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Too bad the author is anonymous. Ms Thomass refusal to disclose her identity may
account for the books failure to climb bestseller lists, for which its subject and sexy
cover seem well suited. Character studies are hard to pull off, and the presence of a
flesh-and-blood author might have supplemented Ms Thomass writing, which is not
quite up to the task. Still, given the stigma of a diagnosis like sociopathy, her reluctance
to go public makes some sense (and this newspaper has some empathy for anonymous
authors). And Ms Thomas's anonymity has an upside, as it permits readers to form their
own mental rendering of her. (This reader went with a variation on Sharon Stone in the
1992 film "Basic Instinct".)
For all the book's appeal as a memoir, it is perhaps better as a self-help manual for the
rest of us. As it turns out, high-functioning sociopaths are full of handy lifestyle tips.
Prospero lifted the best from Ms Thomas's book, with tips on how to incorporate them
into your own life.
After being hired at an elite law firm, Ms Thomas exploited her company's "non-
existent" vacation policy by taking long weekends and lengthy vacations abroad.
"People were implicitly expected not to take vacations, but I had my own lifelong policy
of following only explicit rules, and then only because they're easiest to prove against
me," she explains.
How to apply to your own life: Ignore "suggested donation" pleas at museums, always
help yourself to more food and drinks at dinner parties and recline your seat all the way
back when flying.
Rule #2: Assess costs and benefits
How to apply to your own life: Make spending decisions shrewdly, leveraging each
discretionary dollar for its maximum happiness return.
Sympathy makes for bad lawyering, bad advocacy, and bad rule-making, Ms Thomas
writes. Sociopaths are free of this burden. They are also, she says, excellent at reading
people (useful during jury selection), immune to performance anxiety (useful during
trial) and craftily seductive (useful for persuading juror and judge alike).
How to apply to your own life: When in need, seek sociopathic counsel.
Ms Thomas's opportunism applies to the social as much as the professional realm. "I
have learned that it is important always to have a catalogue of at least five personal
stories of varying length in order to avoid the impulse to shoehorn unrelated titbits into
existing conversations," she writes. "Social-event management feels very much like
classroom or jury management to me; it's all about allowing me to present myself to my
own best advantage."
How to apply to your own life: Have a few rehearsed anecdotes on hand for awkward
social occasions. Might as well score some career points while you're sweating into
your cocktail napkin.
How to apply to your own life: If you find yourself at an institutional disadvantage, set
yourself apart by other means. Cowboy boots optional.