The 7 Entanglements That Kill Your Success

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Seven Entanglements that Kill Your Success

One of the greatest gifts that come with learning about Family Entanglements is that all those
things that youve been blaming yourself for may not be your fault. Maybe youve blamed
yourself for not being smart enough, good enough, or experienced enough. Well the problem
may have nothing to do with you, or your talents or efforts. Many of your problems may be
rooted in Family Entanglements that are affecting your ability to be, do, or have what you want
in your life. An Entanglement is a problematic pattern around money, business/career,
relationships or health that gets passed down, or inherited, from your family. This is often the
Core Cause to many of the problems that dont want to seem to budge. Thousands of Family
Entanglement Work participants have found the solution to their problems through this work.
When most people have a problem in their life that they want to change, for instance, a problem
around money or business, they often notice the symptom of their problem and try to work on
that, instead of trying to working on the cause. For example, a client of mine was struggling with
making more money in his business. He looked at the symptomnot having enough money or
customers, and he began to work on that. He hired people to do social media marketing and he
took business and financial courses. And none of it really helped. This is because he was
spending all his time and money on the symptomnot having enough customers or income. He
wasnt working on the Core Cause, which is what was causing the problem in the first placehis
Money and Success Entanglement.
How Entanglements Start:

Before you read about the Seven Entanglements below, its useful to know how Entanglement
Patterns are passed down through the generations. When something tragic or traumatic happens
to a family member within the context of money, business/career, relationships or health, it
creates an Originating Incident. An Originating Incident can cause an Entanglement Pattern to
form in your family system.
How Entanglements Work:

An Entanglement Pattern can last for about seven generations. The Entanglement only hits about
25-30 people before it fades out, and it can skip peopleit doesnt necessarily hit 25-30 in a
row. However, the closer you are to the generation where the Originating Incident happened, the
more likely you are to get entangled with it, and the bigger the Entanglement can be. This work
is most concerned about your blood relatives, although there are times that someone can get
entangled with their adopted familys history, and in some rare cases, their partners.

And you dont have to have met your relative, or even know about them or their stories in order
to get entangled with their problems. The information about the past problems in your family has
been passed down from generation to generation through each family members subconscious.
Thus all the information is already stored in your subconscious. Research also points to latent
recessive genes and epigenomes as carriers of this information. Epigenetics is the study of
changes in gene activity that are caused by environmental stressors. Epigenomes sit above your
genes and tell a agene to turn on or off, or to be expressed loudly or quietly. Epigenomes may
also be carriers of this information.
Look for the Signs:

If you dont know much or dont know anything about your family history, another useful way to
trace Entanglements is to look for Signs and Symptoms of Entanglements in your own life. There
are common Entanglement Effects for each of the different Entanglements, and we can look for
the Signs and Symptoms of those in your life.
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Seven Entanglements That Kill Your Success

Okay, now that you have this foundation in Entanglements, lets explore Seven Entanglements
that Kill Your Success. These Entanglements can affect success in all arenas of life, income,
business/career, relationships, health, and mood/happiness.
Below, you will see the Seven Entanglement Patterns by name. You will also see a list of
Originating Incidences for each Entanglement Pattern. Take a moment to think about your own
family system and see if you know if there are any Originating Incidences. You may want to do a
little research as well, since Entanglements can stem from seven generations back. Remember,
we are usually concerned with your blood relatives only, although if you were adopted, we may
need to look at your adopted family as well.
You will also see a list of Signs and Symptoms. Many of us dont have all of the information
from seven generations back in our family. If you were adopted, you may not have access to
much family history or other pertinent information at all. Looking for the Signs and Symptoms
of Entanglements is a way around that. You can discover some of your Entanglements without
knowing all the stories in your family just by checking to see if you have any Signs and
Symptoms. Keep in mind that these lists are not exhaustive, but its definitely enough to get you
started.
1. No Permission for Success:

This Entanglement stems from someone within the last seven generations either losing or never
achieving success. You would be surprised how many of peoples problems with success are
rooted in a Family Entanglement.
It only takes one person, amidst a family of successful people, to start this pattern.
Originating Incidences include if someone:
Didnt succeed in their career or business.

Tried multiple businesses or jobs and could never really get successful.
Had some success and then lost it, due to something like the Great Depression, or a business
partner back-stabbing them, bad decisions, or bad luck etc.
Other than a relative committed a crime against your relatives business, like arson, stealing,
or embezzlement, that caused the business suffer or to go under.
For whatever reason, when someone else in the last seven generations didnt attain success or
lost their success, it can cause an Entanglement Pattern for the seven generations that follow.
Whether or not you know of any of these Originating Incidences in your family, check to see if
you or anyone in your family system has any of the following symptoms:
Signs and Symptoms:
Trouble starting a business.

Trouble growing a business, increasing profits, or getting more customers.
Trouble getting yourself or your business noticed or seen in the market place. Maybe youve
tried some advertising and not much seems to pan out or get you many new customers.
Sales conversations arent working well and you are not getting as many new customers as
you would like.
Trouble with sales conversations, marketing, or advertising.
This ones a no-brainer. If there is a No Permission For Success Pattern, this will clearly affect
your business and your income.

2. No Permission for Financial Abundance:

Lost a lot of moneydue to bad business or investing decisions, etc.

Gambled away their money.
Had a lot money taken or stolen.
Lost the farm, or the family home.
Something tragic happened and someone in your family system had to live in poverty. This
can also stem from wars and political unrest, being a refugee, etc.
Didnt get their inheritance.
Family members grew up or lived poor, or in poverty.
Signs and Symptoms:
A high water mark for moneyyou cant seem to make and/or keep more than a certain
amount of money.
Something always happens and money has to be spent to fix itcar problems, doctors
bills, fees, traffic tickets, etc.
Somehow, the money gets lost, for example, investments go bad, the stock market tanks
right before you are ready to cash out, etc.
You just cant seem to make more than a certain amount of money per month/year.
A tendency to lend out money or give it away. A tendency to try to help people by giving
them money (whether you have extra or not).
Money lent does not get paid back.
A desire to gamble a lot, or gambling away a lot of money.
A tendency toward being a spender/spending a lot: buying things, or experiences like
dining out, travel, etc.
3. No Permission for Connection:

This entanglement can happen when someone in your family tree closed off their heart, often
because something or someone broke their heart. This one blocks and can make misery of your
romantic relationships, friendships, family relations, and work and business relations. It also gets
in the way of your connection with yourself.
Lost a love (due to illness, death, or other circumstances).

Couldnt marry their love (due to cultural differences, race, arranged marriage, moving
apart, and other life circumstances).
Put walls up around their heart (due to feeling betrayed by someone, being abused,
affairs, etc.).
Had parents who divorced, or were at odds with each other, and one of the children
stepped up and acted like a partner to one of the parents (providing emotional support for
the parent, becoming the man of the house, taking care of the parent perhaps by doing the
cooking and cleaning and tending to their needs the way a partner normally might).
Signs and Symptoms:
Trouble networking and making good business connections, finding Joint Ventures or good
business partners, etc.
Trouble experiencing intimacymaybe true intimacy feels uncomfortable, scary, or too
vulnerable.
Attracting partners who have trouble with intimacywhich guarantees you wont experience
intimacy. The subconscious projects this outward: attracting people who have trouble with
intimacy, so that you wont experience intimacy.
Workaholic or Overwhelm Pattern: Somehow you dont seem to have time to spend with
family or friendsyou end up working all the time, or feeling overwhelmed all the time, and
find that you are always busy. But working all the time or being busy all the time is one way
that this pattern manifestsyou simply dont have the time for connecting with people very
often.
Alone or Lonely: You might find that you are often alone, and you might feel kind of lonely
(and you may have told yourself that you like it this way, which may just be a coping
mechanism for dealing with something you have been stuck with. You also may be so used
to it, you dont even bother thinking it could be any different.).
Working Alone: You may end up in a career that has you often working alone.
Trouble in Relationships: You dont date as much as youd like, or you cant seem to find or
maintain a good relationship, or any relationship at all.
The secret to success is understanding yourself, understanding people, and being able to connect
and communicate. The secret to sales and negotiation, conflict resolution, and managing a team
is also the same. When it comes your businessif you are not able to fully connect with others,
you will struggle, if not fail. Business and financial success is largely about connectionwith
your boss, co-workers, team, customers, etc.
This No Permission for Connection Pattern also deeply affects your friendships and
relationships, and your ability to have connected and happy relationships. It also impacts your
ability to find love, and to find your soul mate(s).
4. Victim/Perpetrator:
The origins of this Entanglement stem from an Originating Incident where someone perpetrated
a crime or act of violence against someone else. You may have a perpetrator or a victim in your
family tree, and this can start the Victim/Perpetrator Pattern in your lineage. What this means for
you is that you, or others in your family may identify with the victims or the perpetrators, or
both.
Originating Incidences include if someone in your family was:
Harmed in some physical way, murdered, raped, or experienced sexual abuse, domestic
violence, etc.
A victim of a crime.
A perpetrator of harm: murder, manslaughter, rape, sexual abuse, domestic violence, etc.
Backstabbed or blackmailed, around money, business, relationships, or health.
Institutionalized or imprisoned.
Signs and Symptoms:
Victim Entanglement:
Witnessing abuse or being abused as a child.

Being bullied at school.
Experiencing incest, molestation, or rape.
Experiencing car accidents, being the victim of crimes, lawsuits, etc.
Attracting a lot of fights and attacks at work or in your personal life.
In relationships that are emotionally, mentally, or physically abusive. You may find that
you keep ending up in these kinds of relationships even when you try hard to avoid them.
Mental Health: Borderline Personality Disorder, Depression, Low Self Esteem.
Autoimmune disorderMS, Lupus, and the like. Your body is the perpetrator and the
victim at the same time.
Perpetrator Entanglement:
You might find that you have a temper, and that you anger easily, sometimes for reasons
that even puzzle you, after the fact.
You may find yourself feeling hostile toward others or just towards life in general, for
some reason.
You may also be plagued with stress and tension, and you often feel on the edge.
You may find that others in your life have told you that you are mean, rude, harsh, or
hurtful, and maybe you didnt mean to be.
You might notice you have a taste for revenge; when someone has wronged you, you
want to get back at them.
Others might have called you manipulative, vindictive, or vengeful.
You might find yourself saying things that people feel hurt by, or hitting or harming
others.
No matter which form of Victim/Perpetrator Entanglement you find yourself in, it can harm your
entire life. As a victim, you cant get very far. You may have too much holding you back. And as
a perpetrator, you may have trouble making connections and developing lasting relationships,
you may end up burning bridges, or getting a bad reputation without fully understanding why.
You may find that your relationships are strained because of your feelings of anger, hostility, or
stress.
5. Pull Towards Death:

This kind of entanglement is one of the biggest sinkers to your successfor your life and your
business.
Originating Incidences include if someone in your family:
Died youngunder the age of 25.

Had parents who died with children age 15 or younger in their care.
Had a stillborn, crib death, miscarriage, or abortion.
Accidentally killed a civilian or someone on their own side in a war.
Was involved in genocide, colonized another country or people, or was somehow
involved in concentration camps (maybe its part of your countrys history, or a family
member lived by one, worked at one, or was put in one).
Was a victim of war, genocide, concentration camps, etc.
Has killed someone, by accident or on purpose. (This incident can happen more than
seven generations back, and still have an effect on you). This sometimes also includes if a
family member killed someone during a war. These types of stories can sometimes be
hidden, and become family secrets that you dont know about. In that case, look below to
the signs and symptoms that you may exhibit.*
Was murdered.*
* If someone in your family killed someone or was murdered, you may pick up both the Splitting
Pattern and the Pull Towards Death Pattern.
Signs and Symptoms:
A Dim Life: Not living fully in some areas of your life - things just not going wellfor
example, not having success in career, great friendships or romantic relationships, or not
having robust health. Life can feel a bit dim. Life can feel like a struggle. And it can seem
overwhelming, and things may feel difficult much of the time.
Health Issues: You may experience health problems, disease, including diseases that
doctors can label and define, and also health issues that doctors cant seem to define,
figure out, or make sense of.
Substances: Alcoholism or frequent drinking, and drug addiction or frequent use of drugs.
(This is part of what is called a slow suicide in this work).
Mental Health Issues: Depression or Dysthymia (low-grade depression). Someone in
your family was institutionalized.
Fear of Heights: This can sometimes be caused by the unconscious desire to throw
oneself over the edge; therefore the body develops a fear of heights due to the Pull
Towards Death Pattern.
Dark Imaginings: A common one is wondering what it would be like/wanting to turn the
wheel hard while you are driving fast/driving on a mountain road. May also occur as
other dark or even gruesome thoughts that pass by the mind.
Suicide/Death as an Answer: Even if you are not really suicidal or depressed, with a Pull
Towards Death Pattern, sometimes you just have the random thought: This could all be
solved or better if I were dead/died. Its the thought to stop existing.
Emotional Pain and Frustration: You may find yourself feeling: anxious, angry,
frustrated, lonely, tired, resentful, upset, sad or depressed.
Attracted to sad, gruesome, war, or horror films/TV shows. Its not a given that just
because you like these, that you have a Pull Towards Death, but it is something to look at
as part of the whole. Its one of the signs.
Struggle: Living a life of struggle or sufferingmany negative or bad things
happening. Life just feels difficult. You cant get a leg up, no matter how hard you try.
This is subconsciously keeping one foot in the grave.
Its pretty clear how a Pull Towards Death can affect every aspect of your life. Its known as the
all-arounder. This Entanglement can be a heavy one to carry. The main effect of this
Entanglement is that it prevents you from living a full and robust life. Living with Signs and
Symptoms such as these can hold you back in just about any arena of your life. Its like having
one foot in the grave sometimes, and what you can find is that all areas for your life arent fully
in flow, fully robust, and fully happy or smooth. This one will affect your income,
business/career, relationships, health and happiness.

6. Splitting Patterns:
Splitting Patterns show up when there have been family members that left their home country,
when people from different nationalities that were once at war/at odds with each get together and
have a child, and when there has been a murder, just to name a few. It can cause later generations
to feel oddly split and torn internally, or feel like they dont have roots, or a stable life. It can
make a person feel like they dont belong or dont fit in, or have a place. It can make one feel
like an outsider.
Left their home country. If the family member left because of: war, famine/hunger,
political issues, being on the run, being kicked out, money or family problems, being a
refugee, etc., it might result in even more of an Entanglement issue.
Had a child with someone with a different ethnicity or nationality, and those ethnicities or
nationalities have had a history of being at odds with each other, fighting each other, or
harming the other, such as genocide, or colonization.
Has killed someone, by accident or on purpose. They may have killed someone during a
war. These stories can sometimes be hidden, and become family secrets you dont know
about. In that case, look below to the signs that you may exhibit, to see if there might be a
splitting pattern in your family system.*
If someone in your family was murdered.*
* If someone in your family killed someone or was murdered, you may pick up both the
Splitting Pattern and the Pull Towards Death Pattern.
Signs and Symptoms:
Mental Health Issues: Bi-Polar/Manic Depression, Schizophrenia, Multiple Personality

Disorder. Was anyone institutionalized?
Torn: Trouble making decisions. Not knowing what you want. Not feeling a lot of
passion or desire. Often feeling torn when it comes to making choices.
Unrooted: Not feeling as though you have a home, or not feeling like you have roots. Not
being able to take root and settle down somewhere. Trouble feeling grounded.
Split Loyalties: Feeling torn between ones parents, or siding with one parent over the
other (for anyone in the generations).

* A Special Case: Murder

Even though murder has been included in the above patterns of Pull Towards Death and
Splitting, it deserves some added clarity. When Im speaking to groups and I talk about the
effects of Murder Patterns, so much pain and turmoil in a family suddenly becomes clear and has
an explanation. Im including Murder Patterns, so that if you have a Murder Entanglement in
your family system, some of the Entanglement Symptoms that are passed down through
generations may finally make sense.
Originating Incidences include if someone in your family:
Has killed someone, by accident or on purpose. This sometimes also includes if they
killed anyone during a war. These stories can sometimes be hidden, and become family
secrets you dont know about. In that case, look below to the signs that you may exhibit,
to see if there might be a splitting pattern in your family system.*
If someone in your family was murdered.*
Signs and Symptoms:
Symptoms include what is listed under a Pull Towards Death, but I wanted to relist some here,
and also add to that list:
Mental Health Issues: Depression, Dysthymia (low-grade depression) Schizophrenia,

Borderline Personality Disorder, Anti-Social Personality Disorder (Psychopath). Was
anyone institutionalized?
Suicidality: Suicidal thoughts/tendencies or actual suicide.
Substance Use: Alcoholism or frequent drinking. Drug addiction, or frequent use of
drugs.
Struggle: Living a life of struggle or sufferingmany negative or bad things happening,
or life just feels difficult and like a struggle. Cant get a leg up.
Guilt: Feeling guilty often (you might think your feelings of guilt are about matters in
your own life, but in reality, you may be attracting and creating things to feel guilty about
due to the Entanglement. The same can be said for anyone in your family system who
feels guilt often.).
Autoimmune disorders - like MS, Lupus, etc.
Note: With very tragic or gruesome deaths, such as deaths that involved torture, the
Entanglement Symptoms generations later can be very severe. Sometimes, the entanglement
symptoms from these murders feel as though one is being haunted (strange, I know, but people
have reported feeling haunted, including some of the classic symptoms of being haunted such as
hearing or seeing things, or feeling harmed by a spirit. And regardless if you believe in spirits or
ghosts, the haunting symptoms are very real to the person experiencing them.). Feeling haunted
or feeling as though you live in a haunted house is often tied to a murder or many murders in
your family history that were gruesome or involved torture. Family Disentanglement work has
been reported to help. So in the rare cases that one might feel like they are in a place that is
haunted, it can simply be the entanglement causing the symptoms.
7. Exclusion, Ignored, and Forgotten Patterns:

If someone in your family was excluded, kicked out, ignored, or forgotten (no one talks about
them much), then you may have an Exclusion Pattern in your system. You, and future
generations may end up exhibiting problems similar to the person(s) who were forgotten or
excluded.
Was kicked out or disowned.

Left the family, moved away to get far away from family, or stopped talking to others.
Was ignored for some reason, or if someone stopped talking to someone else.
Was forgottenpeople just didnt talk about that person much.
Was kept a secret (for examplea child of a secret love affair).
Was institutionalized and no one talks about them.
Signs and Symptoms:
In life or social situations, you may feel a bit ignored, left out, out of place.
You may feel like you dont belong.
You cant seem to find a group or groups that feel like your people, that really feel like
home to you.
You dont feel like you have a place you can call home, or roots somewhere. Ungrounded.
You or your business dont seem to get much recognitionyou get overlooked.
Your business has trouble getting noticed. It doesnt get as many clients as it could or should.
If you or your business get overlooked and forgotten, and go unnoticed, you will not be able to
grow it. If you seem to be overlooked or not noticed, that definitely affects your relationship,
especially if you are trying to date or find a partner. The danger with this pattern is not getting
promoted at work, not moving up in your career, or not being able to grow your business or
company, not being able to find a partner or soul mate, and having trouble growing a good
friendship circle.
Resolving Family Entanglements:

Once people learn about Family Entanglements, they often want to know how they can resolve
them. Ive included this section to answer some of those questions.
I want to gift you the Get Unstuck and Finally Have What You Want Crash Course which is an
online course to help you go have conscious mind breakthroughs around your Family
Entanglements and your Childhood Imprints, the two biggest culprits that create blockages in
life, and create struggle. Ill also do a short-session in the course to help you break free from an
Entanglement!
Register here: http://www.danagarrison.com/you-got-gifted
Clients who have worked with me report that they experience changes from this work that no
other work has been able to achieve. (Many have been stuck with and trying to solve their
problems through many different channels for 10, 20, 30 years or more.)
This work has also done the same for me. I encountered sudden strange health issues in my life
in my early 20s that prevented my business from growing, and my love life from blossoming. I
tried many solutions for about a decade before I found this work. (Feel free to ask me to share
my story sometime). This work was able to resolve things for me that nothing else was able to
touch, after a decade for searching and spending lots of time and money trying to find a way out.
When I used this work to work on money and business entanglements, I grew a sold out
coaching practice in 1.5 months and broke through 6 figures in 9 months. When I used it on my
mystery illness, symptom after symptom just lifted. Then I used it to finally remove any inner
block to getting a diagnosis and I finally did! Then I could finally address it physically as well, to
clear out any last remnants of it. I also used it to work on No Permission for Connection and was
able to skyrocket my romantic life, my friendships and my business by clearing that inner block!
Thats why I love sharing Family Entanglements. This work is dear to my heart and never ceases
to impress me or amaze me. Ive truly seen nothing like it.
So get registered for the course while Im still giving it away as a gift, and lets have some fun
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of what you want in life. Lets create ripples of positive change together, by freeing your True
Self, and getting rid of the Family Entanglements that are holding you down, and pulling the
invisible puppet strings and having control over your life.
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Warmly,
Dana Garrison, MFEW, MSW
International Business Consultant, Speaker and Author
Family Entanglement Master Practitioner and Trainer
Email: info@danagarrison.com
Phone: (415) 320-8010
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1. No Permission for Success:

Didnt succeed in their career or business.

Trouble starting a business.

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2. No Permission for Financial Abundance:

Lost a lot of moneydue to bad business or investing decisions, etc.

3. No Permission for Connection:

Lost a love (due to illness, death, or other circumstances).

ability to find love, and to find your soul mate(s).

Witnessing abuse or being abused as a child.

5. Pull Towards Death:

Died youngunder the age of 25.

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Mental Health Issues: Bi-Polar/Manic Depression, Schizophrenia, Multiple Personality

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* A Special Case: Murder

Mental Health Issues: Depression, Dysthymia (low-grade depression) Schizophrenia,

7. Exclusion, Ignored, and Forgotten Patterns:

Was kicked out or disowned.

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