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This month is not only the start of a More Fashion Show Fun 6 Christine Nicholls
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New Year New You: Where Are You Headed in Arlene Gutierrez
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Iya Bakare
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Role Model 16
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Beauty Blog: Jessica Mazik 22
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“ Ogi is so inspiring! She continues
to believe in herself and her abilities
more and more each passing day.
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Jessica Kim is the Founder/CEO
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She has survived several personal functional. super cute.” solutions for
TO WIN tragedies...now she owns Fashion everyday parenting. BabbaCo’s
Fusion Vintage on Halsted and philosophy is to empower moms as
several on-line vintage e-tiques. She they go through their major transition
is also a fashion designer/stylist and of parenthood. Her ultimate vision is to
has worked with several celebrities. create a successful company to be used
She is great for Chicago and great for greater good. [Jessica] embodies
to work for!
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order to take care of others. She would
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overwhelming time in a woman’s life
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Q: You began modeling last year and my life I felt healthy. In January of 2009, I my inner self-confidence and project
entered a tough industry in a tough was laid off for the second time in three it outward.
economy. Why did you do so and what years, most recently from a job as a web
have you learned from it? Q: What is your personal beauty
manager for a culinary company. Feeling routine? Any secrets you would like
empowered by the improvement of my to share?
A: Sometimes, a series of unfortunate health, as well as the support of my
events can lead to something great! Hav- grandmother, I gained the confidence and A: Growing up, I missed the memo about
ing suffered from weight management and time needed to purse a new career in plus- hydration and staying out of the sun! For-
overtraining issues for over a decade, I size modeling. tunately, I learned a few years ago about
finally discovered in 2008 that these issues Over the past year, my experience as an the importance of skincare in looking
were caused by severe food allergies. I aspiring plus-size model has taught me youthful and have been diligently exercis-
immediately made the necessary lifestyle that this industry is like any other, and has ing good practices ever since.
changes in order to improve my health definitely taken a hit with today’s econ- I follow my beauty regime twice a day and
and let my body recover. I began losing omy. I gained a significant amount of pa- I never skip it! By day, I wash with
the excess weight that my body retained tience and professionalism, but most im- Cetaphil cleanser, followed by Kiehl’s
over those years and for the first time in portantly, I learned how to take Cucumber Herbal Alcohol-Free toner, a
touch of acne cream and finally Eucerin lips will temporarily dry them and hold and Ion are the only two products that I
moisturizer SPF 30. At night, I apply your lip liner on longer, which will believe that won`t strip your color plus it’s
Neaclear Liquid Oxygen astringent and prevent it from feathering. cheaper at Sally’s and in bulk.
Eucerin oil-free Anti-wrinkle Sensitive 4. Disposable buff-puffs are great to 9. Apply any acne cream with the palm of
Skin Cream. I keep Sally Hansen’s Over- exfoliate with once a week at most. your hand, not your fingers, in sweeping
night Lip Recovery next to my nightstand 5. Dark lipstick will make your teeth motions. This helps get the cream
and it goes on every night, along with my look whiter. deep into your skin. This is my dermatolo-
eye cream! 6. Cut your makeup remover pads into gist’s secret!
A few of my beauty secrets: halves or fourths. This will save you a My cosmetic must-haves:
1. Never wear SPF lotion at night – it will few extra bucks and prevent you from 1. Listerine pre-brush whitening mouth-
clog your pores. wasting them. wash: Nothing is sexier than a white smile.
2. Always use an oil-free moisturizer. They 7. Don’t condition your roots if you 2. Smashbox Photo Finish Foundation
are hard to come by but oil is unnecessary like volume. Primer: This really helps your makeup stay
before menopause. 8. There are very few shampoos and con- put when it’s warm and you’re on the go.
3. A light sweep of toothpaste over the ditioners I would put on my hair. Biotera 3. Smashbox DNA Mascara: I’ve tried so
Love
someone who wants to shoot with a plus-
is slowly changing, it will be a long time “the best person you can be” and
size model and produce photos that make
before we really see a major difference. LOVE YOURSELF!
people ask, “Wow, she’s a plus model?”
We must realize that as consumers, we I could easily introduce myself as just a
yourself
hold the power. The fragile economy has model, but I always make sure to put
really forced designers and retailers to “plus” in front of it because I love hearing
open up other income-generating avenues people’s reactions to the “plus” part. I feel
by selling to the mainstream population. like my role instantly changes from saying
In the industry, I am considered a ‘small “I’m a model” to “I’m a woman who
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we sometimes tend to overlook the details
in our appearance. Jessica reminds us that
looking good in January doesn’t have to
be difficult. Moisturizer, lip gloss and well
groomed eyebrows are the basics. To
break free from the winter blahs, Jessica
suggests creating a cateye look with your
eyeliner to jazz it up.
TO LEARN MORE
Visit her website
www.jesselizabeth.com
Jessica is
a Chicago
based freelance
makeup artist
specializing
in fashion
“I love NARS
products”, Jessica
states. See
what all the fuss
is about:
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Benefit Cosmetics
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warmer shades
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NOVEMBER 1, 1991 is a day Ida W. doorstep asking for help after he was she fell ill in 2000, Ida couldn’t keep quiet
Byther-Smith will never forget. The world robbed and needed a place to stay. Sepa- much longer. During this time, she was
as she knew it changed when she learned rated but never divorced, she decided to officially diagnosed with AIDS.
she was HIV positive. allow her estranged husband to occupy “You’re as sick as your secret,”
“I felt like I was dealt the wrong deal,” the room of comments Ida.
“
says Ida. “I felt like God had let me down their youngest After she went
and I almost lost my mind.”
Today, Ida is one of many living with
daughter who
had left for
We as women have public with her
health status, Ida
HIV. According to the Center for Disease college. a false sense of security decided to help
Control, recent statistics show that Afri-
can-American women represented 17,507
After living
with his wife
with unprotected sex. educate others
not only about
of the AIDS cases reported in 2007 na- for months, We’re always at risk AIDS, but about
tionwide. From the beginning of the
AIDS epidemic in the U.S. in 1981
Ida’s husband
died from com-
of disease, even the important
precautionary
through 2007, an estimated 426,003 Black plications of when we’re married measures against
women have contracted the disease. AIDS in May or in relationships. the disease.
In 1987, prior to her diagnosis, Ida suf-
fered the loss of her mother and was still
grieving from her death. The following
year, Ida’s husband left her and their four
children when he decided he didn’t want
of 1996.
“He died a very
painful and slow death because he never
sought out proper medical treatment,”
admits Ida. “I used to ask him all the time
” “Ignorance will
kill you,” she says.
“We as women have a false sense of secu-
rity with unprotected sex; we’re always at
risk of disease, even when we’re married
to stay married. She later learned her hus- to go to the doctor but he never wanted to or in relationships.”
band had extramarital affairs while they go. I think he was ashamed of his condi- In an effort to give back to the commu-
were married with both men and women. tion but I hated the way he suffered.” nity, Ida started Joray House, a nonprofit
In 1996, after arriving home from church Ida admits her health status remained a organization named after her mother and
one night, Ida found her husband at her secret from many people at first, but when brother in 2004. The organization gives
assistance to homeless men with HIV.
“People ask me why I am doing this for
men, but they don’t understand I am also
DON’T
FORGET doing this for the women they may come
across and possibly infect,” Ida says.
To care about your When she has an opportunity to take a
gynecological health.
Make sure to visit break from her work, the 60-year-old
your doctor for your admits she enjoys traveling.
PAP test screening.
FROM HIV TO HPV “This is the only life you have, so you
better live it now,” she says.
Last month on December 1
we brought attention to
World Aids Day. Continuing
this issue, we wanted to
bring you a personal story
of a local woman who is
empowering others in the
fight against this disease.
This month we encourage AIDS IS A GLOBAL
you to be proactive about ISSUE
your health as it`s Cervical
Health Awareness month. To read more about
Bee`s personal
experience working
on AIDS awareness
campaigns in Africa,
visit:
www.meinfocusmag.com
January is Cervical Health Awareness month. For information To learn more about how you can join the cause of AIDS awareness
and resources on how to raise awareness in your community about and prevention locally, please visit Aids Foundation of Chicago at
Cervical Cancer and HPV Disease, please visit www.aidschicago.org
www.nccc-online.org
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It'll be interesting to see The sad and untimely Half African-American and We're rooting for talented We're looking forward to
how Diane Sawyer`s transi- death of Brittany Murphy, half Chinese, 20 year old Chicago designer Ping Wu cheering on alpine skier
tion from Good Morning 32, was a shock. She Lou Jing shot to fame and as she competes in Season Lindsay Vonn and the other
America to the evening slot was an underrated talent controversy over her biracial 7 of Project Runway! women athletes next month
will do for ABC World News that shined in all her background during a singing Chicago Pride! during the 2010 Winter
ratings. For the first time in performances. Her last competition in China. She Olympics in Vancouver.
history, two of the three film, Abandoned, is set rose above the fray with
network anchors are to be released sometime dignity and class and hopes
women. Go us! this year. to use her newfound
stardom to bridge cultures.
MOVIES MUSIC
Her kick-ass Na'vi character in Avatar, Neytiri, may 2009 was a stellar year at the box office for Sandra This group of five women
be 10 feet tall, blue and completely CGI, but the Bullock with two Golden Globe Best Actress nomina- charm us again with their angelic
actress Zoe Saldaña is very much real. With the tions for her two top grossing films, The Proposal and harmonies and natural beauty in
success of Avatar, rising star Zoe is one to watch in The Blind Side. We love the versatile Sandra for being their latest album Celtic Woman:
a smart girl's actress and hope she takes home some Songs from the Heart, to be
Hollywood this year. hardware this year. released January 26.
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