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Sfaturi pentru prini- 5 caliti eseniale
Parenting Advice 5 Essential Parenting Skills
Cele cinci abiliti parentale prezentate n acest articol de yoghinul, misticul i
The five parenting skills in this article by yogi, mystic and visionary,
vizionarul Sadhguru, pot face o mare diferen n ceea ce privete creterea
Sadhguru, can make a big difference in raising children, whether it is kids or
copiilor, fie c este vorba despre copii mai mici sau adolesceni. Aceste
teenagers. This essential parenting advice can go a long way in creating a
sfaturi eseniale pentru creterea copiilor poate pot duce la crearea unei
healthy relationship between parents and children. Lets take a look at each
relaii sntoase ntre prini i copii. Hai s aruncm o privire la fiecare dintre
of the parenting skills one by one.
aceste abiliti parentale.
A basic responsibility that humanity has to fulfill is to ensure that the next O responsabilitate fundamental pe care omenirea trebuie s o aib este
generation of human beings is at least one step ahead of you and me. It is aceea de a se asigura c urmtoarea generaie de fiine umane este cel puin
extremely important that the next generation should live a little more joyfully, cu un pas naintea ta i a mea. Este extrem de important ca urmtoarea
with less fear, less prejudice, less entanglement, less hatred, less misery. We generaie s triasc cu puin mai mult bucurie, cu mai puin team, mai
must aim for this. Your contribution to the next generation should be that you puin prejudecat, mai puin ataament, mai puin ur, mai puin mizerie.
dont leave a brat in the world, you should leave a human being who is at Trebuie s nzuim la asta. Contribuia ta la urmtoarea generaie ar trebui s
least a little better than you. fie s nu lai un needucat n lume, ar trebui s lai o fiin uman, care este
cel puin un pic mai bun ca tine.
#2 Know What Your Child Needs
#2 S tii ce nevoi are copilul tu
Some parents in their aspiration or ambition to make their children super-
Unii prini, n dorina sau ambiia lor de a-i face copiii super-puternici, i-au
strong, have unnecessarily put their children through too much hardship.
pus n mod inutil s treac prin prea multe greuti. Ei vor s-i fac pe copii
They want their children to become what they themselves could not become.
s devin ceea ce ei nii nu au putut deveni. n ncercarea de a-i ndeplini
In trying to fulfill their ambitions through their children, some parents have
ambiiile prin copiii lor, unii prini au fost extrem de cruzi. Ali prini,
been extremely cruel to children. Other parents, believing that they are very
considernd c sunt foarte iubitori, i-au rsfat prea mult i i-au fcut
loving to their children have over-pampered them and made them powerless
neputincioi i inutili n lume.
and useless in the world.
Once, there was a yogi who belonged to a certain tradition called Kashmir Odat, era un yoghin care aparinea unei anumite tradiii, numit ivaism
Shaivism. This is one of the seven forms of yoga. It is a very powerful form, Kashmir. Aceasta este una dintre cele apte forme de yoga. Este o form
but it has mostly remained in the Kashmir area, so it acquired that name. One foarte puternic, dar a rmas n mare parte n zona Kashmir, astfel nct a
day, this yogi saw a cocoon which was slightly cracked, and the butterfly dobndit acest nume. ntr-o zi, acest yoghin a vzut un cocon care era uor
inside was really struggling to come out the cocoon shell was too hard. crpat, iar fluturele din interior se strduia s ias coaja de cocon era prea
Usually, the butterfly struggles constantly for almost forty-eight hours to come tare. De obicei, fluturele se lupt constant, timp de aproape 48 de ore, s ias
out of the cocoon. If it does not come out, it will die. The yogi saw this and out afar din cocon. Dac nu iese, va muri. Yoginul a vzut acest lucru i, din
of his compassion he used his nail and opened the cocoon so that the compasiune, i-a folosit unghia i a deschis coconul, astfel nct fluturele s
butterfly could come free. But when it came out, it could not fly. It is that ias liber. Dar, cnd acesta a ieit, nu a putut zbura. Acea lupt de a iei din
struggle to break out of the cocoon which empowers the butterfly to use its cocon i d fluturelui puterea s-i foloseasc aripile i s zboare. La ce folos
wings and fly. What is the use of a butterfly that cannot fly? A lot of people, in s fii future dac nu poi zbura? O mulime de oameni, creznd c-i iubesc
what they think is love for their children, have made their children like this. copiii, le-au fcut acelai lucru. Copiii nu vor zbura niciodat n viaa lor.
The children dont fly in their life.
There is no standard rule for all children. Each child is different. It is a certain Nu exist nici o regul standard pentru toi copiii. Fiecare este diferit. Exist o
discretion. No perfect line can be drawn as to how much to do and not do. anumit marj de apreciere. Nu se poate trage o linie perfect ntre ct de
Different children may need different levels of attention, love and toughness. mult poi face i ct nu. Copii diferii pot avea nevoie de diferite niveluri de
If you were to come and ask me while I am standing in the coconut garden, atenie, iubire i fermitate. Dac ar fi s vii i s m ntrebi, n timp ce eu stau
How much should I water each plant? I would say A minimum of fifty liters. n grdina mea de cocotieri, ct de mult ar trebui ud fiecare plant, a spune:
But if you go home and pour 50 liters for your rose plant, it will die. So you Cel puin 50 de litri. Dar, dac te duci acas i torni 50 de litri pentru
must see what kind of plant you have in your house. trandafirul tau, el va muri. Deci, trebuie s vezi ce fel de plant ai n cas.
But when it comes to life itself, a child knows more about life experientially, by Dar cnd vine vorba de viaa n sine, un copil tie el singur mai multe despre
himself. He is life; he knows it. Even with you, if you take away the influences via ca experien. El este viaa; el tie. Chiar i n ce te privete, dac dai
you have imposed upon your mind, your life energies know how to be. It is la o parte influenele pe care le-ai impus minii, energiile tale de via tiu cum
only your mind which doesnt know how to be. An adult is capable of all kinds s fie. Doar mintea ta este cea care nu tie cum s fie. Un adult este capabil
of sufferings imagined sufferings. A child has still not gone to that. So it is de tot felul de suferine suferine imaginate. Un copil nc nu a ajuns la asta.
time to learn, not teach. Aa c este timpul s nvei, nu s predai.
If we really want to bring up our children well, first of all we must see if we can Dac vrem cu adevrat s ne cretem copiii bine, n primul rnd, trebuie s
do something with ourselves. Everyone who wishes to be a parent must do vedem dac putem face ceva cu noi nine. Oricine dorete s fie printe
one simple experiment. Let them sit down and see what is it that is not okay trebuie s fac un experiment simplu. S stea n linite i s vad ce nu este
with their lives, and what would be good for their lives not about the world n regul cu viaa lor i ce ar fi bine pentru viaa lor nu despre lumea
outside, but about themselves. exterioar e vorba, ci despre ei nii.
Something about yourself your own behavior, speech, modes of action, and
habits if you can alter that in three months, then you would handle your Ceva despre tine nsui- propriul comportament, discurs, moduri de aciune i
child also with wisdom. obiceiuri dac poi modifica asta n trei luni, atunci vei putea s te ocupi, de
asemenea, de copilul tau, cu nelepciune.