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Imagine this scenario: its date night and you are having a nice dinner with your
partner, but instead of talking both of us our on our phones. This occasion is becoming
such a common occurrence that it is beginning to cause great concern for these
relationships. A poll by the Pew Research Center shows that two-thirds of adults in
America admit to being connected with technology during their relationship. With this
many couples being intertwined with the virtual world, we ask how it affects these
relationships. The way I see it is technology has three ways it affects relationships:
good, bad, and neutral. I will explain why I believe technology holds its place in
relationships today while maintaining accountability within the relationship.
of technology that can impact relationships, but these are the biggest means of virtual
communication and support. Psychologist, Alex Lickerman emphasizes that technology
is an absolutely amazing invention that has connected the world more entirely than ever
possibly dreamed. This connection though, has had its share of costs. The costs he
mentions is why this is such a controversial topic. Specifically the costs he refers to are
the damaging affects in our relationships, interaction, and decision making. Knowing
that there are several costs out there caused by technology, lets take a look into how
technology has a negative impact our world today.
is that they feel their spouse or partner is distracted by their phone or other medium.
One quarter of committed adults admitted to feeling like their partner was distracted or
they were neglected because of technology the other was hooked on. With these
accounts why do we continue to have technology in our relationships? The answer is
because the benefits outweigh the bad.
What benefits would I be referring to? There are several benefits, like having
access to their partner at all times no matter where they are at. Many couples who are
forced into long distances can make it easier with a simple phone call or Video
message. The Pew Research Center has found that most adults say the internet has
had no impact on their lives, but for those who say it has had an impact, say that it was
overwhelmingly positive. Couples using technology today use it to reach out to their
loved one, check up on them, or even just remind them of the shopping list they left on
the counter. There are many supporters of using technology to communicate with family
and friends across the globe. Marc Brackett, director of Yale Universitys Center for
Emotional Intelligence, and Denise Daniels, pediatric nurse, are two individuals who
support using technology for communication. "Many of my students are foreign and
cant see their families," Brackett noted. "For them there's nothing better than being able
to stay in touch online. It's very good in that way. Bracketts experience with young
adults using technology to communicate has given him his belief that it truly is a good
thing to have. I believe that despite there is lots of negatives to technology there is a lot
of promise built into it. The Pew Research Center has reported that 41% of adults under
30 believe that cell phones help them grow older and likewise 21% over 30 feel the
same way. Although many dont agree that technology is positive, the number of couples
approving it in their relationships is climbing rapidly. It is there for everyone 24/7 it helps
make communication between couples easier and faster, and helps in terms of being
able to reach out to others for advice and other loved ones. All of these great things are
why I approve of technology today and why you should as well.
Like Dr. Lickerman stated, there are costs to todays technology, but there are
too many benefits to completely throw it out. The convenience of having your loved one
on the phone in a matter of seconds can be priceless, and should not be forgotten. We
may feel slightly disconnected, but they are still the same person we love. This
disconnection we feel is far less than the one we would feel without our technology.
Without our technology we wouldnt have any access to our partner, and we need to
remember that our technology allows us to have constant access to them no matter
where they are. Looking at technology in this perspective makes it seems so logical to
not only keep technology, but encourage each other to use it. That is why we should
continue using this technology to ensure we have access to the conveniences that
connect us to our loved ones all day, everyday.
Authors last name, first name. Title of Article. Title of Source (not the URl)
italicized or underlined. Date of publication(Date Month Year). URL (truncated
to .com, .edu, .org, etc). Date of access
Lenhart, Amanda and Duggan, Maeve. Couples, the Internet, and Social Media.
Pew Research Center. 11 February 2014. http://www.pewinternet.org. 5 June 2016.
This was research collected relatively recently and organized by these two
authors. It refers to how couples feel technology has affected their relationships. It
was published by Pew Research Center. The research center is a subsidiary of The
Pew Charitable Trusts and does not take policy positions. They get their information
from public polling, demographic research, and other analyses of media.It is not a
peer reviewed document. It is not very current but corresponds with other info ive
gathered, and they do document where they received their information. The
purpose is to inform readers of how couples believe technology has impacted their
relationships.
Johnson, Chandra. "Face Time vs. Screen Time: The Technological Impact on
Communication. National Deseret News. 29 August 2014.
http://national.deseretnews.com. 5 June 2016.
This article is current. It is another assessment arguing over the digital and
physical relationships between people. This is a highly trusted news service. Its
editor proofreads and test the article to ensure it is accurate before publishing. I do
not know if this could be considered a peer reviewed document. It is accurate with
quotes and documentation from professionals in the field. It is trying to show why
physical relationships should be not only encouraged but enforced.