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The goal of this research paper is understanding the impact of divorce on adolescence and
how it impacts the lives of people. Adolescents go through a huge process as they grow older,
and they require a lot of different sources to help them grow properly. Having such a big change
in the middle of adolescence can cause several different issues as the parents may not be able to
give the adolescent the attention and behaviors they need. There were several different studies
conducted and I will be using them to show the impact divorce has on adolescents, the problems
that come with divorce, and what an adolescent needs to grow properly.
Kids and adolescents are impacted in a number of different ways and need certain things
to mature properly. An adolescent requires a certain amount of parenting, and support system to
be able to mature in a proper way. This is much harder to do when both parents arent in the
same home, or are having problems. Now in America divorce happens in 50% of all marriages.
Divorce rates are increasing quickly and becoming much more common. This means that
children and adolescents will be dealing with divorce more and more as America continues this
trend. Just because parental divorce has become so common today (many statistics suggest
around 50% of first marriages divorce) doesn't make it any less painful or formative in the lives
of children and adolescents when it occurs. (Pickhardt,1) Adolescents are in a stage where they
are growing more independent and need to figure out who they are as people. This is the most
rebellious stage of a persons life. The normal job of an adolescent is to struggle with their own
unfamiliar urges and their (sem-internalized) parents rules and restrictions (Divorce and the
Adolescent, 1). This means that kids and adolescents need to be able to rebel and really see how
the world works through their parents rules and the stability of the environment. Kids and
adolescents lacking parents that can work together to deal with and even work with these
changes are at a huge disadvantage for the normal changes in their body and the processes of
growing older. Because the adolescent is at a more disaffected and rebellious stage with parents,
divorce can intensify their grievances (Pickhardt,1). Adolescents start having feelings for the
opposite sex, and start to feel urges they havent before. Help from older figures and parents can
help them deal with these changes and urges. Adolescents start to seek to claim independents and
thrive to see friends more often, but feel the need to stick to one parent more with divorce
(Teenagers, 2017). This is also the time where kids and adolescents start thinking more about
their future and start building better work habits (Teenagers,2017). An adolescent going through
these stages tends to pull away. Adolescents often feel betrayed by the broken parental
commitment to family and become angrier and less communicative (Pickhardt,1). Adolescents
and kids go through several steps with divorce that are unique to divorce as well. Adolescents
start to question marriage in general. Adolescents are more likely to question marriage, and
more likely to swear that they will never marry for fear their marriage will be a fail the way
their parents marriage has failed (Adolescents and Divorce, 2015). This pushes adolescent to
hold off on marrying or building strong relationships and can even lead the child to picking sides.
Adolescents are more likely than younger children to take sides in the divorce. They are more
likely to seek an explanation (and if they dont get one to make one up) about which parent is the
bad parent and which parent is the good parent (Adolescents and Divorce,2015). Kids and
adolescents start moving away from one parent and must deal with the changes more
independently and without some of their parents help because they feel so distant. Kids and
adolescents are going through all their changes and divorce makes it significantly harder.
Adolescents are impacted by divorce in huge ways. Children and adolescents trying to
mature go through a number of different problems with divorce. While adolescents are growing,
and trying to discover who they are, a divorce can drive a child or adolescent to try to fill the role
of a parent on top of everything else (Adolescents and Divorce,2015). This is a major issue
because they cant then discover who they are because they are pushed to become a parent
themselves, and that can harm the way they natural mature. Parents that have divorced need to
continually work together to make sure that the child or adolescent feels like both parents are still
parents and pushing them to be their own person. Adolescents dont always just rebel from their
parents sometimes they focus in on other things to get what they want instead of maturing.
Although the parents may not be getting along, their adolescent doesnt particularly see this as a
relevant problem, unless they are directly impacted by parental dissension. A normal, reasonably
intelligent adolescent will, sooner rather than later, try to play one parent against the other
(Divorce and the Adolescent, 1). This prevents the child or adolescent from growing or maturing
and hurts the parents relationship more. The child feels can start feeling responsible for the
divorce itself and that responsibility can start to fall on the child or adolescents shoulders as
well. These problems can start to arise and be shown through the child or adolescent in several
ways. They can start being withdrawn from the family and trying to focus on school or sports,
they can start failing in classes and having a number of different issues, or they can even focus
on trying to help a parent try to cope with the divorce and focusing all of their time and effort on
the parent instead of themselves. The child or adolescent starts to try to focus solely on the parent
or on their friends to try to cope with everything that is happening. They start to say things like
Since I can't count on my parents to be there the way they were, I need to count on myself
more." "Since my parents can abandon their old commitment to family, then so can I." "Since my
parents are now more caught up in themselves, it's okay for me to act the same" (Pickhardt,1).
Parents have such a huge impact on their children, even though divorce doesnt directly relate to
health-related issues. Third, although divorce does appear to be associated with delinquency via
environmental mechanisms, it remains unclear whether this association extends to other forms of
Disorder (Burt,1). The kid or adolescent has a harder time building emotional bonds with
people or significant others as they grow older due to the separation from the divorce. They can
keep relationships casual and superficial to avoid the necessity for commitment (Pickhardt,1).
Kids and adolescents can get the help they need with divorced parents, but only with
parents that continue to stay involved and push to keep their child a very important part of their
lives even as their lives change. Making sure the child or adolescent is still getting the attention
they need and that the separation does not hurt the childs ability to grow and mature as they
need. Giving the child the space they need to be rebellious is an important part of growing up.
While it is important to take childrens needs and wishes into account in crafting the parenting
plan at any age, with an adolescent, it is crucial to respect the childs growing independence and
need for control over their schedule (Divorce and The Adolescent,1). It is important to talk
about these problems with the child or adolescent, so the parents can encourage the teen to
develop on their own. As long as the parents continue to push the child to keep performing well
in school and both parents are there for the parents they can reduce the stress put on the child. If
the parents or adolescent becomes very stressed, just remember in spite of the inevitable
stresses and resulting distress of children of divorce, the good news is that these are usually time-
limited (Divorced and The Adolescent,1). The child or adolescent can always go thrive and try
to keep a level head in the situation, and with parents that still focus on their adolescents needs
can help the child get through the hard times. The parents need to remember to continue to be
reasonable and push the child or adolescent. The good news is that with knowledge, effort, and
adolescents connection with their parents can survive both adolescence and divorce (Divorce
In conclusion children and adolescents can be damaged by a divorce. This is not always
the case but a divorce can have a very negative impact on how a adolescent matures. Adolescents
go through a number of different changes that are very scary and require a good amount of
support. Parents that continue to help their child and encourage them to succeed despite the
divorce will be successful in keeping their child or adolescent onto the right track.
Work Cited
Adolescents and Divorce. (2015, March 02). Retrieved April 17, 2017, from
http://divorceinfo.com/chadolescents.htm
Burt, S. A., Barnes, A. R., McGue, M., & Iacono, W. G. (2008, November). Parental Divorce and
Divorce and The Adolescent. (n.d.). Retrieved April 17, 2017, from
http://www.divorcemed.com/Articles/OtherArticles/Divorce_and_the_Adolescent.htm
Pickhardt, C. (2009, August 30). Parental divorce and adolescents. Retrieved April 17, 2017,
from https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/surviving-your-childs-
adolescence/200908/parental-divorce-and-adolescents
Teenagers (15-17 years of age). (2017, January 03). Retrieved April 17, 2017, from
https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/childdevelopment/positiveparenting/adolescence2.html