One-in-a-Million WOMAN

One-in-a-Million WOMAN

MODULE 3
Alpha Male Attraction

20 Ways to Attract and Seduce an Alpha Man

Seduction adds spice and a little romance to a man's (sometimes a bit boring) world.
By displaying alpha female characteristics, YOU can be the woman who gives the
gifts of pleasure, playfulness, and excitement to a man... and he will be so
appreciative to you. Follow these easy steps to be a sexy Alpha Female seductress
who can seduce a man with ease! :-)

What you'll need:

* Confidence
* Sex Appeal
* Self-Respect
* Femininity
* Love for YOU
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1. Dress like a woman.

To be with an Alpha Male, you have to set yourself apart from other women.

Alpha Men are the guys who set themselves apart from other men with their swagger,
the way the command attention and take the lead, and most importantly, by their
personal style. You wont find an Alpha Man wearing what other guys are wearing
they always have a little something different.

Take a lesson from Alpha Men and learn to dress like an Alpha Woman.

Alpha Women wear feminine clothing. Preferably dresses or skirts. Never slutty,
always classy, the Alpha Female looks like a goddess all the time.

Now, you can rock the dress or skirt with your own personal style for instance, a pair
of stilettos or some killer boots will make a mans head turn. Or you can pair your skirt
with a rocker tee, a button down and a vest, or a low-cut v-neck knit top. Add your
own personal flair to show who you really are, but just make sure that you realize that
90% of men say that they love when a woman dresses like a girl.

2. When youre around him, dont bring up your insecurities. Topics like weight,
wrinkles, and waistline are off limits.

Nothing makes a man run away faster than having to listen to a girl talk about whats
wrong with her. Its not a fun conversation for the listener to hear you talk about why
youre so fat, or why you always get zits.

At first, he may try to offer you some suggestions to help your issues (i.e. Get off your
butt, put the ice cream carton down, and do some Zumba), but after awhile, he will
get tired of hearing about your issues and he will look for a more confident woman.

If you absolutely must complain to someone about the way that you look, find a
sympathetic girlfriend and let her be your shoulder to cry on.

Around your man, especially your sexy Alpha Man, be confident and know that
youre hotjust the way you are.
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3. Dont sweat him give him time to miss you by letting him have his me time.

Men sometimes walk away from relationships because they feel too smothered by
the girl. Its funny since at the beginning it seems like he cant get enough of you.

Then later on, maybe a month or so down the line, his calls become a little less
frequent. He used to text you every morning saying Hi Beautiful, now you may not
hear from him for a full 24 hours. You start freaking out and wondering what you did
wrong, but you have to realize that this is a normal part of the relationship and its
NOT your fault.

See, guys tell me that they end up being boring --- not bored --- but boring to a
girl after a while. After the initial tell me about yourself phase, THEY dont really
have anything to say more than once or twice a week.

So when your guy starts to drift away, dont take it as a problem with your
relationship. Just allow him to have his space, to miss you, to think of something else
to say, and to get in touch with himself.

If you do this, your man will definitely thank you for it.

4. Demand respect through your actions and you wont need to command respect
with your words.

Weve all heard of the girl who talks about all of the things that a man wont get
away with while dating her. But the truth is that all of us, at one time or another,
have tolerated disrespect from a man that we really liked.

To keep your power in a relationship, and make your man respect you, think long and
hard about what are non-negotiable slights and then dont reward this poor
behavior.

For example, he waits until 7:00 to call/text you when youre supposed to be going
out that night.
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Do not answer the phone. And then be conveniently busy for the next two days,
avoiding all of his attempts to contact you.

When you finally do talk, be happy to hear from him. When he asks where you were,
say oh doing _insert-interesting-fun-thing_ or I was just taking some time to myself.
When he says that he thought you had plans that night let him know
(unemotionally) that if a guy wants to go out with you, he has to firm up the plans by
noon that day or risk not getting together. And then change the subject. This will
make him think twice about ever making you wait again, and you will command his
respect.

5. Have your own life and keep all of your friendseven your male friendswhile
youre dating a new guy.

So many of us are quick to drop our friends when a new guy enters our life. But this
approach has disastrous effects on your ability to seduce a man.

You cannot depend on a man to be your everything especially not someone you
just met. Expecting to only depend on a new guy for all of your emotional needs
smells like desperation and no man wants to be with a desperate woman. Keep your
friends and your normal plans/routines with them.

Your friends have been there before him and will most likely be there after him, so you
cant afford to drop them for a stranger.

Its hard not to blow your friends off for an exciting new guy who promises you a good
time. But you must remember that your contentment with your own life should remain
the same throughout your relationship with a man if not, you run the risk of coming
off needy and dependent because you cut off a source of your happiness - your
friends.

6. Let him know (through stories, not flaunting) that other men want you.

This one is easy enough. Men want to know that their woman is attractive to other
men. They do not want you to flirt with other men, or engage other men, but they do
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want to know that THEY are envied for being with you. So if youre going to tell him
about the man that flirted with you that day, be sure to throw in something like, but I
told him that he wasnt half the man that my boyfriend is and there is no way that he
could ever have me. Men love ego strokes be unforgettable by pumping him up
a little bit.

7. Be the cool girl and the best friend so he has a buddy and a lover all in one.

Over and over again talking with men, they tell me stories of girls that they have
dated and they say she was pretty, but I couldnt stand her. Or She was cool as
hell, but I didnt want to f--- her.

You have to find a healthy balance.

The best friend/lover combination only comes to women who are generally cool to
hang around.

Most women are not cool to be around. They have low self-esteem and nothing to
talk about. But if they are hot, they usually have a series of 6-month relationships.
Thats about as long as a guy can stand a pretty girl with no personality.

Being the friend is definitely the way to go but you also must throw in the sex
appeal that makes him think about you as a lover. Be playful and silly with him, and
truly get him, and hell love you like a buddy. Use your sex appeal in the breaks
between being his friend and he will want you around all the time.

8. Allow him to do things for you. You dont always have to be Miss I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-
E-N-T.

Men like doing things for women they like. They like paying for your meal. They like
sending you flowers. They like when you ask their opinions about things they might
know about like what kind of tires to get, or where to get the best deal on a phone.

A seductive woman is not only GIVING a man an experience, she is also able to allow
herself to RECEIVE.
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Be open to receiving the gifts that men can give you by realizing that you deserve
the best of everything.

9. Treat him the way that you want to be treated.

If you take nothing else from this entire lesson, this one is the one to remember. Never
be the girl that did something foul to a guy. Always treat him the way that you
want to be treated and youll have the love that you want.

10. Just relate. Don't let 'commitment' be the goal of your relating.

You know that saying about people being in your life for a reason, a season, or a
lifetime? Why is it then that some women think that every
attractive/successful/available man might be their "lifetime"? Really, the odds are
slim.

Change your thinking and see every guy you meet as being a "reason"... to spend
some time with and learn something from him.

When you do this, you send a powerful message to a man. You let him know that you
are "checking him out", and you don't want to commit to just ANYone. You want the
"special" one... the one who's up to your (Alpha Female) standards.

Relating with a man in this way takes "pressure" out of the equation. Pressure is the
enemy of seduction. Give him space and he will want to spend more time with you.
He'll know that he's not being looked at as your wedding ring provider. You won't look
or feel needy, and that is incredibly attractive.

(-Free Seduction Tip-) Use less words in text/email than he does. I don't know why this
has an effect on men, but it does. For some reason it comes off like you're less
invested in the relationship which sends a strong statement to a man - that you're not
like most women who simply want a commitment... with anyone. :-)
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11. Find your signature scent.

Whether it's Victoria's Secret Heavenly mixed something from Bath and Body Works, or
Caress soap and Pantene Shampoo... figure out what soap, perfume, body lotion,
and/or hair product combination smells uniquely YOU.

This scent should make you feel sexy. Saving that awesome $150-a-bottle-perfume for
special occasions is silly. Use it now... there's nothing more special than 'today'.

12. Be ALL woman... except for a few masculine traits.

To seduce a man, dress like a woman. Act like a woman. Walk like a woman (yeah
girl, strut your stuff! :-) ).

Learn how to dance... seductive dance especially.

Have a soothing, soft, throaty tone to your voice. Not really high-pitched (girly) voice,
but a suggestive, feminine one.

Then, when you're all woman-like, play up your masculine trait. The art of seduction
lies in someone not being able to figure you out... make them want to by showing
depth of character.

13. Have your own mind and provide mental stimulation.

A man may initially be attracted to a woman because of her beauty, but he wants to
have someone he can talk to... someone who "gets" him. Keep your conversation
interesting. Bonus points if you develop a killer sense of humor.
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Save those boring vent-fests about your co-workers for your best friend, or better yet,
a journal. (No one really cares that she keeps stealing your paper clips anyway) :)

When you engage a man's mind, you have an edge over the many women who
don't know how to communicate. Listen more than you talk, but when you do talk,
have something sassy, witty, or thoughtful to say. You create better relationships with
anyone this way.

Be sure to be selective about how much you share about yourself... let it all unfold in
its proper time.

14. Flirt with him, but be subtle.

If you are going to seduce a man, you need to learn how to flirt. ASAP. :) Show him
that you are interested, but don't overdo it. A smile, a sidelong glance, laughing at his
jokes (if they're funny), all work to let him know you're enjoying him.

Tap or stroke his arm gently as you talk to him. Grab for something at the same time
that he does so that your fingers touch. Don't be too touchy-feely though... invading
his space, making him hold your hand. That's not flirting, it's obnoxious.

15. After dating for a little while, let him know that you WANT him.

Men want to be desired just as much as we do. If you show a man that you want him
sexually, you can really drive him wild. Let him know that he turns you on and that you
find him "sexy".

So many women start dating a guy and after awhile use the words "cute" or
"adorable" to describe him. Call him "Sexy" and watch his eyes light up. ;-)
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16. Have fun all the time and enjoy your life!

Men want to be taken away from their problems. Do not BE the problem.

- Shelley hates her job. She can't stand her apartment. She got dumped last year and
thinks all men are dogs (though she still dates them).

- Stacey LOVES her job. Her home is decorated the way she wants it. And even
though she got dumped last year, she's taken the lessons, moved on from the break-
up, and surrounded herself with wonderful, loving friends.

Who would you rather spend time with? No brainer, right? :)

Be like Stacey... so thrilled with life that you radiate excitement and energy! Loving
yourself will not only seduce a man, it will be attractive to everyone you meet! Self-
love gives off a sexy vibe; so fall in love with your life first and you will be a fun woman
who men want to be around.

17. When it comes to the physical, move a little slower than he wants (but do
eventually surrender to him. ;-) )

For instance, if you're making out on the couch, take two steps forward and then one
step back. Kiss for awhile and then gently break away, rock your hips a little bit as you
stand up, and look at him like you are soooo turned on (even better if you are. :) )

Then walk away and change the subject. After a few minutes, walk back and make
out harder than before. This will drive him crazy! The buildup makes the release so
much sweeter.
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[NOTE]Being a 'tease' or 'playing hard to get' is a throwback to that book on dating

called "The Rules". Don't follow those manipulative rules designed to attract unhealthy
jerk-type men. Not only do you send out mixed messages to healthy men, but you
send out huge "Come Get Me/Hurt Me" signs to those losers who are only interested
in the chase. Better to just be honest, with a bit of mystery. Though you could choose
to be dishonest in seduction, it's simply not the way to go. Seduction is about
providing pleasure and dishonesty is not pleasurable.[END NOTE]

18. Enjoy sex!

Seriously, there's nothing else to say... it does a body good. :)

19. Stand up for yourself... but don't be a drama queen/whiny/preachy/nag.

Men cannot stand your overflow of emotion, so don't let it get there. Don't pout, sulk,
whine, cry, call to yell at him, blah blah blah.

The effect it has on him is "Ahhh, get me AWAY from this emotional situation". He will
pull away from you.

If he ticks you off or disrespects you, let him have it quickly, rationally, and sternly. If
you are too bubbled over with emotion to be reasonable, then walk away (or have
no contact with him) until you are ready to come back and be calm. At that point,
let him know that you will not tolerate "xyz" and not to do it again.

A woman who can hold her own, and not be an emotional wreck, is highly
attractive... seduce a man by keeping your emotions in check.
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20. If you've got skills, cook for him.

Mm, Mmm, MMMM, nothing can keep a man away from a strong Alpha Female who
can throw down in the kitchen. Don't cook for him all the time... the novelty of it will
soon wear off. Do cook for him on special occasions and/or because he's been extra
nice to you.

And when you cook that meal, put your heart in it... for some reason this makes your
special dish that much more delicious and easier to seduce a man.

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