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Introduction of Survey:

The survey is conducted between 90 peoples in NFC Institute of Engineering & Fertilizer Research Faisalabad. It includes the students of 1 st semester, 3 rd semester, 5 th semester & 7 th semester from all departments including teachers, boys & girls. The purpose of the survey is just to give you the exposure about what you are thinking & what you can think. Everyone gives the 100% response. Everyone from all of you gives the right answers according to his/her thinking level. I really appreciate your efforts. I am very thankful to all of you for considering it valuable and giving the answers.

Each question contains two answers. Answer-1 is the result of survey. Answer-2 is the suggestion & relevant material from my side.

“Words of answer-2 are not my creativity (words). These are the reflection of the study of different books, ideas, thoughts, articles, results of surveys conducted by experts in worldwide & the opinion of experts.”

Do you think you waste your time on daily basis? If yes then why you can’t make your time productive? If No then what you do in your free time?

Introduction:

Time wasting concept is different for different people. For example person A and Person B are watching the same movie. Now the difference is, person A is watching the movie to learn something new but person B is watching for having a fun or time passing. Similarly, for example person A listen songs because songs listening are the key drivers for him/her but person B is listening for useless purposes or time wasting.

Answer-1

90% (81 Persons) people give the answers: “Yes I waste my time.” They give the following reasons of their time wasting:

LazinessThey give the following reasons of their time wasting: Social Media (Facebook, What Sapp) Lack of

Social Media (Facebook, What Sapp)give the following reasons of their time wasting: Laziness Lack of encouragement in university Mobile Phones

Lack of encouragement in universitytime wasting: Laziness Social Media (Facebook, What Sapp) Mobile Phones Watching movies & Dramas Do not

Mobile Phones(Facebook, What Sapp) Lack of encouragement in university Watching movies & Dramas Do not know what

Watching movies & DramasWhat Sapp) Lack of encouragement in university Mobile Phones Do not know what to do Education

Do not know what to doin university Mobile Phones Watching movies & Dramas Education system Time wasting gives me long-lasting memories

Education systemPhones Watching movies & Dramas Do not know what to do Time wasting gives me long-lasting

Time wasting gives me long-lasting memoriesmovies & Dramas Do not know what to do Education system Lack of productive environment Lack

Lack of productive environmentEducation system Time wasting gives me long-lasting memories Lack of commitment & determination Sleeping Internet

Lack of commitment & determinationTime wasting gives me long-lasting memories Lack of productive environment Sleeping Internet Playing games Friends talking

Sleepingmemories Lack of productive environment Lack of commitment & determination Internet Playing games Friends talking

Internetmemories Lack of productive environment Lack of commitment & determination Sleeping Playing games Friends talking

Playing gamesmemories Lack of productive environment Lack of commitment & determination Sleeping Internet Friends talking

Friends talkingmemories Lack of productive environment Lack of commitment & determination Sleeping Internet Playing games

Only 10% (9 Persons) peoples give the answers: “No, I do not waste my time.Combine result of these 10% people is as follows:

“Everyone from born to till death, nobody waste its time. There exists some sort of learning at each level of your life in any situation either you consider it or not. Everything in your life & every happening in your surroundings teach you a lesson both it is worse or good and this is called experience. If you satisfied from that experience then it’s not a time waste but if you are not satisfied then it’s a time waste.”

They mention the following activities that they do in their free time:

Sketchingthe following activities that they do in their free time: Net Browsing Song Listening Observing the

Net Browsingactivities that they do in their free time: Sketching Song Listening Observing the surroundings Reading books,

Song Listeningthat they do in their free time: Sketching Net Browsing Observing the surroundings Reading books, articles

Observing the surroundingsdo in their free time: Sketching Net Browsing Song Listening Reading books, articles & quotations Thinking

Reading books, articles & quotationsNet Browsing Song Listening Observing the surroundings Thinking Art & craft Learning from movies Answer-2

Thinkingthe surroundings Reading books, articles & quotations Art & craft Learning from movies Answer-2 Herbert Grey,

Art & craftReading books, articles & quotations Thinking Learning from movies Answer-2 Herbert Grey, a businessman,

Learning from moviesbooks, articles & quotations Thinking Art & craft Answer-2 Herbert Grey, a businessman, conducted a long-term

Answer-2

Herbert Grey, a businessman, conducted a long-term study searching for what he called “the common denominator of success.” After eleven years, he finally concluded that the common denominator of success was that “successful people make a habit of doing the things that unsuccessful people don’t like to do.” What Grey found was that successful people are more concerned with “pleasing results,” whereas failures were more concerned about “pleasing methods.” Successful, happy people were more concerned with the positive, long-term consequences of their behaviors, whereas unsuccessful people were more concerned with personal enjoyment and immediate gratification. Motivational speaker Denis Waitley has said that the top people were those who were more concerned with activities that were “goal achieving,” whereas average people were more concerned with activities that were “tension relieving.”

Bad habits are easy to form, but hard to live with. Good habits are hard to form, but easy to live with. And as Goethe said, “Everything is hard before it’s easy.” It is hard to form the habits of self-discipline, self-mastery, and self- control, but once you have developed them, they become automatic and easy to practice. When the habits of self-discipline are firmly connected with your behavior, you start to feel uncomfortable when you are not behaving in a self- disciplined manner.

The rule is that “to become someone that you have never been before, you must do something that you have never done before.” This means that to develop a superior character, you must exert ever higher levels of self- discipline and self-mastery on yourself. You must do the things that average people don’t like to do. Another success principle is that “to achieve something that you have never achieved before, you must learn and practice qualities and skills that you have never had before.”

By practicing self-discipline, you become a new person. You become better, stronger, and more clearly defined. You develop higher levels of self- esteem, self-respect, and personal pride. The person you are today, your innermost character, is the sum total of all your choices and decisions in life up to this date. You are a “choosing organism.” You are constantly making choices, one way or the other. Every choice you make is a statement about your true values and priorities. At each moment, you choose what is more important or of higher value to you over what is less important or of lesser value.

Qualities & characteristic are either God gifted or can be learned (created)?

Introduction:

Dear friends this question is very sensitive and it needs a lot of study and concentration. Some of you may ask that I am talking against Islam or denying the God gifted qualities but actually I am not doing this. God gives us a very intelligent and extra-ordinary mind to every human either human is physical fit (men, women) or disabled (blind, deaf, disable). Now it is our duty and responsibility to use or explore it. It depends on us how much we expand it. The good news is that your mind is like a muscle. It grows stronger and more capable with use. Everyone have ability to do something unique and extra-ordinary than others but he/she have to find that special ability.

In Holy Quran Allah Says: “Nothing can move without my permission even the leaves of trees.” But in another place Allah says: “Everyone has its own choices to do anything either right or wrong.” I intend to all of you to focus and try to understand the answer.

Answer-1

70% people give almost the same answer and they give the following answer:

Some qualities are God gifted & some can be learned by:

HardworkingSome qualities are God gifted & some can be learned by: Education Strong Decision Determination Society

Educationare God gifted & some can be learned by: Hardworking Strong Decision Determination Society Punctuality Dedication

Strong Decisiongifted & some can be learned by: Hardworking Education Determination Society Punctuality Dedication Burning Desire

Determinationcan be learned by: Hardworking Education Strong Decision Society Punctuality Dedication Burning Desire The company we

Societyby: Hardworking Education Strong Decision Determination Punctuality Dedication Burning Desire The company we keeps

PunctualityHardworking Education Strong Decision Determination Society Dedication Burning Desire The company we keeps Doing

DedicationEducation Strong Decision Determination Society Punctuality Burning Desire The company we keeps Doing different

Burning DesireStrong Decision Determination Society Punctuality Dedication The company we keeps Doing different activities Practice

The company we keepsDetermination Society Punctuality Dedication Burning Desire Doing different activities Practice Choosing right direction

Doing different activitiesSociety Punctuality Dedication Burning Desire The company we keeps Practice Choosing right direction Home Environment

PracticeDedication Burning Desire The company we keeps Doing different activities Choosing right direction Home Environment

Choosing right directionSociety Punctuality Dedication Burning Desire The company we keeps Doing different activities Practice Home Environment

HomeDedication Burning Desire The company we keeps Doing different activities Practice Choosing right direction Environment

EnvironmentDedication Burning Desire The company we keeps Doing different activities Practice Choosing right direction Home

30% people give the following answer:

“Just talents are God gifted and we have to create the desired qualities and characteristics by using that talent. Everyone has some special quality which makes him/her different from other people. But now depends on the person that he/she how much discover or polish that quality. Learning gate is always open for everyone.”

Answer-2

Your ability to learn, grow, and fulfill your potential is unlimited. Your ability to learn and remember can continue throughout your life if you keep your brain alive, alert, and functioning at its best. The good news is that almost every important skill is learnable. Every business skill is learnable. Everyone who is proficient in any area was at one time completely ignorant in that area. All moneymaking skills are learnable as well. Almost every wealthy person was once poor. You can learn anything you need to learn to achieve any goal you can set for yourself. The starting point of your moving upward and onward toward becoming one of the most competent, most respected, and highest paid people in your field is simple: Make a decision!

We are all born to lead successful lives but our conditioning leads us to failure. We are born to win but are conditioned to lose. We often hear statements like, this person is just lucky, he touches dirt and it turns to gold or, he is unlucky, no matter what he touches, it turns to dirt. This is not true. If you analyze, the successful person is doing something right in each transaction and the failure is repeating the same mistake in each transaction. Remember, practice does not make perfect. Only perfect practice makes perfect. Practice makes permanent whatever you do repeatedly. Some people keep practicing their mistakes and they become perfect in them. So their mistakes become perfect and automatic.

Our thinking pattern becomes habitual. We form habits and habits form character. Before you realize that you have got the habit, the habit has got you. We need to form the habit of thinking right. Someone once said, "Our thoughts lead to actions, actions lead to habits, and habits form character." Character leads to destiny.

How do we get conditioned?

Think of the mighty elephant that can lift in excess of a ton of weight with just its trunk. How do they condition the elephant to stay in one place with a weak rope and a stake? The elephant, when it is a baby, is tied to a strong chain and a strong tree. The baby is weak but the chain and tree are strong. The baby is not used to being tied. So it keeps tugging and pulling the chain, all in vain. A day comes when it realizes that all the tugging and pulling will not help. It stops and stands still. Now it is conditioned. And when the baby elephant becomes the mighty giant elephant, he is tied with a weak rope and a small stake. The elephant could, with one tug, walk away free, but it goes nowhere, because it has been conditioned.

We are constantly being conditioned, consciously or unconsciously, by exposure to:

The kind of books we read.conditioned, consciously or unconsciously, by exposure to: The kind of society we live. The kind of

The kind of society we live.or unconsciously, by exposure to: The kind of books we read. The kind of movies and

The kind of movies and TV programs we watch.to: The kind of books we read. The kind of society we live. The kind of

The kind of music we listen to.we live. The kind of movies and TV programs we watch. The kind of company we

The kind of company we keep.and TV programs we watch. The kind of music we listen to. While driving to work,

While driving to work, if we listen to the same music every day for several days, and if the tape deck breaks down, guess what tune we will be humming? Insanity is defined as doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. If you keep doing what you have been doing, you will keep getting what you have gotten. The most difficult thing about changing a habit is unlearning what is not working and learning positive habits. Our input equals our output. Our subconscious mind does not discriminate. Whatever we choose to put into our subconscious mind it will accept and our behavior will reflect that accordingly.

Success in ; success out. Failure in ; failure out.

The First Blind Athlete in the Olympics Marla Runyan won four gold medals at the 1992 Summer Paralympics. By 2001 she won her first of three consecutive 5000 meter National Championships. The First Blind painter John Bramblitt has received much recognition, including the "Most Inspirational Video of 2008" from YouTube and three Presidential Service Awards for his innovative art workshops. His art has been sold in over twenty countries and he has appeared internationally in print, TV, and radio.

How you judge the people? Introduction:

Concept of judging the people is different for different peoples. You can judge the people in many perspectives like physically, morally, intellectually and for future life achievements. Examples of each case are given blew:

1- If the perspective of person A is to judge the person B by physically then definitely person A focus will focus on physical appearance of person B like dressing, health fitness, personality, way of walking and etc.

2- If the perspective of person A is to judge the person B morally then person

A will not focus on external looks but person A will focus on person B’s ideas,

thoughts, manners, character, way of talking and etc.

3- If the perspective of person A is to judge the person B for future life either he/she will be highly successful or average successful in future then person A will focus on person B’s goals, determinations, discipline, commitments, self- improvements, burning desires, decisions, sacrifices, time management and etc.

4- If the perspective of person A is to judge the person B for intellectually then person A will focus on person B’s activities, interests, company (Friends), beliefs, skills, and etc.

Answer-1

85% people give the following answer: I judge the people by following ways:

Company which he keepsthe following answer: I judge the people by following ways: Nature (18 persons) Way of talking

Nature (18 persons)I judge the people by following ways: Company which he keeps Way of talking Behavior (36

Way of talkingfollowing ways: Company which he keeps Nature (18 persons) Behavior (36 persons) Daily Routine Dealing with

Behavior (36 persons)Company which he keeps Nature (18 persons) Way of talking Daily Routine Dealing with me &

Daily RoutineNature (18 persons) Way of talking Behavior (36 persons) Dealing with me & others How they

Dealing with me & otherspersons) Way of talking Behavior (36 persons) Daily Routine How they entertain Moral works Spending time

How they entertain(36 persons) Daily Routine Dealing with me & others Moral works Spending time Attitude with poor

Moral worksRoutine Dealing with me & others How they entertain Spending time Attitude with poor people (1

Spending timeDealing with me & others How they entertain Moral works Attitude with poor people (1 person)

Attitude with poor people (1 person)me & others How they entertain Moral works Spending time Thoughts (4 persons) Dressing (18 persons)

Thoughts (4 persons)works Spending time Attitude with poor people (1 person) Dressing (18 persons) The words that he

Dressing (18 persons)Attitude with poor people (1 person) Thoughts (4 persons) The words that he used to say

The words that he used to say on someone’s back (1 person)people (1 person) Thoughts (4 persons) Dressing (18 persons) Activities Creative thoughts (1 person) Face expressions

ActivitiesThe words that he used to say on someone’s back (1 person) Creative thoughts (1 person)

Creative thoughts (1 person)he used to say on someone’s back (1 person) Activities Face expressions 14% people give the

Face expressionsback (1 person) Activities Creative thoughts (1 person) 14% people give the following answers: 1- “I

14% people give the following answers:

1- “I always think positive about the people initially then it depends on their behaviors.” 2- “I never judge the people. I only came to know about people when they interact with me & it totally depends on their attitudes how they behave with me.” 3- “I morally do not get curious about judging the people. They mostly show themselves in two to three hours conversation.” 4- “Do not judge the book by its cover that is my policy” 5- “I do not judge the people. Everyone have good and bad qualities at the same time.”

Answer-2

You all see the only 10% skills, abilities or habits of other people physically. The remaining 90% are hidden inside the person like the iceberg. You just judge the people on focusing 10% but you should also focus on remaining 90%. Hazrat Ali (R.A) said: “If you want to judge someone then observe the person in the situation of anger and in journey.” Similarly, If you want to check the abilities of person either he/she will be highly successful or average successful in future life then observe his/her activities and talks which he do in its free time.

How

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Introduction:

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You are surrounded by an ocean of thoughts and you are floating in the ocean of thoughts. You are absorbing certain thoughts and repelling some in the thought world. Everyone has his own thought-world. Thought can do anything. The velocity of thought is unimaginable. Thought is finer than either, the medium of electricity. In broadcasting, a singer sings beautiful songs at London but you can hear them nicely through the radio set in your own house anywhere in the world. All messages are received through the wireless. Even your mind is like a wireless machine. A person with peace, poise, harmony and spiritual waves sends out into the world thoughts of harmony and peace. They travel with lightning speed in all directions and enter the minds of persons and produce in them also similar thoughts of harmony and peace. Whereas a worldly man whose mind is full of jealousy, anger, revenge and hatred sends out negative thoughts which enter in the minds of thousands and stick in their minds.

If you throw a piece of stone in a tank or a pool of water, it will produce a number of concentric waves travelling all around from the affected place. The light of a candle will similarly give rise to waves of ethereal vibrations travelling in all directions from the candle. In the same manner, when a thought, whether positive or negative, crosses the mind of a person, it gives rise to vibrations in the mental atmosphere, which travel far and wide in all directions. You may cease to your thoughts but your thoughts can never die. A normal person has more than 60,000 thoughts per day but most of them up to 50,000 are negative thoughts.

Answer-1

Every person gives different answers. Their answer is given blew.

Someone can remove negative thoughts by:

Engaging himself busyis given blew. Someone can remove negative thoughts by: Participating in healthy activities Thinking truly/rational

Participating in healthy activitiesgiven blew. Someone can remove negative thoughts by: Engaging himself busy Thinking truly/rational Changing social circle

Thinking truly/rationalSomeone can remove negative thoughts by: Engaging himself busy Participating in healthy activities Changing social circle

Changing social circleSomeone can remove negative thoughts by: Engaging himself busy Participating in healthy activities Thinking truly/rational

Offering prayers (44 Persons)Writing your thoughts (1 Person) Faith of God in mind Research/study Trusting other peoples Joining

Writing your thoughts (1 Person)Offering prayers (44 Persons) Faith of God in mind Research/study Trusting other peoples Joining good company

Faith of God in mindprayers (44 Persons) Writing your thoughts (1 Person) Research/study Trusting other peoples Joining good company

Research/studyWriting your thoughts (1 Person) Faith of God in mind Trusting other peoples Joining good company

Trusting other peoplesyour thoughts (1 Person) Faith of God in mind Research/study Joining good company (Friends) Thinking positive

Joining good company (Friends)Faith of God in mind Research/study Trusting other peoples Thinking positive Creating positive environment in

Thinking positiveTrusting other peoples Joining good company (Friends) Creating positive environment in surrounding Adopting good

Creating positive environment in surroundingpeoples Joining good company (Friends) Thinking positive Adopting good habits Helping the poor people Answer-2 Most

Adopting good habitspositive Creating positive environment in surrounding Helping the poor people Answer-2 Most of our behavior is

Helping the poor peoplepositive environment in surrounding Adopting good habits Answer-2 Most of our behavior is habitual. It comes

Answer-2

Most of our behavior is habitual. It comes automatically without thinking. Character is the sum total of our habits. If a person has positive habits, then he is considered a positive character. A person with negative habits is a negative character. Habits are a lot stronger than logic and reasoning. Habits start by being too weak to be felt, and end up becoming too strong to get out of. Habits can be developed by default or determination. I remember as a child my parents telling me, "You should form good habits because habits form character." That means we must make it a habit. We are all being conditioned continuously by the environment and the media, and we start behaving like robots. It is our responsibility to condition ourselves in a positive manner.

Our input equals our output. Our subconscious mind does not discriminate. Whatever we choose to put into our subconscious mind it will accept and our behavior will reflect that accordingly.

Negativity in ; negativity out. Positivity in ; positivity out. Good in ; good out.

There are dozens of negative emotions. Although the most common are guilt, resentment, envy, jealousy, fear, and hostility, they all ultimately boil down to a feeling of anger, directed either inward or outward.

The fastest and most dependable way to eliminate negative emotions is to immediately say, “I am responsible!” Whenever something happens that triggers anger or a negative reaction of any kind, quickly neutralize the feelings of negativity by saying, “I am responsible.” The Law of Substitution says that you can substitute a positive thought for a negative one. Since your mind can hold only one thought at a time, when you choose the positive thought, “I am responsible,” you cancel out any other thought or emotion at that moment. It is not possible to accept responsibility and remain angry at the same time. It is not possible to accept responsibility and experience negative emotions. It is not possible to accept responsibility without becoming calm, clear, positive, and focused once more.

When you accept responsibility, you feel strong, powerful, and purposeful. Accepting responsibility eliminates the negative emotions that destroy you of happiness. When you exert your willpower in the acceptance of personal responsibility for your life, you take complete control of your thoughts and feelings. By doing so, you become a much more effective, happy, and positive person in everything you do.

FACTORS THAT DETERMINE OUR ATTITUDE

Are we born with attitudes or do we develop them as we mature? What are the factors that form our attitudes? If you have a negative outlook on life because of your environment, can you change your attitude? Most of our attitude is shaped during our formative years.

There are primarily three factors that determine our attitude. They are:

1. Environment

2. Experience

3. Education

These are called the triple E’s of attitude. Let's evaluate each of the factors

individually.

1. Environment

Environment consists of the following:

Home: positive or negative influences1. Environment Environment consists of the following: School: peer pressure Work: supportive or over critical supervisor

School: peer pressureof the following: Home: positive or negative influences Work: supportive or over critical supervisor Media:

Work: supportive or over critical supervisorHome: positive or negative influences School: peer pressure Media: television, newspapers, magazines, radio, movies

Media: television, newspapers, magazines, radio, moviespeer pressure Work: supportive or over critical supervisor Cultural background Religious background Traditions and

Cultural backgroundMedia: television, newspapers, magazines, radio, movies Religious background Traditions and beliefs Social

Religious backgroundnewspapers, magazines, radio, movies Cultural background Traditions and beliefs Social environment Political

Traditions and beliefsradio, movies Cultural background Religious background Social environment Political environment 2. Experiences Our

Social environmentbackground Religious background Traditions and beliefs Political environment 2. Experiences Our behavior changes

Political environmentbackground Traditions and beliefs Social environment 2. Experiences Our behavior changes according to our

2. Experiences

Our behavior changes according to our experiences with people and events in our life. If we have a positive experience with a person, our attitude toward him becomes positive and vice versa.

3. Education

I refer to both formal and informal education, not just academic qualifications. Knowledge strategically applied translates into wisdom, ensuring success. I talk of education in the broader sense. It makes the role of the educator vital. A teacher affects eternity. The ripple effect is immeasurable. We are drowning in information but starving for knowledge and wisdom. Education ought to teach us not only how to make a living but also how to live.

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Usman Farooq Faiz Ali

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