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He
responds justly to what is wrong and offensive. But
He “takes no pleasure in the death of the wicked,
Understanding Anger rather that he should turn from his ways and live”
(Ezekiel 18:23). Human beings were intended to love
by David Powlison
the one who made and sustains them, whose “riches
Every human being deals with anger. In a world of of kindness, forbearance, and patience” all have expe-
disappointments, imperfections, miseries, and sins rienced (Romans 2:4). But “their adulterous hearts
(our own and others’), anger is a given. You get angry. turned away…and their eyes played the harlot after
I get angry. Those you counsel get angry. No doubt their idols” (Ezekiel 6:9). Is God’s anger unfair? When
that’s why the Bible comes packed with stories, teach- challenged, God’s response is straightforward: “Are
ings, and comments about anger: God intends us to My ways not right? Is it not your ways that are not
understand anger and to know how anger problems
can be resolved.
This article has three parts. “Understanding
Anger” will focus on how we think about anger. The You can’t understand God’s love
second and third parts, which will appear in future if you don’t understand His anger.
issues, will look at implications and how we counsel
angry people.
What is anger? How do we make sense of it? Let’s
begin with five general statements about something right?…I shall judge you according to your ways and
we often experience but seldom stop to understand. according to your deeds.”4
The crimes that arouse God’s wrath are capital
1. The Bible is About Anger crimes: betrayal, rebellion, deceit, blasphemous
The Bible is about anger. Who is the angriest per- beliefs. The human heart is treacherous; we desire to
son in the Bible? God. When God looks at evil, “His believe anything but what is really true about God.
anger does not turn away,” as Isaiah repeated over The feelings aroused in us when we hear someone
and over. In Romans, Paul mentions God’s anger and described by the word “traitor” give a hint of the rea-
its effects more than fifty times, beginning with, “The soning within God’s wrath. Human beings were
wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all intended to listen to God’s life-giving voice and to
ungodliness and unrighteousness of men” (Romans treat one another with love. But we have hearts of
1:18). John says that the wrath of God “abides” on stone. We are headstrong: “You are each one walking
whoever will not believe in the Son of God for mercy: according to the stubbornness of his own evil heart,
anger was, is, and will remain on their heads.1 without listening to Me”; “Everyone did what was
That God is angry tells us something very impor- right in his own eyes.”5 God would be less than good
tant. Anger can be utterly right, good, appropriate, if He did not hate such evils.
beautiful, the only fair response to something evil, God, of course, is also the most loving person in
and the loving response on behalf of evil’s victims. In the Bible, and the Son of God expresses the fullness of
fact, “it would be impossible for a moral being to His love. We often fail to see that God’s anger and love
stand in the presence of perceived wrong indifferent are entirely consistent with each other as different
and unmoved.”2 It is no surprise that Jesus Christ was expressions of His goodness and glory. The two work
filled with anger when He encountered people who together: “Jesus burned with anger against the
perverted the worship of God and contributed to or wrongs He met with in His journey through human
were calloused to the sufferings of others.3 life, as truly as He melted with pity at the sight of the
1John 3See,
3:36; cf. 3:14-21. e.g., Mark 3:5 and 10:14; Matthew 18:6f and 23:2-36;
2B.
B. Warfield, “The Emotional Life of Our Lord,” The Per- John 2:14-17.
son and Work of Christ (Philadelphia: Presbyterian & 4Ezekiel 18:29 and 24:14.
ing our sin, but by hating our sin in a way that we career. So do the Babylonians, Judas, and every other histor-
learn to love! The process is not always pleasant ical oppressor who has a moment in the sun. For example,
Babylon was a “golden cup [of wrath]” and a “shatterer” in
because suffering, reproof, guilt, and owning up don’t the hand of the Lord, an agent enacting just anger on the
feel good. But deliverance, mercy, encouragement, stage of history (Jeremiah 46:10; 51:7; 51:20-23). Five themes
crisscross through the discussions of Babylon by Isaiah, Jere-
miah, and Habakkuk. (1) Because God’s people sinned,
6Warfield,
p. 122. Babylon brought disciplinary anger—always leaving the
7A work
that will be completed when we see Jesus return on remnant whose faith was pure and purified through trouble.
the day of wrath. See, for example, Philippians 1:6; 1 Thes- (2) Because of godless human pride—“all mankind is stu-
salonians 5:23; 1 John 3:2. pid, devoid of knowledge” (Jeremiah 51:17)—Babylon
But those who are honest never become either stoic or self- 15Like “anger,” the word “love,” as used both in the Bible
righteous. Suffering prompts hurt and angry outcry; suffer- and in everyday speech, does duty for absolutely contradic-
ing prompts self-reflection that uncovers my own evil. tory things. We must press behind a word to get to the
Many psalms (cf. Habbakkuk) show that odd yet honest freight of meanings it bears. When definitions of terms get
Test #4: How controlled is your anger? by things that aren’t sin. They get angry over things that
Godly anger is emotion controlled by a purpose aren’t wrong, or over minor infractions of family rules and
imposed on us by the Lord God. It is consistent with customs. Their buttons are sinful. See Test #1. Some parents
“go ballistic” when either their sinful buttons or the legiti-
those fruits of the Spirit termed self-control, gentle- mate buttons are pushed. See Test #2. Some buttons were
ness, and patience. Ungodly anger is emotion con- left 98% pushed in from something that happened last
trolled by the impulses of our own hearts, and runs week, so parental anger is on a hair-trigger. See Test #3.