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eBook: 54 Interesting Conversation Topics

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eBook: 54 Interesting Conversation Topics

By Markus Ellek Founder of SchoolOfSocialSkills.Com

Never run out of things to say again:

One of the most frustrating things I have ever experienced around a girl is if you and her
run out of things to talk about, since you found this eBook I assume you know what Im
talking about, Im thinking about the teeth pooling moment where the awkward silence just
take over the situation, and you are just sitting their smiling while desperately in your mind
scrambling for something just mildly interesting say, but you just can think of anything, you
mind is a total black out, you cant even remember you name right now. Finally you hear
you self say something completely uninteresting, like: sooo.. do you come here often,
she says no its my first time! And then the conversation gets to a hold again, the
awkward silence start to eat you both up from the inside until one of you cant stand the
social pressure and thus make up some excuse to leave.
Its a horrible horrible situation to be in, thus I have decided to make this cheat sheet of
interesting conversation topics to ensure, that you will never run out of things to say again.
You are not alone; many guys have asked me about which conversation topics are the
best to talk about on a first date with girl all us secretly fear moment of awkwardness.

Past Experiences:
1. Mayor events: Current events or event that has made a huge impression on you:
9/11 is something that everyone can relate to, but its not going to evoke positive
feelings in her, strive to keep it light, trading concert experiences and other mayor
events can be a great source of conversation.
2. Past dates: I would not recommend that you talk about you last girlfriend or some
girl you never got over, but I my experience I can be fun to talk about her and yours
past worst date experience, blind dates gone wrong, embarrassing moments of
awkward silence and good stuff like that. Those are things most girls can relate to
and a good topic. You can also talk about the whole dating scene, discuss funny
pickup lines which ones she has received and which one that worked.
3. Past funny experiences: Tell her about the last time that something out of the
ordinary happen to you.
4. Vacations: Find out how she is adventurous. Find out if she like metropolitans or
wilderness traveling.
5. Future Plans: Ask her what she want to be when she grows up (even if she an
adult), ask her about her dreams and ambitions. Ask her what she likes about her
current job, ask her how she would like that job to evolve, would she like to be a
manager on day.
6. Hobbies: Ask her what kind of art she does. Talk about yours and her passions,
what are you learning right now, what activities make you the most excited.

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eBook: 54 Interesting Conversation Topics

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Current Experience:
7. Talk about the big blue elephant in the room If you run out of things to say, and
you feel there an awkward silence, just call it out by saying: Isnt it awkward when
you feel like you have nothing to say?

8. Tell her about your passions, what do you love doing? Find out what she loves
9. Tell her what you like in a woman and ask her about what she is looking for in a
10. What she does for fun, her favorite caf,
11. Personal taste
12. What does she like/not like about her self

Funny & Interesting Topics:

13. First time any of you broke the law?
14. Favorite childhood memories?
15. What surprising skills does she have?
16. Favorite complement?
17. How is she a rebel?
18. Time travel?
19. What event has changed her life destiny?
20. Oddest job ever?
21. Any embarrassing guilty pleasures?
22. Most hated chore on the chore list?
23. Greatest achievement?
24. Most memorable birthday?
25. Future honeymoon destination?
26. Recent life changes?
27. What would you do if you won the lottery?
28. Whats your theory on deja vu?
29. What level of school was your preferred one?
30. Worst date ever?
31. What gets you excited?
32. First life memory?
33. Favorite toy as a child?
34. What outfit makes you feel the most sexiest or confident?
35. Do you have a fetish?
36. How do you spend your weekends
37. Favorite food?
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38. Best gift you ever gave/or got from someone?

39. What is the one cleaning tip you swear by?
40. Do you believe in fate?
41. Tequila story?
42. How would you like to be remembered when you are dead and gone?
43. How do people often misunderstand you?
44. Your ideas for a perfect night out
45. Ideal vacation length?
46. Ideal 5/10 year life plan
47. Last time you lost your temper?
48. Most embarrassing moment?
49. What stresses you the most?
50. Three main goals in life?
51. Five things you cant live without.
52. Which movie/book are you ashamed to admit you love?
53. What is the one book you think everyone should be required to read?
54. What books have you read more than once?
Another great source conversation is to reuse old conversation topics, I mean strings of
conversation that you have had success with before, You dont have invent the wheel
every time you open your mouth, its okay to reuse a conversation topics that you have
used before, especially if it has lead to interesting conversation before, chances are its
likely to do it again. Have a small note book and write down at couple of keywords every
time you have an interesting conversation.

Be careful:
Never turn a conversation into a interview, dont just ask one after another, instead start
sharing what you find interesting, what you have been wondering about lately. When you
are sharing you own perspective on things the principle of reciprocity will inspire her to
give her point of view on whatever you just told her.
When you talk about yourself you are offering her some insights about you, and thus she
will often feel obligated to return the favor. Dont make it to personal in the beginning
though, start out by sharing what interesting stuff you have been doing this past week.
Finally, remember the point of conversation and especially the initial small talk is to bond
with another human being. Dont make it too serious too fast. Also realize that natural
conversations include pauses, so dont freak out if you are not talking constantly,
remember that conversation should be a two way street, so Its not all up to you.

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eBook: 54 Interesting Conversation Topics

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Why my list of interesting conversation topics are not the right solution.
I could easily give you a even longer list of interesting conversation topics, but it would be
like giving a hungry and poor man a fish or even 20 fish, sure he could eat for day or even
a week, but soon he would run out of fish again and thus he would start to hunger again, in
the long run his situation would ultimately not have changed for better. If we really wanted
to help him we should teach him how to catch a fish, because by then he would have food
for the rest of his life.
Likewise, I could give thousands of interesting conversation topics but it would only get
you so far, what you need to learn is how to create interesting conversation with anyone
on the spot, by then you will never run out of interesting things to talk about again.

If you want to learn what it is that makes something interesting

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