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Daniela Ochoa
Mrs. Shumate
English 2
15 May 2017
Lying has become such a common thing among us, people tell many lies whether they are
big or small. From an Im fine to an I didnt kill my girlfriend who I used to stalk on the
daily, lies are told everyday. YOU by Caroline Kepnes, is a novel that looks into the lives of
Joe, who is a stalker, a murderer, and a liar, and Beck, who is his now dead, stalked girlfriend.
There are several factors for Joes behavior, more specifically, lying. Lying comes from behavior
learned early in a persons life, the environment a person lives in, and to avoid negative
consequences.
People will lie because they learned to do so when they were young and if the
environment surrounding them requires them to. While people think lying comes directly from
an individual making it their choice, it actually comes from the environment and the conditions
the individual is in. Lying is introduced early in a childs life in a way to a) escape punishment or
b) get a benefit they dont deserve. Lying is especially easy for them if they are not under any
supervision. By enforcing this behavior early in life, it becomes easier and routinary. Adults lie
because of the same reason: to get away with benefits they do not deserve. Lying is easy when
the conditions are right and when a person was never taught to tell the truth. Lying comes from
the environment surrounding a person. For example: Joe, the main character in YOU, didnt
graduate high school and worked at a bookstore his whole life where he was abused and tricked
into doing stuff. This way he learned to do the same to other people. It is no longer a choice, but
Daniela
Lying is developed to avoid negative consequences and can be detected by certain signs.
In an experiment conducted by Bruno Verschuere and Willem in t Hout, Male offenders were
gathered up and divided to analyze their lying behaviors. Most of the offenders preferred to tell
the truth when given the choice. However, when circumstances pointed towards a negative
reactions from telling the truth, they chose to lie. Lying behavior was not directly linked with
psychopathy. However, this shows that people will lie under the right circumstances. Whether
they have a disease or not. Lying could lead to being categorized as an offender since it
requires thought process which will eventually lead into getting caught up in lies. The truth
comes naturally, and that lying requires mental effort. Which will eventually reveal all the
previous harm done. Liars use an escape method to avoid concealed information. In another
experiment by Kiho Kim, Jiwon Kim, and Jang-Han Lee, they found out that guilty subjects will
dwell longer on objects unrelated to a crime. Which shows how liars try to avoid the lie.In my
book, Joe usually tries to avoid situations which he lied about. (His house which is full of
evidence hes a stalker, dead bodies, etc.) The fact that he avoids these situations, places show his
guilt.
Lying is not a natural behavior, but a learned one. A lot of research is currently being
done on the topic to find out why it is so common. Just like Joe, many people could get caught
up in lies. Whether it is because a person feels the need to lie to get out of a situation, because
theyve been doing it from a young age, or because the environment allows it, lying is extremely
common.
Daniela
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