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Introduction
When first choosing my topic I wanted to write on men in childcare or the impacts of fathers on
early childhood development. However when I began my research one question that many of my
sources were asking was just what a fathers roles were and what exactly fatherhood entailed. I
decided to change my topic to defining exactly what fatherhood is in American society today.
References
Allen, James. "All Men Can Be Fathers." 16 June 2013. Townhall. Article. 1 April 2017.
<https://townhall.com/columnists/jamesallen/2013/06/16/all-men-can-be-
fathers-n1620946>.
All Men Can Be Fathers is an article written by James Allen: degrees in political
science, religion, and applied ethics with certificates in civic education and international
relations. He has written many articles for Townhall, a conservative website and also has his own
radio show. Allen uses personal reflection and an appeal to pathos, and God to encourage men to
be better mentors to their children, both biological and otherwise, and to man up to their
responsibilities as fathers. Allen emphasizes the need to prepare children for the harsh world that
we live in.
I found this article while looking at conservative sites hoping to find different viewpoints
than the ones I have found on previous resources. What I have noticed is that while many of the
opinions of what defines fatherhood and being a father are the same the beliefs behind those
reasons differ greatly. This might be a subject that I would like to look into further later on but
for my view point piece I will concentrate on the defining terms of the piece. Possible quote:
the hope that men will take responsibility for their role in society. The lack of virtue, discipline,
honesty, willingness, determination, direction, and wisdom is at the root of all of our political
and social problems (Allen speaking about the role of men being responsible for teaching
Benson, Ezra. "The Honored Place of Woman." October 1981. The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-Day Saints. 15 April 2017. <https://www.lds.org/general-
conference/1981/10/the-honored-place-of-woman?lang=eng>.
In her article The Honored Place of Woman Ezra Taft Benson speaks about how the
womens place in the family is in the home. Benson uses her place as the President of the
Quorum of the Twelve Apostles to speak out to her fellow religious women in this article shared
during General Conference. Through Bible verse and speeches from former Mormon presidents
Ezra urges women and mothers to resist the design of Satan to thwart the plan of our Eternal
Father. She pays special attention to Bible verse supporting her message and claims that men
being the supporter of the family while women are the care givers and child raisers is a mandate
from God.
I chose this particular article because I wanted the opinion of the extremely right-wing
minded viewpoint and being the President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles this gives her
quite a high standing which leads me to believe reliability. Ezra is very firm in her opinion that
women and men have mandated roles from God in Heaven that they must follow and for women
to leave home or men to be caregivers while women work is the design of Satan. Not an opinion
I agree with but her belief, and thus the belief of those similar to her, is firm about parental roles.
Potential quote In the beginning, Adam was instructed to earn the bread by the sweat of his
In his article I Teach Gender Roles To My Kids And Im Good With That posted on the
conservative website RedState.com in 2014 Steve Berman speaks upon how it is the parents job,
especially the fathers, to teach children proper gender roles. Berman speaks of teaching his son
that it is not appropriate to hit girls. He shares his views that civil behavior is learned and that
children use observation and imitation to learn gender roles. Berman denounces popular culture
that applauds parents that allow their children to choose their own gender, or that say boys or
girls could be trapped in a body of the opposite sex. He speaks of children not being cognitively
able to make that decision. Berman believes that God does not make mistakes and that it is lax in
This was a very interesting read. It is obvious that Berman is very firm in his viewpoint
of fathers needing to be firm gender roles. I do agree that fathers are gender/sexual role models
though maybe not for the same reason. I was hesitant to use this article at first because there is
little information about the author but I also wanted a viewpoint outside of academia. Potential
quote: Boys are not innately gifted with the knowledge not to hit girls. Practically everything
that we consider to be civil behavior is learned. The womb and DNA only go so far, and the rest
Lamb, Michael. The Role of the Father in Child Development Fifth Edition. Hoboken:
John Wiley & Sons, Inc, 2010. Print.
In his Book The Role of the Father in Child Development Fifth Edition 2010 Professor
of Psychology Dr. Michael Lamb uses a combination of research from international experts on
child and family relationships and development to give readers a thorough understanding of the
roles and state of fatherhood from different cultures, economic backgrounds, classes, and family
structures. The book works as a guide and is updated regularly to include most recent findings
I found this book through another article that I was reluctant to use as a source for my
viewpoint essay but after researching the author and finding Lamb a reputable source I decided
to use the book. Unfortunately I do not own the text, nor am I able to afford the $50 plus price
tag, but was able to read the relevant chapter in store and found the first several pages available
to download from Research Gate for me to take notes with. Possible quote By popular
consensus, fathers were primarily responsible for ensuring that their children grew up with an
Piper, John. "Do Fathers and Mothers Have Different Roles In Parenting." 3 October
2008. Desiring God. audio Transcript. 15 April 2017.
<http://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/do-fathers-and-mothers-have-
different-roles-in-parenting>.
In this short audio transcript Pastor John Piper speaks of the differing roles of fathers and
mothers in parenting. Pastor Piper uses references from biblical and religious teachings to
emphasize the differences between these paternal roles. Piper speaks of fathers as teachers,
providers, disciplinarians, protectors, and leaders. Mother are to be joyful and intelligent in their
affirmation and submission to their husbands. Piper emphasizes that children are watching their
parents and learning the roles that men and women play through their parents.
According to Desiring Gods Author page John Piper is fonder and teacher of desiringGod.org.
He is chancellor of Bethlehem College & Seminary and has served as pastor of Bethlehem
Baptist Church, Minneapolis, Minnesota for 33 years. Piper has written more than 50 books and
has given several interviews. Further research showed that Piper has a complementarian view of
gender and family roles; husbands are called to lovingly lead, protect, and provide for his family,
women should affirm and submit to her husbands leadership but in a joyful and intelligent way.
I chose this source because his beliefs behind his views on fatherhood roles are very
different than my own. I wanted to add this viewpoint to my paper to lend a different perspective.
Possible quote: Fathers are given a unique responsibility in the marriage to lead, protect and
provide for a wife, those three things. And the children are watching this, and they know that a
special role is given to dad. Speaking on fathers being a model of gender/sexual roles.
Pruett, Kyle D. M.D>. Fatherneed: Why Father Care is as Essential as Mother Care
for Your Child. New York: Free Press, 2000. print.
In his Book Fatherneed: Why Father Care is as Essential as Mother Care for Your Child
2000 Kyle uses a combination of research from the Yale Child Study Center and interviews from
several families to show readers how mothers and fathers are different in their parenting styles
and why the difference is so important to the successful development of children. Kyle also
includes in his book advice from his research and interviews from families on helping parents,
especially fathers, help their children develop into healthy and happy adults.
I felt that this source was very credible. The author is very well known in his field as a
specialist and has worked as a psychiatrist and associate clinical professor at the Yale Child
Study Center. He has also written many publications including books, journals, and articles. He
is also the recipient of many awards and visiting scholar and professorships. This increases the
sources ethos, or credibility. I focused primarily on the first three chapters as they pertained to
my research topic of defining fatherhood in American society. The text also included many
The Importance of Fathers in the Healthy Development of Children is from the Child
Abuse and Neglect User Manual Series distributed by the U.S. Department of Health and Human
Services. Its purpose is to provide advice and guidance to concerned community members,
I first found this resource when looking for statistics but found good viewpoints that can
be used in my paper for fathers role as provider as well as nurturer. Being published and
distributed by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services as well as its child and family
that a nonresidential father, even if he is only able to provide minimal child support, is much
more likely to help support the child financially over the years if he is involved in his childs life
than if he is not emotionally connected to his child. (p 31) Note to self: this would be a good
In her article The Changing Definition of Dad Webb speaks about the evolving roles
of fathers as teachers, parents, partners in a relationship, and members of society. Webb speaks of
the constantly changing views of societal expectations as well as changing familial expectations.
She speaks of shifting traditions in fatherhood over time, changes in child care perceptions, and
urges fathers to make their relationships into true partnerships. Webb goes on to encourage
fathers to be involved and knowledgeable about their children and to not let obsolete societal
expectations affect their relationships with their families or how they interact and care for their
children.
I could find little information on Kathleen Web, the author of the article, outside of her
social media pages. The website author information page states that she Co-founded HomeWork
Solutions which helps with tax services to families employing household workers such as
nannies. She has written several articles and has been featured in the Wall Street Journal,
Kiplingers Personal Finance, and the Congressional Quarterly. She also worked on drafting the
1994 Nanny Tax Law. Webb is a graduate of Boston College and is Co-President of the
International Nanny Association. While this does not make her an expert in my topic she did
bring up many good points and used credible resources in her blog.
I found this article when I was looking for popular social opinion on the definition of
fatherhood. I wanted an opinion that was based on the public rather than a government site or a
scholarly article. What do the common people say rather than what the professionals say we
should think. Potential quote: The fathers of today are in a very different cultural environment
than their fathers or grandfathers. They are having children much later in life. Traditional gender
norms are less concrete than they once were, and often both parents often must be active in the
workforce to make ends meet. This means that traditional responsibilities are shared, and fathers
find themselves more involved in child-rearing, due to both desire and necessity.
In his article What is Fatherhood? Searching for the Reflexive Father Williams uses
personal circumstances rather than the modeling of previous generations as was the case in past
generations. Williams continues to imply that societal change impacts the role of the modern
father.
A very interesting read with a look into the roles of fathers in the past and the ways that
they are changing. I paid particular attention to the claims about the fathers role as a provider
and the fathers role as a sex-role model though he mentioned the moral teacher and nurturing
father as well. Possible quote covering sex-role model: where the father was seen as necessary
for the (re)production of easily definable sex roles. Here, the primary function of the male parent
was to show young men how the male fitted into family life in a positive fashion. (p 489)
Overall Conclusion:
My topic was very interesting and actually somewhat difficult to research because I of the type
of paper I am writing, a defining paper. My sources, while plentiful, were very similar on their
opinion on what fatherhood entails and what a fathers roles were. The differences came in the
reasoning behind the roles, however those reasons were not the focus of the paper. I concentrated
on finding several different stakeholders and their opinions on the subject. In the future I would
like to look further into the effects the changing roles of fatherhood would have on the differing
stakeholders.