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Documente Cultură
29 January 2014
Rev. Dr. Edgar Javier, SVD, PhD, SThL, DMiss
3 Florante Aguilar, Different Stages of Harana (Serenading), http://florante.org/blog/2010/10/28/thedifferent-stages-of-harana-serenading/ (accessed January 27, 2014).
Through the liberalism of modern-day Filipinos, there have been great modifications of
courtship that are, however milder than that in the West. Modern technology has become a part
of present-day courting practices. Romantic conversations between both parties are now through
cellphones, particularly through texting messages, and the internet (facebook). Parents, however,
still prefer that their daughters be formally courted within the confines of the home, done out of
respect to the father and mother of the single woman.
With the emergence of these technologies, young Filipinos are gradually losing the sense
of giving large efforts in courting. Men no longer regard harana as important in courting a girl.
Men have become timid or shy in showing their love and desire for the woman in such way that
some even dont express their love personally. They resort to the means of Facebooks, Friendster,
and others with an emphasis on texting. This texting custom of courtship in the modern age
opened more doors to the possibility of younger age groups to participate without hindrance from
parents and more experience for romance.4
Young Filipinos should be educated properly on the values of loving. Elders should pass
on their values and perception during their time. They should make the younger generations
realize the value of being in a commitment, like respecting the family of the lady by courting her
not in the streets but with the premises of their house and the avoidance of premarital sex. Of
course, with the losing of commitment, there will be the danger of having a sexual affair with no
strings attached.
Conclusion
People changes. With these changes that people undergo comes also the changes in culture. The
people and culture must go together in order to have a meaningful and satisfactory life. But, in
changing, we must not neglect the importance of our inherent values those values which we
inherited from our forefathers. As the song says, Uso pa ba ang harana? (Harana, Parokya ni
Edgar), it is evident that harana had been a part of this changes in our time. Gone where the
days of men gathering together to sings for a maiden so dear. The cool evenings, the sweet rays
of the moonlight, the soft voice, the gentle strumming of the guitar and a heart warming song
offered to a lady. For sure, all of these can cause more than just a smile from her. Old men still
hold and long for this nostalgic experiences of the past in their heart.