How to pickup girls with

Myers-
Myers-Briggs

Warning: views expressed in this document are voluntarily caricatural. It is our opinion that they are
useful nevertheless.
Table of contents

Context and objectives

Study of the types

A heuristic for type determination

Appendix: Type statistics

Warning: views expressed in this document are voluntarily caricatural. It is our opinion that they are
useful nevertheless.

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Why use Myers-
Myers-Briggs to pickup girls? To be discussed

Context Key success factors

Use a differentiated approach for each type

Lower barriers to entry and greater fluidity in
the dating scene (due to internet dating, sexual Meet women's desire to be considered
liberation, low marriage rates and high divorce individually and avoid "copy/paste
"copy/paste"
paste"
rates) demands more efficiency in seduction approach
techniques to be successful vs. competition
Use a proprietary heuristic to determine
The Myers-Briggs model recognizes 16 likely type of target
different psychological types in the general
population, with very different behaviours,
Take into account statistical repartition of
interests, and desires
types among women to maximize chance of
success

Knowledge of type statistics and description is key to build a specific approach

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Table of contents

Context and objectives

Study of the types

A heuristic for type determination

Appendix: Type statistics

Warning: views expressed in this document are voluntarily caricatural. It is our opinion that they are
useful nevertheless.

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Study of the types: The Classics To be discussed

Thinking Feeling
INTJ ENTJ INFJ ENFJ
Intuitive

INTP ENTP INFP ENFP

ISTJ ESTJ ISFJ ESFJ

Sensing

ISTP ESTP ISFP ESFP

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The Classics (1/4) - ESFJ To be discussed

Frequency and description

ESFJ women represent 17% 17% of women

Conservative, support traditional view of role of women in
society.
Value tradition: little flexibility on social norms
Very devoted to friends and family, willing to put a lot of
effort provided it is recognized
No patience for criticism , even constructive (for an ESFJ,
criticism is always the sign of ungrateful hostility).

Conversation subjects Courting

Talk about concrete subjects rather than general theories
Let them talk, they are very talkative
Avoid Religion (except to mention than you like beautiful
church weddings ), Philosophy (but say you are a
philosopher, she wont challenge you and will be flattered to
be courted by an intellectual) and Politics (except to praise
family and social order).
Courting ESFJ is simple (but not necessarily easy) and
potentially expensive
Express their feelings openly, easy to read and know where
you stand toward them
Like simple pleasures, clothes, dinners, decoration, nice
houses, celebrations
Like to organize events with a precise planning: you should
plan dates well ahead

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The Classics (2/4) - ISFJ To be discussed

Frequency and description

ISFJ women make up 20% of women (most common type

among women)
Similar in outlook to ESFJ but very quiet
Sweet, calm women
Main desire is to be useful and provide service

Conversation subjects Courting

Not very talkative: Like all introverts, need time by themselves dont call
Tell them stories them every day, dont try to see them all the time, dont take
Make them talk about themselves them to frequent social events
Subtle and introspective:
introspective good awareness of their emotions Dont be discouraged if they dont give any news
and those of others Prefer intimate dinners to partying in clubs if possible get
Little taste for general theories but often interested in her to cook.
literature Give her time to breathe lest the relationship should be
smothering for her.

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The Classics (3/4) - ESFP To be discussed

Frequency and description

ESFP women make up 10% of women

Spontaneous, live in the present
More or less sensitive to social norms, as long as they are
having fun

Conversation subjects Courting

Center conversation on immediate leisure options (party,
sport, clothes, food)
Avoid intellectual or theoretical subjects, unless they are
related to her present situation
Let her do the talking
Dont think too much or make intricate plans: if she has fun
with you, you are in good shape
Surprise her
Call her every night at the last minute to go dancing call
her all the time if you can , even for futile matters, you
probably arent bothering her

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The Classics (4/4) - ISFP To be discussed

Frequency and description

ISFP women make up 10% of women

Emotional and secret, gentle and quiet
Unpredictable
Love animals
Love sex
Generally nice, but likes some people
and dislikes some people

Conversation subjects Courting

Same as other SF types (see supra)
She is not very talkative: tell her stories
Silence is fine for her. Consider holding hands in silence
ISFP are a bit tricky. Dont be in a hurry, take a flexible
approach
ISFP have difficulty making decisions and even more
difficulty making their decisions known, which make them
impredictable
Be patient, affectionate and caring with her
Very sensual and sex-
sex- driven.
driven Physical proximity is essential.

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Study of the types: The Mystics To be discussed

Thinking Feeling
INTJ ENTJ INFJ ENFJ
Intuitive

INTP ENTP INFP ENFP

ISTJ ESTJ ISFJ ESFJ

Sensing

ISTP ESTP ISFP ESFP

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The Mystics (1/3)
(1/3) To be discussed

Mystics vs Classics

Most men are familiar with this type of woman since they will probably encounter an
Classics SF woman in their romantic life
(60% of women) Most SF women expect concrete advantages from a romantic relationship: company,
affection, going out, social status, children, sex, money

By contrast, Mystic women seek in love a magical psychological process,

process often based
on astrology or another occult theory, which will transform them in depth (Classics
dont believe in that, even though they like the idea).
Mystics
Mystics are complex,
complex, sometimes complicated,
complicated, women which doesnt mean that
(20% of women) seducing them is particularly difficult if using the right approach

A Mystic could also be seduced with practical/concrete benefits, but it is probably less
efficient and less interesting

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The Mystics (2/3) - ENFP To be discussed

Meet the ENFP

The ENFP is the most frequent (10% of women) and the most accessible of the Mystics

ENFP women are usually bubbly, energetic, cheerful, and likeable

Can be bossy at times

They dont care for social norms regarding relationships: what matters is that it make them grow,
grow develop
their qualities, give meaning to their life and be true to themselves

Make decisions based on their emotions and value system

Interested in most things,

things even the most outlandish theories

Best conversation topics:

topics Literature, Art, Philosophy, Psychology, Romance and Dating, Sex, Magic,
Reincarnation, Law of attraction

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The Mystics (3/3) To be discussed

ENFJ INFJ

3% of women 2% of women
Strong need to control everything Secret, very complex and sometimes rigid
Decisive,
Decisive , energetic and authoritarian but for your own Perfectionist, looking for ideal relationship
good because they are very generous and altruistic (but can Know very well what they want from a relationship and can
be a bit smothering over time) end a disappointing one without warning (i.e. dump you
If shes interested in you, she will let you know best to overnight)
overnight
follow her instructions Usually sexually submissive
Usually sexually dominant

INFP

5% of women
INFP are more secret and their emotions deeper and more
intense.
Like with ISFP, you need to be patient. Being too proactive
may bother her.
Usually sexually submissive

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Study of the types: The Businesswomen To be discussed

Thinking Feeling
INTJ ENTJ INFJ ENFJ
Intuitive

INTP ENTP INFP ENFP

ISTJ ESTJ ISTJ ESTJ

Sensing

ISTP ESTP ISTP ESTP

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Sensing Thinking: The Businesswomen To be discussed

ISTJ & ESTJ

ESTJ: 6% of women - ISTJ: 7%

Feeling is an inferior function, usually less developed, and the Mystic idea of love is entirely foreign to them.
View men as an inferior, not very serious human category with questionable utility, but which can be moderately amusing and
likeable.
Their conformism make them look for masculine presence, either because everybody else does, does or because they need
someone to move heavy furniture and DIY in the house.
Be serious be funny if you can but dont do silly things. To stay out of trouble, dont contradict them and do as you are told.
told
Keep your UFO theories to yourself and talk about real estate or professional projects (I hope you have them because otherwise
its going to be tough)
If you are a good father, a good husband, a good citizen, and willing to enter a serious relationship you are on the right track

ESTP ISTP

3% of women
Sportive, glamorous, seductive, ESTP women are stars
Looking for a man to occupy the limelight with them or bring
them additional prestige
No patience for men who disappoint them they are
dumped quickly
Sensitive to physical performance,
performance both sportive and sexual
2% of women
Not very emotional and very independent: no strong need for
romantic relationships (more of a sex friend)
Like ESTP, the relationship need to be really beneficial to
keep them interested
Due to highly developed Sensing function,
function they might
particularly appreciate a good cook or a good lover
Look for common interests in sports, arts & crafts,
photography, gardening ou DIY.

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ST women tend to have less traditional-
traditional-view feminine personalities
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Study of the types: The Rationals To be discussed

Thinking Feeling
INTJ ENTJ INFJ ENFJ
Intuitive

INTP ENTP INFP ENFP

ISTJ ESTJ ISFJ ESFJ

Sensing

ISTP ESTP ISFP ESFP

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The Rationals
Frequency and description
The 4 types of Rationals (INTP INTJ ENTP
ENTJ) represent together less than 5% of
women
They are difficult to seduce because (i) their
Feeling function is inferior it is more difficult for
them to bind emotionally,
emotionally (ii) they are not very
sensual and (iii) social norms are of little
value to them
They do not correspond to typical stereotypes
and are far from the traditional image of women
Difficult case => need to think out of the box
Preliminary
To be discussed
Suggested approaches
Exploit their intellectual curiosity toward
romance and sentimental relationships
Focus on the social or cultural advantage
of a rational relationship
Introduce them to original sex practices
(with Rationals, talking about sex is
probably more efficient than talking about
love)
Anchor in Sensing experience like physical
or artistic activities which she is not familiar
with. Stress attention to detail and little
things of life.
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Table of contents

Context and objectives

Study of the types

A heuristic for type determination

Appendix: Type statistics

Warning: views expressed in this document are voluntarily caricatural. It is our opinion that they are
useful nevertheless.

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A heuristic for type determination
Clues
Long messages suggest E
Prefers phone calls
E/I
Talkative, spontaneous, expressive
Thinks while she speaks
75% of women are S
Strong interest in sports, dancing,
S/N cooking, pastry, make up or the
exercise of artistic profession
(musician, painter) suggest S
F/T Most women (77%) are F
Reluctant to accept same-day dates
Always on time or early on dates
J/P Careful punctuation and spelling
Answers messages immediately
Remains online after messages
Preliminary
To be discussed
Clues
Short messages suggest I
Prefers to communicate in writing (SMS and email)
Quiet, secret, not very expressive
Thinks before speaking
Interest for literature, alternative spirituality
(astrology, buddhism), humanitarian aid, and
philosophy, as well as left-wing political
opinions suggest N
Use of logical arguments, scientific background,
quantitative professions such as engineering or
banking, talks about her job more than about
relationships, tactlessness, lack of empathy
suggest T
Reluctant to acept a date more than one week
in advance,
More than 20 minutes late at dates
Random punctuation in messages
Answers messages with important lag
Disconnect after sending a message
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Table of contents

Context and objectives

Study of the types

A heuristic for type determination

Appendix: Type statistics

Warning: views expressed in this document are voluntarily caricatural. It is our opinion that they are
useful nevertheless.

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Type statistics: Women

Thinking Feeling

INTJ ENTJ INFJ ENFJ

Intuitive

ENFP
INTP ENTP INFP

ISTJ ESTJ
Sensing

ISFJ ESFJ

ISTP
ESTP
ISFP ESFP

Source: Myers-Briggs Foundation

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