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The superiority of men over women came from one’s culture based on the
environment of human’s survival. In the early age of humankind, humans lived in the nature
without technology and tools to protect themselves from danger. As a consequence, men
became the leaders of their families and clans while women were mothers and family
supporters. This led a society to form the culture based on the belief that men were better
than women in any ways because men were able to provide food and protection for women
and children. They create cultural activities which mostly involve in the role of a man to
show his strength and power. Women are misconstrued as a weak and powerless gender. As a
result, the culture in which men rule over women has led to the sexism and mistreatment. In
Things Fall Apart, it can be seen that a culture has created the unchanged superiority of men
over women.
The existence of gender role affects the culture and the expectation in human society
husband or man who leads and makes a living for his family while a woman is expected to be
only a supporter for her husband. This can be seen from the speech given by a famous female
Nigerian novelist named Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie in Ted Talk. She says “We teach them
to mask their true selves, because they have to be, in Nigerian speak, ‘hard man!’ In
secondary school, a boy and a girl, both of them teenagers, both of them with the same
amount of pocket money, would go out and then the boy would be expected always to pay, to
prove his masculinity.” This is to show the prime example of gender role in the modern world
where men must prove his strength and masculinity through actions. They are considered and
expected to be breadwinners since the culture makes men more superior than women. In
Things Fall Apart, it reads “And what made it worse in Okonkwo’s case was that he had to
support his mother and two sisters from his meagre harvest. And supporting his mother also
meant supporting his father. She could not expect to cook and eat while her husband starved.”
(p.22). This implies that Okonkwo whose father has recently died has to take the
responsibility of making a living for his father’s family. In other words, the society expects
and forces Okonkwo to be the breadwinner for the family whose members are all female
except him. The society believes that women cannot live without a man’s leadership and help
and so, the society forces a woman to feed her husband first before she can have her meal
Additionally, the discrimination between men and women is highly influenced by the
culture. The treatment of the society towards a man with and without title is somewhat
positive while the treatment towards a woman is highly negative. While a man is greatly
treated and respected by the society, a woman is raised to be only a mother. In Things Fall
Apart, it reads “It was clear from the way the crowd stood or sat that the ceremony was for
men. There were many women, but they looked on from the fringe like outsiders” (p. 87).
This implies that women have no right to take part in most of the clan’s activities because of
their female gender. Unlike men who still can climb the social rank by earning a title, women
are forbidden to participate any of the clan’s rituals and to be better than a housewife. Even
though some of them are allowed to be involved in a ritual, they still are not told to know the
secret of the clan except titled men. Because these women live in a society where men create
rules and culture to dominate women, they are not given any opportunities to prove
themselves to be equal and worthy to men. If they cannot meet and go beyond the expectation
of the society influenced by the culture where men rule over women, it deems and treats her
as failure, disgrace and a worthless woman. In addition, Chinua Achebe says “His mother and
sisters worked hard enough, but they grew women’s crops, like coco-yams, beans and
cassava. Yam, the king of crops, was a man’s crop.” (page 22). This is to state that women
are not allowed to grow yams also known as a man’s crop and are only allowed to grow
“easy to take care crops” or women’s crops. In the culture of Igbo, yams are staple diet and
are often used in a celebration, festival and ceremony. This has pointed out that women are
inferior to men since they cannot play a major role in order to support a family.
In conclusion, culture creates the inferiority of women and the dominance of men.
Humans create the culture that allows men to be at the top of the social rank whereas women
are left fractured because men are generally considered to be stronger and wiser than women
and to be strong enough to protect women from harm. The culture creates the role of a gender
that forces a person reach the goal that the society draws for them. A man is expected to be
the breadwinner of his family while a woman is expected to be only a wife. The people in the
society also take side with the superior male gender and believe that some untitled men are
allowed take part in an activity but women are forbidden to know and participate in the
activity. Women are left unattended from the mistreatment of the abusive men and they are
discriminated by the role of female gender. It can still be seen that the belief that men are far
more superior than women negatively affects most of the societies influenced by the culture
of “men”. As a matter of fact, women have the right and freedom to be better than
housewives and should not be thought as weak and powerless since humans now live in the
References
Achebe, C. (2017) Things Fall Apart. New York, New York: Penguin Books
Adichie, C. N. [Tedx Talks] (2013, April 12) We should all be feminists | Chimamanda