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Under age 3:
Preschoolers:
Can easily tolerate short separations from
caregivers. Parental figure indicates it is okay for
child to be with non-family member. Setting
should include familiar type toys.
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School age:
Settings other than traditional office setting playroom,
traveling in a car. May have too many distractions in a park
or restaurant. Others may disrupt conversation. May want
to plan an outing to a particular place to trigger memories.
If talking around a table, using structured paper/pencil
tasks, play materials or games puts children more at ease
than just sitting and talking.
Adolescents:
Usually communicate more openly in their room rather than
in other areas of the house. Help them fully explore issues
by seeing there are at least two sides to every issue. Look at
the pros and cons/plusses and minuses of a decision. By
inviting input into both sides modeling good decisionmaking. Expand their thinking from either/or to include a
variety of options between the two extremes.
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DEVELOPING A
LIFEBOOK
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What is a Lifebook?
A lifebook is a compilation of a childs journey through
time, usually from birth to present, with a look into the
future.
What is a Lifebook?
It is especially helpful for children who have had more than
one foster placement and are now moving into an adoptive
family.
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All About Me
The all about me section involves gathering fun,
interesting facts and knowledge about the child.
Birth Family
Children who are removed from their family have a right to
as much knowledge and factual information about their
parents as possible. Depending on the age and other factors
at the time of separation, some children have little or no
conscious memory of their interactions with their birth
parents.
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Foster Family
We discuss in detail why the child is not living with their
family of birth and talk about how it has felt to move from
house to house, and live with different families. Often,
children cannot remember their birth parents, so it is
difficult to grieve for them. Most children have a special
foster family that they lovingly remember.
School
When a child is feeling unclear about their past and not quite
comfortable with their foster family, school can become the only
stable relationship in their life. This may be the only part of their life
where they feel any control. Accompanying the child back to visit
and photograph their old school helps to strengthen the trust level
and relationship between child and adult.
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Feelings
Adoption
The facts about adoption need to be included regardless if
there is a potential adoption match or not. The goal of this
section is to teach the child clearly that a move from a foster
home to an adoptive home is very different. The worker
carefully teaches this section of the lifebook, taking a lot of
time to ensure that the child understands that adoption is a
gradual but permanent transition into a family who will
ALWAYS be his or her family.
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ADOPTION RITUALS
Possible outcomes of adoption rituals may include . . .
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Setting
The environment sets the stage. Consider colors, odors and sounds.
Food
sharing of food can symbolize families relying on one another.
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Child Involvement
Children should have an active role in the ceremony so they can
define their role in the family
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ENTRUSTMENT RITE
(Within the Eucharistic Celebration)
Introductory Rite
Presentation of Maria Isabellas Biography
Ms. Maria Charisma Cid
Sending-off Message
Ms. Kamil Garcia
Words of Entrustment from the Administrator
Sr. Maria Socorro Pilar G. Evidente, D.C.
Words of Acceptance from the Adoptive Parents
Rongalerios
Mr. Ricardo Carlos Quilaneta
Mass Presider : Fr. Francisco Kiko Magnaye, CM
Emcee: Mr. Joseph Marquez
Prayers of the Faithful:
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Thank You!
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