that it is we, with our complete awareness and consciousness have
created this story and unfortunately we now we let the story define our reality. We have lost the
power to the story.
Well, this happens with everybody. As mentioned in the previous episode, the MIND is a very
fertile sponge, it picks up everything it sees from the universe, in the environment and even
worse starts believing it to be true! Then the personality that you are, gets defined completely by
the experiences that your universe puts you through. Which means, what you get told by friends,
by your parents, by your partners, by your children, by your well-wishers completely becomes
your understanding of their truth. Tragically you start believing it. When you start believing it to
the point of complete disillusionment is when the universe will step in and systematically
dismantle that program and start making you feel very lonely.
Loneliness my friends, is the universes way of telling you, that you need to spend time with
yourself. Why do you need to spend time with yourself ? Simply because, in the universes
parameter of consciousness, you have crossed, the threshold of the illusion. Now, if you can do
this on your own which means, you may be with your family, you maybe with your career,
whatever, but if periodically you can understand that you must take time out for yourself, just be
with yourself, be quiet, introspect, watch and observe, believe me, you will be able to spot the
superimposed truths and postulates very easily, which is what the universe expects you to do!
So people who go into these spaces of silence, for people who voluntarily withdraw into their own
universe, they are able to do this effortlessly simply because they completely understand that the
absence of the environment externally in their universe is an excellent opportunity for them to

contemplate, reflect, reclaim their mastery on the colours of the universe and paint a different
picture.
Unfortunately most of us wait till this becomes painful and when it becomes painful is when the
universe will step in and dismantle everything you believe to be true around you so that you will
once again bow down on your knees go into prayer, go into surrender and come through the
route of pain into understanding your own truth.
So the choice is very clear my friends, you know there are so many people who take time out to
do a vipaasana program, ten days of silence, there are people who meditate everyday, what is
the objective of this exercise? The objective is not anything in the external world, it is simply to go
back and reclaim your mastery on your truth, because, it is that truth through which you are
defining your reality. It is that truth through with you can create whatever you want, but you need
the awareness to go there. When that does not happen, the universe will necessarily confront
you, which you will then label as your fear of loneliness because then you have absolutely no
choice !
So going back to what happens when the ego breaks and you come down on your knees and
you either do that out of pain and surrender or you do that out of humility or grace. When you do
that out of pain and surrender you confront the darker side of your loneliness, the end result with
still be the same. You will still understand within yourself, what is your truth, because everything
outside is a painting? When you dont do that pro-actively, there is pain.
On the other hand if, a defined day of the week, maybe a defined hour of the day or maybe once
a month, whatever frequency suits you, take your own time out to be with yourself. Because
when you are with yourself it will be very easy for you to separate the observer in you from the
doer. The doer in you is the one who is constantly in the drama. The doer in you is who is
teaching. The doer in you is who is working. The doer in you is who is cooking. The doer in you is
who is interacting continuously with the environment. How much time are you giving to the
observer in you? If you can do this pro-actively, believe me, you will be doing yourself one big
favor! Because the moment you take time out proactively and become the observer, you can start
seeing the intent with which you created your drama, and when you start seeing the intent with
which you created your drama; it now becomes possible to re-write a different intent.
Or would you be interested for cycles and cycles of life and death to recreate the same story, over
and over again till you are completely fed up of it!
The choice remains yours, you can either do this proactive, use this as a starting program, right
here and right now decide what is the time either in a day or in a week or in a fortnight or in a
month that you will give just for yourself to watch. And when you do that the next subject which is
getting linked to the this one will be very clear because you will completely understand the truth
within yourself.
Once you do this giving it a suitable expression, will become effortless.

Remember the entire series on this facebook is only to facilitate the process of life mastery. It is
to bring you to actually experience what intellectually we all know that life is a beautiful journey to
be embraced with joy, peace and abundance. If you are experiencing anything other than that, it
is time to do a double check.

A wake up call to shift from an aware actor to a

director and then a producer... sent by the universe
July 10, 2011 at 10:54pm

Alright, here it is! This is a big one!

It is a simple thought, something I have been toying with for the last six months, I have introduced
this in my courses of late and perhaps it is time for it to go out into the universe.
So if we are contemplative, if we are silent and if we take time out to be with ourselves, what are
we going to discover through this process? What we are going to discover, is that, in this world of
duality since we keep swinging between two extremes, of pain and pleasure, joy and sorrow, love
and fear, light and dark, night and day, the key origin to this belief comes from the fact that we
always see the light, the truth, the wisdom as some efermal being out there! The moment you
start seeing light outside of your space, you are by your own volition creating a dark shadow,
which only you will be able to watch.
Imagine you are standing just below a light bulb and looking at the light above you and then when
you look down below you, you will see a shadow of yourself which is dark. So your decision to
see outside of you, now makes you the creator of your unique model of duality which is light and
dark! So when you see the light outside, you will see the darkness outside too and then your
awareness is in the game, constantly moving towards the light and falling back to the darkness &
moving into the light and falling back into the darkness and you will incarnate one more time so
that what you believed was light later becomes dark and what you believe was dark later
becomes light and the drama will continue for ever. Believe me friends you have no hope! It is a
brutal statement, but well, common sense will tell you that.
So, check time! How do you beat that?
You beat that by understanding that all the light is inside your space. All the light is within you and
what keeps you away from this light are the layers and layers of emotional dramas that you have
surrounded this light with and unfortunately within that light is the wisdom of every single bit of
reality that you have created outside of you. Now here is the big joke, in the light inside you is
where the wisdom lies, in the light inside you is the truth of your being and that truth is what is
sanctioning the outside. It is sanctioning your environment. You of course are blissfully unaware
of this because your awareness is already in the outside! Then since the outside gives you so
much of pain the pain because a huge wall which prevents you from accessing the truth.
Please remember the very fact that an event is happening in your life proves that there is a divine
sanction in which you have sanctioned in it. For the nth time stop the blame crap! Because you

are sanctioning every single minute of your life for yourself. Yes, you may have a vicarious
interest in it, that is not the point. But stop the blame crap simply because nothing in your life can
happen unless you have a vicarious interest in it. Granted, the vicarious interest is there, you
cannot figure it out. Now you challenge your emotional dramas.
To challenge the emotional dramas you need isolation. You need stillness you need silence. So
whenever you move into a zone of contemplation whenever you move into your own quite space,
the only thing you need to do is challenge your emotional drama. Identify it, feel it, experience it
in the body and let it pass. Once you let that pass, you will experience an amazing lightness,
which is the light of your soul. There are no answers to get anywhere from this universe because
the answers are in your own space. The universe will give you answers that will reflect your own
truth.
So, if you can deal in your moment of stillness, your moment of contemplation, just pick up a
strong emotion feel it in the body, let it pass. The moment the emotion passes there will be a
lightness, this is the lightness of your soul. In that lightness, just ask yourself this question why is
this happening to me? The answer becomes very obvious. The moment the answer becomes
very obvious, you now have a choice, absolute choice to start sowing the seeds of a different
drama.
Remember, as long as you are on this planet, you have taken it upon yourself to play this drama
out. Remember, you are your own production manager, you are your own director and you are
your own actor. All this while through centuries of life and death, you have played the unaware
actor. Now you are perhaps moving through this video and this video can well be the starting
point of that, you are perhaps moving from the actor who is aware to a directors role to direct the
reality in which you are and when you master the inner journey of contemplation, the power of
production naturally comes into your hand. And I sense very strong, most of the people who have
been on this journey of facebook with me over the last one year are now moving to a zone, to a
time, where they are empowered enough to start moving into production. You played the actor
out, you took responsibility for it, you changed your response, its now perhaps time, to change
your reality.
Its a wake up call. For some of you, maybe, it will resonate in a different time and space in your
heart as something you have heard before somewhere. Because the only job that I am doing, is
reminding you, thats it. I am nobody else other than a reminder, a reminder, a wake up call, and
a knock on your awareness door sent by the universe just for you. Enjoy your wake up!

Intelligence and Intuition; Reaction and Response

July 24, 2011 at 9:56pm

Hi, down to this date, its been a journey of nearly one and a half years since we started this face
book exercise, a journey, which seems to have no end station. No end destination, simply
because there is no destination. As we keep saying in life, the entire process is the journey. So,

here we are once again with another segment, another station on this journey leading to where
ever you want this to go.
This time, in this particular video, I am picking up a subject and abide briefly on what has been a
classical conflict through centuries of our evolution which is just how much in life to use our logic
do we use our intelligence to use the power that we have been given discern and make logical
choices in life, which means choices which are based purely on our critical intellectual self. And
how much do we subscribe to this deep down, instinctual gut feel, which tells you that this is what
you must be doing! And this is a very old conflict and not one, not two, millions of people have
periodically gone through this crossroads in life where one part of them intuitively just knows that
is what they should be doing and this is what they love to do and yet on the other hand is the
harsh reality of the logical world which is otherwise questioning what in your own heart you know
exactly works for you. So how does one get beyond this conflict or is it a conflict to start with?
Well in my own assessment frankly, there is no conflict, simply because its a merger, its a union,
its a melting pot of two energies which will eventually get you to ascended mastery in life.
And so on the one hand though for sure there is an intuitive part in us which deep down just
knows, knows intuitively at a soul level about what exactly it is that will fire our space, what
exactly it is that will shoot us up, which will completely transform our reality. And yet on the other
hand we have been blessed with choice and that blessing one level is the responsibility. It is the
responsibility we have to ourselves to take decisions, which will work not only for us but will work
for the universe in which we function as well.
And so for the first time since the time we started these videos I am going to introduce a very
simple body posture, which will actually guide you through this process. It is something I have
never done before but it is something, which works with remarkable accuracy. I think in one of the
previous video, I have mentioned before that how the story to life mastery is all about your
intelligence marrying your intuition. And for this marriage to occur how it is so vitally important
that you move beyond the distortions of your own ego and your own para-toxic experiences. In
fact, I think about two videos back we spoke on the power of prayer and how it comes up when
we break the mould of the ego. But now I am going to give you a very very simple technique on
how we actually merge our intelligence with our intuition for virtually anything that it is that we
would wish to do in life.
So remember, all life starts from willful choice, because you have a choice of how you wish to
respond in life. The difference between a reaction and a response; a reaction is something that
you cannot control, it is pre-ordained, pre-determined spontaneous and very often when you
react in life to a certain situation you say, Oh, why in hells name did I do that! Now that is a
reaction that is not a response. A response has a modicum of your will in it. Which means in life,
whenever you are faced with a variety of situations and you need to choose how you would like to
respond, you first do a cost benefit, logical analysis of each of those responses. Now for this you
need to involve your logical self, your conscious mind, your left brain, your cerebral side and the
posture of your body for involving or invoking your cerebral side is the absolutely erect posture.
So whenever you have in life choices you need to make you first sit straight keep your head
absolutely still and upright and logically think of all the choices of response that are available to

you at this moment. When we speak of logic here we are talking typically of cost benefit ratio,
which means that exhibiting a certain response what is the response going to cost you and what
will be your benefit once you demonstrate that response. This is a completely logical exercise,
which you can do with pen and paper. So you sit upright, keep your head still and go through in
your mind all the possible responses that you like to demonstrate logically and test which out of
these gives you the best return.
Now, the next important question, is this the response that intuitively you should be
demonstrating?
For this, you need to get in touch with your intuition. Your intuition is in the central part of your
MIND, which is in the pit of your stomach. So the moment you make up your mind saying ok, this
seems to be the best logical option for me at this moment in time in terms of my response you
test this through the filter of your intuition and you do it by closing your eyes and gently bowing
your head down so that your chin moves towards the chest, all the way down.
Now take that response think about it and push your head down slowly towards your chest slowly
and as you slowly do that you will push the energy of that response into the pit of your stomach
which is the area of your intuition and immediately check how does your stomach feel. If your
stomach feels absolutely fine and settled with processing that thought your intuition is sanctioning
your intelligent choice. Pursue it with everything you can. But, if by doing this exercise, suddenly
when you put your head down, have you noticed how you pray? You never pray with your head
held high. You always pray with your head bowed inside because that is the time you are trying to
get in touch with the intuitive part of the divine self in you. So, push it down check how you are
feeling in the pit of the stomach and if the stomach sanctions it by all means go ahead put your
best foot forward. If the stomach starts rumbling, some queasy funny feeling starts coming up,
that is the intuition telling you it is not the way you need to go, bring your head right back up look
at the next logical option that is available to you. You keep going through this till you find the right
option, which matches your logic and your intuition and that should be your next step in life.
Remember, we all have a big picture in our MIND quite clearly. What we are not sure of is our
next immediate step. Start doing this with this exercise wherever you are in life right now, what is
your next immediate step.
Best of luck.

Who am I?
August 30, 2011 at 7:18am

Hello once again a new look to an old question! Who am I?

A question that has flaboxed people across time and space, a question that has probably, got
more books on spirituality written than any other topic ever before and yet the quest continues

Throughout this video series since I am a Hypnotherapist and there are several topics that I have
spoken about that deal with the human MIND. It was time to introspect, time to reflect and to
examine from which paradigm of awareness are we going through this whole story and then
could realize that you are something more than this body and you are definitely much more than
you MIND, your consciousness, your awareness. And from several philosophical perspectives
you are divine which automatically means that you are complete. And yet across time and space
across cycles of life and death you are caught up in this in-explicable web of voids, of
incompletion constantly trying to discover your completion. See how absurd it sounds. So here is
completion trying to discover its own completion, how bizarre can that get, and why is the game
structured in this format? Simply because this is a game being played by your awareness! I can
give you several models to this.
So lets look at a person who is sitting and working on a computer system. First question, is the
person the actual computer, the hardware? The answer is no. The computer is the hardware that
the person is utilizing to execute a certain task to make life and existence easy. Your body is like
that computer. Are you the body? The answer is no. The body is a tool given to you for executing
a certain task. This brings me to the next question, you maybe hardware professional and you
may identify with the hardware of the computer system, does that make you the hardware? No,
you are the specialist who understands the hardware, you are not the hardware. Similarly, you
are not the body, you maybe the specialist who understands the body and then on the other
hand, there are the software professionals, and see the MIND as the operating software which
again, are you the software? Again the answer is no, you are not the software, it is simply a
program that is given to operate the hardware. Similarly the MIND is a program that is given to
you to understand the functioning of the hardware. The MIND operates the body in a dynamic
interaction, which is exactly what happens between the software program of the computer and
the hardware. The question is Are you the hardware? The answer is NO. You are the
individual sitting outside and operating the hardware to get a certain desired and favorable result.
That self is your consciousness.
So the consciousness decides how you utilize your software and hardware to understand and
enjoy this entire game of life that you are playing.
The question now becomes, this awareness of yours that is flipping between three states
constantly, so at some point of time your awareness gets into the body and you start believing
that you are the body. This is the time when the predominant thoughts in your software are
completely related to your money to food, to sex and all those things that keep your physical body
going and then of course at different times your awareness moves from the body to the MIND
and that is the time you start questioning your emotions, your feelings, your dramas. The
introspector within you becomes awake, sometimes. That is when the awareness is going into the
drama of your MIND. Are you the drama? The answer is NO. At that point of time your
awareness is in the drama. Then there are moments when you are outside the body, you are
outside the MIND and you are complete. When you are only watching like an observer the drama
that is being played out between your MIND and your body. This self is the complete self. So,
when you are operating out of the complete self you are able to observe whatever is happening
in your MIND and your body very dispassionately.

There is a very simple exercise that tells you where your awareness is at any given point of time.
This is a very popular parable that the Buddha has quoted. So, in one of his meetings with his
disciples, the Buddha mentioned that there are four types of horses in this world.
There are horses where even if you whip the horse it keeps standing where ever it is. In fact the
more you whip the horse the more the horse becomes resistant and doesnt move at all, till
probably the horse breaks down.
The second category of horses are those who when they get whipped move forward. But they still
need the whip. They need it on themselves to be able to move forward in life.
The third categories of horses are those who merely hear the crack of the whip and decide to
move forward.
The last category is the ones who see the shadow of the whip and moves forward on its own.
What kind of horse are you?
This is telling you where your awareness is in life. So if you are horse in the first category, then
your awareness is completely in the body. You are stubborn and you will not move till your body
breaks down. And when your body breaks down you will then perhaps try to get it rectified but will
continue to remain in the same game.
#2. If you are in the next category of horses, where the whip has to hit you for you to move, the
awareness has partially moved to the MIND where pain becomes the propagator of growth in life.
So when ever you feel pain, you start questioning and saying why am I going through this pain
and then you start looking for answers and then maybe you will move your butt forward a little bit
in life but you still need the whip. The awareness has moved a little bit from the body to the
MIND.
If you are in the third category, which means the crack of the whip makes you move, the
awareness is moving beyond the MIND but is still partially in it. Which means that part of you
which is aware of whats happening in the environment is able to get the first pangs of pain and
say, oh this is not my story and you make a shift.
Of course, if the awareness is completely in the self, which is complete, the shadow of the whip is
good enough for you. Because you are neither in the body nor in the MIND, the self is just
deciding to move on a cycle of completion. From one complete state to another complete state.
Question for omination, what kind of horse are you?

E-Motion & the art of manifestation - for a true lord

and master of his/her own universe
September 18, 2011 at 1:16pm

At the conclusion of this series, if I am what I am and that is what I am and I am the complete lord
and master of the universe at every point of time then it is also my birth right to be complete, to
be in harmony to be in love and to be at peace all the time.
Which then brings us to, how do I get there? One more crazy paradox! Lets look at the role of
emotions in our story.
A very careful look at the work emotion will reveal two very clear aspects to it. The letter e and
the word motion. Emotion thus becomes energy in motion.
So every emotion that you feel is energy in motion that plays a vital part in the creative aspect of
this universe. Every single movement which is focused on manifestation on getting whatever it is
that you would love in life bases its entire approach on this one simple truth, that if you are
passionate about what you want to experience in your life, it will happen. Simply because you will
unleash an energy in motion and make it happen creatively for you to experience in your life.
So lets take one step back and rewind. So you are where you are because you are in an
environment that is the result of something that you yourself have created before. So, whatever it
is that you are experiencing in your world, around you, whether good, whether bad or ugly is
nothing but the manifested part of a previously experienced emotion and it is your own
responsibility. The question now is that if this is something that you yourself has created and you
have taken ownership of it because it is your creation how you now respond to it will determine
how long you stay in it !
So, if I am in a certain situation and I now use the energy of my motion which is emotion to react
to that situation then I impart more of my energy to the situation and that keeps the situation alive
and manifested. So the more you react with an emotion to a situation the more you are
guaranteed that the situation will continue to stay because you are dissipating some more of your
energy in keeping the reality alive. It is a reality that you willfully or otherwise across time and
space have manifested.
You have a choice. So instead of reacting to the situation with an emotion if you choose to be still
then what happens ? When you are still in a situation you are withdrawing or rather you are
holding your energies in complete integrity with yourselves in that moment.
When your energies are in complete integrity with yourselves, in the moment you now empower
the creative aspect of your emotion and not the reactive aspect.
Your emotions have two aspects to it. There is always a creative aspect there is always a reactive
aspect. The creative aspect of your emotion, which is love, creates a reality for you. The reactive
aspect of your emotion, which is every other emotion that you experience, keeps you in the reality
that you yourself have created.
So if there is something which you truly wish to now complete your experience with, the first
learning in the game is learn not to react. Watch it, it is your own creation which is unwinding
itself. Dont a layer of your own energy to it, because that will simply keep it alive for a longer
period of time. Hold yourself back. When you hold yourself back, and you could do this with this

understanding, that if I have unleashed this, it will reach its own end point. Now when you hold
yourself back, your energies are complete, you can now willfully use emotion as energy of
creation and this is where you start creating another reality which is based on whatever it is that
you would love to do.
To be able to do this, it is absolutely vital that you touch base with the inner peace. You touch
base with that space in yourself that space of nothingness in which creation happens.
All creation has happened out of nothingness. A nothingness that had no ego, a nothingness that
had no presence and from that nothingness, through the energy of motion or emotion, love, came
the universe of creation. So whenever you want to create a new reality for yourself go back into
that nothingness, connect to that inner silence, that inner peace. The environment is seductive; it
will keep triggering a response. Hold yourself back saying, I wrote this drama, I know it. Chill, I
am just going to go back inside and start working quietly on a new script. The moment you touch
base with the inner peace, suddenly it is so much easier, for the energy of your motion to start
writing a new story.
A very simple exercise which is being suggested and which you may choose to follow if it suits
you is whenever you wish to touch this inner nothingness think or imagine yourself as this
small human on this huge planet which is rotating, revolving around the sun and just see how
much of nothingness you are in. Here is the tiny you, on this big planet and this big planet is
rotating on its own, and it is only the gravity that is keeping you on it. Then in this vast solar
system you have this huge planet that is so heavy going in its own orbit around the sun, again
with the attraction of the sun. You are the tiny spec in this whole story. Go into that space see that
happening and you will realize how easy it is for you to get lost in the vastness of nothingness. In
this vastness of nothingness when you unleash a fresh cycle of emotions you become once
again proactively, the creator, the lord and the master of a new reality that you would love to
experience.
Remember my friends, completion is what you are and completion is what you are here to
experience. You are on your journey of experiencing who you truly are. Best of luck.

37 - You are your consciousness

October 30, 2011 at 10:54pm

Hi and welcome back. One of the themes I had picked up in the last or the last but one video was
this focus on the eternal question, Who am I? In that video we sought to understand this model
by realizing that we are awareness zipping through our body, mind and our soul.
Today, in this video I can perhaps give you a different analogy, a different paradigm to the same
question. You might be thinking why do we need a different paradigm? Very simply because, as
many souls that there are on this planet there are those many paradigms to this same question.
No amount of approaches can ever be enough to cover all of that. So, I do not know for which
person, for which soul watching this video this paradigm might work. But then, if it does, then it is
your moment in destiny.

So, if we look at life, if we look at awareness, if we look at the entire interplay of the universe it is
a play of the divine consciousness, divine awareness, this mass of potent, explosive complete
energy which is in play through each one of us. It is like an ocean, an abundant ocean. Lets
understand what happens with an ocean.
So, we have an ocean of water, it is a very, very large water body, sometimes it is still, sometimes
it is turbulent sometimes it is choppy sometimes it is serene. and yet it remains the ocean. And
then the sun shines bright on the ocean and a few droplets of water from the ocean start getting
converted into vapour, a different form, a different existence, albeit for a short period of time.
Then this vapour rises going even higher up where it condenses into a droplet. Albeit for a short
period of time a different existence. Several droplets get together to form a cloud. The essence of
the water is not changing. What is changing is its form and the way its flowing. Once it is in the
cloud, it is waiting and when the cloud bursts at different point of time to form droplets of rain and
the same water is now coming back to earth in a different form and when it strikes the ground
and several of them strike the ground it forms maybe a rivulet or a stream or a river or any other
water body which is flowing and eventually this rivulet, this river, this stream finds its way back
into the ocean. So it is with all of us as consciousness because that is all that we are.
In the unified magnified form each one of us is the spec of that vast ocean. When we begin our
journeys of life we go through metamorphosis we go through transformations, we start
evaporating we become vapour . Well vapour our truth? Yes, it is but for a transient moment of
time. It is not an eternal truth for you. It is a truth in that moment for you to experience completely
whatever vapour is because in another moment and in another life, this vapour will condense and
become a drop. Again the question, is the drop your truth? The answer is yes. For that moment it
is your truth, just for that moment and that does not make your identity of vapour as incorrect
because that was a truth in a different moment. And when all these vapour droplets coalesce and
form a cloud your identity now is the cloud! Is that the truth? Well, it is, for that moment of time.
And when the cloud bursts and you start falling back to the earth as raindrops, is that your truth?
Answer is yes, but only for that moment of time. And when you hit the ground and you become a
rivulet or a stream or a river, is that your truth? Yes, it is! For that moment of time till you find
yourself back in the vast ocean that can be calm or serene, choppy or quiet. What does this tell
you?
It tells you that throughout your existence through different lives you are playing identities, which
at one level define who you are in that moment. But that is all there is. There is nothing beyond
that nothing before that. It is the identity of the moment. And in the next moment in another life it
is another identity.
What is the unbeatable truth, what is the one eternal truth throughout this whole story is that you
are consciousness that doesnt change.
So, in life after life what doesnt change is the one truth that you are consciousness and this
consciousness through different jackets or different identities is seeking to experience something.
So, you are that part of the divine consciousness which is simply in a lifetime or in a moment
experiencing a certain truth on behalf of the divine. That does not define you forever its not going

to last for ever. Of course it is a different issue that since as consciousness personified. The
power of the divine lies with us as well. So as we are going through a certain identity the moment
our awareness shifts from the essence of the consciousness that we are into the essence of the
identity that we are playing we give birth to our ego and we are now truly seduced by the game of
life. Because all ego is the awareness shifting out of the divine essence within you into an identity
that you think you own an identity that you think you belong, an identity you think defines you! But
there is no bigger illusion than this!
Since we have the power of divine in us, when we identify ourselves with that identity, we take
decisions; we formulate patters that become the recusant cause for issues, which keep
appearing in our lives, over and over again. Our quest for an identity an identity truly does not
exist, because at the end of it all we are merely one part of an ocean. No ego, no self and yet the
complete self!
Digest this; it is a tricky concept, not very easy. Probably in the next couple of videos I will focus a
little bit on how when we have identified with this temporary identity and let out the power of
divine within us into the universe we land up with a series of filters attracting things in our lives
which we later do not follow and often become the cause for us to listen to videos like this!
Happy listening thank you.

38 Happy discerning
December 22, 2011 at 6:37am

Continuing with the analogy of the ocean, which I touched upon in the last video and the concept
of the identity model I spoke about. Lets see what happens when water flows.
Water can flow through a pipe of a certain diameter and that pipe will give this water a direction, a
pressure, a magnitude or a force. As long as the water, which is flowing through this pipe,
understands that its only job is to flow through the pipe and does not focus on the pipe through
which it is flowing, it can remain independent of the identity that it is playing.
But unfortunately, we only identify ourselves through our boundaries!
So as water is flowing through a pipe and its starts understanding through itself through the pipe
and not through its flow, we now start getting a completely different dimension to life. So, there is
certain body of water flowing through the pipe of one dimension and then there is another body of
water flowing through the pipe of a different dimension and the moment we observe that the
water flowing though the pipe of different dimension, we judge. And we judge simply because, we
have associated our identity through the pipe through which we are flowing.
Now judging by itself on this planet is not an issue. However, if we understand that water flowing
through any pipe of any diameter intrinsically is coming from the same ocean, and then you
realize that the divine essence that is flowing through you is also the divine essence that is

flowing through the much larger pipe. You have also been blessed with the power of emotion,
which is the power of creation because emotion is energy in motion.
So the moment you come to the judgment of water flowing through the broader pipe and you
have an emotional charge to it, it is almost certain that you will attract this in your universe.
So all those of you who are wondering why am I attracting this in my universe what you have to
figure out is that at some point of time in a different identity, in a different pipe you have judged
with emotion, an other pipe and another flow. Since that pipe and that flow is also divine, the
moment you judge it with an emotion you are underwriting a contract to experience it for yourself.
Golden dictum in life at this moment, what you judge is what you will attract ! Nobody has been
able to escape this. Discerning is not an issue.
So, if you understand that you are at a crossroad in life, there are two rules, there are two people,
there are two situations and you naturally flow into one direction and you are discerning that it is
that direction through which you must flow, that is fine, as long as you dont subscribe an
emotional charge to the negation of the other direction. This is very vital and difference between
discerning and judgment. We cannot undo history, but with understanding and comprehension
what we can definitely do is alter the consequences of history. Whatever it is that you are facing
at this moment is a result of the judgment that you have made with emotion which is coming right
back into your universe compelling you through pain or pleasure to accept it with love because it
is as divine as your own essence. If you understand that and if in this very moment you resolve
totally and completely that after this moment of time onwards you have the right to discern but do
not judge with an emotion you will be saving yourself from a lot of pain in this life time and in
future life times.
Difficult, but if you keep reminding yourself about this, if you keep reminding about yourself the
fact that the other choice, the other person and the other situation is inherently as divine as you
are, you will be able to do this. If you cant do it on an ongoing basis on things that are coming
into you, at least apply right now where you are. Do a very, very simple exercise; just take a
pencil and a paper, note down all those things in your life that you are judging emotion right now
in your life. Hear this video and keep reading those things. Essence of what I am taking
percolates into your space. You will notice, hopefully, that the feeling the emotional charge that
you are carrying in your space, when you see those situations that you are judging is slowly
beginning to dissipate and as the emotional charge begins to dissipate you are in short
withdrawing from an identity of the pipe and smoothly and slowly going back into the essence of
the water.
Keep that in your mind and brick by brick, step by step, your daily existence, your weekly
existence, your monthly existence, your yearly existence and finally your entire life will become a
journey of being at complete peace with the identity that you are in that moment. The other
identities are not vital, they are not permanent, and neither is yours. You are going through it, at a
point of time feel it, do not judge with it the emotion of the other one. Understand that the other
identity is not for you, and you dont have to flow there. You might not be able to play the water
droplet and the water vapor and the river at the same time, which is ok. But do understand that

one day at one time you will come into each of these states of being and at time you have judged
it, it will come back with lot of force, lot of power to you.
So happy discerning and good-bye to judgment. Enjoy this.

39 Biological parents pipe of the Universal parents

January 29, 2012 at 11:52pm

So the question, are you the water or are you the Pipe!
The question will only make sense if you have gone through the previous two videos.
A small off shoot or a diversion which I feel of course can be very, very useful to most of us, is
the conclusion we come to for ourselves when we are flowing through the different pipes the
universal parent has created for us.
I am introducing a concept; I know it is a small diversion in this series but that is the thought that
has come to me at this moment so I feel it will be integrated well into the series.
For every person in this universe, there is a universal parent, which we understand, the force, the
power, the energy that creates everything. For some of us, this is god, for some of us this is
universal intelligence, for some of us this is divine order behind existence. Since we are all parts,
parcels, drops, offshoots of this universal parent, when we come down on earth, we select our
biological parents as representatives of that universal parent. In short our biological parents
become the pipe through which our consciousness begins to flow.
Most of our conflicts in life arise out of the fact that we are perpetually at loggerheads with what
we expect from our parents and what our parents actually give us or in turn expect from us. If we
look at a cross section of people in society, no matter what culture they belong to you will note,
that most children who grow up with very wholesome, a very complete and a very enriching
parenting normally land up having lives which are also very stable relatively challenge free and
much more peaceful.
As therapist I have worked with people from different sections of society, of caste, creed and
colour and what we do note that more than 70-80% of the cases that come in to our lives, most of
their issues have their origin going back to childhood and in turn going back to something to do
with their parents.
Lets clarify a few things. So, the pipe through which you would flow is the choice the divine within
you made. Today as a child you have a certain expectation from your parent, which is not being
matched according to you and above this biological parent there is a universal parent.
The big trick in life and you can take this as a huge bonus right now, is from this moment of time
in life, if you wish to see your life becoming stable, calm and abundant learn to acknowledge with

gratitude, whatever that is that your biological parent has given you. Simply because, if you
deserve something that is much larger than that, then the moment you acknowledge with
gratitude what your biological parent is giving you, you open yourself up to the abundance of the
universal parent who is waiting to give you the balance.
Unfortunately most of the times we keep fighting with the pipe to expand the diameter of the pipe
and we do not understand that the pipe is the pipe is the pipe and will remain as the pipe as the
pipe!
However, if you acknowledge with gratitude the role that the pipe is playing to get you to your
destination before you realize it, at that destination you will find a much huger pipe waiting to
guide you to your next destination. But the key lies here. The key lies in acknowledging with
gratitude whatever it is that your biological parent has given you.
And since of course, your father is your root or your channel to your material consciousness and
your mother is the root or channel to your emotional consciousness. The moment you
acknowledge with gratitude their contributions in your universe whatever it is that you truly
deserve will come to you effortlessly from the universal parent through different pipe, a different
channel, and a different source.
It is a simple model. It is a simple analogy, simple understanding but believe me it is an
understanding which if you start implementing religiously you will see a very huge shift coming
very fast into your own lives.
Maybe that should be your wakeup mantra!
Wake up in the morning, every morning and silently acknowledge with love and gratitude
whatever it is that your biological parents have given you.
Do that and watch how the universal parent bends backwards to give you everything that you
truly deserve.
Life is beautiful, my friends.