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Lecture 14
Ephesians 5: 22-33
Intro.
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As He was
offered in the
gospel.
- If we were to identify
o One particular hallmark
Of the arrival of the Gospel
In Ephesus
o It was the widespread understanding
That this Gospel
Must change everything.
o It was the widespread understanding
That Jesus is not someone
Who could simply be coopted
o Into your preexisting life,
But One
Who completely overturns
o And transforms
Your life.
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Especially in the
minutiae of daily
relationships.
- We could almost say
o That what we come to here
In verse 22
Is the point to which
o This whole letter has been
moving.
- In one sense
o What Demetrius and the Magicians
Understood and did
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A sinful creature
And Jesus is who He is –
The perfect, gracious God
o Then to lay hold of Him
Is to forsake all others.
It is to led goods and kindred go,
o Even this mortal life
If we are called to it.
- But what Paul
o Is wanting to do
In this letter
Is dig down
o Past the grand
Blunt-force
Implications,
And show us how
o In the quiet
Unassuming minutiae
Of daily life,
Show us how
o In the mundane
This Gospel
Transforms
o How
we live
and act
o And
relate
to one
another
- And so
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Is profoundly counter-
cultural.
- And really
o What Paul is about to say
About these three relationships
Is counter to every culture.
- These relationships
o Are ones
In which the disruption of sin
Is seen most acutely,
And in particular
o In the abuse
That can take place
within them.
- As we said last week
o It is abundantly clear
From the first four chapters of the Bible
That one of the fundamental
consequences of sin
o Is that it divides,
It separates.
- Sin separates us from God
o And it separates us from one another.
It was sin
That caused humanity
o To be driven out
Of the Garden of Eden
Separated from that
intimate
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Presence of
God
Because of the
chasm that sin
had wrought
Between a holy
God and a now
unholy people.
And it was sin
That divided
o The man from his wife
As (you remember)
Adam’s words
of delight and
praise at
beholding his
wife
Turned into
accusation and
bitterness.
- It is a fundamental characteristic of sin
o That it separates.
It divides.
- And as Paul
o Has shown us
How the Gospel comes
To heal that
o Division of God and man,
o Showing us in the first chapter
How there is reconciliation
To be found
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o In Christ,
So that we
Who are torn apart from God
o In our sin
Can be so restored
That we are called
o The children
Of God
o Even the co-heirs with Christ
Of every spiritual
blessing in the heavenly
places.
o So wholly
Has that division
Been restored in Christ
That the cursing of God
Has been turned
o Into the lavish grace of God
In which we are given
every good thing that
God has to give.
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o Is also restored
In and through the
Gospel.
- What Paul wants us to see here
o Is that the Gospel
So restores
Our relationships with one another
o That we are released
From adversarial way of
trying to relate to each
other
To relationships
that are
characterized
by peace and
joy and
harmony.
- And
o As I said
He focuses on these
Because
o They are the venues
In which the separation
of sin
Can be most
acutely evident.
- We can say
o I think
That these relationships
Are the closest relationships
o That we will have in life.
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- It is almost unbelievable
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- Maybe more
o Than any other singular relationship
Pride comes in
And taints
o And corrupts and manipulates
The relationship
Of husband and
wife.
- We wont all be
o Guilty of outright spousal abuse.
Hopefully, by the grace of God
None us will be
o Guilty of outright spousal
abuse,
But we will
be guilty
o Of sinning
Against your husband
and wife.
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- And while
o It is shocking –
You should be shocked
When you realize
o The harm you do
When pride corrupts
that relationship,
o It’s not surprising.
Like we have said already
It was there
o Right in Genesis 3
As Adam’s delight in his
wife
Turned to anger
and
resentment,
A pride-full
blaming of his
wife for what
was essentially
his failure to
protect her and
keep her from
harm.
- We see it also
o In the curse
That God brings upon Eve.
(Gen. 3: 16)
o “To the woman [God] said, ‘I
will surely multiply your pain in
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- Now,
o You might read that
And ask
“where does he get that from?
o I only see a promise that the
woman would desire her
husband –
That’s a good thing,
right?
I want my wife to desire
me.”
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- And while
o We might not all
In the grace of God
Know the worst manifestation of that
o In outright abuse
And blatant hostilities,
o All of us
I think
Know it
o Experientially
On one level or
another.
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o Those philosophies
Have swung wildly.
- Some cultures
o Have said
That the husband
Simply needs to be granted absolute
dominion
And should relate to his wife
o As he relates to his children.
o That one of the responsibilities
of the husband is to keep his
wife in line,
Even giving the husband permission
To beat his wife
o As he sees fit.
o They have said
That the husband
Is the king within his home
o And has the right
Even the responsibility
To rule and
subdue his
wife.
- Other cultures
o Have yielded
To the curse Genesis 3: 16
And assumed a more matriarchal model
o In which the opposite has been
true
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- Some cultures
o Like that in first century Roman society
(the society into which this letter was first
written)
Had reduced marriage down
o To little more than a legal
transaction
Designed to produce an
heir,
In first century Roman culture
Sexual satisfaction and intimacy
o Was not considered to be an
essential part of marriage
But was sought in
extra-marital
relationships,
Adulterous
relationships,
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But also
homosexual
relationship
With men and
young boys.
- Others still
o And this is I think
The prevailing view in the West
o Others still
Think that any kind of distinction
Between husband and wife
o Should be eliminated
And both should be
equal partners with
equal roles
Within the
home.
o In order
To eliminate
The abuse of power
o That can enter into this
relationship
Some have said
That everything
must be divided
equally
And that there
be no
functional
distinction
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between
husband and
wife.
o In remedy
Of the abuse
It has been proposed
o That a radical egalitarianism
Should be
implemented.
- To a non-Christian world
o Confined (ch. 4)
To the world of the senses,
There are only so many options that are
open,
Only so many ways
o That we can try and fix this
deep-rooted
And long-standing
issue,
o This long-standing disruption
Between man and
woman
Between husband and
wife,
I. What does it say?
- But here Paul shows us another way:
o A way that is not rooted
In what seems good and right to us
But that is fundamentally tied
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- You remember
o In ch. 4
When Paul had described
The non-Christian philosophy that
surrounds the Church –
o That philosophy that is rooted
In the senses,
What can be
seen and heard
and tasted and
touched and
felt,
He said
Forcefully
o (ch. 4 v. 20)
“But that is not the way
you learned Christ!”
- His point
o Was to give us
A new reference point
For how we live:
o Not what seems good and right
to us
But our union with God
in Christ.
- What Paul was saying there
o Is as we try to figure out
How to live in this world
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- And he says
o They look like
The relationship
Between Christ and His Church.
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- In the place
o Of any notions
Of manliness
That culture comes up
o Whether it is the macho alpha-
male
Or his polar opposite,
o Paul says, we have to understand,
That true manliness
Is modelled
o On the True Man.
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To manipulate
or abuse His
Spouse.
- In fact,
o What it means
For Christ to be
The “Head of the Church”
o Means that He has borne the
burden of seeking her welfare.
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- Martin Luther
o Described this
In the most beautiful way
When he said
Christ is full of grace, life and salvation; the soul is full of sin, death and
condemnation.
Let faith step in, and then sin, death and hell will belong to
Christ,
And grace, life, and salvation to the soul.
For, if He is a Husband
He must take to Himself that which is His wife’s
And at the same time,
Impart to His wife that which is His.
For, in giving her His own body and Himself,
How can He but give her all that is His?
And, in taking to Himself the body of His wife,
How can He but take to Himself all that is hers?
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Conc.
- How we understand
o The marriage relationship
Is not the same
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o Is reflected,
And that these most intimate
relationships
o Might bear witness
To love and joy and
freedom
That we enjoy by our
union with Christ.
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