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How to Stimulate Your G-Spot From the

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April 6, 2015Girly Juice
I remember the first time like it was yesterday

My then-partner and I were lying in bed after a particularly satisfying cunnilingus sesh. He was
spooning me and I was pretty blissed out.

Suddenly I had a craving Id never felt before a specific spot on my lower belly wanted
pressure, like, now and I was disinhibited by endorphins so I gave in to this random whim of
my body. I grabbed my partners hand where it lay on my ribs, isolated two of his fingers, and
pressed them into a spot on the border between my mons pubis and my stomach hard.

My partner caught on pretty quick. He pressed as hard as I was directing him to do, and then he
started moving his fingers in small, slow circles which made me moan from a pleasure so deep
and intense that I was almost sad I hadnt discovered this trick earlier.
It took me some time and experimentation before I came to recognize that spot as my external
G-spot a highly specific area from which I can stimulate my urethral sponge without even
taking my underwear off.

I want everyone to feel this awesomeness, so here are some tips on how to do it if youre
interested

Get really, really turned on first. This is standard advice for any kind of G-spot play, really. I
find that my external G-spot responds best when Ive just had an orgasm, which is why touching
it became a post-coital tradition with my last partner (oh, fuck, swoon). However, it also
responds when Im just suuuper aroused. When a partner digs their fingers into that spot while
going down on me, when Im like 80% of the way to orgasm, it makes the whole experience
achingly intense.

Find the spot from the inside. This is one way to do it, anyway. If you already know how to
locate your G-spot on your vaginal wall, press into it hard while holding your other hand on your
lower belly/upper mons. See if you can feel your fingers through your body (yes, this is
some Alien shit). If that doesnt work, just get yourself very turned on and then experiment with
pressing hard on different locations on your mons and lower stomach; youll probably stumble
on it eventually.

Press hard. This, again, is good advice for G-spot play whether youre coming at it from inside
or outside; that fucker is really buried in the vaginal wall for most folks. My partner was quite
surprised at the amount of pressure I demanded from him when we first started playing with my
spot. I repeatedly had to remind him that I am not, in fact, a wilting flower or a Ming vase; my
G-spot can handle nay, requires a hella firm touch.

Experiment with rhythm and movement. Just like your internal G-spot, your external one
might like steady pressure, or it might prefer a bit of a circular motion, or a deep pulsing. Im a
fan of circles, which also holds true for the kind of clit stimulation I prefer (I wonder if theres a
connection there?).

Combine it with other forms of stimulation. I like to rub my outer G-spot while rubbing my
clit. Not only does it feel good, but theres a pleasing symmetry to having both hands rubbing
circles in vertically aligned spots on my skin

Take advantage of the convenience. You dont even need to take your pants off to get at your
G-spot, which is pretty terrific. I have been known to line up the bottom of my desk with the spot
and then casually press against it while I work (or, yknow, watch porn). Just dont be that perv
who pleasures themselves inappropriately in public, please (duh).

Incorporate it into strap-on play if youre into that. Some harnesses allow for you to position
the base of the dildo up high on your mons, so youll get some pleasant external G-spot pressure
with every thrust. Might be fun if you like a little variety (alternate harness placements and dildo
types can stimulate your clit or your internal G-spot, or even potentially your butt, so youve got
lots of choices).
Try using a sex toy on it. Deep, rumbly vibrations are the best at accessing the deeply-buried G-
spot, I find. A wand-style massager gives me the heft and power I need to stimulate the spot
through my mons. I also sometimes like to apply deep pressure with the big end of my Pure
Wand. I wish there was a version of the Pure Wand that had an even more extreme curve, so I
could rub my G-spot from both the inside and the outside at the same time!

Have you discovered your external G-spot? How do you like to stimulate it?

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