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Companion
Carol R. Younger, Ed. D.
2015
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FIRST MEETING
Small-group Session Outline . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13
DVD Notes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17
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Day 29: St. Louis de Montfort . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 119
Day 30: St. Maximilian Kolbe . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 120
Day 31: Blessed Mother Teresa . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 121
Day 32: St. John Paul II . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 122
Day 33: Putting It All Together . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 123
Small-group Session Outline . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 124
DVD Notes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 125
Endnotes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 131
AUTHOR’S INTRODUCTION
the field.
But there are other types of companions besides persons. A companion can be a hand-
book or a guide — for example, a handbook for soldiers or a bird watcher’s guide. Journals
are also justly called companions because, when we re-read them, they can recall for us sig-
nificant lessons from the past, shine light on our present situation, and even help us better
prepare for the future.
Now, a retreat companion is someone or something that accompanies us during a
special time of prayer and spiritual growth. Such a companion helps us to pray. In other
words, such a companion asks us leading questions and gives us food for thought. Through
such aids to prayerful pondering, our companion helps us come to know and love the Lord
more deeply and, at the same time, helps us get to know ourselves and where the Lord may
be calling us to grow.
As we begin our 33-day retreat in preparation for Marian consecration, we’ll be blessed
to have lots of retreat companions. First, if we make the retreat in a group, we’ll have all the
people in our weekly small group. Through our discussions and times of group prayer, we’ll
come to know the goodness of the Lord by getting to know the great gift he gives us in
Our Blessed Mother, Mary. Also, our meetings will help us work through obstacles, answer
questions, and address difficulties that may come up along the way. Finally, together, we’ll
come to appreciate Mary’s unique role in our spiritual lives and how she brings us to God.
During our retreat, not only will we have human companions but we’ll also have this
book as a retreat companion. This Retreat Companion combines many of the things just
mentioned. In the writing spaces provided, it’s a journal for recording and remembering
our thoughts. Through its daily questions, it’s an aid to prayerful pondering. In its weekly
small-group sections, it’s a guide for discussion and further prayer. All this in one short book
— what a gift! Now let’s learn how to use it.
H OW TO USE YOUR RETREAT COMPANION. Using your retreat companion is easy. Just
follow these three simple steps:
1. Read the daily section from your retreat book, 33 Days to Morning Glory, before
turning to this Retreat Companion.
2. Pray the prayer for the week. (See “Regarding the Prayer for the Week” below.)
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3. Read and answer the four daily retreat questions in the space provided after each
question. If you need more space, you can use the “Notes” pages at the end of each
week or begin writing in a personal journal. Don’t be afraid to answer questions that
weren’t asked. The Holy Spirit may have personal spiritual counsel for you! Keep
track of your random thoughts as well. (See “Regarding the Daily Questions” below.)
R EGARDING THE PRAYER FOR THE WEEK. Each week of the retreat features a specific
Marian prayer that we’ll pray together at each weekly small-group session. (For
example, the first prayer is the Angelus.) The prayers reflect the deep, Marian piety that
has marked the lives of so many Catholics. These four traditional prayers have been beloved
for centuries but, sadly, in our own day, have largely been forgotten.
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The Marian prayers for each week remind us of what’s been forgotten and provide
communal prayer moments in our small-group meetings. Individually, you’ll pray the given
prayer once a day, or more frequently — simply do what’s convenient for you. Just don’t
“flame out” at the very beginning of the retreat trying to keep up a prayer marathon! Keep
your focus on the most important prayer practice of the retreat, the prayerful pondering.
During the retreat, a high quality of prayerful pondering wins out over a large quantity of
vocal prayers.
R EGARDING THE DAILY QUESTIONS. The questions in this Retreat Companion are not
meant to be a quiz. You will not be graded on them. Don’t stress yourself about getting
the right answer. In fact, it’s not about getting the “right answer” at all. The questions are
simply there to help you prayerfully ponder in your heart, like Mary. Such prayerful pondering
is the main prayer of the whole retreat.
So, with the questions of this Retreat Companion prompting you, you might record in
it memories, responses, or even doodles and drawings. Sometimes you might write only:
“I agree” or “I never thought of that before.” At other times, you might need to add more
sheets of paper to record your thoughts. Then again, you might not write anything but sim-
ply continue to ponder the questions in your heart. (Still, we recommend that you write
something in the Retreat Companion.) Remember, it’s not a quiz. There are no right an-
swers. Moreover, nothing is really “required” except that you strive to ponder the teaching
of the daily readings in your heart. Such prayerful pondering will bear fruit for yourself as
you prepare for Consecration Day, and it will enrich the whole group because it prepares
you to better participate during the times of small group discussion.
Before we continue on to the next section, there’s one very important point about
“prayerful pondering:” It’s not something just for quiet time when you’re alone in your
room. In fact, many people these days don’t seem to have much time for quiet prayer,
especially not 33 days worth! So, what’s meant by “prayerful pondering” is simply keeping
and reflecting on the content of the daily reading in our minds and hearts. Such prayerful
pondering can be done in the midst of driving kids to school, cutting veggies, or taking a
shower. The point is that during these 33 days, we strive to become what St. Ignatius
of Loyola calls “contemplatives in action” and imitate Mary who “kept all these things,
pondering them in her heart” (Lk 12:51).
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as a group, they become a journey of communion, a journey whereby we prepare our hearts
to become one with the Heart of Mary as she loves Jesus with her own, perfect love.
Finally, I’d like to give praise to the Holy Spirit for his inspiration and consolations and
thanks to Fr. Michael Gaitley, MIC, Kelly Wahlquist, and Sarah Chichester for their support
in writing and editing this companion. Their devotion to Our Blessed Mother reinforces
my own. For Mary’s gift of our friendship in Jesus, I am very thankful.
Now, as for you who are about to embark on this 33-day retreat journey, I pray that
the Holy Angels, at the command of Jesus, bring his grace in abundance for your preparation
for consecration to him through his Blessed Mother!
To Jesus through Mary,
R ETREAT COORDINATOR’S ROLE. Retreat Coordinators are the people who coordinate a
variety of different aspects of the Retreat. For example, they manage the announcement
and publicity of the 33 Days to Morning Glory Retreat, schedule and prepare the room
locations, may arrange for the pastor to include the retreat participants in special Masses at
the beginning and on Consecration Day, may plan a parish reception after the consecration,
and more. They select and train the small-group leaders before the beginning of the retreat
as well. All this involves working with many key people at the parish, in addition to the
participants making the retreat. There are many tips and timelines, descriptions of events,
sample announcements, and other support materials on the website www.AllHeartsAfire.org.
The Retreat Coordinator for the 33 Days to Morning Glory Retreat should be
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thoroughly familiar with the Retreat Coordinators’ Guide on the HAPP® website,
www.AllHeartsAfire.org. The details of the HAPP® programs and the structure of the
retreats are also on the website, as are tips on how to share information and answers in a
supportive manner.
R EGARDING CONSECRATION DAY. The Retreat Coordinator should plan ahead for the
actual day of consecration. If you are the Retreat Coordinator, you might want to read
the section of the appendix “Before Consecration” right now. You will find it on page 129.
Also, please review the information on concluding the 33 days in the Retreat Coordinator’s
Guide on www.AllHeartsAfire.org. In addition, if people are concerned about not ending
the 33 days on the exact consecration date (many dates are posted on the website), tell them
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not to worry. They can always continue their preparation by simply pondering in their hearts
what they have learned and by daily praying the Rosary or the Chaplet of the Ten Evangelical
Virtues of Mary (see pages 172-175 in 33 Days to Morning Glory).
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retreat a reality week after week. The Small-group Leader guides the group through the
weekly small-group session outline, which is at the end of each week’s questions. They
begin with “prayer,” direct the discussion of the “personal response,” and lead the
concluding “petition.”
Large-group — Opening
(15 Minutes)
You’ll begin each session by coming together in a large group. Within that large
group, you’ll begin with prayers and watch the 6-minute introduction for that session.
This is also a great time for the Retreat Coordinator to make any announcements. Allow
15 minutes for this time and the transition of all participants to their small groups. (If the
entire group consists only of one small group, then there’s obviously no need to break up
into smaller groups.)
Small-group — Sharing
(45 Minutes)
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Small groups (about 6-10 people, depending on your group and available space) meet
for a 45-minute discussion time that follows the small group session outlines at the end of
each week. The small-group dynamic is perhaps the most important aspect of the retreat.
Within a small-group setting, a true spirit of fellowship in Christ is fostered and developed.
Without such friendship and fellowship in Christ, the isolated Christian may become para-
lyzed in his efforts at evangelization and stagnant in his faith. But with friendships in Christ,
the members of his Mystical Body are connected in holiness to Christ and to one another in
prayer and so are able to better receive his divine power! (see Mt 18:20). The friendships
that you discover and nourish in your small group are important sources of support and
encouragement on your journey to a deeper relationship with Christ.
Small-group Leaders: Be sure to read the Weekly Sessions at the end of each week in
this Retreat Companion before each gathering. There the preselected focus questions for
each week are listed. You will also want to register as a Small-group Leader on our website
www.AllHeartsAfire.org to receive weekly, helpful tips that will help you make the most of
your small-group experience.
The small-group time is divided as follows:
A. PRAYER: This is the given week’s prayer from the Retreat Companion. The group
should pray it together.
B. PERSONAL RESPONSE: Particular questions selected from the week will be used
for small-group sharing.
C. PETITION: The Small-group Leader will recite the daily closing invocations of the
Holy Spirit within the group, and the members respond.
The above-mentioned prayer, personal-response questions, and petitions are provided
in the Retreat Companion at the end of each week as the Small-group Session Outline.
Large-group — DVD
(30 Minutes)
Following the small-group discussion and prayer, participants reconvene in the large
group for 30 minutes of guided retreat by Fr. Michael Gaitley, MIC, on DVD. Each session
ends with prayer and Fr. Michael’s invitation to make the insights gained and lessons learned
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a part of one’s spiritual life. After the DVD, the Retreat Coordinator may make announce-
ments and briefly introduce the topic for the upcoming week and its corresponding prayer.
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[Note: While we highly recommend that this group retreat be made with others, it can be made with oneself. However,
one would forgo the many benefits of the group dynamic. To make the retreat individually, one would need the DVD
set and retreat book, 33 Days to Morning Glory, in addition to this Retreat Companion.]
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B. Personal Response
My two most important reasons for making this retreat at this time are the following:
1. Personal
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C. Petition
[Make sign of Cross: +]
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Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary…
Help me to give myself entirely to Jesus through Mary.
PRE-RETREAT
Introduction and Orientation
[Read “Introduction” in 33 Days to Morning Glory, pp. 15-27, and then prayerfully answer the following questions.]
1. Recall a special need in your life that you entrusted to the intercession of Mary or a
favorite saint. (This is often known as a “special intention.”) Maybe you prayed a
novena1 for it. Maybe the intention moved you to ask for help, for a blessing, or for an
answer. What prayer or novena did you pray? What did you hope for? Was it for an
answer? Were you answered in a way that surprised you? Consoled you? Was there a
new insight from that prayer?
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2. Life is lived so fast in this third millennium. Do you have concerns about putting 33
days into your already-full calendar for consecration preparation? What kind of practical
help do you need to see that this really is possible and realistic? Where might you turn
to get this help? Will someone else be able to help you find time — for example, through
carpooling or help with shopping? Or is it simply a matter of you scheduling your time
and priorities more efficiently?
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3. Read Luke 2:19, 51. Like Mary, have you ever pondered something that happened to
you or to someone else? What was it? Did you ask yourself why it happened to you? What
came of that heart pondering? Was it a positive experience?
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4. This preparation for consecration is similar to Mary’s heart pondering. There are no
additional hours you need to set aside for pondering, because pondering can be done
throughout the day. The readings simply fill and prepare your heart because of your
prayerful reading of them. What time of day will you set aside for this reading? You
can break it up into several sessions of reading each day if you need to. Select several
“moments” when you will have the book beside you, and write them down here:
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[At the end of each week, we’ll provide you with an outline like the one below that complements each DVD session talk.
These outlines are meant to help you remember points to ponder as you watch the talks.]
A. The Goal
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Retreat
Companion
Carol R. Younger, Ed. D.
2015
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of the B.V.M. All rights reserved.
Available from:
Marian Helpers Center
Stockbridge, MA 01263
Prayerline: 1-800-804-3823
HAPP: 1-877-200-4277
www.marian.org
www.thedivinemercy.org
www.allheartsafire.org
Imprimi Potest:
Very Rev. Kazimierz Chwalek, MIC
Provincial Superior
The Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of Mercy Province
October 7, 2011
ISBN: 978-1-59614-252-7
length in his 1974 apostolic exhortation on devotion to Mary, Marialis Cultus. For the
next eight days (the Introduction and Week One — St. Louis de Montfort), we’ll begin
our time with this Retreat Companion with the Angelus. It would be wonderful to pray it
at noon and at the end of the workday as well. Do whatever is most convenient for you,
and don’t lose the focus on our prayer priority: reading the daily text from the retreat
book and the subsequent prayerful pondering.
The Angelus
(Usually recited while standing.)
Regina Caeli
(Said during the Easter season in place of the Angelus.)
Let us pray. O God, You were pleased to give joy to the world through the resurrection of
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Your Son, our Lord Jesus Christ; grant, we beseech Thee, that through His mother, the
Virgin Mary, we may obtain the joys of everlasting life. Through the same Christ our Lord.
Amen.
Day 1
The Passionate Saint of Brittany
[Each day this week, you will (1) read the appropriate day from 33 Days to Morning Glory, (2) pray the Angelus, and (3)
prayerfully answer the four corresponding questions in this Retreat Companion.]
1. Consider the place where you grew up and your birth family. The birthplace and the
parents of St. Louis de Montfort had an impact on his intense personality and development.
Saint Louis then directed all his fiery zeal to the Blessed Virgin Mary, because he under-
stood the importance of laboring to bring souls to Jesus through Mary. What is it about
your birth family and birthplace that might contribute to or provide obstacles to your own
growth in holiness and desire to belong more completely to the Blessed Mother?
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2. Saint Louis died at age 43, only 16 years after being ordained a priest. In today’s world,
that may seem like a long time. What circumstances, employments, or relationships have
lasted that long, or longer, in your life? (For example: marriage, parenthood, job, parish
membership, a ministry.) What benefits do you count because of those years? Were there
any difficulties in continuing for that period of time? What would you say to those who
might want to imitate you in being faithful to any of those commitments for that number
of years?
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3. Saint Louis makes a pilgrimage to Rome, walking the entire 1,000 miles, to ask the Pope
for advice. He receives from the Pope the title “Apostolic Missionary” and is commissioned
to return to France to preach and teach. What is the longest distance you have ever walked
(physically or metaphorically) in order to win something, to accomplish something, or for
any reason whatsoever? Were you seeking to help others or was this a private quest? Were
you successful?
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4. The real question is this: “Do we have a fire in our hearts as we begin our retreat?” Well,
do we? Reconsider what may have been your motive to begin this retreat and contemplate
total consecration to Jesus through Mary. Have you asked Mary to start a divine fire in
your heart for Jesus? What obstacles might she find there that would interfere with
beginning that burning desire to love Jesus? How will you overcome them?
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Closing Prayer:
Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Help me to make this retreat with generosity and zeal.
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Day 2
St. Louis’s Influence on the Church
1. Saint Louis was a priest with great trust in God. When he found out that a huge monument
he had helped to build for more than a year was suddenly to be destroyed, he said to the
thousands who had gathered for the blessing, “Let us build it in our hearts. Blessed be
God.” What was your reaction to that story? Have you ever experienced a similar, severe
disappointment with something that you thought seemed to be pleasing to God? Were
you able to bless God in spite of the disappointment?
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2. Part of Marian consecration involves entrusting ourselves totally to Mary so she can bring
us to Jesus. And she does so in union with her spouse, the Holy Spirit, in the best way
possible. For her to bring us to Jesus, though, we need to let go of always trying to do
everything ourselves and from thinking that everything depends on us. Take your best
guess at the following questions: What is the first thing that I need to become detached
from? Will it be difficult to become detached from it? Will it take time?
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3. Pope John Paul II called reading de Montfort’s book True Devotion to Mary “a decisive
turning point” in his life. What one or two books have you read (besides the Bible) that
have had “decisive” influence on your life, either pointing you in a new direction or
toward a new career, introducing you to a new relationship, or deepening your spiritual
life? Did you recommend those books to anyone or give them as gifts?
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4. No less than six Popes were influenced by the teachings of St. Louis de Montfort. If you
had your choice of someone to influence with your life, your friendship, or your thoughts,
whom might that be? Why would you want to influence that person? (Choose someone
living or someone past or even someone in the future.)
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Closing Prayer:
Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Prepare me to give myself fully to living out this true and solid devotion.
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Day 3
De Montfort’s Consecration (Part One)
1. Mary is fully human. She gave her whole self, her whole life, and her whole being to
doing God’s will, and she continues to do so from heaven. [See Catechism of the Catholic
Church, n. 2622 on Mary’s “Fiat.”] The ending prayer from yesterday (“give myself
fully”) raises a question: To what, if anything, have I given myself fully in the past? My
vocation? Marriage? Friendship? Parenthood? A career? Baptism? Confirmation? Do I
know what fully giving myself means?
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2. If we were baptized as infants, our baptismal vows were made by others on our behalf.
However, we renew our baptismal vows whenever the Easter season comes around.
During such times, we’re asked if we reject the devil and all his works and whether we
believe in each of the statements of the Creed. How serious is a vow in today’s world
anyway? Reflect on the vow you made to God at your Baptism, and on the vows you
made on your wedding day (if you are married). Do you know the date of your Baptism?
Do you celebrate it?
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3. Saint Louis says with the Church that the day of our Baptism is the most significant day of
our lives! Can you name some other significant days in your life? (Wedding day, graduation
day, awards or recognition received on a special day.) What relationships are reflected in
each of these days? Why does our relationship with God make our baptismal day so
important? (see CCC, nn. 1265-1270). List some ways we can celebrate baptismal days
to keep them as significant occasions in our lives.
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4. Mary’s humility humbles Satan even more than the divine power. Are you ready to strive
to imitate Mary’s humility? What’s the difference between humility and humiliation?
When we don’t seek the former, we sometimes encounter the latter. With which of your
family and friends do you find it the easiest to be humble?
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Closing Prayer:
Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Give me the grace to reject Satan and follow Christ more closely.
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Day 4
De Montfort’s Consecration (Part Two)
1. We are asked, “Why should we give ourselves to Mary?” What was your first and immediate
answer? Was it, “Because she’s sinless, totally without sin”? Or was it “Because she belongs
totally to God, her whole life is God’s”? Or was it “Because she’s human like us and
has compassion for her own”? Which answer is most important to you in your relationship
to Mary? (Of course, they’re all important, but which one especially touches you at
this moment?)
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2. One of the reasons we give ourselves to Mary is in imitation of Jesus, who gave himself
to her! When we consecrate ourselves to Jesus through Mary, when we give everything
to her, we deepen our relationship with her, a relationship of child to mother. In order to
make us safe, secure, forgiven, blessed, and graced by Jesus, her Son, what might she
decide for us? Are you anxious about letting her make decisions in certain areas of your
life? How might you pray (talk to her) about those decisions?
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3. The retreat mentions four intimate aspects of our lives that we give to Mary: first, our
body; second, our soul; third, our exterior goods present and future; fourth, our interior
and spiritual goods past, present, and future. That’s quite a gift! In fact, it’s the same kind
of gift that Mary gave to God when she said, “Fiat mihi” (“Let it be done to me”). We
can truly say that Mary consecrated herself, in a particularly intimate way, to God alone.
Reflect on the idea that our total consecration to Jesus through Mary is in some sense an
imitation of her consecration to God. Record your thoughts here:
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4. Though after consecration you cannot insist that the graces given to you (in offering your
sufferings and prayers) be given to the person you want them applied to, what might you
say to Mary as you give her all the merits of your life and works? What freedom is implied
in letting her have all the value of your good actions? (By the way, when we consecrate
ourselves to Mary, we can and should still pray for our loved ones, and Mary really does
take care of them — even better than we can. She is not outdone in generosity! Consider
endnote n. 17 on page 184 of 33 Days to Morning Glory.)
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Help me to give myself entirely to Jesus through Mary.
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Day 5
Should We Really Give Mary Everything? (Part One)
1. As we begin to contemplate the reality of giving Mary everything, let’s remember the
generosity of life practiced by priests, brothers, nuns, consecrated single persons, and the
faithfully married, all of whom offer themselves to God according to their state in life.
The generous giving of oneself is not just for us who are on this retreat — everyone is
called in some way to give everything to God. Marian consecration makes it easier,
quicker, surer, more perfect … how?
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2. One of the benefits of giving everything to Mary is that she augments our gifts and makes
them more perfect. (Recall St. Louis’s analogy of the peasant and the king on page 41 of
33 Days to Morning Glory.) Which of your gifts would you especially like to become more
perfect before God gets it? What would you ask of Mary to perfect it?
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3. Mary is not outdone in generosity. How can this be so? What gifts does she have that allow
her to be the most generous of human beings? She sends the most generous graces on the
people we love as we continue to pray for them before, during, and after the consecration,
and she adds her intercession as Queen of Heaven. How generous are you? How many
generous people do you know, and what are they generous with? Their time? Their money?
Their willingness to be compassionate? Are these qualities of generosity ones you practice?
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4. Mary loves to give the gifts of Jesus to others. Read the story of the wedding feast of
Cana in John’s Gospel, chapter 2. List all the merciful gifts of Mary recorded in that story
(there are many, not the least of which is the wine). Pretend you are the bridegroom or
the bride. What would you say to Mary after the miracle is made known to you?
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Help me be generous in giving all I am and have to Mary.
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Day 6
Should We Really Give Mary Everything? (Part Two)
1. As we closed yesterday, we asked Mary’s spouse, the Holy Spirit, to help us be generous
in giving all to Mary. When in the past have we needed help in being generous or in giving
gifts? One way to help someone to be generous is to teach them how to be generous. As
children, our parents and teachers taught us how to give gifts to others. How has God
been teaching you to be generous? How have you taught others to be generous?
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2. When the Angel Gabriel comes to announce the Incarnation to Mary, he says “Hail, Full
of Grace.” Mary’s graces are a plentitude of God’s love in which we participate by giving
all our merits to her! The issue really is one of trust: Do we trust her? The first way we
learn to trust another is by getting to know the person. What have you done to get to
know Mary?3
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3. Frequently, we are asked to “give what we can afford” to charities, even from the pulpit.
Yet Christ says to the rich, young man, “If you will be perfect, sell what you have and
come follow me” (Mk 10:21). How serious are we about spiritual perfection? What spir-
itual, physical, interior, or exterior goods do we still fear to let go of? Why?
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4. What concerns or apprehensions do you still have as this first week nears its close? Fear of
the loss of control of your spiritual life by giving all to Mary? Do you fear purgatory? At
what level is your self-concern interfering with your desire to draw close to Mary?
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Help me to give great glory to God by giving all I am and have to Mary.
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Day 7
A Quick, Easy, and Secure Way to Holiness
1. An essential part of growing in holiness involves dying to self. This is not an easy task.
After all, self-preservation is deeply ingrained in all of us. To help us die to self, we are
called to bear our daily crosses. Although we often complain about them, St. Louis says
that crosses are “the greatest graces and favors of Heaven.” And while Jesus says, “Who-
ever does not bear his own cross and come after me, cannot be my disciple” (Lk 14:27),
he also says, “Apart from me, you can do nothing” (Jn 15:5). We must depend on
supernatural help for bearing our crosses in life. Do you have a short list of crosses or
a long one? Write out a list of crosses and blessings. (Yes, as the saints remind us, crosses
are also blessings.) How have you asked for supernatural help up to now (as you prepare
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2. Have you ever heard the phrase to “offer up” something, either for another person or some
special intention? What was your internal response? Did you ask for the grace you need to
do this? How will Marian consecration help with this aspect of your spiritual efforts?
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3. Saint Louis describes making a statue from a mold as being much quicker than actually
carving it. Imagine being poured into the mold of Mary. Think of being enveloped by
her love of God, her happiness in doing God’s will, her prayers before the throne of
God, her close relationship to Jesus. Describe your longing to be part of Mary’s virginal
and maternal holiness.
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4. Security — we all look for it in daily life. We use house alarms and car alarms, change
our online passwords, and monitor our credit card statements for fraudulent charges.
Some carry licensed weapons. Others hire bodyguards. Some buy expensive security
software. All this to protect physical life and possessions. What about Marian conse-
cration gives you the most comfort and security? Talk to Mary about this. Record your
conversation here:
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Help me to praise you for such a quick, easy, and secure path to holiness!
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B. Personal Response
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as though you have to answer every question during the small group discussion time.]
1. Recall a special need in your life that you entrusted to the intercession of Mary or a
favorite saint. (This is often known as a “special intention.”) Maybe you prayed a novena
for it. Maybe the intention moved you to ask for help, for a blessing, or for an answer.
What prayer or novena did you pray? What did you hope for? Was it for an answer?
Were you answered in a way that surprised you? Consoled you? Was there a new insight
from that prayer?
2. Saint Louis died at age 43, only 16 years after being ordained a priest. In today’s world,
that may seem like a long time. What circumstances, employments, or relationships have
lasted that long, or longer, in your life? (For example: marriage, parenthood, job, parish
membership, a ministry.) What benefits do you count because of those years? Were there
any difficulties in continuing for that period of time? What would you say to those who
might want to imitate you in being faithful to any of those commitments for that number
of years?
3. Part of Marian consecration involves entrusting ourselves totally to Mary so she can bring
us to Jesus. And she does so in union with her spouse, the Holy Spirit, in the best way
possible. For her to bring us to Jesus, though, we need to let go of always trying to do
everything ourselves and from thinking that everything depends on us. Take your best
guess at the following questions: What is the first thing that I need to become detached
from? Will it be difficult to become detached from it? Will it take time?
4. Mary’s humility humbles Satan even more than the divine power. Are you ready to strive
to imitate Mary’s humility? What’s the difference between humility and humiliation?
When we don’t seek the former, we sometimes encounter the latter. With which of your
family and friends do you find it the easiest to be humble?
5. Though after consecration you cannot insist that the graces given to you (in offering your
sufferings and prayers) be given to the person you want them applied to, what might you
say to Mary as you give her all the merits of your life and works? What freedom is implied
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in letting her have all the value of your good actions? (By the way, when we consecrate
ourselves to Mary, we can and should still pray for our loved ones, and Mary really does
take care of them — even better than we can. She is not outdone in generosity! Consider
endnote n. 17 on page 184 of 33 Days to Morning Glory.)
6. Mary loves to give the gifts of Jesus to others. Read the story of the wedding feast of
Cana in John’s Gospel, chapter 2. List all the merciful gifts of Mary recorded in that story
(there are many, not the least of which is the wine). Pretend you are the bridegroom or
the bride. What would you say to Mary after the miracle is made known to you?
7. What concerns or apprehensions do you still have as this first week nears its close? Fear of
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the loss of control of your spiritual life by giving all to Mary? Do you fear purgatory? At
what level is your self-concern interfering with your desire to draw close to Mary?
8. Have you ever heard the phrase to “offer up” something, either for another person or
some special intention? What was your internal response? Did you ask for the grace you
need to do this? How will Marian consecration help with this aspect of your spiritual
efforts?
C. Petition
[Leader] + Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary…
[Group response] Help me to make this retreat with generosity and zeal.
Individual petitions…
Response: Come, Holy Spirit, and help me. +
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Mary’s patronage. In a sense, St. Maximilian echoes the Sub Tuum Praesidium when he
says, “… our little, little mother, the Immaculate Mary, can do anything for us. We are
her children. Turn to her. She will overcome everything.”
Day 8
Who Are You, St. Maximilian Kolbe?
[Each day this week, you will (1) read the appropriate day from 33 Days to Morning Glory, (2) pray the Sub Tuum
Praesidium, and (3) prayerfully answer the four corresponding questions in this Retreat Companion.]
1. Purity of Soul and Body: St. Maximilian wanted both the white crown and the red crown:
purity and martyrdom. Purity of soul and body prepared him for martyrdom. To grow in
holiness — to grow in purity of soul and body — we need Mary’s intercession. What
ways can Mary’s powerful intercession help you grow in holiness? Are you ready to ask
her for her intercession and guidance in seeking holiness?
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2. Purity of Intention: “A person practices purity of intention when he directs his thoughts,
words, and actions not to himself or another creature but to a divine purpose or mission,
and ultimately to God.” Such an attitude of the heart avoids doing things for selfish
reasons and instead tries to do all things out of love for God and for his glory. Can you
give an example from your life of a situation in which you believe you acted with purity
of intention? What do you need from God (through Mary) to make this a regular virtue
in your life?
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3. Significant Dates: St. Maximilian was martyred on the eve of the Marian feast of the
Assumption. We all have significant dates in our lives. What are some of yours? Think
about how you will make the date of your consecration significant throughout your
lifetime. Any ideas?
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Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Make me pure in body and spirit and help me to die to myself.
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Day 9
Who Are You, O Immaculate Conception? (Part One)
1. Saint Maximilian’s most important reflection on the mystery of the Immaculate Concep-
tion comes in a sudden burst of insight just two hours before his arrest by the Nazis. Have
you ever experienced a sudden or surprising understanding about a relationship with a
person or a lifelong question? Was it after or during prayer? How did it change you or
the situation?
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2. Saint Maximilian says that Mary is the Immaculate Conception “in the most precise and
essential manner… .” Stunning thoughts: “precise,” “essential.” Precisely and essentially,
who are you? Who do you wish to become?
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3. Was the idea of the Holy Spirit as the uncreated Immaculate Conception a surprise to you?
As St. Maximilian understands it, this uncreated Immaculate (holy, sinless) Conception
springs from the Father and the Son’s relationship with each other. How does this rela-
tionship among the Persons of the Trinity shed light on how they relate to humanity?
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4. Ephesians 3:14-15 says, “For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom
every family in heaven and on earth is named, that according to the riches of his glory he
may grant you to be strengthened with might through his Spirit … and that Christ may
dwell in your hearts through faith. …” The goal of our union with Christ is to share in
the very life of God, the Holy Trinity. As we consecrate ourselves to Mary and let her
guide us, how can her special relationship with the Holy Spirit and Christ help us share
more fully in the life of the Trinity?
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Unveil for me the meaning of the Immaculate Conception.
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Day 10
Who Are You, O Immaculate Conception? (Part Two)
1. We prayed for the unveiling of the meaning of the Immaculate Conception yesterday.
Why do we need the help of the Holy Spirit to understand the meaning of Mary’s
Immaculate Conception? Besides her being conceived sinless within St. Anne, what might
it mean? (Remember to pray to the Holy Spirit as you meditate on this.)
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2. Within the Trinity, God is Love, and God loves himself. How can we imitate this, and
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3. “Everything that is material occurs in time,” we read. Consider that, though we are
material, we are also spiritual, and our ultimate end is union with God. How do we
prepare for that eternal union with God in heaven? Mary was the one created human
being who lived that intimate union with God while still on earth. How can she help
us deepen our relationship to God through our consecration?
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4. Mary and the Holy Spirit are united in a very special relationship: She is his spouse.5
Today’s meditation suggests that this relationship may even be deeper than human
spousal relationships. How might Mary intercede with the Holy Spirit about issues of
modern marriage and the family: divorce, domestic violence, abortion, non-marital
unions, single parenthood? What might you ask of her regarding these modern spiritual
problems? Consider instances of them in your family and among your circle of friends.
Bring them all (the people and the situations) to Mary.
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Unveil for me the meaning of the Immaculate Conception.
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Day 11
The Immaculata Always Does God’s Will, Perfectly
1. We have prayed for the unveiling of the meaning of the Immaculate Conception and
gained some insights. John’s Book of Revelation, the last book of the Bible, is also called
the Apocalypse, or the “unveiling.” Read Revelation 12. What might John be revealing
in this chapter?
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2. The union of Mary, the created Immaculate Conception, and the Holy Spirit, the uncre-
ated Immaculate Conception, results in Mary’s doing God’s will always and perfectly!
Nice for her, but not for her alone: God wills for us to be perfect (“as your heavenly
Father is perfect,” Mt 5:48), and he wants her to lead us to perfection in his will. How
will Marian consecration change how you perceive — and do! — the will of God?
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3. The Incarnation of the Word and his Paschal mystery are the greatest events of history
and unique to the faith of Christians. The Incarnation, Passion, Death, and Resurrection
of Christ reconcile the world with God. Reflect on how we can give glory to God for
this great gift of salvation. Ponder Mary’s special role in our salvation. How will Marian
consecration help us give glory to God for this great gift?
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4. Saint Thomas Aquinas says all creation is in a circular motion from God and back to God.
Have you experienced this movement in miniature in your prayer and spiritual life? What
is usually the precursor of your feeling distant from God and then returning to him? What
do you ask of Mary to help you become closer to God for longer periods or more frequently?
(see CCC, nn. 2742-2745).6
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Renew the face of the earth, so that all creation may return to God.
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Day 12
To Be an Instrument – Rather, to Be Instruments
1. We ended yesterday’s meditations with a prayer for renewal, the renewal of the face of
the earth. What renewal events do we perform in ordinary life? Rest and relaxation on
vacations? Wedding anniversary trips or celebrations? Family reunions? How is Sunday
Liturgy a weekly renewal?
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2. All happiness, St. Maximilian says, is contained in the will of God in our lives. Mary
Immaculate chose freely and perfectly to let God’s will be done in her. In a list of things
you believe are God’s will for you at this point in your life, write a short request for help
from Mary in imitating her attitude of “fiat mihi” (“let it be done unto me”).
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3. Though we probably don’t see angels, we do receive “divine messengers,” St. Maxim-
ilian assures us. Can you recall some of the messages to which you said, “God’s will be
done”? What prompted your reluctance to accept God’s will in other instances?
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4. Mary is often invoked as “Mediatrix of Grace.” In other words, through her fervent
prayers, which are inspired by her motherly love for us, God is pleased to give us so many
graces. It didn’t have to be this way, but it was God’s good pleasure to give us a spiritual
mother through whose hands we receive grace. Mary’s motherly care for us in the order
of grace is depicted in the Miraculous Medal shown first to St. Catherine Labouré, where
rays of grace flow to the world through her hands. Which graces do you desire to come
from her hands to you, to your family and friends, to your country? 7
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Unite my will to the will of the Immaculata, which is one with your will.
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Day 13
Who Are You, O Holy Saints of God?
1. There are many kinds of instruments: musical instruments, kitchen utensils, implements
of war, garden tools. They are only as good as the person who knows how to use them.
It takes a great musician to make use of a Stradivarius violin in a concert. Mary will use
you as her instrument; you will become an instrument of her love for her children. In
writing, try to explain this being an “instrument of love” to someone and how important
this privilege is to you.
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3. Words like militia and knighthood appeal to men. They are “fighting words;” however,
how can this ideal of winning the world for the Immaculata be made appealing to a
wider audience, including teens and women, even children? Perhaps you don’t think it
even needs softening — your thoughts?
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4. Love and trust are always partners. Learning to love the Immaculata takes a great deal
of trust, which involves dependence on her intercession, letting ourselves be led by her,
accepting her direction, speaking our prayers to her directly from our hearts. What
experiences with trust, becoming dependent on someone and taking direction from
him or her, have you had in the past? Do you look forward to these experiences of
dependence on Mary?8
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Prepare me to be a fit instrument in the hands of the Immaculata.
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Day 14
Kolbe’s Prayer of Consecration
1. Preparing to be a fit instrument in the hands of the Immaculata, there are two key points
to remember: acceptance of the will of God and acceptance of the intercession of Mary
before God. Do we really believe that our Mother Mary will overcome everything? What
might be standing in the way of this trust?
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3. Kolbe expresses Marian consecration not as a gift of self for the sake of achieving “the
greater glory of God” (as does de Montfort) but rather as becoming an instrument in
the hands of Mary for the purpose of “extending the Kingdom of the most Sacred
Heart of Jesus.” Thus, his focus is this: Mary’s love of Jesus and her desire to lead all
men and women to the Merciful Heart of her Son. How much do you want to be
renewed and transformed by the Holy Spirit, through Mary’s powerful intercession,
for the sake of the kingdom? How much do you hesitate?
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4. “Take me with all that I am and have as your possession and property” is a radical gift,
but it is well worth it, because Mary will take you and all that you have and use it to give
great glory to God. Also, she’s such a gentle mother, so we don’t need to be afraid. List
what you will lay at the feet of Mary. Describe how you will wrap it as a gift (symbolically)
with your motivations and intentions for your total consecration to Jesus through Mary.
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Prepare me to give all to the Immaculata for the sake of the kingdom.
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1. Purity of Intention: “A person practices purity of intention when he directs his thoughts,
words, and actions not to himself or another creature but to a divine purpose or mission,
and ultimately to God.” Such an attitude of the heart avoids doing things for selfish
reasons and instead tries to do all things out of love for God and for his glory. Can you
give an example from your life of a situation in which you believe you acted with purity
of intention? What do you need from God (through Mary) to make this a regular virtue
in your life?
2. Saint Maximilian’s most important reflection on the mystery of the Immaculate Concep-
tion comes in a sudden burst of insight just two hours before his arrest by the Nazis. Have
you ever experienced a sudden or surprising understanding about a relationship with a
person or a lifelong question? Was it after or during prayer? How did it change you or
the situation?
3. Mary and the Holy Spirit are united in a very special relationship: She is his spouse.
Today’s meditation suggests that this relationship may even be deeper than human spousal
relationships. How might Mary intercede with the Holy Spirit about issues of modern
marriage and the family: divorce, domestic violence, abortion, non-marital unions, single
parenthood? What might you ask of her regarding these modern spiritual problems? Con-
sider instances of them in your family and among your circle of friends. Bring them all
(the people and the situations) to Mary.
4. Saint Thomas Aquinas says all creation is in a circular motion from God and back to
God. Have you experienced this movement in miniature in your prayer and spiritual
life? What is usually the precursor of your feeling distant from God and then returning
to him? What do you ask of Mary to help you become closer to God for longer periods
or more frequently?
5. Mary is often invoked as “Mediatrix of Grace.” In other words, through her fervent
prayers, which are inspired by her motherly love for us, God is pleased to give us so many
graces. It didn’t have to be this way, but it was God’s good pleasure to give us a spiritual
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mother through whose hands we receive grace. Mary’s motherly care for us in the order
of grace is depicted in the Miraculous Medal shown first to St. Catherine Labouré, where
rays of grace flow to the world through her hands. Which graces do you desire to come
from her hands to you, to your family and friends, to your country?
6. Love and trust are always partners. Learning to love the Immaculata takes a great deal
of trust, which involves dependence on her intercession, letting ourselves be led by her,
accepting her direction, speaking our prayers to her directly from our hearts. What
experiences with trust, becoming dependent on someone and taking direction from
him or her, have you had in the past? Do you look forward to these experiences of
dependence on Mary?
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7. “Take me with all that I am and have as your possession and property” is a radical gift,
but it is well worth it, because Mary will take you and all that you have and use it to give
great glory to God. Also, she’s such a gentle mother, so we don’t need to be afraid. List
what you will lay at the feet of Mary. Describe how you will wrap it as a gift (symbolically)
with your motivations and intentions for your total consecration to Jesus through Mary.
C. Petition
Individual petitions…
Response: Come, Holy Spirit, and help me. +
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thy intercession, was left unaided.” Of course, Mary doesn’t always help us exactly in the
way we expect, but she always comes to our aid when we call upon her. This week, as we
pray the Memorare prayer, let’s bring to Mary all of our needs and trust in her powerful
intercession just like so many saints did.
Memorare
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known, that anyone who
fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thy intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To thee do I
come, before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise
not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me. Amen.
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Day 15
Lover of the Heart of Jesus
[Each day this week, you will (1) read the appropriate day from 33 Days to Morning Glory, (2) pray the Memorare, and
(3) prayerfully answer the four corresponding questions in this Retreat Companion.]
1. What details of Mother Teresa’s spiritual growth and development stand out to you and
intrigue you? Why? Her First Holy Communion at five years old? Her burning thirst for
souls revealed to her at such an early age by Christ? Wanting to be a missionary? Her
acceptance of “terrible darkness” out of love for Jesus?
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2. Mother Teresa’s generosity eventually prompted her to promise Jesus that she would
refuse him nothing. In a sense, the Marian consecration that you’re preparing for is similar
to Mother Teresa’s promise. Everything of yours will belong to Mary who loves you and
brings you closer to the pierced Heart of Christ. Will you refuse her nothing? Recall that
Mary is not outdone in generosity. What does the Lord or his Mother say to you in prayer
about this?
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3. Mother Teresa experienced “terrible darkness” and loneliness after saying “yes” to Jesus.
She eventually discerned it to be a sharing in Jesus’ suffering and thirst on the Cross.
Participating in the suffering of Jesus’ Passion and Death is a common theme among
many saints’ writings. What about this is attractive to you? What about it is difficult or
even frightening for you?9
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4. Mother Teresa says, “[S]uffering has to come that came in the life of Our Lady, that came
in the life of Jesus — it has to come in our life also. … Suffering is a gift from God. It is
between you and Jesus alone inside.” Try to explain your understanding of this as a
Catholic Christian.
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Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Help me to find the love of the Heart of Jesus hidden in the darkness.
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Day 16
‘The Gift God Gave September 10th’
1. Mother Teresa says that we can’t last even one day without hearing Jesus speak to us of
his love for us. Otherwise, she says, prayer is dead and meditation “only thinking.” What
kind of prayer is your prayer? Do you set aside time for prayer or do you pray throughout
the day? Do you include some time to listen or to just sit quietly with Jesus? Is quiet help-
ful for you or do you just get fidgety? (See also CCC, Part Four, “Section One: Prayer in
The Christian Life,” nn. 2558-2758.)
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2. Be careful of things that block contact with Jesus, Mother Teresa warns. What are the
things that block you? Make a list of the interior things (worries, life’s past hurts, past
mistakes, or even forgiven sins) and the exterior things (grocery lists, errands, appoint-
ments, daily responsibilities — phone conversations!) that interfere with daily one-to-one
contact with the One who loves and longs for you eternally.
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3. What is it about you personally that Jesus thirsts for? Mother Teresa insists that this is
crucial to know Jesus’ will for you and what he wants to be for you. After you muse on
this for a few moments, record some thoughts:
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4. “Whenever we come close to Him — we become partners of Our Lady, St. John,
Magdalen. Hear Him. Hear your own name,” Mother Teresa tells us. What does your
name sound like when someone you love says it? What did Magdalen’s name sound like
when Jesus said it in the garden by the empty tomb? What does your name sound like
when Jesus says it?
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Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Help me to listen to Jesus’ thirst.
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Day 17
The Visions of 1947
1. Reread Mother Teresa’s three visions (pages 73-74 in 33 Days to Morning Glory). Pay
attention to Mary’s appearance and actions in the visions. With Mary’s help, what does
Teresa see? What does she hear? How does Mary comfort her? How does she support
her? Is there significance to Mary holding Teresa’s right arm?
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2. Why does Mary say, “Fear not” to Mother Teresa? Would this simple two-word sentence
be comforting to you, coming from Mary? Why or why not? What could she say to you
to allay your fears?
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3. Mary says the crowd that Mother Teresa sees belongs to her, “They are mine. Bring
them to Jesus.” What does this tell us about Mary’s view of us? What does it tell us
about how Mary sees what “belongs” to her? Does this change how you look at what
belongs to you or what you do with your belongings?
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4. John and Magdalen follow Jesus to Calvary out of personal love for the Savior. However,
also motivating them is their love for his Mother, who is suffering as well, though much
more than they. It is Mary who is by far the strongest of the three. What are her strengths,
interiorly and exteriorly, mentally and spiritually?
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Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Bring me face to face with the love in the Heart of Jesus crucified.
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Day 18
The Immaculate Heart of Mary
1. Exchanging hearts with Mary, even for a few moments, would have huge consequences
in our lives. Were we to see and feel with Mary’s own depth of love of God, we would
not forget it. What gifts from such an exchange would you desire? Compassion for others
as she experiences it? Love of the Divine Savior as wholehearted as hers? Depth of prayer
and mercy as she lives it? Something else? What are the reasons for your choices, as you
understand them?
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2. When we ask for Mary to lend us her Heart, we’re asking to share in her own inner life.
The human heart represents the spiritual reality of inner life and the dwelling place of the
Holy Spirit’s grace and love. This preparation for consecration includes a focus on your
inner life and relationship of love with the Holy Spirit. What is your relationship with the
Holy Spirit like now, and how will Mary’s Heart confirm and strengthen this relationship?
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3. Jesus chooses to come through Mary into history and to all humanity; he chooses to
come to you through Mary. Mary was with the Apostles in the Upper Room when the
Holy Spirit descended on the first Pentecost. The Holy Spirit also comes to us through
Mary.10 His graces set us afire for his mission in the world. What does it mean to have
our hearts “afire”? How do you feel about having your heart aflame with the love of
God, with the love of the Blessed Virgin? How will it change your conversations with
others and your actions?
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4. Praying to Mary with Mother Teresa’s words, “Keep me in your most pure heart,” focuses
you on being set apart for love through Mary. Your mission becomes loving with Mary’s
Heart, being set apart for her, for pleasing Jesus through her. What obstacles do you
perceive in your inner life that would prevent you from earnestly praying for this? How
do you think Mary will overcome these obstacles for you?
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Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Keep me in her most pure and Immaculate Heart.
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Day 19
Heart-Pondering Prayer
1. Are you practicing the daily examen (found in endnote n. 73 on pages 187-189 of 33
Days to Morning Glory)? Are you dwelling on daily blessings instead of daily annoyances,
daily opportunities instead of daily difficulties? What do you perceive as interferences with
the regular practice of the daily examen in your life? How can you incorporate it into your
bedtime regimen?
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2. An examen is basically a list. We make lists all the time: grocery, errands, Christmas and
birthday gift lists, books to read, appointments to keep. Make a new list right now: life
blessings you live with each day, prayers answered recently, family and friends praying for
you, and other instances that have brought God’s grace and direction to you.
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3. The retreat asks you to develop both a spiritual sensitivity and an attitude of gratitude.
In doing so, you will begin to imitate Mary and her pondering Heart. God is in all
things, in all your life’s happenings, all your prayers, all your relationships. List a few
events, relationships, and situations where you may not have been sensitive to or grateful
for God’s presence. Practice the pondering of Mary and find God there now.
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4. What’s the difference between a “laundry list of sins” and the examen? Do you think
Mary made lists? You might think of the Rosary as a list: Mary’s memories and sacred
moments she wants us to look at as if in a photo album. What pictures of you, your spouse
or children, or your friends might you want to put in a spiritual album to remember and
pray over? (For example: the First Holy Communion of a first child.)
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Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Help me to recognize and ponder in my heart all the good you do for me.
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Day 20
A Consecration Covenant
1. The seriousness of the consecration is compared, indeed almost equated with, the idea of
covenant. Giving your word is giving yourself, in Mother Teresa’s explanation. Covenant,
in biblical terms, makes you a member of the person’s family relationships. Imagine your-
self living with Mary in Nazareth. What would you talk about? How would you relate to
Jesus, her Son? What would change in your behavior, your demeanor? How would your
thoughts change?
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2. Looking at the chart on page 114 in 33 Days to Morning Glory, choose two of Mary’s
duties to you that you consider most important, ones that you believe will make you
secure in her care and bring you to high holiness. Explain what these two duties mean to
you and what they entail in so far as your daily life is concerned. What are you expecting
Mary to do, exactly?
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3. Choose two of your duties to Mary; ones that are significant to you or that you believe
will really challenge you (or help you) to remain focused on the glory of her Son alone.
What is the challenge (or help) that is embedded in those duties?
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Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Help me to ardently make a Covenant of Consecration with Mary.
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Day 21
‘Be the One’ (with Mary)
1. Mother Teresa urges you to “be the one” to console Jesus who thirsts for the love of the
souls he so desires to save. Mary is the one who best understands this thirst and the need
to comfort Jesus. Ask Mary, Mother Teresa says, to help you understand. What might
Mary say to you to help you better understand Jesus’ thirst?
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2. Mary is the best consoler of Jesus because she is the spouse of the Holy Spirit, who is also
called “the Consoler” and “the Comforter” (Jn 14:16, 26; 15:26; 16:7). What do these
titles of the Holy Spirit tell us about God’s relationship with us? What do they tell us
about Mary’s relationship to Jesus and to each of us — about her relationship to you?
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3. Jesus speaks in the Gospel of his longing to gather Jerusalem (Israel) as a hen gathers
her chicks under her wings — for comfort, but they wouldn’t accept it (see Luke 13:34).
What is so important about consolation that God the Holy Spirit names himself the
Consoler or Comforter? Whom do you console in your personal relationships? How
do you do it? Do any of those you seek to console refuse you; if so, how does it make
you feel?
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4. Mother Teresa describes the greatest evil as “lack of love and charity.” She and the
Missionaries of Charity put love of Jesus and of others first. Ask yourself: (a) Among
your personal acquaintances, who needs your love to avoid loneliness? (b) Who are
those nearest to you who need your love expressed to them? (c) How often do you
express your love of Jesus directly to him?
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Help me to “be the one” to console Jesus with Mary.
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1. Mother Teresa experienced “terrible darkness” and loneliness after saying “yes” to Jesus.
She eventually discerned it to be a sharing in Jesus’ suffering and thirst on the Cross. Par-
ticipating in the suffering of Jesus’ Passion and Death is a common theme among many
saints’ writings. What about this is attractive to you? What about it is difficult or even
frightening for you?
2. Be careful of things that block contact with Jesus, Mother Teresa warns. What are the
things that block you? Make a list of the interior things (worries, life’s past hurts, past
mistakes, or even forgiven sins) and the exterior things (grocery lists, errands, appoint-
ments, daily responsibilities — phone conversations!) that interfere with daily one-to-one
contact with the One who loves and longs for you eternally.
3. Reread Mother Teresa’s three visions (pages 73-74 in 33 Days to Morning Glory). Pay
attention to Mary’s appearance and actions in the visions. With Mary’s help, what does
Teresa see? What does she hear? How does Mary comfort her? How does she support
her? Is there significance to Mary holding Teresa’s right arm?
4. Praying to Mary with Mother Teresa’s words, “Keep me in your most pure heart,” focuses
you on being set apart for love through Mary. Your mission becomes loving with Mary’s
Heart, being set apart for her, for pleasing Jesus through her. What obstacles do you per-
ceive in your inner life that would prevent you from earnestly praying for this? How do
you think Mary will overcome these obstacles for you?
5. Are you practicing the daily examen (found in endnote n. 73 on pages 187-189 of 33
Days to Morning Glory)? Are you dwelling on daily blessings instead of daily annoyances,
daily opportunities instead of daily difficulties? What do you perceive as interferences with
the regular practice of the daily examen in your life? How can you incorporate it into your
bedtime regimen?
6. The seriousness of the consecration is compared, indeed almost equated with, the idea of
covenant. Giving your word is giving yourself, in Mother Teresa’s explanation. Covenant,
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in biblical terms, makes you a member of the person’s family relationships. Imagine your-
self living with Mary in Nazareth. What would you talk about? How would you relate to
Jesus, her Son? What would change in your behavior, your demeanor? How would your
thoughts change?
7. Mary is the best consoler of Jesus because she is the spouse of the Holy Spirit, who is also
called “the Consoler” and “the Comforter” (Jn 14:16, 26; 15:26; 16:7). What do these
titles of the Holy Spirit tell us about God’s relationship with us? What do they tell us
about Mary’s relationship to Jesus and to each of us — about her relationship to you?
Which of the seven days or pondering, prayerful responses most interested you, most
inspired your prayer, or moved you to meditation?
C. Petition
Individual petitions…
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Day 22
Mary’s Gift of Mercy
[Each day this week, you will (1) read the appropriate day from 33 Days to Morning Glory, (2) pray the Magnificat, and
(3) prayerfully answer the four corresponding questions in this Retreat Companion.]
1. In her visions at Fatima, Our Lady asked (first) for the consecration of Russia to her
Immaculate Heart and (second) for “First Saturday” communions of reparation.11 Can
you see the connection between these requests and your own consecration to Jesus
through the Immaculate Heart of Mary? Explain.
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2. The first apparition at Fatima and the shooting of Pope John Paul II in St. Peter’s Square
both occurred on May 13th at 5 p.m. John Paul II did not consider this a coincidence.
What is a coincidence anyway? Have you experienced any coincidences in your life? Do
you believe, as John Paul II did, that “in the designs of Providence, there are no mere
coincidences”? If so, what do you believe God is saying through such “God-incidences”
in your life? If not, what explanation do you give to others of the two instances being
similar in time, circumstances, or outcome?
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3. We read that Pope John Paul II solemnly entrusted the whole world to Mary’s
Immaculate Heart in 1984 and that the beginning of the collapse of communism in
Europe outwardly began five years later. We also read that the Pope solemnly entrusted
the world to Divine Mercy in 2002, saying that Divine Mercy would prepare the world
for the Lord’s final coming. (Of course, he gave no indication of when this will happen.)
Why is consecration/entrustment so important to John Paul II? How is your conse-
cration to Mary related to the consecration of the world to Mary and Divine Mercy?
How does your trust in Mary reflect your trust in the love and mercy of Jesus?
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4. Mary’s Magnificat is her personal response to the great mercy God bestowed on her.
Through your consecration to Jesus through Mary, you have the opportunity to participate
in her Magnificat by your praise of Jesus. Rewrite the Magnificat with your first name in
it in place of the references to Mary. (Of course, the line “all generations will call me
blessed” doesn’t exactly fit for us — except, perhaps, when we consider the great gift of
Marian consecration, which makes us especially blessed!) Give thanks for God’s mercy to
you personally.
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Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Have mercy on us and on the whole world!
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Day 23
Maternal Mediation
1. Mediators “stand between” persons or parties to bring unity and agreement. They speak
to each side, clarify issues, seek concessions, and urge acceptance from each. With whom
and in which relationships do you act as a mediator? Or do you avoid such a role, and if
so, why? Are you successful in these attempts to bring unity to two friends, co-workers,
or family members? What role does mercy or charity play in your mediation?
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2. Jesus wants Mary and all Christians to share in his mediation through “obedience, faith,
hope, and burning charity” (Lumen Gentium, 61). These four will be made easier and
secure through Marian consecration. Which of the four is most difficult for you now?
Which is easiest now? For whom or for what circumstances in your life are these virtues
of mediation most important?
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3. By this point in the preparation, we should realize Mary’s important, motherly role in
our spiritual lives, and what a gift it is to entrust ourselves to her. Why do you suppose
God has brought you, at this point in your life, to make or renew the consecration to
Jesus through Mary? What mediation between you and God might need the motherly
hand of Mary right now?
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4. Mary, through her maternal intercession, brings you grace and mercy and leads you to her
Son and the salvation he has won for us. What aspects of your life need her gifts of grace
and mercy right now? Ask her for those gifts.
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Closing Prayer:
Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Fill my heart with praise to God for giving Mary as my spiritual mother.
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Day 24
Mary’s Retreat (Day One)
1. As Pope John Paul II teaches, God the Father was the first to entrust himself to Mary,
giving her his own Son in the mystery of the Incarnation. What humility! The Creator
entrusts himself to his creature. And so, we, too, imitate the Son by humbly entrusting
ourselves to the care of the Mother of God. What is true humility? How humble are you?
What instances in your life can you cite as opportunities for the practice of humility? Were
you aware at the time that you needed to exercise humility?
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2. Mary’s motherly attentiveness to the details of the couple being married at Cana begins
Jesus’ public life with the miracle of the water become wine. The lack of wine has been
described as a symbol of the lack of joy in human life without God’s grace. What human
needs might Mary be attentive to and then bring to Jesus for his miraculous intervention
if she were invited to your home today?
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3. The attentiveness of Mary to the details of God in every experience allowed her to
accept each new dimension of her spiritual motherhood, her personal mediation within
the mediation of Christ. When has your attentiveness to detail given you insight into
what God wanted of you in a specific situation? How did the details become apparent
to you? Did you give thanks to God at the time for his gift of insight?
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4. When have you most powerfully experienced heart-pondering prayer during this prepa-
ration retreat for consecration to Jesus through Mary? What spiritual fruit or insight
has it produced in you? Has your love of Jesus grown? How can you tell?
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Closing Prayer:
Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Help me to be faithful to heart-pondering prayer, as was Mary.
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Day 25
Mary’s Retreat (Day Two)
1. Pope John Paul II in his Cana commentary points out three important aspects of Mary’s
“solicitude for human beings”: (1) Mary puts herself between her Son and mankind in
their needs; (2) Mary’s mediation for the couple is that of Mother,12 which is her right as
Mother of Jesus; (3) Mary desires to see the manifestation of Jesus’ mediation freeing
men and women from misfortune. How much do you desire Jesus’ mediation in present
world needs? How much do you want to see Jesus acknowledged as Mediator?
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2. Our recourse to Mary as Mother and Mediatrix will be made easier and more secure in
our personal consecration to Jesus through her, which is only days away now. What signs
have you had in prayer or insights or events that may have confirmed for you that God
desires your consecration to Jesus through Mary?
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3. Mary is “the spokeswoman of her Son’s will,” John Paul II writes. By your consecration,
you will enjoy an even deeper intimacy with Mary. So, after your consecration, what
situation or concern of yours will you ask Mary about first regarding Jesus’ will for you?
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Closing Prayer:
Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Remind me to ask for Mary’s powerful intercession in my times of need.
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Day 26
Mary’s Retreat (Day Three)
1. At the close of yesterday’s retreat with Mary, we prayed for the Holy Spirit to remind us
to ask for Mary’s powerful intercession. How do you remind yourself to run an errand,
call someone, or mail a letter? Whom do you ask to help you to remember ordinary, daily
things? Why choose those people or things like calendars, alarms, lists to remind us? Why
do you need to ask the Holy Spirit to remind you to ask for Mary’s help?
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2. According to John Paul II, the “new motherhood” of Mary “came to definitive maturity”
at the foot of the Cross, at that moment when she burns with love for all those for
whom Jesus suffered and died. What will be the grace that you need — what needs to
be conquered in you — for you to walk with Mary to Calvary and love more fully all
the souls that Jesus wants to save as he suffers? When will you ask for this grace? Now?
On Consecration Day?
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3. Christ appeared to his disciples after his Resurrection, and he most certainly appeared to
his Mother as well. He explained the Scriptures to his disciples on the way to Emmaus,
broke bread with them, and promised the Holy Spirit to remind the Apostles of all that
he taught them. What personal message might he have had for his Mother in his
unrecorded appearances to her, particularly about her role in his Church? Place yourself
there with Jesus and Mary. Ponder how the message he gives her might, at least in part,
be intended as well for those who are preparing to consecrate themselves to her. What
message from the risen Christ does Mary want to share with you personally?
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4. Mary’s motherly mediation between her Son and you personally is especially present when
you participate in the Sacraments, such as Reconciliation and the Eucharist. How will you
invoke Mary’s help and ask for her special motherly mediation in your life when you cele-
brate these two sacraments?13
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Closing Prayer:
Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Thank you for the gift of my loving Mother, Mary.
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Day 27
Marian Entrustment (Part One)
1. Where does Jesus ask us to take Mary in? You live in a physical house that has certain
characteristics. You have an inner “house” of heart and soul and prayer. And you have
family relationships that are a sort of “house” in which you live. How will Mary enter
more deeply into these houses through your upcoming consecration? By your consecra-
tion, you’re inviting her to move into all those places.
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2. Mary brings us to intimate communion with Jesus. She brings us into the “hidden life”
she lived in Nazareth with Jesus and Joseph. What did they talk about? How did they
pray? What would you want to ask Joseph or Mary about how Jesus grew up, what made
him laugh, what games he played, what chores he did? What insights might the answers
give you into how you should act, work, and pray?
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3. How do we take Mary into the physical house where we live? Does she affect the décor
of your home, how you entertain guests? Does she affect how you dress, speak, and act
toward others in your home? Write some new expectations for your home now that Mary
lives there.
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4. In entrusting John to Mary, Jesus expected Mary to “mother” John as well as to entrust
herself to his care and love. How will Mary mother you? She will be trusting you to care
for her — what will you do to care for her?
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Closing Prayer:
Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Prepare me to entrust myself completely to Mary so she can bring me closer to Christ.
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Day 28
Marian Entrustment (Part Two)
1. In the same homily that’s cited on pages 102-104 in 33 Days to Morning Glory, Pope
John Paul II says:
… “[H]e took her to his own home” can be taken in the literal sense as referring
to the place where he lived. Mary’s motherhood in our regard is manifested in
a particular way in the places where she meets us: … places in which a special
presence of the Mother is felt. There are many such dwelling places. They are
of all kinds: from a special corner in the home or little wayside shrines adorned
with an image of the Mother of God … .
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Have you thought about dedicating a small corner of your home or your garden to Mary?
Where would it be? Which is your favorite statue or image depicting Mary? How does it
express her mercy and God’s mercy?
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2. “Divine Love placing a limit on evil” is how Pope John Paul II defines the mercy of God.
Everyone carries around past and present evils in his life, from physical limits to mental
worries to sins of flesh and spirit. What limits on those evils (and the accompanying hope)
do you recognize as Divine Mercy in your life?
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3. John Paul II identifies the pierced Heart of Christ as the source of merciful love. At the
foot of the Cross, Mary was the nearest person to His Heart. Ask her to bring you to
that place at the foot of the Cross where she stood and accepted her motherhood of you.
Ask for her support as you climb there, and thank her in a short prayer. If you wish, you
may write that prayer here:
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4. “Jesus,” Pope John Paul II says, “consecrated himself for all mankind: ‘And for their sake
I consecrate myself, that they also may be consecrated in truth.’” You are about to unite
yourself to that consecration through your consecration to Jesus through Mary. Ask her
to enlighten you about your participation in Jesus’ mediation between God and the world.
What specific questions do you have about your prayer life, your suffering, your heart and
its readiness to love others?
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Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary.
Draw me in, with, and through Mary to the Fountain of Mercy.
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1. The first apparition at Fatima and the shooting of Pope John Paul II in St. Peter’s Square
both occurred on May 13th at 5 p.m. John Paul II did not consider this a coincidence.
What is a coincidence anyway? Have you experienced any coincidences in your life? Do
you believe, as John Paul II did, that “in the designs of Providence, there are no mere
coincidences”? If so, what do you believe God is saying through such “God-incidences”
in your life? If not, what explanation do you give to others of the two instances being
similar in time, circumstances, or outcome?
2. We read that Pope John Paul II solemnly entrusted the whole world to Mary’s Immac-
ulate Heart in 1984 and that the beginning of the collapse of communism in Europe
outwardly began five years later. We also read that the Pope solemnly entrusted the world
to Divine Mercy in 2002, saying that Divine Mercy would prepare the world for the
Lord’s final coming. (Of course, he gave no indication of when this will happen.) Why is
consecration/entrustment so important to John Paul II? How is your consecration to
Mary related to the consecration of the world to Mary and Divine Mercy? How does
your trust in Mary reflect your trust in the love and mercy of Jesus?
3. Mary’s motherly attentiveness to the details of the couple being married at Cana begins
Jesus’ public life with the miracle of the water become wine. The lack of wine has been
described as a symbol of the lack of joy in human life without God’s grace. What human
needs might Mary be attentive to and then bring to Jesus for his miraculous intervention
if she were invited to your home today?
4. Our recourse to Mary as Mother and Mediatrix will be made easier and more secure in
our personal consecration to Jesus through her, which is only days away now. What signs
have you had in prayer or insights or events that may have confirmed for you that God
desires your consecration to Jesus through Mary?
5. Christ appeared to his disciples after his Resurrection, and he most certainly appeared to
his Mother as well. He explained the Scriptures to the disciples on the way to Emmaus,
broke bread with them, and promised the Holy Spirit to remind the Apostles of all that
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he taught them. What personal message might he have had for his Mother in his
unrecorded appearances to her, particularly about her role in his Church? Place yourself
there with Jesus and Mary. Ponder how the message he gives her might, at least in part,
be intended as well for those who are consecrated to her. In that light, with Jesus present,
what might Mary share with you?
6. Where does Jesus ask us to take Mary in? You live in a physical house that has certain
characteristics. You have an inner “house” of heart and soul and prayer. And you have
family relationships that are a sort of “house” in which you live. How will Mary enter
more deeply into these houses through your upcoming consecration? By your consecra-
tion, you’re inviting her to move into all those places.
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7. “Divine Love placing a limit on evil” is how Pope John Paul II defines the mercy of God.
Everyone carries around past and present evils in his life, from physical limits to mental
worries to sins of flesh and spirit. What limits on those evils (and the accompanying hope)
do you recognize as Divine Mercy in your life?
C. Petition
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Retreat
Companion
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2015
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of the B.V.M. All rights reserved.
Available from:
Marian Helpers Center
Stockbridge, MA 01263
Prayerline: 1-800-804-3823
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www.marian.org
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Imprimi Potest:
Very Rev. Kazimierz Chwalek, MIC
Provincial Superior
The Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of Mercy Province
October 7, 2011
ISBN: 978-1-59614-252-7
Space is provided to record your thoughts and prayers and the fruits of your
pondering, and yes, even your final few questions, if you have any.
Prayer for the First Four Days: The “Three Words” Rosary
To help you ponder the three words for each saint, you might want to try meditating on
each of the three words as a decade of the Rosary. Here’s how it works:
1. Say the Word — for instance, the first word for St. Louis de Montfort is “Passion.”
2. Then pray:
Our Father
Hail Mary (10x)
Glory Be
O my Jesus, forgive us our sins, save us from the fires of hell, lead all souls to Heaven,
especially those in most need of Thy mercy
3. Say the next word, etc.
[Note: While saying the Hail Marys, meditate on how the word summarizes the teaching of the given saint or blessed.
Also, you don’t have to limit the meditation to just one decade for each word. You could do an entire “Rosary” just
meditating on one word.]
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Day 29
St. Louis de Montfort
Words to Ponder:
1. Passion
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Pray for us.
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Day 30
St. Maximilian Kolbe
Words to Ponder:
1. Mystery
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Pray for us.
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Day 31
Blessed Mother Teresa
Words to Ponder:
1. Thirst
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2. Heart
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Closing Prayer:
Blessed Mother Teresa.
Pray for us.
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Day 32
St. John Paul II
Words to Ponder:
1. Mother
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2. Entrust-acration
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3. Mercy
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Closing Prayer:
St. John Paul II.
Pray for us.
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Day 33
Putting It All Together
Words to Ponder:
Reflect on the words of the Morning Glory Consecration Prayer (page 137 in 33
Days to Morning Glory), or one from one of the saints or blessed (pages 137-138), or even
write your own prayer of consecration. Savor the words. Ponder their meaning in your
heart. Ask Mary to prepare you for the consecration. Write down your thoughts on this
last full day of preparation.
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Which of the five final days of reflection left you feeling the most prepared for the day of
Consecration and Morning Glory?
You pondered three “summary words” on the first four days and then the words of the
consecration prayer on the last day. Which word or words were the most meaningful to you
and why?
[For groups that make their consecration after this final meeting:] What decisions and plans
have you made for Consecration Day (people invited, food prepared, activities planned)?
What are you feeling as Consecration Day nears?
[For groups that have just made their Consecration:] Share your experience of the
Consecration Day
C. Petition
[Leader] + Come, Holy Spirit, living in Mary…
[Group response] Help us to give our all to Jesus through Mary on Consecration Day!
St. Louis de Montfort…
Pray for us.
St. Maximilian Kolbe…
Pray for us.
Blessed Mother Teresa…
Pray for us.
St. John Paul II…
Pray for us.
Individual petitions…
Response: Come, Holy Spirit, and help me. +
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1. Daily: Pray your consecration prayer, or at least a shortened form of it, daily.
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B. Relationship
Marian consecration is about establishing a deeper relationship with Mary, and like
all relationships, it takes work, especially the work of communication (prayer).
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C. Rosary
Three Reasons to Pray the Rosary
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First, make sure you read pages 123-134 in your consecration book, 33 Days to Morning
Glory, which includes the topics “before” and “after” the consecration. This present section is
not meant to be a substitute for those pages; rather, it’s meant to supplement the treatment in
your consecration book with information that will be helpful to those making the consecration
in groups.
Before Consecration
after the consecration ceremony, you might want to have a gathering where you’ll share
a meal or time together in celebration. This could be an occasion for inviting friends and
family. But for it to work, you’ll have to plan ahead, and that’s why we’re mentioning it
in the “before” section. Ideas for such a celebration can be found on our website
AllHeartsAfire.org.
After Consecration
C HJ AND STAGE TWO. After the consecration preparation is over, it’s very likely that
your group will want to get together again. Well, why not begin the next group
retreat program, Consoling the Heart of Jesus (CHJ)? This retreat is the second part of
Stage One of the Hearts Afire Program. And then you and your group can proceed to
Stage Two of the Hearts Afire Program: Wisdom & Works of Mercy. It features The ‘One
Thing’ Is Three Group Study and concludes with a program for works of mercy based on
the book ‘You Did It to Me.’ To learn more, visit AllHeartsAfire.org.
E XPAND YOUR GROUP EXPERIENCE. You can expand your experience of group conse-
cration beyond your own small group. Do this by frequently visiting the
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AllHeartsAfire.org website. The website is not just a resource for answering your ques-
tions, it’s also a place to share about your experience of living the consecration and to
read what others are saying.
ENDNOTES
1
A “novena” is typically a prayer or a series of prayers, offered for nine consecutive days, with a specific
intention. It originated in the nine days of prayer by the disciples and Mary between the Ascension of Christ
to the Father and Pentecost (the descent of the Holy Spirit upon the disciples and Mary in the Upper Room).
2
See the following link for a longer explanation of this painting:
campus.udayton.edu/mary/gallery/artists/angelus.html.
3
See pages 133-134 of 33 Days to Morning Glory for suggestions on further reading after your consecration.
4
CCC, 221, “… God’s very being is love. God himself is an eternal exchange of love, Father, Son, and
Holy Spirit, and he … destined us to share in that exchange.”
5
Regarding the relationship of Mary with the Holy Spirit, St. John Paul II states in Redemptoris Mater,
26:
We know that at the beginning of this journey Mary is present. We see her in the midst of the
Apostles in the Upper Room, “prayerfully imploring the gift of the Spirit.” In a sense her journey
of faith is longer. The Holy Spirit had already come down upon her, and she became his faithful
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spouse at the Annunciation, welcoming the Word of the true God, offering “the full submission
of intellect and will ... and freely assenting to the truth revealed by him,” indeed abandoning
herself totally to God through “the obedience of faith,” whereby she replied to the angel:
“Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.”
6
See CCC, 2742-2745, for an understanding of how love leads to prayer and opens our hearts to God’s
grace.
7
See page 169 in 33 Days to Morning Glory for more information on the miraculous medal and St. Catherine.
8
CCC, 2677, “… By entrusting ourselves to [Mary’s] … prayer, we abandon ourselves to the will of God
together with her: ‘Thy will be done.’”
9
See CCC, 618, which describes our participation in Christ’s sacrifice.
10
CCC, 725, “… through Mary, the Holy Spirit beings to bring men … into communion with Christ. And
the humble are always the first to accept him: shepherds, magi, Simeon and Anna, the bride and groom at
Cana, and the first disciples.”
11
Our Lady’s First Saturday requests and promises are explained in endnote 131 on page 194 in 33 Days to
Morning Glory.
12
See CCC, 2618, which teaches about Mary’s prayer and intercession.
13
Saint Louis de Montfort recommends asking Mary to come into our hearts and to help us receive the
Lord worthily when we go to receive him in Holy Communion. (See True Devotion to Mary, nn. 266-273.)
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Morning Glory Consecration Prayer
I, __________________________________, a repentant sinner, renew and ratify today in your
hands, O Immaculate Mother, the vows of my Baptism. I renounce Satan and resolve to follow
Jesus Christ even more closely than before.
Mary, I give you my heart. Please set it on fire with love for Jesus. Make it always attentive
to his burning thirst for love and for souls. Keep my heart in your most pure Heart
that I may love Jesus and the members of his Body with your own perfect love.
Mary, I entrust myself totally to you: my body and soul, my goods, both interior and
exterior, and even the value of all my good actions. Please make of me, of all that I am
and have, whatever most pleases you. Let me be a fit instrument in your immaculate
and merciful hands for bringing the greatest possible glory to God. If I fall, please
lead me back to Jesus. Wash me in the blood and water that flow from his pierced
side, and help me never to lose my trust in this fountain of love and mercy.
With you, O Immaculate Mother — you who always do the will of God —
I unite myself to the perfect consecration of Jesus as he offers himself
in the Spirit to the Father for the life of the world. Amen.
Date: _________________________
08/15/2017
Date: _________________________