MyNotesFrom:TheBreakthroughExperience

Postedon2011/08/18byErikUnger

TheEssenceofLife

When you follow your inspirations and intuition, you grow in self-worth and
potential, as well as toward you true capabilities.

Capital isnt scarce; vision and awareness is.

Fixed incomes lead to fixed lifestyles because of fixed thinking.

DivineOrder

- Perceivedvoidscreatevalues;weareprogrammedtoseekwhateverwethinkis
missingthemost.

- Ifyoueverseeonesidewithouttheother,yourelivinginanillusion.

Peopletreatyouexactlythewayyouunconsciouslytreatyourself.Theirouter
mannerismstowardyoureflectyourinnermannerisms,sooneofthemostpowerful
waystotransformyourlifeistobecomeconsciouslyawareofyoubeliefsandfeelings
aboutyourself.

TrueLove

Trueloveemergesfromastateofemotionalbalance.Oneofthepurposesofhavinga
partneristomaintainalovingequilibrium.

Theheartopensonlywhenthemindbecomesconsciouslyequilibrated,whileimbalanced
emotionscloseitdown.

Loveismadeupoftwosides:supportandchallenge.

Supportingsomeonecanmakethemweakanddependent,andthatchallengingthemcan
makethemstrongandindependent.

Achildrequiresbothsupportandchallengeinperfectequilibrium.Ifoneparentplaysone
side,theotherparentwillplaytheother.Ifnot,thebrotherorsisterwillplayit,orthekid
downthestreetwillbeatthemup.Theywontescapewhateverittakestoequilibratethem.

Naturewontallowanythingbutequilibrium.
Whenyouembracethebalanceandthetruth,lovesurroundsyou.
Whensomebodyliftsyouuporputsyoudown,ifyoubuyintotheironesided
illusion,theycanrunyourlife.
PainandPleasure

Loveissimplyastateofnonseparation,whereyouperceivenodivisionbetweenyourself
andsomeaspectoftheworld.Inthatwholenessandoneness,youexperiencewhatthe
ancientHinduphilosophersdescribedasthehigheststateofconsciousness,wherewhatever
youseeisyou.Tothedegreeyoutapintothatstate,yourdreamsareinyourhands.You
haveaccesstoaninfinitudeofpossibilitybecauseyourenowtuningintoyouinfinite
potentialthroughthebalanceoflove.

Thatistheunifiedfieldtheory,theunifiedforcethatimmortalizespeople.Whenyoucantap
intothatsource,whateveryoudreamisyours.Inthatstate,youknowwhyyourehere,
yourefilledwithcertainty,andyourmindbecomesclearandfocused.Whenyoufeelworth
ofhavingyourdreams,theyappear.Yourinnermostdominantthoughtbecomesyour
outermosttangiblereality.Whateveryouthinkaboutandthankaboutyoubringabout.

Whenyouknowthatyouarelovednomatterwhat,youhavegreatpower.

ThePerfectionofTwoSides

Allemotionsarelies.Thetruthislove,butemotionsarehalftruths,distortionsandlies.
Thereisnothingbutlove,andallelseisillusion.Wegothroughlifemerelylivinginsteadof
embracingitall.Weoscillatebetweenourpositiveandnegativeemotionsbecausewedont
love.

Youdonthavecommandoveranythingthatyouhaveemotionsabout;youonlyhave
commandoverthethingsyoulove.Loveisaperfectlyequilibrated,divinelyordainedstate
ofconsciousnessthatsavailabletoyou24hoursadayifyoujustbalanceyourmindand
dontletitgooffonemotionalillusions.

Everyexpressionandrepressionofemotionwillrunyourlife.
Loveisnotanemotions;ittranscendsemotion.Itisthesynthesisofallpolaropposite
emotions.
Emotionsareblindbecausetheyseeonlyoneside.

Affirmation:NomatterwhatIhavedoneorhavenotdone,Iamworthyoflove!

DonaldTrumpsstrategytogettohispriorities:Heboughta15minutehourglass,and
whensomeonewalkedintohisoffice,hedturnitoverandsay,Youvegot15
minutestomakeyourpitch.Go!Hemadethemgetreal,getclear,andgetpresent.If
theywerentfocusedenoughtosellhiminthattime,hegavethemadecisionright
away.Hisbusinessandenergywentwayupasaresult.

SecretsofanInspiredLife

Thequalityofyourlifeisdeterminedbythequalityofthequestionsyouask.
BothSidesNow

Everybodyhastwosides.Ifyourehonest,youllseethatyouarebothsaintandsinner,
virtuousandvicious.Sowhensomeoneaccusesyouofsomething,dontwastetime
defendingyourself.Instead,admitthatyouareinfactpossessorofwhateveritistheyre
attackingyoufor.Notonlyareyoupossessor,buttheyare,too,andtheyrejudging
themselves;thatswhytheyreaccusingyou.Ifithurtstohearit,thatmeansyouhavent
seenhowthatqualityserversyouorothersandyourejudgingyourself.Theirgifttoyouis
towakeyouuptoanotherpartofyourselfthatyouhaventyetloved.

Whateveryoudo,youdotoyourself.Tojudgeothersonlycompoundsyouown
faults.TheBuddha

Whenyouloveyourself,peoplecantpushyourbuttons,buttheywillautomaticallyattack
youinwhateverareasyouattackyourself.

WhosMindingtheStore?

Deathisanaturallyrecurringpartofthecycleoflife;thereisnolifewithoutdeath,
andthegreaterthedeath,thegreaterthelife.
Thegreateryouvisionandpatience,thegreateryourpowerandscaleofcreation.
Deathisanillusion;lifejustchangesform.
Thereisnothingtofix,butmuchtolove.

Exercise

Transcendthemythoflossordeath:

1. Thinkofsomeoneyoubelieveyoulostatsometimeinyourlife,throughchange,
divorce,ordeath.Writedownthespecifictraitsoraspectsyouthinkyoulost.
2. Gobacktothatexacttimeandplace,andaskyourself,Whatwerethenewformsof
thesespecifictraitsoraspects?Howdidthosequalitiesimmediatelyshowupinmy
lifeinsomeotherform?Asyoudiscoverthem,writedownthenewformthateach
qualityappearedin.Youmayhavetobecreativeandinsightfultorecognizethenew
form.Thequalitiesyoumissinsomeonemayappearinotherpeople,yourself,a
belovedanimal,ornewrelationshipsandopportunities.Theycanalsomanifestinthe
virtualrealityofyourmemory,imagination,anddreams.
3. Itsnotamatterofifthenewformsexist;itssimplyamatterofwheretheyexist,so
dontstoplookinguntilyoufindthem.Youllknowyouredonewhenyourealizethat
youwouldntexchangethenewformforwhatseemedlost.Whenyouseethe
blessings,youllexperienceamomentofsilenceandstillness,andatearof
inspiration.

Relationship
- Thepurposeofrelationshipsisnthappiness.Thepurposeofmarriageistoteach
peoplehowtofullylovethemselves,theirownedanddisownedparts.Loveisthe
perfectequilibriumofpainandpleasure,supportandchallenge,niceandmean,
pleasantandunpleasant,likeanddislike.
- Yourvaluesdictateyourdestiny.Anythingthatsupportsyourhighestvaluesyoucall
goodandareattractedto;anythingthatchallengesthemyoucallbadandare
repelledby.
- Yourvaluesarebasedontheperceptionthatsomethingismissing,thatavoidexists.
ButtheLawofConservationsaysthatnothingismissing,itsjustinaformyou
haventrecognized.Youthinkyouremissingit;therefor,youseekit,andanything
youthinksupportsthatsearchyoucallgoodandanythingthatchallengesityoucall
bad.

- Acarelessrelationshipisoneinwhichyouprojectandfocusonyouownvalues
withoutconsideringyourpartnersatall.Acarefulrelationshipiswhenyouthinkin
termsoftheirvalueswithoutconsideringyourownthisoneiscalledwalkingon
eggshells.Bothareonesidedapproachesthatignoretheotherpersonandcreate
tensionintherelationship.Butacaringrelationshipisonewhereyoucommunicate
yourvaluesintermsoftheirs.Youthinkofbothsidessimultaneously,expressingyour
loveforyourselfandeachother.Thedefinitionofcaringisknowingsomeonewell
enoughtoknowtheirvalues,andcaringenoughtoexpressyourvaluesintermsof
theirs.

- Ihavemyindividuality,too,andIcantsacrificemylifetotallyforher/him.The
moreIsacrificemyselfforher/him,themores/hellminimizemebecauseIm
minimizingmyself.Shelltakemeforgrantedandtreatmeaccordingly.

- Wheneversomethingsupportsyourvalues;youtakeawaytherules,andwhen
somethingchallengesyourvalues,yousetrules.Nationsdoit,companiesdoit,
andyoudoitinrelationships.Yousetupruleswhenyourvaluesfeelthreatened.

- Oftenwhenwereinarelationship,weunwiselythinktheotherpersonissupposedto
belikeus,andweprojectourhierarchyofvaluesontothem.Whentheysupportour
values,wecallthemgoodandletthemdoalmostanythingtheywant.Butwhenthey
challengeourvalues,wesuddenlycallthembadandclampdownwithourlaws,
rulesandultimatums.
 - Wewantourpartnertobelikeus,butifanytwopeopleareexactlythesame,one
ofthemisunnecessary.
- Everyhumanbeinghasadomain,aterritorythatfluctuatesaccordingtotheir
emotions.Argumentshappenwhentwopeopleinarelationshipneedtoeitheraddor
subtractspace,time,energyormatter.Anyperceptionsoftoomuchortoolittleofany
ofthoseelementswillcauseargumentstoequalizethem.Areargumentsbad?No
theyretellingyouthatsomebodylovesyouandwantstoregulatespacetime
energyandmatterwithyou.
- Didyouknowthateveryonehasarunningchecklistontheirrelationshipwithyou?
Theyhaveacompletelogofeveryexchangefromthetimetheymetyouuntilnow,
andyouhavethesamewiththem.Theyknowexactlywhereyourexchangewiththem
is,andwhentheresaconflict,outitcomes.Rememberthatwhattheythinkisjust
whattheythink;itmayormaynotbeaccurate,andtheargumentistheprocessof
sortingitout.
- Givespaceandyougetlove;giveloveandyougetspace.
- Whenyoulovesomeone,yourethenicestandthemeanesttoothem.Yousupportand
challenge,yourepleasantandunpleasant,youliftthemupandyouputthemdown,
youdothingsforthemandignorethem.Thosearethetwosidesoflove.Themyth
saysthatyouresupposedtoshowonlyoneside,butthatcreatestensionina
relationshipandinyourlifebecauseitrepresseshalfofthetruth.
- Lovecannotberejected,butexpectationwillcertainlybe.Mostpeopleconfuse
lovewithexpectation.Youcantavoidhavingexpectationsandopinions,butto
getstuckinthemistostopyourgrowth.

Divinity

Diseaseandillnessarethesignsandsymptomsthatthebodyusestorevealtous
wherewerenotlovingtoourselves.
Illnessisyourbodyswayoftellingyouthatyourelyingaboutlife.
Anythingyoudidntresolvewithinyouaboutapastrelationshipofanykindyoubring
rightintoyournextone;youkeepdealingwithitbecauseitsnotaboutthem,its
aboutyou.

Genius

Thestoryyoutellyourselfaboutyourlifeiswhatyourlifebecomes.
TheLawofLesserPissers:Ifyouregiventhechoicebetweenpissingsomeone
elseoforpissingyourselfoff,chosethemeverytime.
Anybodywhoridiculesyoualsohonorsyoubyacknowledgingthatyouhave
exceededtheircapacitytounderstandwhatyoureabout.

BelievingIsSeeing
 Themostmagnificentthinginlifeistogetupeverymorninganddowhatyou
loveandlovewhatyoudo,tobewellpaidandinspiredtodoit,tomakeyour
vacationyouvocation.

Ifyoureceivealargeinheritanceandyoudontknowwhatyouvedonetodeserveit,some
equilibratingforceislikelytoreducethatamounttoexactlywhatyoufeelyouveearned.