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Catch Him And
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What Every Woman Should
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AGAINST It? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24
Focus On Understanding, Not Criticizing . . . . . . . . 30
Getting What You Give: 3 Ways To Respond To A Man . . . . 34
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The Courtship Dance: Who Chases, Who "Selects"? . . . 39
Are You His Casual "For Now" Girl, Or
"Relationship Material"? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 47
The Myth That Men Only Want One Thing . . . . . . . . 50
The Danger Of A "Connection" (Or Chemistry) . . . . . . 55
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How To Spot A Player... And How To Handle
One If You Have To . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 59
Keys To Remember From Chapter 1 . . . . . .. . .. . . . 66
My Story . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 69
On Self-Improvement (Why Blaming
Him Doesnt Work) . . . . . . . .. . . . . . . . .. . .71
Change Your Internal State, Change Your
Relationship Dynamics . . . . . .. . . . . . . . . . .73
Be Comfortable As A Woman . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .75
Keys To Remember From Chapter 2 . . . . . .. . .. . . . .80
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Awareness & Internal Observation . . . . . . . . .. . . . . . 123
The Science Of Emotions . . . . . .. . . . . . . . .. . . . . . . 127
Emotions Are Contagious . . ... .. . . . . .. . .. . . . . . . . 131
A Story About Vicki . . . . .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 134
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Keys To Remember From Chapter 4 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 136
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Chapter 8: From Casual To Committed
Communication Secrets With
Men & New Relationships . . . . . . . . . . 237
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Start With The End In Mind . . . . . . . . . . . .. . .. . . . . 237
Speaking His Language . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 239
Sex And Commitment: Thinking In Time Frames . . . . . . 241
Setting "Relationship Standards" . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .246
Pushing His Secret Communication Button . . . . . . . . . 248
Keys To Remember From Chapter 8 . . . . . .. . .. . . . . . 255
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Chapter 9: Keeping Him Attracted To You,
Or "How to Have A Long-Term
Relationship" . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . ...256
The Life Of A Relationship . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. .256
Keys To Remember From Chapter 9 . . . . . .. . .. . . . . . .260
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What do you think about us You know
about the future?
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I dont feel like you tell me about your
feelings. How do you feel about where this is
going? You know, about our relationship?
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So youve asked a simple question, right?
And when he cant answer you in a positive way,
which men often do in these situations, you become
upset or disappointed.
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If you read this book and make an ongoing
effort to learn whats in it, then your perspective on
men, dating, and relationships will change. This
change could mean the difference between ending
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up happy and in love or lonely and single.
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have to be so hard with men?
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and longer term commitments come into play?
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commit in a relationship.
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be used like an encyclopedia for reference; this
book addresses the reality of relationships. The best
way to use it is to read it and find all the parts you
like and all of the ideas, skills and techniques that
you would like to improve upon. Then take those
sections and write them down or print them out so
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you can keep them in your mind. Read them out
loud and maybe talk about it with any other women
you know that might need the help of this book.
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Success with men is more like learning to
play a musical instrument. It takes practice and
learning. At first none of it makes any sense.
Sometimes it seems as though all of your practice
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isnt making a difference.
DOING IT.
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And while I understand where theyre coming
from and I know some men need to make all kinds
of improvements, I have to say that these women
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dont get it at all. I cant tell you how to change a
man because hes not the one here looking to
improve and make changes in his life - you are.
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Chapter 1: Inside The Mind Of A
Man
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If youre ready for the inside scoop on men,
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and to have a deeper understanding of how to
connect with one special man and enjoy amazing
experiences together youre in luck. Thats part of
what this book, and specifically this Chapter, is all
about.
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What is a man?
Think about if for a minute. Youve probably
never really asked yourself this question other
than trying to understand one man in particular in
the moment in a specific situation.
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And thinking along these lines of important
questions, heres another important one
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you as a woman?
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But why bother with all this? Why does it
have to be so much work?
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The short answer is, it doesnt.
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Listen If youre a bit frustrated in your love
life and thinking that men dont make any sense
right now Ill tell you something that most other
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people (and men) wont admit
It is possible.
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Giving understanding, and seeking to first
understand, and THEN be understood really does
create more and more understanding in return.
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For most women, dating a man is like looking
at an iceberg. Much of whats there is below the
surface where you cant see it. The behavior and
communication you see and get from a man is what
I call the outer world and it doesnt show whats
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actually going on underneath the surface in the
inner world of psychology and emotions.
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relationships would be so much easier.
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Thinking from an emotional perspective,
would you want to date a lot of the women you
know? Hmmm Interesting.