The ideal Muslim character is distinct and balanced.

The Muslim is the

embodiment of the teachings of the Quran and the Sunnah . He follows
the teachings of the Book of Allah (i.e. Quran) and the example of the
Prophet Muhammad Peace Be Upon Him (PBUH) in all affairs, relations,
and situations starting with his relationship with his Lord, his own self,
his family and the people around him. In what follows is a brief overview of
some qualities of the ideal Muslim personality.

The first one is his attitude towards Allah. One of the most distinguishing
features of the ideal Muslim is his deep faith in Allah, The Exalted, and his
conviction that whatever happens in the universe and whatever befalls
him, only happens through the will and the decree of Allah. The Muslim is
closely connected to Allah, constantly remembers Him, puts his trust in
Him and is obedient towards Him. His faith is pure and clear,
uncontaminated by any strain of ignorance, superstition or illusion. His
belief and worship are based on the Quran and the authentic Sunnah.
The Muslim is alert and open-minded to the magnificence of Allah. He
knows that it is Allah who is in control of the affairs of the universe and of
mankind, and He (Allaah) Knows all and Witnesses every secret. A Muslim
feels in the depths of his soul that he is in constant need of the help and
support of Allah, no matter how much he may think he can do for himself.
He has no choice in his life but to submit to the will of Allah, worship Him,
strive towards the Right Path and do good deeds. This will guide him to be
righteous and upright in all his deeds, both in public and in private. A
Muslim recognizes the signs of the unlimited power of Allah in the
universe, and so his faith in Allah increases: Allah, The Exalted, Says (what
means): Verily! In the creation of the heavens and the earth and (in) the
difference of night and day are tokens (of His sovereignty) for men of
understanding. Such as remember Allah, standing, sitting, and reclining,
and consider the creation of the heavens and the earth, (and say): Our
Lord! You created not this in vain. Glory be to You! Preserve us from the
doom of Fire. [Quran 3: 190-191]

His attitude towards his body, mind and soul. The Muslim pays due
attention to his bodys physical, intellectual and spiritual needs. He takes
good care of his body, promoting its good health and strength. He is
active, doesnt eat in excess; but he eats enough to maintain his health
and energy. He understands that a strong believer is more loved by Allah
than a weak believer. Allah, The Exalted, Says (what means): Eat and
drink; but waste not by excess, for Allah loves not the wasters. [Quran 7:
31]. The Muslim keeps away from drugs and stimulants. He also does not
forget to exercise regularly to maintain his physical fitness. The Muslim
also keeps his body and clothes very clean. He bathes frequently. The
Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allah exalt his mention )
placed a great emphasis on cleanliness and bathing. Cleanliness makes
the Muslim more likeable to people. He also takes care of his mouth and
teeth. It is no surprise that the Muslim is concerned with his clothing and
appearance. The Muslim does all of this in accordance with the Islamic
ideal of moderation, avoiding the extremes of exaggeration and
negligence.

Allaah Says (what means): Say: Who has forbidden the adornment of
Allah which He has brought forth for His bondmen, and the good things of
His providing? Say: Such, on the Day of Resurrection, will be only for those
who believed during the life of the world. Thus do We detail Our
revelations for people who have knowledge. [Quran 7: 32]

As for his intellectual care, the Muslim takes care of his mind by perusing
beneficial knowledge. He is responsible to seek knowledge whether it is
religious or secular, so he may understand the nature and the essence of
things. Allah Says (what means): and say: My Lord! Increase me in
knowledge. [Quran 20: 114]

The Muslim does not forget that man is not only composed of a body and a
mind, but that he also possesses a soul and a spirit, and feels a longing for
higher things that make him rise above this materialistic life and scale the
heights of goodness, virtue and light.

Therefore, the Muslim pays as much attention to his spiritual development

as to his physical and intellectual development, in a precisely balanced
fashion which does not concentrate on one aspect to the detriment of
others.

His attitude towards people

With his parents, the Muslim is an example of sincere filial piety. He treats
them with kindness and respect, infinite compassion, utter politeness and
deep gratitude. He recognizes their status and knows his duties towards
them. Allah Says (what means): And serve Allah. Ascribe nothing as
partner unto Him. (Show) kindness unto parents [Quran 4: 36]

With his wife, the Muslim exemplifies good and kind treatment, intelligent
handling, deep understanding of the nature and psychology of women,
and proper fulfillment of his responsibilities and duties.
With his children, the Muslim is a parent who understands his great
responsibility towards them which is, as well as flooding them with love
and compassion, to pay attention to anything that may influence their
Islamic development and give them proper education, so that they
become active and constructive elements in society, and a source of
goodness for their parents, community, and society as a whole.

With his relatives, the Muslim maintains the ties of kinship and knows his
duties towards them. He understands the high status given to relatives in
Islam, which makes him keep in touch with them, no matter what the
circumstances.

With his neighbors, the Muslim illustrates good treatment and

consideration of others feelings and sensitivities. He puts up with
mistreatment and turns a blind eye to his neighbors faults while taking
care not to commit any such errors himself.

The Muslim relationship with his brothers and friends is the best and
purest of relationships, for it is based on love for the sake of Allah. He is
loving, not cold towards them; he is loyal and does not betray them; he is
sincere and does not cheat them; he is gentle and never harsh; he is
tolerant and forgiving; he is generous and he supplicates for them (his
brothers and friends).

In his social relationships with all people, the Muslim is well-mannered,

civil and noble, characterized by the attitudes which Islam encourages.

The Muslim does not envy others. He fulfils his promises. He has the
attitude of shyness. He is cheerful. He is not pushy. He is patient. He
avoids slandering or uttering obscenities. He does not unjustly accuse
others. He is shy and modest. He does not interfere in that which does not
concern him. He refrains from gossiping, spreading slander and stirring up
trouble. He avoids false speech and suspicion. When he is entrusted with a
secret, he keeps it. He is modest and never arrogant. He does not make
fun of anyone. He respects his elders. He mixes with the best of people.
He strives to reconcile between the Muslims. He calls others to Islam with
wisdom and beautiful preaching. He visits the sick and attends funerals.
He returns favors and is grateful for them. He guides people to do good.
He always likes to make things easy and not difficult.
The Muslim is fair in his judgements. He is not a hypocrite, a sycophant or
a show-off. He does not boast about his deeds and achievements. He is
straightforward and is never devious or twisted, no matter what the
circumstances. He loves noble things and hates foolishness. He is
generous and does not remind others of his gifts or favors. He is
hospitable and does not complain when a guest comes to him. He prefers
others to himself as much as possible. He relieves the burden of the
debtor. He is proud and does not think of begging.