Manifest

Women

George Hutton
mindpersuasion.com
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Contents
Prelude ...................................................................................................................................................... 4
The Problem State .............................................................................................................................. 7
Problem Examples ............................................................................................................................ 11
The Solution ......................................................................................................................................... 15
Course Preview .................................................................................................................................. 19
Solution State ..................................................................................................................................... 24
Your Right To Women ..................................................................................................................... 28
Your Reason For Existing ............................................................................................................. 32
Why It's Not Automatic .................................................................................................................. 36
Male History Overview ................................................................................................................... 41
Modern Society................................................................................................................................... 46
Mange Your Instincts ...................................................................................................................... 50
Fake Alphas .......................................................................................................................................... 54
Leverage Her Instincts - Overview .......................................................................................... 59
Control Your Instincts - Review ................................................................................................ 64
The Most Important Quality ......................................................................................................... 68
Part Two - Brass Tacks .................................................................................................................. 72
Signs of Authority and Power ..................................................................................................... 77
Authority Practice Drills ................................................................................................................ 82
The Powerful Law of Scarcity .................................................................................................... 86
More Scarcity ...................................................................................................................................... 91
Social Proof .......................................................................................................................................... 96
Advanced Techniques .................................................................................................................. 102
Commitment and Consistency - Advanced Applications ........................................... 106
Comparison and Contrast ........................................................................................................... 111
Part Three - Manifesting .............................................................................................................. 116
Simple Manifesting ......................................................................................................................... 120
Two Way Manifesting .................................................................................................................... 124
Increase Manifesting Skills ....................................................................................................... 129
Manifesting Women ........................................................................................................................ 133
Dating and Relationships ............................................................................................................ 137
Final Thoughts .................................................................................................................................. 141
Summary of Exercises .................................................................................................................. 146
Using Linguistic Presuppositions To Imply Social Proof ........................................... 152
Mind Killers......................................................................................................................................... 156
Contact ................................................................................................................................................. 159
Mind Persuasion Kindle Books ................................................................................................ 160
Prelude

This is a guide on how to do better with women. If you are

a man, there is a very strong chance that you are not doing
as well with women as you would like. If you follow the
steps and exercises in this guide, you will get better with
women. Whether you dream of one ideal woman to spend
the rest of your life with, or if you fully intend to live life a
serial monogamist with successively better woman, this
guide will help you.

This is not, however, a "pick up" guide. This is not a series

of techniques and models and language patterns to use.
This is a guide to make you much more attractive to a
much wider variety of women on a fundamental level. This
will transform you from the inside out. This will change you
on a deep level so that all you need to do is "be yourself"
and women will be naturally attracted to you. This is not
magic, these are not tricks of NLP or the Law of Attraction.
This based on science, psychology and simple laws of
persuasion an influence that have been used by marketers
time and time again. This will remove all questions of what
to do and what to say. In fact, very little of this guide is
dedicated to "in the moment" specifics like how to approach
her, or how to ask for her number or when and how to
bring her home with you. All of those will be a natural
outcome, even her idea.

The more you dedicate to learning the underlying

psychological aspects of attraction, and more importantly
applying them to your daily life, the less you'll need to
worry about the small stuff. You will simply walk into a
room, and know on a deep level that nearly every single
woman would be glad if you approached her. You will be
able to walk into a room and feel their attraction for you.
This will remove all hesitation about whether you should
approach. This will make it clear beyond any shadow of a
doubt that women want you to approach them. There will
be no need for interpreting small and nearly indecipherable
tells to know when to approach and when to wait. You will
find that women will make themselves available to you, as
much their self-confidence and self-esteem will allow.

You must, however, go through the required exercises in

this guide to feel that impact on your life. On a
fundamental level, as much as men are attracted to women
primarily on their physical appearance and secondarily on
their behavior, with women it is the opposite. Looks aren't
nearly as important. Women are much more attracted to
behavior. Behavior that telegraphs your social status, self-
confidence, and your ambitions. To be effective, this
behavior has to be natural. It cannot be faked, at least for a
long time. This is precisely why many men crash and burn
after only a few weeks or even days. The behavior and
communication required to create attraction can be faked
(with certain women) but not for long. What you will be
developing is natural behavior that radiates from the inner
belief system which you will be developing from this course.
Because it will be natural, you won't need to think about it.

Going through this guide will require that you think in

different ways, and you slowly behave in different ways.
However, this guide will not require you to do anything that
creates any anxiety. This is not a method to force yourself
through your fears. This is not a guide which tells you to
"fake it until you make it." This works in the opposite
direction. This will create a deep attraction in women, for
you, before you utter a single word to them.
Before you read any further, get clear on the benefits you
will receive once you internalize all the principles in this
book. What will life be like for you, once you can get any
woman you like? What will it be like when you walk into a
social situation, and have a deep feeling of certainty that all
the women have their eyes on you, and would like to meet
you? To be sure, some of these exercises will be strange,
and not what you expect. Some of them will require you
leave a situation just as it is getting interesting. While it
won't require that you charge through your fears or do any
kind of "fear killing" exercises, it will require you to DELAY
your gratification. This will require you to look at your life,
and your relationship to women, in a fundamentally
different way. This will require that you create a life that
women will want to be a part of. A life that you value
primarily, and any women that come along for the ride (as
many will long to do) as secondary. This guide will
transform you into Driven Man who is irresistibly
attractive to women. That will allow you to choose who you
allow to enter into your life. Following the principles and
exercises in this guide will put you squarely in the driver's
seat. No longer will you hope and wait and pray and wish
for women to be with you. You will choose between many
women who are hoping and praying and wishing to be with
you. That will be a natural outcome of going through these
exercises and transforming your life. You will chase life,
and women will chase you.

If you are ready, let us begin your journey.

The Problem State

Thank you and congratulations on purchasing this course.

Everybody wants more of the good things in life, but
precious few are willing to take measures to get them.
Simply because you are reading this now, you have
demonstrated an understanding that with more knowledge,
with more skill, with more understanding of the world
around you, the people in it, and how they operate, you
can more easily get what you want. If the good things in life
were easy, everybody would be getting them. But since few
take the time to understand the structure of reality, the
structure of communication and how relationships are
formed and maintained, few do more than wish. Please see
these words, the accompanying hypnosis sessions and the
coming shifts to your mindset as a barrier that will
separate the future you from the previous you. A future
you that can look out into the sea of humanity, and easily
create relationships with nearly any woman you choose,
just as simply as you can bake a cake from raw
ingredients. Before we get started on building the future
you and your future skills, let's take a look at the
predicament of the modern male, an unfortunate situation
from which few escape.

The Problem

Evolution moves very slowly. Society moves very quickly.

Our instincts, those emotional driving forces that make us
hungry, horny and always looking for more, have been
inside our genetics for a long, long time. They were created
in an environment when males had little choices to mate.
For most of human history, males lived in small bands of
hunter-gatherers, and interacted with the same people
their entire lives.

What did this mean for dating? It mean the girl you ended
up with, the mother of your children was likely a girl you've
known for most of your life. From the same tribe. Not a
stranger, not somebody you just met. However, in our
modern age, we are surrounded by beauty. We are
bombarded with images of beautiful woman on a daily
basis. In fact, most men see more gorgeous women on a
daily basis (either online, in advertisements or on TV) than
men only a hundred years ago saw in their entire lives.
What does this do to our psychology? It can be potentially
horrible. Men are programmed to be horny all the time.
This was because in our ancient lives of hunter gatherers,
the females were only fertile, and in a stable enough point
in their lives to have and bring up children, precious few
times. Imagine if men were only horny some of the time.
The chances of both the ancient male and the ancient
female being ready to go at the same time would have been
significantly less than what it really was. For example, let's
say males were only horny one day out of four. Females
were only ready to go in the week leading up to their
monthly period. If she was ready, but the man wasn't, then
they wouldn't have a child. Any tribe filled with males that
were only horny part of the time were quickly eliminated.
Which tribe had the most kids? The ones that were filled
with men that were horny all the time. So when an ancient
caveman's wife was ready to go, so was he. They had
caveman sex, a baby popped out nine months later, and
everybody was happy.

But here we are, thousands of years later. Only we're not

surrounded by the same few females our entire lives like we
used to be. We are bombarded on daily basis with female
beauty that has been augmented by plastic surgery and
Photoshop. If a male today does not have constant access
to sexual relief, it can make one incredibly frustrated.

Undersexed Males

We might even go so far as to say that most of the problems

that pop up during the early stages of male-female
relationships are due to poor choices made by undersexed
males. Men commit when they shouldn't, because they
think it will grant them access to constant sex. Men do
things that they would never do, only because there is a
slight chance that there might be sex at the end of the long
and confusing maze.

Operating from this standpoint, the modern male is at a

supreme disadvantage. From a marketing perspective, you
may say it's a "seller's market" where the sellers are the
females of today's society which have the most sought after
commodity of all time.

This course is much more than how to get access to that

commodity. Today's males, if they have even the slightest
level of social skills, can find access. To be sure, this access
isn't ideal, but it is access.

In this course you will be developing several new skills and

mindsets. Several different communication techniques,
mental frameworks and a deep feeling of abundance, rather
than the scarcity that most men operate from as they
attempt to navigate the dating and mating environment.
The Goal

The goal, of course, is to come out the other end of this

experience operating from a much better framework. Of
looking out into the sea of femininity and feeling a deep
sense of choice and power, rather than the commonly felt
desperation and frustration of most modern males.

Manifesting

What does this mean? This means to make something that

wasn't there before. Because of the huge mismatch
between what is out there, and what is perceived, it will
seem like magic. But it will not be. This course is based on
science, physiology and your ever present capability to
learn and improve upon new skill sets.

Two men look out across a room. One sees nothing but
anxiety, rejection, and loneliness. Another looks out over
the crowd of people and sees choice, abundance, and
several women that he knows will feel lucky for having
been chosen. If you are the first man, do not fret. Through
this course you will become the second man. If you feel
frustration, you will soon feel positive expectation. If you
feel anxiety, you will soon feel comfort. If you feel
limitation, you will soon feel deep abundance.
Problem Examples

Let's look at a few ways these emotions of frustration,

scarcity and limitation manifest themselves in the life of a
typically undersexed male.

When you are scared, everything looks like a potential

threat. When you are hungry, every piece of food you notice
seems delicious and inviting. If you've ever read a novel, for
example, while hungry, you may have paid a lot more
attention to any scenes or descriptions of food. If you've
just seen a very scary and well done horror film, every
shadow may have given you pause, while the same
shadows wouldn't have even registered in your mind after
seeing a comedy.

Ever Presence of Sexual Opportunities

After food and safety, the next most important thing to

human life is sex. And since today's world is fairly safe and
filled with opportunities for food, that leaves sex. Even if
you have a normal sexual drive, the overabundance of
overtly gorgeous and perfectly proportioned females will
turn your normal sex drive into hyperactive overdrive.
What does this do to the common man?

Just like seeing danger in the shadows when it isn't there,

you will see potential sexual opportunities when they aren't
really there. For example, if you go into a coffee shop and
the girl behind the counter is cute, you will become
nervous. Even if you don't consciously plan on asking her
out or asking her for her phone number, you will be
nervous. Because you ancient sex drive, your caveman
brain is treating this like a once in a lifetime opportunity to
propagate the species.

And if you actually have a chance? Forget about it. Let's

say you get on the bus. A pretty girl sits next to you. You
glance down, and she's not wearing a ring. You look at her
and smile, and she smiles back. You start to think that
maybe you actually have a chance. You start thinking of all
the things you could say to her. You start to practice
several openers in your mind. Finally you choose one and
look over, but you just can't get it out. You turn back, and
try to talk yourself into speaking to her. Eventually though,
her stop comes up, and she gets off. Now you are angry at
yourself. All you had to do was open your mouth and
speak, but you sat there like an idiot. At least you tell
yourself that. What happened?

Here's another common scenario. You go to a bar or party

with your friends. You have a few warm up drinks to build
up your courage. After an hour of talking yourself up, you
finally decide to do some approaches. You approach a
group of girls that look friendly. They look like they won't
kill you if you happen to stutter or make a joke that's not
funny. So you walk up.
"Hey, " you start off, smiling. They all stop talking and
look at you. What does their expressions on their faces tell
you? Are they excited that you've decided to come and talk
to them? Are they anxious, hoping they respond to your
joke correctly? Are they worried that you might talk to
them and then leave without asking their number? Not
likely. They are probably looking at you with a passive
interest, wondering what you might say. After all, they're
safely seated with friends, looking at you who is now on the
spot. You'd better say something incredibly interesting or
else!
 "How's it going?" you manage to spit out.
"OK," the gorgeous alpha girl says, smiling at her
friends. Already you feel like running away, but you
continue. Perhaps you talk about the weather, or the local
sports teams, or the band that is coming to play later on.
Maybe even you ask if you can buy them a round of drinks,
they accept. After an hour of small talk, you finally work up
the courage to ask for her number. She gives it to you, but
you have a sinking suspicion it wasn't genuine. You try
calling a few times over the next several days, but you
never see her again.

The Main Problem

Most men are in that position. Most men have less sex
than they want to have. This is accompanied by a not so
helpful realizing that getting sex is far from guaranteed.
Any sex most men get takes quite a bit of effort. What
about women? While they may not get nearly the amount of
sex they'd like, they certainly get looked at quite a bit. And
most women have a deep sense of knowing that if they
WANTED sex, really badly, they could get it without much
issue. They wouldn't need to approach several dozen men,
and ask for several dozen phone numbers, and then spend
the next week calling them to see if they could meet
another one of those men later on. Be sure to understand
that this is not the same as women having sex with who
they want to have sex with. This is just a completely
different attitude toward sex in general. Men are always
horny, and they feel that getting sex is a long and
frustrating process that is rarely a sure thing. Women, on
the other hand, have a deep sense of comfort knowing that
if they wanted sex, and only sex, they could get it relatively
easily.
So whenever men approach women in a social situation,
the men generally FEEL at a disadvantage. Now, is this
disadvantage REAL? For most men it is. But for those
small few who understand how things really work, it is not
real at all. For them, their knowledge plus their skills
allows them to feel a huge advantage over all women, all
the time. This will soon be you.
The Solution

You will be operating in the same environments. You will

be going to the same places, doing the same things, and
most likely wearing the same clothes. What will be
different? Your mindset. Your beliefs about what is
possible. Your deep, experiential understanding of what
women REALLY want and how you are the ideal man to
give it to them. You will be in the driver’s seat. You will be
the one doing the choosing. But be warned, the experience
will not be like you imagine.

The Cake Fairy

Imagine you wanted a cake. So you wished and prayed and

said some magic words. Then a knock came to your door.
You opened it, and there was a gorgeous nymph who
handed you a cake. You ate the cake and it was delicious.
A fantastic experience.

Now compare that to the experience of baking a cake,

assuming you know how. You decided you wanted to eat a
cake. So you imagined the kind of cake you wanted. You
took action, mixed the ingredients, and an hour later, you
had a delicious cake. The same cake that the metaphorical
cake fairy delivered. Same cake, different experiences.

Different Experiences

Getting something for free is a wonderful feeling. Especially

if you wished for magic and magic was granted. Getting
birthday presents is fun. You don't need to do anything,
just sit and receive. Baking a cake, on the other hand, is
not as magical. It might even be boring. But the outcome is
something that must happen. If you pray to the cake fairy,
you might get a cake, you might not. But if you set out to
bake a cake, you will get one. No questions, no surprises.
You would never mix cake batter, put it in the over, and
then open the over an hour later to find an aquarium or a
tennis racket.

This is the difference between your experience now with

women, and what it will be. Perhaps you have fantasies of
girls coming to your house unannounced, and sexually
pleasing you. But remember the cake metaphor. When you
bake a cake, you know you will get a cake. Once you
understand the underlying concepts and build the required
skills (which will be easy when you combine the exercises
and the accompanying hypnosis exercises) the experience
of meeting and having sex with gorgeous women will be
just like baking a cake.

No, you aren't going to put these poor ladies in your oven!
But just like baking requires certain steps in certain order,
so do talking to and seducing gorgeous women. Even if you
get to the point where women do most of the approaching
and most of the talking, you will still need to behave a
certain way to make it happen. And because it will seem
normal and mechanical, it might not have that "magical"
feeling.

But just like eating a cake is delicious, even if you have to

bake it yourself, the women you meet and experience after
internalizing this course will be just as wonderful. But they
will not be magical.

How You Will Achieve This

You will understand that deep triggers that make women
attracted to men. You will learn how to exhibit these
triggers. You will learn how to talk to them so you naturally
radiate these triggers. You will also build in a deep belief in
what you have to offer. That any woman will be lucky to be
with you. You will slowly shift from operating from a
position of scarcity to a position of abundance. You will
soon be one of the few males who feels on a deep level that
they are getting plenty of sex, not just with anybody, but
with the women they choose.

And then you will discover something few men ever do. And
that is once you've forever left behind the undersexed
driven, never ending feelings of sexual frustration, that the
world is filled with far more abundance that simple sexual
relationships. You will begin to see women, and all they
have to offer, as not the main point in life, but only a side
benefit. Whether you want to have millions of one night
stands, become a serial monogamist, or find one lucky lady
to take with you as you conquer the world, you will find
that sex is like food. If you are starving, all you can think
about is eating. But once you finally realizing that food is
abundant, everywhere, and offers a multitude of choices,
there are far more important things to focus your
intentions on.

Your Promise to Yourself

Make no mistake, women can be deadly. Not that they'll

stab you in the eye with an ice pick while you sleep, but
chasing the wonderful feelings sexual intimacy can provide
can be like a drug. It is a trap many fall into and never
escape. A dog can only chase one rabbit. If he tries chasing
two, he catches neither. What does this mean? There are
two extremely diverse paths when it comes to women, your
life, and your ultimate purpose.

Monk Method

This is to shun women altogether. It is an effective solution.

Sir Isaac Newton, discoverer of gravity and creator of
calculus, died a virgin. For him, focusing on science and
math as good enough.

Abundance Method

Only start down this path of gaining abundance with

women unless you are committed to stick with it until you
feel women, and the sex they offer, is as abundant as the
food that fills your belly. Because if you get stuck in the
middle, you will be a dog chasing the wrong rabbit his
entire life. Make the decision to master the art of meeting
and creating intimacy with women. Because with absolute
mastery, you will have absolute choice.
Course Preview

You will be developing two different skills that when

combined together, will give you more choice and a deep
feeling of abundance when it comes to meeting, dating and
creating relationships with women. Different courses and
techniques focus on either one of these methods, but few, if
any, have combined them together in a usable way you will
find within these words you are reading now.

Alpha Male Triggers

The first part will be a basic understanding of what makes

a woman attracted to you. There is a lot mythology about
what women want, and whether or not it is even something
you can define. It's actually very simple. The triggers that
women respond to are out of her control. She may have a
conscious idea of what she wants, and she may
consciously be able to sort through the men she meets
until she finds what she thinks is consciously appropriate
for her, but this is the exception rather than the rule. All
humans are driven by instincts. Few humans can control
or are even aware of their instincts on a conscious level.

Hunger

The easiest instinct to refer to is hunger, since it is ever

present. You cannot decide to be hungry, you cannot
decide to not be hungry. If anybody devised a simple way
so people could consciously decide to not be hungry, there
would be no obesity problem. Despite the popular
arguments to the contrary, people that are obese are
desperate to not be obese. If there was a magic pill that
would make people's unwanted fat deposits disappear
overnight, never to return again, it's inventor would be a
multi-billionaire. More importantly, if being slim and
healthy were EASY, easy as swallowing a pill, few, if any
would CHOOSE to be overweight.

The point is that hunger is almost impossible to ignore.

Sure, movie stars tend to easily gain and lose weight, but
they are being paid millions of dollars to do so. The average
person you'll meet in your life will have a very hard time
not eating when they are hungry. This is fantastic news.
Why? Because attraction works the same way. When a
woman's "attraction triggers" are fired, she will have a hard
time resisting them. This is precisely why so many women
are in relationships with the OPPOSITE kind of guy they
"say" they want. Think of this from a hunger perspective.

It's certainly easy to understand why eating certain foods is

important. That eating below a certain number of calories a
day is important. But do we do that? No, most of us do not.
Few people consistently and rationally control what they
eat. What do we eat instead? Food that is prepared.
Processed. Filled with chemicals and additives. The food we
KNOW we should eat is like the kind of guy she THINKS
she wants to be with. The type of guy she ends up with,
despite knowing he's not "good for her" is like how we eat
food we KNOW is not good for us, but it's nearly impossible
to resist at the same time.

Throughout this course, YOU will learn how to fire those

deep attraction triggers that will make her irresistibly
attracted to you. You will also understand why "jerks" tend
to have plenty of these "alpha" characteristics. But they
also have plenty of "bad" characters that cause problems.
Think of it this way. Imagine your favorite food that is
delicious but NOT healthy. A huge plate of carne asada
nachos, for example. Sure they are delicious, but if you ate
them, and ONLY them, you'd die sooner than you otherwise
would.

The carne asada nachos are like the guys she keeps dating,
even though she knows she shouldn't. But what YOU will
be turning yourself into is something that is not only
DELICIOUS, but absolutely nutritious as well.

You will not only fire those deep and irresistible ancient
triggers of attraction, but because you will doing so
CONSCIOUSLY, (not like the jerks who do whatever they
please) you will also be somebody that she KNOWS is good
for her.

Manifesting

The other skill we will be learning is manifesting. Not only

will you be able to create attraction in nearly any woman
you interact with, but you will train your mind to
automatically sort for them. One of the biggest problems in
today's society is "where to find quality women." But here's
the paradox. They are everywhere.

Here's a very simple example. In future chapters, we will

get into a lot more detail, and see how this applies to
finding quality women, and building up the ability to
generate insatiable desire in them for you.

You've no doubt heard of the "red car" theory. You drive

around and you don't really notice the red cars. So one day
you buy a red car. Because a red car is now very important
to you, you suddenly see them everywhere. The same
happens with women and babies, or being pregnant. When
they are in the process of trying to get pregnant, they
notice everything that has anything to do with babies.

The brain evolved this capability to sort out what is

important to us from the MASSIVE amount of data hitting
our senses on a daily basis. Certain studies have shown
that up to one million bits of information is hitting all five
of our senses every second. However, our conscious brains
can only perceive a small fraction of that. The rest just slip
right by us without us knowing.

Adjusting Your Filters

The "Manifesting" portion of this course will teach you now

to "fine tune" your filters so you see the high quality women
that are all around you. However, this is complicated, and
you'll soon see that YOUR BEHAVIOR, even if you are in a
large room filled with many people, CAN CHANGE the
behavior of all the people in the room.

Quick Example

A shy guy, the opposite of an alpha male, walks into a

room. He looks around, and doesn't notice any girls giving
him any signals. He also doesn't "see" any high quality
women. So he goes home and complains on his favorite
message board that "there are no high quality women
anywhere."

Now consider an Natural Alpha Male who walks into the

room. EVERYBODY will notice him, and they will change
their behavior on a subconscious level. The women will
start to send out strong signals. The women will even
subconsciously compete with one another. They will
change their behavior specifically to be more attractive to
the Alpha Male. They will INCREASE their own "quality" as
much as they can, IN RESPONSE to the Alpha Male who
just entered the room.

The Manifesting Alpha Male will CREATE the presence of

"high quality women" where none existed before. His
presence will encourage women to increase their quality in
hopes of attracting him.

Let's look at some specific examples in the next chapter.

Solution State

We'll use a model of economic exchange to see how this

works. When it comes to exchange on a personal level,
there are a LOT more variables, so we'll have to be careful
to know is happening. It's also important to understand
that when we're using metaphors, they are metaphors, not
the thing the metaphors are describing. In NLP this is idea
is referred to as, "The Map Is Not The Territory." In reality,
life is filled with thousands of variables, far too many to
understand and manage consciously. We will often use
metaphors to simply things, but please keep in mind that
metaphors are just that, an oversimplification to help our
understanding. They are NOT intended as an accurate
description of reality.

Exchange Example

Let's say you have a lot of money in your pocket. You're

wandering around a shopping mall, looking for things to
buy. You see a pair of shoes. You try them on, and they feel
pretty good. They're a high quality brand, so you know they
will last. The price is $100. You think that's a good deal, so
you buy the shoes.

A few minutes later, you come across a hat. It's a cheap

hat, made from cheap material, but it looks pretty funny.
You might like to hang it on your wall or something. The
price is $5 and you think that's reasonable, so you buy it.

Let's take a Meta look at these two incidents. You saw

something that you wanted. The asking price was close
enough to YOUR subjective value of the item. So you traded
your money for the item. You GAVE a certain amount of
money to GET something you perceived to be as valuable
(as your money) if not more.

Humans do this with each other on a subconscious basis.

if you see somebody that you perceive as LOW VALUE, you
will act a certain way toward them. If you see somebody
that you perceive as HIGH VALUE, you will act a certain
way toward them. You do not behave towards the homeless
guy masturbating in broad daylight as you do toward your
boss. Two different people, they both have two completely
different values (according to your subjective viewpoint) so
you behave toward them in completely different ways. If
your boss says, "come into my office," you would stop
whatever you were doing and comply. If the homeless
masturbating guy said, "come into my office," you would
run the opposite direction.

As a human, your behavior and your appearance are the

only things people can use to determine your value.
(Assuming you're not famous). They will respond based on
their subjective assessment of your value as related to
them.

Paying for the cheap hat is like how you behave toward the
homeless guy. You don't "pay him" with valuable behavior.
Your boss, on the other hand, is like the pair of shoes. You
"pay him" with very valuable behavior.

What defines a high quality women? Her behavior and her

appearance. How she behaves is dependent on how you
behave. If you behave like a low quality male (in her eyes)
she will not pay you with "high quality behavior." If you
behave like a high quality male (in her eyes) she will pay
you with high quality behavior.
One person sees a room filled with low quality women. YOU
will soon see the WORLD filled with HIGH QUALITY
WOMEN.

Take a few moments now to imagine how that will work.

Every women you see, will be responding to your high
quality behavior with their behavior as high as it can be.
Every female that you interact with will treat you with more
respect, more kindness and more politeness.

Everywhere you go, you will feel women looking at you

differently. Instead of seeing the world filled with gorgeous
looking women that exhibit low quality, you will see the
world filled with gorgeous looking women that exhibit high
quality.

Instead of seeing a world filled with gorgeous women that

are out of your reach, which will cause unending
frustration and misery, you will see the world filled with
gorgeous women that are all behaving toward you in
receptive way. They will look at you and hope you approach
them. They will look at you and make it clear they want
you to approach them. And many of them, (in their own
way) will start approaching you.

That is the goal. To not only improve your belief systems

about yourself, to consequently change the resulting
behavior, but to notice the massive signs around you that
will make it feel like YOU are living in a completely different
world than everybody else.

Your friends will complain, "there are no high quality

women," but you will be seeing them EVERYWHERE.
Because they will be purposely seeing you. Beckoning you.
Coming up to you and starting conversations.

What will your world look like then? How many sales clerks
will go out of their way to help you once you start to exhibit
this behavior? How many opportunities will you get that
others don't even know exist? How will this enhance your
career? How this will enhance your existing relationships?
This is your future. Keep this ideal future in the forefront of
your mind as you go through the rest of this course.
Your Right To Women

OK, that title is a little strong. It can lead to thinking that

you have a "right" to any particular "woman." Which in and
of itself is dangerous for a lot of reasons. For one, supposed
there was some parallel universe where men had a "right"
to certain women. That would mean the particular woman's
behavior is not self-directed (since she's fulfilling her
"obligation" to provide your "right"), which means it would
be a lot less genuine. The biggest thrill is being with a
woman is that she chooses to be with you. Her actions are
voluntary, and enthusiastic, because she hopes to elicit
reciprocal and equally enthusiastic behaviors and actions
from you. It can also create a lot of anger, if the woman you
imagine you have a "right" to is not behaving the way you
"think" she should be behaving. And as we'll learn later on,
one of the most unattractive things in humans (both men
and women) is a sense of entitlement.

But as a man, you have a right to A WOMAN, somewhere,

somehow. And you can view this as one woman for the rest
of your life, or one woman at a time for a certain amount of
time. Remember our idea last chapter about metaphors?
Well, the idea of having a "right" to a woman is a metaphor.
In reality, you could live your whole life, just like Sir Isaac
Newton, and never get any. So why do we want to explore
the metaphor of having a "right" to A (not any in
particular) woman?

Because if you are a male, an alpha male who is operating

on all cylinders, achieving the most you can achieve, a
woman (special or temporary) will be part of that equation.
Now, we could say you have an obligation to a woman, or
a social responsibility, but those sound oppressive. Nobody
likes having an obligation or responsibility hanging over
their heads.

We may change this from "right" to a woman to "destiny" to

have a woman. But some people don't like to think in terms
of "destiny" as that brings up the idea of predetermination,
which removes the idea of human freedom, which kind of
makes it seem like we just need to sit around and wait for
our "destiny" to show up.

So let's stick with the word "right" to a woman, but think of

it as something that you must EARN. Kind of like the "right
to access healthcare" that politicians like to blather on
about. They don't mean that healthcare is free, they intend
for it to be paid for somehow. It's just that if you have an
illness, and you've been paying for your insurance, you
should have the right to bring your health insurance card
to the doctor and have them fix you up.

Unless you are living to your full potential, where women

and relationships are concerned, you are not doing your
job as a human. If everybody decided to follow in the
footsteps of Sir Isaac Newton and shun women in favor of
mathematics and science, humanity wouldn't last very
long.

Part of your purpose is to find and create relationships with

women. Women are horribly lonely without men. Men are
horribly lonely without women. Men and women are meant
to be together. Every time a group of women go out to a bar
or a club, they are not hoping to NOT be approached by
any guys. They are all secretly hoping that they will meet
Mr. Right who will sweep them off their feet. Your duty as a
man is to BE Mr. Right to as many women as possible.
Your right, your duty, your obligation, your destiny, your
purpose in life involves women. Women (or a woman) aren't
the end, but they are a major part. The saying "behind
every great man is a woman" isn't far from the truth. Sure,
there are exceptions to the rule, but if you want to create
greatness in this life, being able to easily and effortlessly
interact in the world of dating and romance will make
things SO much easier.

Life on Earth is a terribly competitive game. There are

scarce resources and lots of animals (including us humans)
who want to control those resources. Many species didn't
make it, and are with us no longer. Humans have risen to
the top of the food chain. We have the biggest brains, the
most effective use of tools and cannot only just imagine a
better future, but we can create it as well. And in the long
line of humans, you are standing squarely on the shoulders
of all the successful humans leading back into our ancient
history.

Taking control of your life with respect to dating and

romance with gorgeous and high quality woman should be
thought of as one of your main purposes for living. Accept
the challenge of being human. Claim your right on the
mantle of history. Earn your right to create relationships
with the most stunningly gorgeous women you meet. See it
as a measure of your communication skills, your social
skills, your human skills.

One of the most wonderful side effects of getting this part of

your life "handled" is that every other aspect will be easy.
Once you can learn how to walk into a room filled with
strangers and easily sweep the most gorgeous woman off
her feet, everything else will be easy by comparison. Job
interviews will be a snap. Defending a thesis will be a piece
of cake. Selling a billion dollar service to a terrifying
corporate executive will be a walk in the park.

Your ticket to greatness on this earth goes straight through

your ability to become the dominant Alpha Male
everywhere you go, and transform the woman around
through your sheer presence into high quality women that
long for your companionship.

Let's look at this noble obligation in more detail in the next

chapter.
Your Reason For Existing

A long time ago a guy named Darwin found an island with

a bunch of goofy looking animals. He wondered why they
looked so different than the animals on the mainland,
which wasn't so far away. After scratching his chin and
doing some deep thinking, he came up with his world
changing Theory of Evolution. Of course, it didn't go down
just as simple as that. A lot of people before him had the
same idea, and it took a while to flesh it all out, but that's
more or less what went down. However, when most people
talk about evolution, they're missing a very important part.

Most people know the "competitive survival" part. Some

caveman is born with slightly better eyesight than
everybody else. Because of this, he can see a little bit
better, and can hunt a little bit more efficiently. So his kids
are more likely to get fed, and survive, and therefore carry
on those "good eyesight" genes. His neighbor, who's blind
as a bat, throws rocks and doesn't hit anything, and his
kid starve. So after a thousand or so generations, the
eyesight of humans keeps getting better and better.

So far so good, right?

Well, there's another half of Darwin's original theory that

doesn't get nearly as much respect as it should. Because
there is survival selection, and then there is sexual
selection. Survival selection is when nature naturally
prefers cavemen and women who can better survive. Their
kids have a better chance, since mom and dad can hunt
better or defend their caves better.

But what about sexual selection?

Imagine two cavemen. They are identical in every way,
except for one. The first caveman, let's call him Steve, has
really horrible game. He can only get laid when his cave
wife is good to go. Which isn't very often, because after
having a few screaming cave kids, most cave ladies figure
that's enough. But let's consider the second caveman, let's
call him Casanova. And what does Casanova do really well?
He can talk his cave lady into sex anytime he wants.
Because he speaks with lilting prose that makes his cave
lady wet in her cave panties. While Steve is struggling with
his cave wife saying things like, "Ug, ug, you me, sex,
please," our hero Casanova is spitting out long winded
poetry that makes her heart melt.

Steve's kids have those "ug ug please have sex with me"
genes, while Casanova's kids are mad players that are
getting more action than anybody else in the tribe. And
because Casanova AND his kids get laid like rock stars,
they leave way more kids behind. And all of these kids have
the Casanova player gene.

As you can guess, a guy who has a genetic advantage that

helps him get laid will outproduce his competition FAR
FASTER than some guy who can see a little bit getter. This
is why those animals on that island (The Galapagos if
you're paying attention) are so different. Because once a
trait that allows a male OR a female of the species to get
laid more often than its competitors, it can QUICKLY spin
out of control.

Just look at the numbers. Let's say there are a hundred

families in a tribe. And half of them have a "better eyesight"
gene. And let's say, on average, they have 3.0 kids who
grow and to be old enough to have kids on their own. And
the families that have normal eyesight have 2.8 kids, on
average, that grow up. You can see that it will take a LOT
of generations for the "good eyesight" genes to completely
replace the "average eyesight" genes.

Now let's look at the "get laid like a rockstar" gene. For
guys that have the rockstar gene, it's not out of the
question for them to have six kids, while everybody else
only has three. And let's say two of those kids die for
whatever reason, so the rockstar families have four kids,
while the normal families have three. The rockstar genes
will replace the normal genes a LOT FASTER.

This is when you take an animal like a bird or a turtle, and

stick them on an island like the Galapagos, they'll become
totally different that the similar animals NOT on the island.

The crux of this theory is the man has one thing no other
animal has. And that is a humongous brain, and advanced
language (which is part of the big brain). This is not
required for survival, because there are some pretty dumb
animals that do pretty good on Earth. Like sharks, who
just swim around and eat stuff, and they've survived for
millions of years. They don't need brains, they don't use
tools, they don't even need fingers.

This theory postulates that the human brain has a specific

purpose. And that purpose is to help us humans get laid.
Remember, all Caveman Steve could do was grunt. And
Caveman Casanova could spit eloquent game that made
the women swoon. And guess what? A few generations
later, Casanova's great-great-great grandkids were STILL
competing with one another to see who could get laid the
most.

Granted, this theory isn't accepted by ALL scientists, but

it's accepted by a lot. It explains why our human brain got
so big so quickly. It is a tool. And the purpose of this
wonderful tool is to help you get laid. Help you meet and
seduce the women of your dreams. Everything else is just
details.

Even you NEVER want to have kids, you can still use your
brain to get as much sex from high quality women as you
can. Or as much sex from the SAME high quality woman
throughout your life as you can.

While we may never know whether this theory is actually

true, (it's pretty hard to prove or disprove evolutionary
theory and tends to end up in a shouting match either
way), if you ASSUME it's true, it will help give meaning to
your life.

Your job is to build an awesome life that will attract

awesome women. The same women that will help you to
continue to build your awesome life. That is why you were
put on this Earth. That is why you are capable of reading
these words, and imagining how YOU will improve your
skills in the future.
Why It's Not Automatic

OK, so here we are. Thousands of generations after the first

caveman seduced the first cave girl. If the purpose of our
brain is to help us get laid with high quality women, why
can it be so frustrating? The answer lies in how our
instincts were cooked. Nearly all of our problems as
humans living in modern society can be traced to having
instincts that were developed for the world of the tribal
hunter gatherer, but trying to operate in the huge
technically advanced society we currently live in.

The easiest way to understand this difference is by looking

at hunger. Hunger is an instinct. An instinct is a strong
and unconscious compulsion to behave in a specific way to
get a specific result. We have instincts to make us do
things without having to think about doing things. If you
never got hungry, you would have to consciously remember
to eat. Maybe some of our ancestors didn't have the ever
present desire to eat, but they didn't last long, and they
didn't pass on a lot of their genes. But in the past, there
was never enough food. So the correct instinct for that
environment was to always be hungry.

Now, take a look at our modern society. There is way too

much food. And you combine that with the instinct that
makes us hungry, even we're not, that results in a society
filled with obese people.

Attraction Instincts

What are some common attraction instincts?

(Please note: The following descriptions are very brief and
will be covered in much more detail in a later section).

Social proof. A guy who walks into a club with cute girls
on his arm is way more attractive than a guy who walks
in solo or with a bunch of guys.

Authority. The leader of the tribe is way more attractive

than one of the foot soldiers. This is why movie stars and
CEO's get easy sex. This is not the same as having
relationship success. This just means it's very easy for
them to get laid with average women. But when you
compare rock star guys and rock star girls, (or movie stars)
then their authority cancels each other out, and they
become clueless goofs like normal people.

Scarcity. The guy who isn't always around is more

attractive than the guy who is, all else being equal. Now,
being scarce by itself isn't going to do much. If you walk up
to a cute girl in the supermarket and say "Hi," and then
run away, you being scarce won't make her fall in love with
you. Scarcity is best when it's combined with social proof
and authority.

For now, let's just focus on these three, and how they are
different today than they were back in the old days, when
we were tribal hunter gatherers.

Social proof. Most people had a certain level of social proof

that was more or less consistent. Once people became
adults in the caveman days, their level of social status, and
the social proof that went with that, was fairly stable. So
your level of social proof back in those days was pretty
consistent, like your height or something. It didn't change
much over time. But today, you can have huge social proof
at work, but zero social proof on your weekend softball
team. You could have massive social proof (all the guys
know you're the bomb) when you MMORPG games, but
when you go down to the cooking class, you're the low man
on the totem pole (or whatever poles they use in cooking
class). Even at work, you might have high social status and
tons of social proof when it comes to sales, but when it
comes to fixing the system computer, you're just as
clueless as the next guy.

So not only do women see men of varying levels of social

proof in different areas, men feel that their own level of
social proof is not nearly as stable as it could be. Imagine if
height were the same way. It's well known that girls like tall
guys. But what if sometimes you were six foot six, and
made all the ladies swoon, but whenever somebody started
singing, you suddenly became five foot two! This would
make you feel very "uneasy" about your height. Because
men experience different levels of social proof based on
different situations, we are naturally uneasy about our
social proof, even when it's high.

Authority is more or less the same. In both the caveman

world and the modern world, social proof and authority are
closely linked together. Usually social proof comes AFTER
having authority. But then once you establish social proof,
it can build on its own. Imagine some guy who is the king
at work. All the people like him and respect him. He's the
founder of the company, he signs everybody's paychecks.
He's just negotiated a killer business deal that will allow
him to increase everybody's pay by twenty percent. In the
office he has both authority and social proof. The more
people talk about him when he's not around, the more
social proof he'll generate at the office. But let's assume he
takes his staff out to dinner. They leave on Friday after
work. Friday is casual day, so everybody is dressed in jeans
and Hawaiian shirts, both the guys and the girls. He strolls
into the restaurant with his crew around him, all happy
because of their raise, and that he's buying them dinner.
and they have deep respect for him because he is a
business genius.

All the people see him walk into the place. They see how
his crew is respecting and admiring him. But he's not
famous, so to all the people in the bar, he has zero
authority. But he has massive social proof. A lot of the
folks in the restaurant, both guys and girls, will be
thinking about him. Wondering why people are so into him.

But suppose that same guy, the superhero genius boss, is

taking a cooking class. The woman who is teaching is a
genius chef. Several of the other people in class are genius
chefs as well. But the super hero boss can't even boil
water. He's clueless. In the cooking class, he has zero
social proof and zero authority.

This situation simply didn't exist in the caveman world. If

you had authority, you always had authority. If you had
social proof, you always had social proof. Today, they are
as dependable as the wind. And when a male walks the
earth knowing that his social proof and authority is always
in question, this can be a very weak frame to operate from.

Now, consider the average woman today. She can put on

some makeup, take a few pictures of herself and further
enhance her looks with tons of photographic filters. Even
an average looking woman can look beautiful online. So
these women have a high feeling of social proof. They have
the feeling that tons of guys "like" them, even if it's only
followers on social media. Compared to the caveman world,
where her social proof and "popularity" was pretty much
set in stone, she's got way more social proof than her
instincts are used to.

So when a man (who hasn't gone through this course and

figured out how to game the system) interacts with a
women, he has a massive disadvantage. His own social
proof and authority is questionable. Especially if he's
talking to her in an environment, like a club or a bar or a
party where he doesn't know a lot of people, where he's got
very little social proof. She, on the other hand has her
phone with her (and probably can't keep her eyes off it) and
can refer to it any time to verify her "social proof."

Who do you think will feel more comfortable in this

situation? The woman, of course. As we'll soon see, this
idea of her having social proof is really imaginary. And any
idea that you have about your social proof and authority is
imaginary as well. But before we learn how to jack your
imagination in the right way, let's learn more about our
ancestors, just to see how the dating-mating-seducing
game has evolved over the eons.
Male History Overview

There are several reasons it will help to understand our

roots as men. One is that it will give you an idea of why our
instincts the way they are, and why they don't necessarily
serve us best in the modern world. But another reason is
it's common to wish it were like "back in the old days." This
is a common complaint. But the truth is that no matter
where you go in history (if you could actually pop around
and measure the general feeling of the times) people are
always complaining about the "good old days." A hundred
or so years from now, people will imagine that these were
the good old days. With that in mind, let's take a look at
what it was really like back then.

Hunter Gatherers

Most evolutionary psychologists tell us that humans are

monogamous, but tend to be polygamous when possible.
This means that any time in history where one guy, or one
small group of guys could successfully handle a large
harem of women, they did. But when wasn't possible, most
guys could find at least one girl to get together with. Pay
attention to that last sentence. Most guys could find one
girl to get together with. Many guys complain that "girls
aren't loyal." But this means that girls have options besides
you. And then these guys complain that "girls aren't loyal,
like they were back in the old days." Well in the old days,
most guys only hooked up with one girl their entire life.

It's like the grass is always greener metaphor. Current

males have tons of opportunities. But so do women. So in
order to keep a girl "loyal," you have to convince her that
being loyal to you is better than all her other options. And
you must make sure this is true throughout the entire
relationship.

Sure, girls were "loyal" back in the "old days." But "loyal"
isn't really the right word. Loyal implies choosing to stay
with somebody regardless of what happens. But back in
those days, women didn't really have a choice. Neither did
men, for that matter. If you hooked up (and as scientists
discover more evidence and fossil records it's looking like
this was less common than most guys realize) it was with
one girl. And it was a girl that had the same level of social
status as you within the tribe, or even within the small
community that you would have lived in. So you didn't
really get much of a "choice," and once you were together,
that was that. Neither of you could decide to "call it quits"
and find somebody else.

Invention of Religion

One of the biggest problems when agriculture was invented

was the existence of large cities. In hunter gatherer days it
was pretty common for the higher up "alpha males" to
monopolize the women. But when big societies formed, the
solidity of any male's "alpha male status" wasn't so stable.
It started to drift toward more like today, where you can be
an alpha in one situation, but an absolute bottom feeding
beta in the next.

The net result was the alpha's tended to fight with one
another. And the "alpha women" loved it. Imagine the
ancient cave ladies. They didn't have much choice, other
than accept or reject who was trying to get with them. But
as soon as modern societies started popping up,
exceptionally attractive women were highly sought after by
the various alpha males. And this caused problems.

This is one reason, according to a lot of historians and

evolutionary psychologists , why religion was "invented." It
created one META "Alpha Male" in the sky that was
watching over everybody all the time. This is when society
more or less came up with the "one woman - one man"
rule. It kept alpha males from fighting with each other over
women, and it kept society relatively peaceful.

You can think of society leading up to our modern society

in three main stages.

Primitive Man

This is the longest period, and when our instincts were

finalized. We lived in tribes and high status males, which
had high levels of social status, social proof, and authority,
got their pick of the women. Lower status males had to get
whatever they got ,and be grateful for it. It's possible that
many men who lived during this time period never got any,
they just had to accept that as part of life.

Early History Man

This was in the early days of the agricultural revolution,

but before widespread religion was invented. This was the
golden time for Alpha Males. This was when one Alpha
Male could have hundreds of wives, or at least mothers of
his children. Genghis Khan is a great example of this (even
though he lived much further along in history). Today, one
in two hundred people are descended from the Great Khan.
In this tumultuous period, social status, authority and
social proof were always up for grabs, whoever had the
most, left the most kids behind.

Recent History

This was when things settled down a bit. This was when
religions became more widespread, more societies relied on
the "one man-one woman" model to keep a society stable.

Now, if you could choose any one of these periods to live in,
which would you choose? Sure, if you knew you could be
the dominant alpha, being somebody like Genghis Khan
would certainly have its benefits. But in order to get to that
level, you would have to pretty much conquer everybody in
your society, at the very least.

However, consider the benefits of living in today's society

can bring. You have massive amounts of choice with the
women you can date. As we'll learn in later chapters, you
can learn how to radiate powerfully dominant alpha
characteristics, wherever you are, without having to kill
your enemies first. You can learn some basic
conversational skills and strategies that will help you
dominate the competition.

As mentioned before, most men are at a strong

disadvantage today. Most people are undersexed. Most men
have, at best, questionable social proof and authority.
Women, on the other hand, can "get some" any time they
want, if they put out a basic effort. Most women, if they
know a bit about makeup and photographic filters, can
appear gorgeous on social media and attract thousands of
followers, giving them the illusion of social proof. They
know that they have an advantage over most men.
But you are not most men. You are learning how to game
the system, so you can exhibit far more authority and
social proof than any of those other knuckleheads out
there.

To learn how to do that, let's look at modern society in

more detail in the following chapter.
Modern Society

What is likely the easiest way to describe the differences

between ancient society, where our instincts were formed
and modern society, where our instincts can run amuck is
limits. We had instincts that made us want more than
there was available. Unfortunately, with the industrial
revolution (and all of the other revolutions that have
happened since then) there are really not any limits to what
we can do. Unfortunately, our instincts are still very far
behind in catching up. Let's look at several different
categories.

Food

Back then, it was good to be hungry all the time, because

finding food was a pain. Sometimes it took days to track
down an animal big enough that would feed the tribe. And
even then, the animal certainly didn't want to get killed.
Sometimes it would even fight back. The only way to keep
us motivated enough to keep chasing it until we eventually
killed was to have that ever present hunger.

Today, when we can find a fast food place every twenty feet,
it's easy to let our hunger dictate our actions. But if you do
that, you know what happens. Just take a look at a large
group of people next time you're out and about and see
how many people can easily control their hunger.

Choice

Back then, there was little choice. No choice in food. You

either had food, or you didn't. Back then, there was little
choice in what mate you got. Today, you can go to a
different night club every weekend for the rest of your life,
talk to ten girls in each, and never see the same girl twice.
Our instincts have no idea how to handle that kind of
situation!

Restrictions

In our ancient lifestyles, there were an abundance of

restrictions. You were at a certain social status level, a
certain girl and a certain way of getting food. And that was
that. Today you have zero restrictions. If you don't like your
cheeseburger, you can send it back. If you don't like your
girl, you can break up with her and get a new one. If you
don't like your job, you can quit and find a new one. If you
don't like your friends, you can ditch them and find new
ones.

As we'll later discover, many of the common problems that

pop up in relationships is that there are no restrictions.
Even a hundred years ago, it was a social taboo to get
divorced. Now it's not only acceptable, it's often thought to
be a preferable choice in certain situations. Unfortunately,
men are kind of behind the curve on this one. It's not
uncommon for a man to be married to woman for several
years, thinking everything is humming right along, only to
find out she's leaving him.

One of the biggest advantages women have in this regard is

that they are no longer financially dependent on men.
Women can have full careers on their own, and when push
comes to shove, they have the option of depending on the
government to provide their income, should they choose to.
While it is far beyond the scope of this manual to delve into
social and political commentary, in order to successfully
navigate the world of getting quality women, you must
acknowledge that being the breadwinner isn't going to get
you very far.

In a sense, as far as being financially dependent goes, the

state has replaced the man in many ways. For the
purposes of this guide, that is neither right nor wrong,
moral or immoral, but we need to see the playing field as
accurately as possible if we are going to win the game.

And how do we do that? By fully acknowledging that

women must choose to stay with you. They will never need
to stay with you, unless that need is an emotional need,
not a financial or a legal need. Forget the idea of "loyalty"
as it is not really appropriate. Many men bemoan the fact
that women are no longer "loyal," but that is not only
missing the point but it is also not really accurate.

It's missing the point because in expecting a woman to be

"loyal" without giving her a reason to is ridiculous. Nobody
is loyal to anybody unless they have good reason to be so.
And if you expect the cohesion in any relationship you
create to come from a women's sense of "loyalty" you are in
essence putting the onus on her to maintain the integrity of
the relationship.

It's also inaccurate. Women of yesteryear weren't exactly

"loyal," they just had little choice. Social pressure, religious
pressure, financial constraints, all of these were external
forces keeping any woman in a relationship with any man.

What you will be doing is creating massive attraction. From

her to you. That is absolutely required in today's dating
landscape, simply because there are very little external
sources of pressure to keep a woman "loyal."

She must want to stay with you. She has to look at you,
and all her other options, and come to the natural
conclusion, both consciously and unconsciously, that you
are the absolute best choice in the world.

Luckily, giving the state of most men today, that will be

very, very easy. Because we are going to reverse engineer
the ancient signals of attraction, and learn how to
reproduce them at will. We are going to learn exactly what
triggers will create an insatiable desire in her for you, and
learn how to repeatedly push them, over and over, until
she can't get you out of her mind.

But before we learn how to push her ancient buttons, you'll

need to learn how to disengage your ancient buttons. We'll
cover that, next.
Mange Your Instincts

This will be the most difficult part. Managing your most

ancient instincts. But the good news is that once you learn
how to do that, the rest will be relatively easy. However,
managing your instincts will require some work on your
part. The good news is once you have these under control,
that in and of itself will make you a lot more attractive to
women on a deep level. There are five main areas where
we'll be focused.

Hunger

This is the most obvious one. This, however, is not because

of your physical appearance. There's no shortage of
examples of heavy guys that are popular with the ladies.
But being able to control your hunger is something that
will affect you on a deep level. This doesn't mean you need
to walk around with huge guns or a six pack, nor does it
even mean you need to become a gym rat. This simply
means you cannot be a slave to your hunger. Remember, a
true Alpha Male is somebody that holds his frame wherever
he is and whatever he is doing. If you are out-framed by
your hunger, that will unfortunately have an impact on
how attractive you'll be. This doesn't mean you'll need to be
hungry all the time. But you will need to rationally plan
and stick to an appropriate diet. While losing weight and
getting in shape is beyond the scope of this guide, it is
important to demonstrate that you can set and achieve
goals. Being driven to bigger and better things is insanely
attractive to women. Being able to control your hunger,
instead of shoving anything in your mouth that looks good
will go a long ways.
Money

Managing your money is also something you'll need to

handle. This does not mean you need to become a multi-
millionaire. This also doesn't mean you save every penny
you possible can. Only that you see money as a tool that
you use, rather than something that is outside of your
control. Even if you make minimum wage, demonstrating
that you can budget your finances, and stick to your
budget will not only make more desirable to quality women,
but it will significantly boost your self-confidence and self-
esteem as well. Beyond just budgeting your money, you'll
also need to get over any money issues you may have.
Many people falsely believe that money is evil or other
nonsense. See money as merely a tool that measures how
well you are performing in your life. Be driven to achieve
huge goals, rather than money, but recognize that money is
the best way to measure your progress. If you are doing
great things that will ultimately benefit society, demand
that you are paid for your efforts. This in no way means
that women are only attracted to men with money. This is
very common, and very false belief. Women are attracted to
men who are driven. And money is also attracted to men
who are driven. Become a driven man and let both women
and money find their way to you.

Do you need to wait until you achieve financial success

before you can start attracting quality women? Absolutely
not. But you do need to be driven. You need to believe that
you will someday achieve financially success as a
byproduct of achieving that which you are driven to do. In
reality, women are much more attracted to poor, driven
men than they are to rich men without ambition. Sure they
like the money, but it's the drive to conquer the world that
will make them insatiably attracted to you.

Social Proof

Social proof is incredibly attractive to women, and it is a

very effective marketing tool for both men and women.
However, if you are driven yourself by social proof, it will
put a dent in your ability to attract the best women out
there. Why? Because women are attracted to leaders, not
followers. You don't need to lead huge armies or command
respect of large swaths of the public, but you must lead
your own life. Your decisions must be your own, and for
your own reasons. You must not simply follow the crowd.
Everybody follows the crowd, it's easy, it's safe. Women are
not attracted to men who play it safe and easy. You must
choose and lead your own life. She won't follow you if you
are following everybody else.

Scarcity

This is another trigger that you can use to increase her

desire in you, but you must not fall to its power. The Law of
Scarcity is used in sales, marketing, advertising, and even
women use it to some extent to get men to become more
attracted to them. Whenever you are in doubt, step back
and think rationally. Are your actions motivated because of
scarcity, because you fear you will lose out if you don't act?
Or would your actions be the same whether or not that
which you desire was scarce or plentiful? When in doubt,
always pause and contemplate. Take some time to think.
You'll never go wrong by passing on an opportunity.
Remember, you are man who is building his life purposely,
not relying on chance events to move you forward.
Instant Gratification

This is most likely the biggest secret of success whether

you are seducing the highest quality women you've ever
met, or are building a six pack, or rebuilding a 1971
Pontiac GTO. Lower men seek instant gratification. Most
Americans buy food that is already prepared. They don't
want to cook, they want to eat, and they want to eat now.
You must cultivate the ability to delay gratification. Being
able to do this on a regular basis will help you more easily
see the big picture. It will help you to plan your life, rather
than react, as most people do, and live day by day. Your
ability to delay gratification when it comes to sex and
intimacy will make you much more attractive than every
other knucklehead out there who is doing anything and
everything to get into her pants. She will wonder why you
aren't so anxious. She will wonder why she isn't having the
near magical effect on you that she has on every other
drooling undersexed man out there. And this will make you
insanely attractive to her.

If you can control your impulses, your instincts, your

ancient drives, you will be more attractive than the most
successful people in the world. Why? Let's find out in the
next chapter.
Fake Alphas

What's that? That kajillion dollar hedge fund guy is not

really an alpha? Nope. He's got sometimes social proof, he's
got the authority over a certain group of people, but what's
he like behind closed doors?

Our society is fast moving. People can be successful, and

get into the national or even global limelight for many
reasons. And those external factors, the social proof, the
authority, the social status, those ideas are attractive to
women, but the man who has them really isn't.

Remember our instincts were made for a far different

society than the one where we live. So the natural triggers
that drive a woman crazy are not usually the same thing
that will make a guy get rich or famous today.

And the triggers that exist inside of a woman, they are

pushed not by modern alpha males but by ancient alpha
males. Ancient alpha males were natural leaders. They had
to motivate men to follow them for days when finding food
wasn't always guaranteed. They had to rally the men to
fight with other tribes. That exhibited natural authority.
They exhibited natural social proof. They had natural
scarcity (from the eyes of women) because they were always
leading the men.

Today, you can "get lucky" and get rich or famous for any
number of reasons. Let's look at common people that are
heralded as today's "alpha males."

Rock Stars
These guys are great musicians. They are musical
geniuses. They make millions of dollars. But their talents
are very, very limited. They can play instruments, write
music, or sing very well. But that's about it. And when it
comes to rock stars, we're only seeing the finished product.
Behind the scenes is a whole army of marketers, image
consultants and business managers. More often than not,
successful bands and musicians are built much more like
businesses than most people would like to believe.

Movie Stars

These guys are attractive, to be sure. They also can act like
alphas, but that is by speaking words that somebody else
has written. That is by saying those words over and over
per the specific instructions of a world class director. That
is with hundreds of thousands of dollars of equipment
surrounding them to make them look their best. Just look
at any actor in an off-the-cuff interview and see how off
balance they really are.

Athletes

They are rich, they are famous, they are handsome. But
their skills are very limited. Off the field, their lives are
often a wreck. Since an early age they have been rewarded
with attention and money by doing what they like to do and
what they do best. While a few athletes cross over from
sports into business, it's not uncommon for athletes to
have both money issues and relationship issues.

Wall Street Traders and Bankers

These guys are super rich, and super powerful. But would
these same guys have been just as rich, or just as powerful
if they'd been born five hundred years ago? Probably not.
They have skills manipulating our current financial system,
which is far from standard, and far from historical norms.

Tech Billionaires

If you've seen the movie "The Social Network" which is all

about the founder or Facebook, it's interesting to note that
it was based on a book that was appropriately titled, "The
Accidental Billionaires." The guys who invented one of the
biggest companies in the world today were, more than
anything else, in the right place, at the right time, with the
right set of skills. True Alphas, the ones that trigger those
deep feelings of subconscious and irresistible attraction in
women, were guys that led guys for years, decades, over
unknown land and territory as they conquered everything
before them.

There are a few things to consider when looking at today's

so-called "Alphas." One is that they have a lot of wealth,
and a lot of social status. So when most women think of
those men, they simultaneously think of having that wealth
and social status. This is before they ever interact with
those men.

Many guys know what it's like to have "one-itis." When

there's that one girl you can't get your mind off. If you've
done any amount of reading about this, you know that one-
itis is largely a hallucination. When you think of that one
girl, the image you have of her in your mind is largely an
illusion. You don't know anything about her, and you are
assuming many things about her. And these assumptions
are really fantasies. So what you are doing is taking maybe
ten or twenty percent that you know about her, and
combing in that with the eighty or ninety percent that you
fantasize about her, and coming up with this hallucination
of a near perfect women.

This is the same thing that is happening with these so-

called modern Alpha Males. We know very little about
them. Those girls that swoon over them are doing the same
thing men do with their one-itis fantasy. The girls imagine
the wealth, they imagine the social status, and that makes
them go crazy.

Also coming into play here is the Law of Scarcity. So they've

got this fantasy image of him (which is based on her idea of
wealth and fame, combined with what little he reveals
about himself to the general public) and this is combined
with the Law of Scarcity (one guy and all the girl swooning
over him).

What this means is that for each and every so called Alpha
Male of modern society, their Alpha-Status is largely
imaginary. This is why men at such a high level have a
high level of divorce. Once the women have the wealth (no
longer scarce) and they have the social status (no longer
scarce) all that is left is the man himself. And more often
than not, she finds that his true personality is not alpha in
the least!

What this means to you, dear reader, is you will be

cultivating something few men possess, not even those at
the top of society that most people think are alpha. And
you will be the opposite of those men. The further away we
are from them, the more alpha they seem. But the closer
we get, the more we interact with them and see their real
personality, the less alpha they seem.

You are going to be the opposite. The more ladies interact

with you, the more alpha and naturally attractive you will
seem. So much that after just a short conversation, they
will never be able to get you out of their mind.

How will we do that? Once you can get a handle on your

instincts, and keep them under control, the next part is to
find out how to leverage her instincts to jack up her
attraction for you to panty dropping levels of lust!
Leverage Her Instincts - Overview

The bulk of this training will cover just how to do this. To

maintain control and management of your own instincts,
while pushing all of her magic buttons. Consider when two
people get together. You feel that wonderful "click." That
magic feeling of "being in love." That magical feeling that
young lovers are so desperate to hold on to but never seem
capable of doing so. That feeling that they promise to
"always be like this" only to have it fade with time. Why
does this happen?

Most of our behaviors are subconscious. We don't know

what we're doing. If you've ever been on a first date, and
you found you were trying too hard, this is what it feels like
to consciously manage your emotions and behaviors. It's
difficult. Human behavior is meant to be natural,
spontaneous. So when two people are trying too hard, they
are elevating all of the naturally unconscious feelings and
behaviors up into the conscious level. If you've ever played
and instrument, and almost, but not quite, learned as song
by heart, it's the same feeling. Part of you wants to let go
and play naturally, but you keep forgetting and freezing up.

Relax and Vibe

When people talk about "vibing" they mean to relax and

carefully "match" unconscious behaviors. Most people
"vibe" without knowing what they are doing. When you feel
a natural connection with somebody, your behavior is
naturally pushing her attraction buttons. When her
attraction buttons are pushed, she behaves in a way that
makes her naturally push your attraction buttons. This
makes you naturally and unconsciously push more of her
attraction buttons, and so on. This is what happens to
those magic first dates when people talk for hours and
wonder where the time went.

Because it's spontaneous and unexpected, it feels

absolutely wonderful. You're not trying to do anything, but
you are doing something. And that something is pushing
all of her attraction buttons, which in turn pushes all
yours.

In this guide, we will expand and unpack of her attraction

buttons and understand what they are, and more
importantly how you can push them and push them often.
You will learn to do this from across the room, just by
looking at her. The more you interact with her, the more
you'll be pushing her buttons.

Unconscious Competence

There are four levels of learning. Unconscious

incompetence, when you have no clue that you suck at
something. The next level is conscious incompetence, when
you know that you suck. Then you have conscious
competence, when you don't suck, but you have to
constantly think about what you're doing. The last level is
unconscious competence, when you can do something, do
it well, and you don't have to think about it while you do it.
Most people are unconsciously competent at things like
riding a bike, typing, walking, and any musical instrument
that you've been practicing for a few years, or perhaps
sports or a martial arts.

You are going to become unconscious competent to

pushing her attraction buttons. But you can also pull back
and be consciously competent, if you want to really push
the same button over and over again and send her brain
into pleasure overdrive.

Basic Buttons

Authority

Women are hard wired to fall madly in love with anybody

that can demonstrate authority. Remember, all of these
triggers were programmed into our DNA a long, long time
ago, when one or two guys had to lead a bunch of guys on
daily hunts and battle. The more you can demonstrate
authority, the more she'll be naturally attracted to you.
What will you be demonstrating authority over? Your life.
Everywhere you go, you will learn to feel in complete
control. Not necessarily of the situation or the people, but
how you interact with it and more importantly, your
response. Compare this to most men and women today
who wander around waiting for somebody to tell them what
to do. Very unattractive!

Social Proof

Even if you walk into a place alone, you will learn how to
radiate massive social proof. You'll learn some powerful
language patterns that will imply that you have a huge
harem of beauties back and home just waiting for you.
When you use these language patterns when speaking to
any girl, she will start to wonder what it is about you that
makes all the ladies so crazy for you. And when her mind
starts wondering why, she'll start coming up with answers.

Scarcity
You'll learn some powerful and rarely seen tricks that will
not only build in a sense of scarcity everywhere you go, but
this will literally jack up your self-confidence and self-
esteem to powerfully attractive levels that most guys only
dream of.

Leadership

Women are hard wired to follow men. They might not like
to hear it, and it's certainly not politically correct in today's
society, but you can't argue with Mother Nature. Ever since
humans split off from chimps, men were the hunters, and
women were the gatherers. This meant that men were
constantly following the never ending movement of
animals, early man's main source of food, while women and
children followed the men. On a deep level, when it comes
to sexual attraction and unconscious desire, women crave
to follow a strong man. You will become that strong man.

Social Skills

Contrary to Hollywood, the most attractive guy isn't the

wounded warrior who never talks and kills all the bad
guys. Remember, the ancient alpha males of society were
the guys who could use their language and persuasion
skills to get the tribe of guys to follow him and hunt the
woolly mammoth. The most attractive man when it comes
to social skills is the guy who can talk to anybody,
anywhere, anytime and put them in a good mood. You will
be that guy.

Comparison and Contrast

This is a little known law of persuasion. For example, one
restaurant sold a bottle of wine for fifty bucks. Nobody
bought it, as it was the most expensive bottle on the list. A
consultant suggesting putting another bottle on the list,
only pricing it at two hundred bucks. The purpose wasn't
to sell the two hundred dollar bottle of wine, rather to make
the fifty dollar bottle of wine look cheap by comparison.
And it worked. Those fifty dollar bottles of wine flew off the
shelves. How will you be using this? Every time you
interact with a female in a way that is even remotely
considered a social setting, she will be subconsciously
comparing you to all the previous guys she's interacted
with in the last few days. Since most guys are drooling
knuckleheads who couldn't seduce their way out of a paper
bag, you are going to look like a champ in comparison!
Control Your Instincts - Review

Let's put in a nutshell what you will be doing to your own

instincts. The better you can manage your instincts, the
easier it will be leverage hers. Remember, she wants a
strong leader, and the best way to do that is take care of
any internal issues you have. Managing your instincts will
make that much easier.

Conscious Thinking

This is not easy, and it's not common. Most people go

through life and react. Then they look at their reactions,
and come up with a logical sounding reason why they did
whatever they just did. Unless you have specific goals
planned for your life, and you are routinely going through
your days with specific actions chosen to meet those goals,
you are reacting rather than acting. The best way to stay
ahead of your reactive mind is to plan your life. Plan each
day. If you don't have a few goals in different areas (health,
wealth, income, relationships, etc.) consider taking the time
to write them down. At the very least, get into the habit of
journaling at the end and beginning of each day.
Something simple. At the end of the day, write down the
things you did to move closer to your objectives. At the
beginning of the day, write out a short "to do" list of things
you'd like to accomplish. Keep track of your activities, this
will help you measure your behavior and slowly transform
it into that of a driven man.

Delayed Gratification

It's easy to live in the moment. It's easy to spend your

money as soon as you get it. It's easy to eat until there is
no food left. It's easy to lay in bed for hours and not get up
until noon. It's easy to let your body go soft. Girls are not
attracted to guys who take the easy way out. Girls are
attracted to guys who plan and conquer their lives. The
most important underlying skill you can develop is to delay
gratification. There are several ways to do this.

Separate Accounts

Even if you can barely pay your rent, it's a good idea to
save some money at the end of every month. If you can,
take a regular envelope and put a dollar in it at the end of
every month. This may sound foolish or nonsensical, but
seeing the dollars pile up month after month in that
envelope will give you a strong sense of satisfaction. And
when you force yourself to consume less than you spend,
you will begin to look for more ways to do that. You will
wake up your financial intelligence that will never go back
to sleep. This is the engine of the driven man. Always
looking for business opportunities. Always looking for
different and unique income streams. This is that deep
inner drive that will drive the women crazy.

Health and Fitness

Having some kind of fitness goal will go a long way. You

don't need to get a six pack or decide to become a Men's
Health model, but doing anything health related, especially
something you can measure, will significantly increase
your self-confidence, your self-esteem and your self-
respect. Three things that women love. No matter what you
do, take down data and continue to move forward. Either
weight loss, or body fat loss, or any kind of strength test or
time measurement.
Social Skills

These are crucial, and luckily, you can practice them

anywhere, anytime. Don't see this as trying to meet people.
See this as you would any other exercise meant for self-
improvement. When most people start an exercise program,
they don't do so because they think it will be fun. They do
so because they want to get a certain result. So, they force
themselves out of bed and exercise every day. Think of
social skills exercises the same way. Try to start a
conversation with one stranger every day. This is not to
meet people, or to exchange names, or to fill up your phone
with pictures of people you've met. This is to simply build
up your social skills muscle. The more people you talk to,
then more you'll realize that most people are the same.
Most people have the same desires, and the same fears.
Most people want more money, and less debt. Most people
wish they had more free time. Most people aren't best
friends with their boss.

Social Energy

Once you get into the habit of talking to people on a regular

basis, something interesting will happen. Imagine
somebody that walks into a social situation, but is fearful.
Anxious. He or she immediately looks around for familiar
people. Women are experts at instantly and subconsciously
reading body language, even if they aren't looking in that
person’s direction. So, if somebody walks into a room and
is immediately fearful and anxious, every single woman in
the place will feel it on a subconscious level. And men who
are fearful and socially anxious are NOT attractive. Right
off the bat, before this person even talks to anybody, they
have already been discounted by all the woman. You, on
the other hand, once you start talking to people everywhere
you go, will soon build up your "social comfort" muscle.
Soon when you walk into a room filled with strangers, and
you look around, you won't be anxious at all. You'll be
wondering who's interesting and who's not. You'll likely be
reading everybody's body language and coming up with
your own ideas about people. This is very attractive to
women.

Get Started Today

This is something you can begin right now. Or at least

today. Remember, this is to build up your social muscle.
This is not to meet people or get names or anything like
that. Think of this just like you would an exercise program.
At first, it sucks. It's cumbersome, it's boring, you'd rather
be doing other things. But you push through, not because
you’re trying to enjoy it, but because you KNOW if you keep
doing it, you'll soon get a good result.
The Most Important Quality

One thing that you cannot do is make her the most

important part of your life. This sounds terrible, cold and a
bit counterintuitive. However, if she is all you are chasing,
then her desire for you will wane. If you are looking for a
serious relationship that will last you the rest of your life,
then think of her as joining you on your life's mission. Or
at the very least, you and she are joining together to
pursue something greater together. But since you are
reading a guide on how to manifest women, you are likely
not thinking that far ahead. At this point in your life, the
most important thing is to have a dream, a big huge goal
you are chasing after.

Remember, for the longest time, women were followers and

men were leaders. Only in that last hundred years or so
have women been able to earn as much income as men.
The thousands of years prior, women followed men. And for
the longest time, up until first the agricultural revolution
and then later the industrial revolution, men were hunters.

Modern Humans with Ancient Lifestyles

Scientists were studying a small primitive group of hunter

gatherers in Africa. After they noticed their patterns and
started to become closer and closer to their daily lives, they
noticed something strange. Every day the men would go
out hunting, but they weren't behaving logically.

From a purely logical standpoint, they should have always

hunted small animals. They were easier to catch, and they
were less dangerous. The men who hunted the smaller
animals came back with more meat per trip on average.
And they were less likely to get injured. This would seem to
make them higher up on the social status ladder, but it
didn't.

Because most of the men didn't hunt small game. They

hunted giraffes. Giraffes were hard to catch, and trying to
catch them was dangerous. So why did they hunt giraffes,
when they stood a large chance of coming back with
nothing, or worse, coming back with an injury?

Because on the rare occasion when a hunter did come

back with a giraffe, he was treated like a rock star. Because
meat doesn't keep well in a hunter gatherer environment,
they need to consume it relatively quickly. And who decides
who gets to eat it, and how much? The guy who killed it, of
course.

Therefore they go after the big game, rather than the small
game. The social status the males get when they come back
with the big kill gets them a lot of additional favors and
attention. By giving out slabs of meet to all his buddies, he
becomes like an ancient Don Corleone, giving out favors to
the neighbors that he can later call in when he needs them.

There's something else that happens. Even though most of

the relationships in that primitive society are monogamous,
the guy who brings back the big giraffe gets a little on the
side, and on the sly. Meaning the ladies whose families he's
given slabs of giraffe meat to come and give him a quickie
on the down low.

These are all instinctive patterns. These guys are the true
alphas. The guys that kill the big game, and then turn
around and share with everybody. They are liked by the
men, and they are secretly lusted after by the women.

Modern Applications

How does this translate to your life? The most popular guys
in that giraffe killing society, both to the men and to the
women, were the guys that were out looking for the big kill
each day. The guys that had a big goal in mind, and they
went out after it, day after day. Not the guys who hung
around the safety of the camp (with all the women and
children) and tried to sweet talk the ladies.

Choose a big goal for your life. Something huge. Something

that will define your life hundreds of years after you're
gone. This is the singular most important thing you can do
to manifest all the women you want. Women are
programmed on a deep genetic level to be irresistibly
attracted to a guy who is chasing the big kill. Not the guy
who plays it safe. Not the guy who goes for the small game,
day after day.

This also means that your huge goals in life are more
important than her. More important than any woman.
Sure, she can help you. She can support you. She can
encourage you. But she can never be a replacement for
that goal.

This is your first task, your first exercise (in addition to

talking to strangers daily to build your social energy). Take
some time to create a huge goal for your life. It doesn't have
to be perfect, it doesn't have to be specific. For now, it can
be general. But you should have some idea of what you
want create with your life.
Imagine it's a hundred years after you've gone. What do
you want to be your lasting impression besides giving
women an insane amount of pleasure? An invention? A
philosophy? A work of art? A discovery? Spend a few
minutes at the end of each day and work on your life's
mission. What one thing were you put here to create? If
you could imagine your Creator (according to your own
religious or philosophical beliefs) answering the question,
what would the answer be?

I am here to:

What would He or She say? What is your specific purpose

in life? What is your great dream, your vision, the one thing
you want to leave as your legacy?

From now on until you are dead, spend a few minutes each
day pondering this question. Write down a few sentences
about whatever you did that particular day to move you
closer to that ideal. Then the next morning, write one or
two small things you can that day that will get you closer.

This will build up the energy of being a driven man. A man

that knows his purpose for being here, and is busy
fulfilling his purpose. A man that is insanely attractive to
women.
Part Two - Brass Tacks

Now that we've got all the background theory and

underpinnings out of the way, now it's time to talk
strategy. Techniques. The things you can do on a daily
basis that will transform you into an irresistibly attractive
man who subconsciously motivates women to be their best,
to transform (as best they can) into a High-Quality Woman
whenever you are around.

These techniques are not "once and done" techniques. If it

really were that easy, any guy could skim this book without
needing to put in much thought and suddenly be pulling
ladies like a champ. Luckily, it's not that easy. Because if it
were that easy, if it were that simple, then every
knucklehead out there would be competing for the top ten
percent of women. Because let's be honest, you don't want
just any woman, you want high quality women. Women
that are educated, that are articulate, that take care of
their minds and bodies. These days, getting laid is easy. It's
socially acceptable for women today to have several dozen
sexual partners. But this course isn't about getting laid.
Any goof can do that. Any goof can walk into any bar, spit
out a couple of memorized lines, maybe spend twenty
bucks on alcohol and wake up next to a horror show the
next morning. Hopefully, that is not good enough for you.
Hopefully you want to attract high quality women that will
help you fulfill your life. Not drag you down or otherwise
cause problems.

So please see the necessary time and effort that this will
require as a buffer zone. As a semi-permeable boundary
between the everyday, average guy who can get laid with
average girls, and guys like you will be attracting the top
quality women on Earth. The wonderful ladies with
smoking hot bodies and razor sharp minds. The women
that can think big enough to be an asset to you, rather
than a liability.

The Rest of This Course

The rest of this course will be light on theory, only enough

to give you enough understanding behind the exercises
that follow. And just like all exercises, physical, mental and
spiritual, they only will work if you do them. But if you do
make the commitment to doing them, you will slowly
transform into a man among men. Walking up to, starting
conversations with and seducing gorgeous women is a skill
few men have. Once you master this skill, everything else
you desire in life will become easy. Simple. Nearly
automatic.

These exercises will fall into two major categories. Inner

Game and Outer Game. Inner Game exercises are
dedicated to help you control your ancient emotions and
triggers that get in your way. To train your mind to be like
a stone-cold assassin, to be able to put on different
behaviors like different pairs of clothing. Remember the
different areas of learning. The goal here is to reach
unconscious competence, when you are skilled at these
behaviors without having to think about them. That is the
objective. But to get there, we must go through the
necessary clumsiness and awkwardness. If you ever pause
and find yourself wishing common thoughts like, "Why isn't
this easier?" or, "Why should I have to do this? Gorgeous
girls should just automatically appear without me having
to do anything!" Keep in mind that these are the very
thoughts that are keeping your competitors from achieving
the level of skill you are striving for. They will be stuck in
the land of "wishing" and complaining, while you will be far
ahead in the land of doing and achieving.

Eyes on The Prize

Take some time to create a mental picture of your perfect

life. When you can control and manage your own emotions
and instincts with ease, and you can control hers with
equal ease. When you know the conversational buttons to
push with advanced linguistic techniques, and you have
the emotional fortitude and inner control to say them to
her as easily as you would dial her phone number. Imagine
having ten, twenty, or more girls you can call on at any
time who would answer immediately and agree to any
suggestion.

This is what common men wish for, but it is what you will
achieve through the rest of this guide. As mentioned, the
exercises will be in two broad categories. Doing things daily
to build up your inner strength. And doing exercises daily
to build up you "button pushing skills." Remember, these
are just a metaphor. You won't be actually walking up and
sticking your finger in her button. Sometimes these
behaviors will require looking at her. Other times these will
only involve how you look at her, and how you look away
from her. Other times it will nothing more than how you
carry yourself when you walk into a room.

Subconscious Behavior

Most of our behaviors are unconsciously generated.

Meaning the thoughts we habitually think drive our
behavior. This includes our body language, facial
expressions and how we speak. Remember that 93% of our
communication is non-verbal. Changing the 7% that is
verbal is easy. That is all that most common men focus on,
changing the easy 7%. But changing the other 93% will
take time and effort.

In Psycho Cybernetics, Maxwell Maltz has an exercise when

you tie your shoes the opposite way. Instead of starting
with the right lace over the left lace, for example, you
switch. I encourage you to try this. Not just to experience it
once or twice. But to experience how long it takes to
change a habitual, unconsciously driven behavior. It will
take a while.

This your first exercise, and your ongoing homework

assignment. Starting the very next time you tie your shoes,
tie them opposite to how you normally do. When you do so,
keep three thoughts in mind.

1) Changing Behavior Takes Time

This is just to experience the reality that altering your

behavior to become unconsciously and automatically
attractive to high quality women will take time.

2) Most Guys Don't Have What It Takes

This is to remind yourself that this necessary time to

change behavior will not be feasible for most men, who only
can live in the moment. Most men simply do not have what
it takes to make it through this necessary period of change.

3) On the Other Side, I Will Have All the Women To

Myself
This is to train your mind that while you are doing these
exercises most other men aren't. Which means when you
get to the other side, when you HAVE transformed yourself,
you will have little, if any, competition from other men.
Signs of Authority and Power

Don't worry, this won't be about going out to earn a billion

dollars. Quite the contrary. However, you may need to read
this section a few times before it sinks in, because this
topic is one of the least misunderstood among dating and
seduction forums.

Since the dawn of time, two (or perhaps two rolled into one)
of the primary triggers of attraction are signs of authority,
or later, signs of wealth.

Firstly, remember that these triggers of attraction were

finalized long before money was ever invented. Money,
wealth, bling, fancy clothes, these are all outward signs of
an internal quality. And one thing that humans are is
flexible.

Take what is attractive to us guys. We are attracted to

signs of youth. Everything we find "hot" in a woman is an
outward signal that "means" she is "young."

The guys in the past who were naturally attracted (due to

genetic errors in copying) to anything that went along with
her being young had more kids than those who weren't.
Here's a quick example. Firm breasts vs. saggy breasts. The
guys who were naturally attracted to the firm breasted girls
didn't care if she was young or not. All they knew was her
firm boobs gave them a caveman boner. Because girls with
firm boobs were younger, they had more kids, since they
had more life ahead of them.

This works for all other signs of youth. Clear skin. Thin
waist. And yes, blond hair. Even natural blonds tend to
turn brown later in life.

Women are attracted not to the power itself, but the

outward signs of power. And guess what? Girls get fake
boobs, fake tans, liposuction, wear hi heels to make their
butts firmer and more "youthful." Why do they do that?
Because it works!

Don't worry, we aren't going to be fake. We aren't going to

fake your behavior. We are going to create natural behavior
that is purposely built to create massive attraction in
ladies.

These all stem from ancient men who were more powerful,
and therefore more able to get food to feed her kids. Men
who weren't powerful didn't get as much food, so they
couldn't feed her kids as effectively. After a few thousand
generations, girls that were naturally attracted to powerful
men had more kids, and that attraction to powerful men
was passed on a lot more than an attraction for weak men.

Rubber to The Road

What behavior indicates being powerful? Always being in

control. Control of the situation, control of the
conversation, and most importantly, control of your own
life. Even if you aren't "technically" in control, you can
control how you interpret the situation.

Exercise One

Always act, never react. Whenever you are in a situation,

just sitting around and waiting for something to happen, it
puts the power in somebody else's hands. You must begin
to live your life according to your terms, even if you work
for somebody else, still live with your parents, and must
take the bus everywhere. So long as you have a solid plan,
and you honestly see every single thing you do every single
day as part of that plan, you will have power. But if you see
the world as out of your control, and you are sitting around
waiting to "get a break" you will not be powerful.

So, what is your plan for your life? How do you see the
things you need to or have to do on a daily basis as
necessary steps to your chosen outcome?

For example, you work a McDonalds. You live at home. You

take the bus to work. How in the heck can you
demonstrate power and authority? Come up with a plan. A
five-year plan. Come up with an amount of money you need
to save, for a specific purpose, that will help you get there.

Journal Exercise

At the end of every day, write down everything you did, in

terms of your life plans. Even if your job is to clean the
toilets at McDonalds, write down how doing that will help
you achieve your life plans. Just doing this exercise alone
will give new meaning to your life. High quality women
aren't attracted to men who just bounce from day to day.
They are attracted to a Man with a Plan. The plan itself
isn't what attracts them. That you have one, and one that
is big, according to you, is what is attractive. Use this daily
exercise to transform yourself into a Man with a Plan.

Exercise Two

Whenever you're in a conversation, you should have a

specific reason for that conversation. Having an outcome
will make things much easier. Even if you start up a
random conversation with a stranger, you should have a
clear intention. Most people don't even think this way. Most
people get into a conversation, start talking until they run
out of words, and then excuse themselves. You are going to
do things differently.

One Per Day

Starting now, you are going to choose one conversation per

day, that you will choose an intention for before the
conversation starts. The intention can be anything. But
having an intention is what leaders do. It's what people
with authority do. It's what driven men do. They have a
reason for doing everything. Few driven men that are
highly successful wander through their day just waiting for
something interesting to happen. By practicing having
conversations with a clear intention, you will be slowly
changing how you communicate to the way a powerful,
driven man communicates.

To start with, it can be something incredibly easy. Like

asking for the time. Find somebody that is somewhat
solitary. Politely interrupt them, and ask for the time.
Thank them and then leave. Don't hang around. Powerful
men get what they want and then leave. You do the same.
Once asking for the time becomes easy, start longer
conversations with harder to achieve outcomes, like their
name. Always leave as soon as you get what you were after.
These are skill building exercises, not friend making
exercises. Keep a record, and record your daily
conversation that you started with the specific intention of
getting a specific piece of information from the
conversation.

Exercise Three

Reframing is a powerful exercise that can give you an

exceptional "aura" of power. Most people, men and women,
go through life feeling like helpless victims. They are effect
and the world is cause. This is a terrible position to operate
from. Being in control is much better. But how do you
remain in control when you really are at the mercy of the
world? Reframe. This is simply changing the meaning of
events. Building up a strong "reframing" muscle in your
brain will make you very attractive.

Journal Exercise

At the end of every day, write down any event

(conversation, traffic incident, unexpected meteor shower)
that seemingly came out of nowhere. Now in hindsight, put
a positive meaning on that event, so it helps you with
whatever life goals you've got. At the very least, reframe it
as giving you practice in responding to unexpected events.

These are three broad authority exercises that you should

start doing today on a daily basis. They will take the events
that are already happening in your life, that may now seem
out of your control, and slowly transform them so they give
you a sense of ownership, which will give you more
authority over your life. In the next chapter, we'll look at
several smaller exercises that should be done as often as
possible to build up your "authority muscle."
Authority Practice Drills

There have been a lot of studies done on chimps which

suggest social status is very important to them. It's also
been theorized that social status is one of the main driving
factors of all human behavior. No matter what we appear to
be doing on the surface, what we’re really after is to
somehow increase our social status, or at the very least
how to interpret our own social status. Paradoxically, doing
anything that makes it seem you are overtly attempting to
increase your social status will have the opposite effect. For
our purposes, that is perfectly fine. You will be doing
exercises that elicit the deep subconscious feeling in others
that you have high social status, without anybody ever
needing to think such a thing.

Conversation Battles

One way people tend to do this is by trying to "win" the

conversational battle. Most people don't think of
conversations in terms of battles, but from a deep
psychological standpoint, that is precisely what they are.

Exercise

At least once day, play an observational role in any

conversation you find yourself in. Try to decide what each
person is trying to do to "demonstrate authority" in the
conversation. For example, if somebody tells a joke, one
person might try to "laugh the loudest" to demonstrate
authority. Another person might roll their head and take
some time coming up with a response, in an attempt to
capture the attention of the other people in the
conversation. Generally, it's usually pretty easy to see who
the dominant person in the conversation is. Sometimes it's
the loudest person. Sometimes it's the guy or girl who
continues to control the flow of the conversation. But doing
this exercise will help you see that even in seemingly
benign daily conversations between friends, there is always
somebody jostling for the top spot on the social status,
even among friends.

How Can This Help Me?

It's easy to fall into complacency in a conversation,

especially if one of the people is particularly dominant.
Whenever you can, always ask yourself, "How can this help
me?" As mentioned before, most people don't have any
particular or well thought out reason for having
conversations, other than simply passing the time. By
forcing yourself to think in terms of, "How does this help
me," you will slowly start to filter the conversation through
your own goals. This will help you to ask leading questions
of the "conversational champ" if he or she gets close to
anything potentially useful.

This may sound strange, but please do this at least once

day. If you keep it up, it will soon appear that you are
really in charge, and the loudest person in the conversation
is serving your higher intentions.

Because this is definitely a strange way to think about

normal daily conversations, staring by journaling can help.
Simply recall the conversations, and write down some
questions you could have asked that may have helped lead
to a more productive conversation with respect to your own
life goals.
It's also important to keep the question, "How can this help
me," to yourself and as deeply within your own mind as
possible. This type of authority is very subtle and very
powerful. Any kind of authority that has to be verbalized is
usually inauthentic and not very attractive.

Doing this regularly will help you look at conversations

from a different mindset, which will change your body
language, and your energy level.

Slow Movements

One of the key hallmarks of a confident man with authority

is their movements. When in doubt, always imagine this in
an ancient caveman setting. The leader of the tribe is
somebody who is always relaxed, and has built up a great
deal of trust among his subordinates. Fast eye movements,
head movements, and quick gestures will destroy your
confidence.

Exercise

Go somewhere where there are a lot of attractive women.

Most guys walk through an environment like this with
rapid moving eyes and heads. This is a clear sign of
undersexed men with little or no authority over their own
lives. How do sexually satisfied men with high authority
behave? Very slow and purposely movements. So, practice
moving like this. Spend ten or twenty minutes walking
around a crowd of people, and keep your movements as
slow as possible. Find a point off in the distance, keep your
eyes fixed on it, and walk toward it slowly. Open up your
peripheral vision as much as you can. Avoid the desire to
turn your head whenever you see an attractive women.
Practice noticing and appreciating women out of the corner
of your eyes, rather than turning to stare. Walk a little bit
more slowly than your normally do. Keep an erect posture.

Eye Contact

Eye contact is a quick and definite signal about your self-

confidence. This exercise to simply build up your
confidence of holding eye contact with anybody, but most
especially attractive women. Ideally, you will do this
exercise daily until you can hold any woman's eye contact
until she breaks it off first. Ideally, she'll break it off, and
then quickly look back. Often this won’t happen, but when
it does, smile slightly until she breaks it off again. Then
quickly and forever purge her from your memory.
Remember, these are practice exercises which are designed
only to build up the authority that you radiate. You are
acting like a driven man with plenty of sexual choice. A
driven man has always first and foremost his life's mission
on his mind. Women are always secondary. In the
beginning, this will be very difficult. Continuing on your
way after a beautiful woman has smiled in your direction is
difficult. But turning away will build up a strong feeling of
authority and confidence.

Do these eye contact exercises as often as you can, for as

long as you can, until getting second looks and smiles from
attractive women happens on a daily basis. But even then,
it's always a good idea to continue on your way. We'll learn
why in the next chapter.
The Powerful Law of Scarcity

One of the easiest ways to think of being insanely attractive

to a woman is a line from the movie, "The Tao of Steve," in
which the main character's mantra was, "Be Excellent, Be
Gone." This, in a nutshell is how to walk into a room and
have every woman wanting you. But don't be deceived by
the simple sounding sentence.

Be Excellent

This is based on how you carry yourself, how you walk into
the room, how slowly you gaze around the room. The ideas
and beliefs in your mind which have you slowly looking
across the room and wondering which people would be
interesting to talk to, giving you the fantastically attractive
behaviors and "energy" that elicits pure desire from women.
This is the "Be Excellent" part. How you cultivate the
mindset of a driven man, somebody who has authority over
life. Somebody who looks out into the world and asks
himself how they can best use what lies before them to
continue to build a powerful life for themselves.

Be Gone

But just as powerful is the idea of scarcity. As soon as a

woman thinks she can have you, she will lose interest. The
same goes for men. This is one of the prime reasons why
married couples gain weight and stop having as much sex.

Before the marriage, or even the commitment, the

relationship is in question. Neither party "has" the other
party. They are still on their best behavior, from a
subconscious standpoint. As soon as each party thinks
they "have" the other party, the law of scarcity loses its
effect.

Law of Scarcity

This is one of those ideas that everybody has heard of, and
therefore everybody "thinks" they understand. When they
read about it, they think, "Oh that. I already know about
that," and then their brain fogs over and they don't apply it
in their daily lives.

Examples

One of the most insane examples of just how powerful the

law of scarcity was during the old days when they would
show commercials on TV, show a phone number and
people would call in. In the first trial, they showed the
product, showed all the features and benefits, and then
said, "Call now, operators are standing by." But nobody
called. Then the company selling the product hired a
consultant. They didn't change anything about the ad or
the product or the features or the benefits. All they did was
change the sentence, "operators are standing by" to "please
call again if the lines are busy."

What did that do? It gave viewers the idea that tons of
people were already calling, since the lines might be busy.
And if tons of people were calling, they might run out of
products before the viewer in question got through.
Changing that simple sentence, which evoked the law of
scarcity, send sales through the roof.

One Two Punch

Once you have started doing the daily journaling and
mental reframing exercises to build up your feeling and
subconscious demonstration of authority, you will shoot
yourself in the foot if you do not apply the law of scarcity.

Even if you are intending to create a dream relationship

with a dream woman, the Law of Scarcity will always be
your best friend. No matter how much she loves you in the
beginning, no matter how desperate for you she is, that will
wane if you do not continually apply the Law of Scarcity.
The moment she feels she "has you," that is when her
attraction will begin to wane. That is simple human nature.
We want what we cannot have. As soon as we have
something, it becomes less valuable to us.

How to Apply

When in doubt, leave. Remember, the idea is to keep doing

these exercises until you elicit such a massive level of
desire in women they approach you, they engage with you,
and they do not let you leave. If they are merely looking at
you and smiling, you can still generate significantly more
attraction.

The Hardest Skill

Don't be fooled. This idea is simple, powerful, but extremely

hard to put into practice. You walk into a room, feeling full
of confidence and authority. You look around, seeking a
conversation partner. You see an attractive woman, she
looks at you and smiles. Your ancient caveman brain will
be screaming at you to walk over and talk to her. Not only
to talk to her, but to talk to her for as long as you possibly
can. But as soon as you walk toward her, without her
having to do anything but smile, you are leaving the Law of
Scarcity behind.

Counter Intuitive

This seems to go against all logic. You bought this course

to see how to become instantly attractive to the ladies. Now
you're at party and a girl is looking at you and sending you
clear and positive signals, and now you're supposed to
leave? Unless that girl is your dream girl, yes, you should
leave. If she's just standing there looking you, and not
making any effort to start a conversation, yes, you should
leave.

The first reason is because if you walk over and talk to her,
you are doing the same thing that every other guy in the
world does. She validates her view of male-female
relationships. Her job is to stand there, look pretty, and
smile at interesting men. Your job is to walk over and talk
to her. However, if you do this, you will put yourself in the
same category as every other man. And you will strengthen
her belief that females do the attracting, men do the
approaching, and then women can sit back and enjoy the
show, picking the best one. If you allow her to choose you,
it destroys all the authority you have worked on. The
moment you see her, and walk over and start a
conversation, she relaxes back, and slips into "judging"
mode. She is the judge, you are the talent.

This is very counterintuitive. When you are just starting

out, this will be the hardest thing to do. To walk away
when you know you have an obvious and clear opening.
But walking away will significantly boost your self-
confidence and your deep feeling of authority.
However, if you absolutely must approach, there is a way to
do so and keep your sense of power and authority. We'll go
over that in the next chapter.
More Scarcity

This is an important point, so we'll spend as much time as

we need to. Building up the feeling and energy (externally
expressed in your body language and movements) of
authority is relatively easy. You can do so without needing
to actually interact with your environment, as it is
fundamentally about the meaning you give to your
environment.

But adding scarcity is difficult and difficult in a way that's

hard to anticipate. Anybody can be scarce. All you have to
do to be scarce is hide in your closet and never come out.
Obviously, that alone won't make the girls go crazy over
you. You need to first demonstrate your excellence in their
presence, and then apply the law of scarcity.

Scarcity without sufficient authority is useless. But

authority without scarcity, when it comes to attraction, is
very short lived. So, you will need to practice both of them
together. And as mentioned in the last chapter, walking
away from a pretty girl who is obviously attracted to you is
difficult. Most guys imagine that the toughest part about
learning to succeed with women is the approach. Let them
continue to think that. You now know the secret is the
hardest part of being insanely successful with women is
not approaching when know that she wants you to.

But why is it so necessary? Think how most guys go about

this. They go out and approach a hundred girls. What
happens? Most of them reject them. So, the guy who
approaches a hundred girls gets ninety rejections, and ten
happy endings. That builds a clear memory that women
have a ninety percent chance of rejecting him.
The more he continues, the more he realizes that the
majority of women will reject him. Most guys never
approach women. And they believe that most women will
reject him. The next "level" guy approaches women all the
time. And he proves that most women will reject him.

Now let’s take a look at your "enlightened" approach. You

start to build your confidence. You do daily exercises to
build your authority. To look at life from the perspective of
a driven man who sees things as useful to him and his
goals, or not. You are not looking out into the world as
most men do, which is to hope to be accepted. You look out
at the world and decide whether or not to accept parts of
the world, as useful to you, or to reject part of the world, as
not useful to you.

Now let's assume you're starting to see all the obvious

signs that women are desperate for a guy like you. But you
don't approach. You leave before anything happens. What
memories does this build in your mind? If you continue to
create attraction in women without approaching, this will
build a hugely powerful idea that women want you.

Consider doing this level of the exercises for one month.

Let's say, just for the sake of argument that you go to two
places a day for a month. Mall, coffee shop, department
store, anywhere. And your only goal is to walk in,
demonstrate authority, get positive signs (eye contact and a
smile) from a woman and then leave. What deep,
experiential memory will you be building?

That everywhere you go, women want you.

Compare that to what happens to the guys who go out and
approach everything with a pulse. They build up a series of
events that prove that everywhere they go, most women will
reject them.

This is why taking the time to build up your scarcity will do

wonders for your energy. Every time you prove to yourself
that women want you, this will build up an insane
amount of attraction into your energy. Few men on Earth
have that deep feeling that women want them. The longer
you stay at this level in the exercises, the stronger you will
build up that wonderful knowing that woman want you.

I know, I know. You didn't buy this course so you could

walk around give women sexual fantasies about you. You
got this so you could get results with women. I hear you.
The next step is to start interacting with women. But to do
so in a way that will maintain your scarcity.

Hit and Run

You walk into a place, you radiate your positive energy of

desire, and you see a woman who looks at you in a way
that nearly begs for you to approach. So, you approach.
And start a conversation. And then you leave. If you
thought just smiling at women and leaving would build up
a positive experience that women want you, this will put
that feeling on genetically engineered steroids.

Many guys have the attitude sometimes referred to as,

"make the ho say no," which means talk to any girl that's
not moving and talk to her until she flat out rejects you.
This is a horrible strategy. This will almost guarantee that
you'll build up a deep belief that "women = rejection."
You are going to do the opposite. You are going to go up,
talk to her, get her feeling good, happy, excited, as soon as
possible and then you are going to leave. This will make her
brain explode. Well, not really, but this is what will happen.

You walk into the room. You pause and slowly look around.
You see her, she smiles. You walk over, go over some small
talk, build up some social proof (more on that later) until
you know that she is dying for you to ask for her number.

But you don't ask for her number. You simply smile and
walk away. As you do so, she will give you a look that says,
"Please! Come back! I want more of you!"

What will this build up for you? A deep feeling that says,
"Women can't get enough of me." And when you have that
feeling, then you'll be one of the most attractive men on
Earth.

This is a very difficult point to get to, make no mistake. It

is hard to smile at girls and not talk to them. It is even
harder to talk to them and not ask for their number. But
remember, you are working on building up such insane
levels of attraction and desire in women that they are doing
most of the work when it comes to seduction. They will be
the ones doing the number closing. They will be the ones
doing the escalating. Getting to this point takes time. It's
something many guys simply cannot do. But do it you
must, if you want to be in a class all by yourself.

Any goof can go out and talk to a hundred girls, and get
rejected by most of them. Any guy can talk to plenty of
girls, get plenty of numbers, only to find that most of them
are flakes. This is what women expect you to do. This is
what women expect all men to do. But in doing these
carefully crafted exercises, you will be turning the tables on
them. When they see you, they will see you as different
from every other guy they've ever seen. So please, take your
time. Spend as much time as you can on the eye contact
phase. Build up as much authority as you can. Spend
some time creating huge dreams and goals for your life.
There's plenty of time, and plenty of women out there.

When you are ready to talk to them, and build social proof,
you'll learn a powerful technique in the next chapter.
Social Proof

The Holy Trinity of attractions is authority, scarcity and

social proof. These three combined will have a powerful
combinatorial effect on her emotions. When you correctly
apply the three of these together, she will be unable to
resist you. This is why it is absolutely vital to make sure
you have your own internal "triggers" under control. The
blatant desire of an attractive women is, by far, the most
powerful and potentially lethal drug. It had led to the
downfall of nations, is responsible for starting wars and
can absolutely destroy you in you aren't prepared for it.
Many people fall victim to the idea that anything related to
human behavior is "set and forget." Meaning you learn a
few tricks, apply a few techniques and then you're done. If
you apply that thinking to these powerful methods, you will
be in for a horrible surprise. However, if you treat these
techniques with respect, and manage them as you should
you will receive a lifetime of sexual and emotional bliss
from the lucky lady of your choice.

What Is Social Proof?

Social proof is the idea of safety in numbers. Many people

like things simply because other people like things. Take
the iPhone, for example. Every time they release a new one,
people are lined up days in advance. Fashions, trends,
musical tastes, many of these live and die by social proof.
Advertisers use social proof all the time to sell products.
Over nine billion cheeseburgers sold, the famous sign says.
All to convince you that huge crowds of people have already
purchased the product and are insanely happy. But how do
you apply it with a lady you are speaking to? Luckily, you
don't need to walk the earth with a harem with you at all
times.

Inferred Social Proof

What you will be doing is leveraging the power of something

called "Linguistic Presuppositions." These are simply
sentences that presuppose certain things exist.

For example, take a look at this sentence:

I own a kangaroo.

This is easy to disagree with. You can simply say, "No, you
don't." If I say I own a kangaroo, and you say I don't there's
not much else I can do.

But what if I say this:

My kangaroo can jump really high.

It's a little bit more difficult to say, "You don't have a

kangaroo" to this sentence that it is to the first sentence.

But what if I say this:

My kangaroo just won the jumping contest in his division.

This takes a lot of thinking to digest. It presupposes that I

have a kangaroo. It presupposes that there was a jumping
contest. It presupposes that my kangaroo won the jumping
contest. If you heard this sentence, one of two things would
be true. One is that I'm absolutely insane. The other is that
there is something that you aren't quite understanding.
Maybe I sponsored a kangaroo over the Internet in some
crazy fund raising contest. Maybe I was watching a cartoon
with my friend’s kid and we each chose a kangaroo
pretended it was ours. But you would be very unlikely
(after hearing that long and weird sentence) to question
whether I had a kangaroo.

Seriously? Kangaroos?

Yes. You are going to walk up to women and start talking

about kangaroos. Just kidding. That was just an example.
What are you going to presuppose? That you have plenty of
females in your life. But when you are using these
linguistic presuppositions, you don't have to walk up to her
and say, "Hey, I have plenty of ladies in my life."

Collecting Evidence

Hopefully you've been doing your social skills exercises.

Meaning you are talking to people just to get experience in
talking to people. And if you are lucky, half of those people
will be women. It doesn't matter if they are women you
aren't attracted to. It doesn't matter if they are eighty years
old. It doesn't matter if they are little kids riding in their
mom's shopping cart at the supermarket. All you need to
know is their name.

It works like this. Let's say you're at the phase of your

awakening when you are walking up to women, creating
massive desire, and then leaving. Let's say a particular
conversation goes like this:

You: Hey, I like your sweater.

Her: Oh, thanks! (excited)
You: My friend Stacey has one just like it.
Her: Oh. (Who the hell is Stacey?)
You: You from around here?
Her: Yes, I am! (excited again).
You: Cool. Anyway, I like that sweater. I gotta get going.
Her: Bye (sad and wanting more).

Now, who really is Stacey? It doesn't matter. The only thing

that matters is that you've actually met a girl named Stacey
in the recent past, and she has a sweater "like" that one. It
could be you talked to a ninety-year-old women at the post
office named Stacey that was wearing a purple sweater. It
could be your next door neighbor has a daughter named
Stacey that is four years old and has a cute purple sweater
with Donald Duck on it. It doesn't matter. It only matters
that three powerful things have happened in that short
conversation.

Authority

You walked in the room, a driven man, and looked around

wondering what you would accept from the environment
and wondering what you would reject from the
environment. You projected an image of authority.
Authority over your life. Authority over your environment
(you choose what to accept or reject). This radiates enough
positive energy to create desire in that woman you spoke
to.

Social Proof

You mentioned you had a friend named Stacey. Now you

said that lady's sweater reminded you of Stacey's sweater.
But the subtext is that girl is now thinking she reminded
you of Stacey. Either way, from her perspective, you are an
authority figure who has social proof. Because the first
thing you thought of (at least from that woman's
perspective) is how she reminded you of another woman.

Scarcity

You talked to her, and created attraction. Then you took it

away. Then you brought it back. Then you left, without
even asking for her name. This short (less than a minute)
interaction is one more piece of data in your memory that
says, "Women can't get enough of me."

Required Steps

To get to this point, you must be doing all of the previous

exercises, including talking to people any time you have a
chance. So long as the conversation is not with an
attractive woman, think of it as mining for evidence of
social proof. This means that any environment you walk
into, you can stop and look slowly across all the people,
and wonder what kind of helpful information you can
extract, as a resource, to help you in the future become
more attractive.

This is a very powerful way to look at the world. Most guys

are always looking for attractive women, and when they
don't find them, they are dejected. But when they find
them, they force themselves to approach, only to prove that
most women will reject them.

You, on the other hand, now have a very powerful

paradigm to look at the world through. Every single social
situation is an opportunity. An opportunity to gain social
experience, so you radiate the energy of somebody who is
comfortable around people. It's an opportunity to gain
valuable social proof data. Every single female you talk to is
a now a resource. All you need is their name, and
something about them. Even if it's a piece of observational
data, like their clothes.

The more resources you gather, the more social proof you
can conversationally demonstrate. The more you gather
social proof data, the more socially confident and
conversationally fluent you'll get.

Always keep the Holy Trinity in mind. Authority, Social

Proof, and Scarcity. Used together, you will be able to
create massive attraction and desire in the females you
interact with.
Advanced Techniques

The following techniques in the following chapters should

only be used once you are absolutely comfortable applying
the three previous laws, or techniques of Authority, Social
Proof, and Scarcity. The truth is those first three are all you
need to create massive desire in the females you interact
with. The following will work with anybody; however, they
are best used once you've already established a base level
of attraction.

Commitment and Consistency

Because our brains are always looking for ways to save

energy, we tend to want to do things that have already
worked out in our favor. Whenever we have a choice to try
something new, which will have an unknown result, or
doing something familiar that will give us a known result,
we will always default to do the comfortable and familiar.
This tends to increase as we get older. This is precisely why
people stick with brands they are comfortable with, or go to
the same restaurants and even order the same types of
meals.

This is a little bit more complicated to use than the

previous three laws, which are simple. For example, to
leverage authority, you simply take more and more
ownership of your own life and your surroundings. The
more authority you have and feel, the more attraction you
will generate. Scarcity is fairly simple as well. Create
attraction, interact with her, and the leave. Demonstrating
social proof is a bit more complicated, as you'll have to
demonstrate it conversationally but it is still rather simple.
All three of these laws, Authority, Scarcity and Social Proof
can all be demonstrated without any input on her part. But
in order to use the Law of Commitment and Consistency,
you'll need to interact with her.

This is precisely why this law should be left until you are
very comfortable creating attraction, AND are very
comfortable leaving at any given time. The previous three
laws must always be operating to be effective. And in order
for Scarcity to be effective, she has to feel that your
presence is not guaranteed. So, when you start to apply
these next laws, which will necessitate her involvement, be
sure to always keep Scarcity in the forefront of your mind.
Always be ready to leave without warning. That being said,
here's the basic structure.

This law requires you set things up so whatever you want

her to do is seen by her as something she's already done.
For example, if you want her to leave a particular bar and
go to a nearby restaurant that is much quieter, it will be a
much easier decision for her if she's already followed you to
a few places in the bar or club or party before you ask her
to follow her outside. Because this can be applied with a lot
of flexibility, there are not a lot of hard and fast rules on
how to apply this.

It's also hard to do this spontaneously, without knowing

very much about her. For example, let's say you see a girl
who is clearly attracted to you. You walk over and
demonstrate social proof conversationally. You are certain
everything is going well, and you'd like to ask her to follow
you to a table or a quiet area of the bar, but you would like
to do so that would leverage the law of Commitment and
Consistency. At this point, that's not likely since you don't
know much about her. So, it is a good idea to get into the
mood of finding things that she's done already, that you
can leverage according to the Law of Commitment and
Consistency.

What Kinds of Things?

This is where you'll need to do some thinking. General

things like getting her number or following you should be
relatively easy if you've been practicing building up the
previous three laws as much as you can. One way to build
in some mental flexibility is learn about how to out-frame.
For example, many girls, even though they might be
attracted to you within a few minutes, might not be
comfortable leaving with you, because they've come to the
bar with their friends. You can't really start talking to her
about times before where she decided to leave her friends
behind because she's met some guy she finds strangely
attractive. That would just seem weird. Not only that but it
would also kill any attraction you've generated.

Talk About Yourself

If you have created enough attraction you can talk about

yourself doing what you are about to ask her to do. This
can be complicated so the best way to build up your
comfort level is to start with some journaling. For example,
let's work on the idea of getting her to leave her friends
behind to go with you. A way to do this would be for you to
talk about how you've done this before. You'll need to tell a
story that paces what you are hoping she'll do. Which is
what?

Leave her friends, and not feel guilty. Go with you, and feel
happy, because something exciting is about to happen.
So, take some time brainstorming about any time you have
gone somewhere with your friends, and you decided to
leave your friends behind. And that your friends were OK
with it. The more stories you can come up with, the better.

The idea is that after you start talking to her, you start
thinking and taking her somewhere else. But you
anticipate that she's with her friends, and that she'll resist
leaving with them, even though she's attracted to you.
Anticipating this, you start to a story about you were at a
party, and you met an interesting person (Not a woman!)
and you left. Make sure that in the story, you ended up
with a happy ending (not THAT kind of happy ending!) and
your friends ended up with a happy ending. This way, even
though she might not come up with her own story, by
listening carefully to your story, she'll feel a little bit more
comfortable doing that, since hopefully she's followed along
in your story, so the idea won't feel so foreign to her. The
idea is to warm her up with your story.

As mentioned before, there is really no way to anticipate

what kinds of "objections" she might have, so this is the
kind of thing you'll have to get better with experience. We'll
go over some basic and common objections, and some
potential stories that you can come up with to "pre-frame"
them in the next chapter.
Commitment and Consistency - Advanced
Applications

Let's break down the basic structure of this. People don't

like, or are at the very least hesitant, about doing things
they've never done before. And even though you will be
creating a lot of attraction in females, they will still be
hesitant for many reasons. Females are much more socially
conscious than males, so if they're with their friends in a
public place, they'll be a bit of resistance. Even if they are
alone, they'll be the nagging thought (placed there by years
of social conditioning) of "What will my friends say if they
find out I went home with a strange man?" Remember, the
purpose of this is to attract high quality women. Even if
she is trying her best to be a high-quality woman (because
of you) she will automatically take on the thoughts of a
high-quality women, which is to not make herself so
available to you, even though she is insanely attracted to
you. You anticipate her objections, and tell her stories that
pace and overcome her objections. So even if she doesn't
come up with stories on her own, she'll be "loosened up" a
bit by going through with your stories. One of the benefits
of creating strong attraction is she will naturally follow you,
even if it's through your stories.

No Hookup Rule

The idea of these stories is to get her to follow along in your

story and to see that whatever you want her to do is fun
and normal. But why no stories of hookups? Because if
your story is about random people hooking up with other
random people, she might wonder if you think she is like
that, somebody who may hook up with random people. If
she values you, she will not want you to think of her in
terms of the "random hookup" girl. She will want you to
think of her as a high-quality girl. So, in all your stories,
whatever the characters are doing, make sure they are only
friends, not lovers.

Many people make the mistake of injecting purely sexual

themes into their stories. This is a big mistake. Why? Every
girl doesn't like the thought of being "seduced." So, when
you start out with any kind of sexual themes in your
stories, she is going to wonder if you are only thinking
about sex. Girls love the idea of things just "happening."
It's much more romantic. So even though you know you
are creating attracting in her, let the idea of any kind of
physical intimacy between the two of you be her idea, or let
her think it was her idea.

The Number

You usually won't have a hard time getting a phone

number. But if you are worried, you might tell her a story
about collecting phone numbers. Remember, in any of the
stories you tell, never have you with another woman, or
any woman that would appear to be too easy. The point is
to create stories where people are giving away their
numbers fairly easily. A sales situation is ideal for this. For
example, you might say you and some coworkers set up a
booth at a carnival, and had people drop in their cards in a
fishbowl for a raffle. You can mention that every weekend
you had a contest to see who could collect the most
numbers. The idea being that collecting (or exchanging)
numbers is fun, easy, and normal. Any story that involves
normal people exchanging numbers in a normal and fun
situation is good.
Going to A Different Location

This will be a bit more difficult than getting the number.

Again, make sure that the story doesn't involve anybody
hooking up. Perhaps a story of you and your friends going
on a pub crawl, where you went to every bar on one
particular street.

Coming to Your Place

This is a bit tricky. Let's say you call her with the express
intention of asking her over for dinner and a movie. It's not
a good idea to launch into a long story when you call her.
You'll need to set this up beforehand. What will you be
setting up? The idea that your apartment or house is where
you usually invite friends over for dinner. Mention that you
and your friends hang out every Thursday night to watch
Netflix or something.

Going to Her Place

Again, this is something you can set up beforehand. This

can also be pretty tricky, because if you start talking to her
overtly about her place, she might wonder why you are so
interested. Remember, any kind of physical intimacy that
happens has to be her idea, and it has to happen
spontaneously. Be very careful to avoid any overt talk of
you going to her place. So, how do you introduce it? You
can start by talking about a specific aspect of your place,
and then ask her questions about those aspects of her
place. For example, you might mention that your
dishwasher is broken, and you want to know what kind
she has. Or you might mention that your neighbors are
loud, and ask her if she's got problems with her neighbors.

Too Convoluted?

These may seem extremely roundabout ways to get her

thinking of you in that way. And they are. But they are
carefully designed to let her be the one to think of the both
of you in that way. Any guy can talk to her about sex and
then ask her a few times, overcoming several objections,
about going back to your place. She knows he's picking her
up for sex, and so does he. So why not use this tried and
true method? Because once you start overtly talking about
sex, or anything involving physical intimacy, she will put
you in that category of her mind. The one she reserves for
one night stands. Remember that you are a driven man.
You've got much more in your life than just trying to get
laid. This whole process is to get her to chase you. To
always be in that special place in her mind that she
reserves for those rare men that are almost unobtainable.
You must behave and speak like an unobtainable man. A
man who is driven, and has a lot of options. A man who
doesn't need to overtly talk about sex. Who overtly talks
about sex? Guys that are undersexed, that's who. And girls
do not place a lot of value in guys who are eagerly seeking
sex.

Any guy can chase girls, and get laid. But few men have
the self-control, the self-value and the confidence to set up
their lives so that women will chase them. You are going to
be that rare man that she thinks about, above and beyond
all the other men she's ever met.

Future Preparation
Any time you get any kind of objection, write it down. Then
take some time to come up with a story that paces and
overcomes that objection. The basic structure is simple.
Whatever it is that she is resistant to do, come up with a
story that has a lot of people doing that thing. Keep
notebook filled with objections that you hear, either from
girls you meet, or any objection you are worried about.
That, in fact, is your next assignment. Think of the top five
objections you are terrified to hear from any woman. Then
write out a story for each, where the characters (friends,
not lovers) in the story are doing that and having fun, and
it is seen as normal and natural.
Comparison and Contrast

This is another powerful law that should only be applied

once you are fully confident in your own Trinity of
Authority, Scarcity and Social Proof. This is also a great
one to use whenever you are thinking of asking her
something, but are a little worried about how she might
respond.

Things look different to us, feel different, seem different

when they are compared to something else. This is one that
is used in sales quite a bit. For example, many real estate
companies will have a good idea of all the houses that are
for sale in their territory. Let's say a couple comes in and
says they are shopping for a three-bedroom house in the
$400,000 range. The savvy real estate agent finds a terrible
looking house in a bad neighborhood, with a price of
$375,000. The couple looks at it, and doesn't even want to
go in. They are horrified. Then the real estate agent takes
them to a much nicer house, in a much nicer
neighborhood, that is selling for $425,000. The couple,
comparing how much better it is to the previous house, are
ecstatic. After all, for only $50,000 more, they are getting a
much better house.

Now, imagine if the real estate agent would have taken

them to the $425,000 house first. They would have been
angry. Simply by showing them the broken-down house
first, they were much more likely to buy the second house.
How can you do this with the girls you are interested in?

Always give them two choices. And always make the easier
choice (for them) the choice you'd like them to accept. For
example, let's say you're talking to a girl in bar, and you'd
like to take her down the street for some waffles. If you just
ask her to go have some waffles with you, she might say
no. So instead, you warm her up by talking about food. Use
your stories to get her thinking about going out and getting
something to eat. Then mention a restaurant that is pretty
far away. Don't straight out ask her to go there, but talk
about it for a few minutes. Let's say the name is Luigi's and
it's ten miles away. You talk about all their food, talk about
how good it sounds, and then say you are really hungry.
Then say something like this:

"I don't know about you, but I need to eat. What do you
think? Luigi's, or there's a waffle shop just down the street,
which is better?"

If you were to just ask about going to the waffle shop, she
would still have two choices. Stay there at the bar, or go
with you to the waffle shop. But when you phrase it like
the above, the waffle shop is a much better choice by
comparison.

Setting Up Dates

The term "dating" is hardly used any more. People hook up

on online dating, and going to dinner is something few
people do anymore. However, if you want her to chase you
as a high-quality man, you will have to do things that most
men don't do. Most men try and hookup, or just have her
come over and chill and watch Netflix. But you are
different. You are a driven man. You are busy. You have to
schedule things. You're not somebody who drifts through
life and hopes to get lucky every now and then. So, don't be
shy about setting up dates. But when you do, always apply
the Law of Comparison and Contrast. Think of what you
really would like, and then choose something that would be
a little bit more difficult. But always be ready in case she
chooses the more difficult option! Here are some examples.

Meeting for lunch or going hiking

Meeting for a cup of coffee or going to an amusement park

Coming to your place or driving to another city and going to

a concert

Be creative. But also, remember, that most of the time, you

won't need to use these "second three" laws. The first three,
the Trinity of Authority, Scarcity and Social Proof will be
enough. But having a little bit of skill and practice with
these second laws will help you quite a bit later on down
the line.

One of the things that you'll find is that once you select a
woman to stay with, if that's what you intend on doing, is
you will always need to maintain the Trinity if you want to
keep her attracted to you. However, women are hard wired
on a genetic level to try and claim "ownership" of you. Back
in the old days of hunters and gatherers, women were
entirely dependent on men for their survival. Which meant
they have deeply embedded communication strategies that
are designed to get you to "commit." This is to be expected
if you are intending to attract a high-quality woman. She
will want to define your relationship, which may make it
difficult to maintain the feeling of "scarcity." In truth it is
one of the many paradoxes of our existence. The stronger
you create a feeling of Scarcity (combined with Authority
and Social Proof) the more it will generate attraction in her
for you. But the more she is attracted to you, the more she
will try anything and everything to "own" you. To define the
relationship. This, of course, will work against Scarcity. Her
attraction for you will compel her to act in a way that will
actually decrease her attraction for you.

Why is this?

Part of the reason that in our past, we were always moving.

Men were out chasing animals which were always
migrating. And women were always chasing men. So even
though the women did their best to "cement" any
relationships they had with men, the men were always
scarce, because they were always physically gone. And the
women felt on a deep level (as they saw the men go out to
hunt every day) that were dependent on men. Also,
remember that back then, everybody knew everybody. So,
ditching one guy for another (or ditching one girl for
another) was out of the question.

Today, it's very different. Even in marriages, if interests

begin to wane, eyes begin to wander, since there is so
much choice. The bottom line is that even if you are in a
committed relationship, you must always keep up the
sense of "Scarcity" at all times. Using these additional laws
of influence (Commitment and Consistency and
Comparison and Contrast) can help do that.

However, since this is NOT a relationship maintenance

guide but a guide on Manifesting High Quality Women,
we'll leave it at that.

Let's take a look at where we are. You have done your

homework and have turned yourself into a driven man. A
Man with a Plan. A Man who is busy creating something
magnificent with your life. You have created as much
authority as you can. You are going places and getting
attractive looks from women. You are applying the Law of
Scarcity and building up your self-confidence and plenty of
deep memories that say, "Women Want Me." You are
talking to women and using linguistic presuppositions to
create feelings of social proof.

Now, if you're reading through this for the first time, it may
be a bit overwhelming. You may be thinking, "Wait a
minute, I go all over the place and I never see high quality
women anywhere!" That's OK. That is a common problem
for many men. That's why we will be covering the strategy
of Manifesting in the following chapters.
Part Three - Manifesting

Let's review what we've covered so far. We know that

humans are driven primarily by instincts, and these
instincts can be triggered by external events. For example,
if you don't feel very hungry, you will suddenly get hungry
if you see or smell something delicious. Attraction is an
instinctive response to external triggers, or certain
behaviors by men. In order to consciously exhibit those
behaviors, as a male you first must control your own
instincts. That means you need to plan and implement
your life. You need to feel at cause, with the world as effect.
You do this not with magic or by a huge exertion of force,
but by how you frame events around you. While the events
themselves are out of your control, how you interpret and
respond to them is in your control. The most important
behavioral trait to consistently demonstrate, as a male, is
one of authority. This means you need to have clear and
concise plans for your life, and you see everything that
happens around as potential resources to help you achieve
those goals. Once this authority is firmly established in
your mind, on a deep level, it will affect your behavior,
most specifically the small micro-behaviors that make up
your non-verbal communication. That which women pick
up on, subconsciously, to determine your attractiveness.
Further you are capable of leveraging the Law of Scarcity,
by not making yourself readily available to any woman.
Additionally, you can conversationally demonstrate social
proof by alluding to all the other women in your life.

Note that this is opposite of what most "pick up guides"

teach. They teach to approach every girl you see, and
continue to increase your ability to get a number, the a
date, then a kiss, then sex, etc. We are doing the opposite.
We are creating a situation where you work on these
internal controls and the externally demonstrated triggers
to create an insatiable level of attraction in the women you
interact with.

But what about where to go to find these women? The

truth of the matter is that the more you work on yourself,
so you can control your own instincts, and purposely
create the triggers that will automatically generate
attraction in women, you will need to worry about "where"
less and less. The reality is that these women are
everywhere. You may not see them now, and most guys
who try to meet girls the traditional way will never see
them. But as you continue to increase your attraction
generating behavior, you will see them more and more.

Not Magic

But this is not magic. This isn't the Matrix, where some
goofy little bald kid is telling you that there is no spoon.
This is real life which is based on the laws of chemistry and
physics and biology. But how is it that these women are
out there, but you can't see them? That's what we will be
going over in the next several chapters. The topic of
Manifesting. How it works, how it doesn't work, and why it
works the way it does.

That it seems (or can seem) "magical" is simply a

combination of our brains, and how they were created to
exist in a primitive environment, and the vastness of our
current environment.

Manifesting as Metaphor
Most things we humans talk about are metaphors. In fact,
metaphors are embedded in our everyday language. For
example, let's say you're in a meeting. The meeting room is
real. The chairs in the meeting room are real, as is the
table and the walls and the people. But what "is" a
meeting? It's an imaginary idea that we use to describe
several people talking in a room. Once the people disband,
and go their separate ways, what happened to the meeting?
We say the meeting is "over," but we could equally say the
meeting "vanished" because it doesn't exist anymore. Pay
attention to the word "in" which we use in the phrase, "in a
meeting." Why do we day "in a meeting?" Why not "on a
meeting" or "under a meeting?" Because when our brains
think of intangible nouns (nouns that are not physically
real) we have to think of them as if they were real. So in
this case, we think of a meeting as some kind of container,
since we use the preposition "in" to describe how we
interact with it.

Our language is filled with these metaphorical treatment of

these everyday "nouns." Think of the term "fall in love." We
use "in," so we can presume that we think of "love" as a
container as well. But why do we "fall" in love, yet we "go"
to a meeting? Because a meeting can be planned, while
somehow "getting" into love cannot. We "fall" in love,
meaning it happens when we don't expect it.

The more complicated the "thing" we are describing, the

more dangerous it is to use metaphors to describe them.
Because if we use an metaphor that doesn't accurately
describe the underlying phenomenon, we will
misunderstand the underlying phenomenon. This is the
danger with using words like "manifesting" to describe
what we'll be talking about over the next few chapters. In
truth, it is not magical or mysterious at all, it is merely how
our brains and thoughts interact with the world around us.

Map is Not the Territory

This is one of the more famous statements from NLP. It

means that no matter how accurate a map is, it is only an
approximation of the territory. Back in early days when
humans started exploring the world, they made some
pretty crude maps. We look back on them today and laugh,
because we have GPS systems that allow us to pinpoint our
location down to a few centimeters. But back then, that's
the best they had. They would look at those maps, and try
to navigate the actual territory. Some of the early maps had
the end of the world as a huge cliff, beyond which was
nothing. Keep this in mind when going through the step by
step process of "manifesting." Always remember that
"manifesting" is a metaphor for a much, much deeper and
complicated process. One that few men intending to attract
women will ever understand. Because you are reading this
now, you will soon have a deep insight that will be forever
unknown to most.
Simple Manifesting

So, how does it work? It's based on the idea that the
amount of data hitting our senses is many times more data
than we can perceive. Most of the stuff that hits our senses
is just simply not important. Back during our long history
of evolution, we had to always be as efficient as possible.
So we only evolved to pay attention to the minimum
amount of data necessary and still be able to survive. In
our modern world, however, we have tons more stuff
happening around is. Some estimates put the differences
between the TOTAL stuff going on around us to that which
we can comprehend as about 25,000 to 1. That means for
every "bit" if data that we perceive in some way (smell,
hear, taste, see, feel) there are 25,000 bits that we don't
perceive. So our monkey brains need to categorize what's
important and what's not. What is important? Anything
that represents food, sex, or danger. Bugs, snakes, rats
these are were very dangerous to primitive man so we
developed a super acute sense for when these things show
up. So, the first lesson of manifesting is there is plenty of
stuff out there, there are filters, and then there is what we
perceive. These filters (sometimes collectively called the
pre-conscious processor) have to decide what we perceive
and what we ignore.

The simplest examples are certain color cars if you've just

purchased that color car. Or if you are in the market for a
pair of shoes, you might see shoes everywhere. These are
simple, physical things that are there, but we don't
recognize them because they aren't important. Then for
some reason or another they become important, and we
start to see them everywhere. It's not that they weren't
there before, rather we just didn't notice them before. This
can be interesting to play with, especially if you have a
partner and you're sitting outside where there are a lot of
things going on. For example, one of you can close your
eyes, and the other can choose things to sort for. You close
your eyes, and your friend says sort for "green things," then
you open your eyes and see all the green things. Then you
close your eyes and you friend says sort for "clinky noises"
and you tune your ears to all the sounds of forks hitting
plates and so on. This is a useful exercise for really
"feeling" just how much "stuff" is out there going on that is
simply bypassing our conscious awareness.

Complicated Manifesting

This is when it gets a bit confusing. It's easy to think about

a red car, and then see red cars everywhere. But we are
after is more advanced manifesting, where we don't exactly
see gorgeous girls standing around that we didn't notice
before, but opportunities where girls might exist. Let's say
for example, you were interested in finding something to
eat while driving around in a strange town. Unless you
were actually in a neighborhood with plenty of restaurants
that you didn't notice, simply deciding to find some
restaurants wouldn't make them poof into existence. But
you would be able to tune your senses to high probability
things that might indicate the presence of restaurants. As
you're driving past several small streets, you might not see
a huge sign that says, "Food!" but you would likely notice
the tell-tale signs of restaurants. Outside patios with
people sitting, large and colorful signs, other shops that are
typical around restaurants.

But it gets a lot more complicated. Because you would

consciously "know" that outside patios are a clear sign of a
restaurant. But it won't always be so easy. Sometimes
you'll get a "feeling." What some people call an "intuition."
These are merely very subtle signals from our
subconscious. For example, let's say you're at a nice
restaurant. Then you see a cockroach scurry across the
table. This would give you a very clear, and very strong
feeling of revulsion. You see the cockroach, and there is a
hundred percent probability of danger, at least to your
caveman instincts.

On the other hand, when your subconscious sees a lower

probability of danger, you will still "feel" a sense of
"discomfort" but not nearly as strong. This is your
subconscious saying, "hmm, I don't have a good feeling
here, you might want to be careful." Where the cockroach
got a response from your subconscious that said, "Run!"

It is these subtle signs that you will need to tune your

brain to look for and respond to. Because opportunities are
never a hundred percent. If you see an absolutely gorgeous
woman who is smiling at you, you'll get a clear signal. But
what we are after are those subtle feelings your
subconscious is sending you that says, "over here, there
might be some ladies."

How Does It Know?

Remember the difference between what we see consciously

and what we don't see? It's huge. But all of that data still
goes into your brain. Which means when you suddenly
decide to start looking for something, your subconscious
can dig into your deep memory banks to come up with
probabilities that you may or may not find what you are
looking for in your current situation.
Most guys are absolutely clueless to when women are
giving them strong signals. So when you start to build up
your authority and scarcity and social proof, you will also
start to notice these signs from women more and more.
And this will cause your subconscious to look into your
memory, where it will find all previous instances where
women were giving you signals, and notice that there are
places that have higher probabilities of women, and places
that don't.

And when you start to move toward those areas, your

subconscious will be sending you signals that say, "Hey,
this might be a high probability location, take a look!" Of
course, you won't actually hear these words, but you will
get a "hunch." A feeling to go down a certain street, or go
into a certain shop. To the extent you can train yourself to
follow these feelings, you'll find more and more women all
over the place that are attracted to you.

Luckily, it gets better. Much better. We'll see why in the

next chapter.
Two Way Manifesting

It's one thing to tune your filters so you can see red cars
everywhere. That's pretty cool and it's also about as far as
most people go when it comes to manifesting. When you
learn to pay attention to the subtle signals that your
subconscious is sending you, and start to see success, this
is when you really can convince your friends that you've got
some kind of "sixth sense." In fact, this not really a "sixth"
sense, only a much finer understanding of your internal
kinesthetic feelings. This is how your subconscious
communicates with you, and those vague and barely
perceptible "feelings" are different enough that regular
feeling, so it can be considered a "sixth sense."

However, it gets better. Much better. Because so far, we

have only been fine tuning our perception. But we alluded
earlier to how women will change their behavior, and their
thinking, to the presence of a high-status male (authority,
scarcity and social proof). This means not only will you be
sensing where women are, your presence will actually
change them.

Operating on Reality

It's wholly possible for somebody to practice this without

increasing their authority, scarcity and social proof. But
they will only see women. Women that don't recognize them
as high status males, so the women don't behave like high
status females as a natural response. Sure, they might see
attractive females, but since these females don't feel any
attraction to them, they may be perceived by the low status
males as "rude" or "standoffish." But you, as the high
status male, will see completely different women. And your
friends won't understand, and chances are they won't
believe you.

Harsh Example

Just to drive this point home, imagine two people. One is a

famous movie star. The other is a smelly homeless guy. The
homeless guy walks through a department store. Every
time he starts to walk up to a woman, they look at him and
quickly turn away. Some might even blatantly say rude
things to him. From his perspective, all the women in that
department store are rude, stuck up, and whatever other
horrible word you can think of to describe women.

Now consider the movie star. He walks through the store,

and all the women are secretly watching him, fantasizing
about him, and secretly wondering what would happen if
he actually decided to speak with them. From his
standpoint, the women were friendly and on their best
behavior. Or high quality. So, you can see that "high
quality" is very dependent on how the woman perceives
you.

In fact, you might say that "high quality women" are really
women with a very high interest level. Men often complain
that there are no high quality women. They use as
examples that women flake, they don't return their calls,
they are late, they are always staring at their phones
during dates, etc. The truth is that these women are just
not that interested in those guys. Those same women
would behave much differently (much better) around a man
in whom they had very high interest.

High Quality Is High Interest

The reality that is a women who is highly interested in you
will behave with as much "quality" as she can. Because she
values you. She values you more than any other man she's
ever met. Most men she meets are somewhat interesting,
and somewhat attractive, but not enough to make them
change their behavior.

And because you will be increasing your authority, scarcity

and social proof, you will be automatically eliciting high
quality behavior from the women you interact with.

This goes beyond the first meeting as well. If you continue

to maintain the Trinity (Authority, Scarcity, Social Proof)
the women will even change her long-term behaviors (diet,
financial behaviors, etc.) to “keep” you so long as you
maintain the Trinity.

Social Proof Squared

Previously we talked about how to allude to social proof

conversationally. By obliquely referring to other females in
your life (even if they are eighty years old and you only
talked to them for five minutes). But something else will be
giving you a high amount of social proof. While you are out
and about, and following your intuitive signals to high
probability locations of high quality women, all of the
women you interact with will be behaving a certain way
around you. And chances are that the woman that you
choose will see that behavior (from the other women) before
she sees you, at least on a subconscious level.

Women are much more dependent on social signals than

men are. A man and a woman walk into a party, and the
woman will know instantly who is with whom, who is
happy together, and who is fighting. The man will generally
be oblivious. Imagine this simple mind experiment. Let's
say a potential high quality woman is standing in a certain
section of the store. She can see the cashier, but she can't
see the entrance. Then you walk in, slowly and confidently,
and smile at the cashier. She's not quite your type, but you
smile at her anyway, because you know being friendly with
all women will significantly increase your social proof. The
woman sees the cashier as she reacts to you. The woman
notices her behavior. She notices that the cashier is looking
at a high status male. Then she prepares herself, hoping to
see you, before she actually does. It's important to note
that this happens very quickly, and almost always
subconsciously. She won't consciously think anything like
"Hmm, I wonder who that is," or anything like that. All
she'll know is that now has a strong feeling that a high-
status male is very close, which automatically makes her
adjust her behavior.

Reality Changes Before You

In a very real sense, when you start to carry yourself as a

high-status male (Authority, Scarcity and Social Proof) you
will not only change reality as you interact with it (women
change their behavior in response to you) but reality will
change before you get there! Reality (the vast collection of
people) will begin to anticipate your arrival.

This may seem like a fantastic thing that only happens in

movies, but the more you start now to build up your
authority, social proof and scarcity, the sooner this will
happen.
Pay Attention to Intuition

Intuition, in this case, are those subtle feelings you get.

You will need to practice this. The best way is to set aside
ten minutes or longer, each day, and find someplace with
plenty of people and simply walk around. Don't worry
about making eye contact, or getting names or anything.
Just practice paying attention to your intuition. If you need
to stop and think consciously, you're taking too long. Think
of this like a walking meditation. Walk without consciously
thinking anything. Merely come to decision points (where
you need to turn right or left) and let your intuition guide
you. The more you practice while letting your intuition
guide you, the quicker you'll build up a strong sense of
intuition which will rarely, if ever, steer you wrong.
Increase Manifesting Skills

Manifesting is a skill, and like any other skill, you can

increase it with practice. This is hard to do, because it is a
wholly mental-perception skill. It's easy to pretend you are
practicing, when you really aren't. Compare this to
something like weight lifting, when you know for certain
whether or not you are making progress. The best way to
practice is to start small. In the beginning it's best to
practice simple manifesting. Start with searching for simple
objects. It's best if you are walking, as you'll want to relax
your mind and your vision as much as possible. A good
place to practice is a large area with a lot of objects that are
obstructing your view. For example, if you find a park
bench, where you can see everything, it would work, but it
would also create the illusion that "manifesting" is nothing
more than "noticing." Let's say you sit on the park bench,
and close your eyes. You tell yourself to look for everything
that is red. So you open your eyes and find the red things.
Then you repeat this with yellow things, green things, tall
people, short people, etc. This is a good beginning exercise,
but the longer you do this, the more you might start to
think that manifesting is a passive process. It can be, but if
you treat manifesting as a passive process (as most
everybody else does) you will be severely limited in your
results. The ideal place to practice is a large shopping mall,
or even a supermarket. For the purposes of illustration,
let's consider practicing this at supermarket.

Supermarket Manifesting

To start with, choose a shape and a color. Simple shape,

simple color. Do not choose a specific product, that will
defeat the purpose. The idea is to relax your conscious
mind, and let your subconscious guide you. Let's say you
pick a green can. That's it. Then start walking around the
supermarket with your eyes as unfocused as possible.
Don't bump into anybody, but try not to focus on any
particular individual. Walk slowly up and down the aisles,
and pay attention to any "signals" from your subconscious
regarding the presence of any green cans. Avoid
consciously choosing where you think green cans (in this
example) might be. Simply walk, until you have a strong
urge to look in a particular direction.

Calibration

You'll need to do this simple exercise for a while until you

understand the various impulses from your subconscious.
Most of us have spent our entire lives ignoring our
subconscious, so it's going to be difficult to accurately
interpret the feelings or intuitions you begin receiving. Do
this as long as it takes, preferably several minutes per day,
until you can repeatedly allow your subconscious to find
what you're looking for.

Be Specific

It's important to be very specific what you are looking for,

in terms of shape and color before you start. We all have
the experience of walking into the supermarket with a
vague idea of "finding something to eat," and we do
eventually find something to eat. This is, in a broad sense,
the same process. You have a conscious choice (something
to eat) and you decide to "wander around" until you find
something that looks good. However the purpose of this
particular exercise is to strengthen and sharpen your
ability. When you are starting out this exercise, avoid food
or anything with any emotional significance.

What Constitutes Success

This can be difficult. The point is not to find the object. The
point is to strengthen the connection between your
subconscious and conscious mind. When you routinely
know that the object you are searching for is down a
certain aisle, and you turn and find that object, then you
can start to move on to more difficult things. The time it
takes to actually find the object is not important. It's
important to move from "thinking" or "guessing" to
knowing. You are looking for a specific feeling of "I don't
know how I knew that, but I knew that, and I knew I knew
that." Once you start to get this feeling, you can move on to
more complicated objects.

From Objects to People

How long you spend practicing on "manifesting" objects to

"manifesting" people is up to you. But remember, you can
never go too slow. You can always strengthen the
connection between your subconscious and conscious
mind. Once you are having success with non-normal
objects in the supermarket, you can look for a wider variety
of objects. You could wander your neighborhood
manifesting yellow flowers. You could wander the gym and
manifest purple gym bags. You could wander around the
mall and manifest girls with red shoes.

Avoid Peripheral Vision

One thing to understand is the difference between knowing

something that is near that you cannot see compared to
knowing something is near that is in your peripheral
vision. For example, let's say you are at the mall looking for
girls with red shoes. The ideal situation is when you are
walking along, eyes defocused, and then you get a strong
sensation to go into a certain shop before you see anybody.
Then after walking slowly through the shop you see the girl
with the red shoes. This is a different experience than
walking through the mall, turning your head, and seeing a
girl with red shoes. The first case is one of manifesting,
where you follow your instinct, take action, and find what
you were looking for. The second case is one of noticing,
where it was there, within your realm of vision, only you
didn't consciously notice it.

Advanced Manifesting Practice

Once you have success with more and more complicated

objects, you can move on to people. Go to as many places
as you can, and practice manifesting different types of
people. Tall people, short people, bald people, etc. When
you start to find success with this, you can move on to
manifesting high quality women.
Manifesting Women

The step from manifesting objects, or even people, to high

quality women is a big one. Mainly because in order for a
woman to be "high quality" you must have several
conversations with her. You simply cannot tell by looking
at her. Once you create significant authority, social proof
and scarcity, you will elicit from women their best possible
behavior. But that might not be sufficient. How will you
know? You must develop criteria and you must develop one
of the most important skills, yet strangely enough, one of
the most least practiced. The skill of sorting and
disqualifying. For most men, women only need to have two
criteria. One is that she is attractive enough. Two is she is
attracted enough. After that, most men are willing to do
anything to keep her. But remember, most men are
operating from a frame of sexual scarcity. They are more or
less desperate, and will take anything they can get. But
with sufficient Authority, Scarcity and Social Proof, you
must not fall into this trap. Remember, the women must
pass your criteria, not the other way around. So your first
step is to develop criteria, beyond simple physical
characteristics. You must take time to define your ideal
woman. Start with looks. What is the ideal range of height?
What color hair is acceptable? What body style, weight,
physique is acceptable and what is not acceptable. Criteria
based on physical characteristics are relatively easy to
define. Certainly, as you notice you are creating more and
more attraction in more and more women, you can update
your criteria.

Two Criteria

Once you've got a more or less defined list of physical

characteristics, you'll need to define her personality. This
can be difficult. Things like "kind" or "generous" or "good
natured" are very hard to define, and also will change
based on her mood. They also change according to her level
of attraction to you. Meaning if you do a good job with
maintaining your levels of Authority, Scarcity and Social
Proof, she will usually be well behaved according to most
general definitions. But if you start to lose your effect on
her, due to laziness, she will become less well behaved. So
try and create behavior or personality characteristics that
won't change with her levels of attraction. The reason for
this is that any women that is highly attracted to you will
behave as best as she can. So, measuring these traits
(kindness, sense of humor, good natured, etc.) is not ideal.
What is a better choice is measuring personality traits that
don't tend to change with her level of attraction. These are
things that don't have much to do with how attracted she
is to you, but how she chooses to live her life.

Judgment Is Necessary

Of course, this will require you judge her. Otherwise you

may end up with somebody that causes you a significant
amount of emotional and financial pain. Please avoid the
tendency to give her the benefit of the doubt. Create hard
and fast rules to accept or reject her. If you have decided
not to date anybody with a credit score of less than 650,
then make sure that is a hard and fast rule.

Judgment is Personal

However, it is also a good idea to keep these criteria to

yourself. It's never a good idea to tell a woman why you've
decided not to date her. The standard reason, if it's needed
at all is, "I just don't think we're compatible." That should
be sufficient in all cases. To be sure, have as many defined
criteria as you can, but always keep them to yourself. It's
never a good idea to share them with anybody, even your
closest friends. That being said, what are some criteria to
think about?

Ever Expanding List

To be sure, happy couples have a lot in common. While

they are exceptions, they are few and generally require a lot
of work on both parties. To make things easy, choose
somebody who is like you in religious beliefs, political
beliefs, financial strategies, economic outlook etc. It's up to
you how similar you'd like your ideal woman to be, but
leave a little room for differences, like taste in food, music,
or movies. Ultimately it's up to you.

Running Total

Ideally, you would journal brief information about every

single encounter. For example, you walk into a shop, and
you notice a woman is very attracted to you. You walk over
and start a short conversation, intending only to elicit a few
pieces of information. To maintain your level of Scarcity
you cut the conversation short, and excuse yourself.
Whenever possible, and preferably as soon as possible,
write down some information about her. Time and date.
Length of the conversation. Topics of the conversation.
Then write down potential benefits of hypothetically dating
this women, and potential drawbacks. Write down anything
that comes to mind. This will do two things. One is it will
increase your intuition about women that you speak with.
The second, and very powerful effect will be to spur you to
ask better questions the next time around.

Sorting Is Essential

You are a busy man. You don't have unlimited time. There
are countless and tragic stories of men who have been with
the wrong woman for years, only to find out they were
incompatible. In this situation, the man is devastated,
usually both financially and emotionally, and may never
recover. The sooner you disqualify a candidate, the better.
The more accurately you disqualify a candidate the better.
Every single time you speak to a woman, and then later
journal about the event, specifically about positive and
negative aspects, you will increase your ability to
disqualify.

How Long to Disqualify

Preferably, you will never stop disqualifying a woman. For

one, this will keep the idea of Scarcity in the forefront of
her mind. You don't need to overtly qualify, but always be
thinking of things that may disqualify her from being
exclusive with you. Your life is valuable, precious, and you
only have one. The seconds and minutes and hours and
days will tick by regardless if you are living on purpose or
waiting for something to happen. Don't waste precious time
with a woman that is wrong for you. Enjoy her presence,
yes, but don't be in any hurry to accept her
unconditionally. Make her earn your unconditional
acceptance. How do you do this? We'll talk about that in
the next chapter.
Dating and Relationships

If you're like normal guys you'll progress through a series

of "aha" moments and realizations. You'll start by doing
some basic journaling and observations. Applying the Law
of Scarcity may be difficult but once you are capable of
applying it repeatedly, you'll feel a dramatic effect. After
that you'll start talking to women, again seeing how
insanely difficult it is to apply the Law of Scarcity. Finally
you'll get to the point where you (or hopefully her) are
initiating the exchange of contact information. Then you'll
start seeing these women again. Once again, you will likely
fall into the trap of forgetting to apply the Law of Scarcity.
One way to avoid that is to stick to a hard and fast rule.
Never agree to anything other than meeting her at a
specific time and place. Never agree to "hang out" on a
certain day. If she calls you to initiate a meeting, only agree
to it if it fits your schedule. Do not rearrange your schedule
to meet her. You are driven man, in charge of and creating
your own life. The idea is to have women chasing you. To
have women calling you and changing their schedules to
accommodate you. But if you are serious about going
through the steps and exercises in this guide, something
will eventually happen. A woman you are seeing will ask
you to be exclusive.

Women's Genetic Programming

Remember, women, as are men (who aren't following this

guide) are driven by instincts. The strongest instinct for
men, after safety, is sex. The strongest instinct for women,
after safety, is creating a relationship. This may be difficult
to accept given how freely women have sex currently, but
on a deep level, unless there is strong social conditioning
against it (which is present currently) women are
programmed to seek relationships. Men have an instinct to
have sex, and then leave. Women have an instinct to have
sex, but keep the man from leaving. You might even say
that on a deep genetic level, women are Venus Flytraps,
and men are the fly. Now, she's not going to kill you and
eat you, but you will find out sooner or later that if she is
emotionally stable and mentally competent (which she
should be to pass your filtering criteria) she will want to
hang on to you. After all, few men are driven and in charge
of their lives, like you. Few men can combine the
irresistibly attractive traits of Authority, Scarcity and Social
Proof. So when she spends any amount of time with you,
she is going to want to be exclusive.

Men Are No Match for Women

Think in terms of our instincts, especially when it comes to

communication. Men hunted, and women gathered.
Women have always been physically weaker than men.
When a woman is driven instinctively to secure the current
and future resources that a man can provide, she will use
her communication to do so. She will use her sexuality to
do so. She will use her emotional intimacy and affection to
do so. Most men have absolutely zero chance when a
woman decides she wants to "keep him."

Unexpected Side Effects

In economics, there is what is seen, and then what is not

seen. What is not seen are usually the secondary and
tertiary effects of any kind of economic policy or political
decision. For example, the government might decide to set
a floor on the price of wheat. They intention is to keep
wheat farmers from going bankrupt. But in doing so, they
also encourage other farmers to stop growing other crops,
and start growing wheat, since it now has a guaranteed
minimum price. The price level is the primary intention.
The disappearance of other crops is the secondary effect, or
that which is not seen initially. What is a common an
unexpected side effect of gaining incredibly powerful skills
of attraction?

Women will want you, and you will say no. This will cause
the woman a great deal of emotional distress. She sees you
as better than any other man she's ever been with before.
To her, you could "The One." So she pushes for exclusivity.
And you say no. This will feel terrible to her, and to you.
Most men have no idea the potential pain they can cause a
woman simply by saying, "no" to their request for a
committed relationship. Some men avoid this by never
getting close. Some men avoid this by saying, "yes," simply
because they don't want to hurt her, but the relationship,
and often times the resulting children, suffer because of it.

So you must be prepared for this eventuality. It is up to

you to decide whether or not you will "be" with women that
you do not intend to have a relationship with. If you do,
then it is your duty as a man to let her know. Be clear up
front that you are not looking for a relationship.

When It's Relationship Time

There will be women that will ask you to be exclusive, and

you will have a hard time saying "no." That is your choice.
But just understand that it is your job to keep up with the
Law of Scarcity. You must not unconditionally accept her
requests for a relationship. You must discuss it openly and
deeply. She must know that being exclusive with you does
not guarantee her anything other than you will not date
any other woman than her. Be careful of agreeing to
anything that will decrease your sense of Scarcity. Beware
of assuming any duties that she implies that you have
simply because all her friends' boyfriends' do that.

Ultimately, how you handle exclusivity is up to you. But if

you can maintain the Trinity of Authority, Scarcity and
Social Proof, you may find yourself in an ideal relationship
with an ideal woman. A woman that will assist you in
creating your life, the way you want. A woman that will
enhance your life, rather than complicate it. You now have
the tools in your hands to make that happen.
Final Thoughts

You now have the ideas and tools to transform yourself into
the highest quality male that most women will ever
encounter in their lives. However, in order to get to this
point, you will need to take some time. Going through these
mental exercises and training yourself to see the world
through these paradigms will transform your life, they will
only work if you actually do them. Nobody doubts that
eating a diet of a certain balance of calories and doing the
requisite exercises will get you a six pack. Nobody expects
that if you start doing pushups every morning, you won't
improve your strength over time. These exercises and their
underlying theories are not magic, but are based on biology
and simple human psychology. However, just as plenty of
men go to the gym and intend to eventually get a six pack,
few ever make it. Why is that?

You Can't Escape Economics

Economics is called the "Dismal Science" for a reason. It

forces to examine the costs behind our actions.
Unfortunately, in this late stage of our societal collapse, we
have been convinced by politicians and advertisers that we
can get things without paying the cost. This will likely be
the hardest thing to accept if you truly want to become a
High-Status Male capable of attracting high quality women
merely by your presence. If you want a six pack, you will
need to change your life. Not just once, but every day, and
consistently. It takes a lot of work to get a six pack, and it
takes a lot of work to maintain a six pack. Those that value
having a six pack are willing to do what it takes to get it.
Those that don't, don't. Perhaps they value relaxing on the
couch more than having a six pack. Perhaps they enjoy
drinking six to twelve beers a night rather than having a
six pack. Plenty of people would love to lose weight, but
they don't ever do so. Why? Perhaps they like the idea of
losing weight, but only if it's easy. The truth is that while
all men would love to be a High-Status Male, few are willing
to do the work required.

Misery Loves Company

One thing that is true about humans is while everybody

wants a better life, few people are ever capable of putting in
the effort to get a better life. It's safer and more comfortable
doing what everybody else is doing. It's safer and more
comfortable getting the same results that everybody is
getting. It's safer voicing the same complaints that
everybody else is voicing. Anybody can go to a bar, not
approach anybody, or approach women and get shot down
and then go home and complain about it. This is easy. This
is natural. This is normal. The tools in this guide will put
you obviously ahead of what is normal and safe and
comfortable.

Four Quadrants

Everybody wants a better life, but few people make it

happen. Why? Some blame self-sabotage. What is this
mythical destroyer of happiness? It's wanting something on
one level, but resisting it on another. In order to achieve
any goal, whether it's losing five pounds or becoming the
dominant Alpha Male on Planet Earth, you need to
understand the four quadrants. Reviewing these four
quadrants on at least a weekly basis, with respect to
becoming insanely attractive to gorgeous high quality
women, will help keep you on track.
Present Positives

These are the things in your life now that you like and want
to keep.

Present Negatives

These are the things in your life now that you don't like,
and want to change.

Future Positives

These are the things you imagine in the future that you
want. This is quadrant is where most people put their
goals. The things they want, but don't have, out in the
future.

Future Negatives

These are the things in the future (once you attain your
goal) that might not be so great. This is almost never
considered by most people

Why Goals Fail

Most people choose a goal. Something they'd like in their

future. They get started and have some initial success. But
then they lose motivation. Or worse, they do things that
destroy their progress. They call these "self-sabotage."
What happens? What is happening is that as they move
from the Present State toward their Future State, they are
slowly coming to realize two things. There are things in
their present state they like (present positives) that they are
afraid of losing. And there are some things in their future
state that they didn't anticipate and that they don’t like
(future negatives). This is what always trips them up.

To ensure you don't fall into the same trap, make sure you
understand all of elements of your present state, both
positive and negative. And make sure you fully understand
all of the elements in your desired future state, both
positive and negative.

Potential Present Positives

Always journal on the things in your present state that

you'd like to keep, and figure out how you can maintain
them in your future state. For example, you might enjoy
spending all day on Saturday binge watching Netflix. Just
understand this and maintain this moving forward.
Perhaps you can make yourself off limits to the world on
Saturdays, regardless of how many gorgeous ladies are
blowing up your phone.

Potential Future Negatives

Always examine things that you didn't anticipate. Right

now, it may seem like a great idea to have gorgeous women
hungrily looking at you everywhere you go. But in the
future, if you are with your friends, and you're getting looks
and they're not, it might cause problems in your
relationships with your buddies. Consider doing something
ahead of time to prevent this from happening.

Always Focus on Future Positives

A good method to keep your forward momentum going, be

sure to spend some time journaling, at least once a week,
on the future benefits that you expect. All the positive
things you will experience once you are walking the Earth
powered by the Trinity of Authority, Scarcity and Social
Proof. The increased attention you'll get from gorgeous
ladies. The increase in income that will naturally come. The
life you will be able to create once you define your passions
and your reason for existing. All the benefits that come
from being a Driven Man in a world filled with mediocre
men waiting to be told what to do. Focus on your empire,
with women or one special woman there to help you build
it. This is your life, this is your world. You now have the
tools in your hands to build it exactly as you like.
Summary of Exercises

Authority

You will need to develop authority over your own life. The
first step in doing this is to come with a rock solid plan for
your life. Come up with a ten year, five year, and one year
plan. Make sure this is independent of your life with
women. Come with a goal in each of the following areas:
Health, Finance, Career, Home. Make sure your goals are
Well Formed.

Requirements of Well Formed Goals

Specific and Measurable

They must be specific. Imagine you were to go before a

judge and show proof that you've achieved your goals.
What proof would you have? What incontrovertible
evidence could you show to a hypothetical judge that would
absolutely prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that you have
achieved your goals?

Time Dependent

You must have a time associated with your goal. When will
you achieve your goal? As stated before, have a ten year
goal, a five year goal, and a one year goal. You must
become a Man with a Plan if you are to attract high quality
women.

Under Your Control

Your goal has to be achievable by you, and you only. For

example, your goal cannot require that you win the lottery.
You must be able to achieve your goal without any
assistance from any specific person. People in general are
OK (customers, clients etc.) but requiring that any specific
person is not. Even if that person is not identified, you
cannot rely on them. (E.g. I'll meet a stranger that will give
me a sack of money).

Your Goal

This may be self-evident, but to be a true Man with a Plan,

your goal has to be YOUR choice, not somebody else's
choice.

Reality Filter

Once you've got your goals solidified, you can now filter
reality into two vague categories. Things that HELP you
achieve your goals, and things that DON'T help you achieve
your goals. Do not confuse this with being selfish. You can
see things, people, relationships as helping you in long
term ways. For example, the support of a loyal network of
friends, going both ways, each helping each other, is
essential for achieving goals. Consider only keeping people
in your life whom you respect and will want to rely on and
provide support to.

Daily Journaling

Despite how strong your goals are, things happen on a

daily basis that are simply out of your control. At the end of
the day, write down how you could have interpreted these
events in your favor. What skills could you have learned by
dealing with them in a different way? The goal is to build
up your mental muscle to see all things, even unexpected
events, through your carefully created Reality Filter: Does
this help me? Can this help me? How? Is there anything I
can learn from this that may help me?

Scarcity Exercises

These are likely the most difficult. This will require leaving
a situation just as it is getting good. But in order to build
up the powerful feeling and effect of Scarcity, you have to
leave just when you want to stay. This will be different
depending on where you are along your path. It's also
necessary to notice the difference between Scarcity
Exercises and Social Proof Collection Exercises (below) as
well as general social skills training (more below). The idea
is simple. Interact with a person or people. Once you create
a positive impression, and you get feedback verifying that
positive impression, leave. This positive feedback can be a
smile, extended eye contact, physical touching, laughing,
etc. As soon as it's clear they enjoy your presence, excuse
yourself and get out. Even if you will never see those people
again. The purpose of this is to build up the feeling and
experience that woman want you wherever you go.

Social Skills

The more you interact with regular, normal people, the

more of a "people person" presence you'll radiate. Get into
the habit of starting regular conversations wherever you
happen to be standing around when other people are also
standing around. In line at the supermarket, on the bus or
train, or anywhere else. Talk to people without any
intention, just to get practice. The idea is to both increase
your "people person" energy and to develop an experience
that "people are similar."

Social Proof

This is when you collect any information you can from any
females you meet. Either observational information or
conversationally elicited information. The idea is to covertly
drop hints of your vast army of female admirers whenever
you interact with a High Quality Woman (more on that next
chapter).

Commitment and Consistency

Create a journal, with both your fears and your experience,

of what you would like a woman to do, but fear (or know
from experience) that she might object to. Then come up
with stories, either from your own experience, or that of
your friends or even from movies, that include characters
behaving in a non-sexual way doing those things. For
example, if you meet a girl in a bar, and you'd like to take
her to a small restaurant down the street, but fear an
objection, you can tell her a story of when you and your
male friends went bar hopping and went to every bar and
restaurant on one street. The idea is that when you tell the
story, she'll follow along, and will get a feeling of going from
restaurant to restaurant, which will make the actual act
seem more familiar.

Comparison and Contrast

Whenever you phrase a suggestion and you fear a potential

objection, make it sound as the easier of two choices. For
example, if you want to take her from the bar to a
restaurant next door, you give her two options: The
restaurant next door, or the super expensive one an hour
away.

Delay Gratification

This is the underlying skill that will make everything

easier. The more you can plan ahead, the more you can put
off a pleasure you'd like to have now for a bigger one in the
future, the easier the rest of these exercises will be.

Applied Delayed Gratification

Always keeping this in mind will be helpful in going from

woman to woman, increasing your value, and then leaving.
Because walking away from a woman when you know the
conversation is going well is exceptionally difficult.
However, if you always keep your mind on the next woman,
this will be easier and more effective. Have a goal to create
so much desire in the women you speak to on a regular
basis that they overtly try to keep you from leaving.

Do Not Make Excuses

Avoid making any excuses at all costs. Also, avoid

complaining at all costs. Anybody can make an excuse, and
anybody can complain. Whenever something happens that
isn't what you'd wanted or hoped, ask yourself: What did I
learn? How could I have done differently? What did I not
understand that I can understand better next time?

Journal Everything

Daily journaling, both for the exercises above and as a

general rule, is essential. At the very least you should write
down the following in your journal every night:

What I Did Toward My Goals

What I Can Do Tomorrow

It may take time, but the time you spend planning your life
will pay off with great rewards in your future.
Using Linguistic Presuppositions To Imply
Social Proof

The basic structure of this is that you are speaking to an

attractive woman of quality, and you want to imply that
you have a lot of females in your life. The way to do this is
to significantly downplay the woman, and focus on the
actual item (content) that you are using for the connection.
She will be focusing the vague reference to other women, at
least subconsciously.

Examples

Situation

You are talking to a woman, and you notice she has a

green sweater.

Statements

One of my friends has a sweater like that. She bought it

from Amazon. Where did you buy that one? (This implies
you have many women friends).

My friend Sharon has a sweater like that. (Sharon could be

a ninety year old lady you met in the supermarket, but the
woman you are speaking to, if she's the least bit attracted
to you, will assume she's a super model).

That's a pretty popular color. A few of my friends have that

same sweater. (Implies you are comparing her to some of
your other female friends).
Situation

You are talking to a woman, and she mentions her hobby

(we'll use skydiving as an example).

My friend went skydiving and she made it sound so easy.

My friend told me I should go.

My friend did the tandem skydiving technique. She said it

was really fun. What kind did you use?

General Usage Techniques

The idea is to drop a hint of your female friend and then

quickly move on to another topic. Don't use more than two
or three friend references per conversation, otherwise it
may sound too obvious.

Collecting Pieces of Evidence

Everywhere you go is an opportunity to collect some

evidence. It's also a good excuse to force yourself to talk to
people, if you are just starting out. For example, if you see
a girl wearing a particular popular pair of shoes, you can
use her to collect evidence. Just walk up to her, excuse
yourself, and say you wanted to buy those pair of shoes for
a friend. All you need to do is ask where she got them. Let's
say she bought them at Macy's. Now you've got a piece of
evidence to use. Next time you see a girl wearing those
same shoes, you can say:

"I like your shoes. My friend has a pair she bought at

Macy's, where did you get those?"
Note, this is just an example of how to collect data, and
how to use data. Ideally you will be far along your
Authority and Scarcity path before you start using example
of Social Proof. But you can certainly collect examples of
social proof anywhere, any time. Always get a name
whenever possible. Just notice an item, find out where she
got it and any other information. Exchange names and
leave. This will also help you build Scarcity.

When you're in line or otherwise standing around, always

use the women around you as potential resources to ask
about experiences (skydiving, hobbies, cooking etc.)
Cooking or anything to do with recipes can be particularly
helpful. For example, if you see an elderly woman in line at
the supermarket buying a weird spice, ask her what she's
going to cook. For the sake of argument, let's say she's
cooking Chicken Parmesan. Ask her if it's good, and of
course she'll say yes. Then later, you can mention your
"friend" who cooks a "delicious" Chicken Parmesan. The
person you relate this to will assume you and her are
intimate, since cooking and sharing meals often implies
intimacy.

Combining Scarcity and Social Proof

Using social proof conversationally is a good way to

remember to always apply scarcity. You can make it a point
to relay social proof, see evidence that it has increased your
value, and then leave. This is a great "hit and run"
technique you can use that will significantly increase your
feeling of "women want me everywhere I go."
Mind Killers

The human mind is incredibly fast, yet not terribly

accurate. On top of that, one of our greatest skills as
humans is self-deception. We are loathe to take
responsibility for our own mistakes and failures. Few
humans ever become full adults and take responsibility for
their own lives. The vast majority of humans alive today
would rather be poor, undersexed and living not nearly to
their capacity in exchange for the simple yet comforting
belief that "it's not my fault." We humans are quick to point
the finger outside of ourselves when things don't go our
way. However, even if things are not technically our fault,
blaming others does us no good. While we may not be
entirely responsible for our situation, we are entirely
responsible for how we respond to our situation. Politicians
since the dawn of time have leveraged this unfortunate
aspect of human nature by utilizing the following campaign
slogan since the dawn of time: "Your problems are not your
fault. Vote for me and I'll fix it, or punish those who are at
fault."

Let the common and undersexed men believe such

nonsense. Blaming others is not attractive to women. Not
claiming responsibility for your life is not attractive to
women. Consider this mind experiment to drive this point
home. Imagine two different ancient women. One was
insanely attracted to men who were very clever and
eloquent in describing reasons why they couldn't catch any
food. Why it wasn't their fault. Why the zebras were just
too fast. Why it was the fault of the gods why they came
home empty handed each day. Imagine that women having
children with such a man. How do you think those children
would have fared? Not very well. Since their father's best
skill was in coming up with reasons why he couldn't catch
any food for them. Consequently, here we are thousands of
years later and very few women find it attractive when a
particular man doesn't accept responsibility.

Now consider another woman. She was naturally attracted

to guys who owned up to their failures. Maybe one in
particular came home empty handed half the time. But
when he did, he accepted responsibility. Maybe he said
something like this, "That guy down the street that sold me
this weirdly shaped spear lied to me. This spear bounced
right off that zebra's skin. I'd better make another one so I
can have a better chance of getting something to eat
tomorrow," and he made a better spear. Sure, he could
have blamed the guy down the street, but that wouldn't
have gotten him any food. So he forgot about the guy who
sold him the "fake spear" and built a better one. This guy
was capable of providing enough food for his kids, and
subsequently, he passed on those, "Life is tough but I got
this," genes to his kids.

The moral of the story? Blaming others won't get you laid.
Blaming the state of affairs between men and women won't
help you attract high quality women. Pointing out the
divorce rate won't make you any more attractive to high
quality women. Noting how the world is filled with gold
diggers won't make you more attractive to high quality
women. Complaining about how long it takes to transform
yourself into a Driven Man, a Man With a Plan, won't help
you attract the ladies you want. Worrying about whether or
not a woman night sue the crap out of you should you get
divorced won't make you more attractive. (Incidentally, if
you are worried about something like that, it belongs in the
sorting and disqualifying phase).
What will make you insanely attractive to a large majority
of women will be acknowledging that yes, the world is
messed up. Yes, the economic system is rife with
corruption. Yes, people aren't nearly as loyal as they used
to be. But so what? You are a Driven Man. You are a Man
With a Plan. You want to get some. You are going to get
some. Let all the other men do all the complaining. Let all
the other men go their own way. Your life belongs to you.
You are going to conquer it and make it as fantastic as you
possibly can. And because of that, every high-quality
woman you meet will beg you to be a part of it. Choose
wisely, and never look back.
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