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In order to achieve the most positive results from any partnership you
should learn to control your argumentativeness and your desire to
criticize.
You seek a partner that can supply you with "the good life". You want
beauty, luxury and the finer things in life and you seek a partner who
can provide these. Perhaps marriage will bring you to a higher
station in life. Over-indulgence and over-emphasizing the sensual side
of life can lead to problems. You must have a partner you feel is
cooperative rather than competitive. If Venus is aspected poorly in
your chart, then perhaps your partner's moral standards are subject to
question.
You probably seek a partner who provides the thrills and spills for
you in your life. A partner who challenges you mentally and
emotionally is desired. Your relationships may be lab experiments
where you hope to learn who-knows-what. Someone who is inventive,
individualistic, creative, original, out-going, eccentric or radical
appeals to you. Your partner may possess considerable personal
magnetism and occasionally a degree of genius, but eccentricities,
erratic tendencies and even fanaticism may be present.
The greatest threat to marriage may occur when one partner's capacity
for self-development expands at a rate greatly in excess of the
other's, so that one spouse may no longer be recognizable as the
person they were when the marriage took place.
Your partner must be one who encourages you to be your real self and
one who wants you to fully develop your powers of inspiration,
creativity and will. Your partner may be in a position of authority
and this may help give you more confidence in yourself or more
security within the framework of the relationship. You may be
challenged to display a greater degree of confidence and to exercise
authority more effectively and with greater magnanimity.
If your natal Sun is badly aspected, then the partners you attract may
be egotistical, domineering, vain and ostentatious. If your natal Sun
is well aspected, then partners are likely to be proud, firm-minded,
self-confident, ambitious, honorable, frank and generous.
Selfish pride and too much desire to have your own way may be the
greatest challenges in your relationships.
You are likely to seek a marriage partner who can provide a source of
inspiration and bring out your capacity for compassion and loving
understanding. There can be a tendency to see a prospective partner
through rose-colored glasses or to weave imaginative fantasies about
new contacts or hoped-for encounters. Consequently there is a
possibility that the partner may not be the type of person conjured up
by your imagination.
Possibilities exist that the partner is very sensitive and may need to
be treated with kid gloves. The partner may be artistic or musically
inclined or have some connection with drama or the stage. The material
side of life may not concern them. Your relationship may be quite
spiritual and above the sordid things of this life, hence it may be
more platonic than sexual. The other side of the coin is that you may
become involved with unreliable, inconstant and somewhat shiftless
types whose sympathies may be largely focused upon themselves, or they
may be underprivileged in some way, or neurotic or invalids suffering
from chronic ill health.
In order to get the best results from the marriage relationship you
must learn to overcome vague desires for an unattainable ideal, to
control any tendency to get carried away by shallow romanticism and to
be as clear-headed and practical as possible when assessing the
virtues and attractions of prospective mates. Stay well-grounded.
Your feelings are greatly influenced by those with whom you are in
close personal contact. You want to be popular with others. You are
inclined to seek partners who can bring out your sympathetic side and
play on your emotions.
Both you and your partner may need to be on your guard against moody
or fickle behavior. Marriage may be undertaken with the object of
establishing a home. More than one marriage is possible.
In all your dealings with others you enjoy the element of challenge
and competition. You may goad others just to see how they will react.
The chase is important to you, perhaps more important then the end
result. Because you enjoy the action, you may not mind losing battles
to a partner who is prepared to carry the fight to you. Your marriage
partner is likely to be very ardent, positive, active, capable and
courageous, with a will of their own.
Perhaps the partner you seek is someone who can play the role of a
champion or a crusader. Mars here makes for an association where the
passions have full play and a love match with much devotion is
possible. The tendency is to marry early, often as a result of love at
first sight, although if Mars is badly aspected, you may "marry in
haste and repent at leisure".
In order to get the best results from marriage and partnership, you
should try to be as cooperative and easy-going as possible, practicing
gentleness and diplomacy rather than allowing any assertive or
quarrelsome tendencies to gain the upper hand.
You are able to bring out the generous and good-natured impulses of
others, but in order to get the best results from the marriage
partnership you may need to control any extravagant tendencies and
prevent false pride from unduly affecting the smooth course of your
relationships.