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Klaus Koeppe
KNOWLEDGE OF DREAMS
A guide to gaining confidence in your dreams
Berlin 2005
Acknowlegements
I would like to thank all those people who kindly agreed to let me use their
dreams as examples in this book. The abundance of dream material was
instrumental in describing the richness of the subject.
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Contents
Bibliography
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PREFACE
To my readers,
This book is the result of a seminar, so I would like to speak to you personally,
dear reader. Writing a book means my being in touch with you when you read
these lines. I have written this book so that you might gain the confidence to
believe in your dreams and, through them, to find yourself. They show up our
true problems, desires and longings and also our deep knowledge about our
selves and reality. A dream can be a remarkable revelation of the essence of
life and an entry into understanding reality. Dreams, I believe, support and
counsel us in our life.
Our view of the world today is rather limited in terms of emotion and
philosophy. We are dominated by the sciences which have given us a
multitude of technological advances, such as telephones, aircraft, computers,
the pharmaceutical industry and all its new medicines and even the cloning of
living creatures, to list just a few. Most of us are not at all conscious of the
extent to which our thoughts, emotions and actions are governed by the rules
of the natural sciences. In my experience, most people are far removed from
their own intuition and would prefer by far to trust some scientific study rather
than their own feelings. Since the end of the Middle Ages our western culture
has become sceptical about anything emotional. As a result, little or no
significance has been attributed to dreams. They are regarded as a bit of fluff.
But there are exceptions, such as you, dear reader, for whom I have written
this book.
It will be clear from the above that I make no claim in this book to scientific
evidence- which is not a disadvantage in my opinion- because I only wish to
describe an alternative approach to dreams. I shall not argue a case nor
present scientific experiments. I shall, however, draw on the rich source of my
own and other people‟s experiences. I shall not follow any particular school of
thought, but rather, I shall take on board and learn from all kinds of ideas,
theories, viewpoints and experiences. I am confident that you, dear reader,
will be able to decide yourself what you think is true or untrue.
I would like to help you to believe the messages and the meaning of your
dreams. I would like to equip you with the necessary confidence and basic
knowledge to enable you to interpret and understand your dreams yourself.
You will need to expand your outlook on the world to get closer to your
dreams and free yourself from the strictures of materialism and natural
science. The reality of dreams cannot be contained. You need courage to
pass beyond the confines of your own intellect and follow the phenomenon of
your dream.
Your dream belongs to you, it is probably the most intimate and personal thing
you have. Your personality produces the dream, it is your very own product.
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This means that you are its key. My confidence in dreams lies in this simple
truth. Just as your thirst requires you to slake it, your dream requires you to
interpret and understand it yourself. Why else would you dream? You have
legs in order to walk on your own. So you have dreams in order to understand
yourself better. Basically, everyone has been created with the capacity to
interpret and comprehend his or her own dreams, given the wish to do so.
The single most important condition for the interpretation of your dreams is to
be internally prepared to confront yourself. You need to be utterly honest and
open with yourself. The biggest help in interpreting dreams is self-criticism.
Wanting to deny or disregard disagreeable things is a comprehensible human
trait. The more we resist looking honestly at our selves and our problems, the
harder it is to interpret our dreams. Consequently, our own mental attitude
determines whether the interpretation is going to be laborious and possibly
useless or on the contrary, an interesting and illuminating process.
For me, the interpretation of dreams is one of the most exciting adventures
that we can still experience today. Just as Jules Verne aspired to voyage to
the interior of the earth, we can travel in our dream to the interior of our being
and delve even further.
This book is meant to challenge your outlook on life, expand it and perhaps
explode it. I therefore beg you to open yourself up to the multiplicity of reality.
Most people are afraid of expanding their concept of the world. They need
their security. But they will soon realise that this kind of security is only an
illusion. The more you know about yourself, life and reality, the more secure
you will feel.
So, I welcome you on this exciting and interesting trip into your self!
In order to open your mind to the dimension of dreams, I have written the text
on the next page, and I would recommend that you read it out loud a few
times so that you get a clear idea of its meaning.
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Dreams are like an enormous sea from which single drops of individual
consciousness splash out momentarily, only to fall back into the all-
encompassing sea of dreams.
But before our physical existence, we were but a dream- and nothing
more- and after our life we will again become a dream. Our Creator
“dreams” us up.
Our daytime consciousness does not last. But the dream endures
because we are “dreamt “ up by God.
That is why we should value, respect, cultivate and care for dreams.
I.
“For God speaketh once, yea twice, yet man perceiveth it not.
In a dream, in a vision of the night, when deep sleep falleth upon men,in
slumberings upon the bed;
Then he openeth the ears of men, and sealeth their instruction,
That he may withdraw man from his purpose, and hide pride from man.
He keepeth back his soul from the pit, and his life from perishing by the
sword.” 1
Legend tells us that King Clovis of the Franks (466-511) saw a Christian cross
in a dream before an important battle and had it painted on all the shields of
his soldiers. He won the battle and then –partly under the influence of his
Christian wife- he had himself baptised and converted to Christianity.
The history of mankind is full of such dream experiences. People have always
interpreted dreams and ascribed to them significant if enigmatic messages
from another dimension.
Dreams were always embedded in the prevailing outlook on the world. Their
meaning was and is always closely connected to the times and the
circumstances of the dreamer. This is of course still true today.
In modern dream interpretation, it is our concept of man and our basic ideas
of human personality that heavily influence our interpretation.
1
The Bible. Book of Job 33 14-18
2
The Bible. Book of Daniel, chapter two
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3
Reminiscences of Professor Sigmund Freud/ 1942 : quote : Freud Essays III, 531
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The revolutionary aspect of Freud‟s interpretation of dreams lay not only in the
central position given to sexuality-which was scandalous to society of the
time- but also in the chief idea that every dream made sense, contained a
message and needed to be treated seriously. The many examples cited by
Freud, combined with his therapeutic successes bore out his theory. Starting
from the conviction that in essence all dreams are a means of fulfilling desire,
he divided them into three classes:
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“The dream is the (disguised) fulfilment of a (suppressed or repressed) wish.” Interpretation of
Dreams, 111
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Thirdly, dreams that although they portray a repressed desire, they are
without disguise or only have partial disguise. These dreams are regularly
accompanied by fear that interrupts the dream. Fear becomes a substitute for
a distortion of the dream; although fear was likewise present in dreams of the
second type, the dream works through it and dispels it. It is not too difficult to
prove that the content of our imagination that gave rise to fear in the dream,
was originally a desire that has been repressed.” 5
Freud‟s image of man‟s personality is inseparable from his dream theory. His
interpretation of spiritual connections still provides the basis today for all
modern systems of psychology, albeit with a few alterations. This connection
between the image of man and the interpretation of dreams seems vitally
important to me, because we can only extract a meaning from that which we
have previously put in. The image of man is the framework within which
dreams can speak to us. By conducting research, we humans are creating the
conditions for dreams to speak to us and by the same token, for reality to be
perceived in all its forms. So, I should like briefly to sketch Freud‟s vision of
man‟s personality, without making any claim to being complete.
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“About dreams” (1901) Quote from: Sigmund Freud: I. S.96
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Standing opposite the „id‟ is the „ego‟, which governs the relationship with the
outside world and is therefore the actual carrier of culture but also negotiates
relationship with the „id‟, the strong and dark urges. Freud distinguishes
between the conscious and the pre-conscious ego. What our experience calls
our consciousness is that part of the ego that is open to the outside
world and conveys our external perceptions to the interior. Because Freud
sees the id as the defining, primary power of human beings, he imagines that
the ego develops out of the id like an outer layer and functions as its
connection to the outside world.
The conscious ego is that part of the id “which is modified by the proximity and
influence of the outside world, to absorb and protect against irritants in the
same way as a layer of skin or rind envelops a fruit or any living substance.
The ego must take on the task of relating to the outside world and of
representing the id in a salutary way, because the id, in its blind urge for
gratification, would discount the overwhelming power of the external world and
incur its own destruction.”7. The ego sets the reality principle against the
pleasure principle of the id. So, although it opposes the id, it ensures its very
existence. In other words, if we humans followed our blind, chaotic, base
instincts, we would not last. But by acknowledging the constraints of reality
through our ego, we create the conditions for our continued existence.
The ego represents reason, thoughtfulness and adult self-governance,
whereas the id represents untamed passions, instincts and desires. The
conflict between the ego and the id causes repressions. Desires and urges
emanating from the unconscious id are repressed by the ego and, conversely,
issues pertaining to the ego are pushed into the id. In order to explain the
mechanism of repression more clearly, Freud introduces a further
psychological component which he bases on the phenomenon of the
conscience. This means that the ego has the capacity to look at itself morally
and to be its own judge. Freud calls this internal and totally conscious
component the superego. The conscience is the main function of the
superego, with its own energy and relative independence. Basically, the
superego emerges from parental love. Every child learns quickly what kind of
behaviour receives love and what kind of behaviour receives criticism,
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Lecture: Die Zerlegung der psychischen Persoenlichkeit. 1932, Essays III, 350 ff. Freud writes about the id,
saying: “ The id is filled with energy derived from urges, but it has no organisation, it has no will power and is
fuelled solely by the aspiration to satisfy its instinctual needs and thereby to follow the pleasure principle. The
laws of logic do not apply to the processes within the id nor can it deal with the notion of contradiction. Opposing
emotions exist beside each other without cancelling each other out or differentiating themselves from each other…
There is nothing in the id that corresponds to the concept of time…It goes without saying, that the id has no value
judgment, it recognises neither good nor evil, it has no morals.”
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Freud, op.cit. 352 f
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The ego has a very difficult position between three elements: the instinctual
and powerful id, the critical and moralistic superego and the outside world.
“Pushed by the id, constrained by the superego and repulsed by reality, the
ego has the difficult task of creating harmony between diverse powers and
influences..”9
In Freud‟s complex view of the human personality, the ego and superego are
not consciously identical. Both are in fact mostly unconscious. But the
boundaries are fluid. Freud calls this fluid, dynamic part where unconscious
and conscious elements of personality meet, a system of pre-consciousness.
The superego is mainly pre-conscious, which means that it is capable of being
conscious. A person can make himself conscious of the precepts received
from his parents, if he wishes to do so. Likewise, only a small part of our ego
is fully conscious whereas the greater part is pre-conscious and in close
contact with our unconscious id.
According to Freud, life in our human soul takes place in this complex and
dynamic system of ego, superego and id. His intensive work on dreams
enabled him to advance his theory because it revealed the censorship that
exists between the unconscious and the conscious.
Problems and desires are repressed into the unconscious but they try to
regain the attention of the consciousness through dreams. For Freud, the
superego is the instigator of repression. In order that these unconscious
desires may resurface in the conscious, they are disguised, disfigured and
encoded in the working of the dream. Images and symbols disguise the true
but unconscious object of desire in order that the encoded and unconscious
desire may by-pass censorship and resurface in the ego through dreams.
Sigmund Freud was the pioneer and father of the modern interpretation of
dreams. He had the courage during a time of materialism to discover dreams
as a prime phenomenon enabling access to the human psyche.
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Freud,op.cit. 338
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op.cit. 356
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This quote says a lot about the difference between these two men. Jung felt
that Freud always looked down on him. He rebelled against him like a teenage
son against his father. The final break between the two great psychologists
happened in January 1913 after Jung sent Freud a letter dated December
1912, saying among other things:
“I would like to draw your attention to the fact that treating your pupils as
though they were your patients is a mistaken technique. What you are doing is
turning them into slavish sons or naughty boys… I am sufficiently objective to
see through your trick. You establish proof of symptoms in the actions around
you, and you thus reduce the people around you to the level of sons or
daughters who blushingly admit to the existence of guilty tendencies.
Meanwhile you keep your elevated position as father. No one then has the
temerity to question the prophet and to ask you what you would say to a
patient who might dare to analyse the analyst instead of himself. You would
of course ask him: „Who is suffering from the neurosis here, you or me?‟” 12
After this blunt and open criticism, the break was final. Jung now followed his
own path delving deeper into the functions of the mind and soul of man.
Jung‟s main criticism of Freud was his antagonism towards spirituality. Jung
himself was not just an intellectual but also a deeply spiritual man, who
brought this aspect into his interpretation of mankind. Deep in his heart, Freud
was frightened of the id, the unconscious and its urges, and his method of
analysis basically served to dominate and control the unconscious and hence
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Freud, Essays III,536
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op.cit.. 536 f
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to provide safety for the ego,13 whereas Jung‟s research was much more
orientated towards a kind of reconciliation. Jung had a more positive image of
the human unconscious. Jung contended, “in addition to memories from a
distant conscious past, totally new thoughts and creative ideas can spring out
of the unconscious – thoughts and ideas which were never conscious before.
They sprout from the dark depths of the spirit like lotus flowers and become
an enormously important part of the unconscious psyche.”14
The depths of the human soul were not as destructive for Jung as for Freud.
Culture and nature were not opposed to each other but they supplemented
each other as partners. Freud saw man (the ego) battling against the threat of
nature.15 Jung saw man as a part of nature and not as enemies.16Freud‟s
motto might have been: the id must turn into the ego, which
means that unconscious urges must be transformed into conscious
awareness. Jung‟s motto would more likely to have been: acceptance and
reconciliation bring about healing but at the same time, he also considered
awareness to be an essential prerequisite of acceptance. Jung wrote: “You
cannot change anything unless you accept it.”17 He strived not only for
knowledge but also for wisdom. “When you use modern psychology to look
behind the scenes and see not only your patients but yourself, you have to
admit that it is terribly difficult, if not impossible, to accept yourself in your own
miserable essence. Just thinking about it can make you sweat with fear, so
that you prefer the complicated option, which is to ignore yourself and to busy
yourself with the troubles and tribulations of other people.”18
dreams and in their waking state, he realised that they were not simply the
result of repressed desires but that they had a much wider and general
significance. Jung‟s research into man and dreams led to his most important
theory of archetypes and his theory of the collective unconscious.
b) The archetypes
Jung‟s work on dreams led him to believe that the collective unconscious
contained inherent tendencies that continuously produced similar mythological
symbols and images. He imagined a kind of basic structure or a primeval
imprint on the mind which would produce very varied outcomes but which
could still be traced back to the original structural elements. 20(20) We can
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C. G. Jung: Psychologische Typen. 1921, 656
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“I repeatedly come across the misconception that the archetypes have a defined content or that they
are a kind of unconscious “idea”. It must therefore be underlined that the archetypes are not determined
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illustrate this with the example of conscious thought and perception. The
philosopher Immanuel Kant recognised that the human reason was
characterised by certain categories. Our thinking is always conditioned by
time and space and we always automatically have to add the category of
causality to our thought process. The fact that every event has a cause is not
the subjective brainchild of someone or the other. It is a necessary aspect of
each thought process. Kant saw these categories (for example time, space
and causality) as purely formal prerequisites of any human perception,
regardless of the actual object of the perception (a tree, a person etc.). In
exactly the same way, Jung regarded the archetypes as the pure, original
forms of spiritual images and symbols. The realities of birth, death,
motherhood, fatherhood etc may serve as examples here. These are not
realities that we learn about through our conscious mind but they are formal
categories of life that we carry in our unconscious. Archetypes are sort of
deep imprints or programmes that determine the basic structure of life,
determining our feelings, reason and our actions. The symbols and images
produced by an archetype may vary considerably but they are rooted in the
same origin. So, for instance, the archetype of a mother may invoke very
different images in different cultures. The idea of a cow may mean a good
meal to some and a provision of milk to others. All these images are derived
from the same source, namely the archetype of a mother. Mother, father,
birth, death and similar notions about life are derived from imprints on the
collective mind. This is not acquired knowledge but the baggage we carry in
the form of archetypes. We have to follow our predispositions and live, feel,
emote and perceive accordingly. Archetypes are objective reality for Jung and
they govern our freedom of choice by being the categories of our soul.
c) The symbols
Symbols played a supreme role for Jung. The dream was in his view, the
living proof that man was able to create symbols. Jung considered that a
symbol was something mystical and great, far exceeding a sign. “What we call
a symbol is an expression, a name or an image which may be familiar to us in
every day life but which has special connotations in addition to its
in their content but only in their form and even then, only up to a degree. A basic image or idea can
only have its specific content identified if it is filled consciously and therefore contains material
obtained through conscious experience. Its form however, … is comparable to the coordinate system of
a crystal that kind of pre-forms the structure in the mother-lye without itself having any material
existence…An archetype is actually an empty, formal element which is nothing more than a possibility
… given a priori of a form of imagination. The imagination or ideas are not inherited but the forms are,
and they correspond in this respect to the instincts that are likewise formally determined.” C.G. Jung:
Die psychologischen Aspekte des Mutterarchetypus (1938), in: Archetypen. 79 (The psychological
aspects of the mother-archetype.)
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In the last text he wrote he gave some very wise advice about interpreting
dreams.
Although he concentrated more than any one else on symbols, he told his
pupils: “Learn as much as you can about symbolism, but forget it all when
you analyze a dream.” (23)
My own feeling is that Jung focuses mainly on the dream itself and its
individual message whereas I find that Freud tends to try to find in the
symbolism of dreams an interpretation to support his own theory based on
sexuality. Jung only called for two premises: “firstly, the dream should be
treated as fact without making any assumptions, except that there is a
meaning in the fact; and secondly, that the dream is a specific expression of
the unconscious” (24)
Contrary to Freud, Jung did not let his patients indulge endlessly in free
association. He followed the dream rather than the dreamer, because he
believed that :”only the material that is clearly part of the dream should be
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C.G.Jung: Man and his Symbols. 20
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used for interpretation. The dream sets its own limits. Its own form determines
what belongs to it and what is extraneous.” (25)
Jung believed in dreams, he trusted them and respected them as holding the
secrets of the human soul.
While Freud tried to draw out the unconscious contents of the soul into the
bright light of the conscious, Jung bravely endeavoured to find his own way
into the depths of the unconscious. I would like to end this short description of
Jung‟s view with this quotation with which I fully agree :
My contention is that the dream extends far beyond the framework of the
human psyche. I cannot dismiss the many thousands of years of history of
dream interpretation as being a primitive precursor of a more sophisticated
knowledge of dreams, so I try to take all the magical, mystical and spiritual
interpretations seriously and to find expressions of a wider reality in them. I
consider it to be extremely arrogant to believe that we are cleverer and more
knowledgeable about dreams than our ancestors were. Our rational abstract
thinking has indubitably brought us enormous technical progress and made
our lives easier, but in the process we have become estranged from ourselves
and our emotions. It therefore seems better to me to question our own
abstract reality rather than the old customs, traditions and experiences of
mankind, handed down to us over many thousands of years.
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My own path into the field of dreams started with Sigmund Freud, then
expanded to the theories of C. G.Jung, but my experience with people, myself
and dreams led me to believe that the field was too narrow and too small. I
was particularly struck by the utter neglect of spiritual reality in the
interpretation of dreams. Spirituality is not a part of our scientific view of the
world and therefore does not appear in theories about dream interpretation. A
giant sphere of human existence and reality has consequently been lost. This
is all the more astonishing as our ancestors in all cultures used to live and
interpret dreams primarily and almost exclusively as a spiritual experience.
In the course of my life and learning about life, I had to decide whether to
force the dream into my concept of the world and mankind or whether on the
contrary, I was prepared to learn from dreams about a wider image of reality. I
opted for the latter. My attitude towards people and reality was changed
through my work on dreams and my encounter with the Indian culture in
Montana USA where I became an adopted tribal member of the Assiniboine-
Indians.As a result, Freud and Jung‟s visions are not wide enough to describe
my approach to dream interpretation.
In the following text, I would like to present a model of the human personality
consisting of eight facets. Although I have a strong innate desire to represent
complex realities in the form of systems, images and definitions, I am
nevertheless very well aware that no reality can be totally understood or
pictured by us humans. Every kind of comprehension is necessarily
provisional and incomplete. I would ask my readers to keep this in the back of
their minds while I continue. Every theory is a crutch, a useful tool, but
nevertheless only a crutch.
Back to the child. With language the child learns to give a name to objects and
thus to extract the original energy of these things, which we call abstraction.
The same process of separation only takes place within the child when it
learns language. Consciousness through language makes it possible to
reflect on oneself and hence to separate oneself from one‟s original state of
unity. As a child‟s consciousness grows, he begins to call himself by name
when he talks about himself because his parents do so. At first he talks about
himself in the third person like an object. He only really becomes aware of
himself when he says “I”. This is an enormous effort of abstraction. With the
help of his conscious, the child needs to detach himself from his self in order
to find his identity on a higher abstract level. This is the meaning of the term
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A separation between subject and object does not exist until the Conscious
Me comes into play and this separation is often fudged in dreams. The
Conscious Me is a kind of assertion of man‟s self in opposition to objects.
Before the Conscious Me establishes itself, personality is fluid, it can become
an animal, a tree or another person. The energy boundaries between man
and his environment are mobile, fluid. The Conscious Me is a conscious
concentration of the person into a centre, holding him together and safe. A
loss of the Conscious Me leads to a split personality, even in adults.
On the other side of the spectrum, people who constantly try to extend their
consciousness either through drugs or other far reaching experiences run the
risk of losing their Conscious Me. Both extremes show up important needs of
the conscious: security in the world and stabilization of one‟s own personality .
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This fact can be clearly seen in our present western civilization. Since the end
of the Middle Ages, the power of the Conscious Me has increased markedly,
bringing us previously unimaginable advances in technology which all work
according to causality, ( yes - no; right - wrong; 0 -1). This is called modern
natural sciences. It is the most powerful product of what I call the Conscious
Me. Our modern world is almost exclusively made up of the conscious. At our
individual level, this leads to a dangerous splitting off of the other elements of
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our own personality from the actual reality, and at some point we individuals
tend to fall ill - with the collaboration of our society.
In the “Criticism of pure reason”, Immanuel Kant defined the conditions (he
called them “categories”) of human perception and knowledge which include
time, space and causality. I attribute these functions to the Conscious Me.
Other instances in our make up have other categories.
The Conscious Me, in the sense it is described here, represents the male
principle. Its duty is to use rational analysis to make us capable of living and
acting in the outside world. It organizes and coordinates our survival. The
conscious is thus our security center. Danger is notified by fear. Fear is the
most important emotion intruding as an unconscious factor into the conscious.
Experience tells me that there is a direct correlation between rational
conscious and fear. I would even assume that the stronger the rational
Conscious Me, the stronger the fear although it may be a subconscious fear. It
is as though this fear were standing behind the Conscious Me which does not
see it nor notice it but actually even suppresses it. Here we have a snowball
effect: as the fear grows, the domination and output of the Conscious Me
increases and in the end this leads to a detachment from one‟s own emotions.
As a result, the rest of one‟s personality reacts with an upsurge of
unconscious demands which in turn increase the fear and finally also step up
the performance of the conscious.
I would like to describe the Conscious Me with a few typical terms: It focuses
on material and superficial things. It looks for structures and generalizations.
It controls, thinks, feels and acts according to external or internalized rules
and standards. It adapts to its circumstances in order to secure its survival.
This adaptation is made possible through learning. We learn in many different
ways. The conscious mind learns mainly according to its structure through a
rational evaluation of experience, by comparing, measuring, weighing,
checking , experimenting, understanding and by internalizing external rules,
laws, standards etc. Our scientific and technological progress is a direct result
of the conscious taken in this sense.
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- the way computers work (0-1) - a General in military service - customs check
- police - authority - front - surface - matter - artificial light - traffic lights -
chemical and mathematical formulae - cause and effect - flat plains ( one
dimensional) - black/white - half moon (only the bright side can be seen) - etc.
To sum up:
- point on the compass: North
- numerical value: 1
- corresponds to the male principle
- associated elements: earth and air
- to the touch: dry and cold
2. This indicates a split in our unity resulting in duality, and the simultaneity of
identity and difference.
Modern people in the West are ashamed to let their body subject them to the
same processes as animals. So women remove hair on their legs or on the
bikini line, men shave and we avoid any kind of body odour. The further we
are removed from original bodily functions, the more sophisticated we are.
Belching and farting in Luther‟s time were deemed to be positively sensual
and healthy, while today even a sneeze is an embarrassment, and is best
ignored rather than drawing attention to it by saying “God bless!” The western
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beauty craze drives millions of people to fitness and slimming clubs and later
as anorexics onto the psychiatrist‟s couch.
To sum up:
- point on the compass: Northwest
- numeric value 2
- corresponds to the male and female principle (sex)
- associated elements: earth, fire, water, air
- to the touch : warm, humid
b) Beliefs
The mental centre is the seat of our beliefs. These are deep rooted
convictions that determine all our feelings, thoughts and actions. The beliefs
are themselves the result of our experiences and our evaluation of them. Our
emotions are determined by them. Beliefs lie deeper than most feelings and
they might in fact even produce certain feelings, particularly fears and needs.
There is a phenomenon that children, up to the age of about ten, never project
the cause of their experiences, especially negative ones, on to the
environment but always blame themselves as the cause. If a child of five is
unloved or neglected, he will never be convinced that his father is an idiot and
his mother a slut. Instead, he will have the strong belief that he is bad and
unlovable. Why else would his parents have behaved that way? This is the
early, original logic of the mental centre: a predisposition, an a priori attitude,
an orientation, a way of functioning before acquiring experience.
Some of the reasons for our most deep seated beliefs are formed by the
conditions of love. We human beings cannot love unconditionally. Any one
with a partner experiences this daily. It is only with regard to our children that
we find it hard to admit this truth. Of course we want to be the best possible
parents and we try to love all our children equally. But this is nonsense.
Nobody loves his children equally. Some people do not love their children at
all. Everyone has unconscious or subconscious expectations of their children,
these are the conditions of love. The father may wish for a son to continue the
family name or to share his enthusiasm for football. The mother may hope for
a sensitive, loving and understanding son to make up for a cool and distant
husband. Other parents have expectations that their children “will go up in the
world” and gain a better place in society. In this way we all have our secret
wishes and expectations of our children: the conditions of our love. Children
are aware of these pressures and they try, just as our pets do, to meet the
expectations of our love with all their might. Even in his mother‟s womb, a
baby knows whether he is desired or rather regarded as a burden. Children
know the conditions of our love more clearly than we do. When we were
children, we too knew what our parents‟ conditions of their love were and so
we based our beliefs on the conclusions we drew from that knowledge.
Unfortunately, many of these are negative and lead to problems in the course
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of our lives. As Freud noted, the superego only stores the critical and negative
aspects of parental authority, so we can imagine how strongly these beliefs
are implanted in our mental centre. In this sense, Freud‟s superego can be
interpreted as the internalized conditions of our parents‟ love and of the social
environment. There are numerous collective beliefs beside the individual
ones. These are cultural, social, religious value judgements of all kinds, ideas
about morals, social taboos, religious dogmas and all sorts of collective
opinions on the world. Our mental centre consists of BELIEFS and
convinced FAITH in the widest sense of the word. Whatever we think of
ourselves and the world we live in is programmed in the mental centre. The
conscious ego is just a weak subsidiary with the task of defending and
confirming the beliefs. Our conscious assumes that its own view of the world
is based on its own perceptions. This is largely incorrect. It is true that the
conscious ego perceives, but the way it works out these perceptions is based
on subconscious pre-programming, on preconceived interpretations of the
world, of life and of one‟s own person.
Now, the conscious ego deduces that, because these assumptions about the
world are confirmed by experience, they are true and have an objective
reality. This concept of “objective reality” is lodged exclusively within the
conscious (ego). But looking at the history of mankind, we find that man‟s
faith has always prevailed. We must recognize that there is no such thing as
objectivity. It is an illusion created by our need for security. Modern man has
become a small-thinking materialist because his world works: planes fly,
telephones connect us with each other, electricity flows -so that is the way of
the world.
In short: The mental centre is a gigantic system of beliefs. I do not mean this
in a negative nor limiting sense, quite the contrary.
in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female
created he them.” (Genesis 1,27).
Through the energies of the mental centre we create our own experiences
which are often contrary to the conscious aims and desires of the ego. This is
because the experiences created by the mental centre correspond precisely
to its beliefs. Many of these beliefs are negative, so we create negative
experiences. The special aspect about this system is that the energy of the
mental centre is compatible with the energy inherent in other objects in the
universe. The essence of the universe is spiritual. In this sense, the mental
centre not only communicates with things but there is also a feedback, a
mutual influence.
Being frightened of dogs illustrates this point well. If you are very scared of
dogs, you will soon find that dogs smell your fear and instead of ignoring you,
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they become all the more aggressive. The dog‟s reaction is triggered by your
fear. It attracts him. This is based on the general principle that we send out
and receive energies from our mental centre and are creative. Jesus said
“Everything is possible to one who has faith”(Mark 9,23) This is true and
should be taken literally. In other words: things happen to us because of the
way we think and according to our beliefs. If I think I am a fool, I shall
frequently make a mess of things. If I think I cannot be loved, I shall attract
partners who will lead me to experience this. If I think my partner is going to
be unfaithful, I shall work on him to be that - and it will happen. Many people
believe they will win in competitions, games or lotteries. And they do.
Many parts of the mental centre may be buried in a primeval past but they can
possibly be reactivated as the following example shows. A participant in my
seminar told me about his brother who had had a very severe accident putting
him in a lengthy coma. When he finally came out of it, he spoke fluent
Russian, not having ever learnt it in his lifetime. He had never even been to
Russia. When he awoke, his brother did not know who he was, he had lost his
memory and had forgotten his mother tongue. In this case, parts of the mental
centre had emerged from a primordial past as from a void. This man must
have had a previous life in Russia. So the language was still stored or saved
and could be reactivated. Similar stories turn up all over the world.(28) Such
examples show us that the coupling of the mental centre with language lasts
for a very long time and that it presumably can endure through several
incarnations. The conscious cannot however regulate this storage, this
process is removed from the ego, which is unfortunate, because so much old
knowledge and talent could otherwise be easily reactivated.
To recapitulate:
The mental centre is the seat of our deepest beliefs about ourselves and our
world. The features defined by Freud as the superego fall within the mental
centre. Its major part is organized by language. Language always contains a
definition of the world and of creation as a whole.
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The mental centre is not only a clearing house between the primeval and the
conscious, but it is also its own energy power house. As a spiritual energy it
communicates with the universe around us. The beliefs and the feelings they
generate provide the spiritual energy for the mental centre to attract and
create experiences.
I add some free associations to illustrate the reality of the mental centre:
Computer software, such as Windows - radio station and radio ( transmits and
receives radio waves) - all kinds of energy waves - radar - automatic pilot in
an aeroplane - roots of a tree - prism (light enters and is fragmented according
to the crystal‟s structure) - nuclear plant - power cable....
To sum up:
Point on the compass: Northeast
Dominant elements: Fire, air, ether
Numerical value: 3
The soul has, in my opinion of man, a very specific importance: it is the source
of all our emotions and sensations, and acts as a balance. Organically, one
could compare it to the heart which is constantly pumping blood through the
body and keeping the blood circulation in balance.
I place the soul right down in the South as opposed to the the ego in the
North. The soul corresponds to the female principle in our overall personality.
The soul has the task of preserving and securing our completeness and unity.
It does this by sending feelings and sensations of all kinds to the entire
system of our personality. It is a kind of seismograph, an organ of sensibility.
The soul shows us at which point we love, hate, hope, trust, mistrust, feel
frightened or threatened etc. Every single feeling comes from the soul and is
an expression of the soul‟s activity. If we compare it with a part of the body, it
would not only be the heart but also the blood and the nerves. The soul is the
source or the root from which feelings and sensations come. I do not concur
with the religious meaning given to the soul. For me, it is not the divine spark
given to man. The working term of soul has no superhuman properties nor
abilities. But my definition means that every creature capable of any kind of
emotion has a soul. Our soul can be compared to our nerves in that they send
our bodily pain and other sensations to our brain and make us aware of them.
Under this working terminology, the soul has a very general character. It is not
necessarily filled with goodness: a soulful person is simply very emotional or
sensitive, both in hatred or in love. A healthy soul, however will always try to
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Cool, rational and controlled people are the furthest away from their soul,
because the soul is pure feeling. This means that our feelings are the most
important reality of our human existence. They alert us to what is happening
to us.
My sketch shows that the soul is so to speak the lowest point in our
personality. It is both the first and the last. In the beginning we were feelings
and in the end we shall only be feelings. Everything else is a kind of in-
between.
Considering that over 90% of our total personality is emotional and that our
personality is 100% led by feelings, moods and sensations, we cannot
overestimate the significance of the soul.
In order to approach the essence of the soul from another angle, I would like
to refer to a philosophical reflection by Martin Heidegger, who interpreted
human existence as a sequence of moods.(29) We are always, but always, in
some kind of mood, even in sleep, in a faint or in death. Through these moods
we have access to the non-ego of our surroundings. We step into a room and
and are influenced by its atmosphere. We meet another person and our mood
changes. This susceptibility to atmosphere which forms and determines our
human existence is the soul at work, communicating different moods without
interruption. And just as our nerves communicate pain when we suffer an
injury, the soul signals any disturbance we may suffer.. This is how we take on
a particular mood - of fear, worry, joy, thoughtfulness - or whatever.
Ever since man has been aware of the soul, it has been considered immortal,
and today, if people still believe in a soul at all, they probably think it is
immortal. Some cultures believe in the transmigration of souls. But whenever
the soul is invoked, it has a very high and immortal significance.
I too, make the assumption that the soul “survives” our physical death and
continues to exist. Because we continue to exist. So, even in death and after
death, there are sensations, moods and feelings. We human beings have
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brought our soul along with us into the world and we take it back again just as
all other creatures do that have a soul.
the womb - cloud - oven - lap - family - love and hate - hammock - spring
meadow - homelessness - sunset - crying and laughing - desperation - kind,
fat, wet-nurse - bubbling source - the human heart pumping blood through the
circulation - the body‟s nervous system...
To sum up:
Essentially the ego is fed by the mental centre with negative beliefs, of which
it is not necessarily conscious. These beliefs are expressed in phrases such
as : “I am losing out”, “I don‟t get enough” “I am not receiving enough love,
recognition, affection, money...” etc.
The ego now tries to counteract these shortfalls by influencing every instance.
But this basically reasonable attempt is doomed to fail because according to
the laws of the mental centre (and the universe), similar energies attract each
other. Therefore all the ego‟s efforts to compensate for its perceived
insufficiencies will never lead to success. It is always the negative belief that
will be successful because it attracts experiences in its own image.
My favourite example for this is ambition. This human trait is based on a lack
of self- esteem and self-confidence. Wherever there is a lack or a shortage,
our reaction is to become miserly and greedy in order to protect ourselves
from losing even more and to make safe the little we have. Ambition is based
on a lack of self-honour or esteem. So this deeply held belief is expressed by
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Both in our waking and our dreaming state, our ego works to compensate for
our insufficiency. It is a hard job. It manipulates our honest self knowledge, it
leads us to believe that we are something we are not, or it side-tracks us from
what we can be. It falls to the ego to contradict all the negative beliefs we
have about ourselves. But it is like running on a hamster‟s wheel because
there are always shortages, needs create other needs. So the ego cannot
compensate for the perceived shortage nor can it disprove the underlying
negative beliefs. The ego cannot win, which is why we experience daily
resignation, frustration, depression and aggression. Translated into the body,
this often means cancer, heart attacks or other self destructive illnesses.
The energetics and the enormous strength and might of the ego can
sometimes make it possible for it to take over the entire personality and
manipulate it.This mass phenomenon led, to my mind, to the spread of
national socialism in Germany. Germany was and is an emotionally poor or
even starved country. Traditionally, children were given far too little love and
affection and other positive emotions. Praise was hardly given, good
behaviour was demanded. Communication was limited to criticism when
some particular behaviour was wrong or insufficient. After Germany had lost
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the first World War, and the treaty of Versailles left the Germans feeling
humiliated as the losers of the war, their feeling of insufficiency or lack
became suffocatingly huge. In addition, there was a real lack of order and
security in the country. Hitler who was himself possessed by a perverted ego,
made the Germans psychologically underdogs by taking it upon himself to
look after their needs. Militarization of society gave everyone recognition. The
Fuehrer became almost overnight a super father figure. Recognition was the
key. Being himself an egomaniac, Hitler had a feeling for what the Germans
needed: recognition, and at last a strict (the Germans knew what that meant)
but also appreciative father. The Germans could again be proud to be
German. It was exploiting the egos which opened the psychological way to
almost absolute power.
What is threatening and dangerous about the ego is that, once it has fled to
this kind of compensating activity, there is often no way back. Because the
mental basis for the ego is a collection of negative beliefs about itself, the
discrepancy between the energy input to compensate for shortcomings and
the unchanged negative beliefs becomes constantly bigger. At the end of this
type of process, the ego comes to identify itself as a total loser because all its
endeavours have not succeeded in compensating for shortcomings nor to
change the beliefs positively. Consequently, the ego is always self destructive
because of its very essence.
All the old religions recognized this. The main purpose of most rituals or
ceremonies is to conquer the ego. This idea is most obvious in Buddhism
where the highest form of spiritual aspiration is to overcome oneself totally.
This facet corresponds basically to what others have called the unconscious.
The term unconscious is negative because it is seen from the perspective of
the conscious. But un- conscious is by definition not conscious and probably
never becomes conscious. I call this sphere primeval and hence I de-couple
its description further from the conscious. I concur with Freud in that I see in
this primeval sphere the instincts of our human existence which link us up to
the animal world. Freud called this uncivilized domain the “Id”: here,
sexuality, aggression, self preservation, death wish, ingrained fears (such as
getting lost) or basic desires (such as needing love and affection) lie dormant.
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I concur with Jung that the primeval sphere also contains many collective
features in varying stages of activity: memories, images and symbols of one‟s
own culture, and deeper down, images of all mankind. Like Jung, I believe it
encompasses ancient aspects that we take into our human lives. Contrary to
Jung, however, I do not regard the archetypes to be the contents of the
unconscious but of the self. In my image of humankind we are connected in
the primeval sphere to the deepest levels of human existence and with nature
as a spiritual power and energy. In the primeval sphere we are both animal
and vegetable, we have the same spiritual essence as nature and are
therefore also able at this level to communicate with nature in us and around
us. If you deal with animals you will know what I mean. Animals communicate
at the level of the primeval sphere, here is where we emit the waves denoting
fear, aggression, attraction and revulsion.
Apart from our instincts, fears and desires, the primeval sphere also stores all
the experiences we ever had. Things we learned or experienced through our
conscious or our mental centre fall down into a kind of cellar that is
unimaginably deep and dark. In here everything is conserved, I mean nothing
is ever lost. This includes insights, knowledge and images from earlier lives,
which are all deposited here. Sometimes, at certain points in our life, we fall
“by chance” into the primeval sphere: we might recognize a landscape
although we have never been there before, or, as I recounted earlier, a man
could suddenly speak a language he had never learnt. Previous lives can also
play an important role in dreams. I shall come back to this later.
The primeval sphere is also the place where repressions are stored. There is
a filter between the primeval sphere and the mental centre which censors
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access in both directions and makes interface difficult. The more disagreeable
the repression for the mental centre, and consequently for the conscious ego,
the stronger is the filter. Whenever the contents of the primeval sphere wish to
rise into the conscious they must be transformed from imagery and symbols
into words and hence into thought. Language, words and thought are derived
realities, they are abstract and therefore marked by a loss of reality. Being
used to perceiving and categorizing our reality in abstractions, we therefore
regard the primeval sphere as primitive and underdeveloped. The truth is
exactly the opposite: the primeval sphere corresponds much more closely to
the essence of reality than our conscious can ever imagine.
To sum up:
The primeval sphere has at least the following functions, activities or essential
properties:
- it is the location of our urges that connect us closely with nature
- it is the location of our repressions ( desires, problems, experiences)
- it is the location of our natural knowledge about order and structures
- it is the location of our knowledge of our previous lives
Cellar - deep grotto - cavern - volcano full of lava - dark blue, black universe
- interior of the earth - deep blue sea with unimaginable storms, tidal waves
and sea monsters in its depths - deep spring - underworld - night...
If we take a look at the stories in the New Testament about Jesus‟ healing, we
find that the vast majority are about possession. A possessed person may
suffer in many ways, depending on the the area where the foreign spirit
intrudes and develops. If it is in the body, epilepsy might be the result of
possession. The spleen reacts on the body if negative beings try to, or
succeed in, taking hold of us. Possession may produce insanity and is, not
surprisingly, hardly curable by orthodox medical practice (viz. epilepsy,
schizophrenia). Insanity has to be healed through the spirit and some form of
exorcism is required, although this term has very negative connotations.
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Possession has very clearly some basic traits of the spirit: it is open like a
gateway to spiritual dimensions outside of us. So, in our dreams for instance,
we can and do let our spirit go on trips. We leave our body which is kept going
by the other six facets of life and we go to other places and dimensions. When
we die we take off in our spiritual body which is a spiritual energy structure,
and we leave our material body behind. It is also by way of the spirit that we
emerge from the divine world into the body of our mother when we are
conceived and begin to develop.
The Buddhist world, in fact all of the Asian world, can teach us a great deal
about the spirit: meditation is practiced here, serving to immerse the
practitioner entirely into the spirit. Here we find gurus who are able purely by
their spiritual activity to do things that are totally impossible for other people
(floating, leaving their body, walking on hot coals, sleeping on nails, going
without food for weeks etc.) These are expressions of the power of the spirit.
We all have some part of this power, but we do not know this anymore.
We can also communicate with all existence, both animate and inanimate. In
our spirit we can communicate with stones and stars or with animals and
plants. The spirit needs no words, no images no symbols. At the spiritual
level, communication is based on cognition and recognition. And what we
know, recognizes us because we are linked in spirit. Many people experience
this communing with nature, but they often doubt their own perception. Trees
and plants all try to communicate, and animals of course make it easier for
people to recognize this communication, particularly if they love their pet. This
establishes a spiritual connection.
A further special trait of the spirit is our spiritual body. We have not only a
physical body but also a so-called astral one. It does not consist of matter nor
is it defined by the four elements of water, fire, earth and air. This body is pure
spirit or ether, the element that Aristoteles called the fifth element. It is a
purely spiritual element. The word ether has become established since
Aristoteles‟ time. It appears in the Indian Ayurveda teachings and also in
Rudolf Steiner‟s “Anthroposophie”. We can imagine this ethereal body as our
spiritual figure that holds all the facets of our personality together at the
spiritual level. In other words, we also have a figure at the level. In and
through this spiritual figure we can travel and leave our physical body behind
in our sleep. At the time of our death we depart with our spiritual body and
leave our physical body behind.
The spirit is very important in dreams because dreams originate in and are led
by the spirit. Our life begins and ends with the spirit.
2. 8 The Self
I have not got much to say about the self. It is like the “divine spark” in us
which connects us everywhere and always with our creator. The self is our
cosmic identity, the guiding light that takes us through all incarnations. In other
words: the self is our eternal middle or an idea of God; it is what remains with
itself and stays itself through whatever change. Aristotle invented the Greek
word EN-TELECHIE which means to hold within oneself one‟s purpose. I
cannot find a better term for the self. Our beginning and our end and our
pathway are all unified and always present in our self.
The artificial term “the self”is not actually a noun and should be used as a
composite word, myself, yourself etc. It cannot stand alone grammatically, but
always refers to a person or a thing and defines it more closely.
The self is hidden and has no name, like the Creator himself. It is our centre
that cannot be named nor understood. We cannot enter any kind of
relationship with our self, because we cannot distance ourselves from it, not
even intellectually. The self is withdrawn from us because that is what we
already are. As an illustration, we can imagine the self like an atomic nucleus
with particles circling around it and holding everything together with its
incredible power.
The self holds our deepest knowledge about the course of our life, about all
our incarnations, about the purpose of our life, about our duties and
challenges. Within our self, and apparently only there, do we know about our
creator, about where we come from and where we shall return to after all our
incarnations.I do not believe, contrary to Jung, that the great archetypes
come from the unconscious, but from the self.
Some really great dreams come from the self or are inspired by it. These are
very different from all other dreams, and whoever had the luck to have one or
more such dreams will never forget them and always recollect them with awe
and emotion. I will give some examples of this type of dream later on under
the title of “great dreams”.
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Similar to this type of dream experience, there are many experiences of God
that come from the self, experiences that completely change our lives. When
people find redemption and are cured - and I do not mean simply returned to
good health- this happens through the self. There is a Hebrew word for this:
Shalom. This ancient Jewish word for peace means a state of being healed
which is rooted in the deepest contact with the Creator.
My simple sketch shows clearly which facets are connected to each other via
the self, thus gaining particular energy and a special significance in our
personality.
The ego-conscious is connected to the soul through the self. The ego-
conscious could be the helmsman on a ship and the soul would then be the
engine room. The ego and the soul need each other and condition each other.
They absolutely have to be in harmony or else the whole system goes off
balance. The soul‟s duty is to inform the ego-conscious through feelings and
moods what the location and situation of the “ship” is, while the ego-conscious
is in charge of steering it through the cliffs of life. They need each other to do
this. Disturbances in communication spell disaster, making the ship of life sail
off course and collide with the outside world.
This axis is also extremely important for health, because the primeval sphere
uses the body as a symbolic system to express subconscious problems. If we
repress our true problems, we do not only dream in symbols, but we actually
fall physically ill. The type of organ that is affected or the type of illness can
alert us to the problem, just as dreams do.(30)This marvellous access through
the body to the repressed problems in the primeval sphere is not known to
many people, although it serves quickly and simply to show up deep-seated
problems especially when people dream very little or do not remember their
dreams.
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The axis between the spirit and the mental centre also crosses through the
self and represents the mightiest thing that we human beings can produce.
When these two facets connect, they bring forth both creativity and
destruction. When the Bible speaks of God creating man in his own image, it
must mean giving man this unimaginably strong mental and spiritual power
(31) . Ever since olden times, informed people were well aware of this human
trait, but the knowledge about these connections was hidden as a secret
knowledge, allowing access only to an initiated few. The word esoteric is
applicable here, meaning restricted to an enlightened or initiated
minority.Through imagination the mental centre has the power to create and
to destroy while the spirit is the gateway to the outside world and to other
dimensions. This combination of incredible strength and power give man his
highest meaning.
The last group of people in our civilization who recognized and understood
this combination were the Knights Templar. In using their knowledge
consciously and decisively as an instrument they became almost overnight a
very powerful force in the Christian West and were consequently forbidden,
persecuted and murdered because the rest of the people were rightly afraid of
this power. The knowledge of this axial energy is apparent in all old cultures,
particularly so in the so-called voodoo cult where medicine men are capable
of healing or killing people who are kilometres away. Witchcraft and devil
worship have appropriated and used this energy through the ages.
Even if no one in our present times in the West believes in such a high energy
connection, it continues to exercise its force. The slogan for our Western
world led by the U.S.A is “anything is possible”, and this is true. If we look at
our history we will find that whatever man wanted or imagined was created or
achieved by man, both good and unfortunately a lot of bad. In this axial
connection everything is truly possible.
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II.
.THEIR INTERPRETATION
As always in our lives, it is our internal attitude that dictates the explanation
and the degree of insight we achieve in interpreting our dreams. I mentioned
before that reality is in flux and that we Westerners are forever trying to
acquire knowledge and in doing so we expect to hold and stop the flow. This
attitude is basically counterproductive in relation to dreams. It would be best to
throw out all this baggage, which is of course impossible, but we should
nevertheless try. I recommend having as little prejudice as possible in
dealing with dreams. The more we think we know in the forefront of our brain,
the harder it is to interpret the dream. So my attitude is to approach each
dream as though I had no idea about dream interpretation. I do not find this
difficult in as much as each dream is an individual structure that amazes me
every time.
We should treat a dream like a free autonomous being. Any attempt to direct a
dream makes it retreat, hide itself and protect itself. A dream must be allowed
to be itself without any prior evaluation or interpretation. Our own dreams
seem alien to us, more so than those of other people. I see this as a piece of
luck, because it means that we refuse to adopt a hasty explanation. It is alright
for us to feel that our dreams are strange because this helps us to face them
without prejudice.
The suggested categories and types of interpretation offered in this book are
provisional and questionable, they are a kind of crutch, and should never be
mistaken for an actual answer. When in doubt, we should always err on the
side of the dream and not the theory. interpret the dream. So my attitude is to
approach each dream as though I had no idea about dream interpretation. I
do not find this difficult in as much as each dream is an individual structure
that amazes me every time.
We should treat a dream like a free, autonomous being. Any attempt to direct
a dream makes it retreat, hide itself and protect itself. A dream must be
allowed to be itself without any prior evaluation or interpretation.Theories are
limiting; we need them but at the same time they hinder us. In my judgement,
dreams represent a huge domain of reality, in fact that portion of reality that
cannot be perceived consciously which is about 90% of overall reality.We
should not presume to know about the universe while being such a small part
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of it. However, we may be confident that communing with our dream reveals a
deeper sense and gives us further help. We should always approach our
dreams with respect, awe and confidence.
When we look into our dreams, we must conclude that their content cannot
always be deciphered. So my urgent advice is not to analyze them to death!
There is a point when we know intuitively, if we are not under pressure, that
further interpreting is useless. The truth of the dream and its symbolic
language is often far too complex to be resolved by our consciousness. So at
a suitable point, we must be able to give up analyzing, even if we feel that we
have not brought everything into the conscious mind. Seeing that dreams are
very dynamic, we can always hope that the dream might continue to speak to
us; the next dream will come, especially if we have prepared ourselves in our
conscious mind to learn about ourselves.
- have confidence in your dream and in your ability to understand its message
- respect the secrecy of your dream, for it is the secret of the comprehensive
greatness
- never exert pressure on your dream to speak to you, but learn to ask it kindly
- do not forget: only the dreamer holds the key to its interpretation. It is his
dream - no one else has any right to the dream nor to its interpretation.
- never interpret other people‟s dreams without the explicit permission of the
dreamer
- always put the individual before the general, even if this confuses you
- if you interpret another person‟s dream, never try to convince him of your
interpretation. It is enough for you to be the witness of what you understand.
- if you have a dream for another person, then tell him about it as soon as
possible.
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III.
TYPES OF DREAM
I shall now try to show different types of dream that I have encountered by
putting them in categories according to different criteria. I make no claim to be
exhaustive and I repeat that this attempt at classification is only a weak crutch
which should be thrown away as soon as possible. Practical work has shown
me that many aspects of different dreams listed here appear simultaneously. I
must also insist that my listing does not imply “either or” but rather “not only
but also”. This fact has made it rather difficult to provide good examples of
dreams because one dream can fall into a number of categories. Setting up
systems and categories means making concessions to our conscious ego,
which is our contact with the world around us. Reality is not, however,
necessarily as it is described.
1. Body dreams
In the narrowest sense, body dreams are for me those that are triggered by
bodily activities. These dreams are rarely spectacular and the dreamer does
not see any hidden message in them in my experience. Toilet dreams are
very widespread, in which a person feels a strong need to urinate in the
dream and might dream he has actually made it to the toilet. Upon wakening
he realizes that he does indeed need to empty his bladder. Similarly
widespread are dreams in which we fall from a height and suddenly find
ourselves on the floor because we actually did fall out of bed. Other dreamers
hear their alarm clock in their sleep and dream of bells ringing or of someone
ringing the doorbell. The actual ringing is woven into dream images. Such
body dreams are easy to explain and, upon awakening, the dreamer
immediately connects the dream with his own body or a physical explanation.
These dreams are relatively common and do not need to concern us any
further as they are self explanatory.
The situation is different with dreams where parts of our body or its organs are
involved. We might dream that we have contracted a disease, that we have
lost a limb, have become invalided or that some other thing has happened to
our body or its parts. These dreams are significant because they are using the
body in its symbolic function.
Seeing that there is a connection between problems that we repress into the
primeval sphere and the symbolic language of body, I would like to make
clear that there is absolute accordance between the symbols of the
waking and the sleeping state. It is totally unjustified to assume that dreams
have their own symbolic language which is detached from that of our waking
life. The symbols come from the primeval sphere and are equally active when
we are awake. For the body dream this means that whether I dream about a
part of my body being sick or whether I actually create the sickness and fall ill,
it is the same thing in terms of the primeval sphere. There is no difference
except that it is much healthier to dream about the illness than to be actually
ill. The symbolic content is however exactly the same.
As most of our life is spent awake, the connection between the primeval
symbolic language and our waking experiences should be given far more
importance. The body is just an example in this context, albeit a very
intensive and easily accessible one.
2. Mundane dreams
These very common dreams are almost always set in the mental centre. They
work out our problems, experiences, adventures, desires and our stress. They
are easily understood as they are hardly encoded. Such dreams contain
everyday images and settings from our lives that we recognize easily: our
work place, relationships, friendships and so on. Subconscious things are
transformed into dream images. Before an exam, for example, a student might
dream about the exams that he is dreading. A builder who is about to have an
official inspection of his building site in the next few days might dream that he
finds himself all alone on a deserted site where there is not one wall built yet
and he might then wake up in a panic. But he will immediately understand his
dream and not be surprised by the images.
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3. Compensatory dreams
Sigmund Freud considered that compensation in the sense of a fulfillment of
desires was at the core of dreams. I agree that dreams always have a basic
compensatory or reconciliatory function. If we did not need to reconcile things,
there would be no need to dream. Although dreams try to restore a balance, I
do not believe, contrary to Freud, that dreams provide a compensation
through the fulfillment of desires. In my experience, dreams that have a
predominantly compensating role are relatively rare. The term compensatory
can mean a variety of things. However I only speak of compensatory dreams
in the narrowest sense when it is perfectly clear that a lack of balance needs
to be redressed.
Here again, I point to the correlation between the dreaming and the waking
state, because actual dreams and day dreaming in a waking state are both
able to compensate. For example: A young man who was approximately 15
years behind in his development had suffered for many years from having no
social contacts. He had no success, he was misused by others, he had no
real friends, no sexual relationships and no attention from women. In
comparison to others, he could only be a failure. He compensated for these
feelings of inferiority with fantasies of omnipotence and this was not just in his
dreams. He often tried to convince himself that other people were simply
afraid that he would overtake them on his fast track to success, a success
which was in fact illusory. Such compensatory thoughts delighted him by
giving him delusions of grandeur and they served to deflect his pain and
humiliation about his true situation. Such thoughts are clearly compensatory.
In the same way, many dreams show us our “other side” in order to regain a
balance which was lost. The dream may not always show us a fictitious
reality, but it might also divulge some important aspects of our true being.
A manager, for instance, who is convinced that his family is the most precious
thing in his life, might dream that his whole family dies. This dream might be
warning him that he is neglecting his family in favour of his career and his
professional ambitions. The dream is showing him a side that he does not
wish to see consciously.Compensatory dreams are not limited to
psychological causes. There are many spiritual dreams of this kind. (See
below). Here is an example of the different categories of dreams mixing
together:
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Comfort in sorrow
In October 1999 our son died suddenly and without any warning. I have no
words to describe how I felt. It was so incomprehensible, so unimaginable, so
deeply sad and despairing that I nearly lost my mind. During this unbelievably
miserable time, in the most terrible situation of my whole life, I dreamt the
most beautiful dreams. They were not actual dreams in the narrowest sense,
they were more a spiritual state into which I was removed. They were
reconciliatory because they gave me an incredible feeling of love and security.
I have never taken drugs in my life, but I can imagine that this type of state is
similar to a wonderful “trip”. I felt as though I were in heaven, surrounded by
angels I could not see but could feel intensively. The positive intensity of my
dream state was so strong that I was quite embarrassed in the morning
because my “heavenly” feeling was so utterly unsuited to the tragical
circumstances.
This dream was an actual incursion of the spiritual world and it therefore
belongs in the category of spiritual dreams. At the same time it compensated
for my terrible despair with the most beautiful and exalted feelings of joy.
Similar examples have since been recounted to me by other people who
found themselves in comparable situations. These too were spiritual
compensations.
4. Recurring dreams
Recurring dreams indicate a long standing problem. The configuration of the
leitmotif in the dream can change but the core stays the same. The dreamer
knows this dream already. It often recurs over several years. This is shown in
the following example from my practice:
The meaning of this dream is that the dreamer equated his family
unconsciously to military service and he had a deep-seated wish to put an end
to this service and to leave his family.
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In the primeval sphere there was the model that the family (= military) service
was a finite commitment, like a duty that needs to be carried out but with a
time limit. The inescapable fate in the form of military service as it presented
itself to the dreamer meant that he was facing a lifelong duty. The problem
could not be resolved through the primeval sphere itself, but it needed to be
dealt with through a conscious decision. Later, the dreamer separated from
his wife and family and the recurring dream disappeared and never came
back again.
5. Serial dreams
Serial dreams are recurring dreams showing a clear development. The
subject-matter
does not only recur but it alters, grows and evolves.
The dream comes back. The surroundings and the images are different but
the theme is the same: The dreamer chases the bad man although he only
sees his shadow. From dream to dream he manages to close up on the evil
man. But then he had a dream that was different, and it was the last. He again
chases the bad man in his dream, but with confidence and fearlessly. He
really wants to get him. He feels strong. The dream takes place between
rocks or in a rocky cave. The shadow is running away again. The dreamer
runs after the shadow, desperately determined to get him, and he actually
catches the man and grasps him by the shoulder and is sparring for a fight or
some kind of physical struggle. The man turns around. The dreamer sees a
good-looking amiable young man who looks straight into the dreamer‟s face
with clear, honest eyes. Still in his dream, the dreamer knows that he has
reconciled himself with his own shadow. That was the end of the serial
dream.
These three dreams show a wonderful development. The first dream of the
waking little lion cubs shows the dreamer that his masculine side with its
animal, wild aspects is waking up. It also tells him that he had frozen these
parts of himself. In his dream he thought that they were dead and deep frozen
and is amazed when they come to. He had put his instinctive maleness,
symbolized by the lion, “on ice”. Indeed, this man in his waking life, was a
quiet, accommodating, gentle person who always tried to fit in. He had
suppressed his aggression and his instincts. The fact that there were four
cubs symbolizes the unity in this dream. It was a great dream because the
cubs really woke up in that night, in other words something real had actually
happened to this man and changed him for life. These cubs really did come to
life - and they developed.
The second lion dream is about an adult lion, albeit camouflaged as a woman.
This corresponded very closely to the dreamer‟s situation: He camouflaged
his “lion parts “with his feminine side. His masculine parts were disguised and
suppressed behind the mask of femininity. The dream expressed this truth
wonderfully well.
The third dream completed the internal development . The dreamer reconciled
himself with his own “wild man” who had a lion as his animal friend. The lion
became integrated. The dreamer had finally become a true man. The serial
dream ended.
Serial dreams are a marvellous mirror of our internal development. They are
extraordinary companions and for me, they are one of the great treasures of
our unfathomable spiritual reality.
6. Nightmares
Nearly everyone has had a nightmare. That is why the word is used
idiomatically to describe any kind of bad experience. I have put this type of
dream in its own category although here too, there is a mixture. Some
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nightmares are also spiritual but most are derived from the primeval sphere.
One thing is common to all nightmares: They highlight a very urgent and very
important problem in our life, of which we have so far not taken sufficient
conscious notice. The emotional intensity of the dream indicates the huge
energy and urgency of the problem. If these problems have been repressed
into the primeval sphere over a long period, then psychic energy accumulates
there which discharges itself as a nightmare. A nightmare is a signal that tells
us very clearly that it is now high time to confront these problems at once.
That is why I always follow the basic inner wisdom of the dream: If there is a
nightmare I try rigorously to make the underlying problem emerge into the
consciousness of the dreamer, no matter what his circumstances are.
Nightmares are like SOS - signals from the primeval sphere or from the spirit.
They need to be resolved urgently. The great fear they engender
simultaneously indicates that their resistance to being brought into the
conscious will likewise be great and strong. A nightmare is a highly
energized expression of the battle between a significant problem pushing itself
forward and of the conscious repelling it.
A few years ago a young woman of twenty-three came to me. She told me
about a nightmare that afflicted her every night for about four weeks so that
her sleep had been seriously impaired. She asked me to interpret this dream
so that she could be rid of it and find her sleep again.
The interpretation showed me that the basic problem was a case of sexual
abuse which created a difficult family situation. The young woman was
extremely reserved about any kind of information, but the interpretation was
charged with enormous energy. So much so, that on the day after my
interpretation, the young woman broke down, both physically and
psychologically. It turned out that the woman had been violated for the first
time at the age of fourteen - outside the family. She was violated again at the
age of eighteen, again outside the family. I had been the first person with
whom this woman who was by now 23, had ever spoken about it. Even that
revelation was not volunteered but came to light compellingly through the
dream interpretation. The dreams ceased immediately because the problem
had pushed its way through into the conscious. She then attempted suicide
and was given psychiatric treatment followed by two years of psychotherapy.
Although the suicide attempt was a very bad reaction of the conscious to the
problem, it was this young woman‟s soul that decided through the nightmares
that it was now high time that the problem should be confronted consciously in
order finally start the process of healing.
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This dream was very general and had no specific images, symbols or other
details, so it had to be a rather general problem. The sea is a basic symbol of
the primeval sphere. Something gigantic and primeval was raising itself here
and threatening the dreamer. The tidal wave was telling the dreamer that
huge forces were involved that would inevitably triumph and destroy him if he
did not succumb. Something was pushing forward from the primeval sphere.
In order to understand the image of the tidal wave, we should look to the
peoples that inhabit coastal regions. Since time immemorial the sea has
demanded its sacrifices. When fishermen lost their lives in storms, the fishing
communities said that the sea had taken its sacrifice. In ancient times living
sacrifices were offered up to the sea to placate it and to ask it to let fishing
and seafaring flourish.
This is exactly what the dreamer needed to do. I challenged him to find out
what he could sacrifice to deter the primeval sphere from its menace. Looking
at the axis of the primeval sphere - body, we can see that it is a question of a
real and massive threat which can -and does - truly kill us if we are not willing
to learn and to change. The dreamer found out what he needed to sacrifice.
Deep in his mental centre he had a model shaped in his childhood which
required him to always be good, well-behaved, polite, understanding and
ready to keep the peace. According to his set of negative beliefs, these
attitudes were more or less the conditions of his existence. The nightmare
confronted him with a challenge from the primeval sphere to jettison this
model, to “sacrifice it to the sea” in order to live. The dreamer needed to give
up his “Mr. Clean” image and try to integrate the instincts, desires and
conditions of his primeval sphere. He needed to show his “other side” and be
morally guilty and risk hurting others. It took him years to adapt to the
demands of the primeval sphere. He succeeded, although his old life fell apart
and he lived through awful crises, but the nightmare never came back.
7. Great dreams
As the name indicates, these dreams are truly great, significant dreams that
have such potency and influence that they are never forgotten. Great dreams
accompany important steps in our development or big decisions affecting our
destiny or they highlight turning points in our lives
Great dreams occur mainly during those big transition periods, such as during
puberty when we evolve from childhood to adulthood, and later during crises
in our lives when important decisions have to be taken. They appear in times
of great change, they deal with times of readjustment, such as birth, growing
up, leaving people or places, coping with upheaval, accepting death and its
wide-ranging implications that extend far beyond our earthly lives.
Great dreams are rare and their strong symbolism makes them remarkable.
They give us a new perspective or they confront us with our innermost fears
or they show up some huge problem that needs to be resolved urgently. A
great dream is always a dream concerning our destiny, a destiny that we can
of course generally help to steer ourselves. Its energy is enormous and
impressive, even though the dream images may not always seem so. The
atmosphere of the dream is overwhelming. Everyone will recognize a great
dream intuitively because it provokes an incredible atmosphere and strong
sensations that last.
A man of about sixty told me about the following great dream. It happened
when he was seriously ill and feverish.
to be boiling blood or internal organs. The dreamer believes this boiling bloody
stuff to be some kind of feedstuff - but there are still no living beings to be
seen. The sight of this boiling bloody stuff makes the dreamer feel sick and
disgusted. He turns away and continues walking upwards through the middle
of the stables. He goes on through many long sheds without seeing any signs
of life. Right at the end he sees a door. He goes through and is in an inn. The
room is low with wooden beams. An elderly couple of about fifty are sitting at
a table. They welcome the dreamer greeting him warmly like a friend. The
woman embraces him and asks him where he comes from. He says that he is
travelling without luggage and without a camera, which the woman finds a
pity. She gives him a small gold coloured camera and encourages him to take
photos with it. Surprised but very touched, the dreamer retrieves his steps
through the long stables. He wakes up bathed in sweat but he feels light and
much happier than for years. An elated feeling continues to envelop him for
quite some days.
The interpretation showed that this dream illustrated the dreamer‟s whole life.
His arrival in a strange, dusty desert symbolizes his feeling of having been
dropped into life or even having been left exposed to it. Indeed, the dreamer‟s
childhood was an emotional desert - no loving affection and a cold
unapproachable mother and father. The absence of people in the dream
symbolizes a deep unconscious feeling of loneliness and desertion. The white
cockerels whose heads and wings were lying on the ground in the stables
were images in the primeval sphere of his childhood during which these
animals did indeed play an important part. The boiling blood and the
undefinable bloody internal organs represent the numerous spiritual wounds
the dreamer suffered as a child, but which are not in his conscious mind.
People seem to play no part. Even the wounds he suffered are transmuted
into animal symbols. The primeval sphere shows here the level of
development involved, saying that without the human touch we cannot be
human beings in the fullest sense.
Life for the dreamer is a stable, not a human place. Becoming a full human
being has (so far?) not succeeded. Life is a stable for animals. Life‟s journey
is hard and goes upwards.
The long stables end with the end of life. The door represents death, and
stepping through it means entering a different, new and higher dimension. The
inn is an image of life after death. The dreamer had indeed lost his will to live
and he had an unconscious desire to die. In his dream this wish is granted
and he enters the domain of the “afterlife”. The couple there corresponds to
Jung‟s category of the archetypal image of positive parents.At the spiritual
level I would call these two figures leaders of the spirit. As I see this dream,
they come from the self and are not creations of the man‟s own soul. The
woman gives the dreamer a camera and encourages him to take photos.
Photography is a hobby of the man. It represents a need to hold on to
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experiences and impressions. And this is what the dream is about. The
friendly woman (leader of the spirit) encourages the dreamer to regard his
experiences as valuable (golden camera) and to take more of them. This
leads the dreamer to turn around. He goes back into his earthly life,
strengthened and encouraged by the meeting with the leaders of his spirit. His
life acquires a new sense thanks to the golden camera. This means that every
experience, even the hard ones, have a true, great value. We should not try to
shed these experiences but we should preserve them, value them and finally
take them with us to the other world that follows our earthly life.
In this apparently simple dream, the dreamer had travelled through his whole
life, from his birth to his death and further. But it was the meeting with his
leaders of the spirit that encouraged him to return to his life and to continue it.
The dream and its interpretation were indeed of paramount importance. From
the moment he woke up, his will to live was strengthened.
This dream was my transition into real life. It was my duty to go into this
mountain and to work my way through it. I had to leave the beautiful meadow
of my youth and enter the dark corridor alone. It was a big step. But the self
gave me a wise companion that symbolized ancient wisdom about life and
inspired me with confidence and courage. The saying he gave me united
heaven and earth and lifted my transition to a higher spiritual horizon.
This saying played a part again in my life about 25 years later. It appeared
when I had so to speak passed through my mountain. It was not my dream,
however, but that of a woman who had lovingly entered my life. Although she
knew nothing of my youthful dream, this saying came to her in a kind of vision.
She knew immediately that it had something to do with me and told me about
it. I was flabbergasted to find that this saying had turned up again and from
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such an unexpected quarter. At the same time, I was immediately aware that I
had now passed through that mountain.
8. Spiritual dreams
This category of dreams is not given much space in modern so-called
scientific books on the interpretation of dreams because our world view
negates them. Nevertheless, many people do have spiritual dreams without
knowing or believing it. While great dreams are always connected to the self
and its influence on us, spiritual dreams are created by the spirit. In the history
of all mankind, most dreams were interpreted in a spiritual way, including
some that were not spiritual dreams at all. These days the situation is quite
the opposite: everything is interpreted psychologically or scientifically, but not
spiritually any more. In the following I shall try to point out some of the criteria
that differentiate a spiritual dream from a psychological dream. As always
there is a mixture of types of dream. It will not always be possible to separate
the different aspects that have an influence on the dream.
8.1 Apparitions
Among spiritual dreams those with apparitions are the most widespread in my
experience.These are actual apparitions of other beings that have penetrated
our personality via our spirit and show themselves to us. Apparitions are
therefore not some imagination of our psyche but actual encounters with
spiritual beings.
In my practice, when there were apparitions, they were of dead people. Most
people have experienced such apparitions but remain unaware because of
their limited view of the world.
There are a few criteria that differentiate the apparition of a dead person from
other dreams about a dead person. In an ordinary dream, the dead person is
generally part of the action, he speaks and moves as though he were alive
whereas in an apparition he is mostly passive, quiet and reserved. He sort of
comes into the dream from outside. The dream is a kind of stage or backdrop
into which he appears, but he is not part of a larger dream event. As a rule,
the dead person hardly speaks at all. Sometimes gestures or mime are the
way he tries to communicate. In some rare cases there is a message, but it is
very brief and poignant.
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There is another fairly frequent phenomenon: The dead person seems much
younger. This is particularly the case if the person was already of some age
when he or she died. Small children seem to be older in the apparition than at
the time of their death, but this is much rarer than the rejuvenation of older
people.
If a dead person appears looking much younger, this indicates that he has
already stepped over into the other world. It is a good sign for him, so there
must be a very special reason why the dead person has appeared. Often,
those who have passed away try to show or tell us something that is important
in our own present lives. They come, not on their behalf, but on our behalf.
If a dead person appears to us at the age at which he died, it may mean that
he has not found the way yet into the other world. It may be difficult for many
of the dead to make the transition from the world we live in to the spiritual
world. They then drift between the two, but stay closer to our world. This
situation can be very bad for the soul of the person who has passed away.
The deceased then appear to us because they generally expect some kind of
help. They wish to communicate because they cannot orientate themselves in
limbo, in this state between two worlds.
I have had many apparitions of dead people myself and many have been
recounted to me through my practice. In my experience the most usual cases
are of a farewell by someone who is dying which is recognized even by
people with no particular spiritual gift. A dying person leaves his body at the
time of his death and travels in his spiritual body to take his leave of those
closest to him. By means of the spirit he arrives directly in the dream of the
other person. When the dreamer wakes up in the morning, he or she knows
already that the person who visited their dream has died.
After our son died our friends and relations created a veritable network of
information about his various appearances in their dreams. It went so far as to
include our family doctor who called me up one day after she had seen an
apparition of our son that worried her a great deal. Through these different
apparitions, we gained a picture of how long our son was taking to enter the
other world and how well he was faring. After two years of prayer and
mourning my father-in-law was rewarded with the following apparition:
shouted something to him but he did not understand. Then the Indians left
and his grandson, our son, appeared in a dark suit and hugged him
affectionately and warmly. While he was still dreaming, my father-in-law
started crying with emotion because he knew that this really was his
grandson.
The Indians were messengers from the other world. The river between my
father-in-law and the Indians symbolized the other world. Our language uses
similar allegories , such as “to cross over the Jordan” as a synonym for death
and dying. The subsequent apparition showed us all that our son had
successfully concluded the journey into the other world. With the help of the
Indians, he was reporting back to us to tell us this.
A woman who comes to my practice for counselling had had apparitions of her
dead father for many years; he had not been able to make the journey to the
other world and was seeking help from his spiritual daughter. At first, the
woman was upset by these apparitions, which is understandable when a dead
person is standing at the end of the bed at three o‟clock in the morning! Over
time, the woman managed to speak to the apparition as though to a living
person and to advise him to turn to the light. This helped. The dead man was
able after a while to take the journey into the other world and go. The
apparitions have not come back since then.
Dead people do not always need dreams to become apparitions. I was once
called on a home visit because the mother who had just died was seen by
several members of the family sitting at the supper table. Independently from
one another, they were able to see and describe the mother sitting at her
place at the table. The family was thrown into such a panic that I was called.
After three days, the apparitions disappeared and the mother was gone.
Not only humans but also animals can appear to us. In my practice I once had
to deal with a dead cat that stayed on for quite a while in the flat where it had
been living. This cat was even able to produce sounds. Its energies and
vibrations could even be felt by outsiders. The owner of the dead cat was
asked more than once whether she had a cat in her flat. A lot of cleansing and
mental realignments were required before the cat finally left the flat and made
its way into the other world.
The dead always have a reason for appearing to us, they don‟t just do it “for
fun”. I have experienced cases where the dead have tried to interfere in the
life of the living and to influence their decisions.
The lady lived for a short while after the war on a large estate in North Bavaria
belonging to a count. She was a personal friend of the young count, having
served with him in a military hospital on the Eastern front, he as a doctor and
she as a sister in the operating theatre.They were just friends and there were
no sexual overtones nor any question of marriage.
One evening she was given a room in the castle where there was a bust of
the old count, the dead father of her friend, the living count. In the night she
woke up because of a terrible pressure on her chest. Terrified, she felt the
stone bust of the old count lying cold and menacing on her chest. The weight
and the pressure of the bust caused her to have great difficulty in breathing.
This procedure repeated itself three times, each time accompanied by
breathing problems and a state of terror. She groped desperately for the light
switch and each time the light came on, the apparition disappeared.
The dreamer interpreted this apparition as a threat by the dead count to put
her off marrying the young count.
A spiritual being that is not the expression of our energies and imagination
may appear to us but we can never discern its face. It is of no consequence
whether these beings are positive or negative, their faces are almost never
seen. That alone will give us a clue as to whether we are experiencing a true
apparition.
to have each participant go to the edge of the crater on the fourth day and to
throw his stones down into it, shouting out each time he let go. In the morning
of that day, a very sensitive girl told me her dream, which I quote below from a
letter she sent to me for the purposes of this book:
So that was the girl‟s dream in her own words. On the following day I
continued with my plan and had the participants take their stones charged
with the negative energy of their blockages to the crater and throw them into
its depths. This was the crater from which those dark threatening beings in the
dream had crept out. In the following night, the girl‟s dream vision actually
happened to all of us: The dark spiritual beings crept out of the crater and
streamed through our camp. We humans were terrified and the animals went
totally berserk - there were at least 3 dogs and two donkeys in the camp. The
dogs rushed through the camp barking wildly all night long, chasing the
spirits. Animals sense these beings particularly intensively and maybe they
can even see them. None of us dared to set foot out of our tents. No one
slept. Calm returned at last at dawn.When we saw the big tent where we did
our work in the daytime in the morning light, we had a ghastly shock. The
dogs had mauled and bitten everything in the tent and all the mattresses and
the blankets and cushions were destroyed. Even the tent canopy was ripped
off. The dogs had just defended the camp. Against the spirits.
Since that event, I never held a seminar in the desert again.
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In general:
All kinds of spiritual beings can appear, some that we recognize and many
more that we do not know nor even believe possible.
A woman told me that she used to have prophetic dreams in the time of her
puberty. They all referred to negative events in the town she was living in and
all the dreamt predictions came true. It was a shock to the young girl to read
about them time and again in the daily newspaper. Just as suddenly as they
had cropped up, they disappeared again, never to reappear.
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8.3 Visions
There is no conscious awareness of visions in our culture and they are
consequently very rare. By contrast, Indians have a tradition of seeing visions
and they actively look for them, calling upon the spirits and the Creator to
grant them visions to guide them through their lives. This collective
expectation makes the incidence of visions understandably higher.
All kinds of elements may appear in visions: The deceased, spiritual beings,
symbols from the primeval sphere, moods, colours, odours, landscapes,
strange and unknown signs.
A vision is like looking for the “Holy Grail” - an image attached to the legends
surrounding King Arthur. A sign, a symbol or an enigmatic message is
presented to us and this sets us on our quest. We set off, we lead and we are
led. A vision takes us to some unknown end. A vision requires work,
searching and enterprise. It is the beginning of a process, a kind of call to
arms. It is in this wide sense that we use the term “vision” in our colloquial
speech.
During some dreams it can happen that we leave our physical body by means
of the spirit and visit other places and dimensions. Such journeys are not
simply dreams but real happenings on a spiritual plane. Our personality has at
least eight facets, making it possible for the primeval sphere to produce a
“normal” dream while the spirit goes on an astral journey. So , we can
simultaneously dream “normally” and go on an astral journey - involving two
different parts of our personality. As a result, we very rarely remember our
astral journeys because they are overlaid by other dreams.
When a person has become aware of his own spirituality, living and using it
actively, then it is also generally much easier for him to recognize and
remember astral journeys.
Astral journeys often leave the dreamer with a strong feeling of having been
far away. They are often associated with experiencing a different dimension.
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In many ways an astral journey resembles the return from any trip: we need a
little time to readjust to our home and at first our old routine seems a bit
strange.
repeatedly of the last death, especially if it was a traumatic one. Such dreams
about death can keep resurfacing for years, but they come to an end when the
dreamer reaches puberty.
I can remember that when I was about seven or eight I had this dream about
my last death:
The execution
I am sitting in a Nazi army truck. It is night. We are driving through a large
town. We stop and I am pushed out. We are under a large railway bridge,
possibly in an industrial zone. The cobbles gleam in the diffused light of a
lantern, it is wet, it must have rained. I am pushed against a brick wall under
the bridge. A man points a pistol at me and shoots me. Everything goes black
in front of me. I urinate and wake up frightened to death, in the true sense of
the word. Then I discover that I have actually wet myself, and this is the only
time I can remember doing this as a child.
At that age I had no or very little knowledge about the time of the Nazis, nor
did I know until many years later that it is a normal reflex to wet oneself if one
is shot dead. I now know that that dream was a memory of my last death
which presumably took place in the „30s.
A man who took one of my business seminars told me about his childhood
dream that kept recurring. He flies as a bird over trees, villages and the
countryside. He is a bird, not a human being. He has proper wings, he feels,
sees and flies like a bird. He could describe this bird feeling very well. The
dream always gave him a sense of well being and it recurred quite often until
he was eighteen and then it never came back to him again.This man was far
too rational, logical and critical to believe for one moment that he had once
lived as a bird. Nevertheless, his own memories provided him over many
years with a source of information from his earlier life.
Having an energy dream is being in a state in which the spiritual world can
work on us from outside. This “work” takes place along the axis spirit - mental
centre. Information is fed to us or energies altered in us through our spirit.
Energy dreams are an external spiritual intervention in our favour which we
may “choose” to accept. I would like to compare these activities to a computer
(the mental centre) that has new data loaded from outside onto its hard disc.
Something very similar happens in an energy dream.
Others who have had these experiences have had information loaded into
their mental centre that they needed badly for their work, in particular when
their work involved healing or caring for people. In these energy transfers,
intensive learning takes place, but not at a conscious level. These states can
be so strong that it is as though we were plugged in to a power cable. As a
result, the dreamer often awakes totally wrung out and exhausted in the
morning. In these phases he feels he has been only half asleep. The mental
centre is so powerfully activated that the primeval sphere cannot take over our
sleep, so that although we do sleep, it just does not feel like it. Our mental
concentration is half conscious.
IV.
Of course help is needed and welcomed to explain our dreams -- that is why I
hold seminars and have written this book -- but the full interpretation should
never be ceded entirely to another person. Your dream is yours. You must
take responsibility for its interpretation. You are the final arbiter for its
explanation. You are, in other words, the most important criterion for the
interpretation of your dream.
This of course applies to all modern cultures. For this reason I am seriously
opposed to using books on dream interpretation from other cultural
backgrounds.(32) Although they are interesting as an insight into the soul and
images of these cultures, they do not advance us in explaining our dreams if
we are not part of that culture.
Every culture has a fund of mythological images that supply our dreams.
These images are derived from folklore and legend, many of which were
collected in Grimm‟s fairy tales and have entered our culture with their
images, patterns and symbols. Christian tradition has likewise given us very
specific images and symbols, in particular the cross.
If images, symbols and patterns from a foreign culture suddenly appear in our
dreams without our having any knowledge of that culture, then such dreams
are likely to be spiritual dreams: memories of a previous life or an encounter
with spirits from other cultures or times. I came across this phenomenon
recently where a Canadian Indian woman dreamt in such specific terms that
she had to use a dictionary to understand them. Some of these words were
technical terms for subjects she had never heard of.
A dream with very little action can have an enormous influence on us because
of the mood it induces. This phenomenon surprises people when for instance
they awake in a state of dread although their conscious cannot find an
explanation on the basis of the dream‟s story.
In my interpretation of the human personality, the soul itself does not produce
images and symbols but feelings and moods. This is why I regard the dream‟s
atmosphere as the soul‟s expression and message, giving its very own
commentary on the dream. As the soul is our innermost organ providing us
with balance, I always rely on its voice and I consistently follow the
atmosphere of the dream in my interpretation.
Our every day life works according to a simple mechanism: Yes - no; right -
wrong; good - bad etc. This enables us to orient ourselves in a very complex
world. We simplify our world in this way because we would not otherwise be
able to deal with its variables. This means of course that we are reducing and
flattening out reality. Our conscious likewise tends to decide for one or
another option when it is faced with opposing interpretations or contradictory
meanings.
I have come across dreams in which one single symbol had at least three
meanings for the dreamer, and they were all important for understanding the
dream, although they were connected illogically to each other. In the
interpretation of dreams it is not a question of “either - or” but rather “not
only - but also”.
One could compare a dream to a prism in which light breaks in many different
ways and produces a variety of colours, but nevertheless constitutes a whole.
For me, this structural ambiguity is not a sign of underdevelopment but a
return to our origins. Thanks to the dream, we can see deeper into the
essence of things and our world. Real life is composed of so many layers, so
many angles and contradictions when considered by the conscious mind. So I
try to submerge my analytical mind in the dream rather than to try to give it
consistency by pulling the dream up into the light of my daily consciousness.
The vast majority of dreams that I have interpreted left a feeling in the
conscious mind that we had understood the main gist but that we had not
been able to fathom out many other elements. But it is a great success if we
can discover the thread of the dream and decode, recognize and interpret its
essential message. And it would be a presumption to think that we could ever
totally explain the richness of a dream because the realms of possibility we
are faced with are so very complex and diverse.
friend or anyone. One way to interpret this is to accept the dreamer as the
subject and the others as the objects.
Another dreamer often chose his brother as a substitute for himself in his
dream. It soon became clear that this brother represented both the brother
and the relationship between the dreamer and his brother. Here, one
interpretation should not be played off against the other.
Dreams reveal in other people or animals certain parts of our own personality:
our attitudes, our ways of thinking, our problems which we perceive easily in
others but only with difficulty or with resistance in ourselves.
We can also learn a lot from dreams in the double perspective of subject
versus object. All our relationships, whether with people or animals or other
beings, revolve around ourselves.
They are all a mirror of ourselves, and yet they are more than just ourselves. If
we only sought to find ourselves in other people, we would be pitiable
narcissists. If on the other hand we never tried to learn about ourselves in our
relationships with others, we would be lonesome, dumb and limited. Dreams
show us this and in their interpretation we should remember the following:
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6. Suggested Methods
Every one should work out their own method of interpreting dreams by
following their intuition. I shall present my own method that has served me
well over thirty years, but even I do not simply follow a plan but let myself be
led by the peculiarities of the dream and the dreamer.
2. Give it a title
When the dream has been written down I give it a title like in a newspaper. I
make myself or the dreamer imagine that the dream will be published as a
news article and needs a title.
This too should be spontaneous.
4. Brainstorming
I then move from image to image, from symbol to symbol and write down
anything that occurs to me spontaneously. This brainstorming is the most
important part. What is most difficult here is to avoid making a value
judgement and to make sure that even the least significant thoughts are
noted. Very often these apparently trivial associations help the most to find the
sense of the dream. So we should give heed to any thought that springs to
mind, no matter how insignificant.
The collected ideas and associations are now worked through, scene by
scene and image by image, until we discover a thread going through them. I
regard the first dream image as having prime importance. It is like an
introduction to the subject. For example: If the first image is the parental
home, it gives a clear indication, (if the dreamer is an adult), that we are
dealing with an old problem that probably originated in childhood. The first
image or scene is like the stage set in a theatre. The stage gives me my first
intimation of the subject matter of the play.
After we have gone through all the scenes, images and symbols, the main
thread generally appears. We then connect the various elements to make a
whole.
I always feel that the intuitions of both the dreamer and an experienced
interpreter must be followed. This is why the mood of the dream is so
important. Our head immediately jumps to the quick and obvious solutions,
but it is our intuition that feels best whether the meaning of the dream has
been caught by the interpretation.
The interpretation revealed that the first frog represented the dreamer himself,
and in particular, his undeveloped male sexuality. His negative reaction to the
frog was the way he felt about himself and sex. The school class meant that
the dreamer was backward in his development. The second dream showed
that he treated women at a “frog level”. The female frog combines subject and
object. The female frog mirrors how he only reveals his feminine side to
women, because he is more comfortable with that. But at the same time, his
attitude transforms women into “frogs.” His wish for children is presented in
infantile fantasies (eggs, chicks). Just like in the fairy tale about the “Frog
King”, in real life he is first used and then refused by women because he
deals with them at a “frog level”.
The dreamer recognized the significance of his dreams and asked me what
he should do. The dream did not give any advice, but pointed out the problem.
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Only the dreamer himself can answer such questions. It would be wrong to
suggest solutions, but it is clear that the dreamer should do something
urgently to enable him to enjoy sex and a fulfilling partnership.
Knowledge about the message of dreams calls for change. Once the
interpretation has brought the dream into the open, our conscious, our ego, is
put on the spot. We are challenged to find a responsible and conscious
solution to our problem and to act upon it. The dream can be our helping
companion on the way, because it might show us in future where we stand,
how far we have come and maybe even what else should be done.
A few dreams become reality instantly. By this I mean that something can
actually happen to us during the dream causing a true change. This is the
case with great dreams and with most spiritual dreams. In these dreams, what
we dream is actually taking place in reality within us. I mentioned before the
dream about the awakening lions. In that dream the lion cubs really woke up
in the dreamer, which means that at the moment of his awakening he felt a
real change. An internal energy-laden change, or even sometimes an actual
step up in quality takes place. But even these real internal developments
generally require subsequent execution. The external execution generally
happens by itself after a real change has taken place within us as in a great
dream. We instinctively carry out what needs to be done without thinking
about it.
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V.
Thanks to, and through our primeval sphere we encounter a reality contained
in the symbol.That is why symbols are so powerful. Reality itself is present
within them. A sign is not the carrier of its own reality, but it points to a reality;
whereas a symbol is a kind of mysterious energy channel which unites us
quite literally with the reality present within the symbol.
continue to be what they were for the conscious mind, their character has
changed for our symbolical perception of them. Bread and wine are not simply
a sign (because they would then be pointing to a different reality ) but they are
true symbols, in other words, bread and wine have now actually become the
body and blood of Christ.
A symbol can only be grasped by the energy of the primeval sphere and not
through the conscious mind alone. This is why the conscious frequently
attributes completely different meanings to a symbol from what it really
represents. Here is a good example of these very different interpretations:
The Christian cross changed however, in the Middle Ages. The old, encircled,
equilateral cross was replaced with the cross of crucifixion and death and this
still seems to be the symbol of Christianity to this day.:a long vertical post and
a shorter horizontal beam.This cross no longer symbolizes wholeness, health
and redemption but suffering, dying and death. The symbol of death has led
the church since at least the high Middle Ages, although the church was quite
unaware of this itself. In fact, Christians and theologians would hotly deny this
in spite of the fact that most crosses are adorned with the figure of the
suffering Jesus. Nevertheless, in our conscious mind the cross still has a
completely different meaning.
There are many collective and generally accepted human symbols rooted in
our primeval sphere that are part of our existence. In addition there are
countless individual symbols. And again, there is no difference between those
relating to a waking or a dreaming state. Ultimately, everything, any object
can become an individual symbol for us. We only need to connect it to a
specific reality.
A good example for the effect of symbols in our waking state is the
phenomenon of allergies. Although growing numbers of people suffer from
allergies these days, it has not been recognized that the background for these
health disturbances lies in the effect of symbols. Whether, for instance, you
constantly dream of cats that threaten you or touch you disagreeably or
whether you develop a cat allergy, the interpretation remains the same. In
either case, the cat is an absolutely identical symbol. It indicates that there is
a problem with femininity and female energy and power. Whether you dream
of nuts or develop a nut allergy, the symbolic background is again the same:
this indicates a problem with male sexuality. Nuts are a symbol for the testes
and represent the male principle.
These two examples deal with allergies based on collective symbols. Other
allergies refer to individual symbols that a person has created himself
because of certain experiences.
Lipstick
A woman in the seminar brought her lipstick along as a symbol of her main
blockage. Her conscious interpretation was that she always wanted to make
herself pretty for others but that, in doing so, she could at the same time hide
her wish to appeal to men. After some intensive work on the basis of this
lipstick, a completely different aspect was revealed to her consciousness.
The lipstick bore some initials that reminded her of her father. By twisting the
lipstick itself up and down, she associated it with a penis. Ultimately her
lipstick symbolized her unconscious wish to have some sexual attention from
her father. This was her real major blockage. Acknowledging this was both
shocking and liberating for her.
X-ray
A man in his thirties brought an X-ray picture of his skull as a symbol of his
main wish. His explanation was that he desired to grow to be an old man.
When he held his X-ray up, a small tremor went through the group because
every one thought they saw the skull of a dead man. It transpired that the
unconscious wish of this man was to die, to stand down and give up. He had
chosen his individual symbol extraordinarily well.
The examples show that both individual and collective symbols mark not only
our dreams but also our waking lives. There is no difference between the
symbols in our dreams and in our waking state. They are one and the same.
We constantly carry symbols around, generally without knowing it. Our rings,
necklaces, jewelry or amulets are often symbolic. They stand for a reality we
connect with, although we are unaware of it.
Cell phone
A woman brought a cell phone to the seminar as a symbol of her main
blockage. At a conscious level it represented her wish to have some peace
and quiet and not to have to deal with the constant calls and needs of other
people. After a little work with the symbol, some quite different meanings were
brought to light in her consciousness. The cell phone symbolized her very
ambivalent attitude to her father. On the one hand she wanted to be cut off
from her father because he had wounded her deeply. On the other hand she
wanted to be in contact with him and yearned for his affection. The cell phone
represented both wishes: “Never call me again! You have hurt me, I hate you
and I never want to see you again.” And simultaneously: “Hurry up and call
me! I love you and let‟s patch it all up and please love me unconditionally.”
The cell phone revealed the ambivalence of her feelings towards her father.
shepherd dogs (see above) the wolf symbolizes the male and paternal
energy. So the little girl goes, as her mother bids her to do, into the woods and
she does indeed meet the wolf (the father) who wants to eat (abuse) her. But
unexpectedly, the wolf in the fairy tale does not immediately attack his delicate
and tender prey, but he goes to the Grandmother and eats her up first. And
then he also eats up Little Red Riding Hood.
The red colour of the riding hood already gives a clue that the theme is a
sexual one. Just as in real life, the mother sends her own daughter into abuse,
of course not consciously, but unconsciously. Why does she do it? Because
she is following a pattern, which she has taken over from her own mother.
The wolf eats the Grandmother first. With this sequence, the fairy tale points
to an ancient, unconscious behaviour pattern: the Grandmother was the first
to be abused, presumably by her own father. We can therefore conclude that
Little Red Riding Hood‟s mother too was abused, because she now sends -
unconsciously- her own daughter to the wolf (the father). The therapy of
abused women has shown that this pattern is indeed often passed on in this
way. I have often come across this behaviour pattern in my own practice.
I have come across many such Hansels in my practice, who have suffered
their mother‟s sexual advances and threats. One young man, for instance,
developed an allergy to certain foods, and in particular to fruit with any kind of
sexual connotation, which was quite extensive. In addition, he suffered from a
cat allergy.
Fairy tales are similar to dreams in that they use the same type of images and
symbols and they deal with significant problems needing solutions, just as
nightmares or “great” dreams do. We must assume that fairy tales will be told
as long as the issues they raise unconsciously continue to be relevant. As in
dreams, some only give a drastic description of a problem, while others offer
up solutions or some way out. Another similarity between dreams and fairy
tales is that they can also be subdivided into the dream categories that I have
delineated before. There are tales resembling nightmares (such as being
eaten up in Little Red Riding Hood, or Hansel and Gretel); other tales have a
spiritual character and are like spiritual dreams (such as The Crystal Ball) and
some are like “great” dreams (such as Mother Holle).
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The reality of symbols can be found at every level of life. Dreams are simply
an area where they have an overwhelming significance.
I would like to say in conclusion that symbols are the best representatives of
reality. Nothing is closer to the essence of reality than the symbol. In other
words: for us humans, reality can only be pictured symbolically.
2. Means of transport
Cars often appear in dreams. The original word “automobile”, with its Greek
connotation meaning “self-mover”, connects it symbolically with our self, or
our ego, so in a sense, a car is felt like an extension of our personality. It
helps us to move and gives us direction. Its symbolical value in our waking
state is thus very clear and strong. Many people, and especially in Germany,
identify themselves with their car and in particular its brand name. It is a status
symbol and a highly charged emotional object of identification. In our waking
life, it often represents our self-worth and the role we might wish to play in
society. Any harm to our car is felt like an attack on our own person.
This is also true in dreams. A car generally shows us the condition of the ego,
as seen through the primeval sphere. Dreams about cars are revealing in
many ways. Some questions can help in interpretation: Whose car is it? If it is
your own, what does it look like? What condition is it in technically? Is it lovely
and comfortable to drive or is it an old banger about to fall apart? Who is
driving? If the dreamer is driving, he”is in the driving seat” and is in control of
his own life. If the driver is another person, it signifies that being in the driving
seat he is likely to be determining the life of the dreamer. If the dreamer is
sitting in some one else‟s car, it might be deduced that he is not living his own
life but living life through or for some one else. We often relinquish power over
our lives to others without realizing it consciously. The dream demonstrates
this with the image of some one else being the driver or the owner of the car.
The dreamer had not driven a Mercedes for many years in real life. But this
make of car symbolized its worth in the dream. It is a highly valued brand
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name that the dreamer identified himself with. The interpretation showed the
dreamer that he apparently felt inferior to his family ( the missing star) and that
his decision about his family was fraught with a deep need for security (wine
red colour). In the dream, he managed to regain his own value (Mercedes with
star) and to establish a positive attitude towards himself.
A train symbolizes the fatefulness of our path through life. While a car is
driven by one individual and can go almost anywhere, a train is compelled to
travel on a track. In addition, trains travel according to a time-table, they do
not normally wait for us and they therefore represent the inexorable nature of
fate. Dreamers often miss the train, which generally means that they have
missed a fateful opportunity, such as a partnership, motherhood, fatherhood,
adulthood, a lucky strike, a decisive experience etc. Dreams about trains
mostly tell of accepting or missing important tasks in life or they herald the
next steps pertaining to our growing process in life. The saying “the train has
left the station” illustrates the fact that there is a time for each stage of
development which we can accept or refuse but we are not fully free to
choose. We have to comply with the train, not the train with us. In this way it is
a symbol for fatefulness and over-regulation.
This dream was pointing out that the dreamer was concerning himself too
much with his past and that this direction was false and harmful. The
conductor with his red cap symbolized his inner guidance which he refused to
follow, as the dream showed.
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A ship and its connection to water means that the dream is dealing with an
encounter with the primeval sphere. Water, and in particular a large body of
water such as a sea or ocean, represents our primeval sphere, because all life
comes from water. A ship thus becomes a symbol for our present life or our
ego finding its way to the other shore. The ship is carried by the water just as
our ego is carried by the primeval sphere. Like the ship, we must not capsize
nor must we sink. Ships often symbolize the great journey of our life, possibly
the transition from one important phase to the next. In mythological imagery
death is the last shore on the other side that we steam towards across the sea
of life. Water both carries and menaces the ship. By taking the ship we leave
the land and the solidity of our consciousness and abandon ourselves to wind
and weather and the primeval power of the sea. In doing so, we learn to have
confidence in this great journey which is our life. A sinking ship points to the
danger of drowning in the primeval sphere. Sometimes there are huge waves
engulfing us, the sea rages - and it can be this way in our conscious life when
we are engulfed and we cannot keep our head above water, because we feel
inadequate to deal with a situation or a change in our life. A ship in a dream
symbolizes in the widest sense our relationship with our own unconscious
primeval sphere.
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The interpretation showed the dreamer that, so far, he had always tried to get
on someone else‟s boat, in other words, he wanted to live his life through
others. He had not yet been able to build his own life and a stable ego (ship)
of his own. He clung to his toy boat in his dream. He wished to remain a child
and resisted growing up. This resistance is underlined by the green colour.
The beautiful woman is a dreamy wish fulfillment. The young man had no
female companion or wife in his waking state. The dream, however, made his
wish possible : the dream woman even takes on the task of asking for him to
be signed on. As far as the woman is concerned, it is sheer wish fulfillment; as
far as the situation with the ship is concerned, the dream points to reality:
nobody will take him along, so he must build his own boat and this means his
own ego and his own life.
3. Animals
animal benign or threatening and disagreeable? Has the animal played a part
in the life of the dreamer? Does the animal‟s name remind the dreamer of
something specific, for instance a term of endearment ( bunny or teddy bear)
or an insult (“you pig!”)? The dreamer might even be reminded of a person. As
always, his own ideas and connections are decisive for interpreting the dream.
Language is full of references to animals, such as “under dog”, “horsing
around”, or “playing cat and mouse”, and these associations help a lot and are
very important.
Dogs and wolves represent the male urges, not only in the sexual sense.
They symbolize the original strength and power of the conscious energy of
men. The wolf in most fairy tales is a big, bad wolf, frightening and ferocious.
He steals, threatens, kills and gobbles up his victim. In our culture we might
take this as a symbol for a sexually threatening father figure, such as in Little
Red Riding Hood or the tale of the “three little piggies.” However, positive
dreams about dogs are very frequent, and not surprisingly men dream them. I
have often been told about sleeping dogs or dogs waking up, generally
meaning that the grasping, instinctual energy of the male was sleeping and
wanted to wake up. The saying “let sleeping dogs lie” does not apply to
dreams, on the contrary, the dream is saying: wake your dog! Arouse your
maleness!
Women and girls are more likely to perceive a dog as rather menacing.
Nightmares about dogs or wolves often refer to real abuse or other problems
connected with the father or the male partner. If children are terrified of dogs,
there is often an aggressive or authoritarian father or other male figure in the
background who frightens the child. That fear is then projected on to the
symbol “dog”.
Cats symbolize female strength, power and energy. They represent the
original woman, the primordial energy of the female. If the dream is nasty or
frightening, this means that the dreamer has some kind of problem with
femininity. The problem may involve some female person or refer to the
dreamer‟s own femininity. A cat allergy symbolizes exactly the same thing in
affecting the body. The psychological cause of cat allergies always indicates a
problem with the female gender.
deep and original layer of cognition that needs to be dealt with carefully. The
conscious mind is right to be suspicious of the snake knowledge, because a
snake always implies an ambivalent, unitary, primeval knowledge that cannot
be decoded into a rational whole. In mythology, the snake is a cunning
creature possessing special knowledge, and the conscious mind lacks the
tools to oppose it.
A snake might also crop up in a dream about sex and be a penis symbol. This
aspect is inherent in the symbolic significance of the snake. In the Bible,
Adam and Eve only become aware of their nakedness and develop a feeling
of shame after the seduction by the snake.
Calling a person a snake implies something about temptation, cunning and
seduction. A snake lures us away from the confines of morality because the
snake itself operates and lives “beyond good and bad.” Being beyond
morality and yet having a hidden connection with morality must make the
conscious mind feel threatened.
The lion is regal and noble. People look upon him as the king of the jungle
and the desert.The lion represents strength, power, pride, courage, dignity
and freedom. At the same time, he is an expression of ferocity and
aggression: he bites and kills.Although lions belong to the family of great cats,
they symbolize the primordial energy of the male.
The horse, again, may portray a sexual urge and the word “riding” is
sometimes used to mean the sexual act. The horse symbolizes the need,
particularly of women, to give a positive aspect to their own sexuality.
Although it is a large animal, it prefers flight to fight and is sensitive and
refined. Young girls are often attracted horse riding and dealing with horses
helps the girls subconsciously to channel and defuse their awakening
sexuality. Both physically and in the dream world, the horse is able to channel
mainly female sexuality and thus to relieve the woman or girl. Male sexual
energy is not diverted, so teen age boys are not relieved by dealing with
horses. A horse allergy is an indication of a problem with one‟s own sexuality,
especially in the case of women.
them a message from the world of spirits. The eagle represents an overview,
transparency, clarity, wide open spaces and freedom, but at the same time, it
has connotations with being obstinate, grasping, decisive and, ultimately, with
killing.
The eagle is depicted in many flags and crests all over the world, representing
might, wisdom, nobility, majesty and great leadership.
Insects often relate to our nervous system. Even in our waking state,
mosquitos, flies and wasps get on our nerves. Dreams about insects may alert
us to an inner disquiet, negative machinations or a sense of being driven.
Such a dream may also challenge us to clear up whatever is presently getting
on our nerves or is biting us.
The rat represents repressed aspects of the primordial sphere that are
“rotting”. If rats appear in our dreams, there is some old rubbish lying within
our personality, a secret rubbish heap that is permeating into the dreamer‟s
conscious mind although the dreamer does not want to see it and has
suppressed it. The rat is often connected to some sexual phantasies which we
would call dirty in our waking life and regard as perverse or unnatural. The rat
calls for a value judgement, meaning that there are aspects of the primeval
sphere that the dreamer considers “dirty” or “filthy”. The same meaning may
be attributed to cockroaches and other vermin.
“Filthy dirty stuff” is attempting to surface from the primeval sphere into the
consciousness. Rats and cockroaches are regarded with the same
abhorrence in waking life. Here, there is no difference in interpretation. So, if
you have cockroaches or rats in your house, ask yourself the same questions
as in dream interpretation.
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Fruit have a sexual meaning as a rule. Nuts in particular symbolize the testes
and hence the male principle and its sexual associations. Apples and
oranges and all other fruit of a similar shape indicate female breasts and also
have a sexual meaning.Other fruit such as cucumbers, carrots, asparagus
and of course bananas, are penis symbols.
Strawberries and cherries generally also have a sexual meaning. Their red
colour stands for the alluring, fruity sensuality of the female. These fruits are
often used as adornments in paintings or other pictures representing female
sexuality.
Again, I must stress however, that the individual associations of the dreamer
must override any general interpretation.
Bread is a basic food and is associated with the “bread of life”. There are
many phrases involving bread, such as “bread and butter” meaning one‟s
livelihood or to “know which side one‟s bread is buttered”. Dreams about
bread throw up questions: whose bread am I eating? Do I feel replete? Am I
hungry? Is the bread good and fresh or is it a dried up piece?
5. Numbers
In dealing with dreams I always check the individual meaning of the number.
Some dream numbers refer to biographical details such as the number of
children or family members, birth or death dates, people‟s age or similar data.
One (1)
“One” symbolizes original unity and therefore God and divinity. It implies
uniqueness, the starting point, the origin and also completeness. But at the
same time, it represents the opposite, everything that is undeveloped, alone
or turned in upon itself. It combines the starting point with the end point, so
that it is both an expression for perfection as well as for the void or non-
existence. Quantitatively, it is the smallest number, hence almost negligible .
Qualitatively, it stands for the birth of all things, for plenitude and entirety. On
the human level, the number one stands for the rational consciousness of the
ego.
Two (2)
Two means duality. It represents separation, splitting, alienation and the
process of acquiring consciousness. The number one - the original unity- falls
into identical parts within it. Unity is hence transformed into duality -- .
RELATIONSHIP. Two elements are needed to make relationships not only
possible but necessary. The number two implies a split into one side and its
counterpart and ties them in a relationship (good - bad; bright - dark; hot -
cold; day - night; man - woman; Ying - Yang...). In this way it points to the first
elemental order. The two is the first even number. On the human level it
symbolises our earthly body as well as the relationship between you and me.
It separates us and pulls us together. A suckling baby still feels at one with his
mother while he has no distinct consciousness (language and thought
process) as yet. This elemental unity breaks down once the child becomes
contrary (the “difficult twos”!) The child finds himself distanced from his mother
by this conflict and must painfully realize that he and his mother are are not
one, but two distinct beings: I and you. The split between the two is a
necessary precondition for individuality and identity. Two different, individual
beings are required in order to relate to each other.
Three (3)
Three symbolises a dynamic, tense unity. It is the dynamic, creative principle.
In human life, the 2, representing relationships (man and woman), becomes a
3 ( the child and the start of a family). In this sense the number three is a
higher entity that has actually produced something new but it has also created
an area of conflict. This tension is innovative, but people should never live or
work in groups of three, because there will always be two against one. This is
not due to any animosity but to a basic dynamic of life and of the number
three. The Christian Church made God three in the Trinity ( Father, Son and
Holy Ghost) and ever since there have been endless theological arguments
over this question. The Church split apart in 1054 into the Western or Roman
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Four (4)
Four symbolises unity and completeness at the earthly human level. With its
double polarity (2 x 2), it establishes stability and completeness, it gives order
and achieves a kind of initial totality. Our lives are ruled by the inclusiveness
of the number four. Four points on the compass make up the globe; four
seasons form a year; four elements constitute the world (earth, water, fire,
air). The 4 introduces a new geometric dimension, the body. Prior to that
everything was only surface (3). Hence, 4 also represents the unity and
completeness of the bodily/earthly world. Whenever a 4 appears in our
dreams as a symbol, it always has a positive meaning, because it is whole
and complete. At the human level, it represents the soul.
Five (5)
The number five stands for sensuality: five fingers, five senses, five toes on
each foot. At the human level, the five also represents the ego and
encapsulates excessive sensuality which is lust. Sensuality, neediness, lust,
desire, acquisitiveness, egoism are all traits associated with the 5. It also
represents the “in”-dividual, in other words the indivisible part of us that
nevertheless consists of a multiplicity (3 and 2). It is uneven, unruly, unclear
and full of conflict. If a person dreams of the number five, he should ask
himself what his present true needs are, and what he is lacking most.
Six (6)
Six stands for union and life. The geometrical figure of the David star with its
overlapping triangles is symbolical for the 6. Its union with the dynamically
tense double three creates a new, stable harmony. It is the elemental image
of sexual energy (six and sex have the same linguistic root) Whereas the 3
tends to have negative or at least disputatious associations, the six is made
up of 3 times the 2 and is therefore generally structured positively. The 6 is an
expression of the vital force of life. While the sensuality of the 5 remains
enclosed in the ego, the 6 symbolises an opening into a sort of higher realm
and a stable harmony. The David star, the symbol of Judaism, shows us a
geometrical figure where there is union between heaven and earth, God (the
triangle pointing downwards) and man (the triangle pointing upwards). In
many cultures, the number six was accordingly regarded as the expression of
a higher order and harmony. Plato considered Eros to be the driving force that
gave philosophers their powers of insight. The 6 is vital, sensual and earthy
(sex), but at the same time it strives to reach higher things. It represents a
very elemental order of urges and of vitality, and thus also represents the
primeval sphere.
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Seven (7)
Seven represents secrecy and holy transcendence. It even surpasses the
higher structure of the 6. It is the primordial image of that which is
incomprehensible, it is the divine secret, which we as mortals will never be
able to perceive nor understand. The 7 is the number of spirituality, it evokes
the transition into other hidden worlds, dimensions and incomprehensible
realities. The 7 signifies incalculable, irrational, labyrinthine realms and hence
it is associated with holiness. It cannot be drawn geometrically. No image of
the God of Judaism is possible! He created the world in 7 days, so we still
have seven days in a week. If the 7 appears symbolically in a dream, it makes
us aware of the realms of spirituality and it connects us to other realities.
Eight (8)
Eight symbolises the height of perfection. While the 4 stood for unity and
perfection of the earthly world, the 8 (as a total of 2 x 4), represents unity and
perfection of not only the earthly world but also of the spiritual and divine
world. The 8 signifies the ultimate perfection and hence the divine
consciousness. It means clarity, transparency, purity; it symbolises the cosmic
dimension of God‟s plan. In mysticism, the step from 7 to 8 signifies man‟s
deliverance, his redemption and the end of his cycle of reincarnations, leading
therefore to the highest knowledge of the divine. Most Christian baptismal
fonts have eight sides and Buddhism teaches the eight paths to redemption.
The figure of eight turned on its side is the sign for infinity. At the level of our
human personality the 8 indicates the divine within us.
Nine (9)
Nine means something new (new and nine have the same linguistic root). It is
the new number “one” after the perfection of the 8. It symbolises the end of all
time (the eight lying on its side is infinity but it is still trapped in time and the
“eternal return of the same “). Nine also means the beginning of a totally
different reality beyond time and earthliness. Thus, the nine my be taken as
the symbol for eternity, as opposed to infinity of the number 8. The nine
combines ultimate completion with new beginnings, similarly to the 1 but at a
supreme level. After the 9, there are only composite numbers.
6. The elements
The four elements often play a part in dreams because they make up the
bodily world in which we live. I shall outline some very generalised meanings
of the elements, but as always in the interpretation of dreams, the individual
must take precedence over generality.
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Water
Water symbolises the realms of the primeval sphere. It indicates the power of
nature and of the unconscious. The greater the body of water, the stronger
and deeper the power of the primeval sphere. For humans, water is elemental
nature from which life has sprung. The human embryo is encircled and grows
in amniotic fluid. Water therefore symbolises the most powerful, ancient and
deep source of our being on earth. It is the deep primordial power of life. We
encounter this primordial power when we dream of large expanses of water
and we often feel ambivalent about this. It is both helpful and dangerous,
beautiful and menacing, life giving and life destroying.
Rivers
A river carries the water of life. If we dream about floating down a river or a
stream, we are flowing or streaming along, which is following our destiny. The
question is: Is the river trip agreeable or disagreeable, calm or stormy? Is it a
torrent with dangerous cataracts and whirlpools? If so, then we are having a
difficult phase in our life.
Folk tales and myths often use the image of a river and its ferryman to take
people from one bank to the other. Such images have a spiritual dimension. If
the river appears to be a frontier, a break or an obstacle that needs to be
overcome, it symbolises a significant change. Such dreams might be showing
us the way to a transition into another spiritual world. “Crossing the Jordan”
can be a circumlocution for dying. A dream about crossing a river can be
about one‟s own death or that of a friend or relative, or it might also be an
encounter with another spiritual dimension, such as a meeting with the
deceased or with spirits (33).
A stream appearing in a dream may also indicate a step from one stage in life
to the next, such as moving from childhood to adulthood. Dreams about rivers
are in my experience always very significant, like all dreams about water.
Earth
The earth does not have the elemental power and might of water. Dreams
about the earth are generally positive unless they are about being buried.
“Mother earth” carries and sustains us and hence is the essential maternal
principle. Sayings such as “down to earth” or “to earth” a cable or “earthiness”
imply something straightforward and safe. It is a tranquil element and he who
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Air
Air is both a spiritual element (spiritus in Latin = wind, breeze, breath) as well
as an important life symbol. God gave his creatures the breath of life in the
Bible. When breathing stops, a person used to be considered dead. The lungs
are the organ that symbolises our body‟s relationship to life. If the lungs are
attacked in a dream, it means that the dreamer has a problem at the moment
with accepting life and making himself comfortable in it. Dreams about air
itself, as an element, almost always have a spiritual character in my
experience. An air dream may however indicate problems, if we disappear
into thin air or “evaporate”. Such dreams may be expressing our wish to leave
this life and to take refuge in a spiritual world. Air dreams also comprise
dreams about flying, birds or other creatures of the air. If an adult dreams
about flying (not as a solution of a conflict but as an agreeable experience) I
believe he is having a spiritual dream that is putting him into his own spiritual
or astral body (see the comments on astral trips above).
Air is not however our natural space. Therefore a dream about air should
prompt the following questions: Is the dreamer possibly soaring too steeply up
into the air, influenced intellectually, spiritually or maybe through love? Or
does the dreamer need more space to breathe, more breadth and freedom?
(Incidentally, this is the psychological cause of asthma).
Fire
Dreaming about fire is often associated with negative images and sensations.
We are threatened if our house or other objects are on fire. Fire dreams
generally mean that something in us has caught fire. This element also
belongs to the spiritual world, which is why people often dream about the attic
catching fire (rationality, control, brain/head work...) This kind of dream would
indicate negativity or maybe even spiritual confusion. Fire is mostly also
connected to our mental centre. If fire threatens to engulf us, it means that
there is trouble at the subconscious level: beliefs, fears, confusing and
menacing thoughts assail us. These are our non- conscious thought
processes that cause a fire in our personality to break out.
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Fire can also be positive: we talk about being “fired up” if we become
enthusiastic about an idea, a thought or a project. Perhaps this kind of fire is
lacking in the dreamer. In interpreting a dream we should pay particular
attention to the mood of the dream as well as to the picture it describes. Does
the fire die down, does it burn us or warm us? Is it the tamed kind of fire in an
oven or fire place, or is it a flaming conflagration that engulfs us?
7. The house
Like a car or a ship, a house symbolises the totality of our personality. Having
several floors, it represents the multi-layered aspect of our personality very
well. The roof and loft represent the ego-conscious: reflection, thinking,
rational acts. The cellar symbolises our own primeval character and our
unconscious zone. In dreams about houses, it is interesting to establish who
the people are who inhabit them. Long forgotten people often suddenly
appear. It is also important to note whom the house belongs to, or whose
house appears in the dream. If it is not our own house, one might infer that we
do not live within ourselves. A dream often returns us to our parents‟ house,
showing us that our primeval character has not moved out from there or would
like to move back in. Another important clue is how the house is arranged or
furnished. Is it tidy, is it clearly laid out, is it full of rubbish, chaotic or dirty?
The house shows us what it looks like at present within ourselves. A dream
house often also gives us some indication of time via its owners or
inhabitants: our parents‟ house (=childhood or youth), our parents-in-laws‟
house, grandfather‟s house etc. This aspect is important because it may be
linked to the problem evoked by the dream.
8. People
People appear in most dreams. They are often long forgotten school friends,
old contacts or partners who play no part anymore in our conscious daily life.
Our primeval sphere has however stored them up and then uses them
according to the dream‟s message. I have therefore made it my rule always to
investigate these figures both as subjects and as objects. These figures are
almost never in the dream exclusively as themselves. Practically always
(except possibly in some spiritual dreams), these people are an expression of
one‟s own self. In relating the interpretation to the subject, we find a key to the
meaning of the figure, in other words, the figure shows us a side of ourselves
that we perceived particularly clearly in that other person. People then remind
us of a specific time, an attitude, an action etc.
long time back, or maybe brothers and sisters. Interpreting the dream at the
level of the subject is particularly indicated if the figures in the dream seem to
come from very far off, either time-wise or from the extreme outer circle of the
dreamer‟s acquaintanceships. Frequently, these people have not impinged on
the dreamer‟s waking life for an extremely long time. It is precisely because of
their remoteness and neutrality that the primeval sphere picks them out as
substitutes for our own selves. It is therefore not immediately obvious that the
figures are us. They generally symbolise a facet or a central core in our
personality. It is therefore extremely important to listen and concentrate hard
on this aspect when we try to understand a dream.
The interpretation revealed the following: The sauna is the place where the
dreamer likes to withdraw to be totally himself and at one with himself. The
ship in the dry dock is his personality. In recent years, he had been doing a lot
of work on himself and had renovated “the old ship” most beautifully. The
dreamer is catholic and leads a normal, conventional life. Gabriel is a friend
who is audacious, unconventional, he rides a motorbike, he loves adventure,
he is successful and gives everyone a good time. Gabriel is a substitute for
the dreamer and symbolises a part of him, that would like to be, and live, like
Gabriel. By working on his personality, the dreamer had been mobilizing his
own bolder traits. His own “wild man” is depicted in the dream by his friend
Gabriel. The wine bottle from Franconia points to his father who still lives
there. The dreamer is asking his father for his blessing for his newly worked
out personality. This is the meaning of the dream. The launching or baptism of
the ship is the blessing (baptism) by the father (wine from Franconia) for the
new, wild, bold ego (renovated ship/Gabriel). Gabriel is annoyed because the
dreamer fails. The ship (=new ego) leaves the dock without the father‟s
blessing. The monument of the Pope is again a catholic father figure, a
sovereign father and leader. Gabriel spurs the dreamer on to smash the bottle
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against the statue of the Pope, but the conventional side of the dreamer feels
that this would be sacrilegious.
Such figures occur mostly in great dreams. Supreme leaders are sent to us in
our dreams when great developments or upheavals need to be
accommodated, such as moving from youth to adulthood, preparing to
become a mother or father, undertaking life-long commitments, facing a mid-
life crisis, coming to terms with suffering, dying and ultimately death. Even
death, the Grim Reaper depicted with a scythe, is a supreme leader. An
encounter with one of these great spiritual leaders in a dream sometimes
brings about a real initiation or an opening up process. Their appearance
means that the dreamer is in contact with fate and the deepest dimensions of
life. Our highest self speaks to us through these supreme leaders. It points out
duties, challenges and necessities and at the same time, through these
figures, it gives us the strength and determination to face up to our
obligations. An encounter with supreme leaders in a dream is uplifting and
almost holy in terms of the mood of the dream.
authority are a kind of warning signal triggered by the primeval sphere. They
look after our safety, even in dreams. That is why it is rewarding to determine
what their message is.
A woman who had a strict moral upbringing as a good Christian and whose
mental centre was imbued with these tenets, suffered a series of dreams
about murder over a number of years. She had interiorized her father as a
judgmental and punishing force who threatened her in the night. Her desire
and her behaviour towards sex did not conform with the value judgment of her
father, so he appeared in the dreams as a “murderous” threat. Her
unconscious fear about her guilt and the consequent punishment created a
dream-murderer for her.
A murderer may also be an image for own‟s self and indicate that we are
killing something in us, possibly through ignorance or fear. A memory of an
earlier life may also be a possibility. If in an earlier life, a murder was
committed upon us, such dreams may occur. In this case, the dream would
normally be a recurring dream where the murder is repeated again and again.
Burglars may indicate that repressed thoughts, wishes and urges are
“breaking in”. They are shadowy figures evoking a side of us that we are not
aware of and eluding our consciousness. A burglar is a stranger, a negative
unknown presence, mostly in our own self. If, in addition, the burglar steals
something, this shows a fear of loss. Then it is important to determine what
exactly is stolen from the dreamer. Sometimes we may experience
unconsciously that other people are intruders, such as parents, partners or
even offspring. The house symbolises our entire personality. If an intruder is
trying to break in, we should first ask what part of our self has been shut out
and is now trying to re-enter the house in this dark and covert fashion. Or we
should ask who is close to us who might be “intruding” on our personality or
ego. This could be someone who exerts pressure on us or has, or is trying to
have, power over us.
I do not claim to the cover the subject entirely, but I would like to present a few
important aspects and meanings of colours. I am talking here about the
unconscious meaning of colours in the context of the primeval sphere.
Colours can have other meanings in other contexts, for instance spiritually.
Here, and everywhere in dream interpretation, the significance imputed to the
dream by the individual takes precedence over these generalities to which I
am limiting myself here. Symbols are the same in our waking life as in our
dreams so the following meanings also apply to our waking life.
Black
Black symbolises death, mourning and sadness. It also expresses our desire
to keep our distance. These feelings are closely linked. In the past people
wore black to show that they were in mourning, that they had lost a close
relative and needed time to grieve, and they also expected to be given space
to do so. Black is the dark side of spirituality. That is why we speak of “black
magic” when people deal with occult forces.The devil is often portrayed as
black and sooty.
Blue
Blue symbolises depth, distance and coolness. The endless sky is blue,
likewise the deep sea. Blue is thus a colour denoting that which is
fundamental and existential. It is the colour of mysticism, philosophy and
spirituality and of the deepest discoveries of the mind. It means insight,
perception of reality and in-depth knowledge. At the same time, blue is as cold
as the sky or the sea. The “coldness” of blue corresponds to the intellect.
Whenever blue appears in a dream this implies keen spiritual insight but not
warm feelings.
Green
Green is the colour of dominance, power and order. In dreams, green may
also mean that we fight change, we stubbornly refuse to compromise and are
self-opinionated. It stands for our need for rules, methodology, leadership and
assessment. Nature is green - it is the greatest power on earth that we can
experience. In many countries, the army is clad in green and so is the police
in Germany. When green appears in a dream, it may be a command to heed
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our inner order or it may point to our resistance to change, such as in the
example of the dreamer with his little green boat. (see under “ship”)
Wine red
Dark red colours symbolise our need for security in the widest sense.
Whenever this colour plays a role in dreams or in our waking life, it is a
question of safety. Older people have an increased need for security and it
transpires that an above average number of senior citizens drive dark red
cars. The down-side about this need for security is the concomitant fear of
change resulting in hanging on for far too long to old habits and life styles.
Many people become stuck in a rut and are sometimes also obdurate in the
pursuit of their security.
Purple
Purple is a step up from wine red and symbolises an increased need for
security. In a psychological interpretation, purple means an excessive and
often problematical need to be cosseted. It generally indicates strong
unconscious fears of loss. In spiritual dreams purple may also represent the
intellectual world.
Brown
Brown is the colour of earth and indicates our need to be rooted in the soil and
to have continuity in our existence. It stands for a kind of heaviness and
solidity. At the same time, it is a warm colour; it can express an aptitude to
persevere but also to stagnate. In our waking life too, brown points to a
connection with the element earth.
Yellow
All warm colours represent our wish for harmony in our relationships. Yellow
and all pastel shades are relationship colours. Human warmth, affection,
nearness, communication, sharing and exchanges are all expressed by
yellow. A warm yellow represents our wish to love and be loved, indeed, all
pastel hues mean this.
White
White is not actually a colour but it does often appear in dreams. It symbolises
purity, innocence and virginity. A “white lie” is an innocent lie. A bride wears
a white gown to show she is a virgin. (This was the original meaning, at least).
In a dream we should however also ask ourselves whether white is supposed
to dissimulate or white-wash something: a guilty secret, a blemish, some
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skeleton in the cupboard? Spiritually white also stands for a kind of rapture or
ecstasy. There is a white light which is not of this world. Sometimes, when
dead people appear, they are bathed in a white light or they wear white
clothes. This shows us that they come from another world. A white person in a
dream may also indicate neutrality. The neutrality of the colour creates a kind
of distance.
Apart from the different meanings of single body parts, the entire body, seen
from bottom to top, is a kind of time-track subdivided into 7-year rhythms.
The foot up to the ankle symbolises our first year in life, our arrival in the world
or in our family etc.
The legs from the foot to the knee represent the first 7 years of our life, with
the left side being our relationship with our mother and the right side with our
father.
The part from the knee to the hip and genitals represents the life span from
the age of 7 to 14. The rump denotes the age of fourteen onwards, when a
child becomes his own person. The genitals are here and they begin to play a
central part during puberty.
The body from the genitals to the neck symbolises the age from 14 to 21. We
“wander through” the trunk and torso in discovering our self and our
personality.
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The next phase between 35 and 42 is symbolised by the neck. We are now at
the apex of our life in terms of our strength, energy and enthusiasm for action.
This is a time to understand and recognize our own needs and demands and,
in particular, to express them and fulfill them.
The life span from 42 to 49 is symbolised in the body by the face from the chin
to the crown. It is a time of true self knowledge.
From the 49th year onwards the natural order of life starts with its spiritual
knowledge, which is symbolised by the crown of the head.
The knees symbolise our capacity to give in. Dreams about knees or knee
problems in our waking life show us that, at some point, we are stubborn and
refuse to give in. The ego shows its reaction in the knees. Unconscious
feelings of being humiliated by others manifest themselves in the knees. We
speak about “bringing someone to his knees”, meaning to vanquish him. “On
your knees!” commands a gesture of humiliation.
The thighs represent the period from 7 to 14 years of age, the left side being
our relationship with our mother, the right with our father.
The kidneys symbolise relationships, with the two kidneys facing each other
as you and I. A dream about a diseased kidney indicates that we feel hurt,
neglected and unloved in a very close relationship (partner, parents, children).
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The liver and gall bladder represent suppressed aggression, fury and
annoyance. “The gall of bitterness” means the bitterest grief or extreme
affliction. To feel “liverish” means to feel peevish or glum.
The heart is our emotional centre. It refers to the totality of our emotions and
especially to love and joy.
The lungs represent the actual principle of life: giving and taking. You live as
long as you breathe. A lung disease in a dream or in our waking life indicates
a problem with living. When the lungs are damaged, our vital nerves are under
attack. We often do not want to continue to be here and subconsciously
entertain ideas of dying.
The throat symbolises our ability to express our own needs and especially to
define what troubles us and what our aims are. “To have words stuck in one‟s
throat” or “to have a lump in one‟s throat” is to be unable to utter them
because of reluctance, nervousness or emotion. When the throat falls ill, it
means that we cannot express what bothers us, and that we have to swallow
our aggression and emotions.
The eyes stand for everything that we see and that we do not wish to see.
Our left eye looks at our emotional state while the right eye perceives our
rational and conscious decisions.
The teeth stand for resolutions. If we have problems with our teeth in a dream
or in our waking life, it means that we are troubled subconsciously by an
imminent problem needing a resolution.
Ears mean hearing. Our ears become unwell if we do not want to hear
something. This can come from outside, such as information from other
people (inflammation of the middle ear, deafness) or from inside, from our
own inner voice (tinnitus).
In conclusion
Dear reader
You have now taken on board a lot of information about the knowledge of
dreams
Some of it is doubtless new to you, and you probably found some of it
incredible or strange.
If you get involved with your dreams, you will enlarge your view of the world.
You will open a door to other dimensions. If you continue to work on your
dreams, you might soon be able to write your own book filled with your many
varying dreams.
The aim of this book is to encourage you to have faith in your own dreams. A
first reading may overwhelm you, and you may think it is too much for you to
cope with the complexity of your dreams. Remember the phrase: ”practice
makes perfect”! I would therefore like to ask you to keep practising with
confidence. Always remember that your dream is there for you, it is speaking
very personally and individually to you. You are capable of hearing its
message, to interpret it and to integrate it into your life as a gift of great
richness. I believe you can do it.
My wish to you now, is that your dreams are a helpful and good companion
through your life, because dream interpretation is self-knowledge and hence
an aid in life.
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Footnotes
22. C. G. Jung Psychological Types. 647 f
23. Der Mensch und seine Symbole 56
24. Op. cit. 32
25. Op. cit. 29
26. Op. cit. 53
27. I would like to point to our age-old knowledge and quote the words of
Jesus of Nazareth: “He who wishes to preserve his life shall lose it but he
who loses his life for me shall find it.” Luke 16, 25. Or ... “a grain of wheat
remains a solitary grain unless it falls into the ground and dies; but if it dies
it bears a rich harvest.”
John 12, 24
28. R.A. Moody: Leben vor dem Leben 1999 (Life before living)
29 Martin Heidegger: Sein und Zeit ( Being and Time) 1927
30. See also the books by Louise L. Hay and Ruediger Dahlke
31. So god created man in his own image, in the image of God created he
him male and female created he them. Genesis 2. 27
32. The Indian book on the interpretation of dreams, - Sun Bear - see
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33 See examples under item 8.1.1
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