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OCTOBER 2018
oriented toward the gospel, moved away from
It's Reformation Sunday this the many, many roads down which our
month in Protestant circles, distracted, narcissistic minds can take us. The
which for us Lutherans means early inclusion and welcome of Gentiles; the
we're into the season of councils during which the doctrine of the Trinity
questioning the benefit of the was debated (sometimes heatedly); the
thing. One particularly well- establishment of a recognized Biblical canon for
stated article was written a few the sake of clarity and gospel proclamation;
years ago by ELCA pastor (and other reformers such as Wycliffe, Hus, Erasmus
Riverside Lutheran Bible Camp (yes, Luther’s great foe was himself sympathetic
staff alumnus) to some of Luther’s arguments for reform), and
Clint Schnekloth: many, many others; all of these moments can
As it stands, Reformation Sunday is the and should be considered when we celebrate
only Sunday of the entire church year Reformation Sunday. The Latin phrase ecclesia
that commemorates a moment in the reforma semper reformanda reminds us: the
history of Christianity rather than a church, reformed, is always reforming. The
moment in the narrative of Scripture world has changed much since 1517 - the church
itself. It is elevated and idealized must always seek the proper balance between
precisely because it is so unique. This holding to those things which are eternal and
needs to stop. those things which meet the age where it lives.
Clint is absolutely right. Reformation Sunday It's been well documented that Luther was
shouldn't be a celebration of one moment in the horrified when he heard people referring to
history of Christianity. But I would argue that themselves as "Lutherans." "I ask that my name
we should change how we celebrate Reformation be left silent and people not call themselves
Sunday rather than bury it, as Clint has Lutheran, but rather Christians. Who is Luther?
recommended. The doctrine is not mine. I have been crucified
for no one," said the good Doctor (1522,
Why? Because it's not THE Reformation Admonition Against Insurrection). You could
Sunday. True, we've set our liturgical calendar take this argument and add it to the list of
to commemorate the date on which Brother reasons to bury Reformation Sunday. But to do
Martin posted his 95 theses for public so would also be to hide the reasons FOR
consideration (a mythological occurrence which celebration: those times when the Spirit has led
is historically questionable and overly the church, usually kicking and screaming, into a
dramatized in most tellings). However, one new reality. It's possible we are experiencing
could (and I believe should) point out that there such a time right now, and if so, we should give
have been moments like this throughout the thanks and celebrate that the Spirit continues to
church's history, all of which are worthy of being work in such fractured vessels as our beloved
called reformation moments, moments where the church.
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OCTOBER IS
CLERGY APPRECIATION MONTH!
Please take a moment in prayer for Pastor Scott
and Kristin and to express your appreciation for
their hard work and dedication to St. Petri.
Your encouragement means a lot!
Thank you Pastor Scott and Kristin
Hospitalized in September for choosing to serve the Lord!
Deaths
Les Mathre –(Doris Mathre’s husband,
Cheryl Hoffman, Diane Larson &
Larry Mathre’s father)
Bob Severson -(Gloria Severson’s son,
Mary Peterson’s brother,
Jacob Severson’s father,
Seth Hill’s step-father)
Ongoing Prayer Concerns
Gloria Severson Charlotte Hill Jim Phillips
Arlene Jacobson Kay Disbrowe Dennis Sills
Cooper Leeman WELCA Report
Missionaries Patrick & Jacqueline Bencke
Those in military service October 11 2:00pm WELCA Circle
October 14 Quilt Sunday
October 20 Quilt shipping
October 29-31 9am-noon Quilt Making
QUILT SUNDAY
Thank you to all who helped with the St. Petri OCTOBER 14
Senior Citizen Luncheon (75 years & older)
which was held on September 28th. It was a St. Petri will dedicate
great time for all! quilts that will be sent
---------------------- around the globe.
Thank you to everyone who stepped up and
helped the CARE group serve St. Petri during The quilts, also, go to those in need locally
September. So many willing hands made including to those at the Beloit Residential
accomplishing all of the jobs an easy task. Treatment Center and Bremwood.
--------------------- There are special envelopes in each pew for
Thank you to all who stepped up & volunteered donations to help defray shipping costs ($2.25
to serve Wednesday Senior Citizen Luncheons at per quilt) or you can make a contribution at
the Story City Community Center. any time, just make sure it is marked "quilt
shipping." Thank you in advance for your
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generosity - it is greatly appreciated!
Thank you to anyone who helped at Les Mathre’s **Come join the quilters in this mission 9am-
funeral. His family appreciated it very much! noon on the last Monday – Wednesday of each
------------------------------ month and enjoy fellowship, fun and food, as
well. Everyone is welcome!
OCTOBER BIRTHDAYS OCTOBER C.A.R.E. GROUP 2018
CARE Group Leaders
Oct. 1: Tim Patterson Cheryl Hoffman, Wanda Holm
Oct. 2: Ben Knutson, Margaret Peter, Cory & Jaye Anderson Hailey Anderson
Dave Wheeler Zach Anderson Doug & Kendra Braucher
Oct. 3: Marlene Helling Ben Chelsvig Irene Chelsvig
Oct. 4: Marissa Heers, Scott Ihle, Angie Roling, Joe & Kim Chelsvig Mark & Susan Clarridge
Jacob Van Brocklin Spencer Clarridge Mickie Franklin
Verlyn & Barb Frohling Vivian Gossel
Oct. 5: Noah Halsey
Ray & Donna Guard Charlotte Hill
Oct. 6: Verlyn Frohling, Marilyn Kolbe Paul Hjortsvang Ron Hoffman
Oct. 7: Ella Braucher, Austin Hobbs Al Holm Darrel & Mary Ellen Hubby
Oct. 10: Karsyn Lande, Diane Larson Scott Ihle Ordean & Liz Johnson
Oct. 12: Seth Hill, Jason Patterson Marilyn Lekwa David Murken
Oct. 13: Logan Andersen Pat & Mari Jo Murken Jim & Karen Nelson
Oct. 14: Spencer Peterson Curt & Deb Olive Alberta Olson
Jason Patterson Kevin & Peg Patterson
Oct. 16: King Brown
Tim & Abby Patterson John Satre
Oct. 18: Kay Disbrowe, Mary Nannenga Gloria Severson Jake Severson
Oct. 21: Jill Anderson, Wyatt Peterson Dave & Gail Sporleder Scott & Shelly Stevenson
Oct. 22: Hayden Gossel Zac Thiessen Gayla Thompson
Oct. 23: Kris Foss, Sawyer Hjortsvang Ted Tostlebe & Marilyn Hanson
Oct. 24: Carin Gossel, Betty Grinde
Oct. 25: Willow Hill, Kara Patterson
Oct. 26: Kole Knutson
OUR MISSION:
Oct. 27: Lorna Hoversten, Lisa Kalamaja, We are Disciples of Jesus Christ,
Diana Keech called to grow in Christ
Oct. 29: Charlotte Hill, Angie Stover, and to invite all to follow him.
Andrea Williams
Oct. 30: Ana Cruz
Oct. 31: Mary Wynia NOVEMBER C.A.R.E. GROUP 2018
CARE Group Leaders
Betty Grinde, Patty Hoversten
Lorene Anderson Audrey Bauer
Duaine Bostwick Garrett & Riya Brown
Grant & Joni Brown Gary & Hope Brown
John & Nancy Carlson Bev Christenson
John & Linda Fevold Kiersten Fevold
Michaella Fevold Carl & Evelyn Fink
Clark & Betty Grinde John Grinde
Erik & Lara Gustafson Megan Gustafson
Seth & Willow Hill Sawyer Hjortsvang
Jennifer Holdredge Paul & Karen Jacobson
Lisa Kalamaja Ben Knutson
St. Petri’s 29th Annual Turkey Supper Adam & Jane Lande Lowell & Becki Lande
Matthew Lande Robert & Maxine Lekwa
October 20th from 5-7 p.m. Brent McCaskey Jody & Roxane McCaskey
Menu: Roast turkey, dressing, corn, potatoes Weston McCaskey Mark & Pat Minnick
Janet Mitchell Janet Mortvedt
& gravy, coleslaw, cranberry relish, rolls, Paul Ness Randy & Kelsey Olson
homemade pie, assorted beverages James & Connie Phillips Howard Reisetter
Carry-out available at the north door Sheri Severson Shirley Stakey
Adults $12; 5-12 yr. olds $5; under 5 Free Rick & Angie Stover Chuck & Patty Van Patter
Paul & Heidi Vanden Hull Tim and Judy Watson
Wayne Williams
UPCOMING EVENTS
October is Clergy Appreciation Month
Sunday, Oct. 14 Quilt Sunday
Sunday, Oct. 20 Turkey Supper
Sunday, Oct. 28 Reformation Sunday
UPCOMING EVENTS IN NOVEMBER
Sundays in November -St. Petri to assist
Bethany residents to Sunday worship
Nov. 4 Daylight Savings Time Ends
Nov. 11 WELCA Thankoffering Sunday “Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his
Nov. 21 Thanksgiving Eve Service at benefits, who forgives all your iniquity, who heals
Immanuel all your diseases, who redeems your life from the
Nov. 22 Thanksgiving Day pit, who crowns you with steadfast love and mercy,
Nov. 22, 23 Office Closed who satisfies you with good so that your youth is
Nov. 26-28 LWR Quilt Making renewed like the eagle’s.” Psalm 103:2-5 ESV
~ another version ~
“With all my heart I praise the Lord! I will never
forget how kind he has been. The Lord forgives our
sins, heals us when we are sick, and protects us
from death. His kindness and love are a crown on
our heads. Each day that we live, he provides for
our needs and gives us the strength of a young
eagle”. Psalm 103:2-5 CEV
St. Petri will be volunteering at Bethany Manor
for the month of November. We will be assisting
residents to chapel on Sunday morning.
If you would like to help, there is a sign-up sheet Seven days
on the table outside the church office. without prayer
We will need 4-6 people per Sunday. Please makes one weak!
arrive at Bethany Manor by 9:20 am.
Please contact
the church office
at 733-4623 or
Attention:
Confirmation Youth
8th—9th Graders and their
parents
Time: 6-7:30pm
October 7th at St. Petri
October 21st at Bergen
You can expect skits, puppets, hearing God’s word, learning some sign language
and even doing projects with your hands. There’s something for EVERYONE.
**Please note that the Sunday following your class, the children/youth will share in worship what
they learned in their class. So mark those Sunday's down as well.
From the desk of Kristin Johnson
I read an article by the author and psychologist Lisa Damur and I thought she offered some great
insight into this topic about parents wanting to ‘snoop’ on their teenagers. Below is this article.
Is Snooping on Teenagers Ever O.K.? By Lisa Damour
Adolescence comes with a thorny problem: Teenagers suddenly yearn for privacy just when their
lives are expanding to include a range of risky new opportunities.
Whether or not they have something worrisome to hide, normally developing tweens often start to
shut their bedroom doors and become cagey about their time online. And when teenagers act aloof,
their parents often feel tempted, if not duty bound, to secretly search bedrooms and surreptitiously
scan online activity to ensure that their child isn’t engaged with drugs, drinking or digital misdeeds.
Spying on teenagers, which most parents don’t actually do, belongs to the category of parenting
tactics with which I deeply empathize and almost always counsel against.
For starters, there are potential legal complexities. “Parents have the right to surveil their own
children,” noted Avidan Cover, an associate law professor at Case Western Reserve University, “but
those rights don’t always extend to other children or adults. They can get into murky legal territory if
they find themselves surveilling other participants in a conversation.”
Then there’s an obvious problem shared by spies at every level: At what point do you reveal that
you have been spying? Some parents might willingly blow their own cover, hoping that the potential
boost to their teenager’s safety will outweigh the inevitable loss of their teenager’s trust. Others
might maintain their surveillance, trying not to get caught while they continue to collect data. Both
are precarious positions.
Helpfully, recent research calls into question the utility of snooping and suggests better approaches
for parents who are concerned that something might be amiss.
Adults who suspect their adolescent is up to something may feel compelled to cross privacy
boundaries, but research on Dutch families found that the teenagers of prying parents weren’t
misbehaving any more than those whose parents didn’t snoop. Notably, the same study instead
linked parents’ snooping to their worries about the strength of their relationship with their teenager.
According to Skyler Hawk, the study’s lead author and an assistant professor at the Chinese
University of Hong Kong, “the act of snooping seems to say more about what the parents are feeling
than what their kids are doing.”
For parents who find themselves fretting about their connection to their teenagers, a new study in
the Journal of Adolescence suggests that snooping is unlikely to make things better. A survey of 455
adolescents found that teenagers who believed their parents had secretly listened in on their
conversations or searched through their possessions without permission shared less information
with their folks than teenagers who felt their parents respected appropriate boundaries. This result
lines up with another study finding that parental snooping may trigger or perpetuate a cycle in which
adolescents become more and more furtive at home.
“When parents engage in behaviors that teenagers see as privacy invasions,” Dr. Hawk said, “it
backfires because parents end up knowing less.”
So, if parents suspect that their teenager might be in trouble, what should they do?
The prevailing wisdom suggests a straightforward solution: Start by asking. Though teenagers are
usually tight-lipped about topics they deem personal, such as how they spend their free time or
allowance, research on parent-adolescent communication shows that teenagers believe their
parents do have the right to know about choices that might be unhealthy or unsafe, such as smoking
or drinking.
However, according to Judith Smetana, a professor of psychology at the University of Rochester,
“This finding comes with a twist: If kids are already involved in risky behavior, they tend not to tell
their parents.” In such situations, teenagers said they feared that their parents would respond with
disapproval, punishment or both. Accordingly, Dr. Smetana suggests that we might preface our
questions about risky behavior with the reassurance that, “We’re not going to get mad and you’re
not going to get in trouble. We just want to know that you are O.K.”
If things are not O.K. — perhaps the teenager owns up to harrowing weekend activities — at least
the problem is out in the open and the parents have made clear their stance of aiming to shield the
adolescent from harm rather than dish out discipline. And parents of teenagers should settle in for
some ongoing negotiations. Even when all is well, parents and teenagers routinely disagree about
what should be considered private.
“Adolescents consistently think that they should have more autonomy than their parents think they
should have,” Dr. Smetana said. “And just when parents have worked one thing through,” she adds,
“they will find that there’s a new topic to hash out because teenagers’ autonomy is always
increasing.”
As Dr. Hawk advises parents, “Keep in mind that you are not going to get past adolescence without
having some kind of conflict about privacy.” To that I would add that raising teenagers invariably
comes with a measure of anxiety, especially when children who used to share themselves with us
warmly and freely come to seem distant or inscrutable.
If that anxiety becomes overwhelming and our efforts to communicate fail to bring clarity, might
snooping ever be warranted? According to Dr. Hawk, “If done at all, it should be reserved for
extreme circumstances when there is really no other recourse. And parents should be prepared for
adolescents to react very negatively, regardless of what is found.”
The impulse to snoop, like every other questionable parenting choice, almost always comes from a
loving and protective place. Rather than giving into it too quickly, though, we might treat the urge to
spy as a reminder to reflect on where we stand with our teenagers. Do we trust them, and do they
trust us? If not, what steps could we take to arrive at a heartfelt yes? .
Cross+Generational
Trunk-or-Treat Night
Join us on Sunday, Oct 28th for an evening of fun, food
and candy! Potluck supper begins at 5:30pm. We’ll then
head to the parking lot around 6pm trick-or-treat from
trunk to trunk. We hope ALL ages can join in the fun!
This year the Endowment Committee gifted the Youth
Ministry Program with money for special items and
programing. With this money we have been able to:
Purchase school
supplies for
children in our
community: our
Summer Stretch
youth put the
supplies
together.
Purchased 2
basketball hoops
for our parking lot
(with the help of
Chuck Egemo’s
Memorial too)
Future
Purchase of
Angle Tree
gifts for
children
in our
community