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Dating Violence
Prevention
Program
Johnny Flores, Solana Gallegos,
Shelby Nance, Monica Rodela, & Lezya Weglarz
What are harmful behaviors that occur in
dating relationships?
Physical Harm Emotional Harm
Christina and Juan have been dating for a few weeks. Juan likes
Christina, but he isn’t in love with her. He wants to date another girl
in his health class. When he tells Christina that he wants to break
up, she gets angry. Then she starts crying. Juan is uncomfortable.
He doesn’t know what to say, but he doesn’t want to be in a
relationship with Christina anymore.
Scenario 2: Christina and Juan
Thom bought Nancy a compact disc by her favorite group for her
birthday. Nancy opened the CD and at first, she seemed to love the
gift. Then, however, she asked where the rest of her gifts were.
When Thom said that he just got the CD for her birthday present,
Nancy got angry. She started screaming at him. She said that she
expected more than a lousy CD for her birthday, and she broke the
CD in half over her knee.
Scenario 3: Thom & Nancy
Nicole bought Tyrone a compact disc by his favorite group for his
birthday. Tyrone opened the CD and at first, he seemed to love the
gift. Then, however, he asked where the rest of his gifts were.
When Nicole said that she just got the CD for his birthday present,
Tyrone got angry. He started screaming at her. He said that he
expected more than a lousy CD for his birthday, and he broke the
CD in half over his knee.
Scenario 5: Nicole & Tyrone
Sarah has a group of very close friends. She enjoys going to movies and the mall with
them. When she met Jessica and they fell in love, the couple began spending every
spare minute together— that was three months ago. All of Sarah’s friends like Jessica,
but they miss being able to spend time with Sarah. Sarah would like to go out with
them as well. But every time she tells Jessica that she’s going out with her friends,
Jessica tells her how much she misses her when she’s gone, that she always wants
her by her side. Sarah loves Jessica and she never wants to hurt him. As a result,
though, she feels too guilty to leave Jessica even for a few hours to spend time with
her old friends.
Scenario 4: Sarah and Jessica
Jason invited several of his friends and his girlfriend, Megan, to his house to
watch movies on Friday night. Jason asked Megan if she would put out some
chips and drinks for everyone. She said that she didn’t mind. When Jason’s
friends arrived, they all sat down to watch movies. When someone finished a
drink or when the bowl of chips was empty, Jason would tell Megan to go to the
kitchen for refills. When this happened for the third time, Megan said that she
wouldn’t be their waitress. She wanted to watch the movie and they could help
themselves to the food in the kitchen if they wanted it. Jason got angry. He
ordered Megan to get his friends’ drinks. When she refused, Jason hit her across
the face and dragged her into the kitchen. Jason’s friends had seen he and
Megan fight like this many times.
Scenario 1: Jason and Megan
What if this scenario had not ended with Jason hitting Megan. Instead,
Jason got angry and ordered her to get his friends’ drinks. When she
refused, he “got in her face” and said, “What did you say?” Megan
responded by withdrawing and being quiet. Is that still abuse?
If this was the first time Jason and Megan had fought, would it still be
abuse?
Defining Dating Violence
Dating violence is a pattern of behaviors used to exert power or control over a dating partner.
Dating violence happens to boys and girls and can involve physical, emotional or sexual abuse
From: http://www.violencepreventionworks.org/public/recognizing_dating_violence.page
Why Dating Violence Prevention is
Important?
● 59% of students currently dating have experienced physical violence, and 96% have
experienced psychological or emotional abuse
● People who use violence with their dating partners as adults often began doing so during
adolescence, with the first episode typically occurring by age fifteen
● Violence in relationships almost always reoccurs and gets more severe over time
● Young people who experience abuse are more likely to be in fights or bring weapons to
school, have higher rates of drug and alcohol abuse, and engage in high-risk sexual
behaviors.
1) 10 session curriculum
(can be reduced to 6)
2) Dating abuse play
3) Poster contest
4) Parent materials
5) Evaluation questionnaire
● To raise student awareness of what constitutes healthy and abusive dating relationships.
● To raise student awareness of dating abuse and its causes and consequences.
● To equip students with the skills and resources to help themselves or friends in abusive dating
relationships.
● To equip students with the skills to develop healthy dating relationships, including positive
communication, anger management, and conflict resolution.
Intended Audience:
Evidence-Based:
● The only evidence-based dating violence curriculum that prevents dating abuse
● Designated as a Model Program by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration
● Selected for National Registry of Evidence-based Programs and Practices (NREPP) in 2006
○ Received high ratings on all criteria
From: https://www.hazelden.org/web/public/safedates.page
Curriculum Sessions 1-5
● http://stoprelationshipabuse.org/professional-resources/teachers/
○ Responding to Students
○ Additional Curriculum Ideas
For parents:
● https://www.futureswithoutviolence.org/talk-teens-teen-dating-violence/
○ Warning Signs
○ Starting the Conversation Tips
For students:
● www.breakthecycle.org
● www.loveisrespect.org : Text “loveis” to 22522 or call (866) 331-9474
LCAP Connection
*Also meets various national health education and life skills standards
Recommendations:
● Dating violence often ties to alcohol and drug abuse, suggest possibly using in conjunction
with alcohol/drug prevention programs
● Trauma-informed presentation