The Living Photograph

Lets read the poem-

The Living Photograph

My small grandmother is tall there,

straight-back, white broderie anglaise shirt,

pleated skirt, flat shoes, grey bun,

a kind, old smile round her eyes.

Her big hand holds mine,

white hand in black hand.

Her sharp blue eyes look her own death in the eye

It was true after all; that look.

My tall grandmother became small.

Her back round and hunched.

Her soup forgot to boil.

She went to the awful place grandmothers go.

Somewhere unknown, unthinkable.

But there she is still,

in the photo with me at three,

the crinkled smile is still living, breathing.

-Jackie Kay

Understanding the poem:

Stanza 1 tells us that in the photograph, grandmother looks tall although she is
supposed to be small. Her grandmother is still youthful and has a straight-
back. She is wearing a white broderie anglaise shirt and a pleated skirt
which shows that she is a woman of class, upper or middle. She is a kind and
loving person. Her big hand holds mine, white hand in black hand-Perhaps, the
writer and her grandmother come from different ethnic background. The
personas grandmother was a very brave person as she was not afraid of death
Her sharp blue eyes look her own death in the eye. Note that the poet used the
present tense to describe her grandmother.

In stanza 2, the persona refers to her grandma in past tense when describing her
actual state before dying. Her grandmother began to grow older and develop a
hunch back. She had become forgetful as dementia sets in Her soup forgot to
boil before she died She went to the awful place grandmothers go. Perhaps
as a young child, the persona didnt understand what that place was, it was just
unknown and unthinkable.

Stanza 3 describes how the poet wants to remember her grandmother. The
memory of her grandmother will definitely live on but she doesnt want to
remember her as old and senile, but as how her grandmother was in the photo
with her when she was only three years old. She will always be remembered with
her smile. Note that the present tense is used once again.

Language and Style

The language is clear and easy to understand. The Style is simple and direct to
the point. There isnt any clear rhyme scheme.

Tone and Mood

The tone heads towards a sense of strong family relationships. There is a lot of
thought and love felt in the poem.

Point of View

The persona uses the words my and me. Thus, it is in the first person point of
view.

Symbolism

The photograph symbolises the closeness between the grandmother and the
persona. It highlights the feelings of the persona towards her grandmother.
Themes

Positive image people create in remembrance of a departed person. Just like the
persona we remember our dearly departed persons by the great things about
them. The persona wants to remember her grandma as how she was in the
photo, not the days before she died. When our loved ones die, we no longer see
the ugly side of a person. We forget and forgive all their shortcomings, when
they die.

Coping with grief and loss. One excellent way to cope with grief and loss is to
cling on the good memories of a person, instead of remembering the bad. The
persona coped with grief for the loss of her grandma by keeping it in her heart
that although her grandma is not with her anymore physically, she is still alive in
her heart. She celebrates her grandmothers life.

Moral Value

We must appreciate close family members while they are still alive. The poem
teaches us that we must spend time with our loved ones because when they are
gone all that will be left are the memories of the time spent together.

Discussion

The poet, Jackie Kay, is half Scottish, half Nigerian, and she was adopted by a
Scottish family. The persona could be the poet Ms Jackie Kay herself, hence the
white hand in black hand. The poet says that her grandmother is tall in the
photo but later became small as at the time the photo was taken her
grandmother was younger. Her back was straight. Thus, she seemed taller. It
could also be because the writer was very young at the time -about three years
old as mentioned in the last stanza. As her grandmother grew older, her back
became round and hunched. Therefore, she appeared small. Note that
although the grandma is dead, she refers to her in the present tense. This shows
that she is alive in her heart, and that the state of her grandma in the photo is
how she wants to remember her. In the first stanza, the grandmother is strong
and healthy in the photograph while in the second stanza the grandmother is
older and ill. In stanza 2, the grandmother is described in the past tense, this
also shows that the persona is over the tragedy; and her grandma is now dead.
Overall, the poem is about how a photograph immortalises a person. This is
shown in the poem where she will always be remembered by the persona with
the photograph although the grandmother is dead.