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‘Black Panther’
a cultural blend
It’s appropriate of cultural exploitation, community fell in love
that “Black but far more often there with Raisman when, in
Panther,” a film was a fruitful relation- the finals of the floor ex-
based on a Marvel ship. This was especially ercise event at the 2012
Comics’ character, opens true in music, particularly Olympics, she performed
in February, which is jazz and rock and roll. her routine to the music
Black History month. The There also were good of “Hava Nagila” and
title character was guys like Stan Lee, who dedicated her routine
created in 1966 by STAN gave the black commu- to the Israeli athletes
LEE, now 95, and the late nity a superhero early murdered by terrorists at
JACK KIRBY. Lee, who on. Likewise, I was struck the 1972 Olympics. It was
still is active, is an by the fact that three almost like a too-good-
executive producer of important African Ameri- to-be-true movie script
“Black Panther.” When cans saluted NORMAN Stan Lee Norman Lear Ben Platt when she won the gold
Black Panther (also LEAR, now 95, at the medal in this event and
known as T’Challa) was recent Kennedy Center the United States won
created, he was the first Honors. Comedian Dave the team gold medal.
African character to have Chappelle, “Black-Ish” A January 24 profile in
his own comic series. The creator Kenya Barris, the New Yorker beauti-
comic’s name was and “Black-Ish” TV star fully details how Raisman
original — the first issue Anthony Anderson took is a role model in other
came out about four the stage to recount how ways. Much of the piece
months before the Lear changed the TV describes how she’s been
founding of the famous landscape in the 1970s a forceful and articulate
Black Panther organiza- by creating shows that leader in the campaign
tion. Short synopsis: had African American to call to account those
T’Challa is the son of the stars, and showed Afri- who turned a blind eye
king of an isolated but can Americans in a good as Dr. Larry Nassar mo-
technologically ad- light (“The Jeffersons,” Gwyneth Paltrow Barbra Streisand Brad Falchuk lested hundreds of young
vanced African country. “Good Times,” and “San- gymnasts, including
When his father dies, he ford and Son”). All three cian” is described as a comfortably talks about times. Injuries prevented Raisman. Before leading
has to use all his super- said that these series comedy, blended with being Jewish. him from competing in this campaign, Raisman
human powers to defeat inspired them to go into social commentary and A Jewish Olympic 2014. He’s named for his was a U.S. Olympic team
the evil foes who threat- show business. music (giving Platt a athlete I neglect- maternal (Jewish) British leader and a super-
en the lives of his people. Tony award chance to show off his ed to include in grandfather, a WWII kind mentor to younger
The film’s director is winner BEN great voice). Paltrow’s my last column: ADAM Royal Navy combat gymnasts. In return,
African American — he’s PLATT, 24, has new fiancé, BRAD ROSEN, 33, a British- veteran. His paternal these athletes constantly
Ryan Coogler, who signed on to star in “The FALCHUK, 46, is a American luge athlete, grandfather was a rabbi praise her to the press
directed and wrote Politician,” a new Netflix frequent partner of was born and raised in and a U.S. Air Force and many fondly call her
“Creed,” the surprisingly comedy series created Murphy’s — they co-cre- New Rochelle, N.Y., the chaplain. “Grandma Aly.” The New
good “Rocky” sequel. by Ryan Murphy. Netflix ated “Glee” and “Ameri- son of an American ALY RAISMAN, 23, Yorker also reports that
I think it’s worth noting already has ordered two can Horror Story.” The father and a British is, of course, the great while “Grandma” “has
that this film is an ex- seasons and Murphy is in Hollywood Reporter says mother. He lives in New gymnast who won three not officially begun train-
ample of the best in cul- talks with GWYNETH Falchuk is co-producing York and has dual gold medals, two silver ing for the 2020 [Toyko]
tural exchange between PALTROW, 45, and “Politician.” One cool citizenship. He competed medals, and a bronze Games, she has told the
the Jewish and African BARBRA STREISAND, thing about Platt: like for the U.K. in 2006 and medal in the last two press that Toyko is on her
American communities. 75, hoping to land them ALY RAISMAN (see 2010 in the one-man luge Olympic Games. Virtually mind.”
Yes, there were moments as co-stars. “The Politi- below) he frequently and event, finishing 16th both everyone in the Jewish –N.B.
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Department of Education refused outlawing those weapons. The Israeli firm
n the eighth day of Chanu- to hire a teacher who subscribed Aryt Industries also appears on the Danske
kah last year, at a menorah to the Mennonite Church call to Bank blacklist for its involvement in those
lighting ceremony in his avoid “the purchase of products weapons.
office in Trenton, then-Gov- associated with acts of violence Does Danske Bank’s policy of divesting
ernor Chris Christie attacked the anti- or policies of military occupa- from Aryt constitute participation with
Israel Boycott, Divestment, and Sanc- tion, including items produced the global BDS movement, which calls for
tions movement. in settlements.”) divestment from all Israeli companies?
“This is an absolute fraud and Danske Bank does have a list of New Jersey’s law bans state investment
another way to perpetuate anti-Semi- companies that it will not invest in “any company that boycotts the goods,
tism,” he said. in. The list is based on its social products, or businesses of Israel, boycotts
Mr. Christie boasted that New Jer- responsibility investing policy, those doing business with Israel, or boy-
sey’s anti-BDS law, which he signed in Chris Christie Jacob Toporek with the actual research out- cotts companies operating in Israel or
August 2016, is “the strictest such law sourced to ISS-Ethix, a division Israeli-controlled territory.”
in the country.” of Israel: Danske Bank doesn’t actually of Institutional Share Services. (Ironically, That sentence does not look at a com-
And he announced that “in the last two boycott Israel. ISS-Ethix also researches the anti-BDS pany’s motives.
weeks” the law had borne fruit. The state “Danske Bank does not boycott Israel or divestment list for New Jersey and other Mr. Toporek made that point in a July
treasurer divested the state investment Israeli companies as such, and we do not states.) letter to Chris McDonough, director of the
fund from the Copenhagen-based Danske take part in the so-called BDS-campaign There are two Israeli companies among investment division of New Jersey’s trea-
Bank “because we believe they’re partici- targeting Israel,” Kenni Leth, the bank’s the 25 in which Danske Bank will not sury. The letter challenged McDonough’s
pating in the BDS movement.” press officer, wrote in an email. “In fact, invest. decision not to divest from Danske Bank.
“We want folks to know we don’t put up Danske Bank is doing business with a num- Others on the list include such well- McDonough had argued, in part, that in
with that,” Mr. Christie said. ber of Israeli banks and businesses and has known American military contractors as not divesting from Danske Bank, New Jer-
The decision to divest from Danske Bank done so for several years.” General Dynamics and Lockheed Mar- sey was following the leads of Florida and
— the first made under the state’s anti-BDS Under New Jersey law, however, that tin Corp. Both companies are on the list Illinois, which had ruled that the bank did
law — followed a lobbying campaign by doesn’t appear to matter. That detail in because they are “involved in production not boycott Israel.
the New Jersey State Association of Jew- the law’s wording is part of what makes it of nuclear weapons.” Lockheed Martin Mr. Toporek argued that those state poli-
ish Federations. The campaign includes the strictest in the nation, at least regard- also is cited for being “involved in pro- cies did not apply to New Jersey, because
letters from Jacob Toporek, the associa- ing state investment decisions. (In some duction of anti-personnel mines and clus- they banned only boycotts that were politi-
tion’s executive director, to the director of states, anti-BDS laws reach beyond state ter munitions, which is prohibited under cally motivated or discriminatory.
the state division of investment, which is investment decisions. In Kansas, a law international conventions.” “New Jersey’s law, on the other hand, is
in the state’s treasury department. It also requires that all state contractors assert Opponents of cluster bombs argue that without any qualification,” he wrote.
included Mr. Toporek’s appearance before that they do not personally boycott Israel their use leads to unexploded ordnance, Eventually, Mr. McDonough passed
the State Investment Council. or Israel-controlled territories — a refer- which then kills civilians after the conflict the question on to the state attorney gen-
Only one thing cast a shadow on the Cha- ence to West Bank settlements. That law ends. One hundred and two countries, eral. Mr. Toporek doesn’t know what the
nukah-style victory against a delegitimator was blocked on First Amendment grounds including Denmark, but not the United SEE ANTI-BDS PAGE 52
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Donna Hoenig staged a day called “Do Real
ebruary 7 may have looked like Men Wear Pink?” at the school in support
color war day at many local of Sharsheret. Tzvi Solomon, then a fresh-
schools, but the real reason for man, was one of a handful of boys who
the great abundance of pink was dared to show up wearing pink that day.
to raise awareness of breast and ovarian Mr. Solomon worked with Ms. Hoenig in
cancer in the Jewish community, and to succeeding years to expand the project. By
ensure all Jewish children and teens know the time he was a senior, all the students
there is an address for information, ques- and faculty came to school wearing pink
tions, and concerns about these cancers. on Sharsheret Pink Day, raising funds for
The ninth annual Pink Day, observed in the organization by charging $5 a head to
more than 100 schools, companies, orga- be included in a group portrait. Mr. Solo-
nizations, and synagogues in the United mon also harnessed the power of social
States, Canada, and Israel, was sponsored media to turn Pink Day into an interna-
by Teaneck-based Sharsheret, a national tional phenomenon in Jewish high schools
not-for-profit organization dedicated to and post-high school programs in Israel.
addressing the needs of Jewish women Pink Day at Frisch in Paramus. “Every school tries to infuse Pink Day
and their families as they face breast and with some meaning, recognizing that
ovarian cancer. in honor or in memory of someone impor- In Bergen County, participants included not every story has a happy ending,” Ms.
“Thousands of students across the world tant in the students’ lives.” Fairleigh Dickinson University, the Jew- Kleinhaus said. “By wearing pink and hav-
are marking Pink Day at the same time, in Also new this year was a downloadable ish Federation of Northern New Jersey, ing events such as pink bake sales, guest
different ways, and that’s really incredible,” Sharsheret Pink Day Tool Kit that gave Ma’ayanot Yeshiva High School for Girls, speakers sharing personal stories, or sales
said Ellen Kleinhaus, Sharsheret’s director participating institutions everything they the Frisch School, the Moriah School, of gear with the Sharsheret logo, the goal
of campus and community engagement. needed to make the day a success, includ- Yavneh Academy, the Rosenbaum Yeshiva is to generate conversations.”
“In the Jewish community and beyond, ing a variety of resources, template fly- of North Jersey (for the first time), and At Moriah in Englewood, middle-
everyone knows someone who has been ers, social media memes, hashtags, and Torah Academy of Bergen County. schoolers created a wall of hand cut-outs
personally affected by breast or ovarian the Sharsheret logo. Educational hand- What later would become global Pink on which they wrote messages to women
cancer,” Ms. Kleinhaus said. “This year, outs available for distribution included Day got its start at Torah Academy — an affected by breast or ovarian cancer.
we suggested that the schools lead the day Sharsheret’s “Fast Facts About Genetics.” Orthodox boys’ high school in Teaneck SEE PINK DAY PAGE 11
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eople lie. This is not news.
They lie for all sorts of rea-
sons, chief among them the
need to look good to other peo-
ple or to themselves. They lie to protect
themselves, to protect other people, to
show themselves as the people they would
like to be, or as they know other people
would like them to be.
Given all that, it is no surprise that peo-
ple lie on surveys and to pollsters — and
of course surveys and polls can be only as
accurate as the information they report. Dr. Seth Stephens-
And they lie on social media, all the time, Davidowitz, above,
through their teeth, because there is noth- and the 1999 Tenafly
ing more important on social media than High School JV baseball
a properly curated life. team. He’s second from
But there is something that people don’t left in the bottom row.
lie to.
They don’t lie to Google.
They don’t lie because the only way to
get the information they need is to ask for
it, as clearly and directly as possible. And
they don’t lie because they think no one is
watching.
And that’s only partly true. is so honest and therefore so revealing. “If you ask people only since 2008, and the data it shows has been available
Google, as it turns out, can be a shockingly reliable in Mississippi, where it is hard to be gay, if they are gay, since 2004, Dr. Stephens-Davidowitz said.
source of information and predictions. It is also one of the for a survey, very few people will say yes,” he said. “But Although he is an economist by training, Dr. Stephens-
frontiers where the battle between individual privacy and there are the same percentage of searches for gay porn Davidowitz considers himself to be a data scientist. It’s a
the need for data that will improve lives more broadly will online from Mississippi as from New York. Online, people new field, he said; it didn’t exist even as recently as when
be fought. are honest.” he was in graduate school. And it’s a burgeoning one.
Seth Stephens-Davidowitz, who grew up in Alpine, went His doctoral dissertation was based on his study of data To be clear, he said, Google does not provide individual
to high school in Tenafly, where he played on the baseball he gathered from Google Trends; he examined three areas information. Researchers can tell the geographic area and
team, earned an undergraduate degree at Stanford and — racism, child abuse, and voting behavior. “It’s hard to pre- the time, but nothing more granular than that. “It shows
a Ph.D. in economics from Harvard, worked at Google — dict who will turn out to vote from surveys, but it turns out you patterns in the aggregate, but it doesn’t tell you how
and he’s just 35! — and now studies and writes, in outlets that you can predict voter turnout with high accuracy from each individual will behave.” His own behavior is proof of
including the New York Times, about big data, will be at searches about how and where to vote,” he said. Neither that. Last weekend, Dr. Stephens-Davidowitz, who also is
the Kaplen JCC in Tenafly to explore how big data changes people who always vote nor people who never vote make a New York Times columnist, wrote a piece about what
our understanding of the world (and also how it does not). such searches, he added, but no one has to scramble for that data analysis shows about music preferences. It is clear, he
(See box for more information.) information. It’s the swing voters who make the difference. found, that people fall in love with the music of their early
He’ll be talking about his new book, “Everybody Lies: “One of the reasons that Hillary did worse than teens. And his favorite song is Bruce Springsteen’s “Born
Big Data, New Data, and What the Internet Can Tell Us expected in the election was because black turnout was to Run,” popular well before he was a fetus, much less a
About Who We Really Are.” The impetus for the book, lower than the polls suggested, but there was a huge drop teen, even an early one. “Most people, I think, are more
and for his work since 2011, when he still was in gradu- in searches about where and when to vote” from areas standard, but I’m an outlier,” he said.
ate school, was his discovery of Google Trends. “I became with large African-American populations, he said. And it Although the data he searches are anonymous, there
obsessed with it,” he said; that’s because he realized that it predicted the voter turnout early; “by mid-October, those are tensions between privacy and availability, he added.
searches already had predictive power,” Dr. Stephens-Dav- “You can know the number of searches made, but you
idowitz said. can’t know who made the search,” he said. “Google is sen-
Who: Dr. Seth Stephens-Davidowitz
It’s fairly easy to track racism through searches too, he sitive to that. They want to protect users’ privacy, so you
What: Will talk about big data
added. “I am shocked by how often people make racist can’t figure anything out about any individual. That data
Where: At the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades, 411 East searches on Google, particularly searches mocking Afri- does exist, but Google is very protective of it, even inter-
Clinton Ave. in Tenafly can-Americans. And I also was surprised by the location of nally, because of its sensitive nature.
When: On Thursday, February 22, at 10:45 a.m. the searches. I thought that they would be concentrated n “People ask if they should even be making Google
Why: For the JCC U’s first session that day the deep South, but there also are high numbers of them searches, and I always tell them that it probably is the
AND ALSO
from upstate New York, western Pennsylvania, industrial best place to leave your data, because of the company’s
Michigan, and eastern Ohio. A lot of places where Trump’s financial incentive to protect its users’ privacy. You want
Who: Dr. Brian Rose
support was highest. to be more careful using smaller websites, which have less
What: Will talk about the Hollywood star system “Google Trends shows that the searches rise every year money” to spend on protecting data. “The big data com-
When: at 12:45 p.m. on Martin Luther King Day, by 30 percent. And then they panies are the best places to leave your private data.”
How much: $35 for JCC members; $45 for nonmem- rose a lot when Obama first was elected; they rose to his- There is a moral incentive to share aggregated data,
bers for the whole day, which begins with coffee at toric levels. No matter what people were saying publicly, a he said. “There are diseases that can be cured. There are
10:30 and includes a break for lunch (which is not lot of people had a racist response to his election.” some diseases that doctors have figured out how to cure
included). Of course, trends and discoveries on Google Trends can by figuring out their causes, and they have done that by
For more information: Call (201) 408-1454. be only relatively historic; the tool itself has been around looking at the places in the world that do and do not suffer
from it.” And they do that by seeing this data while protecting user privacy?
where searches for information about “The ideal would be to have scientists
diseases and their symptoms originate. have access to the data, and that user
“It would be unfortunate if this informa- privacy would be protected. We are try-
tion couldn’t be made available.” ing to find that balance. But if you have
Take, for example, pancreatic cancer, a relative with pancreatic cancer, you
which can be cured if it is caught early would want Google to have been study-
enough, Dr. Stephens-Davidowitz said. ing that data.”
“Researchers have looked for symptoms, Once his talk is over, Dr. Stephens-Dav-
searched for and have found really sub- idowitz will have a question-and-answer
tle patterns. They have found that if they period. He’ll be glad to take questions
search indigestion, followed by abdomi- on any subject, but because the talk is in
nal pain, that is a risk factor, and it was Tenafly, there is one subject in particular
unknown to the medical community. that he’d be glad to discuss then. “I hope
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Educators’ holiday
Ideas School team goes to Boston to learn from innovation there
TIKVAH WIENER
A
mong the pleasures of plan-
ning the Idea School, the Jew-
ish project-based learning
high school opening in Bergen
County this September, is forming a pas-
sionate team of educators who are com-
mitted to lifelong learning for themselves
as well as for the school’s students.
So it happened that our team — Nancy
Edelman, Rabbi Tavi Koslowe, and Rochie
Sommer — headed out to Boston for two
days during what’s known as yeshiva
break. (That’s the last week of January,
when many Jewish day schools have
vacation.)
Our mission was to explore what the
JCDS ( Jewish Community Day School)
Boston and Gann Academy, two innova-
tive Jewish community schools, were up
to, to meet with Tufts University computer
science professor Dr. Marina Bers, to gain
insights into the Hebrew at the Center pro-
gram that Arnee Winshall has created, and
to see what project-based learning looks
like for adults at Continuum, the design
thinking firm where my friend and col- From left, Nancy Edelman, Arnee Winshall, Tikvah Wiener, Rochie Sommer, Tavi Koslowe, and JCDS Head of STEM
league Ken Gordon works. Innovation Jared Matas stand together at JDCS in Boston.
We were not disappointed.
Okay, so the trip got off to a rocky start the gray,’ empowered to use their capac- when they show mastery. children can use it easily.
when rain poured from the skies, causing ity [for understanding and empathy] as Our next stop after JCDS was Contin- Mr. Gordon emphasized to us the role
our car ride to Boston to take six hours. stepping stones to learning and personal uum, where we met Ken Gordon, the com- that storytelling plays in design thinking.
But we were able to test our resilience and growth.” pany’s content, conversation, and commu- It’s not just that design-thinking engineers
grit by persisting through the challenging After Ms. Winshall gave us a tour of nity strategist. The first noteworthy thing want to sell a great product — of course
weather. JCDS, with its impressive exhibits of stu- Ken told us was that he had done a very they do — it’s also that they want the user
Our first stop in Boston was JCDS, a K-8 dent work on the walls, she sat down with 21st-century thing. He had invented his to have an emotional experience, to feel
day school. There, we met with the head of us and had Tal Gale, who works with her, job: when he discovered Continuum was that the product is part of a positive flow
school, Susie Tanchel, who told us about call in, so we could discuss the approach hiring, he found out what it was looking in the their day and creates a pleasuring
JCDS’ core principles. One of them is a to language acquisition that their organiza- for, and then convinced its leaders that he narrative arc.
commitment to students’ ability to engage tion takes. Ms. Gale told us that when you could do even more than what they were Continuum, with its open, innova-
with others with whom they disagree, and teach Hebrew, you really have to decide asking, crafting a job description that tive, and flexible work spaces; its Maker
to be in what she calls “productive disequi- how to create a culture of Hebrew speak- showed them how his talents as a writer Space, where engineers create prototypes
librium.” This is the ability to understand ing, so that the language becomes part of and lover of the humanities could enhance for everything they design; and its cre-
that “you don’t have to be wrong for me to students’ identities. a design thinking firm. ative, collaborative workforce, made up
be right,” Dr. Tanchel said. The approach of Ms. Winshall’s pro- For those new to DT, design thinking is of people with diverse talents, reminded
Ms. Sommer, the Idea School’s head of gram, Hebrew at the Center, allows every a human-centered design process where us of the kind of school we’re working on
STEM, was struck by the multiplicity of school to reach its potential in challeng- experts from different fields form inter- building.
perspectives the school encourages kids to ing kids to become more proficient in disciplinary dream teams. They engage Ms. Edelman, the Idea School’s head of
seek: “In math, there are many ways to get Hebrew language. It does so by using what in what’s called empathy interviewing to humanities, noted that everyone at Con-
to a solution, and this allows many possi- education knows about how language is find out how consumers use a particu- tinuum is “always in the process of iterat-
bilities to be in a room,” she said. “In math acquired, and marking how each student lar product before going through several ing,” and added, “Teachers and students
class, I have students share their different is progressing in four areas — reading, writ- iterations of redesign, so it’s even more need to do that all the time!” Ms. Sommer
approaches and reinforce that the process ing, speaking, and listening. consumer-friendly. Some of Continuum’s added, “Human-centered design takes
is more important than the product. Our group was wowed by a wall in the most famous products: the Reebok pump into account the unspoken but obvious
“This impacts all disciplines in that stu- Hebrew department chair’s office that sneaker, Pampers’ Stages diapers, and Tar- challenges of a situation. The implications
dents learn to appreciate another student’s tracked each student’s level in the lan- get’s iconic shopping cart. in my practice as an educator include tak-
perspective, and each can learn from the guage. Ms. Winshall noted that all students Human-centered design is about get- ing deeper looks at students’ challenges to
other. This is a critical life skill. Dr. Tanchel have the ability to change levels through- ting at what creates an emotionally satis- diagnose pathways to success.” And Rabbi
emphasized that this prepares students to out the year. The school doesn’t wait for fying user experience: design thinking has Koslowe said that after hearing about how
find ‘their way through the world ready to an end-of-year exam. The program is been used, for example, to reimagine the Continuum employees did “ride-alongs”
engage in difference.’ They will not be fear- dynamic, students are matched to texts at MRI experience so it’s less scary for chil- with first responders as they were working
ful of differences but will learn to ‘live in their level, and they move to the next level dren, or to retool an insulin pump, so even SEE HOLIDAY PAGE 59
A
Andy admits being the son of a lumi-
sk Andy Fr iendly about nary “was a mixed blessing, but mostly
his time in New Jersey and positive. There is a downside to being the
he immediately mentions son of a powerful producer and executive
Baumgart’s in Englewood, the if you want to work in television. Every-
only Asian food/ice cream parlor he says one assumes that the only reason you’re
he’s ever been in. there making a living is because of your
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he worked in Fort Lee, from 1990 to 1995, was a motivator.”
and a 1995 snowstorm that forced him to Mr. Friendly is still proving his mettle
climb out of a window so he could shovel — with a tip of his hat to Dad. Andy, who
the front door. went to Hebrew school and was a bar
He also remembers the small house in mitzvah, is not very religious. “I don’t go
Edgewater, where he also lived at around to temple enough, but I do support Jewish
Tim Russert and Andy Friendly at a 2004 luncheon that Mr. Friendly organized;
Clint Eastwood, Tom Snyder, and Andy Friendly in 1979. Mr. Russert talked about protecting freedom of the press.
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and Joseph Feldman (Young Leadership awardee); and
teachers Nini Berger and Shoshi Hason (Rabbi J. Shelley
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Residents of the
Jewish Association
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Disabilities (J-ADD)
group home visited
with seventh grad-
ers in the Howard
and Joshua Herman
Education Center at
the Fair Lawn Jewish
Center/Congregation Rabbi Aaron Katz of Congregation B’nai Jacob in Jersey City lead a Tu
B’nai Israel. Together b’Shvat family celebration, featuring music, wine, cheese, fruits, nuts, and
they created Tu other snacks, at Hamilton House in downtown Jersey City. It was supported
b’Shvat projects. by the Shuster family. The shul still holds many programs and services in its
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long community exhibition in the Wal- work exhibited on the walls of the JCC.
Last week, students from the Bergen alumnae who heads Yad Leah, spoke to the tuch Art Gallery will showcase the JCC’s Exhibitors do not have to be Jewish to
County High School of Jewish Studies went group about the importance of the clothing appreciation for Israel, its people, and its participate. All submissions must be in by
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held at school and 20 large bags of new and clothing. The group then sorted, folded, graphs, and mixed media works relating bitions or submission guidelines, contact
gently used clothing were collected. Dur- and packed the clothing into boxes to be to Israel; the showcase provides a great Nina Bachrach at (201) 408-1406 or email
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Watersheds
Jerusalem Biennale show, featuring local artists’ work, on display in Riverdale
I
JOANNE PALMER The Hebrew Home is at the very west- western end of Riverdale, at the far west- is housing “Jerusalem — Between Heaven
ern edge of Riverdale. It’s a vast complex, ern end of the Bronx. and Earth,” the exhibit from the Jewish Art-
t’s not particularly easy to get to with one small, virtually unmarked gap Then if you’re lucky the gods of park- ists Salon that was among the exhibitions
the Derfner Museum. in the fence that is its only visitors’ gate. ing bless you — if you’re not you drive at the Jerusalem Biennale last summer.
It’s at the Hebrew Home in You have to present ID before you drive around until they are propitiated — and The show is similar to what visitors saw
Riverdale, in the northern- in, and then you search, following the you find a space and leave your car and in Jerusalem, but there are some differ-
most and westernmost part of guard’s vague directions — which didn’t wander through the building until you ences, and the change in the light and the
the Bronx, the part that feels seem so vague when she gave them to get to the museum. configuration changes it further.
not only not like the Bronx but you, but that was then — and eventually And then you walk in, and oh my. The biennale’s theme was watersheds,
not like any part of New York City. It’s you find the circle you’re looking for, at It’s a small museum, but it’s filled with defined in any way that the artists chose
all narrow twisty roads and huge beauti- the far western end of this place, at the far light, and its windows open up on the to define it — as a physical thing, a literal
ful houses and the occasional apartment Hudson. It’s colored with river light. place, the place in a landscape where
tower. In the summer, it’s a luscious green, And with art. water flows to one river or to another, but
and in the winter the bare trees loom, Next to its small but lovely collec- not to the same one. Or it could have been
brown and witchlike. tion of Judaica, the Derfner now a metaphor for change, for transition, or
for something else about water’s force and
mystery. Or it could have been a metaphor
for time, a kind of sea change. Or, for that
matter, it could have been whatever else
the artist could have chosen. Art is rarely
bounded by literal definitions.
The Jewish Art Salon is headquartered
in New York, although it draws artists from
all over the metropolitan area, the country,
and even the world. Two of its core mem-
bers are local — Miriam Stern of Teaneck
and Joel Silverstein of Mahwah. Another,
Tobi Kahn, lives and works in Manhattan
but often teaches at the JCC (and will offer
a JCC U class in March. We’ll write about it
in a few weeks).
Yona Verwer is the Jewish Art Salon’s
cofounder and executive director. Working
with another artist, Katarzyna Kozera, she
Joel Silverstein
Miriam Stern’s
“Crusader Bible I,”
2015, digital print
and monoprint
on paper
Miriam Stern
Beth Krensky’s
“Tashlich,” 2014,
video still.
Yona Verwer
natan sharansky
digital painting collage
with augmented reality.
Ellen Holtzblatt, “After the Rain,” 2017, oil on paper mounted on panel.
ABBY and SCOTT HERSCHMANN DANA SEPTIMUS and JOSEPH MORAH NINI BERGER MORAH SHOSHI HASON
Guests of Honor FELDMAN ‘96
Young Leadership Award Rabbi J. Shelley Applbaum, Z”L Service Award
Coney Island is my Egypt and my Israel.” York with her family, but he came
This piece is “more realistic and less alone. My mother and father were
symbolic and expressionist than my first-generation Americans. She was
other work,” he said. “It is a straight born in Bensonhurst and he was
view of the parachute jump from the born on the Lower East Side. It’s a
beach. I wanted to show what the typical Jewish American story.
immigrants saw when they approached “Just like Israel was the prom-
New York from the harbor. ised land in the Bible, America
“The parachute jump is my unsung was the promised land for immi-
Eiffel Tower. I want people to see what grants in the aughts and teens and
it looked like.” 20s,” he said.
He’s thinking a great deal about immi- How do his two works — the one
gration, which is a watershed not only in in the Biennale and the one at the
the immigrant’s own life, but in the lives Derfner — relate to each other?
of everyone in the immigrant’s family, “Reality and fantasy are kind of
all the way down the generations. flipped, especially for Jewish sub-
“My grandfather was a draft dodger,” jects,” he said. “I like having the
he said. “He fled the Russo-Japanese realistic and the mystical side by
War of 1905. He had stories to tell, sto- side. And the past and the present.
ries about things like swimming across It’s all part of the same mix. That’s
a river. My grandmother came to New very much part of being Jewish.”
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Qatar’s emir, Sheikh Tamim bin Hamad al-Thani, at the Gulf Cooperation
Council summit at the Bayan Palace in Kuwait City on December 5, 2017.
GiUSePPe cAcAce/AfP/GeTTY iMAGeS
Qatar Dershowitz was skeptical but wanted to Boteach was the one using pejoratives Rabinowitz and Keyak also touted an
from page 29 know more before endorsing steps as dras- like “junketeer,” but then, yes, Dershow- October conference in Washington that
Middle East as having given the green light tic as a blockade. itz got personal on Twitter. slammed Qatar, but edged away when
for much of the prince’s recent posturing.) “Qatar is quickly becoming the Israel of “I once made mistake of being in a Steve Bannon, Trump’s former top stra-
Not that the Trump administration has the Gulf States, surrounded by enemies, debate at Harvard with @RabbiShmu- tegic adviser, was invited as a keynote.)
been consistent, exactly. Trump tweeted subject to boycotts and unrealistic demands, ley on my side,” Dershowitz said. “He Muzin is drawing a monthly salary from
support of the blockade in June, even as his and struggling for its survival,” he wrote in screamed and yelled like a child. Hurt Qatar (now $300,000, according to Polit-
secretary of state, Rex Tillerson, worked The Hill on January 12. the cause of Israel. I promised never ico), and so is more invested long-term
mightily to undo it and last week called Qatar That was too much for Rabbi Shmuley again to be in debate with him.” in his assignment. Paying Muzin to be
“a strong partner and longtime friend.” Boteach, the celebrity rabbi who advocates On Monday, the Forward reported that persistent had dividends — he arranged
Since then, both sides, the Qataris on one for Israel and against anti-Semitism as the Boteach had clamored to join the same for the five and counting pro-Israel lead-
and the Saudis and smaller Gulf states on the head of the World Values Network. In a Jeru- Qatar junket, according to the Jewish PR ers, including Menachem Genack of
other, have been working hard to gain Wash- salem Post column, he wrote that likening firm that organized the trips there, but Englewood and the Orthodox Union and
ington’s favor. Bizarrely, those who have yet Qatar to Israel is “an absolutely shocking was turned down when the Qataris came Hoenlein, to visit the country.
to recognize Israel formally have focused statement that must be totally and com- to the conclusion that he wasn’t (yikes) Rabinowitz and Keyak were working
most intently on the pro-Israel lobby. pletely rebutted.” He called Dershowitz, his influential enough. for an individual, and thus not subject
one-time debate partner (they teamed up at Boteach is not quite down — he was on to the stringent restrictions of the For-
Round 1: America’s lawyer Harvard in 2002 against two pro-Palestin- Twitter Tuesday morning still challeng- eign Agents Registration Act. Muzin must
vs. America’s rabbi ian advocates) a “Jewish junketeer” and a ing Dershowitz to “repudiate his prepos- make public his payments and whomever
Dershowitz, the constitutional lawyer and “mouthpiece.” (Boteach used the same lan- terous sycophantic, obsequious, brown- he meets with to advance his agenda.
defender of Israel, said his visit to Qatar last guage — and published much the same col- nosing, & deeply libelous” comparison
month disabused him of much he had heard umn — in the Jewish Standard on January 19, of Qatar and Israel. Round 3: Mort vs. Mort
about the emirate and also made him warier in a piece called “Alan Dershowitz peddles In September, the Zionist Organization
of the Saudis. For one thing, Qatar was allow- dangerous Qatari propaganda.) Round 2: Flack vs. flack of America dismissed its invitation to
ing an Israeli to compete in a tennis tour- Dershowitz wrote to the Post saying that In August, Bluelight Strategies, a pub- visit Qatar.
nament, while the Saudis were keeping an Boteach’s column “mischaracterizes what I lic affairs firm, began touting a London “Rather than change any of those
Israeli chess competitor out. Saudi pressure actually said and then rails against the straw conference organized by Khalid Al-Hail, monstrous and evil actions, Qatar may
to shut down Al Jazeera especially offended man he has deliberately substituted for the a Qatari businessman who is one of the be trying to create the optical illusion of
Dershowitz, a free speech advocate. truth of what I said.” On Twitter, Boteach leaders of the political opposition in Jewish support to moderate their image
Qatar denied other offenses, including called the letter a “personal attack.” In fact, Qatar. It was an early sign that pro- and by hiring a well-connected PR firm and
backing for Israel’s deadly enemy Hamas. Dershowitz’s letter was to the point and anti-Qatari forces were seeking influence by having ‘secret’ meetings with Jewish
among a Jewish audience. leaders — which of course won’t be a
Bluelight is run by Steve Rabinowitz secret, as the whole reason for the meet-
and Aaron Keyak, long experienced in ings may be for the Qataris to point to
repping progressive causes in the pro- them as evidence that the ‘Jews’ (and
Israel community and pro-Israel causes thus Israel) don’t view them as enemies,”
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T
he Gettysburg Address is perfect. revulsion with
It’s short, it’s direct, and it’s profound. It wastes no
words but combines the ones it uses with balance, clar- understanding
of the Polish
ity, and art. There are no weasel words, no bland corpo-
rate speak, no jargon, no euphemisms.
The Gettysburg Address is true, although it also is more aspira-
tional and inspirational than it is historic. The United States was
not quite conceived in liberty, and it was not really dedicated to
Holocaust law
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the proposition that all men are created equal (even if you ascribe
to the convention that “men” includes women) because it was cre- ack when I was the Chabad rabbi
ated with the original sin of slavery, the cause of the war whose at Oxford University, my good
bloody effects were underfoot at the Pennsylvania cemetery friend Professor Jonathan Web-
where Lincoln spoke. ber took me on a tour of Poland.
But of course Abraham Lincoln knew that. I had a somewhat negative attitude toward
And the Address ends with a demand that we, his listeners — and Polish-Jewish history. I was convinced it was
by implication their children and their children’s children, down A contemporary postcard imagines the scene at Gettysburg. rife with anti-Semitism, and that Poles had
through history, because it is that important, and because Lincoln’s brutalized the Jews before, during, and after
understanding of time’s passing is clear — “resolve that these dead politicians, Republicans and Democrats alike, join Rabbi Prouser the war. Jonathan, however, helped me see
shall not have died in vain — that this nation, under God, shall have in this salute to history and liberty and freedom and memory and that the situation was more nuanced. He
a new birth of freedom — and that government of the people, by the poetry and country. (See box for information about it.) wrote a book called “Traces of Memory,”
people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth.” And as it turns out there’s more. with pictures from cities such as Krakow,
Lincoln’s speech was firmly in the prophetic tradition. According to an astonishing story in the Atlantic, in the Tarnow, and Belz, where he found rem-
Rabbi Joseph Prouser, who is a student of history and the leader 1930s, the Federal Writers’ Project, a New Deal program, nants of Jewish life. He also founded the
of Temple Emanuel of North Jersey in Franklin Lakes, has trans- interviewed former slaves, who were quite old by then. Nearly Galicia Jewish Museum and has been living
lated the Gettysburg Address into Hebrew and set it to a haftarah 40 of those thousands of oral histories said that a man had for many years now in Krakow with his wife,
trope. He chants it once a year, on the Monday of Presidents’ Day, visited them before the war — most of the time the man was a Connie, who heads the Littman Library of
at Shacharit, after the Torah service. That is the time on Shabbat peddler or a beggar — had talked to them, and had told them Jewish Civilization. He argued that the Poles
and chaggim when the haftarah is read, and the haftarah is a selec- not to worry. Slavery would end, and soon, he said. are friends of the Jews, and that Poland has
tion from the books of the Prophets. He might trick their white masters, he might cadge a meal from done an admirable job of remembering the
So how entirely logical it is that the words of our great national the big house. Holocaust and creating moving monuments
prophet, Abraham Lincoln, be read in that way, at that time. And then, after he’d left, the slaves would find his initials, to it.
It perhaps surpasses logic that the reading is as emotional as it or even his name — ABRAHAM LINCOLN — carved or written Later, Jonathan brought Teresa Swiebo-
is. The emotion does not come from Rabbi Prouser, who chants somewhere. cka to our Shabbos dinner at Oxford on
straightforwardly, letting the short syllables and insistent rhythm There is no reason to think that Abraham Lincoln actually made many occasions. Teresa was Catholic. She
move the strong words forward. It comes from the listeners. these visits, and many logistical reasons to assume that he did not. also was the curator of the Auschwitz
The first time I heard it, to my astonishment, I cried. The second But it makes sense to think that Abraham Lincoln, that tall, Museum. I was impressed by this non-Jew-
time, to my surprise, I cried again. By now, I know what to expect. brooding, melancholic figure who sits high in his seat in his mon- ish woman’s commitment to preserving the
I bring tissues. ument in Washington, that complicated, sad man who was sur- Nazi death camp and explaining the history
But I cry — and I think I am not alone in crying — not out of senti- rounded by early death — his mother, his fiancée, his son, all those of the Holocaust to visitors, who came from
mentality, but because of the power and the beauty and the hope soldiers, both the Union forces and those young, mistaken, but around the world to learn about the horrors
and the rigorous demands of that extraordinary speech. still dead Confederates — and whose own death, at the hands of the Germans perpetrated against the Jews.
Everyone is welcome to the service, where many local the mad young actor who soon was dead himself, was early and I had other positive experiences with the
unspeakably tragic, because who knows what horrors he might Poles when I visited with members of the
Who: Rabbi Joseph Prouser have been able to spare the country — was the kind of mythic hero Knesset to commemorate the 69th anni-
What: Will read the Gettysburg Address in Hebrew, set to who could be incorporated into folk stories. versary of the liberation of Auschwitz, and
haftarah trope, during Shacharit services The echoes of prophecy are unmistakable as well. The Atlantic when I had the privilege to attend President
Where: At his synagogue, Temple Emanuel of North Jersey, story doesn’t mention this — although it does touch on the Afri- Trump’s powerful speech in Warsaw last sum-
558 High Mountain Road in Franklin Lakes can folk figure of the trickster — but to the Jewish reader it evokes mer, when he acknowledged the suffering
When: On Monday, February 19 — Presidents’ Day; images of Elijah the prophet, appearing in disguise to do good or
services start at 8 a.m. to make right things that had been wrong. Rabbi Shmuley Boteach is the author
What else: Local politicians and dignitaries will be there, and a There is something that feels deeply Jewish about Lincoln. of 31 books, including his most recent,
light breakfast follows. Everyone is welcome So Abraham Lincoln, the writer and orator, the politician and “The Israel Warrior.” For tickets to the
For information: Call (201) 560-0200. poet, also was a prophet, and Rabbi Prouser is not only forging a Champions of Jewish Values Awards Gala
new, powerful tradition, but also expanding on an old one. —JP on March 8, go to www.thisworldgala.com.
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together on the bima, I see my balloons. The tension — will
he bar mitzvah is not just a rite of tune, the story of Parshat Yitro. husband, my father-in-law, and he learn his parsha in time?
passage for the boy; it’s a rite of When he hears about the amazing mira- the bar mitzvah boy. Stationed Will he get it right? Will the
passage for his mom, too. cles God is performing for the children of near them are my brothers, my caterer deliver the food? Will
I manage to get to shul at 9:50, Israel, Yitro, Moshe’s father-in-law, comes brothers-in-law, cousins, Jude’s we have a place to eat Friday
a remarkable feat, considering how my from Midyan to see for himself. He advises friends. A wall of little boys wait night? Will our centerpieces
usual arrival time is 10:30, and there still Moshe to appoint judges to help govern expectantly for him to finish. be delivered to the right shul?
are people in my kitchen having coffee. I am the new nation. Not long after this, God After all these weeks of anxious Helen Will the out-of-town guests all
cinched into a sensational black lace dress, descends upon Har Sinai amidst thunder, preparation, it comes down to Maryles have a place to stay? Will we
tottering around in pointy shoes with skinny smoke, and lightning, and declares His ten this moment. Shankman all have something nice to
heels. I’m shivering with excitement. I hope commandments to the Children of Israel. Jude sings out the last line, wear? Will I somehow acci-
I don’t fall down. But the spectacle is too frightening for Bnei and the room erupts. The bags dentally oversleep? — is gone.
I glance over the mechitza at Jude, my little Yisrael. They ask Moshe to learn the Torah of candy sail at him from all corners of the Now I can enjoy the party.
man already taking his place on the bima, a from Hashem, and then teach it to them. synagogue, in shimmery arcs of green and But I can’t help it. This bar mitzvah is lay-
too-big tallit draped around his shoulders, It’s one of the most dramatic passages in silver. Some hit him, some hit my husband, ered with the memories of past bar mitz-
bowing his head over the outspread Torah. the Torah, and Jude sings it without hesi- while people yell, “Mazel tov!” and the men vahs, one in 2011, one in 2013. We held
Balancing a siddur and a box of tiny organza tation, as if he’s been doing it all his life. on the bima laugh and hug and shake hands. them here, in the same social hall. Many of
bags stuffed with Fruit Gems with which When he breaks for the second aliyah, I This is my third, and last, bar mitzvah my guests are the same. It is the ones who
we will bomb him after his aliyah, I harbor hear a ripple of murmurs from the women boy. Jude is my baby, my wonderful sur- have changed who are heavy on my mind.
a moment of panic. The shul is crazy full. around me. Friends, acquaintances, others I prise, our missing piece, sheer delight, the Here, seven years ago, stood a table packed
Where will I sit? Fortunately, my sister-in-law don’t recognize, whisper their praise for his part of our family that we didn’t know we with family. My bubbly cousin, who in 2011
has arrived early enough to snag choice seats. performance, their disbelief at the fact that still needed. He was the happiest, smiliest of insisted that all of our far-flung family mem-
A kind friend pries the box of candies from baby Jude is 13, their congratulations. babies, my sidekick, my constant compan- bers attend, isn’t here, her mind now lost to
my arms and takes on the task of distributing My friend’s adorable daughter goes down ion, never complaining, always up for any- a rare form of dementia. My Aunt Helen and
them. Gratefully, I slip into a seat alongside the rows, handing out the candy bags. I can thing, as cheerful about a trip to the grocery Uncle Will sat here too, real old-time New
my sister-in-laws, my sister, and my daughter. feel the excitement level rising around me. store as he was about a trip to Target to buy Yorkers, funny, elegant, bright, and gracious.
Jude dives into the Torah reading, his My heart is thumping. Night after night for a new Transformer or Lego set. My baby. But Uncle Will is gone, and Aunt Helen too
voice ringing strong and clear, filling the the past eight weeks, I’ve heard my son sing Now he is taller than I am. fragile to travel. Here, too, my father sat, with
room with the words of the ancient, urgent out these verses, though the journey started At lunch, I float around the social hall, his brother and the rest of the Maryles side
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sode in which the president scholar in residence in many
efore I left for my Israeli vacation, be new or add anything to all the (real and was reported to have used rac- Orthodox shuls in America
I began following the brouhaha virtual) ink that’s already been spilled. And ist speech. Soliciting students and beyond (and I can go on
over the suggestion by a yeshiva therefore I wouldn’t be saying anything but to write letters when many and on) — is really, underneath
high school that its students send for the fact that the Standard’s January 26 American citizens are troubled it all, a self-hating Jew. Why?
a thank-you letter to the president for his issue contained an article about this kerfuf- by apparent racism betrays Not because he disagrees with
decision concerning Jerusalem and a similar fle, and the discussion continued in three a certain tone-deafness that the president’s declaration —
suggestion by a local rabbi to his congregants letters-to-the-editor in the next week’s issue. sometimes afflicts the Ortho- Joseph C. which he doesn’t — but simply
from his pulpit. And I was able to keep up (And three more in the current one. Page dox community. It says that we Kaplan because he thought the tim-
with the discussion of that issue on the East- 40.) The third made its arguments — with don’t care what someone says ing was wrong. How easy it is
ern side of the Atlantic/Mediterranean. (Who which I disagree — in a calm and thought- or does as long as they look out to become self-hating nowa-
knew that the entire print Jewish Standard ful manner. Jews have been disagreeing for for our interests. That is a terrible message.” days, though it’s not exactly clear what you
was available online? Well, I should have, but millennia, and if we are to continue to do The letter writer, after quoting the snippet hate — Torah, mitzvot, observance, Zion-
I didn’t. And now I do.) so in the future, this is how we should do it. about timing, wrote: “Seriously! When would ism, Israel, Jerusalem? But it doesn’t seem
As with many things Jewish, I have an opin- Calmly and thoughtfully. be the correct timing? . . . . Shame on Ozer to matter; say something a letter writer dis-
ion about these decisions. I think they were The first, however, while making some Glickman. Shame on self-hating Jews.” agrees with no matter how minor, and self-
mistakes. Please don’t misunderstand me. cogent arguments (again, ones with which I Shame? Self-hating Jews?? SELF-HATING hating Jew you are.
I’m the proud father of four alumnae of the disagree), unfortunately sunk to the level of JEWS?!?! You express disagreement with I admit I’m not completely unbiased. R.
yeshiva in question, who’s forever grateful to referring to “the whining of liberal sore los- someone or something and you become a Glickman was one of my first virtual friends
it for the wonderful education my children ers,” making a snide remark about a colum- self-hating Jew? First of all, what does that on Facebook, who became an actual friend
received. And I’m an admirer of its principal, nist’s “supposed Talmudic knowledge,” and even mean? Literally, I guess it’s a Jew who as we chatted over drinks at Lazy Bean a cou-
whom I’ve known since his brit — which I putting quotation marks around the word hates himself. But since that’s not what it ple of years back, which led to many other
attended — and whose father has been a close rabbi when referring to a Reform rabbi. The seems to mean in this context, I’ll assume interactions, including my becoming one of
friend for, literally (and I mean that literally), letter writer referred to Elie Wiesel as his it’s simply a sloppy way of referring to a Jew his students at his local shiurim. And as he
65 years. As for the rabbi, I deeply respect his former professor. Yet I don’t recall that soft- who hates things Jewish. knows well, and as we have discussed many
erudition and honesty, have been his congre- spoken and eloquent professor ever having So Rabbi Glickman — a RIETS rosh yeshiva, times, we agree on much and disagree on
gant and student for about 30 years, and pray to debase others to make the arguments parent of five alumni of the high school probably more — serious Jewish issues, politi-
that our friendship will continue for many that he made so persuasively. whose decision he questioned, grandparent cal issues, social issues, economic issues. But
more years. But on this particular issue I dis- The second letter was the worst. Part of it of a current student, former vice president always with substance, almost always with
agree with them, confident that this disagree- responded to the following comment from of the school’s board, a person who devotes each of us really trying to listen to the oppos-
ment will not in any way negatively impact on Rabbi Ozer Glickman: “ I concur that the U.S. some of his very limited personal time when ing arguments, and perhaps, most impor-
our relationships. recognition of Israel as the declared capital he’s not in the beit midrash or boardroom tant, always with respect for the other.
But the purpose of this column isn’t to of Israel is long overdue. I believe, however, to teaching Torah to adults in our commu- (After writing this column but before
discuss the substance of this issue, because that the timing of the letter-writing cam- nity (for no compensation, just out of love submitting it, I read R. Glickman’s article
there’s really nothing I could say that would paign was unfortunate. It coincided with of teaching and Torah), and who is invited in last week’s Standard. In it, he says some
of the family. Dad, who would have enjoyed this so information and contact number is at www.ajc.org/j-rec.
much, passed away a year and a half ago. Other aunts
The Wall Statistically, most American Jews still express pride in Israel
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and uncles aren’t well enough to travel. and voice a desire to be connected to the Jewish state. They
But my daughter, who is newly engaged, brings her religious recognition in Israel, like theirs, is as useless as talking do not understand why these feelings are not reciprocated. I
fiancé; my sister brings her young son; my brother to the wall. would respond to their hurt by saying, “It is the government of
brings his two little girls; my niece brings her chil- The religious establishment will never be moved as long as Israel held in thrall by so-called religious parties, not the average
dren; my nephew brings his new baby. Lives may there is a coalition in which the votes of national religious par- Israeli, which behaves in an unloving manner to you and also to
pass from the world, leaving holes in our hearts, but ties, like Habayit Hayehudi (the Jewish Home Party), and the cha- its constituents.”
new lives are born into it every day, filling them. redi parties, like Degel Ha-Torah and Shas, can bring down the Therefore, if American Jews really want to maintain a serious
Jude speaks, his speech thoughtful, insightful, government. and loving connection with Israel and its people that will solve
funny. Jon speaks, and he is brilliant. I speak, too. Unless you are a citizen, there is no way to vote these kinds of many Wall issues for them and for us, we must help them with
My daughter and her fiancé run a game of bingo. coalitions out. But there are ways to make common cause with their religious freedom agenda, not only our own.
Full, happy, people begin to drift toward the exits. Israelis who are fed up with religious coercion and the arrogance
And just like that, our last bar mitzvah, which we of many so-called religious people who wield power in the Knes- 4. The immediate religious freedom goals
began working toward nearly two years ago, gar- set or the politicized Orthodox establishment. we and our Israeli brethren should
gantuan in our lives, is over. work toward
I wish for my Jude, my lion of Judah, a long and 3. How you can partner with Israelis Let’s work with the organizations mentioned above to find out
healthy life. I wish for him success in school, in for religious freedom and equality how you can help to reach these goals:
friendship, in love, in his career. I wish for him a life I sit on the executive committee of Ruach Hiddush, an orga- To fully integrate halachically non-Jewish Russian émigrés into
free from worry and care. I wish for him to witness, nization of more than 350 rabbis and cantors, members of Israeli society, they must have reasonable access to conversion.
and be part of, amazing scientific and technological every American Jewish religious denomination, that works The chief rabbinate’s application of the most stringent halachic
advancements. I wish for him a world where leaders as the American partner of Hiddush. requirements for conversion has closed off this option for many
make wise decisions. And while I’m at it, I wish for us Hiddush is an Israeli organization that has fought for religious Russians, who may in fact be Jewish, to fully normalize their Jew-
all to live in a world that studies hope, and not fear. freedom and equality in Israel, primarily through litigation in ish status. Legislation should either grant recognition to all forms
the Israeli Supreme Court. Hiddush also polls the Israeli public, of Jewish conversion or alternatively provide for the develop-
Helen Maryles Shankman of Teaneck is an artist seeking to determine its views on the issue of religion and the ment of universal conversion standards agreed upon by all Jew-
and writer. Her work appears in many fine state. These polls have uncovered the fact that the majority of ish religious streams in Israel. This actually almost happened
journals, including The Kenyon Review, Gargoyle, Israelis, including those who vote for the national religious par- under the Neeman Committee in 1998.
Jewishfiction.net, and Cream City Review. Scribner ties, are hostile to the recently passed Shabbat legislation, which All forms of Jewish religious marriage should be recognized
recently published her second novel, “In The Land requires municipalities to close virtually every place of business and registered in Israel, or civil marriage should be accepted as
of Armadillos.” and entertainment throughout the country on Shabbat. an alternative. Divorce can remain under the chief rabbinate
Similarly, Hiddush polls have shown that most Israelis oppose for those who want it and should be required legally for those
the legislation that gives the chief rabbinate sole control over who marry under the rabbinate’s auspices. Those married civilly
what constitutes an acceptable conversion. This law deprives should have access to civil divorce.
local chief rabbis from making that determination, which was Places sacred to world Jewry for historical and religious rea-
of the things I’m saying here, though more articu- the case before this legislation was passed. The conversion sons must be made accessible to all Jews, whatever their beliefs.
lately. Nonetheless, it’s important to me that my law frequently places the conversions of even Orthodox rabbis Sectarian control of the property of Klal Yisrael is inimical to
voice be joined with his on this issue.) under a cloud if they were performed outside Israel. This has the classical Zionist position that Israel is the entire Jewish peo-
That’s the way Jews should argue; not with ad impeded the aliyah of these rabbis’ converts, the majority of ple’s homeland. This means either opening the Kotel to all Jews
hominem attacks or snide, nasty, and too often silly whom are fully observant, and has jeopardized the conversions solely for private prayer, meditation, and visitation, or creating
comments, but thoughtfully and respectfully. This of thousands of Russian Jews, thereby thwarting their full inte- separate areas at the historical portion of the Kotel for various
doesn’t mean, of course, that we have to be dispas- gration into Israeli society. forms of contemporary Jewish communal worship. This was the
sionate; indeed, I was deeply moved when a friend I invite rabbis and cantors who do not yet belong to Ruach case from the late 1960s through the 1980s. There is no reason
once told me that she admired my passion for ideas Hiddush to consider joining us in the struggle for religious free- except submission to threats to the coalition from non-Zionist
and issues. But passion is not the same as attack and dom and pluralism in Israel. Check out our website at rrfei.org and super-nationalist quarters for the present strife over the
insult. Passion is how you express what you feel, and join us at rrfei.org/about/registration/. Kotel to exist.
what you believe in, what touches your soul and your The overarching body that guides local federations, the Jewish
spirit. It is not how you attack or insult others. Federations of North America, has created the Israel Religious 5. For the record
And it is because of this degradation of argu- Expression Platform; IREP funds pluralistic NGOs and educates I am an observant Jew and as such fervently wish businesses in
ment — a weakness shared by both the right and federation leadership and Israeli thought leaders about the del- Israel would close their doors on Shabbat, and that places of
the left (where I more often find myself ) — that I eterious effect of religious coercion on Israeli Jews and on Israel- entertainment would open them for free. But that should be
have mainly stopped talking politics. Such talk, American Jewish relations. IREP is seeking to wrest marriage of their own volition, not forced by state-sponsored coercion.
I have found too often recently, results in closed from the absolute control of the chief rabbinate by creating a I wish that every Israeli Jew would see the beauty of a tradi-
ears, little mutual understanding, bad feelings, and civil marriage alternative in Israel. If you want to support IREP’s tional observant Jewish life — but through loving and rich Jewish
harmed relationships. work, get in touch with JFNA or your local federation to find out education that would provide them with understanding of how
But not always. I have a friend, as good a con- how you can help. deep, joyous, and beautiful traditional Judaism is.
servative as I am a liberal, with whom I know I can The American Jewish Committee has formed the Jewish Reli- Whatever animus I expressed in this op-ed is not directed
discuss such issues and still sit down with him and gious Equality Coalition. At first, J-REC’s goal was at first similar toward Orthodox Judaism, which I treasure, but to its political
his wife at his Shabbat table or mine and continue to that of IREP — to work toward civil marriage in Israel. But now use. Religious coercion only makes Orthodox Judaism hateful
the discussion in friendship and without rancor. J-REC sees its goal as wresting control of all personal status issues in Israelis’ eyes and precludes any desire for them to consider
Not as whining sore losers, or fascists, or racists, or from the chief rabbinate’s purview and fostering religious plu- Torah and mitzvot as a way of life. For this reason, I favor reli-
self-hating Jews; just two friends who want only the ralism in Israel. J-REC firmly believes that the actions taken and gious pluralism in Israel over the toxic brew that is state-backed
best for the Jewish people, the state of Israel, and the words used to demonize non-Orthodox forms of Judaism politicized Orthodoxy, which drives Israelis away from their God.
America, but disagree — sometimes strongly, often in Israel and the diaspora ultimately endangers Israel advocacy Regarding amelioration of Israel’s state and religion issues, I
passionately — about the best path to get there. and philanthropy by significant American Jewish leaders and sincerely hope I’m not talking to the wall.
That’s how Jews should argue. their constituencies. This in turn has serious potential for erod-
ing Israel’s security for lack of American Jewish support. J-REC’s Professor Michael Chernick of Teaneck received his doctorate
Joseph C. Kaplan, a regular columnist, is a longtime coalition includes representatives from all the American Jewish from the Bernard Revel Graduate School and rabbinic ordination
resident of Teaneck. His work also has appeared in denominations as well as federations and other Jewish organiza- from the Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary. He holds
various publications including Sh’ma magazine, the tions without religious affiliations. the Deutsch Family Chair in Jewish Jurisprudence and Social
New York Jewish Week, the Baltimore Jewish Times, For information about J-REC, get in touch with the AJC to Justice at the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in
and, as letters to the editor, the New York Times. get information about how you can advance its work. J-REC’s New York; his area of expertise is the Talmud.
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on Kveller.com, argues that it can’t be just
ur Torah portion this week actually has to ask them to The same lesson applies about the money; it’s also about the rela-
contains the first capital cam- stop bringing things. “There to our modern setting. The tionships. We need to make a community of
paign in Jewish history. God was sufficient material to com- question of financing for real meaning, that demonstrates to people
gives Moses the directions to plete all the work, and more synagogues is very much in how Judaism provides values and joy and
build the Tabernacle, the mobile sanctuary than enough” (Ex. 36:7). (We the air these days. purpose to life. Then today’s generation of
that the Israelites traveled with as they wan- should all have such problems In an era of decreas- Jews will connect, regardless of the financial
dered in the wilderness. in our capital campaigns!) ing congregational affili- model.
To finance this project, Moses is told, Our sages wonder about ation and funding, many Like the Israelites in the wilderness whose
“Tell the Israelites to bring Me gifts; you the meaning of such a sur- are wondering what to do. hearts moved them to donate more than
shall accept gifts for Me from every person plus, what it might repre- Rabbi David One model that has been their share to take care of their neighbors,
whose heart is so moved…. And let them sent, and what we might S. Widzer adopted by a small number it’s the sense of community that truly gives
make Me a sanctuary that I may dwell learn from it. I attribute it to Temple Beth El of of congregations is a system meaning to a congregation.
Northern Valley,
among them (b’tocham)” (Ex. 25:2, 8). It’s the meaningful connections Closter, Reform of voluntary dues, like the Taking “b’tocham”to mean “within
a voluntary campaign, based on the free the Israelites felt for one Israelites’ contributions to them” (instead of the usual “among
will offering of those who choose to give. another. Though all shared the Tabernacle. No longer them”), the 19th century commentator
As a congregational rabbi, I have to won- the same inclination to give, perhaps based on a family’s or individual’s finan- Malbim observes that the text doesn’t say
der if Moses was concerned about a fund- those with the means to give more did cial means, or part of a scaled system of “and I will dwell in it,” meaning the Tab-
raising effort based only on voluntary gifts: so with the knowledge that there were dues, these congregations have a “pay ernacle, but rather, “I will dwell in them,”
Would the people give enough to support others who could not. Then their less what you want”model. A report from UJA- meaning the Israelites. We are, Malbim
the campaign? wealthy kinsfolks would not feel ashamed Federation of New York describes this phe- says, to each build a Tabernacle in our
Turns out Moses didn’t need to worry about their smaller contributions, as the nomenon and provides a roadmap for con- own hearts for God to dwell in. Hearts that
if the offerings of all whose hearts moved Tabernacle would still be completed. gregations contemplating a change to this are open to the concerns of others, hearts
them would be sufficient for the building of Viewed in this light, the Tabernacle is a system. Many communities that have tried that compel us to care for others, hearts
the Tabernacle. sign of the overwhelming bonds of com- this model report increases in both dona- that create a community of meaning and
A few chapters later, the Torah tells us munity among the Israelites. The fun- tions and membership. bonds of connection — these are truly the
that the Israelites freely brought so much draising was successful because of the But a new dues structure, even one based hearts where God can dwell.
material to create the Tabernacle that Moses connectedness of the community. on Biblical antecedents, isn’t the only key to This d’var Torah originally ran in 2015.
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felt I knew, passed away.
ocial media has done many Remember, I am making this about
things to society. One of them has me, because it is me writing this, but I
almost completely eliminated the cannot imagine that this hasn’t happened
opportunity or the need to talk to to others. What do you do when some-
a person — to have an actual conversation one you do not know and have never met
using an actual voice. And human con- dies? Do you go to the funeral? Do you
tact — a hug, a handshake. The sharing of pay a shiva call? Do you do these things
a box of tissues or a box of chocolates. I if it is convenient for you and not more
mean you can totally use social media to than an hour away? What do you do? The
schedule an “in real life” meeting. You can past few weeks, unfortunately, have been
meet for lunch, meet at the gym — I prefer filled with several funerals. I remember
the lunch — so the opportu- that a few years ago, some-
nity is there, you just have to one wrote a piece on shiva
decide if you want to go out calls and who should pay
in public. And get dressed in them. Basically, if I recall
real clothes, and perhaps, if from the piece, the answer
you are adventurous, apply was almost everyone.
some makeup in order not to But in life, there are
scare the little ones. so many shades of gray
But thi s whole con- — doesn’t that apply to
cept presented itself in death as well? I have been
an entirely different way Banji to shiva calls where, I am
r e c e n t l y. A Fa c e b o o k Ganchrow convinced, the person
“friend” suffered the loss had a shul directory and
of her father. Through the would check off people’s
years, and only because of Facebook, names as they arrived. I have also been to
was I introduced to this man through shiva calls where the person sitting was Across Down
pictures and comments. But the way this as uncomfortable about seeing me as I 1. The Indiana Jones movies, e.g. 1. Adds a patch to an IDF uniform, per-
daughter spoke of her father, I felt that was about seeing them. There was even 5. Suez Crisis general haps
I knew him. I celebrated bar mitzvahs a time when I asked my rabbi what to do 10. ___ Major 2. One in a million, in Israel
14. (False) god of love 3. Those saying lashon hara
with him, birthdays with him, holidays because I really didn’t know. (I didn’t go
15. Memorable Mandy (Patinkin) role 4. Volcano output
with him. But I never met him. And, as and he said I made the right call. Not get- 16. Bad NBA team 5. What Jews do after blessings on wine
for his daughter, I only saw her “in real ting into the details, so don’t ask.) 17. Kabbalah follower Kutcher’s favorite and challah
life” a handful of times — and probably In any event, you can’t go wrong by President? 6. Moses displayed it at the Sin of the
not more than a one hand worth of times doing something right. But the right thing 19. Stat. Hank Greenberg leads all Jews in Golden Calf
20. Stat. Ian Kinsler leads all Jews in 7. Moshe’s father-in-law
(which, if you are following along, is five is still up in the air depending on the sit-
21. Common kosher animal, that’s rarely 8. Back then
times. There are five fingers on a hand.) uation. That’s why (and here is the shift eaten 9. Cobwebs may be a sign of it
When she posted to say tehillim for her in topic, I can only stay depressing for so 22. In working order 10. Solve, as a mystery
father, I sent the name off to my Shaa- long) sports are so easy. Your kid sits on 24. Like one with the flu 11. The Lubavitcher ___
the bench during his hockey game — do 26. The first lady’s favorite President? 12. “It’s ___ Rock and Roll to Me” (Billy
28. Juicy tropical fruit Joel)
you have to go? No. Your kid is playing
31. Campbell of “House of Cards” 13. An Israel bond, e.g.
in his hockey game — do you have to go? 32. Mars, to the Greeks 18. As a sluggard would
be comforted the correct decisions, and for those who 58. Grande of song 47. Magnum and Jessica Jones, initially
59. “As Time ___ By” 49. “Mad Money” host Jim
have lost loved ones, may you be com-
by their forted by their memories and only know
61. Wilt
64. TV’s Hoda
51. Geddy Lee’s group
52. Gyllenhaal and Tapper
memories and from happier things. 65. Where to see the Presidents in this
puz.
53. Deteriorate, in a way
54. What it might be difficult for the awk-
only know from Banji Ganchrow is very excited about 68. Falco who had her first film role in
Allen’s “Bullets Over Broadway”
ward to do
55. Shrek’s mishpacha
happier things. Camp Overtime…A four day floor hockey
camp for boys going into fifth through
69. Antonym for “absorb”
70. F.B.I. operative
56. “It’s ___!” (“I give up!”)
60. Ballpark figs.
tenth grades. Please go to campovertime. 71. Post (mishloach manot) 62. Part of Syria, in the Torah
lavim boy and said it myself. I inquired com for more information. She is not 72. “...just as a man ___ up...” (Duet. 63. Paul’s Kiss mate
about his health and prayed, along with, benefiting from this camp in any way, 22:26) 66. Friday letters that precede “F”
73. Many a posted pic of Obama or Trump 67. Louis B. Mayer’s co.
I am sure, many, many others, that he shape, or form, she is just hoping to get
had a miraculous recovery. But in the a hug from her son for writing about it
end it isn’t up to us, and the man, this She’ll keep you posted. The solution to last week’s puzzle is on page 58.
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