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100
Commandments for
Personal Excellence

By

Ashok Kumar Seejuwani

AUGUST, 2007

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 100 COMMANDMENTS

“100 Commandments” is the book for all ages. The

pragmatic magical tips of 100 Commandments can
bring an enormous change in one’s life. These
techniques are easy-to-do. 100 Commandments are
the 100 qualities which are already hidden within
you; through this book you can discover them.

“100 Commandments” gives you motivation, zeal

and passion to excel in your life. 100 Tips are clear,
practical and result-oriented which build the lasting
success and fascinating changes in your personality.

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 Preface

I have written this book for the people who want to improve
their personal development, enhance their communication
skills, want to generate leadership skills, and desire to groom
their personality and to create positive thinking. These day to day
tips shall make your personality shinning and amicable. As it is
worth saying that little drops make an ocean. Similarly these little
things we already know but keep no value until we utilize them
practically.

This day to day guide will lead your life towards the success,
motivation, achieving your goals and will help you to burnish the
scars on the image of your personality.

I have tried to write this book in a simple English (without

difficult jargons, phrases, clichés, etc, etc) as to help to readers
understand easily.

This pocket book is blend of several books written on personality

grooming, time management, goal settings, communication and
motivation by various authors.
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About the Author:
Ashok Kumar has conducted hundreds of
workshops/seminars on Personality Development &
Leadership Skills, Communication Skills,
Presentation Skills, Interviews Etiquettes, etc. etc.

He has written his first book “Path to Success”, the

great success of his first book made him to take the
paper and pen again and write another one.

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Dedication:

I dedicate this book to you, the reader. Your

willingness to awaken your inner power to
bring the personal excellence in your life.

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 Introduction

Life is full of challenges, hurdles and barriers. Its not

merely easy to achieve what you always desire for. Some
people rely on fortune that it may bring to them
everything, its just right time which has to come. Its not
100% true. People who can wait such long, are pessimists
because everything is not available like pulp in the plate.
The success is the result of hardworking, planning,
patience, faith and self-determination not the process of
wait and see.

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God ever works with those who work with will.
Aeschylus

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 Communication
Proper words in proper places make the true definition of a style.
Jonathan Swift

1. The first thing which glooms and shines up your personality is

SMILE. Keeping smile on your face keeps the people you interact
with warm, happy and friendly.

2. Meet every year at least 100 new people and put them in your
friendship clientele, customers, students’ circle. It increases your
personal relationship and helps in your personal projection.

3. Try to get the membership of a friendship/business clubs, any

educational institution or organization to get yourself socialized
with. Pay your visit to such clubs or organizations at least once or
twice in a month as to increase your knowledge and PR ship.

4. Never speak negative about your competitors, your rivals or the

people you hate, in front of your clients or the persons you don’t
know personally or meeting them first time. It generates negative
impact on their minds.

5. Meet the people with firm handshake, smile on your face and call
them by their names. The person you meet, feels good when you call
his/her name. It shows that you remember them.

6. Well said that smile and the world will smile with you, cry and no
one cries with you, then why don’t we smile and win the hearts of
people around us. Scientifically it is proved that it takes 17 muscles
of your face to smile and 43 to frown then  please.

7. One SMS can make some one smile and can reduce the stress of
someone sad. On special occasions, festivals and events of
achievement and happiness, send your friends and relatives SMS.
They shall keep you in their good books.

8. Give respect and have respect – We believe the phenomena of give

and take in every walk of life. The best way to get respect is to give
people respect who are senior, wise and are more respectful people.

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9. Be polite to them who frown at you; this is the best way to defeat
your enemy or rival. Disputes and mouth lashing can harm your
esteem and will end up with no difference between you and your
foul-mouthed rival.

10.Listen the people with keen interest, because the more good you
listen, the best way you can respond them in. This creates an
amicable aura among you and results in an enormous relationship
between you and the person you communicate with.

11.Share your worries, stress, adventure and achievements with the

people you rely upon. It will give you the feelings of amity, trust and
will make you nearer to them further more. Moreover they will feel
themselves important to you.

12.Be yourself be whatever you are, never disguise – sheep in the wolf
skin. It gives you nothing but a fake identity with the flimsy
portfolio. Being yourself is reality that’s truth and truth is never
timid.

13.Anger leads to insanity and insanity is demolition of your persona.

To control your anger share it with someone, be calm before you are
going to abrupt on someone and realize the both sides mistakes.

14.Write, Write and Write. Try to get sometimes before you sleep and
write about your day you spent, good, bad, learning, lost, everything,
that is not only going to improve your writing but also you will
experience of your daily Ifs and Buts.

15.Word “We” is better than “I”. When you are working with group of
people or friends or acquaintances, don’t forget to use “We” instead
of “I”. I leads you alone and “WE” leads your entire group. “We”
creates the aura of TEAM and “Is” create the atmosphere of Proud.

16.DO NOT KEEP THE COMPANY OF AN EVIL PERSON, FOR

SURELY YOUR CHARACTER WILL TAKE ON SOMETHING
OF HIS CHARACTER WITHOUT YOUR EVEN REALIZING IT.
(HAZARAT ALI - A.S.). Useless to explain furthermore about this
saying by Hazarat Ali.

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17.While interacting with someone, try to avoid such topic i.e. politics,
religion, ethnics, gender issues, marital life problems, exs’ conflicts,
etc. These pester people and cause them stress, they won’t take any
interest in you any longer.

18.Meet the people with their tastes, everyone has different emotions,
spirit, feelings, tone, mood, etc. etc. You can’t meet to your serious
boss with the caprice and humorous gestures or you can’t meet a
spiritual person with the tone of adversity. Life is a zigzag road. All
we have to do is – to walk along with the road or we will stunned
down.

19.Introduce yourself with a brief summary: Most of the people

introduce themselves with merely uttering their names. Always
mentioned some more e.g. “Hi, I am John Whitman, I am working
for Ace Dickinson’s as a Project Director”. It creates the links of
furthermore relationships among a group of people, at a party,
convention or seminar etc. etc.

20.Don’t bottle neck your problems, share them with your confidants.
Definitely you will get a solution you are seeking out alone. Sharing
is a great habit it puts you in the profound hearts of people.

21.Praise the deeds not doers. When someone commits any mistake,
don’t scold him/her for his/her work mistake. For instance if
someone is doing good for any company and the Boss of the
company says “I like you, you are marvelous!”. Its not clarifying
what he did. So always good work should be praised and encouraged
what Mr. so and so has done such and such things for the betterment
of our company. People are rewarded for their works not what they
are, and in other case if someone does something wrong, so always
reprimand his/her work not him/her.

22.Prompt “Thank You” is much better than 2 days later 1 page letter.
Good work should always be rewarded by a prompt Thank You.
There is no good worth to write back some days later a complete
detailed page for appreciation.

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23.Give love and take love. When interact to your juniors or seniors, be
polite, smile and treat gently with them. We normally don’t treat
well infact sometimes misbehave with our transporters, cab drivers,
shopkeepers, etc. etc. We buy products but on long term basis we
are making relationship with a sincere and profit giver shopkeeper,
what if we cheats on us next time when you do shopping with him,
as first we misbehaved with him.

24.Personality should be like cell phone modals, every now and then
new change, new look, new addition, new facilities, etc. etc. We
need to garnish our personality day to day, inducting in smile,
challenges, goals, communication skills, positive mental attitude,
laughter and happiness.

25.Stop blaming others in the bad times, but doing the SWOT Analysis.
Good and Bad times are the part of our lives, and Bad Time is never
forever. It certainly ends, if you want to make it end. Always follow
the SWOT Analysis rule. Know your Strength, know your
Weakness, identify the Opportunities and be aware of the Threats.

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 Goals/Targets
Goals are the fuel in the furnace of achievement.
Brian Tracy
26.Set your small goals for at least 4 to 6 months time period. Setting
Goals shall make you feel serious about your progress and
development, it shall realize you to move further from where you are
already standing. Small goals for small time period shall encourage
you, when your small goals will be achieved the more energy and
spirit will ooze out of your emotions and it will make you ready for
big goals.

27.Plan your next day on a piece of paper before you sleep, it helps you
to manage the things you forget in your daily hustle and bustle
routine life. Keeping things written always assists you clearing your
tasks/jobs rather than remorsing on undone.

28.Motivation is the cardinal source to upkeep your moral of working

and approaching towards your goals at par excellence. Try to know
what motivates you music, reading, meeting friends, exercise,
watching movie, etc, and then apply them on yourself. It really
works. This is best way to motivate yourself first from within
yourself.

29.Read everyday at least 2 paragraphs of any newspaper, newsletter,

magazine, good book, report or right-up. Reading increases your
knowledge, jargon and updates you with the rest of world. Books are
the best friends. They give you more than they take from you (just
price).

30.Do something extraordinary every year and it will set the benchmark
for others. Writing books, doing workshops, seminars, free classes
or other honorary services for the people who are needy for. Doing
these you are not only increasing your knowledge, personal
relationship and reputation but also making a place in the hearts of
the people.

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31.Always push yourself to another goal; after achieving one task never
glue-stick on it. A great Soccer Player is one who makes scores by
doing set of goals not just one. Follow the Continuous Improvement
Program (CIP) attitude.

32.One Hour Miracle – at least spend one hour for any good cause i.e.
giving honorary services to any foundation or trust, hospital or
orphanage, teaching or other places where your presence and help
can give some benefits to them. As times passes, the day will come
after some years in the shape of great reward of your services you
rendered them.

33.Your CV is the best analyzing report of your progress and

performance. Improve it every year by your experience, education,
skills and by attending and doing other necessary things such as
Workshops, Seminars, Talks, Surveys, Training Programs etc, etc,

34.Dream Dream and Dream about your future, we always do which we

think and plan, likewise you see our parents they plan for houses,
households items and other necessary things and one day they buy,
they save money to buy it. Similarly one should dream and plan for
his/her future and the day is not far – the dream shall come true.
The significance of a man is not in what he attains but in what he
longs to attain(Kahil Gibran).

35.No Goals - No Life. Always set your goals for short and long
periods. Keep measuring your progress towards achievement of
these goals. Your Goals can be anything such as getting higher
education, buying home, starting new business or anything.
Constantly check your goals and your progress towards their
achievements, the faster your make your move the sooner you will
achieve your desired goal.

36.Set more and more goals – the more goals you set the more huge
exposure of your desires will come out. As we hear – Think Big and
Have Big. Similarly our goals should be more so that we can
achieve them time by time and after completion of one goal another
will be ready for. Make a list of your goals and check them everyday
basis write down time line and cross them down one by one after
achieving the goal.

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37.Never change your goals or put them off, when you see the
difficulties in their achievements. Difficulties are to testify that how
much your interest is in your goals and after forbearance of hardship
to achievement, you enjoy the success of your goal achievements.
That’s what we say “we are the people who make their lives as we
want”.

38.You loose or you win, the first credit goes to yourself only, so
always enjoy and rejoice the victory of your goals. Celebrate the
achievements of your goal and cross line them after achievements
from your goals lists also put the achievement date and time. So you
can always see them and remember your victories. Remembering
our birthdays are not as delightful as remembering our goals
achievements dates.

39.To do lists. In our daily hustle bustle life, we forget so many little
things and sometimes very important ones. The best way to put a to
do list with you so you can see it whole day and cross out after
doing the works you have written on it.

40.Little things keep big values. Keep small reminder stickers in your
pocket, purse, working desk so to stick them on the most visible
place around you to see the things and tasks you have to do, it also
helps in finishing your undone works and assignments, which we
most forget in our routine life.

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 Motivation
Winning isn't everything, but wanting to win is.
Vince Lombardi

41.As said by Socrates “Employ your time in improving yourself by

other men's writings so that you shall come easily by what others
have labored hard for”.
Make the great people your ideal, follow them time by time, copy
their habits, attitude, way of working, zeal and passion for success.
One day you will find yourself in the line of your ideals.

42.Stand with Lions not with Dogs. Always try to make friendship with
the people who are 5 times smarter, greater, powerful and educated
than you. That shall help you learn from them being in the den of
lions.

43.When you wish to develop or create something unique or idealistic,

try to share with people, ask for suggestions, cause by suggestions
you can get better ideas of working and fresh blood to cement your
project. Hiding always leads the errors and lacking of perfection in
your creation.

44.Never praise the summit of a mountain merely looking at it, the real
pleasure can be felt only by surmounting on it and meeting the
adventure by doing painstaking efforts.

45.Change is the best way to get the things done if things are not
getting well by the old-pattern. Similarly we keep changing fashion,
clothing, styles, likewise the way of changing the work/tasks you do
will result in more excitement and development.

46.Never under estimate your motives and power that you can’t do your
desired job/task. Try again and again. Remember Thomas Edison
did 999 experiments and 1000th was the invention of BULB. “If we
all did the things we are capable of, we would astound ourselves.”
Thomas Edison.

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47.Well said – jack of all master of none. But being the master of only
one field sometimes makes you feel incomplete; always keep in your
mind being teacher you should have knowledge of 2 or more
subjects; or as an entrepreneur; it’s good to have experience of more
than 1 field. So you can’t feel yourself satiated by one particular
field or subject.

48.Find someone special whom you can copy; copy his/her style of
work, study, brainstorming, meeting people and other necessary
positive etiquettes. Remember the best way to learn is to copy
someone best.

49.Read good books, attend good parties, have good gathering and
work in good environment, all that makes you goody goody. It is
you who decides what to do never blame others for leading you
towards bad.

50.Get motivated by great leaders, successful people, good movies and

wonderful books. Remember no one comes to give you a hand to
lead to towards the ladder of success or drag you from moribund dig
to highway to success.

51.Help others. A person always needs the inner satisfaction which just
comes from pray, mediation, solving problems of others and helping
needy people. Its magical formula, try it and you will find what you
can not get by watching comedy movie or enjoying weekends with
your chums.

52.Polish your skills time to time, never stick on where you were before
the some time, the world is moving, the earth is moving, the
technology is getting advanced day by day, likewise you need to get
upgraded with the change of time.

53.Believe in God and Believe in yourself, you need nothing to face the
great difficulties of life. The first courage the human gets is the
Supreme Personality of God and then himself, God says “I am
everywhere, I am in you too”, and when God is in you then you need
not to worry about anything because God is Power and Power is
within you.

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54.Problem solution is the great art which requires lifetime experience,
all we need to do to solve any problem is to share it, sharing your
problem with your friends and family can help you to solve it or if
not then cope it with yourself with all you have, finally it will
experience you what you never had in your life.

55.Success depends on the number of failures, so learn from the

failures; remember Thomas Edison tried 999 times to invent the
bulb, his every failure was his experience of life.

56.Try again and again. Coca – Cola during it’s first year sold only 400
bottles of coke. Today Coca Cola is the top most company of
beverage. That’s what King Bruce learnt from a Spider. “Energy
and persistence conquer all things”. Benjamin Franklin.

57.Your step that got failed is the step which has given you a chance to
do more. The step which is taken to achieve any goal is far better
than the step which is never taken by you as afraid of being failed.

58.Well said, “The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of
their dreams”. Always dream about your future plans, your progress
and your prime time, because dreaming is a theory that needs
practical by you and your practical will make your dreams come
true.

59.Dale Carnegie said “Your Life Is What You Make It”. Our life is
really what we want to make it, for example if you wish to go to one
place to another nearby your house you do nothing just take steps
forward. Similarly we get our education according to our wishes and
plans, we dress up accordingly and we dine and drink however we
want to. So to achieve what we need is to take proper and exact
steps and you will get it. It’s just the simplest magical formula of
getting what you want.

60.Learn from mistakes advisement, mistakes teach you difference

ways of failures which no one can experience on his direct attempt
to success. Get encouragement by your mistakes not
discouragement. “Experience is another name of our mistakes”.

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61.We make lame excuses for not having time to do things or get
ourselves educated. You will never find time for doing anything if
you don’t want to, if you want time, you must make it. God has
given everybody 24 hours of a day to a beggar and to Bill Gates too.
It depends on the people how they make it. If you say you don’t
have time, you simply are making yourself the slave of your
excuses.

62.Walk 25% faster than you walk in daily life. Exercise is essential
part of our lives, but to save our time for exercise all we should do to
walk at least 25% faster than we walk in our daily life. Walking
faster is the best exercise we should do everyday basis to maintain
our health and blood circulations.

63.Pray! According to me, our actions are depended 80% on us and

20% on God’s will. Sometimes all we do is not enough. Our actions
need to be hold in the hands of God. Its only the pray which makes
the impossible to possible. Pray keeps you physically fit and
mentally wit. It restrains you away from evil deeds and helps you
Think positive and Do positive. So Pray!

64.Motivate your friends, employees and family members. On their

achievements write personal notes or give “congratulations greeting
cards” to them. The best motivation comes by the source of
appreciation. Your small appreciation will make a giant difference in
someone’s life. Appreciate someone infront of a team, group or
among family members, it boosts his/her ego and s/he fascinates by
your such kind gesture.

65.Accept challenges, so that you may feel the exhilaration of victory”

well said by George S. Patton. Challenges uplift our morale of
competing and defeating our rivals down, it energize to go extra
miles. Always accept the positive challenges instead of procrasting it
or condemn it.

66.Procrastination is the best protecting shield of loosers. 70% of the

people among us are firm procrastinators. God gives the chances and
opportunities, but only 30% of non-procrastinator people avail them
and future belongs to them. They are real successful. Sometimes we
can’t get success just to avoid or delay any opportunity.

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67.Leadership is an art, which can only be learnt by adopting some
skills, and dwelling among the influenced people with outstanding
leadership skills. Try to get an hour or two to listen the speeches of
world’s great leaders or watch the documentaries. It does not only
boost your inner power as well as high-rise the morale of your
visions.

68.Whenever you meet the people always ask their names two times in
your conversation. First while introducing yourself to the person as
he/she will mention his/her name and after listening his/her name
ask for that how does he/she spell the name so that you can easily
memorize his/her name and if possible in first 3 to 5 minutes call
him/her with his/her name so that you never forget that person’s
name. No matter, after how long time you meet that person again,
but the name shall always be in your mind.

69.Fear is the thing, which almost drags you towards failures and
fiasco. It comes when you are not fully prepared to cope with it.
When you have not planned properly and not completed your
homework, for every great deal – a proper planning and homework
is needed and if we are not planned then there is fear which takes us
toward defeat.

70.Problems are the opportunities not laments. Once a totally looser

and almost half-dead man by his problems went to one of the best
speakers of motivation and encouraging and asked him to help him
out. The speaker said “you come I will take you to the area where
people don’t have any problems”. The speaker took that guy nearly
cemetery and said “see they are the people who don’t have any
problems”. The people who avoid problems, don’t dare to tackle
them “are dead”.

71.We face so many problems in your day to day life, but we regret
instead of copying them and increasing our experience by surpassing
one more way to success. Likewise we prepare very hard for our
academic examinations and other tests, we become very happy to
see our flying colours on results marks sheet. Our life is itself a great
examination, all we are competitors dealing with different kinds of
questions in the shape of problems (some of them we are already
trained and some we might get experience by). So why avoid

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 problems, lets get ready to get good marks in the examinations of
our lives.

72.When you don’t have anything to do, you have everything to do. For
pessimists – when they lose they don’t dare to try again and for
optimists – when they have nothing left to do, they try to do what
they have never done before.

73.Once Napoleon interviewed Thomas Edison that what do you think

about your thousand failures for inventing the bulb. Edison replied
that “I beg you pardon, I never failed in any of my experiment, in
fact I have learnt thousands of ways which don’t work or lead to
failures”. Our failures are our experience which helps us never to do
same.

74.To command over your dead emotions and low spirit, you need to
wake it up with your high potential protestation. Most of us
complain about having no time for doing some special things, which
can lead our life towards the road of success. All you need to learn is
to say YES I CAN instead of NO I CAN'T. Be a “CAN” person not
the “CAN’T” person.

75.People loose their hopes seeing their subordinates or juniors getting

up and achieving success milestones, but its nothing like that
sometimes after our sheer hard working and struggle we can't get
whatever we desire for. Its nothing just a better hope for secured and
potential success in coming time for you.

76.Always keep the strong checks on your thoughts because there are
only thoughts which transform into your actions and your actions are
the mirror of your personality.

77.Your personality is made of: Positive, Essence, Realistic, Sincere,

Open-Minded, Neutral, Achiever, Liberal, Intelligent, Time-
Oriented and Yeoman.

78.Life is mixtures of so many things like what we lose and what we

expect but more important is that what we imagine and what we do.

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79.The world is the warpath and human is like a warrior, the better you
fight the good stars you get on your shoulders, so what you achieve
in the war of your own life, it totally depends on you and your
efforts.

80.Challenge yourself to beat yourself badly in the battlefield of

success. Remember life itself is a great challenge, we must accept it
and defeat our hurdles and hindrances and soar your life towards the
sky high.

81.Remembering others’ names shades a good impact of relationship

and it makes an aura of amicable connections always remember the
names of the people you meet in your daily walk of life. Calling
someone by his/her name make them feel easy and friendly. When
you ask someone’s name, repeat it again and possibly ask how they
spell their names, its also good practice to remember names.

82.We meet so many people in your daily life, but what most we make
them feel usual is asking questions generally “Hi, How are you”,
“How is going on”. To make it more personalize always add the
names of the people you are asking? Such as “Hi, Tina, How are you
feeling today”, “Hey Johnny, How is going your business now a
days”.

83.While talking someone try to relax yourself so that the listener or the
person who is talking to you, feels relaxed too. Always heed
someone properly while he/she is asking or talking to you about any
matter. Never just stand in rush way or awkward manners. Get
relaxed sit properly if possible and give the gestures happy gestures,
it may also create the confidence in the listeners.

84.Be aware of groups who seem to be involved in an intense,

confidential conversation. They’ll be standing nose to nose and toes
to toes, and glare at anyone who approaches. If you enter such a
conversation by accident, you can excuse yourself with, “I’m sorry.
I didn’t know you were involved in a confidential conversation” and
move on.

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85.When you toss out anecdotes of incidents, you don’t always have to
be the Hero or Heroine. Tell something
amusing/enlightening/strange that happened to a friend, coworker,
family member, acquaintances, or neighbor. People will enjoy your
conversation without getting the feelings that you’re self-centered.

86.Change if after continuous struggles and painstaking efforts you can

not achieve your target or goal. Sometimes by changing the way to
work or our field of working we might achieve what we never
imagined before, i.e. if you are working as an insurance agent,
though after all your efforts and positive approached you can not get
what you aspire for from this field, you better change it off and
jumped into another one, perhaps you can get whatever you
deserved for. Its like that we sometimes can never know for what we
have been made or born.

87.Most of the time we start our new work/job with lots of hurdles and
confusions but if we don’t give up our hopes, it will end with the
fruitful results, we have to develop the patience, endurance,
forbearance, faith and hope because its never too much dark for ever
there is always a shining morning after all.

88.We all believe in luck but never think that some people do have
good luck, some people have good skills too but there are also some
people in this world who neither have good luck nor they are adept
but by their own struggle, motivation and hardworking, fate bends
for them.

89.All power is within you, you can do anything and everything.

Believe in your success as you believe in your failures; believe in
saying YES as you believe in saying NO. Success and Failures are
two different dreams one needs just thinking and slumbering and
another needs planning and doing. Believe me there is no magical
formula or amulet to achieve success.

90.Life gives to giver and takes from takers. Remember if you like to
take something from life you have to give it, for example no one can
say that he has the lack of love. To take love from anybody is very
necessary to give love. We have some example of the people in this
world who take some time on weekend and visit to Drug
Rehabilitation Centers, Orphanage, etc. etc. there they talk to the
people who are alone in this world. They share their happiness and
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 sorrows with them and feel better and relaxed and get more love
from them. Mother Teresa was one of them.

91.Beauty should be in the eyes of beholder. It is well said but do we

practice what we preach? If someone has scars on his/her face or
squinted eyes or dark complexion; he/she should not be worried and
be diffident. There are so many people in this world who have scars
on their faces and body but they hide them by costly and vibrant
attires, costumes, cosmetics and fake objects. The real beauty is
within you explore it. When a person is beautiful by inside, he/she
should not feel embarrassed by his/her outer ugliness. Make your
personality beautiful not your face and body, which are never
lasting.

92.Have the feelings of helping the needy people. Your one rupee
charity to a helpless and destitute person can’t make you poor but it
can probably be the reason to buy a bread to a hungry one. Charity
giving is also the part of our personality, which makes changes in
someone’s life no matter how little charity you give, but atleast for
the needy one it matters.

93.Human brain has 18 billion brain cells and according to scientists we

only have used uptil now maximum 10% of it. There is no such
productive work as to keep your brain busy for thinking positively
actions and generating good ideas. Brain is super factory of ideas
generation, you can use it overtime also.

94.Its never too late to change your decision for the achievement of
success. As to achieve success there is not age limitation and time
deadline. Most of people think in their 60s that its enough for them
to strive for excellence. Remember there is no hard and fast rule of
making full stop after the matter of success.

95.Ants are very good communicators, no matter how much busy they
are, but they always communicate with the next row of ants even
they are carrying heavy food on their shoulders, but say hello to
their buddy.

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96.When you are angry or you argue someone, you better stop talking
to the person you were arguing with. This is best technique I learnt
from my wife. Keeping silence will save your un-returnable arrows
on someone that sometimes results in great regret and remourse, if
we let such arrows go on. It is never possible to draw back a stone,
thrown with force from the hand, also to recall a bad word once
spoken.

97.Failure is the result of not acting in a proper way or infact not acting.
It is better to light one candle than to curse the darkness. When we
are hungry we strive for food, feeling drowsy then hit to sack and if
we are in search of success then all we need to do is (1) brighten our
mind with the positive thoughts and action plan, (2) motivating
ourselves for achievement, (3) stop procrastinating and faults
finding, (4) taking initial steps towards your goal (5) work with
dedication (6) and then finally enjoying our success. Be the Sixer!!!

98.The biggest thing we almost posses in us is “What he/she is doing”.

When we are given any task/assignment to do, we always distract
our mind towards the others (competitors, enemies, opponent),
which diminishes our power of working. It should be our prime
priority to see and think “What, I have to do”. Keep your eyes and
mind glued on your target not anyone else.

99.Have good and healthy sleep, take out at least half an hour in a day
to sit silent and write down your plans, make notes everyday. Notes
about your future planning, education, goals, money, business,
family life, etc. etc. When we record something down it hammers
us time to time what we are for and what is our objectives to do.

100. To keep yourself physically and mentally fit, try to get some
time for doing YOGA, Body Building, Running, Jogging, Light
Push Ups, approx. 30 minutes continuous walk, etc. etc. It is also
medically proved that our body needs some exercise. These
exercises tame our body and make it work long lasting. Physical
exercises make your body warm up, healthy and shall keep your
body away from lethargy, torpor, indolence and getting bulky
physique.

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Thank you for taking your precious time for your
Personal Excellence

It’s merely the end of this book but the beginning

of your new life.

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