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MHBG 17-1
Nelson DSilva, SJ
Values
Values: basic convictions about what is right, good, or desirable.
Values represent basic conviction that a specific mode of conduct is personally or socially
preferable to an opposite or converse mode of conduct
the manner in which an individual tends to make judgements or choices, both about goals
and means, at different stages of ones life, in different facets of it, as are deemed to lead to
the well-being and happiness of oneself and society.
Values are so deep seated in our personality never seen actually, but manifest themselves
through our attitude, opinions, and behaviours; the way one makes choice in a given
situation.
Value Formation & Effects
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Value Formation
Values cant be taught, but learnt
Traditionally transmitted through the family, school, religious institutions etc.
Valuing Process
Helps clarifying & developing desirable values
The process involves thinking, feeling, communicating, choosing & acting.
Terminal values: Desirable end-states of existence; the goals that a person would like to
achieve during his/her lifetime
Let us analyse
Rank the terminal values in order of importance to you as guiding principles in your life
These are the things you hope to accomplish before you die
Do not rank what you think should be important but what is a strong priority for you
The end result should show how you really feel, not only about your life-goals, but the
way you would like to behave during that life time
Look at the five top values of each of your lists. Are your top instrumental values and the
top terminal values compatible or in conflict?
If your values seem to be in conflict, which ones will you adjust in order to achieve what is
important to you?
People, Ideas or Things
The activities and interests people pursue will often indicate whether their value system is
oriented mainly toward people, ideas or things
The three orientations will be at various levels but one is likely to be more dominant
Analyze It
To create your future, look to the future, not the past. Find a quiet place, close your eyes,
and create images of what the ideal life would look like if you could have it exactly the
way you want it in each of the following categories:
The financial area of your life: Where are you living? In what type of home? How much
money do you have in savings and investments? What kind of car are you driving?
Your job or career: Where are you working? What are you doing? What is your
compensation?
Your personal relationships: Are you closely connected to your family? Who are your
friends?
Note: This visualization exercise can be expanded to include other important areas of your life
such as physical and mental health, spirituality, and leisure time.
This will show what and how much you value things in the long-run
Do values change?
When and how do values change?
By generations: Generation X & Generation Y/ME?
Media influences?
Values drift
The slow erosion of your core values over timethose tiny changes that can steer you off
course
How you resolve internal values conflicts depends on your willingness to rank your core
values in the order of their importance to you
Prioritizing your values will help you make decisions when life gets complicated and you
have to make difficult choices.
Value conflict with others
People coming from different backgrounds, families, religions, etc. can have values
conflict
Compromise
Avoid value judgements
Develop understanding attitudes