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I SLEEP WELL; WHY
PARENTS, SHOULD I RESIGN?
BE WARNED:
Satanists are
after your child
at school!
ARE YOU LA DIES, HES TA KEN
STRESSED? BIG NUZS
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A GIRLFRIEND
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STANDS
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may be the one introducing them to

sex education.
And the lesson may be a bad one:
like the fun of having sex without a
condom. These sugar daddy types

M
Y ELDEST son turned 12 portance of our responsibility as par- will then compensate the child for
earlier this year, but hes ents to steer our children in the right their services with designer clothes
still my baby boy whos direction. Our kids are exposed to so and money.
crazy about TV, comics  

 

  
 

 
 
 
 

and SuperStrika. control at times. sons and daughters every day, telling
One day, I came home and found all Recently, the Minister of Health, Dr them that they are the best things in
three of my kids watching TV: it was Aaron Motsoaledi, mentioned that 28 your life, and the brightest and most
not Superman they were watching; it percent of schoolgirls and four per- beautiful kids, then there will be an
was a Justin Bieber DVD. cent of schoolboys are infected with older man or woman who will do the
They were singing his songs as HIV. He attributed this partly to the 

 
 
though they listen to them on a daily increase in sugar daddies targetting By the time you realise whats hap-
basis. Another time, Dr Malinga was school-going girls. pening, it will be too late. Theres a
on TV and they stood up and danced Many of us have children who are Nguni saying: bagotywa bebasha
to his Via Orlando song. Now, I have at an age where they want to explore (teach them the right way while they
never bought a Justin Bieber DVD,
 
 

  - are still young).
nor have I ever played Dr Malingas
song in my car or house.
Apparently, my kids got the Bieber
DVD from friends and they men-
ing from one bed to the other, and On that note, read about Satan-
they see nothing wrong with it. ism in our schools on page 52; some
As parents, we tend to blame the children are losing their lives to this
teachers or the government, saying    
"

tioned that Dr Malinga is played by
the driver who picks them up every
day after school. Theres nothing
wrong with either musician, but
these examples illustrate the many

they are not doing enough to teach
our kids about sex and HIV. But edu-
cation needs to start at home.
If you arent going to sit down with
your children and tell them about the
kids about the horrors of Satanism. In
next weeks issue of Move!, well give
you more details about it and advice
on how to protect your children.
Till next week!


   dangers of unprotected sex, and why
exposed to. they shouldnt explore sex at such
What happens at school is a big a young age, then unfortunately,
  


 - someone else, like a sugar daddy,
4 Move! | 27 MARCH 2013
 READERS LETTERS

WINNING LETTE
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39%
YO WIN ARE IR
OF CHILDREN IN SA ARE RAISED

U YO O IME
R1

CO U F
THEE WAY FORWARD

SH 0 A
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IMPRESSIVE
RT
HELP!
HELP
P!
MAGGIE
AYANDA WINS R200 BY SINGLE MOMS, SAYS A RECENT
I slept with
my pastor
NATHI
NAT
A HI MTHETHWA
POLICE MINISTER
LIVES IN LUXURY
WHILE MOMM SUFFERS
SURVEY BY THE SA INSTITUTE OF
I earn more
than him.
Now what?
When I bought He
He didn
didntt even invite
me to his wedding
A NEW TWIST IN
RAPULANAS
RA PULA N S CASE
L NA C SE
CA
I recently saw a newspaper head- RACE RELATIONS. IT ADDS THAT
THESE CHILDREN ARE LIKELY TO
H other
His
Talk to
your kids
about sex Move! issue 357 m
mistress
d
defends
him line referring to Nathi Mthethwa
Generations Maggie (6 March) and
AM
MOTHERS
OTHERS P
PA
PAIN
IN
They killed my son for
his lunchbox
as the minister of police brutal- BE CRIMINALS. DO YOU AGREE?
I DONT
DONT CAR
DON CARE
AR
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WHATA PEOPLE saw Maggie poverty too

property
boss ity. I agreed. Police seem incapa-
SAY A AB
ABOUTT ME Benedict on
LIVE A
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DRAMA
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Will Pearl
Thusi steal
Warras ble of being human, if the recent BRIAN, MIDRAND
M
Metro FM Awards
I disagree. Many
job?

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independent spirit. I applaud her anything to go by. And mind you, single parent turned
attitude towards those whove called these are the same people whom 
# 
  

her ugly. Were all created in Gods police have been contracted and ones values.
image. Nobody has the right to call placed under oath to protect.
others ugly. In the recent North West NTSEBENG MOTA
MBEKWA, GAUTENG incident, the police are said to HANE, MAPETLA
have asked the victim if he knew No. It depends if
A GREAT MAGAZINE what the police were capable these kids are raised
Move! magazine inspires me. The of before dragging him for with morals and what
balance between entertainment and 100km behind a van. If Nathi friends they choose.
information is what keeps me buying cant control his soldiers, he
it every week. I wish your team all the must step down. JABU
best; keep up the good work. DISGUSTED AYANDA, MARITZBURG MASHANGURANI,
KONDLO SIPHELELE, EASTERN CAPE DIEPKLOOF
Yes. Theyre angry
VIOLENCE IS BISHOP ZONDO REDEEMED? that dad isnt there
NEVER THE ANSWER I read the article about Bishop Zondo and just dont care.
Failure to control our temper makes in Move! issue 359 (20 March). He rough in life n never
us do things we later regret. We all seems humble, but some issues he
have problems, but hurting others is raised contradict the Word of God.
SARAH
not the solution. The writer mentions that the MSITSHANA,
Being in love is wonderful, but the bishop has bodyguards. Surely a man JOZI
intensity of it makes us vulnerable to of God doesnt need a bodyguard Our generation
heartache and we think that violence because that will hinder his relation-
will ease any problems we experi- ship with the people he is supposed grew up this way
ence. No, it wont. to serve. Shadrack, Meshack and and arent tsotsis.
Life is about forgiveness. When $ 
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things dont go well between you and knew God would protect them. TUMO LEPELE,
your partner, calm down before you I hope my argument will be correct- SASOLBURG
act. Utter not a word when you are ed with the word of God if Im wrong. No. It depends on
angry. Refrain from raising your hand Im not trying to criticise him; Im how kids are raised
in anger for it will bring you a lifetime simply raising my concern as some of by the parent. Many
of regret. Talk to your lover; forgive the things he mentioned are contra-
each other and move on. dictory to the word of God. succeeded and are
VINCENT SOKANA, BOTLOKWA MLULA NGOBENI, DIEPKLOOF now role models.

QUOTE OF THE WEEK NONTOBEKO

KHUMALO,
Courage: the most important of all the DURBAN
My four cousins
virtues because without courage, you cant were raised by a sin-
practise any other virtue consistently gle parent; none of
- Maya Angelou them is a criminal.

27 MARCH 2013 | Move! 5

STOKVEL

ST OK VE L AD VIC E

Stokvel expert Busi Skenjana

explains some of the necessary
support structures to ensure that
your stokvel is properly run:

ALL ABOUT NAME:

Lerato Ke Matla
MEMBERS: 14
LOCATION:
ANNUAL MEETINGS
Every stokvel should have an
Annual General Meeting (AGM)
to review their progress and look

LOVE
These vibrant ladies stick together
Alexandra
FORMED: 2009
CONTRIBUTION:' < <*+
MEETINGS: First
Sunday of each
ahead. Move! shows you how to go
about this:

HOW TO ORGANISE AN AGM

through thick and thin
WHAT IS THE NAME OF YOUR
CLUB AND WHY DID YOU
CHOOSE THIS NAME?
We named it Lerato Ke Matla. It
means love gives you strength and
that is what we believe in as a group.
We develop our characters and self-
esteem by behaving lovingly and
respectfully towards one another.

 #
month
way of incorporating burial assistance
within the club. We help each other
by cooking and preparing for the time
leading up to the funeral and then the
funeral itself.
WHEN DO YOU MEET AND HOW
MUCH DO YOU CONTRIBUTE?
 
Stokvel members must take the
following into consideration:
Members must be told at least 21
days before the AGM occurs.
The AGM report must cover:
1. The Chairmans report: It should
include the stokvels achievements
and challenges for the year.
2. The treasurers report: It should
include all contributions; money
paid out to members for burials;
&
  money that is due to the stokvel
month. We contribute R1 100 each to =
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WHERE ARE YOU BASED AND the host and shell use it as she sees of the stokvel; interest earned on
HOW MANY ARE YOU? #
  



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" money invested for the year.
We are based in Alexandra. We cur-
rently have 14 members.
WHY DID YOU START LERATO
KE MATLA?
We needed to do something to save
money. Sometimes you want to buy
something that will take months of
saving. It is harder to save up on your
" 
the Helping Hand club and we must
each show a bank slip as proof that
we have deposited the Helping Hand
money.
DO YOU HAVE ANY PLANS
FOR THE CLUB?
We would love to go away on holiday,

BENEFITS OF AN AGM
Members will be able to see
if goals have been reached. The
report must cover achievements
and challenges.
FIND OUT MORE
PICTURES: DREAMSTIME / FRANK CHAUKE
  
 
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own. We realised we could do so we save enough money, we will be Visit a Standard Bank

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 going on that holiday later this year. branch nearest to you to
We would also like to invite other nd out about their Society Scheme
HOW HAS THE CLUB GROWN? women in our neighbourhood to join products for your stokvel.
Alternatively, you can call their
We started a branch within the club the club. After all, there is strength
Customer Care Line on 0860 123 000
that we call Helping Hand. It is our in numbers.

6 Move! | 27 MARCH 2013

 ADVERTORIAL

AND THE
WINNER
IS
A Limpopo-based burial society
has scooped R50 000 in the
annual Standard Bank draw

T
HE Monyeki Burial passed away in 2001. The money is was made sweeter by the fact that
Society, a Limpopo-based very welcome, she says. the Monyeki Burial Society account
burial society, has been We live in an area where there was moved to Standard Bank a few
serving members of the is often a shortage of jobs, so it is years ago, as they were very unhappy
local community since the early 

 


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1980s. And now its poised to serve
members even more, thanks to
a recent savings boost worth
R50 000. How come? Because
Monyeki Burial Society is the lucky
winner of Standard Banks annual
Society Scheme draw.
Standard Banks Society Scheme
allows informal community groups
such as stokvels, burial societies and
social and investment clubs to earn
high interest rates on their group sav-
ings. There is an annual R50 000 prize
up for grabs, and the account also
ners who belong to the society to
continue making contributions. The
R50 000 prize from Standard Bank
will help us all.
EARNING MORE INTEREST
The prize money also pushes the
amount on deposit in the account
into a new earnings tier.
This means that the interest rate
paid by Standard Bank will be higher,
boosting the money available to
members even more. Interest is cal-
culated daily and paid monthly.
a competitor.
The bank charges at Standard
Bank are lower. This makes it easier
for the members to save because
more of their money is available to
earn interest, explains Paulina.
HOW TO OPEN AN ACCOUNT
To open a Society Scheme account,
a group has to appoint at least three
signatories, and any two of these
signatories must sign withdrawal
requests. All signatories must be
present when opening the account,
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free transactions. interest rates that Standard Banks The group must also agree to iden-
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THIS WILL HELP US ALL society also gets an entry in a the sharing of information relating to
A delighted Paulina Monyeki says monthly saver draw for every R5 000 their application through the South
that the money received from it has in its account. African Fraud Prevention Service.
Standard Bank has been deposited A society can have up to 20 entries
straight into the Monyeki Funeral in each monthly draw, standing a
Society account, where it will earn chance of winning a R5 000 prize.


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Paulina has been running the annual grand prize is up for grabs.
scheme since her uncle, the founder, Paulina says that the R50 000 win



 


 

 


   
        
   


     
  
 
 
     

 
    
     
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